Any time you feel uncomfortable leave dont stay go some place safe

This man was a bully at a minimum, maybe worse. I’ve had an experience of a man running towards me in a mall parking lot, screaming at me because i took longer than i wanted to park. He was a very big guy and i was very afraid he was going to attack me. It is such a terrifying experience for women to be confronted like this by men they don’t know, in situations they are vulnerable. Years later i met this man in a mediation community. Laughable i know, but I learned he has a bad temper and over reacts when things don’t go as he’d prefer. What he did to me that day in the mall was the single most frightening experience I’d had in my life to that point and really impacted me tremendously. He was just having a bad day and did that much damage. Any men reading this should really take to hear that this is extremely abusive and very damaging.

Never ignore your instincts if they say leave then leave..write the vehicle and person description on paper and licence plate if possible and put in your glove box...just in case...

Girl you are not being dramatic. That was an experience and I am so sorry that guy did that. No the bunnies! I would have cried too!

Glad you're safe! I was always taught that the best protection is to avoid bad situations all together. Sounds like to made the right decision to get out.

Wow! This is a scary moment! Glad that you decided to leave and follow your instincts! Your fur baby is beautiful! Stay safe!

It's good to inform us all about your experiences, we all need to be vigilant. I am glad you're safe and well. Happy New Year to you and your family.

We care. We tune in weekly for YOU. This is your channel and we're here because it brings us joy inspiration and entertainment to watch you!! Never forget that! Hope you're safe, happy new year!

That's a really good advice. just because you think that you're well protected, it doesn't mean you have to stay on a potential dangerous situations 👌 avoid if you can.

In my next life I am going to have the guts to visit the entire country in a van or camper. I played it safe all my life and have no good memories, I so admire your bravery and strength to do all these before you get too old to do it. Be safe and be well.

If you're by yourself most of the time..... think about how you can protect yourself.... there are a lot of terrible people in this world. Stay safe and keep going!

Sad to say there are jerks like that on the road it just proves he's not a man ,men don't shout at females glad your safe and keep the bazooka hidden love from wales 🇬🇧..

2023 welcomes you Madilynn... may the new year bring you more exciting and wonderous places to seek and explore. Hopefully, you won't get any more visitors in the night that will weird you out and traumatize you. I'm not worried about you though after that happened because I know you're smart enough to remove yourself from a potential bad situation. I'm gonna say that it was someone who had a little too much to drink and thought it would be fun to try and scare you. I know you'll protect yourself and Athena. I would hate to see a favorite solo female van lifer of mine give up traveling over a drunks stupid hollering. May your travels in the new year be amazing and anxiety free. 💕🐺

Right now, I am in L.A., visiting my elderly mother. I'm in the valley, where I grew up, sadly, and I am in my little homemade camper on my Tacoma. I'm a experienced gypsy but it has been a while. It is devastating to see how bad it is here with so much homelessness. And it is not as bad as Sacramento, which I went through a couple days ago. It's a pressure cooker out there. So, I'm driving around looking for a spot last night, because I don't want to stay at my moms house, and it is hard but I had no problem parking, but I am good at it. So, choosing a spot is a skill. If you have to move sometimes that is normal. Get there late and leave early. There is a big difference between travelers and squatters. Property owners are severely under pressure. It just sucks.

Better safe than sorry. Happy New Year to you and Athena!

I think, leaving was the best decision you made. Some people are just too strange! Always make sure there is a way out!

It’s all good girl you did the right thing anytime you feel uncomfortable on where you’re at you need to leave you did the smart thing never know what peoples intentions are be safe out there we all are here for each other. Feel free to reach out Anytime we’re here for you

I’m glad you are safe (I know this was months ago, but still).

You did the right thing by getting out of there, some people are just stupid and can't leave someone alone, good job on trusting your gut and knowing when it's time to go and get away from a potentially bad situation, I enjoy your channel keep up the good work and be safe out there my friend.

So Glad you are safe!

