EXACTLY

I honestly HATE it when ppl do that. It’s like faking having a mental illness is a trend now

Your Zebra People use mental illness as a word like "I am so bipolar today" or "I feel like an OCD".

I’m Strange or when a human say it’s funny how depressed people can’t be happy..

Yeah it’s annoying but being depressed you really don’t care what other people say anymore .... just let them say it cause it’s actually not as bad as how we’re living so it’s whatever

For real

Agreed

He could be normal

His gay though

If only he wasn’t gay

lmao amazing comment 👍🏻👍🏻

Someone: its impossible

That's a good one you made me smile thanks

Respect your comment

Hahahahah fr yo

self taught gymnests same...

+Hardcore gaming Life isn't a game. It's a hardcore one. And like Dark Souls, you gotta die over and over until you get a soul (reach a goal). And another. And another. Until you are finally carried onto the ending where the world isn't ending anymore or it finally ends. But you're done with it, and you've found an everlasting peace beating that shitty game. Too real or too unreal?

This hit me really hard..

Same

Where you able to stop the bully 3 years later? Hope you're doing good...

Most (healthy) people assume that they are good if they try hard enough - and you can always try. I also began asking me that when I had depression; it was because I began to question what I really deserve (if I deserved the things that happened to me/ if I deserve happiness). (I'm now stable enough that I can tell you that it's true - if you try you are a good person. Doesn't even matter what happened in the past because everything that happened is a 'was'.)

William Kjellgren i ask myself that every single day. it seems like everything i do is wrong or just not enough.

Listen to Jordan Peterson on embracing your shadow and PTSD treatment. Really helpful if you worry you're not a good person.

William Kjellgren if you aren't a good person then you'll propably dont worry about it

MrXtremeEditing True DAT. Bad people don't care about being bad. Good people do. If you are worried, you ARE a good person.

Couldn’t agree with this sentiment more. Well said.

Lul

Same lol im just waiting to die tbh

Islam is the solution . Please ask someone who knows about it.

Same

Yep I know there’s good intentions but fr

😂😂😂

😹😹😹

Nice

That's not funny guys

He can break from the most concrete and sturdiest of prisons, except his own.......

..stay alive, fren |-/

I like Music please don't every day those again . Please the only thing that is worthless is the lies ppl tell us and we tell ourselves. Write the opposite of what you wrote and everyday keep requesting it to urself. You DOBT want it to become ur identity. I don't know what u look like, I don't where you're from, your name but I know you are beautiful, god brought you into this world for a reason . To serve you're purpose until everyone's last day. I w

I won't ask you do to something you think isn't possible RIGHT NOW. But I promise you if you take small steps you will make huge progress . Try to find your meaning in life, try to think of s few things that you have dove well ( there will be something ) , look at motivational videos, pics to motivate you. I'm not saying I don't what pain or the desperation of getting answers to questions . Because I have gone through depression, it hit me unexpectedly. For my whole life (17yrs) I've never had an actual friend as I'm very shy, I've never been confident and self esteem is low . Because I'm blind .please see the beauty in this world. Open you're curtains in the morning and see it, embrace. Being in the darkest moments of life is not what I want but I NEED IT why ? -Because it makes me stronger everyday , it gives hopes that when my journey ends I know it'll be Worth it. Please please never give up and if anything I just want u to know I'm here for you Haya

I like Music |-/

I like Music |-/

theodora • Quran says: Quran is the solution for problems of the heart So study about Islam You may find peace

I say this coz I have no depression

Dont worry nobody is immortal,its only you buy your ticket earlier.just kidding i am sure ur family or friends care but i have the same life approach.

You would care,fuck other people look for you self.

i wish no one would care, i could be free....

Watching Prison Break always helps me with depression.

I'm proud of you.

Princess Purity Thank you.

I know a bit of how sucky that is. I had depression for seven years out of my life, and I still struggle with anxiety disorder. Always having to remind myself to do the whole self-care thing... For what it's worth, every person who lives with depression but keeps going, and keeps fighting, and keeps loving themselves inspires me to treat myself better, and to keep fighting. So eve on really bad days you can know that you changed my life. Gotta be worth something, right?

Princess Purity Sorry to hear you've been struggling with depression and anxiety for 7 years. I'm happy if I made you feel better with my comment. Usually I make people sad because I'm sad all the time. This is the first time in a long time I've made someone happier.

