ya for real like we have a thing called hyper foucs and its where we can fouces good for like 30 mins to 2 hours on smothing we like so no if i did art allready than i can focus on your stupid voice go on and on ab math!!!!!

I know right!! I’m good at art, I draw everyday, I plan on going to an art college and yet I still find it hard to finish my project that involve. Art means the world to me, and I can’t even focus on that!!

I have hemmerhoids

@@TheFartGod69 "Actually Meghan, I cant sit anywhere."

PLEASE I HAVE A KID IN MY CLASS WHO SAYS THIS WHEN SHES TRYING TO TALK AND IM HYPERFOCUS

I'm not sure whether I have ADHD or not but this...this happens with me a LOT.

True 😂😂

I didn't even watch the video, I got distracted on reading the comments it even took me awhile just to type my comment bcoz I forgot about it lol xD

Think this happens to everyone

Omggg sqme

and im happy that i have never had such toxic friends who shamed me about being innatentive

Honestly, I think I don't have an internal monologue because of this, I think it broke and disappeared early on. I remember desperately trying to get the thoughts to stop so much, then it just did. I don't think with words now but abstract imagery.

But you can't bring up the fact you have adhd because then it's an excuse...

Yeah I just start laughing maniacally when they showed that because it’s so relatable

@@Kem1sk yeeeaaah i LOVE that bs 🤩🤩 why do mentally healthy people think that i deliberately am always late always impulsive and hot-headed and unable to keep my own house clean and my wallet full do they think adhd is an advantage?? cuz of what? feeling unique? i really want to NOT be unique and be like everyone else istg i would give away my leg if it could make me neurotypical

I kind of relate to this man in that sense (also I have adhd so of course it’s relatable.

Right?! Its almost like the teachers know somethings off with you so they call on you or something

Simps ofc

@@grass5697 when the teacher simping 😔

Your eyes seem to bit off - center on what im trying to draw on whiteboard , you seem SUS! EXPELLED

This is underrated-

That's debatable

man :(

People with ADHD usually tend to do something they enjoy for a very long time because they need something to make them work physically and mentally. It helps them not fidget for a while.

with my adhd i actually suck at sports because i lose focus/get dizzy about all the things im thinking about and trying to exert physical energy.

Happens to me alot and it sucks ass

Been undiagnosed for 17 years, getting to talk to someone AFTER I'm almost graduated high school. I hate trying to talk to anyone and trying to clean is hard. Im constantly reminded that i don't do things. I really hope there's something I can look forward to

I cried too watching this. This hurts and people never understand.

Omg yes

same, i just clicked thinking that maybe all I ever experience everyday is in fact ADHD.

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The visual is inaccurate i take vyvanse and teleporting is never seen for me but I do have ear ringing

@@HashedMikui dont have earringing, but i just dont hear it, its a wuss

I liek teleporting

Wait she actually did??????? -replays it- omFG SHE DID

😂oh shit!

you call me out like this, in my home, on this day of all days??

DONT CALL ME OUT 😳😳

Wait she asked him to get milk? Lmfao..

XxAlaynaxX fr

I’ve been called Lazy because of ADHD so many times that eventually I just give up on trying to convince them I’m not.

I hate when peoole say "your useing it as an excuse"

I get called stupid a lot by my friends as a joke because of my grades and I said “I have ADD, I struggle to concentrate, you know that” and I got really sad because I just wanna be able to concentrate and to stop daydreaming all the time and to feel normal and they just told me “i have ADHD, it’s not that hard” It kind of hurt me because they got through the same thing but they still told me it’s not an excuse. Like, y’all know I can’t control it, what do you expect. You know what I mean? Sorry if me venting is kind of stupid 😞

@@shara1034 literally

fidgeting is annoying af, you should learn not to fidget at least in public

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⁠@@fantomas1770basically what you are saying is: being paralyzed doesnt mean you cant play with me for just one time

@@jannemieknugteren3139 i'm saying stop fidgeting cuz it's annoying af and you will get told to stop anyway

Lucky you! My 2 brothers (23y/o and 15y/o) have ADHD and I'm (21y/o girl) still trying to get diagnosed, but I'm certain I have it. I'm also certain my Dad (63y/o) has it, but he's completely unaware and keeps blaming my Mum's genes. He's incredibly hard to talk to about these types of things, doesn't have good knowledge about it, and isn't open minded in the slightest way, which makes it even harder to cope. It really surprises me how he can be so unaware of his OWN self and how he hasn't realised, all these years, that he is slightly different to other people. Did he never notice the barriers/struggles at school? At work? At home? I don't know how he hasn't picked up on it. And worst of all, he has ZERO empathy for us when we just CAN'T help but being the way we are. Forgetful, distracted, etc. Honestly, consider yourself extremely lucky!!

