A CANDID CONVERSATION WITH STEPHAN SPEAKS: WHY IS HE SINGLE?

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TIME STAMPS
0:00 INTRO
08:30 WHAT HAPPENED TO STEPHAN'S 1ST MARRIAGE
10:51 WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE?
17:48 HAVE YOU EVER DATED A SUBSCRIBER?
29:07 THERE ARE BAD MEN ANDDD BAD WOMEN
31:25 DOES STEPHAN PANDER TO WOMEN?
36:25 WE ARE FRUSTRATED BECAUSE MEN AREN'T DOING THE WORK
46:26 WHAT MANY WOMEN DON'T WANT TO HEAR
55:50 WHY WOMEN LET THEMSELVES GO WHEN THEY GET A MAN
1:03:24 FIND A PERSON THAT ALIGNS WITH YOUR VISION OF LIFE
1:09:34 THE INTERNET RUINS RELATIONSHIP EXPECTATIONS
1:12:25 DATINGS APP - HOW TO WIN
1:21:27 YOU CAN'T GIVE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE YOU'RE SINGLE STEPHAN
1:40:50 THE TRUTH ABOUT EQUALITY AND SUBMISSION
1:52:11 MESSAGE TO THE SCEPTICS
1:57:02 HOW TO MOVE ON FROM A MAN WHO DOESN'T LOVE YOU
2:04:37 DOES STEPHAN GET LONELY?
2:11:27 OUTRO
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@BreenyLee 2 жыл бұрын

*TIME STAMPS* DON'T FORGET TO HIT THE LIKE BUTTON* 0:00 INTRO 08:30 WHAT HAPPENED TO STEPHAN'S 1ST MARRIAGE 10:51 WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE? 17:48 HAVE YOU EVER DATED A SUBSCRIBER? 29:07 THERE ARE BAD MEN ANDDD BAD WOMEN 31:25 DOES STEPHAN PANDER TO WOMEN? 36:25 WE ARE FRUSTRATED BECAUSE MEN AREN'T DOING THE WORK 46:26 WHAT MANY WOMEN DON'T WANT TO HEAR 55:50 WHY WOMEN LET THEMSELVES GO WHEN THEY GET A MAN 1:03:24 FIND A PERSON THAT ALIGNS WITH YOUR VISION OF LIFE 1:09:34 THE INTERNET RUINS RELATIONSHIP EXPECTATIONS 1:12:25 DATINGS APP - HOW TO WIN 1:21:27 YOU CAN'T GIVE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE YOU'RE SINGLE STEPHAN 1:40:50 THE TRUTH ABOUT EQUALITY AND SUBMISSION 1:52:11 MESSAGE TO THE SCEPTICS 1:57:02 HOW TO MOVE ON FROM A MAN WHO DOESN'T LOVE YOU 2:04:37 DOES STEPHAN GET LONELY? 2:11:27 OUTRO

@jahzyjase 2 жыл бұрын

Love love it!!!!!👌🏽🤌🏼👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽💞

@nakeishahenry9261 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome interview. I feel Stephan is still single because he's been scarred by his client's experiences. Hahhaaa.

@QueenOyinkan 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Breeny You can also paste these time stamps in the description & it'll automatically place time stamps in the vid

@SummerTyme2023 2 жыл бұрын

So many Gems in this video...will re visit again in a couple of weeks

@atlantasfaithsmom 2 жыл бұрын

I'VE BEEN FOLLOWING STEPHAN FOR NEARLY 3 YEARS! I NEVER KNEW HE WAS MARRIED!!!!

@sheysounds9398 2 жыл бұрын

I know it’s coming from a nice thought but we need to stop blurring the lines of professionalism and romanticism among the opposite sex. Just because Breeny and Stephan are single and held a decent conversation doesn’t mean they’re meant to be. It can just mean they have good chemistry as fellow KZfaqrs and nothing else. We need to normalize men and women working together without making it into a ‘thing’. It’s weird. (This is based on comments made earlier)

@Infintekweyol 2 жыл бұрын

Finally someone said it!!!! 🔥

@aperson7210 2 жыл бұрын

this comment is so funny to me because 2 seconds before i read i thought "imagine if they got together tho", but what you said it's true.

@BlessedDivine77 2 жыл бұрын

Very True🎯

@smilechynwa 2 жыл бұрын

Thank God someone said this! This is so necessary!

