a very honest Q&A about motherhood... The hardest part, Do I want more kids, mental health, & more!

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a very honest Q&A about motherhood... The hardest part, Do I want more kids, mental health, & more!

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Жыл бұрын

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@Levelupwithleavitt Жыл бұрын

Society makes being a mom the hardest 👏 👏 👏 exactly why I deleted Instagram so I could just be in the moment of motherhood without comparison or feeling the need to share my life with anyone

@starheartskull15 Жыл бұрын

girl don’t even worry about not giving aria a sister, i’m sure her and shahnaz are gonna be absolute besties 😩 i can’t wait to see it! it’s also very mature of you to think logically about having another kid, unlike so many ppl who try for a certain gender or just think “omg i want a baby cuz they’re so cute!!!” and end up having 739729 kids that they can’t financially/emotionally support (no tea no shade)

@flower998-4 Жыл бұрын

I agree and not even raise them properly (lack of attention). I have family members that got more than 3 children and the nanny’s basically raise them. These kids would scratch the hell out of these nanny’s it’s so bad. I am glad Naz is so wise and smart about things

@faith_God Жыл бұрын

Amen wise words 💯

@juliaraygorodsky1434 Жыл бұрын

@@flower998-4 I feel like she will have another one eventually- especially since Yasmin doesn’t have any kids

@lovely0th Жыл бұрын

But the. What birth control you use when you know you are done

@juliaraygorodsky1434 Жыл бұрын

@@lovely0th You track your cycle. You don’t put that birth control poison in your body.

@rosarowland8592 Жыл бұрын

Naz your spot on , the worst part it's the women shaming other women .

@Levelupwithleavitt Жыл бұрын

“All your shallow little problems aren’t really that big of a deal” YES!!! we get way too caught up. All that matters is that they are loved, fed, and feel seen and heard. ❤❤❤

@itzycastaneda8858 Жыл бұрын

Not gonna lie, being 22 I’ve definitely had moments where I compare myself to you and I put myself down. Thank you for sharing the part about not doing that. I love you!!!

@casycole4648 Жыл бұрын

Naz, don't feel uncomfortable wearing your natural hair. It's your best look. You look so unique and beautiful and look like "now THAT'S Kavon and the twin's mother. You excude the most leo energy. You look that THAT woman.

@bailey8094 Жыл бұрын

THIS!!! I also think it’ll be so great for Aria to see that natural hair is BEAUTIFUL

@sashhhaa4874 Жыл бұрын

I know no one asked but, i like her natural hair more than when she gets blow outs (not saying the blow outs are bad). 😅 And yes I think it will be important for Aria to learn from an early age that curly hair is beautiful. It took a long time for me to learn that.. 😔

@AFFTFOMSICHTS Жыл бұрын

Seriously her natural hair is 10x more beautiful than the straight hair.

@vahnamorris297 Жыл бұрын

How she got Leo energy when she a Sag 😭😂

@essiespooks Жыл бұрын

@@vahnamorris297 big three says hi 😂

@shaynasorrells899 Жыл бұрын

i'm not a mom myself yet but i definitely agree with you when you say our moms generation was so different from how moms are today. mental health was definitely not spoken about as much.

@BreeChaylen Жыл бұрын

Naz is too real for this video and I needed it. Not every day is rainbows and sunshine, being a mother is so hard let alone to multiple Babies! Every person complains about something, you just happen to do it in front of an audience- but the complaining is LIKE ME AS A MOM- like no one really understands what mom goes through, deals with personally, mentally, and then on top of that you have to be mom, the house cleaner, and the cook! It’s okay to complain get it mama 😘

@milanwolfe Жыл бұрын

honestly got teary eyed 🥹 6 months postpartum, had an emergency C section after 40 hours of labor. you’re absolutely right and thank you for this Naz💕

@adaaleide Жыл бұрын

awe naz i’m literally tearing up listening to you speak, i was never close with any of my siblings and just watching your videos bring me so much wisdom it’s like you’re the older sister i never had. so much love for you and your family, thank you for sharing your life!🩷

@summerwright9365 Жыл бұрын

Girl I’ve been following you since you very first started back in kavari sister days haha 😂you’ve grown so much and I just love how authentic and real you are with your struggles with body image motherhood etc I even watch jazmine! I just love you and your whole family

