This happened to me in the last relationship, in the behgining he valued it a lot but later on he started to take it for granted (this started when i put some limits), the one thing he didn't know was that i was emotionally strong enough to leave him, i did it 👯‍♀️

Yes, I loved him unconditionally for 12 years, the more love I gave him the more he played me and took me for granted. I’ve been single for five years now, I have learned to love Myself, so much so that I could never again be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t love me the way I love me. I’m glad I stumbled upon your channel I wish more Men thought like you😊

YES! You are talking to ME. Everything Derrick is saying is true. Twice, gave all my LOVE & LOYALTY and both husbands took me for granted. I am the one that left both times and both of them regretted it. NEVER underestimate A WOMAN!

I went through that. I gave 100 % but it wasn't enough and it came to the point where my heart got harden

Loyalty is a killer in some instances. Thanks alot.👍🙏🙏🙏🙏

Hey, you're correct, so I'm put it in the chat He took my kindness, generousity, and loyalty for granted. I walked 🚶‍♀️ away He has been crying 😢 😭 For yearsssssss He's still crying to get back NEVERRRRR NEVERRRRR NEVERRRRR. And you know what's laughable? I don't have a pinch of coffee drop feeling for him. Now... that experience made me a wiser person about my love, and protect my good energy and my love ❤️ I'm pouring it all into myself ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊 HA! LOVE ME SOME ME 😊

I loved and was loyal...after 40 years with no reciprocity...I had to walk away 😢

We still listening to him?? …

The. Most beautiful thing is self love on both parties and reciprating to each other. On the same wave of love and can communicate their emotions. Emotional, Caring and Loving with Understanding upon Respect.. LOYALTY IS POWER

I left a 14 year marriage 3 1/2 years ago. I've known him for 17 years. I think God for my mental strength Amen.

Everything you said is true… God Bless you brother… keep encouraging women like myself.

Yes I am currently going through this after 17 years. 17 years I've waited and now he wants say he loves me now that I've given up.

Thank you for sharing this honest wisdom. Oh, to have been raised with this understanding but now I can look back at my younger self with this understanding and see things so clearly and with forgiveness for my younger self. Also to see the now and future having this understanding is exciting. Thanks again for sharing this,sir. May the loyal women out there hear this and grow from it.😃👍

The real love I received is myself loving again with the love of God that showed me that I'm better than what he thought

I was taken for granted, and I can't understand why he couldn't see what was in front of him.

You are always 100% right! How do you know all this? You are amazing. Thank you for being you & sharing this important truth. Men are valuable to real women & we need all men to know this so we can look up to men & love you as the leader you are created to be. Yes, we want to be loyal so please hear all these messages so we can be there with you. Exactly how God intended. ❤

Peace love and light to all!💚

Yup I was loyal and he ghosted, now he wants to comeback, it's a no for me.

I’ve been there twice and sadly am there again. I’m numb. And I loved him. All I wanted was the absolute best for him and I pushed him to be his best for him. I wanted everything for him that he wanted, supported him, loyal, listened, really listened, I’d have been there if he lost it all… I was there for anything … and he’s taken me for granted so badly I’m just numb now

Here!....Here!.....!!!!!on point!!!

That was me at one point I gave all I could then after I left u wanted to act right I still never took him back

I derrick, I just married someone like that,and on the edge of leaving

Very true. I've been single for 11yrs and have a very low tolerance for bs. I luv my peace.

This spoke volumes you hit every note that needed to be spoken you’ve earned a follower will be tuning in more often I need this ❤

Bc he was my first luv as teenager when we got older we have a relationship it's going on 22yrs all of a sudden he turn on me I gave him my all that was my down fall

Compatibility and respsct for one another for it to be poowerful.. With the same beliefs, won't be no stopping them

James 4:17 - Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.

I was taken for granted I was there for him 100 %But I got tried of not being good enough So I decided to walk away I learned how to love myself I'm to old to be playing games ❤

Yes yes , omg yup by time that person came around it was too late and it was aggravating me I left never looked back 💯

True brother, you are not trapping. I m from Africa

Yes the more I gave the more he took me for granted insane treatment for a good woman as I am, but Some can't see your value

I earned the courage to walk away without looking back or call

Taking a woman's love for granted is a big mistake. Men stop it.

Yes, told me that I tried.....was never enough

Did you happen to go to rehab?