I never have that happen, but I always get lost thinking ab stuff.

More like telling someone having a seizure to just stop having a seizure. It’s purely involuntary

and telling someone who's deaf to "just listen" (the deaf person can read lips btw just not as good as others)

Yeah next time Karen has an asthma attack I’ll tell her to “just breath” and “you’re not even trying”

WHOA DUDE LOOK WHAT'S ON THE TV OMG THIS IS MY FAVORITE SHOW :D

My 9 year old cousin has ADHD and all the family gets tired of him but I’m the only one that understands him so I am very patient with him.

true

EXACTLY. I draw a lot even if its just a bunch of doodles all over the page, cause it helps me to pay attention on what the teacher is saying. especially if its a theoretical kind of class. she's always telling us to put our pens down and pay attention and im like...... i just dont say anything cause everytime i forget to tell her, and dont wanna say it in front of the class lol

@@TheRadioactiveBanana32 that's the same Banana picture in my pfp

Me too

Sad part is that the opposite is true for them, what allows you to focus makes THEM lose focus. It feels like there's no compromise to be made

Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.

Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Australia. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.

How can i find him? Is he on Instagram

I would like to know from those who have solved PTSD and anxiety, if they have solved it definitively and how to understand what quantity of psilocybin to take and when, for how long. And can you really heal without having an addiction? Thanks to everyone for helping me understand, I want to understand if it's something that can help me solve the problem (I have c-ptsd)

From my experience it really works excellently! It doesnt even need to be a full hit. With potent shrooms 2-3 small ones will still make a clear difference. It will be a few hour cosy rumbling moment around rest time, but afterwards its just calm and you feel amazing and gain your freedom. Psilocybin is different dudes, its the only "treatment" I would recommend to someone who genuinely wants to get better. There is no addiction, withdrawal, or negative side effects. It's just pure healing., far more effective than any anti-depressant. You can thank me later

As much as I hate to admit it. The video made me cry, then I started thinking if sending it to my parents, then having an internal conversation with myself about why I should and then why I shouldn't, then I started hearing ringing, birds chirping, cars going by, doors slamming and so many things. 😐

Within the time watching this I’ve thought of 8 videos I’ve watched when I was younger.

Yesssssssssss

Ikr

Yea. Exactly. This video is actually scaring me with the accuracy. The jumbled clips repeated in the video to showcase the main character’s distractions actually started popping up in my own head and distracting me from the video.

Same here

I get told that all the time, I be like “I forgot!” Like it doesn’t matter anymore bc they are used to it.

i fucking HATE when people say that to me

YES

it's not my fault I only remember things I hyper focus on. "how come you can remember all that stuff about those tv shows but not when I tell you something. you dont wanna listen to me!?!?"

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need

Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

Is he on instagram?

Yes, he is dr.porassss

Teacher said I wasn't trying

If anybody says im not trying HOLD MY ORANGE JUICE IM GONNA BEAT A HOE

My BFF always tell me to try and that I just need to have the discipline and I’m like BRO I’m FUCKING TRYING

My mom will always tell me don't try just do and I get so confused like WTF AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?!

AND IT'S EVEN WORSE WHEN THEY USE THE FACT THAT YOU ARE FIDGETING AS PROOF YOU ARE NOT PAYING ATTENTION AND THEN THEY MAKE YOU BE STILL BUT IT TAKES EVERYTHING YOU HAVE TO BE STILL SO FUCK BEING ABLE TO HEAR OR UNDERSTAND ANYTHING ANYONE IS TELLING YOU NOW.

XD me! As a 5'2 guy right here!

it's scary

ikr

Fr. I'm like 5'6. This dude made me feel 6'5 in the video. Got nervous seeing the top of a door.

5'3 lol I was so excited to see everything

MY STEPMOM SAYS THIS!!