More than enough red flags to leave that situation. Don't second guess yourself 💛

You’re doing a really good job. Don’t let things or people get to you. It’s a tough world out here. I’m very proud of you on what you’re accomplishing. If you ever feel unsafe it’s always good to move. Keep yourself safe always know your surroundings. I love you had a couple tough weeks. We are all here for you. If you ever passing through Vegas definitely stop bye get you some groceries for the road my treat Van life forever, the traveling Ferret.

Happy New Year Madilynn, enjoy each and every one of your videos no matter what. Better safe than sorry.

You are so brave! Happy Travels.

I'm so sorry that you have to go through that. Sending you good energy and good vibes your way I'm sorry to hear about the bunnies people need to learn how to slow down and respect other living things. If it's an accident that's one thing, but if you can avoid not hurting other living things, just really sad to see that. Don't want to turn this into a big ramble. Thank you for the beauty they put into this world of these videos. I'm happy that you are safe and okay. All the best to you and yours. Hope you have a great week. Take care 😊

He was probably a local that gets off scaring people and doesn’t want campers in “his area”. Oh the poor bunnies. I’m sad when a bug or butterfly hits my windshield. I hit a bunny once and I sobbed. I just prayed that it died immediately.

Dude what is wrong w people 🤦‍♀️ (specially men..) I’m glad you felt secure enough in yourself but the fact that he thought you *were* scared and took advantage of that is insane! Men know that they’re scary and then wonder why we have so many safety precautions.. glad you’re safe though and I’m glad that didn’t hold you back !

If someone is acting bizarre they probably are capable of becoming g a nemesis to you and causing you harm. Before you park for the night search for an alternative location just in case you have to relocate. You can always go to a police station and ask to park for the remainder of the night. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

Happy new year 2023

There's still a small handful of us that care :) Your poems are beautiful

Don’t put yourself in danger. Just leave.

I love your vanlife videos so much!

That would of scared me too..dang.,..sometimes sleeping at same random place s few nights, the actually hearing the same vehicle , if you can recognize it or see is way too strange, at least here some rest areas, of most is just tourists blowing thru, ofr car / van from nite before...however being is a strange place changes all that...glad your good, don't quit this van thing yet 😄💚

You just popped up on my youtube feed. I do solo van life although I'm currently living in a tiny bungalow for health reasons. We do need to be wary when we are out and about alone. I doubt I will ever have to use them but I sleep with my axe and camping knife close to hand.

I'm really glad to hear that you have 'items' that you can use to defend yourself. Most people are afraid of said items. But it's good to know you are safe.

Thanks for sharing that!

Wow, yeesk, so sorry. Sounds horrifying. Stay safe.

Prayers for safety !! May God Bless !!

Wise and Smart to get away quickly !!!💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻

Always...listen to your very FIRST INSTINCT. Leave right then!

Always follow your gut instinct.If it says leave then leave.Good job.Had to laugh about the tire froze to the ground though. Happy New Year!!

I've had a horrible start to my year so I'm just now getting around to watch some of my favorite creators videos... with that being said I don't think you were being over dramatic at all. The world is just as crazy as it is beautiful. In that situation you were right to worry and be protective of yourself and your furbaby. Stay safe and stay free.

Man that is scary fr I mean you live the ultimate free life something I always wanted to do hopefully sometime in my life I will be able to van life off grid

It was a fantastic story Stay Safe ! ❤😊

Thank you for the time stamp. Also you just never know who that man was. I’m so glad you got away from him . Pretty scary.

We miss you, come back soon, hope all is well with you!

Glad you are safe. I just stumbled across your video by accident. Glad I watched though you are an extremely brave young lady! I was terrified, just listening lol I shall check out some more of your videos :-)

I'm new here and i am hooked on your vlogs stay safe I'm binge watching your vudeos ❤

In my long kid life of opening gates for the adults driving, that “fence” looked like a gate to me😮

Please be careful! Always watch your surroundings, trust your gut, and please have something in several places in your van for protection.

