A Brand New Start!
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4 жыл бұрынHello 2020! The start of a new year and a new decade! Pretty exciting.
In this video I share a bit of a more personal subject and update on what's been going on. I'm ready to leave 2019 behind and I'm really excited to see what this year has to bring. I also aim to upload more frequently again.
Thanks all for a fantastic 4 years on KZfaq, thanks for all the support and hope you continue to enjoy my videos in the future.
Do you have any plans for 2020? or anything you would like to do?
Let me know in the comments below :)
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@mr.g161 4 жыл бұрын
acceptance is the first step to recovery. congrats on you for making that change.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou :)
@a.speers1365 4 жыл бұрын
Nice to know you are feeling better about yourself. It is the old saying 'a problem shared is a problem halved' and it does work as you know. We often think that anxiety is something we should deal with ourselves but I know from experience that asking for help is not a bad thing. Let's see what 2020 has to offer lol.
@Ravan_Caw 4 жыл бұрын
Nice one 👍🏻
@kevinmobile 4 жыл бұрын
I've followed both you and Spicy's obvious passion about motorcycling and the two of you have kept my enthusiasm up for taking the A licence which so needed focus and determination in a world not always keen on two wheels. Thanks for keeping faith with us and sharing your thoughts and feelings, it has kept us surely all going on an amazing journey. Fun fact: Matter can't be created or destroyed (Law of Conservation of Mass, discovered by Antoine Lavoisier in 1785). So... a molecule in our eyes could well have been a molecule in the toe of a dinosaur in the past!
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
I like that fun fact!!! And Thankyou 😊 also I'm glad to hear that! Awesome!
@MalContent 4 жыл бұрын
The ultimate therapy is to ride more! Happy New Year.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!! 😁 Happy new year to you too
@Teesixhundred 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you're feeling so much more positive and overall happier within yourself Reeno, everyone deserves some happiness in their life. Hope 2020 goes really well for both you and Spicy! XXX
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou!
@paulbudford 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you Reno. The first step is admitting there is something wrong.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Definetly and even beleiveing it!
@HippoDrones 4 жыл бұрын
Mental well being really does need addressing, so it is great that you have spoken to your GP. We are all I imagine guilty of brushing things under the carpet and trying to muddle on. Awesome that Spicy can relate and help you through it too. 2020 will soon be lighter, warmer and far more enjoyable than the current grey and dark and wet and dreary yuk it is currently. Hopefully that will also help with your mental happiness too! :-)
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
It will definetly help and Thankyou :)
@tonyjackman6699 4 жыл бұрын
I lost my job after being there for 24 years due to depression and anxiety. I'm so glad that your employer was good with you.
@ReevyMotovlogs 4 жыл бұрын
Yup same reason I lost my old job but to be fair, they didn't really help with it, if anything they made it 10x worse.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
They weren't to start with, I was under a review and risked loosing my job hense why I was about to leave and every role that popped up I couldn't apply for because I was under a review. My managers and colleagues where brilliant trying to help and calm me, it was just the job itself and the business not helping. I'm just so glad another role became available and HR and my managers put my name forward for it for me to be moved into. now I feel alot calmer and I'm not under the same amount of stresses and they are now helping :) I wish that I had been more open about it before but then I obviously just wasn't ready at that time Yeah it is tough but companies these days are more aware to mental health than they where years ago so hopefully you don't have the same thing happen again. Hope you're doing well in whatever you're doing now :)
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
@@ReevyMotovlogs yeah it puts you under more pressure which doesn't help!
@tonyjackman6699 4 жыл бұрын
@@Reenomeano I was in education, not a good look if you're breaking down in front of students. I'm unemployed now and finding it difficult to find work. I'm 57 and have mental health issues so who would risk employing me now? I'm lucky I have a small pension.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
@@tonyjackman6699 yeah they probably won't understand then but I'm sure they will understand when they're older or in a similar position. Tbf businesses are alot more accepting of mental health issues so it is possible to work somewhere and be accepted, you'll just need to find something that will be a good fit for you :) and yes it is good to have something as a back up
@thepangolinforge 4 жыл бұрын
i have depression and anxiety, and mixing that with my very short, very flammable fuse, it results in me getting frustrated, angry and lash out at people, and it even went as far as punching walls. and lately its been getting worse, and i'm trying to; wait no, not trying, i'm working on it. because i ended up hurting one of my best friends. and i want to make things right. anyways.... enough of that sad stuff! i really wish you and Mr. spice a very happy 2020! i wish you two all the happy and good in the world!!!
