Yeah it's the same with my mom and my grandma she borrowed money from my mom and won't give it back then she asks for more money mom says no my grandma gets a check for both of my uncles she should have enough money

Treeman can you reply me??? Please???

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ماذا سيفعل الناس Not ماذا سيفعلون.

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the actual meaning in chinese is "i take care of you" like financially and living kind. really nice people :)

I am in this position. I am out of home and in an abusive relationship. My partner is the father of my child and doesn't want to leave the house. Police can't help much because the abuse is physical and emotional, but there are not big enough scars that they can help me. The most they can do is put him out of the house for 4 days. If i report him he will kill me as soon as he comes back. I wanted to go back to my country and ask my family for help. They don't want me back and they say if i come back they will not open the door for me. As long as I stay here he has rights to see my son without my supervision, and i am afraid he would kidnap the boy from me. And my own mother tells me to stay put and only report "when enough evidence is there" meaning when I am bruised and battered another that it is obvious be is dangerous. Best is if i am so hurt i go to the hospital in an ambulance. And this is coming from my own mom. Lovely isn't it?

@@irenerandazzo4206 sei italiana? Comunque midispiace per la tua situazione

@@irenerandazzo4206 I hope you find a way to leave him and stay somewhere safe... do you have any friends who would be willing to help? Are there any shelters for women and kids in your area? Is there a way to document what he does like record him as evidence? Stay strong 💪

@@user-tq9vs6fc9u i do not have friends. I am not allowed to. The pattern is this, i meet someone that could be a friend, as soon as he finds out he questions me about them, he forces me to bring him along on an outing with the person and then when we arrive home he always finds a flaw in this new friend that makes them unacceptable as friends for me and forces me to block them, cancel their numbers and never contact them again. Do i am alone here, doing chores and taking care of our 2 year old boy all day, trying to make everything so perfect that he doesn't find anything to be angry about. It rarely works. Yesterday i told him to wear a heavier jacket to go to work because it is really cold and i don't want him to get sick. He told me that it is not my problem, that i have to stop trying to control him and slapped me across the face. There are women shelters in the area, but they only take who can prove to be abused and the physical abuse is not so evident because he never leaves more then a few marks or bruises that could be caused by falling or something else. The emotional abuse and threatening are the worse. He bought a bottle of bleach to "wash his white shoes" he threatens me that he will spill it only eyes or force me to drink it. He says if i ever call the police as soon as he comes back home (the police cannot keep him out the house for more then 4 days) he will kill me, or maybe kill me before the police arrives even. He says if i ever manage to get out he will fight for visitation and kidnap my child as soon as they are alone and i will never see him again. He threatens the most horrible things and i believe he is capable of it. I know he is. His ex wife advised me that he sent her to the hospital 3 times and tried to choke her once, i didn't believe her. He said it wasn't true and at the time he seemed like the most perfect human being I had ever encountered. I just figured she was salty because he had a new relationship and she wanted him back, because he was so handsome and sweet. I loved him to pieces. He saved me from another abusive relationship and swore to protect me for the rest of my life. He proposed after 4 days together, married me after 4 months,and got me pregnant after a year. He got his green card and started slowly changing. He suffers from psychotic breaks and that is another problem that makes him even more dangerous. No one can help me. I just hope he gives me such a bad beating that i can be brought to the hospital in an ambulance so the police will have to arrest him and keep him away from me, and who knows? Maybe he can loose his stay permit and get deported because the family he got approved to stay for is the same family he is mistreating.

That woman straight up adopted her there and then xD

@@perrenchan6600 honestly 😂

That woman was awesome 👏🏼

that’s how u say: im an asian/chinese mom without actually sayin im an asian/chinese mom!!!

@@haorangong3942 my mum says this too but she is joking (I guess)

i heard there is a culture in china which is when you make money you have to give money to your family from a friend but im not sure thats true

​@@Nisa-xk9zb i think its Asian thing or culture? well I am Asian too and i think most of the time our parents still think that we were small kids and when you try to question what they do then they will tell you its parental love or something my parents used to think i need to live close to them, they will manage my salary, stuff like helicopter parenting then they noticed that i dont look happy with it and they let me do what i want altho i would say its rather late, I got scholarship once but its far away from my home then they said no so yeah now i look like troll that has a job to make sure my parents smiling every single time

@@haorangong3942 i think maybe your mom just want you to learn to use that money for just buy something important. And she just save it for your future (like married) and will give it back to you

@@aQ-ud8pu our asian mother love say that even though I'm a boy

Yes man I respect it

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ahjumma is korean. this is a chinese video

@@joannezhao9513 I know. I'm part Korean, so that's the language I use. Are there instructions I need to use Chinese on a Chinese video?

@@joannezhao9513 lol as long as we using the correct word does it really matter? I also can say this obasan ready to adopt bla bla bla

@@katherinele273 my bad, i thought you thought the people in the vid were korean

You can call her Auntie, it's what we usually call older women in chinese.

加油

@@user-ve3oj9km7u 谢谢。你是个热心肠的人。

@@tkfrhtlvdjwuTdmaus (・ω

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Aw 😞 ❤️

Me too😖 bring me with you if you can go back!😆

They are probably guilty of the same situation. This is far too common that chinese dramas are portraying this to educate the public. Sadly, people who are guilty of it laugh it off but don't see themselves as the problem.

honestly I don‘t think I‘d step up either 🤔 I‘m already socially anxious and I would probably hesitate a lot but at the end I wouldn‘t say anything cause I don‘t think it‘s my place to tell the mother off if the opportunity arises I‘ll give some advice to the daughter

That will change the whole meaning of experiment

I'm very sorry you had to experience such a horrible thing. Are you doing okay now? Are you well?

@@zodiac4668 yes I am fine now thanks!

@@user-tq9vs6fc9u That's good to hear :D

yea men should be equally treated too like my point is boy in the family is not always the one buying stuff for every one i just think every on should be equal and independant ( :

@sha bi No problem! You stay safe aswell

Thank you. Now I understand :D

Wow so many armies here..

@@user-wj1op2gz9c yes dr cause we are armies 🤭💜💜

LMFAO bro what did u smoke? Also u havent seen my sister bruh

お父さんは娘 お母さんは息子って感じだからね

@@user-ll1se3fh5z たしかにそう言いますよね！うちはお父さんも弟寄りで、そんな私をおばあちゃんと叔父さんがいつも気にかけてくれていました。おばあちゃん大好き。笑 こんな独り言にありがとうございます。涙

日本の場合、異常に長男を可愛がる母親は多いと思います。ぼくの家庭もそうでしたし、妻のお義母さんも同じです。 お義母さんは今でも40代半ばになろうかと言う長男にべったりと寄り添い、お義兄さんも離婚した後ずーっと実家暮らしで友人すらいない生活を送っています。ちなみに離婚の原因も両親との同居にあったみたいですが、あれは傍から見て母親に狂わされた可哀そうな人生と言わざるを得ません。

mantap

Thanks~

Gapapa. English gw juga kacau kok. 😂

@@komentatoryoutube1759 woah ketemu mahluk sejenis wkwkwkwk

This is not the only drama that portray the social problem in China. You can also watch 安家 and 爱的厘米 that is currently aired.

lohkw ok thx for the recommendation

@@user-wj1op2gz9c You're welcome. One more recommendation and it's called 都挺好.

Hii! Are u army too?