People haut don't realize that we are trying as hard as we can and it sometimes can be mentally and emotionally draining

EVERY FUCKING DAY

@@kpro_1188 yeah my boyfriend has ADHD & I’m doing my best to look into what it’s like for him. It’s difficult and this video makes me want to cry. I would hate to be the one to be saying all that stuff to him like they are in this video.

@@loversick3377 Awe 🥺 that's sweet, I know he'll be really happy with you 💜

DUDE I KNOW RIGHT

I WAS LITERALLY LIKE DAAAAAMN OKAY SHIT

YEH I WAS SHOOK

TRUEEE

A day in the life of Michael Jordan's white son

Don’t forget “stop staring off” and “u have to do the work even if u don’t like it! U can’t just “forget” about it or ignore it!”

i always compulsively bite my nails/lips and my dad scolds me for it. it’s gotten better but still, it’s so hard not to fidget.

my mama keeps telling me that I have to at least try but I am, it's just hard. don't want to fight all the time

exactly. btw nice fuyuhiko pfp

its annoying to hear that. Im not trying to forget, or to not focus on purpose (I am running on 1 brain cell rn so i cant spell) Im trying my best but because you dont have it doesnt mean you get to yell at me that its not hard to live with it. You dont even know what its like to have it so you have no place to say that is not hard

It's the most frustrating thing when people say I'm not trying... it's not like i can give 100% focus on something because there's more than one thing in the world.

Sums up my parents and my childhood right there.

I have ADHD myself and this is something at least someone says everyday,Its not too much if you Expirience it Everyday,But it makes me Mad I'm 10

@@celavetex right. i know how u feel, having adhd is a nightmare , especially when trying to explain how hard it is to focus on certain things and such. trying to explain you ARE trying hard, its just very complicated to stay focussed but still getting the same interruptions of ur parents saying “but you arent trying hard enough” sucks. im sorry you have to go through that man :( good luck bro.

My mother saying I do anything for get out of my anxiety I got out and I'm to much better right now, she was so fake, all the money she bring was from sugar daddies and also telling my sisters and me we don't have empathy for her...just c:

Yeah. To me its like im thinking of something else insted of what's around me, and when the teacher is talking all I hear is muffled talking. And then right after I don't remember anything that just happened. BTW I don't have ADHD but I still zone out.

ADHD sucks man, for me the worst moments are when I'm walking and my brain just goes "hmm who created God?" And started thinking about random crap and I'd go "wait a minute where am i? " or "wait I'm not supposed to go this way!", these happens a lot to me. Or that time when your parents ask you to but something like "buy A, B, and C" and you completely forgot about C and your parents will start yelling at you.

Riff Mcdude yeah same

Yup but learned how to control it so I only zone out sometimes while doing inportant tasks,it get Easter after a while its just a process. But to be honest sometimes I wish someone around me understood me at all.the only one who truly gets how hard I work is God cuase without him I'd be inane and in a mental hospital with a nervous breakdown.🐞

I hate it when it happens and I'm having a really deep conversation with someone and I keep getting distracted and in afraid they think im not interested

Same

Same

Same

Same

I cant with my adhd i hate it

double debuff

my mom says it to me all the time, I think she forgets how it affects me mentally and physically. but yeah it does hit you hard bro

I had a 3-5 month stretch where I couldn’t get out of bed in the morning like I physically couldn’t because of executive disfunction and my mom would just lecture and yell at me from the door frame for 30 minutes until I got so upset my need to get away overpowered my executive disfunction

heard that in middle school all the time

Yup my mother says stuff like that to me all the time

@@edgy_skeleton2760 my mother and father both have adhd so i dont have to experience this thankfully

not only that but if the kid has adhd it would be hard to focus so like

I have adhd and i have to hear that same bullshit every day

I would’ve told the teacher off for that tbh 🤷‍♀️

Same , *unable to focus* Teacher: pay attention Other kid: drawing and playing games on lap top Teacher: *says nothing*

silly goose ive literally had that happen to me except he was right next to me. some teachers pick favorites

Sometimes in the middle of conversation it will happen and I try to get back to reality and it’s tough, it almost feels like I become an actor in my own life to feel normal

YES!!!! that’s the perfect way to show it but for me it gets all fuzzy and I get this numbing?? Feeling it kinda feels like how it was shown when the mom was talking to her son

DAYDREAMING

Yeah although i don't have ADHD it still happens

@@adav222 YESS

My mind sometimes randomly goes blank when I'm about to do something. I ask myself "Where am I?" and usually regain focus in a few seconds.