@BlessedDivine77 2 жыл бұрын

Infact its disrespecting her craft and perpetuates the notion that women cant be proffesional or leaders around men. Were women we accomplish bigger things stop romanticizing or bluntly sexualizing a beautiful strong woman trying to do her job. Blessed*

@MaishPosh 2 жыл бұрын

I had some guys criticize my nails & outfits 🙄 the first thing they say is how much that cost? Like sir just say it’s nice and move on I don’t need to know how broke you are … how are they intimidated by something I PAID FOR 😅 they want to make us feel bad for something they can’t afford. it’s a pitiful way to get us to lower our standards of self care

@Missliaz 2 жыл бұрын

I got the same thing happen to me super annoyed they also mention how extravagant I am and how much I would drain them financially but I’m not the type that ever asks them for anything I’m self sufficient which bugs many guys it’s the insecure ones

@sandycheeks3473 2 жыл бұрын

@@Missliaz Yesss some guys really hate when you are self sufficient. I remember I was dating this guy and my dining room table broke and I was like I have to get another one. He offered to buy me one and when I told him “No” he was so angry I mean he went off!! Started screaming “You act like you don’t need anyone for anything” and I was like “I don’t” Lol. Then I realized he was only offering to buy it so he can get a seat at the table if you know what I mean😏

@Missliaz 2 жыл бұрын

@@sandycheeks3473 ye I had the same thing the guy gave me an expensive gift I didn’t know him that well so I said I can’t take it sorry I was at his place he snapped pushed me chased me to the front door he had workmen at his house he started yelling at me in front of them embarrassing me I quickly drove off I was so scared 😳 I’m glad I never took nothing from him he was so petty I’m glad I ran off he even went outside shouting and calling me all kinds of names for what?. Just for saying no to his gift 😂

@missfefeloves 2 жыл бұрын

Wow🙁 we need to spot these insecure clo₩ns and stay away fast

@MaishPosh 2 жыл бұрын

@@Missliaz yea it’s so weird because he says “I couldn’t be with you” 😅 and i never asked to be your girl cheap is not my type .. I like a guy who says I want to pay for the next one thank you & then he goes well good luck to him … he don’t need your luck he got it and then some 😅😅

@moderndiva 2 жыл бұрын

I CLICKED IMMEDIATELY the collaboration I didn’t know I needed

@fatima_tiffany__ 2 жыл бұрын

Right? I got so excited as soon as I saw the thumbnail

@tiffanybrown7414 2 жыл бұрын

@@fatima_tiffany__ me too!! I’m so excited to watch!! 🤗

@ziporahk6226 2 жыл бұрын

No literally

@moderndiva 2 жыл бұрын

@@fatima_tiffany__ and the fact that it’s 2 hours 🙌🏾a plus

@AroundTheWayGirl88 2 жыл бұрын

FACTS!

@Theirishrose 2 жыл бұрын

Ladies, the book he’s talking about at 50:17 is called, “why men marry some women and not others”. I read it as a teenager and used it to get married. It’s brilliant, it naturally embodies the masculine (author) and the feminine (women interviewed). Update: Wow thank for all the likes. Still happily married after 9 years, two kids and everything life throws at you. Highly recommend the book to identify men not aligned to the life you want.

@Tmichellefit 2 жыл бұрын

@Meow Mix what’s sad about what she said

@Strongpoeticmind 2 жыл бұрын

“Men marry women hoping they won't change, so we must stay in shape even after having kids.”

@lthompson601 2 жыл бұрын

@@Strongpoeticmind I've heard that from a lot of men. They don't want us to be skinny, just weight conscious.

@Strongpoeticmind 2 жыл бұрын

@@lthompson601 I don't mind being just weight conscious but men seem to straight lose interest when our bodies (especially after having children) doesn't look the same anymore.

@sheysounds9398 2 жыл бұрын

Stephan is saying nothing but a word. Being spiritually unyoked to someone is a big deal. That imbalance can mess someone’s life up. I appreciate that he is owning and embracing his singleness. Please instruct your brothers. They messed up.

@eisraa.8105 2 жыл бұрын

Breeny’s videos played a major role in my self healing. Stephan relationship advice helped me dodge many bullets. This collab is EVERYTHING ☺️ and breeny is asking all the right questions 😉

@BreenyLee 2 жыл бұрын

💋💋💋

@l.k.1111 2 жыл бұрын

Facts.

@user-ce9qs9ki9i Жыл бұрын

First time I watch one pf her videos, I don't know if she is a professionnal journalist or not, but I guess she is because of how well formulated her questions were. She hits it spot on, nothing superficial, questions I was asking myself I heard came out of her during the conversation. Salute, it's been a pleasure :)

@virtuouzgirl8328 2 жыл бұрын

Love the conversation. It's important to have discernment. I do think it's hard for black women specifically to walk in feminine energy, I do like dressing well etc. but I notice that we often have to come with different energy to be respected in the workplace, to not be approached inappropriately etc. So it's hard to distinguish where we can freely be feminine. Cause we're often fighting to be respected.