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou and also yes positive words will work! And keep working on it, take it step my step and I'm sure you will improve :)
@thepangolinforge 4 жыл бұрын
@@Reenomeano thank you reeno for support!
@altypeRR 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you are starting to feel better. The counselling is worth while as it might not feel like you need it now but there will be bad days as well as good and that’s when the counselling really helps.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Yes that is very true
@RevBombUK 4 жыл бұрын
Good to see you back, Sending safe riding wishes to you and spicy.
@mikegregory3293 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Reeno, have you tried hypnotherapy? I recently got a promotion where I have to deal with meetings, organising things, lots of people, phone calls etc. All the things that set off my anxiety. I had a course of hypnotherapy and I'm amazed at the difference! no sweating, not heart racing, no hiding away lol. I'm a different person. Whatever helps you, good luck because anxiety is very internal and personal, and very difficult for non-sufferers to understand.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
No. But I do listen to a sleep hypno thing. Someone will talk you to sleep, talk about things and calm music plays. Really relaxes me and sends me to sleep if my mind is going a bid crazy haha :)
@maycrotch8576 4 жыл бұрын
That's Fantastic Reeno. I've struggled with social anxiety since my early teens and have had cbt which helped me manage it better. I'm really happy that things have improved since you took that initial step. 2020, I hope will be a very positive year for you and spicy is brilliant, he could almost be a therapist himself. Enjoying the videos as always and remember Reeno, you're an awesome lady. 🤗
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou 😊 and yes we'll see what happens with the CBT, spicy pretty much does that with me anyway haha hope 2020 is a good year for you too!
@spondig_d 4 жыл бұрын
So glad you're feeling better. All the best for 2020
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou same to you! 😊
@fatfoodisbad 4 жыл бұрын
Good to hear u are doing better happy new year
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou :) happy new year to you too 😊
@3oldsuzys999 4 жыл бұрын
Happy New yeàr to you n spicy. Well done for getting some help that first step can be so hard.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou happy new year
@ReevyMotovlogs 4 жыл бұрын
Wont go into detail since it's quite a lot to talk about but I was in foster care for 6 years, it felt like my childhood was just taken away from me and it was the worst time of my life, luckily I've been back with my real family for a few years now. I was suppose to speak to a therapist when they called me but didn't know how to explain my thoughts and feelings so I ignored their call, went to see a doctor and I didn't really explain everything so they couldn't really help much and just gave me advice on how to deal with it. Trouble is I can be super happy one minute then the next I feel a lot of negative thoughts and feelings just out of nowhere. Even when I'm shopping my heart will just start racing sometimes, I hate that feeling but I guess I'll go get it sorted out eventually.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe the time wasn't right for you then. I realised that the time wasn't right for me but eventually it became right and I felt comfortable getting help. Sometimes you just need to push yourself out of your comfort zone a bit. Might help speaking to the doctors and saying that your moods are all over the place. And also practice more positive thoughts because you will actually start to beleive it after a while :) Good luck for 2020 hope things go well for you :) 😊
@ReevyMotovlogs 4 жыл бұрын
@@Reenomeano Thank you Reeno 😊
@BoDean52 4 жыл бұрын
First time to channel, amazing views and topic. Good luck to you and ride safe
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou :) glad you enjoyed and welcome :)
@RidingTheAlps15 4 жыл бұрын
Best wishes for you in 2020 👋👋👍
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou and you :) 😊
@kjsbadfkjlasbdg 4 жыл бұрын
I did the exact same this time last year. Got signed off from work with constant nausea and feelings of impending doom. I went for private therapy due to waiting times but I glad I did. Put me on a great path for 2019. Glad you did it!
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome thats great to hear! Good luck! :)
@estherross4808 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being so honest! So many of us have struggled similarly. I had a mental breakdown in my job and had to quit. Twenty-nineteen was the year I spent in recovery, and was undoubtedly the worst year of my life. Towards the end though I took up deliveroo (on my motorbike) and which - while still stressful - is a kind of stress I can manage. Being an over-sensitive-empath also, I find dealing with hot food much easier than colleagues whose toes you are scared to step on. Plus I get to ride my bike for my job! The anxiety hasn't gone away, and I try and ignore it like you, but it doesn't work. I'm hoping time and learning to 'tune in' will heal it eventually. Glad you touched on this subject again. Please keep on being fully you!