@candicew5916 Жыл бұрын

Resonated so much with literally all of your points. My twins (Aria and Kaia.. so similar 🙈) will be 1 in a week! I’m definitely finding my groove in motherhood, but then I have rough days like today where I don’t feel appreciated by my husband. And it seems like everything is piling on me at once. I really need to find mom friends because I feel like I’m going crazy with no one understanding my daily struggles! Like I wouldn’t trade this life for anything, but it’s still so hard at the end of the day. Love your content momma 💗

@Faith121807 Жыл бұрын

Love how honest and raw you always are with us i have so many of those days of just crying to let out my emotions toddlers are no joke my son is 3 and each time i think i have it all under control it changes up humbles me really fast it is so sad that like you said mom shaming is even a thing as if we dont exist as anything other then a mom sending you all the love

@emilyetavares Жыл бұрын

Your natural hair looks so beautiful!! And this video literally summed up all of my thoughts - it’s so hard for women to just be! So many expectations and so hard to balance it all. You are so well spoken! Love your channel and your outlook on life 🖤

@allymichelle8793 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been watching you for years and just became a mama myself and it makes me appreciate you in a whole new light!! You should be so proud of yourself 🫶

@paulinaaoc Жыл бұрын

Girl don’t stress!! Like you said, she has her cousins but girl she has her TWINN 🥹 literally a God given best friend, even if he’s a boy, they’re going to have each others backs!

@KaylasPlants Жыл бұрын

You have always been so supportive and uplifting of your followers. I’m older than you but I look up to you!!! My life is no where near where you’ve gotten career wise but I agree that everyone goes at their own pace. But seriously never not be proud of yourself for how far you’ve come. You have earned every single achievement!❤❤❤

@aliciacarpenter71 Жыл бұрын

I needed this video so much today! ❤ Thank you Naz! 🩷

@sushmitabhaskar9231 Жыл бұрын

I speak for all mother out there. This was absolutely on POINT, Thank you for verbalizing this & for confirming/ validating this for other mothers

@janelleyy_ Жыл бұрын

you’re always so real naz!! love everything you stand for 💓💓

@mairav1 Жыл бұрын

Love these videos! Relate to everything you stated 100 percent. I only have a toddler and baby and it is already rough while working and going to grad school. Love how you let others know it’s not all rainbows and butterflies as social media can portray a “perfect” life when in all reality it is only a second of someone’s life. Everyone has there own struggles and I’m glad you let your own audience know that Sending you love and happy Mother’s Day!!❤

@bernadetteandrews8892 Жыл бұрын

Naz! You have so much wisdom for me in your last several videos and encouraged me so much! Keep speaking so authentically and truthfully

@xoMrsWentzxo Жыл бұрын

I appreciate how real you are always!!

@eeshmeesh2962 Жыл бұрын

You look so pretty! Happy Mother’s Day! I almost started crying when you were talking about your sister. I just lost my sissy in February 💔. Our siblings and family are so important 💜

@christavinson Жыл бұрын

Your channel is literally my favorite

@fatimanicole6982 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for always being so real & open about your emotions. I look up to you in that way. I'm someone who's struggled to show any emotion but I'm working on it. You're beautiful, gurrrl & you're doing amazing. 🖤

@juszayadiaz449 Жыл бұрын

Ran to this video soon as the notification popped up 😮‍💨🫶🏽 love you girl💕

@nayelijavier2320 Жыл бұрын

Ur hair is beautiful! Ur so consistent w ur videos

@kaye6208 Жыл бұрын

Really great Q/A, Naz. Thank you for sharing and being honest about motherhood. Happy Mother's Day 💐.

@laurenleroux4161 Жыл бұрын

This was beautiful on every level imaginable ❤

@florence_dejesus Жыл бұрын

Love when mama Naz post 🥰✨🫶 Appreciating all this amazing content ❤️

@anahaderlie7423 Жыл бұрын

We NEED more videos like this sis! ❤

@heatherexline7517 Жыл бұрын

Yayyy I've been so freaking excited for this kinda video where you sit down with us and just talk to us ❤ thank you for uploading every time but especially today just to have someone relate to us other mom's because nobody truly knows what we go through physically mentally emotionally until usual they are a mother it is the most rewarding job and I couldn't imagine being anything but a mom but it's also so emotionally physically draining maybe just my situation with losing my husband but always worrying about how we're eating how many more hours I could do extra work the list goes on on things that I sit and worry myself about but just thank you for everything you do one here and you're amazing and You by far are the best mother ever for those three beautiful babies ❤❤

@DomPhilip2099 Жыл бұрын

I adore kids! Im currently a nanny to 4 year old twin girls! I’ve been with this family for 3 years & It’s the best thing ever, I absolutely love it!! 😍 But, it is a lot! I do a lot with them and for them & im not even their parent so I couldn’t imagine. Mom’s are SO incredible!🥹❤️you’re doing amazing Naz!