MegaBojan1993 you absolutely make me happier. it can be hard to be kind when the world seems to just feed into depression... I no longer struggle with depression, but I have to be vigilant about taking care of myself. Your courage reminds me why I keep working on being healthy. Thank you.

Clara V. So the solution is Islam It tells you How to live your life Please find it out after a self research

@@mohammedraazi4943 here comes this shit again.

What people forget is that life has never been easier. The majority of people nowadays will tell you life is extremely difficult for youth today, but what they forget is that humans have never had more ease. If you compare life today to life a thousand years ago the difference would be colossal. Today we dont have to hunt for food, we dont have to live in caves for shelter, we dont have to suffer from extremes of temperature, were less likely to die from illnesses, we dont have to travel for months in horse and carriage. Life is extremely easy and yet suicides are on the rise. Why? What humans excel at is struggling. We are extraordinary at dealing with pressure and hardship, you only have to take one look at history to know thats true. I say to anyone who is suffering from depression (especially long term depression) and a lack of purpose, the best thing to do is to do more. Get involved in a worthy struggle. Take on more responsibility and shoulder more stress, just make sure that its positive stress and not negative. (To name a few: Regular physical exercise and sports, career and hobby goals, learning new skills, taking care of the home and environment). Workouts are especially important; to endure pain in the gym does great benefits to your body as well as your mind. “If a man can find meaning in a concentration camp - where he has been imprisoned for no wrongdoing of his own. Where there is no end in sight - then we can find meaning in our daily lives where we think none exists” Dont let depression kick your ass and dont use depression as an excuse not to live. Get after it

@@LightningWolf09 good thought brother

shrish trivedi cheers man!

I'm at a similar stage as well. I really want to die, but then I loop back to "Suicide is selfish." "How would my family react?" "There might be legal complications." "What if my little sister discovers my body?" "Would anyone actually care, though?". It really, really sucks. I keep getting upset about the smallest things and I constantly talk about killing myself around my family to the point where they actually think I'm just joking. I threatened to run away or kill myself if we got a dog, because I'm badly allergic to them, but my little brother's whining for a pet dog meant we were going to get one anyway. Flash-forward two years, and we have two. I can't sing anymore, something I used to really enjoy, but can no longer do because despite taking my allergy meds my throat is still all screwed up. I hide in my room all day to avoid the dogs and it gets crushingly lonely. Every now and then someone pops in to check on me, but leave just as quickly as they arrived. I cut myself whenever I get the chance to sneak something sharp back to my room. I currently am keeping a piece of glass hidden in my room for it. I vent about all of this random crap anonymously on the internet just to try to ditch some of the loneliness. Sorry about that.

Brittany Bell I struggled with the same question for most of my adolescence. And although I kept coming to the "suicide is selfish" conclusion and "how would my family feel if I do go through with this" i kept thinking about doing it because somehow that wasn't enough reason for me to stay alive and endure the torture at school and the isolation and void that was my social and personal life. Ultimately though, some years later, I made my decision: there is absolutely no way that I could do this to my family. At the time when I did think about suicide I had poor relationships with my siblings and parents. Now our relationships aren't perfect, but they are much better/healthier than before! I know not everyone is close to family, or even has friends they feel close to, which is why I don't think saying "suicide is selfish" is entirely fair. However, there is some selfishness to suicide. In fact I think it is inherently selfish to commit suicide. Personally, I don't think the perception of "being selfish" is what should bother one that contemplates suicide; I think it's the fact that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, in many cases. What I mean is I still battle with depression, not nearly as bad as when I was in my early teens, but it's still there. However, everyday I'm thankful I never made that decision to end my life so prematurely, because it can be SO easy to get tangled in the deep web of depression and that web can cause some you to make impulsive decisions. I guess what I'm saying is, in my experience, that pain that caused a lot of my depression was temporary pain and I'm thankful that I battled through it because now I'm truly much happier than I was then. I know the pain can seem eternal and endless in the moment, but I've learned to cut through it by giving my life purpose. Whether that be helping others by volunteering or working on my music. I don't know your situation and why you are depressed, but if i can give you some advice it would be to fight through that pain! Get through it by doing things you like. Self expression is a huge part of this. And most importantly, talk to yourself as if you were helping a friend battling with depression. Comfort yourself. Love yourself. Respect yourself. Surround yourself by positivity and get rid of any unproductive thoughts ("Im so fat/ugly/stupid/etc). Those thoughts do nothing for you! Lastly, although it may be impossible to see some light at the end of that tunnel from where you are, I can guarantee you it is there and it is absolutely worth fighting for! P.S. Sorry for the extremely long comment everyone. I probably didn't need to say all this but I hope it helps somehow.

u'r right....