@@greatwavefan397 bro, that happens to me when I'm driving. I'll just be on the road and then think to myself, "I know where I am but how did i get here again? did i do every turn correctly??" (don't worry, I am a great driver and have yet to get into an accident)

Same, my mind goes blank and then I wonder, "why am I here again?"

@@t04st3d_cr4mb that's just normal for all people

@@runic6452 nah but that happens to me way too often, I know I have ADHD, got checked with a doctor, and boom. I have it :P

OOF felt that XD

i guess i mean thats an extreme comparison but yeah

@@rylierylierylie it's the same thing tho

@@vixymix101 i mean i have mild to severe adhd and if you yelled at me enough i could focus i think idrk to be honest thats just a hypothesis but if you yelled at a paralyzed person they could still never move

@@rylierylierylie yeah that's called manipulation-- and it doesn't last very long and leaves you with a very upsetting feeling. It doesn't actually work, it's just making someone upset.

OMG TYSM LITERALLY MY MOM SAYS THIS EVERY DAY

My mom was talking to me yesterday about it (gonna maybe get diagnosed soon) and I was trying to explain cuz it felt like she didn’t believe me and when I went back to my room guess who was fighting tears over what in hindsight was something small I tell her that it’s hard for me to get myself in motion for a lot of stuff. Homework, my hobbies, anything. She’s like “well a pill won’t help” like mother it’s designed to help what do you mean it won’t help Edit: forgot to add she’s understanding and kind about it at least which is more than some people get sadly

@@SketchUT DON'T TAKE THE MEDICINE!!! IT WILL COMPLETELY CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A GHOST AND CAUSE LIFE LONG SIDE EFFECTS

@@Ethan20543 If I get diagnosed and IF I get medication prescribed I’m going to take it as long as I’m told :P

Idk if i have adhd, i will get a check up next week. But what his mom says is so relatable to me, my mom always say i'm not taking things serious, and she would always say i'm just being dramatic

I have the same thing, i can remember like things that you learn at school in general normally by a combination of two problems i may have, but not anything else. I can forget something i am doing or just did easily, and because of my probable ADHD/ aphantasia combination (aphantasia disabling people to remember things with one or more of the five senses ; and me having it "total" i guess) it would be less obvious because it would cancel a few effects; i got in trouble for it a few times now, and starting to think more and more about diagnostising when i can :/ Have a nice day !

same, my mom says she thinks I might have adhd(I think so too) but constantly puts me down when I say I'm tryin and displayin symptoms of adhd instead of tryin to make it easier for me especially bc we cant get a diagnosis bc we dont have the money

I deal with it everyday 😐

@@Astr0_Man You dont have ADHD, EVERYONE DOESNT HAVE ADHD. STOP SELF DIAGNOSING

@@Astr0_Man cure show mom...tell her to do this to u...over in a few minutes..if she does it well...kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oNp-ntKI376oYWg.html

ikr? So unrealistic xd

@@MarchSomething kazuichi wtf are you doing here-

lmaooo I'm 5'2 and that's the same thing I throught

@@MarchSomething what are you doing here aren't you supposed to be with Sonia Nevermind

@@himikoyonaga3065 Nah she went for Hamster Man

Once O read a norwegian book because I'm from Norway I was thinking about arrowverse and mcu stuff while reading!

cam0bam then u gotta keep re-reading it cuz even tho u read the page it like didn’t go in

This is why I haven‘t never readen a book in my life

Then you keep reading but don’t remember but you want to read that paragraph again but you’re already read it so you don’t want to then you close the book.

@@jackhennessy1645 And then you have a feeling of deja vu while re reading the whole page, but you don't remember so you have to re read it anyways

Honestly

Same

OMG IT REALLY IS!! I feel this so much

Actually tho!!

Facts

Athena Larry ME

Every other day in history class

yEs

Athena Larry yess it's like i just blank out & then just forget everything

Athena Larry lol yeah

Don't forget the "No, you just don't care"

That's verbal and emotional abuse. And ableist language. Unfortunately a lot of parenting is not good parenting especially with that kind of language and it's disappointing that most see that as acceptable behaviour or the or typical thing to do when it's not the right way to handle things.

I deal with this everyday 😐

:,(((((((

@@ninadoesstuff7884 that one hurts :'((

bro coped so hard he got a degree just to spite his mom wow

@@fantomas1770well maybe his mom wasn’t good, ever thought about that?