@alexandriaknights3614 2 жыл бұрын

Especially dark skin women 🥺

@aichetouornella7578 2 жыл бұрын

I'm currently living a current situation, where I'm all discovering my feminine side and energy and not being able to Express it and here's where it becomes challenging, here's where discernment comes in handy🧡

@Joy_LaFaye 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@danilaroche1156 2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you brought this up. I'm very feminine but my mom is West Indian & most of the women in her country are VERY feminine, charming ,yet strong. I feel black women in the states are too masculine in their tone/ behavior & when you kindly point it out..they take offense.

@danilaroche1156 2 жыл бұрын

@@aichetouornella7578 Ask the Lord to show you how to be feminine. He will! Once I made an effort to be more feminine, ladylike, honorable AND fun..I got 5 marriage proposals!

@myng2802 2 жыл бұрын

I let myself go in my relationship bc I was stressed in that relationship - literally it messed up my hormones 💀 Ladies, be careful. Don’t let that man stress you THAT bad.

@chrtyhwrd Жыл бұрын

Damn, too late for me. I'm stuck and don't know what to do

@krystaltravis-johnson5287 Жыл бұрын

It’s not too late for you! Take control of your own life. You can’t blame anyone for your choices in your life. Love yourself, you owe that to YOU❤️

@derringerlong3575 10 ай бұрын

Ya'll, that works both ways on the stress deal for men just like women

@carameldarling2980 2 жыл бұрын

"You can get involved with someone who is spiritually completely out of whack". 10 minutes in and he hit the nail right on the head with my current situation. I'm in love with someone who is spiritually out of whackl, but I fell in love with who he is. I consider him my best friend because that's how we are; we have a deep connection beyond physical attraction. We're both the first people either of us have ever been in love with so the bond is strong. But he's not right for me and I have to let him go. It's really painful but I need to heed to God's voice because he warned me in a dream of the consequence of continuing this with him.

@aichetouornella7578 2 жыл бұрын

Oh God, I Pray may the Lord give you strength, it Shall be well Sis🧡

@danilaroche1156 2 жыл бұрын

Listen to God. God warned me in a dream not to date my ex-husband. We had a 'connection '. I thought it was love. I was almost killed. Yes, my ex tried to kill me. Obey God. I pray He brings you your kingdom spouse soon.

@godsanointed2341 2 жыл бұрын

Run !!!!

@jadesulton8700 2 жыл бұрын

Same here

@craftsentic1899 2 жыл бұрын

This was my previous relationship!! We had such a great connection, but I found myself leading him spiritually!! Smh

@NalaMahal 2 жыл бұрын

I loved when he said “you can be an amazing woman but may not be the one for him…” In different words I had to drill this into my friends head because she self-deprecates when a couple of dates doesn’t materialize into a relationship.

@danilaroche1156 2 жыл бұрын

She needs to marry the Lord. Oftentimes God will delay marriage because we idolize marriage or we don't value ourselves or God's not number one. Tell her to focus on her relationship with Christ first & foremost. She needs to chill...

@ashielarry 2 жыл бұрын

It's just the fact that your friends are realizing that being born a woman isn't special. We all have to put in work to get the outcomes we desire. If your friends are not getting what they desire, it is because they don't deserve it.

@jesterbons1558 2 жыл бұрын

@@ashielarry exactly they still dont listen to men and they feel lol thats like saying you passed the test but failed at the same time? god doesnt change the rules to fit every person the format fits everyone and thats what works

@ashielarry 2 жыл бұрын

@@jesterbons1558 Exactly. I really hate when men lie to these women. This dude had the audacity to say that the woman is great and the man may not be up to par; lies. I was just browsing through a dating app and honestly I only about 5% of women with profiles I’d take seriously. Lots of baby mama’s; even with kids that are less than a year old. Lots of overweight women in there early 20s; no excuse for that if you don’t have kids. Lots of tattoos and nose rings. Lots of boss ladies running credit repair or MLM program, or some foolishness; you are not a boss without employees. That’s just delusions of grandeur. All the profiles I saw was women saying what the want, not what they offer. Imagine doing that in a job interview.

@ashielarry Жыл бұрын

@lay Really?! Don’t stop confusing short term interest (cheek clapping) for long term success (marriage). Even the ugliest women can get their cheeks clapped. But after the post nut clarity kicks in, most of these women have nothing to offer except chaos.

@Mackenzietkd526 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with the marriage analogy, you don't have to be married to give good advice. Similarly, you'll generally get much better advice on raising children from teachers and nannies, than actual parents.