@@user-fh5wp3bh5k I'm so sorry it breaks my heart that u feel like that ....I wish I could hug u right now. Listening to reminded men of how I feel like a burden to my family cause theyve grown to talk less to as my anxiety and depression .....well ur little brother will act like that coz hes a kid he doesn't know any better he's supposed to be taught by ur parents to be more sensitive right?....don't get why ur parents aren't being more supportive towards u....even if ur daughter becomes depressed or suicidal u ought it to her to listen her and do ur best right?...I mean my grandma (who's my only guardian)...used to abuse me scold me call me names but when she saw me in my miserable state repeatedly she felt my pain and even though she couldn't understand my situation she asked me how could she help...and im forever thankful for that. I mean I don't wanna assume but it feels like ur parents don't care about ur mental health and even though I don't want that to be the case I want to know it from u....wow talked a lot sorry if I'm annoying u out I just wanna know I'd ur ok and I want u to know u deserve all the love and care in this world always know someone cares. ♥️🦋♥️

I had a discussion on KZfaq the other day because someone said “Suicide is selfish.” It was on a video where a dog was abandoned at a bridge where the owner killed themself. The comments were full of people saying horrible things about the dog owner. It broke my heart. I told them that they didn’t know what was going on in the other person’s life to made them want to kill themself and they shouldn’t judge the people they don’t know, but no one would listen to me.

oh my god :'DDD

Symbiotic AgentOfCarnage 😂😂😂

omg why did you have to say that ; ; I miss Len... Barry should have gotten the moment to be super proud of Len and to tell him with a smirk "See, I told you so!" It sucks that he died : (

Shana Moens OMG WTF??! SPOILER!!! I HATE YOU SO FUCKING MUCH RIGHT NOW.

Symbiotic AgentOfCarnage TRIGGERED

caged

What people forget is that life has never been easier. The majority of people nowadays will tell you life is extremely difficult for youth today, but what they forget is that humans have never had more ease. If you compare life today to life a thousand years ago the difference would be colossal. Today we dont have to hunt for food, we dont have to live in caves for shelter, we dont have to suffer from extremes of temperature, were less likely to die from illnesses, we dont have to travel for months in horse and carriage. Life is extremely easy and yet suicides are on the rise. Why? What humans excel at is struggling. We are extraordinary at dealing with pressure and hardship, you only have to take one look at history to know thats true. I say to anyone who is suffering from depression (especially long term depression) and a lack of purpose, the best thing to do is to do more. Get involved in a worthy struggle. Take on more responsibility and shoulder more stress, just make sure that its positive stress and not negative. (To name a few: Regular physical exercise and sports, career and hobby goals, learning new skills, taking care of the home and environment). Workouts are especially important; to endure pain in the gym does great benefits to your body as well as your mind. “If a man can find meaning in a concentration camp - where he has been imprisoned for no wrongdoing of his own. Where there is no end in sight - then we can find meaning in our daily lives where we think none exists” Dont let depression kick your ass and dont use depression as an excuse not to live. Get after it

LJBlanchard 94 very true, im happy im rid of it

Iskaka good for you mate!

Have you tried sleep meditations? Search for Miachael Sealey or Jason Stephenson here on KZfaq. Their videos may help in some way. I know they help me when my mind doesn't let me sleep 🌻

*SIMP*

Right back to you

Some people do make it up though

Damn, your life is like a wattpad story (•-•

Your mum doesn't deserve you. Work your way out and start taking care of yourself. We cannot bear losers and toxic even if are the so called parents

Guess be my friend?

@@mashob1616 Thank you! Same to you! It's weird not being able to walk anymore.

I wish I had the right answer to help you but I don't.. All I can say is I wish you would choose to stay cause I'm sure there's something important you're supposed to do in this world, a way to leave your mark, a big lesson to learn and maybe even pass down... I would hate if the world missed out on YOU.

Something that helps me (because I also have anxiety and depression) is finding something that I like to do and getting lost in it for a while (music, art, sports, etc), and if you don't want to talk to someone but still want to get your thoughts out there, journaling or drawing are great ways, and they relieve some stress for me

Feel free to message me anytime. I won't start proposing "solutions" or try to find an "explanation" - I'm here to listen.