@@JG71632 ok, and?

my dad says “you don’t have adhd, you’re smart and you have excellent grades.” EXCUSE ME, WHAT?!?! i do have adhd. What do my grades have to do with a disorder? 😢

@@rainbowunicorngirl2187 get diagnosed first

Exactly the same 😂

Bir the Mothbat “why are you just looking out the window like that” “She sees demons!” “You need to focus and stop looking at your paper like that” “Do I need to send you out the classroom?”

I have 2020 hearing and cant hear shit

“Why are you staring at the wall?” “What’s with the bouncing leg?” And the all too familiar “I gave you one job, one.” You know where it’s going

I wish a hearing aid would help tbh😭 i just feel bad or i only understand what someones said when convos basically over

I'm so glad I have music 24/7 instead of the ringing. I feel bad for people who struggle with that.

Its worse when ur home alone cuz then u start hearing doors closing🙃

@@xrockangelx same here edit: i’ve been paying more attention and my ears do ring lmao

@@sneakyturtle2346 that's scary

Haha yeah, whenever I'm in the shower (or even when I'm not) my brain likes to trick me into thinking someone is knocking on the front door, and sometimes it'll just straight up play my ringtone and so I always think my phone is ringing

not really your fault

This is me everyday, and my parents also do that!!

Man I relate, I try so hard to study sometimes but I just cant focus

Same. I don't have adhd though. Just a crappy memory.

@@thisismyaltyaccount5727 me too..

@@theangstygayhouse i have adhd and this was accurate asf but is asd like this too or are there any differences?

I don’t have adhd but this applies to me sometimes in my daily life I’m austic though I can’t spell 😓 autistic

I have ADD and this sums up my life perfectly

@@theangstygayhousei have to deal with both ASD and ADHD😢

Yes

I agree I don't like it it makes me sad

I have adhd and you are right but i dont take meds my mom thinks its for the dest i lern how to handle it lol

ikr, sometimes i dont even know if the day is the same or a different day alot and it happens alot where it feels like its been two seperate days when its just been the same or something /srs

@@nopenope3468 You can definitely learn ways to cope and add a healthy amount of structure to your life but for a lot of people, meds are really necessary for them to begin working on other ways of treatment. it often makes adhd much more manageable when you take meds that give your brain the right amount of dopamine so you can better regulate your attention and emotions. talk to your mom because if meds are what works best for you there shouldn’t be a level of shame around that.💕💕

@@nopenope3468 Brooke D is right. Our parents like to think they always know what’s best for us in order to raise us the best they can. They have to be super confident in order to do so. I am here to say that sometimes they do not always know what’s best for you. In some cases it truly makes sense to ask for help. No shame in that. Wish I could have learned that at a much younger age. I can definitely relate to you. Hope this helps :D

"No you're not".... Easy to say by people without that Problem.

Oh lord. I was ALWAYS being told what I was & wasn't thinking/doing/feeling. I was so sick of being gaslit all the time!!! The big one for me was "You CAN, you just don't WANT to." Like no bitch can't means can't. I did my absolute best and it didn't work, if that's not good enough, then ?????????

Or the classic “that’s not an excuse”

I felt the exact same way just now.

ADHD 2.0

ADHD^2

I felt this lol

100% felt this lmao

Same

Therrmal a real pet peeve if you ask me

Therrmal it’s like you can for that one minute and mostly miss actualy the important stuff.

Princess Rainbow Swirls UwU nah I actually have ADHD just one of the one things I hate because lot of my friends don’t know I have it

Therrmal ok

Nah I forgot the teacher even said that till the end of the video, where they replayed the sounds

yes

I wonder what the teacher said after that ._, Kinda wanna know lmao

I like your username

i've got the tree leaves rustling

I HATE it when people say that to me

do u have adhd?

Ryan St. John yeah

Alondra Rojas i respect you also cried i have adhd and i here that all the time i sucks🙏

I'm so happy to find people to relate too 💕

Really? I guess everybody's different. I tend to to that though it could be from my Panic Disorder, although I'm 98% sure it's from my ADHD. I replay things over and over in my head. I dont know why, I think I just zero in on the wrong thing and pick it a part. That or when someones talking their words mash together and I'm too busy trying to replay and figure out what they said to listen in present time.