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Aww Thankyou 😊 and yes I am doing a job that has plenty to do but with a different type of business that I enjoy rather than stress and worry about. And yes in time things do improve you just have to keep working on it :)
@Boodieman72 4 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you back Reeno. Maybe you are allergic to work? LOL
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Haha 😂 nah it just got a not too much for me, I was under ALOT of stress and Thankyou :)
@paulstiffler3203 4 жыл бұрын
I never make resolutions period. I never make changes based on a day or specific date. Change is about me, my finances and my emotional state. I can make a change on a whim or plan it out which of course then usually doesn't go as planned LOL. Reno your great wishing you all the best in the new year. Not sure how long I've been a subscriber but it's been a while. Your doing great. Keep it up. Love ya.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou glad you're still enjoying the videos and yes I do feel that is a good way to do things :)
@maxmessenger175 4 жыл бұрын
Dont really make new years resolutions. But I've started Slimming Word. I've just got back from my first weigh in and I have lost 5Lb in six days so well chuffed with that
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome well done :) 👍
@charlievoneinzbern6548 4 жыл бұрын
My new years resolution is to bite the bullet and do my CBT despite my mute disorder and anxiety. PLS DONATE CONFIDENCE AND SKILLS!
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
You'll love it and you'll feel super proud of yourself that you actually got the courage to do it! Trust me I used to be very nervous going to ports down hill ( a local bike meeting place) and one day I pushed myself to go on my own and that's when I met spicy! 😁
@AKAMustang 4 жыл бұрын
Think I prefer yearly goals to resolutions as well, although, more often than not my goals are "finish unfinished projects from last year". What industry/sector do you work in? Also wondering if your anxiety is related to customer/client facing activities, I know that's something a lot of people aren't fond of. Any thoughts on doing some ReenoJP stuff this year?
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Haha same! And yeah all I can say is it is customer service based. I don't mind it but I had certain things that the company wanted me to do in a certain amount of time that seemed almost impossible for me. Now I'm doing a similar thing but without the seeming impossible goals And yes I would love to do more but I just find it hard to find the time for it. They take more planning as I have to think about what I wanna say and kinda wrote a script coz I'm not good off the top of my head haha. Hopefully I can do more reeno JP stuff this year
@AKAMustang 4 жыл бұрын
Ah yea, unrealistic deadlines are the worst, at my place I'll sometimes be asked how long I think a project will take, I give them a timeline, and they say "urr, we need it in half that time", well you should have told me twice as long ago then. Then it turns out the manager has known about it for weeks, but didn't think to mention it because they thought it would just be a quick thing.
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
@@AKAMustang ugh that's annoying!
@Joe-zw9ep 4 жыл бұрын
Same.
@gremlin2288 4 жыл бұрын
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@mrkiwijimmymrkiwijimmy2530 4 жыл бұрын
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@buddysinsight9834 4 жыл бұрын
It's mainly genetics but our upbringing fuels it. I have suffered with anxiety all of my life. Are you a Empath like me?
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Yes I am a major empath so I am very emotional and sentitive to that stuff and also feels like I take on other people emotions. It is good because I know I'm caring and can put myself in someone else's shoes but it can be draining sometimes. And yes after I left home I realised that my mum has a lot of traits I have now but hers are more heightened. I also grew up in a strict environment that I beleive was normality but after growing up realised it was quite restrictive so I understand that alot of it may be learned from my childhood and also partly genetic I guess
@buddysinsight9834 4 жыл бұрын
@@Reenomeano I grew up in a very strict environment to. Learning more about Empaths has helped me so much it's seen as a true gift because we understand and listen. Good luck and keep fighting
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
@@buddysinsight9834 Thankyou :)
@GeorgiaGrowGuy 4 жыл бұрын
Try Lions Mane mushroom (the actual fruit or in a powder form). They are a natural anti-depressant and anti-anxiety supplement that has a ton of other beneficial properties. Cheers!
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
As long as they're not magic mushrooms 😂
@GeorgiaGrowGuy 4 жыл бұрын
@@Reenomeano No they are not, they are regular mushrooms just with a lot of health properties. You have to go to the shady part of town for the magic ones and that I cannot help you with. LOL
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorgiaGrowGuy hahaha 😂 😂 don't worry I don't want any of those lol! And ill have a look into it, I don't really like mushrooms tbf so not sure I'll like it but I do like the idea of natural remedies
@laurenh1707 4 жыл бұрын
Didn’t know u could get medication for anxiety might need to look into that nice vid 👌
@Reenomeano 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it can have some side affects but I've not experianced those at the moment. Worth asking your GP about if you find your anxiety unmanageable