Farren L. Sucide is NEVER the answer and will never ever be. This choice is of course completely up to you. But I ask if you to reconsider, why would you want to kill urself to end temporary problems, hurt the ppl that love and care for you. Someone out there will be there for you until the right end time. Like me or someone else ( relative, someone on the internet ) please never give up. I hate to see ppl becoming figures ( sucude number ) because it means we lose people we don't know that are linked into our lives. That would have served some purpose For the world. And I want tohelp others who are suffering because I've been in the sane place, I still face challenges in my life . I song want them here with me . JUST because I need them to make me stronger, change me into a better individual. Please don't give up advice and don't forget if you can't call someone theme is always a chance to make ur own change, write your thoughts down on paper and try to talk to your parents .

did you find other answer? because I think we are on the same boat...

Katherine M. There is God who can save and help you. Read the Holy Quran and you will find what's you look for it.

+Abdelilah Boudi I don't believe in God so I'm not really sure that would work

Katherine M. It's why you have depression and anxiety. because you feel you are alone and no one is here for help. I know it's difficult but what you will lose ? You must try this option :)

+Abdelilah Boudi I don't want religion. There is no religion in this world I agree with. I believe in facts and in equality, not some guy in the sky who will solve all of my problems and cure me of my mental illnesses. I know a lot of religious people who struggle even more than I do.

+Abdelilah Boudi I'm not saying you shouldn't believe though. Believing and having faith is powerful. I just choose not to do it.

well thats on your parents not you, any parent who says that to their child doesnt deserve to be a parent

What people forget is that life has never been easier. The majority of people nowadays will tell you life is extremely difficult for youth today, but what they forget is that humans have never had more ease. If you compare life today to life a thousand years ago the difference would be colossal. Today we dont have to hunt for food, we dont have to live in caves for shelter, we dont have to suffer from extremes of temperature, were less likely to die from illnesses, we dont have to travel for months in horse and carriage. Life is extremely easy and yet suicides are on the rise. Why? What humans excel at is struggling. We are extraordinary at dealing with pressure and hardship, you only have to take one look at history to know thats true. I say to anyone who is suffering from depression (especially long term depression) and a lack of purpose, the best thing to do is to do more. Get involved in a worthy struggle. Take on more responsibility and shoulder more stress, just make sure that its positive stress and not negative. (To name a few: Regular physical exercise and sports, career and hobby goals, learning new skills, taking care of the home and environment). Workouts are especially important; to endure pain in the gym does great benefits to your body as well as your mind. “If a man can find meaning in a concentration camp - where he has been imprisoned for no wrongdoing of his own. Where there is no end in sight - then we can find meaning in our daily lives where we think none exists” Dont let depression kick your ass and dont use depression as an excuse not to live. Get after it

What we think is what we become, you might find this upcoming book interesting kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l56BeK2ju73Jpp8.html

human being none of us can

are you okay

Hang in their fam

me too, and I'm also gay. Just like Miller ...

Probably. Hope to see your work sometime. ^-^

When my voice teacher got divorced, she couldn't sing for a year. But she is one of the most talented, successful musicians that I know, and I am constantly amazed at her talent. It will get better. You have a talent to inspire. My mother is a portrait artist, and I know thee difference you can make to the world, to people's lives... Don't be afraid. You will get better, and the pain you've gone through will make you a better artist, able to touch more people. You'll see.

Urbex Shauny my godd same I haven't drawn anything in nearly 2 years now

FilmOwe Maybe that's why there's art therapy. It improves someones (mental) state by making them create art

yet I suck ass at drawing :/ nice

Cerina Shippey You are not alone in this feeling.

I agree.

OMG YOU'RE AN INFJ! I'm an ENFP. My girlfriend is an INFJ too. I love them.

Few people like INFJ/P's

That's not true.

Look up Noah Elkrief on KZfaq. Just search Noah Elkrief depression. Stay Strong bud 💪.

The thought of I am not a good person as society treats me like shit is the most crippling thought ever.

ChamboGambo theres another me out there😢 just hang in there

Hang in there.

Su no offence but I wouldn’t be saying hang in there.

ChamboGambo The only solution for this is Islam You have to trust me because The person who's giving the advice doesn't have such thing in his life.