@@user-qd1xz7sl8g yea he is saying we don't literally see and hear stuff like the video

i try not to but i constantly replay things that have just happened and i can’t stop it! it makes me unable to just focus like a normal kid

ADHD is different person to person. Sometimes, this metaphorically happens and sometimes I just zone out and my mind has thoughts that pass by at the speed of light and I don't have time to realize what I'm thinking before it's gone and I've moved on to another flicker of a thought and that cycle continues til I tune back into reality.

clangon speak for yourself 💁🏻‍♂️

MEEEEEEEE!!! while reading this comment I was playing with a smarties wrapper and watching the video!!!

I have to draw or else I’ll never be able to fully listen and understand something

@@alexfinechi2497 same!

The thing about me is that my mom doesn't let me have gum and some of the times I listen but TBH I think she gave up ok so feel me if this is with any other people with Adhd cuz I used to have 12 diffrint prescription in 2 or 3 years idk I make no sense lol

Yes. I read and walk at the same time. I also like to walk and pray the rosary at the same time.

I TELL THAT TO PEOPLE ALL THE TIME

They will never understand us 😔

Teachers piss me off the most

I have moslty the hyperactive part of adhd the fiddling a lot... teachers get mad over me fidgeting with stuff all the tyme

i have adhd and unfortunately i'm dyslexic too so i didn't understand shit about what i just read

Elmo is always moving😋

E x a c t l y !

I always thought it was ironic they have such a problem with fidgeting and stims. Like, bitch, how about *you* look at *me* and stop focusing on my hands aye? People just have zero self-awareness sometimes.

same here, i got so mad watching that

They used to tell me that too. Like I can't pay attention unless some other part of my body is distracted by doing something else. That's why I have a fidget cube

this is the closest representation of wth is going on n and i thought either i was the only one or this just was smth everyone else had

I heard it was different from person to person but honestly speaking, everything here felt accurately portrayed to me. Every stimuli goes in all at once and it becomes hard to focus at one thing, and even if you managed to focus, your mind immediately hops to another thing. But for some reason, doing what you love and enjoy makes you hyperfixate on it and you suddenly get the focus of a magnifying glass... Like WTF brain?! Where'd you get all of this focus all of the sudden?

God ive herd those phrases so many time

Or “you’re just being lazy.”

Why Is This Relatable…

@@Life-uu5yo came here to say this one! I was called lazy forever by my parents.

Yes... true :(

Me too!

Me too..

😔

That is the most common thing we will hear growing up and it causes us to think we are not trying that we are failures. Sad that just a little bit of support how much we can accomplish yet even when our families and friends know how much it benefits our everyday lives they will only bring up the failures and never build you up. The hardest part is knowing there is something off in our brains and not having any control over it.

I heard this the most from my dad, who also had really bad adhd, which is likely why I do. I think he saw so much of himself in me, and he felt like a failure in life because he never did well in school despite being very intelligent. He didn't want me ending up like him and so was hard on me but way harder on himself. I wish he could have realized that neither he nor I could help it, and maybe he could have forgiven himself.

Same. But I usually say "I can't help it"

I agree- it’s really tough. I was only diagnosed with adhd 1 yr ago, and times before that was extremely hard. (Still is hard tho)

Show your mom this video..it's a cure...it works real fast..kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oNp-ntKI376oYWg.html

ADHD is not even real. It just means we’re not robots and we’re a bit self centered in things we feel are more important to our lively hood then MAKING SURE I BRJNG THE MILK FOR YOUR ROBOTICLY SCHEDULED TEA TIME IM OVER IT ADHD ISNT THE LROBLEM THE WORLD IS

@@cohibarico bud, as someone with diagnosed adhd, adhd is definitely a massive part of the problem. it exists, and it isnt us being "a bit self centered in things we feel are more important" or more entertaining. there are definitely some societal issues in our day to day lives, but ifs incredibly invalidating and hard to hear people say that adhd "doesnt exist" or isnt a problem. (also sorry if you were joking or something, im bad at social cues, especially in text. i think i got what you were saying though)

You and me both

yeh lol I'm pretty sure i have anxiety and also depression from adhd

I have ADHD anxiety and autism

Yup ADHD Depression Anxiety and Social Anxiety when im at my worst.

All Music haha yeah I have it it’s living hell to me

All Music I have both and your true it’s a hell