Bob Dylan’s writing style is like yours. This song brings tears to my eyes because I’ve lived the life. Stay in touch with me, such a darlin young one. Because a hard rain , is about to fall. GT. It’s judgement day. Breath deep and be strong.

Very sorry, crazed truck drives use scare tactics. You did the right thing.💙🍒

Your story sounds like the guy was a local who was sick of "free-loaders" parking up in what they consider their territory. This actually is an unfortunate side of "van life", there are some locals that are really opposed to free campers, especially now we're in a homelessness crisis and people are living and camping in vehicles out of necessity. I wouldn't do this in the U.S. since the general public are allowed to carry firearms and I think the risk to van dwellers is increased because of that, but I'm from Australia and went around 0z in a van about 6 years ago, I stopped at a "free camp" just outside a small country town that was actually an old sports complex. No one around I thought because all I could see was bushland but I heard male voices and eventually figured out there was some houses behind the tree-line on the hill overlooking the grounds. Didn't think much of it just got into my van doing my own thing, I was relaxing watching a movie about 8pm and had 1 earphone in on low so I could still hear anything outside. At one point thought I heard walking around my van buts sat and listened and it was quiet, then I heard a car slowly driving around and still didn't worry and it left but then about an hour later heard what sounded like a thunder clap and immediately thought it was weird since no rain, got up to look out my pop top window sleeve and heard males laughing and a Ute slowly driving out toward the road, I jumped out the back before they got to the road and yelled out an expletive (this was a point in my life I didn't actually care about my personal safety) and realised they must have a licence for hunting as do a lot of country folk, so it was a gunshot I heard but instinctively knew they were just locals who wanted to scare me outta there. I paid no attention and went to sleep. They didn't come back again but would I do the same if I were in the U.S.? Maybe, maybe not. As for the bunnies, plenty of kangaroos get hit by cars on the highway here, especially during droughts where they come to find grass at the roadside. It sounds like you're a sensitive person. Nothing wrong with that but life on the road is not for the faint-hearted, it will either toughen you up or break you down.

Ive had similar situations in the day time when im parked walking my dogs 🐕 the place could be quit and then a truck will come dow the road and parks right up close .i ignored him him finished the walk and drove away .....areshole .you did exactly the right thing and always always listen to your gut feelings .😂.i must say parking in a secure area is the best you can do but alwsys keep vigilant abd report to the cops 👮‍♀️ 😉 👍 ❤

I wish I would be born into this life as your Guardian Angel as you are an angel. Like you, I've traveled and lived in my (in my case) car. I drove across Europe. My car was all I had when I arrived in Jordan. My friend from University came to pick me up and he didn't let me down :) It was the start of my life's career :) Peace and Love ! We LOVE YOU !!!! :)

Those are not terrible ideas they are ways of trying to solve your problem with the frozen tire,,,don’t be so hard on yourself ,,,,😊🎉

City camping is all about timing, you kind of just got up figure out what time different people do different things and try just to be out of the way quiet into yourself. Always remember that you have a right to be in the city you are a person you are a citizen there's no reason why you should feel less than because you're rolling around in your van. Freedom of Choice you chose to do this so therefore there's no reason why you should not be free.

That person sounds unstable I’m glad you left .

Frozen waterbottles inside my van this morning. Friday Harbor wa. GT. I had enough layers though. You might consider RUMBLE Julie green. Green

Shit like what you went through, isnt needed. I feel for you, and now I wanna help..... If you every need a plsce to crash in southern Wisconsin, My driveway is open to you... NOT my house, cause its always a mess, but Yes my driveway is yours. My two kitties and my dog will be added security for you.... LoL I understand trust is an issue for you lets communicate. I will answer all and any question you might have, so ask away....You also seem to have a soft spot in your heart for animals.... So are you out to save every animal? I do know a few people that think they can save every animal, but they are failing at their mission... Next, Do not worry about what others think hun, the only person that matters is you. Please keep that to yourself and believe it :).... Im a far cry from perfect, and I do have flaws, but I can be a friend

What?? Glad to see a new post. Now I’ll watch it. Your tire?? Oh so your home. I think. Not really good van life unless your in Quartzite. So be safe. Song suggestion for you to learn. Bob Dylan. Vagabond song. “A hard rain is gonna fall” original version. Easy cords. GT Friday harbor

When I hear vehicles driving around and stopping and going like that near campsites at night I leave asap. People like that are never up to any good.