@Ankahikahani78 Жыл бұрын

girl you look absolutely fire!!! I had to zoom in to watch this video (not in a weird way) just to see your makeup and gorgeous face! love videos like this, soo relaxing to watch

@jarlenehernandez1729 Жыл бұрын

You’re literally my favorite influencer , I’m sending you and your family so much love from the Bronx! Love ya 🤍

@irmasoto9434 Жыл бұрын

Your Such a Wonderful Mom❤ And don't let anyone tell you different! I love your Channel🥰

@destinypheangkhamhak9505 Жыл бұрын

I love ALL of your videos! Love the mommy content ❤

@stacie333 Жыл бұрын

Loved This video! ❤️Mom of two here and mannn everything you said was on point.

@lilyavena2588 Жыл бұрын

This was so real. Thanks Naz ❤

@am_kaur Жыл бұрын

We appreciate all this content✨💗🫶🏽

@collegegrad2955 Жыл бұрын

Love your videos!!! Happy mothers day!!❤️

@emineferati1874 Жыл бұрын

Literally the most humble and beautiful youtuber!! Love you Naz thankyou for this video🥺❤️❤️

@smickx96 Жыл бұрын

love how real this video was

@mel-hp1vv Жыл бұрын

you’re so real for this

@jasminejoylucia Жыл бұрын

Naz popping off is too funny! Love you and you're an amazing Woman/Momma!🩷

@carliecarden1034 Жыл бұрын

Saying you don’t feel cute when you’re LITERALLY stunningggggggggg! Even w/o makeup you are so gorg 💗

@flowers.in.spanish Жыл бұрын

Girl please don’t worry about not giving aria a sister. I only grew up with a brother and although we were 6 and a half years apart we were best friends. At times, I did wish I had a sister but that came from not having a close relationship with my mom. Seeing how hands on you are as a mother and how in tune you are with your emotions, there’s no doubt you won’t be close to aria. I mean look at Monet. She doesn’t have a sister but the relationship she has with her mom and bestie are unmatched. Thanks for being so real and honest. You’re a true gem 🫶🏽

@autumnbrooks325 Жыл бұрын

i love ur honesty naz

@melissa7245 Жыл бұрын

My girl NAZ. Always on time

@CarmenLuuOfficial Жыл бұрын

Speaking facts, love you Naz!

@nicoleaideth Жыл бұрын

Naz, you’re such a beautiful soul 🥹

@melodienicholson3482 Жыл бұрын

Loved this. And your hair, shii I think it looked really pretty. And man the crying part definitely hit home 😂 I go to the bathroom at least once a day and let out a good cry 🤷 sometimes my 4yo will hear me come in and say "Dont cry mommy tears dont make you look beautiful" dry your eyes, and she wiped my eyes one time 😍 She tells me I'm beautiful and she's just a sweetheart. And it's not just them sometimes it's just stress of life in general and I know alot of mamma's feel this way and I feel lil better. Thank you.

@heybitch3012 Жыл бұрын

Feeling grounded and peace when we look at them is so true !!! 🥰

@jadeamberrrr Жыл бұрын

I love this video 💗

@danielagonzalez9224 Жыл бұрын

The fact that I can’t relate to anything in this video bc I’m not a mom but I still love to hear you talk and give advice ❤

@nicoleshah294 Жыл бұрын

I live for your videos !! Love you & all your miniature yous ❤

@kberry6564 Жыл бұрын

I loved this video like an old school KZfaq video! Your an amazing mum Nazanin I feel like I have watched you grow up I remember the vlogs from Ohio and now look at you, flourishing and your a great role model

@blancamehler8852 Жыл бұрын

Added this to my favorites 🤍Such a beautiful message.

@kkimdavis Жыл бұрын

Im a new time mom and i don’t have any mom friends but in way I feel like we’re besties so thank you for that Naz ! I love watching your videos !

@ruththom-moore6787 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Naz for sharing ❤ very informative

@yulisazavala Жыл бұрын

Naz is so beautiful inside and out 🦋✨

@valeried9741 Жыл бұрын

Naz pleaseeee do a sister advice talk with Yaz soon !