@neo1053 2 жыл бұрын

I don't think so

@Sarablueunicorn 2 жыл бұрын

You are right. Think that childcare workers spend at least 8 hours with dozens of kids and they have to manage them without spanking/popping/hitting, whatever parents do at home. Childcare workers spend more time with a child than the actual parents and their job is actually raise them. The kids are their jobs, not their property, not their personal punching bags. Many parents have no clue of what they are doing. I worked with children abroad and parents were shocked on how me (without speaking the language) was able to make the kids sit quiet or do some task. Simply, because I didn't allow them to cross the boundary the first time they've tried, they learned that wouldnt work with me. Parents allow their kids to cross boundaries over and over because "awe their just babies. It's fine" and then lose control when they realize they've lost control.

@sixteen.candles.4644 2 жыл бұрын

@@Sarablueunicorn totally agree.

@yanikeonpurpose 2 жыл бұрын

@@Sarablueunicorn totally get what you’re saying, but for me, there’s more to child raising than just discipling them. Yes a childcare worker may be able to advise the best route to discipline & the like due to concentration of exposure, however one cannot look at child raring from an isolated perspective. Could you as a childcare worker tell me how to keep my emotions in check while bearing the load of financially supporting a family? Being financially responsible (along with my mate) for another human being’s entire existence for 18+ years? How to keep my marriage healthy so that it fosters a healthy environment to raise that child? How to nourish my body so that I am physically able to serve my children without breaking down, & also have the knowledge of feeding my children nutritious foods to keep them healthy? Very basic examples, but I find that unless you have lived the true reality of a something, the advice you give must be taken with a pinch of salt. Notice that this guy said he loves to work & doesn’t really notice the loneliness. This is relationship advice from a pragmatic, theoretical perspective without actual, human love added to the equation. Take this advice into the real world & it falls apart.

@HabitualLover 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, better advice can come from the people who have to deal with the realities that are left out.

@eVaniwithaV 2 жыл бұрын

This conversation/collaboration is EVERYTHING!

@PREACHYPREI 2 жыл бұрын

When he started in on God he hit me right in the chest. If theres anything that God has been letting me see is that you have to get out of your own doing and ask God where youre supposed to be. Ive ended up in some trenches trying to do things in my own power

@ChristianaSenibo 2 жыл бұрын

So true

@aichetouornella7578 2 жыл бұрын

Speak to my Soul Sis, Word.

@bwedilove3571 2 жыл бұрын

Sad part is it can be easy to fall into doing it again..I really have to pray to be led, and not lead myself outside His will🙏🏽

@josephgatambia5679 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with Stephan,you can't just jump into a relationship just because you're single,you have to meet someone and connect naturally with that person in a way that you've never connected with anyone else and you'll realise it's the right time

@nawhatererr Жыл бұрын

Its hard to do that with all this society’s pressure, questions and “ the wall”

@josephgatambia5679 Жыл бұрын

@@nawhatererr what do you mean when you say "the wall"

@jackiesinaa 2 жыл бұрын

You should definitely talk with RC Blake’s Jr or Tony Gaskins. Both of them are great!

@aari8350 2 жыл бұрын

Omg a talk with Breeny & RC Blake’s Jr would be epic

@Synquette 2 жыл бұрын

& Tiffany Buckner from Anointed Fire would love that collaboration 🤍

@OohlalaHolly 2 жыл бұрын

Yes Mr. RC Blake is the truth! And a married man!!

@devinbatts722 2 жыл бұрын

Yeeeeeesss

@texcoco41 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely Tony Gaskins. 💯💯💯

@loveneisha 2 жыл бұрын

Don't cheat yourself! I watched the entire conversation and there was so much information given.

@FatherDIVINE. 2 жыл бұрын

The what you learn

@anthonynosike 2 жыл бұрын

Love the fact that you had Stephan Speaks on here. His advice is amazing, but I would love it even more if you could have Tony Gaskins on your show. His book "A Women's Influence" is gold!! Thanks for this video!!

@harriettedawson7072 2 жыл бұрын

I would like to see an interview with Stephan and Tony Gaskins too. That could be something! 🤩👍🏽👍🏽

@anthonynosike 2 жыл бұрын

@@harriettedawson7072 ikr!!

@abigail-yr8ym 2 жыл бұрын

love tony so much

@anthonynosike 2 жыл бұрын

@@harriettedawson7072 she listened!! It's so good

@18QueenHearts 2 жыл бұрын

Goodness, everything Stephan said about his experience is TRUEEEE!!!! It's difficult for me because it is the same for me. I always have dudes who swear up and down they want me and want to marry me etc but they also do and say some really horrible things that derail you spiritually. You have to find someone who understands these real spiritual battles who would be able to stand in the gap for you and with you. I was almost in tears hearing him say this because I get teased about it as well, that something must be wrong with me lmao. I know I cannot yoke myself to someone who does not have spiritual insight and submission to Christ. I just ended my almost two year relationship for this reason, going through all these spiritual attacks and my not being present romantically and his inability to really understand and pray with me through it all. When a man is not truly submitted to God it is always the most dangerous risk you take for yourself and your future.