I don't know but all these van life people are coming up with these scary event.

always trust your instinct in those scenarios, my friend. even if you feel like you overreacted after the fact, the risk of being right is too big. plus, fuck that prick. I'm sorry you had to experience it. sidenote: for a second, I legit thought you were gonna use that lighter to warm the tire rubber 😂 Anyway, stay safe and badass!

This is why I offer to people (depending on who- I have to be safe too) but if it's someone that I don't feel is any threat I offer them my driveway or my yard (it's legal we own. I can put an RV or Camper in my yard. Bc of how my driveway is it's not a problem anyway- I've offered it. To a few people and I feel like they think maybe me and my husband are like trying lure them. lol (not funny. But so not us. We've faced homelessness, so we just try to do what we can for people in "alternative living situations" we even offered shower etc. expecting nothing, simply trying to be helpful. Oh definitely not yelling at someone!!!! Anyhow! I guess being diligent on both parties ends is smart. So I'd now prefer someone do any kind of background check and that way they'd be more secure. We have camera up- with subscription so it's saved. We only want to help when we can like I said. And wouldn't ever chase someone away unless they're like breaking bad in front of my house- I draw the line there- and dead animals - yeah I'd by hypersensitive to that. It would be traumatizing for me. I've seen things from a distance and I'm old enough to be your mom probably but I don't care i cover my eyes and yell. And my husband tells me when we past it!!!! Anyhow yeah- we have space. Someone can come and go as they please. Think of it as your spot while there. If it can help anyone then that's all I'm trying to. Same reason I give the same guy who stands on this one corner on my way to the docs every time I go. He's there and I give him 2 bucks. Everyone's up against it one way or another. Stay safe.

Was he talking to the other person in the truck or was this directed to you? You said another truck came in

didn't think you could get that frozen tire off the ground but you didn't give up! you certain the dog didn't loosen the tire first? 🤣 i say that jokingly of course

I'm glad you're safe.... but off topic. You shouldn't run your card as debit. Always tell it credit. And don't use your pin. Sometimes it'll put a hold of up to $75 om your card for a few days using it as debit st the pump. 😊

In oz if we see an animal suffering we dispatch it in the most humane way possible!??

we care because this is real life so post away! trust your gut in bad situations

Intuition 👍

Oh you dogs name is Athena!?!...Goddess of war :O. I named my girl Lilith after the first woman :) Stay Safe plz! BTW love the black nails...

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Be more careful, no joke.🤔

Should’ve shouted back with a .357 !

All solo Van life Ladies need to imbrace the 2nd Amedment

Some truck drivers are all hopped up on pills, you should take the rego and report the incident to police, that clown is looking for easy victims and you could have had him removed from the equation. This behavior is drug based. What you described sounds very dangerous.

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Youneed to be able to protect yourself yes i mean a firearm lern how to use it take classes

Why do these girls travel all alone, there is crazy and dangerous people in the world, don’t understand this

GET A GUN, learn to use it well and I PROMISE you will be safe for the rest of your life. No 911 needed and better response time. Be your own COP and Save your SELF.

wtf

Nothin wrong with fresh roadkill.

Why wasn't your dog barking his head off , that would be a definite detourant.

You’re too hard on yourself. I think you made great videos! Excited to see more, see ya on the road maybe! I just had my own weird experience with a man at night. The weirdos come in the middle of the night. 🫠 stay safe!