@tanyataylor8823 Жыл бұрын

Great and honest answers Naz

@nadiadansani2139 Жыл бұрын

Dani is the sweetest

@godsgirl7201 Жыл бұрын

GOOD POINTS I LUV HOW YOU POINTED OUT THE STRESSES OF MOTHERHOOD 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼😎

@jasminerodriguez8182 Жыл бұрын

Wow first time mom here! I have a 5 month old beautiful baby boy! I could not agree with you more about our sons. I thought I was the only one who needed a sec to cry. You are speaking pure facts. Made me feel better about being a mommy sometimes it’s hard but it’s so worth it 🩵

@missgirlygirl316 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you said the bit about comparison cause girl I was just telling my mom about how I'm "not on your level". You're an inspiration but everyone should do life at their own pace. ❤

@JjBianca Жыл бұрын

Girl, I know this feeling. I'm teaching myself to stop doing that and focus on my progress❤

@sforida Жыл бұрын

Thanks girl everything u said was spot on!!

@christiquevedo6586 Жыл бұрын

I legit clicked on this video and was like, oh wow! her hair looks so good like that and that’s when you started saying you weren’t feeling it 😂 I think it looks so good🥰

@agirlsheartandmind5711 Жыл бұрын

❤love videos like this!

@andreac5975 Жыл бұрын

You are my favorite KZfaqr always so genuine 🫶🏼🫶🏼

@E_nez Жыл бұрын

Great video! I definitely agree that our mothers did not emphasize how much work it is to run a household. Men don’t understand or focus on certain tasks because they’re mothers never taught them or their mothers did everything for them. I believe you will raise great men being transparent as you are!

@itsnatsweets Жыл бұрын

I’m looking at this video and I’m in the same situation lmao! Tuesday night I had fever and honestly these past couple of weeks have been crazy to say the least. Me getting sick with an 8yr old and 1 yr old 😅 I have to clean, wash and everything is just extra behind! Love that you’re so real on your channel. I hate feeling down cause I’m always on the go but lately it’s just piled up🫠😩 and 100 percent I needed to cry today lol. ❤ you Naz

@Thegirlinthewhitevan Жыл бұрын

I love this n you!!! It needed to be said

@karensmendes Жыл бұрын

I love your natural hair !!!!

@DestineeSoto-yr6hg Жыл бұрын

That first question. Never resonated more 👏🏽❤

@makeupwklang2098 Жыл бұрын

Really needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing أخت 🤎

@demahf1939 Жыл бұрын

I liked the vid at 9:00 because my mum relates perfectly to what you said about mental health being ignored, glad the cycle is broken now

@camilleguigard1580 Жыл бұрын

Love you guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@athenaterese Жыл бұрын

1. Thank you so much for talking about women’s hormones and that difference between the energy levels. It was so nice to feel validated while struggling with mine. 2. You become your daughters best friend because you are the girls in the house. It’s pretty special.

@slipperybanana_ Жыл бұрын

Aw I wish this was longer! It was so nice to hear you “vent” but to me, it was just your personality sneaking out more.

@heatherexline7517 Жыл бұрын

I agree with loving your kids unconditionally and not even being able to fathom having them in your life ever it's super hard for me because my mom was never around for me as a child and as an adult and I would give anything just to have her be a part of my life even as thirty-five-year-old woman so every day I wake up striving to be! Anything and everything better than she was especially for them babies ❤❤

@kiaraj.7809 Жыл бұрын

Just got a snack, put the baby to sleep, ready to watch my favorite KZfaqr ❤

@thisbitchything Жыл бұрын

If I could tell you anything being a 25 year old, my whole life I’ve always wanted a sister. Still do. Sometimes I just wish fr another sibling younger than me. Being the only girl in the direct family (excluding cousins) is very hard mentally. Growing up I’ve always longed for a sister. 30 years down the road ur not gonna be worried about what car ur driving or how much money u spent on ur kids. Ur gonna look back when ur old and see the legacy you created. The more the merrier ♥️

@AbigailJ. Жыл бұрын

I have 2 brothers and I’m the only girl. I’ve always, always wished for a sister and I still do. In families where there’s only one girl or one boy among siblings, parents have to keep in mind that dynamic and be very intentional about how they go about raising those children. I’m really glad Aria has a cousin close in age to her. Even though for me it was lonely growing up with 2 brothers, I have 2 aunts who raised their children like siblings; one aunt has two girls and a boy, and the other has two boys and a girl. The girls are especially very close, despite being cousins, and they’re raising their children the same way today. As long as parents are intentional, everything will turn out okay. Despite my personal experience, there doesn’t have to be a void or separation among siblings just because there’s only one daughter or only one son.