Be my friend

@@mkmllrc Gladly would, but I'm guessing you don't live anywhere near Finland, do you? Sure, online friends are nice, but real life friends I'm in short supply of :S

@@sarcasm-83 That's why I always find it painful to read comment sections under mental ilnesses-related videos. So many people I would love to listen to, to just be there for them. But we are separated with thousands of kilometers, and online chats are honestly killing me now with corona going around. It's getting harder to handle these textboxes; yes, there are people behind them, but I want to see real people, whom I can hear, whom I can see, whom I can hug... Hang in there, I wish you the best from the bottom of my heart, buddy 🙌

@@AHeroWith1000Names Thanks! Yeah I know what you mean. It's tricky making friends "out there", especially in adulthood it seems. All the best to you too :)

Be confident. Fuck what everybody else thinks. One day you will find someone that will love you for who you are. For what it's worth, if you really care about your family's opinion, then use those feelings to fuel your success.

What we think is what we become, you might find this upcoming book interesting kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l56BeK2ju73Jpp8.html

Yay for depressed nerds with anxiety! (Although this sounds incredibly sarcastic, it's not meant to be)

That's me

*SIMP*

I hate those 13 year old girls whih are my friend that say: OMG! IM SO SAD! MUST BE MY DREPRESSION. Faking a mental illness is not "cute"

I know why everyone always brings up 13 and 14 year old girls who listen to x and Billie Eilish, but what about the girls who are actually diagnosed? I’m over here listening to anime osts and game soundtracks to make myself feel better ,_, It kind of makes me feel stupid when I see people say that because I’m that age, but I hope they don’t think everyone that age is like that. Some people just mature way faster than others.

@@whimsicalbunni Well not to offend you, but ussualy at age 14 there isn't allot of reason to be depressed, maybe if you lost Both you parents. But LIFE at 14 is ussualy good

@@bve7397 You never know what goes on behind the scenes. Anything can happen at pretty much ANY age. Also, just because parents are together doesn't mean everything in their life is great. Sometimes when both of the parents are together it's worse than if they were divorced. Fighting, violence, threats, etc can happen and it affects the whole family. There are also things like not having a lot of money, bullies, anxiety, death, and other legitimate mental health problems that can affect daily life.

@@bve7397 Well I don't have parents anymore.. they're in the other side😔 Of MacDonalds they think it's okay to order into one restaurant and then deliver the order into the other one just because it's the same branch.

Maybe burn out but yes it could be depression

That’s called depression.. Depression isn’t necessarily just sadness or worthlessness. It’s that feeling when you wake up and the first thing you want to do is turn back over and sleep. The motivation to do things is gone.. Like, your energy has been drained and you’re tired. Not physically tired but ya know mentally exhausted. Life can get overwhelming and just talking it out with someone that will listen can do wonders. I recommend seeing a professional cuz they’re usually bias in opinion.. But if that isn’t what you wanna do, than try talking to someone you can trust. Open up to anyone.. Please. It’s better to let it out instead of keeping it bottled up

I think you might be burnout. But not only in job, in whole life. So it may be beginning of depression.

Welcome to the club

Same here, what I’ve learnt is that even if other’s seem to struggle with things I don’t see as too important I’ll respect those struggles anyway, coz for them it’s real.

What people forget is that life has never been easier. The majority of people nowadays will tell you life is extremely difficult for youth today, but what they forget is that humans have never had more ease. If you compare life today to life a thousand years ago the difference would be colossal. Today we dont have to hunt for food, we dont have to live in caves for shelter, we dont have to suffer from extremes of temperature, were less likely to die from illnesses, we dont have to travel for months in horse and carriage. Life is extremely easy and yet suicides are on the rise. Why? What humans excel at is struggling. We are extraordinary at dealing with pressure and hardship, you only have to take one look at history to know thats true. I say to anyone who is suffering from depression (especially long term depression) and a lack of purpose, the best thing to do is to do more. Get involved in a worthy struggle. Take on more responsibility and shoulder more stress, just make sure that its positive stress and not negative. (To name a few: Regular physical exercise and sports, career and hobby goals, learning new skills, taking care of the home and environment). Workouts are especially important; to endure pain in the gym does great benefits to your body as well as your mind. “If a man can find meaning in a concentration camp - where he has been imprisoned for no wrongdoing of his own. Where there is no end in sight - then we can find meaning in our daily lives where we think none exists” Dont let depression kick your ass and dont use depression as an excuse not to live. Get after it