You’re so correct about all of it!!! I hope in the end No, I know in the end it will be his loss. I’m a damn good woman. It’s time to take my power back. I hear 2024 is the year for it. Thank you. I also have grown in my faith in Jesus God, I pray. Amen 🙏

"GAURD YOUR HEART WITH ALL DELIGENCE for OUT of IT ❤️ Is ThevIssues of LIFE. Ladies Hold the key🔑 to your Heart❤️ . Choose Wisely who you Open up To.

Almost 54. Most definitely don't have time for any nonsense. 💯

Yes! Had to finally walk away

Always on point ..useful lessons..❤

Yes and it’s heart breaking because everything was going great.

I. Yes, he came around after I decided that I was done.

I loved him unconditionally!😢

I hear you keep telling the truth

Yes, I was just there and I ended checked out because, I'm worth more!

You so right DJ

So very true brother of mine wow your messages are super amazing content please keep up with the good work bless ya bro❤

I did. I left him. He went to someone that was lower class

The glasses look nice bro ✋🏽

Yes! The ship has sailed!

Mr. Derrick you are telling the truth I'm a loyal woman I was in a relationship for 7 years and he did not know how good he had it until he messed up a lot I left him and moved on

This exactly happened!

Great topic

No your not tripping on and yes the more i did they took me for granted when i left they always wanted me back

Yo bro how did you know my business??? You're on point 👏👏👏👏

I'd like access.... I'm 56 and feel like I'm tired of the BS

Yes Derrick he took me for granted 😢

Yes.... Both.. Real unselfish not needing love.. Like a fully accepted love.. Its one unmatchable.. but on the other if given to person who hasnt built that same ... And given to the one who act like they ready.. Then when it gets withdrawaled then it potentially does damage.. that person takes it out on themself.. or the memory becomes a permanent reminder.. That can make them obsessive And break their life from inside out.. From observer view it reminds ppl why discipline is emphasized in life overall.. And why relations are sacred.. It is a real no bullshit energy.. And brings back yourself to yourself.. of feeling the effects of your actions and actions that become loose It has the power to make or break.. And can very well also be seen as cursed or blessing.. 🙏 Edit: Wait..im talking about unconditional love which is respect to self.. loyalty is just a after effect to this So loyalty.. can be unhealthy.. That looks like loyalty.. acts like loyalty.. breaths like loyalty But is not genuine loyalty Thats a different level..

Useful content👍Thank you🙏

Your talking what’s happening in my life. Ty sm for your insight it helps and hurts

Gave it my all!🙏🏽❤️

Yesss. Some Men may have an "After Thought" light bulb Moment.... That He Finally GETS IT! SHE WAS THE ONE TRUE👍 GROWN AAA'SS MATURE WOMAN FEMALE FEMININE GOD GIVEN MATE. HELP MEET

You are right!

True only a couple to really connect with

Yup! You definitely correct

Indeed the more I gave the more he took!!!

All facts that’s what happened in my last relationship

Thank you for this video. It deeply speaks to me on what I am currently going through.

Thank you I need this message

Had to walk away after 25 yrs.

Yes, then I left.he was in disbelief.

Amen ,I've been in situations like that.

I did.

Thank you for this ... Bravo 👏 👏 👏

Amen amen and amen!

I... 1000% 1st one. Turn new leaf tooo late.

Loving the Glasses on you D also you been bringing it. Nothing but FACTS sir🤞🏾💯

Shalom Internet Brotha 💎

On Point 💜

Only takes intelligence for anyone to even have the capacity to understand this(your words)That God may bless you 🙏

Yep been there done but I bet I won't do it again

That's my investment and I'm still growing and feeding my brains and body as well as spirit.. I chose me

Absolutely

I’m going through this right now 😢

❤Thanks , and❤ Shalom❤❤.

Hi Mr. Jackson I DONE!!

100% true and im ready to leave and I never thought I would leave him but I cant take no more!!!!!!!!

IM THIS POWER AND ITS TRULY EXHAUSTING

Yes! This gas happened on several occasions. Thank you

What do we need to do DIFFERENTLY?!?!

Your right he left

YES YOUR RIGHT. I

I... True. You're not trippin Derrick. I seriously doubt this male (whom I left) will ever realize what he lost in me. There is no remnant that bridge ever existed😊

We are the multipliers

He walked away and married someone else…

Well said n straight up to the point. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Can't love anyone. Absolutely true, what your saying but it all depends on the participants this rule doesn't apply to everyone

Right on 👍

Yes!

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