@AFFTFOMSICHTS Жыл бұрын

Same!! Have 2 brothers and I’d die for a sister to share the pain of the female experience in my family. I have no aunts, no female cousins either. I’m not close with my mom she caused a lot of trauma and never had my back.

@Sara-qm8te Жыл бұрын

@@AFFTFOMSICHTS I’m sorry you don’t have a loyal mother. Respect to you for going through all of that by yourself. You Go girl 💪🏻💗

@kdg143 Жыл бұрын

I can’t wait to be a mom😭 I’m so glad you talked about being a boy mom, you were on point 👌🏼 boy or girls, I second what you said - we want our kids to be emotionally intelligent!

@Ronie1981 Жыл бұрын

This video was for me. I have three kids two teenagers and one toddler and boy has it been difficult the last couple of years. I cry and cry just to let my emotions out. I have lost myself in motherhood and my mental health is really bad. I hope to one day be 100% happy. Thank you for this video. 😢

@alysiam3559 Жыл бұрын

Praying for you Veronika! God wouldn’t give you those beautiful kids if he knew you couldn’t handle it. ❤ Remember to give yourself time to recharge too. -Fellow Mom who struggles sometimes too

@Ronie1981 Жыл бұрын

@@alysiam3559 thank you 🙏🏻

@MdeInWndrland Жыл бұрын

You are sooo wise for your age Nazanin!

@claudialeandre9398 Жыл бұрын

Great encouragement ❤

@Azzii93 Жыл бұрын

My two cents about the sister thing: I have a brother (1 year older than me). He is my best friend and though I guess we drifted apart a little bit during our teens, we have always vented to each other, hung out, and been there for each other. And now as adults we too send funny tiktoks and stuff to each other 😊 My point is, your experience is that you had that with your sister and maybe not as much with your brother? But you also didnt have the experience of having a brother really close to your age and Aria will. And side note: I also have a girl cousin that feels like a sister. Thats really cool too! We used to lie to people and say we're sisters and our parents thought that was cute lol

@brookesealey8768 Жыл бұрын

I’m the total same!!!!! And also… I’m sooooo close to my mama. Like so close. And I love that it’s just us two girls. Can’t wait to give my mama a granddaughter one day so we can be a trio. I think there’s positives to both ❤❤

@Azzii93 Жыл бұрын

@@brookesealey8768 Yes!! Same here. Me and my mom were the girl part of the family and united as hell lol. And so fun with grandma! I hope you get to experience that ❤️ My grandma lives close to my parents so we have that. Also Im the only girl grandchild so my grandma always jokes that Im the favorite 😅 and we joke about my mom all the time. Grandma be like go tell your MOM to be nice and Im like shes YOUR daughter 😒

@michellefalcon176 Жыл бұрын

Yess my brother is 2 years older and we are bestfriends we see eachother everyday our kids are 10 years apart and they always play with eachother and we literally talk on the phone atleast 5 times a day

@narsis273 Жыл бұрын

Still a having a sister is different, even if the brother and sister are close to each other two close sisters are something else.

@athenaterese Жыл бұрын

You really went off preaching in this video. Loved your message at the end too! I knew you were serious by the way were closing your eyes.

@Mahkayla Жыл бұрын

You look good as you are! Whoever isn't nice to you. I wouldn't have feelings about the no good they cause. No put down to them either. Growth and empathy in this life!

@maryangel916 Жыл бұрын

The way I wish these videos were two hours…. But thank you for even sharing the amount you do with all you have to juggle. Love the vids!!

@tiarose317 Жыл бұрын

Your aura is super bright

@DJ9026 Жыл бұрын

Wow Naz such a great video! Super knowledgeable. I could relate to you soo much. We both are in the same stage in life. Literally same age, married but minus the twins lmao. Thank you for being open.

@carlastaten8130 Жыл бұрын

I never seen you not looking beautiful you are always beautiful and flawless ❤❤

@libertadramirez3580 Жыл бұрын

I honestly would not understand why someone would judge on you, I think you always do your best on everything and if anyone does judge you is bc they jealous or just want to point something out xd love u naz, kiss kiss from cdmx

@yesenia-romero Жыл бұрын

I agree with everything you said about motherhood and all !! Social media is so complicated as well.. people love judging and at the same time they act perfect! Nobody is perfect lol..even if you are an influencer or not.