@realtalk675 2 жыл бұрын

God loves you always ♥️

@18QueenHearts 2 жыл бұрын

@@realtalk675 He sure does! As he loves you too!

@nashawad1314 2 жыл бұрын

I am in the same place as you are I’m really sorry you had to go through it’s almost like gaslighting low key! I hope you recover from all the loss I don’t even know how to grieve or where to start

@NerdyNerdUHeard 2 жыл бұрын

I'm with you! Ain't nothing to be ashamed of. My friends are more into the hookup culture and that's fine by me. I comfort them when they need it and vice versa but they don't judge me and I don't judge them. They often say how they'd like to be like me in that sense (I'm celibate by choice). So, I'd say maybe change the people that are around you because treating yourself and your time as sacred is totally fine!

@Thrivegrl24 2 жыл бұрын

😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨SAME SIS WHEWWW

@leahmuntean3993 2 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness, I have been watching you both separately for yearzzz!!!! This was incredible to see you two together! I loved it!!

@millidw8070 2 жыл бұрын

Same here.

@jocelynnicole663 2 жыл бұрын

Breeny really knows how to make these interviews interesting. She knows all the right questions to ask 🙌🏼

@zoeh1964 Жыл бұрын

Stephan has such a genuine and positive energy about him. Can never get enough of his material. Part of me was hoping these two gorgeous, kind, intelligent, godly people would become a YT power couple after this interview 😏

@caraainsley78 2 жыл бұрын

This was so good. Such a good conversation. Stephan is very wise and can communicate his points well. My respect for Breeny has grown. She was able to ask the right questions to get answers to the issues that affect many women.

@ChristianaSenibo 2 жыл бұрын

Such beautiful conversation

@essedarden4690 2 жыл бұрын

Except for the question at 52:30 - sorry, but that was just stupid. I hope she recognized the pinpointed answer to her question is at 59:05

@kaoshi_kutie 2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss a King & Queen Collaboration!! Both so inspirational 👑❤️👏🏼👏🏼

@LouisaWatt 2 жыл бұрын

Love both of you 💚 two godly people being realistic about relationships and human nature

@ezekielthemack 2 жыл бұрын

Only ONE person was being realistic and his name is Stephan. SMH

@itsnetta. 2 жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this ❗️ this new year I’ve been trying to focus on my self and my relationship with God and when I tell you ALOT HAVE GOTTEN BETTER. My mind , body and sprite just feels better at ease . I don’t stress over things like I did before, I let God handle it and he does everytime. Some one has to experience some things in life and be brought back from it to actually believe in God. Like Steven said some one watching this might say “ all that is bs” but in a year or month or week later something will get them to change their way of thinking. I say I needed to hear this because I was very close to hanging out with some individuals because I started to feel lonely but NO !

@beautifulblessedandbeloved659 2 жыл бұрын

It's a combination of his wisdom and his personality that keeps us coming back to him.

@harriettedawson7072 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed!!!👍🏽👍🏽😁

@LeonaWorldwide 2 жыл бұрын

This was a great conversation. Baby asked aaaall the questions lmao! I loved the candidness and you look amazing!

@SindyAkpolo 2 жыл бұрын

Breeny thank you for this collaboration Stephan is a great coach and I remember watching one of his videos and clicked right away. Keep doing what you’re doing and sharing the knowledge. Thank you for this series

@livingdotprime 2 жыл бұрын

It was a lot to digest. Took breaks and came back. Enjoyed it a lot. Thank you

@Meeounn 2 жыл бұрын

I love this man. I'm happy you two had this conversation. Thank you to you both. ♡

@Eliza-dn4sv 2 жыл бұрын

I am so happy you decided to interview Stephan! Getting a male perspective is important when trying to land the RIGHT relationship.

@natashasamuel9346 Жыл бұрын

I pray that The Lord brings the best of what life has to offer to the both of them. Thank You, Natasha Samuel

@cfalmanza 2 жыл бұрын

This conversation truly blessed me! Stephan is such an insightful person! He knows God and I appreciate that ❤️🙏🏻

@indjahazelton5969 2 жыл бұрын

This was one of the most honest and real discussion ive heard. No sugar coating 100% real and I loved and needed this.

@Godzgift777 2 жыл бұрын

This video will definitely be cataloged. This was very insightful, truthful and spiritual. God speaks through people, but you as an individual have to be acquainted with His voice to know! I watched the entire video and I will watch it again. We move!!! Thank you Breeny! Also!!! I love how he corrected you at the end!!! Man of God!!! God didn't call you to be small sis 😘 Edit: 2:12:28 (This channel is big and reaches many!!! Your ministry no be small ooo...hmmm)

@friimunya8488 2 жыл бұрын

Breeny blessing me with a 2 hour long video, love her

@hildatizeba5741 2 жыл бұрын

Great interview! Breeny asked ALL the right questions and Stephan is a great speaker!!!

@hildatizeba5741 2 жыл бұрын

The chemistry was just so natural and beautiful. Loved it!

@jessicaapaloo8049 2 жыл бұрын

I clicked SO fast 😂😂😂. What a collab!!! Been following you both for ages and this is giving high vibrations. Love it! ❤️

@BabeRuthuk 2 жыл бұрын

I have been waiting for this video! Absolutely love Stephan - this man is so full of wisdom. ( love you too Breeny!) 2 hours - Let me get my tea, snacks, notepad & pen and get ready for the nuggets of wisdom that is about to be dropped 🔥🔥🔥🔥

@knowingone1784 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you both for this beautiful collaboration. I'm happy to see two very most emotionally healthy people on youtube! This is so useful. Thank you Breeny & Stephen for your commitments to teach with purpose! 💕❤️💕

@roea7846 2 жыл бұрын

Great discussion! Thank you for coming together to help us get a better understanding of one another and how to move in relationships.

@emmal1138 2 жыл бұрын

Breeny, this is one of your best uploads yet!! Absolutely brilliant interview. Every woman needs to listen to this. Thank you xx

@Styliee 2 жыл бұрын

Levels!!! I admire how you took control of this interview like a pro! Looking forward to more of this collab.

@justdena15 2 жыл бұрын

We made it! Great video with so many interest takes. He's right, he does have a way of making things super simple that you've already heard before lol

@NzobigezaNancy 2 жыл бұрын

We made it!! Thank you so much Breeny for bringing Stephen on. Loved it so much 🥰

@tlenn5608 2 жыл бұрын

This was truly an unexpected treat, my two favorite life & dating coach collaborating. 🤩 I had to watch immediately

@theodosad.3135 2 жыл бұрын

I was sooo hesitant to watch this because I'm avoiding "relationships advice" but this was great and super informative for women. Love the mashup❤❤👍🏾

@ughnotuagainughnotuagain4275 2 жыл бұрын

Might I know why? I too have been actively avoiding those kinds of videos, even the biblical ones and I don't know why. At this moment, I'm reading the comments instead of watching😅

@Aquagirl-in6wr 2 жыл бұрын

I'm in the same boat as you. I have been avoiding all these relationship videos. I only watch some because they come up on my feed, and if the topic looks interesting. But otherwise, I'm over them too just because I've chosen to remain single.

@theodosad.3135 2 жыл бұрын

@@ughnotuagainughnotuagain4275 Breeny did a great job asking him the right questions and getting direct answers. Neither were combative or attempted to point blame they both recognize the issues on either side and just wanted to call it what it is. I like the very personal questions she asked and he seemed to give legit honest answers. It's a good watch however I don't think more is needed seems like women/men need to focus on themselves🤷🏾‍♀️

@lexie02jones25 2 жыл бұрын

dang and I thought I was the only one doing this! Avoiding relationship vids and advice lately because so many of them are draining, tiring, and not even true. I tried to do what they said, but all I got, in the end, was pain and heartbreaks. I guess I'm not alone. I'm done listening to so many of them tho.

@Aquagirl-in6wr 2 жыл бұрын

@@theodosad.3135 very well said. It seems like that's where things have come to. Men and women need to just take a step back and focus on themselves, and do a real thorough reset of their thoughts and morals. After that, then maybe they can date, if not, then it's just becoming a losing battle!🤷🏾‍♀️

@kamille8 2 жыл бұрын

This was awesome! I watched the whole thing. And learned A LOT

@jessicafianko 2 жыл бұрын

Hiii Breeny How are you Yay I'm so happy that you're doing this Intimacy Series for us I'm definitely learning a lot You're the absolute best 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Sending love 💘💘💘💘

@renettaburley6620 2 жыл бұрын

I been Waiting on you two to do a KZfaq together!!! I’m reading his books & I watch ALL your KZfaq Videos Breeny. Y’all have help me shift my mindset so much!! I just love y’all ♥️✨ Thank you!!

@t.monique27 2 жыл бұрын

AMAZING Collaboration! I was super excited to see my two favorite life coaches ❤️ this is 👌🏽

@fatima_tiffany__ 2 жыл бұрын

Me too! I saw the thumbnail and screamed YESSSS LOL 😆

@t.monique27 2 жыл бұрын

@@fatima_tiffany__ girl that exactly what I did lol!!!

@gma904 2 жыл бұрын

I am in the exact same position now where I don’t want the wrong relationship: I need what God wants for me bc Everything else, regardless of what it looks like…will be pain and regret. Life has taught me well.

@lavonaturner7691 2 жыл бұрын

What an AMAZING collab! ❤️ 2 of my FAVS! 👏🏾

@lynesewilliams9455 2 жыл бұрын

This was so good. I didn't want the conversation to end! Super insightful and informative. I need a part 2 please 😆.

@SpiritLives 2 жыл бұрын

I am grateful for this interview!! Ty love for doing this.

@ssonkogarvey 2 жыл бұрын

Breeny didn't hold back with the questions. Great video and collaboration. 👍🏽💜

@KatrinaNicoleIvy 2 жыл бұрын

Wow this is my first time actually watching a video of Stephan and Im so glad I did. He's wise, unbiased and a so soothing to listen to. This was the perfect interview you guys definitely should have another conversation. Get deeper!

@Sandra-ly1ss 2 жыл бұрын

Yes!! This is a great interview, Sis!! You asked the questions; I would have asked. Great job 👏🏽 👍🏾

@jacquelynsandoval6200 2 жыл бұрын

This video was so good. Stephan is my absolute favorite. I just couldn’t agree more with everything he says. He truly has a gift. Thank you both for this video 🙏🏻💗

@sophiaf. 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾 Breeny Lee for this candid conversation. Stephan is just so wise.

@Bombshell1 Жыл бұрын

Your interview with Tony Gaskins shined so much light 💡 it makes us look at men who are not in successful relationships and marriages giving advice we as women need to be careful about who we are allowing to speak into our lives and plant seeds…. If you have not listened to Breeny’s interview with TONY GASKINS it’s a must listen it pulls the covers off and shines light 💡 to the darkness… GOD bless Tony who was not afraid to tell the truth in a culture where truth is suppressed often rejected

@naturalbrwnhunnie 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I wanted to hear. Going through a difficult moment currently, and I'm staying my best to process it positively. Thank you for the insight Stephan & Breeny. Blessings to both of you both.

@charmainemathye8662 2 жыл бұрын

Loved every minute of this, the man makes so much sense! What a beautiful black man, his smile is everything!

@zuphurialoveriecutscoupons 2 жыл бұрын

Breeny is great at interviewing!

@mythicalfairyprincess 2 жыл бұрын

This HITS on so many topics and dives deeper under the surface level of issues! Love you both!!

@SincerelyVenish 2 жыл бұрын

This was a REALLY good interview 👏🏾 🙌🏾

@SueJeenJanga 2 жыл бұрын

This conversation was needed - touched so many topics and amazing to hear the opinions. Thank you for sharing this with us.❤✨

@doseoffrankie 2 жыл бұрын

What a great collab! Loved the whole thing.

@cspann33 2 жыл бұрын

This was a good conversation. Thank you both for having it and sharing.

@amuda15 2 жыл бұрын

This was a very good collaboration, I really enjoyed it from beginning to end and there were so many great nuggets shared. Well done and keep doing what you’re doing x

@trafficcontrol2420 2 жыл бұрын

Breeny you are a literal goddess! Such a thoughtful, comprehensive interview.

@ChateauDiana 2 жыл бұрын

Great questions and great answers. I loved how Stephen broke everything down and explained it so well. Everything was truth! I was able to understand it all and agreed with everything. It blessed my spirit in its entirety. Applause for both parties 👏🏾

@StyleandJoy 2 жыл бұрын

These convos/collaborations have been so good. Haven’t watched yet but I know this one is gonna be amazing!!

@JehovahnieSaintRose 2 жыл бұрын

This came at the right time! Thank you big sis!! ❤️❤️

@thestarinhereyes2 2 жыл бұрын

This is probably my favourite video of you so far, and I have a lot of favourites but… WOOW! I gotta watch this again, like monthly or something! God bless you Breeny and Stephan 🥺🙏💚

@JamaicanQueen876 2 жыл бұрын

I'm sooo excited for this video. I love you both..I've been following you both for years and you have both helped me to grow over the years.

@annabirou6712 2 жыл бұрын

Awsome duo! You Breeny so open and not afraid to ask him the key questions and him so precise and able to express firm ideas about relationships with a simple and clear - cut way putting things in their correct place to be!

@Thrivegrl24 2 жыл бұрын

Straight dropping 💎‘s this conversation taught me a whole lot about myself and that is I got work to do on many aspects to attract what I want . He was talking straight facts and it was like a mirror held up to my face why I’m attracting the type of men I don’t like and why I’m not attracting the men I do like. Ladies perk your ears up it may be hard for many to swallow but come open and really search and check yourself and you’ll see he “called a lot of us out “ . Instead of getting defensive let us look introspective and check ourselves so we can be better so we then can attract better mates. Stephan thank you for keeping it 💯 for both the men and the women. There’s work to be done on both ends . Breeny thank you for the amazing content and the different guests that bring their own perspective whether we agree with them or not it’s still many things to be learned.

@ellahbarros8474 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been single now going on 8years And people wounded and ask and say your so beautiful and young why are you still single and my answer has always been God has someone out there for me When time is right he will bring that person to me So highly agree with Stephan’s - to wait on god’s time Iam patiently waiting for his arrival meanwhile I’m bettering my self to become a better version of my self

@goodgirl170 2 жыл бұрын

Your still waiting. Please don't wait so long for a man in your race. Seek out other options. This coach is a no go. They seek money from BW for relationship advice. Don't be a victim

@odin5188 2 жыл бұрын

OP....oh dear. are you for real?

@Bd-mq8td 2 жыл бұрын

That’s exactly right trust in god and whatever he has planned for you is right. Don’t listen to others those are the same people that will shame you if you choose to divorce they live by what society expects from them and don’t bother to try and avoid traumatizing other people (spouse, future kids..)

@precioussobamiwa5881 Жыл бұрын

You guys are beautiful, balanced and genuine representations of both genders. I was stalling so long to listen to this but, it was worth every minute!! Thank you! You both are speaking and healing souls. God increase your wisdom and strength.

@Heiress.project 2 жыл бұрын

We love him sis. Now I’m following him. God is all over him 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾thank you for this. It fed me.

@Rii_Elizabeth 2 жыл бұрын

Breeny, you’re soo beautiful 💕 This was a great collab! Thank you guys 🙏🏾

@murechimsokalu6514 2 жыл бұрын

its so interesting how I found both of your accounts this summer when I was at a low point, and you both helped me in massive ways. and now you've had an amazing collab that's been quite insightful. I love you both! thank you for everything you do. To God be the Glory!

@theblessedblackwoman 2 жыл бұрын

@Breeny Lee, The main problem is everyone is looking for perfection in a mate. There is no perfect person. We need to learn to give and receive, we need to learn to negotiate around imperfection. Most people in relationships negotiate the good and the bad in their mate. Single people who are " chronically single" like Stephen have not learned to negotiate through normal people who are not perfect. I know you had a difficult relationship recently. I know he wasn't perfect but trust me no one is perfect. If you want a mate please be ready to negotiate imperfections. Just my 2 cents.

@stevec3526 2 жыл бұрын

Wrong, women want the perfect man while men are happy to find a woman who is 80% of what he wants in a partner according to Lori Gotlieb.

@EvaKNF Жыл бұрын

I was looking for that comment!! I love Stephan but he's very idealistic. Even if you find that person who is great today, that person may change and make you even question if you made the right choice at the begining. The vast majority of great relationship implies hard work and being able to accept that nothing is perfect. Even in agape love, 1 Cor. 13: you need to love your mate despise a lot. Of course, seek compatibility, being on the same page regarding your core value, being respect, feeling loved and being able to reciprocated that love. The rest is adaptation and a lot of forgiveness... (I'm not saying that anyone should settle, I'm just saying that the more you look for an ideal partner/dynamic/relationship, the more likely you might be disappointed - sooner or later!

@theblessedblackwoman Жыл бұрын

@@EvaKNF You tell no lies.

@KiaraParkr 2 жыл бұрын

I listen to you two individually the most. What a wonderful surprise that you guys collaborated! And amazing questions and answers

@myrajones416 2 жыл бұрын

We made it! I follow Stephan Speaks on IG as well as You tube and this interview was great. I love you both!!

@wanguikariuki7673 2 жыл бұрын

Love this series. Keep them coming.

@i_am_b1anca_207 2 жыл бұрын

This was just fantastic! You have a great chemistry, great collab

@Chevonne8 2 жыл бұрын

Yes girl!!! Thank you for this collaboration. Stephan said a lot of good things on here.

@AnonyMe-qy5vz 2 жыл бұрын

Seem to be in quite different age groups though.

@silver_0447 2 жыл бұрын

Omggggg I got so excited when I saw you post this on Snapchat !! Couldn’t wait to hear it I love the both of you

@velvedermskin2371 2 жыл бұрын

For some strange reason I can't explain it but my spirit was just naturally drawn to Stephan and convinced of his sincerity from the first moment I heard him speak...I also like his humility