Abducted in Plain Sight - Twice: How Jan Broberg Survived

Abducted in Plain Sight - Twice: How Jan Broberg Survived | Season 2; Ep 22

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Jan Broberg survived the unthinkable: being abducted and brutally sexually abused by a family friend - not once, but twice. Jan bravely reveals the details of her headline-making story, how she learned to thrive and the impact on her relationship with her parents who were also groomed by a psychopath hiding in plain sight.
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Jan Broberg is an American actress, singer, and dancer. As a child, Broberg was kidnapped on two occasions by a family friend, at ages twelve and fourteen. The experience has been documented in her mother Mary Ann Broberg's book, Stolen Innocence: The Jan Broberg Story, the documentary Abducted in Plain Sight, and the drama miniseries A Friend of the Family.
She later founded The Jan Broberg Foundation, which provides resources and direction to those that might need help in regaining their life and healing from sexual abuse.
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@shelbybutler9714 11 ай бұрын

It takes an extreme amount of courage for a child to speak up about abuse. When they aren't believed, they are exponentially less likely to come forward again. BELIEVE children and defend them. It is the number one thing you can do to help them heal.

@lynntwitty1462 11 ай бұрын

When my daughter was 3 I went down on my knees in front of her and eye level I named every man she was in contact with. I said if he touches you and it makes you feel not good. TELL ME. I will always believe you. It never happened to her. It happened to me. I was told adults are always believed over a child.

@adimeter 11 ай бұрын

YAY for you. I have so much respect for you🌹🥀🌺🌷

@emilyh7951 29 күн бұрын

When my son was five I told him he didn't have to hug high five handshake mom and dad, grandparents... it was his body. Hid grandpa would get mad if my son didn't hug and my son was uncomfortable. I said, it's his body and he can sat no to all of it.

@caroleminke6116 10 ай бұрын

The wife not wanting to call the police is for sure the tip off that she’s aware of his behavior being not OK

@starlingswallow Жыл бұрын

Wow. I haven't heard her story until now....this is terrifying! A family friend? The whole family has been groomed?? I'm so proud of her for speaking up and I will have to check out her book ❤ Thank you for having her on, Dr. R!

@LOOOVEIT Жыл бұрын

There’s documentaries on Netflix and peacock, plus a dramatic series in peacock. Jan didn’t like some elements of the Netflix doc. She’s so resilient and amazing.

@orielwiggins2225 Жыл бұрын

Horrific experience. Thank you for yet another great episode that highlights so many important factors. Thank you for including the parts about grooming and the insidious nature of the abuser who can play into whole systems, easily becoming bullet proof and shifting any suspicion to helpless people who are perpetrated against, or to anyone who questions the abuser. And thank you for highlighting the shame, which alone can silence anyone, but especially when it's got the appearance of choice (which is really not at all the case in these situations).

@d.awdreygore Жыл бұрын

This echoes so much of what I've heard from law enforcement about grooming. The most successful predators are those who groom the whole family and even the community.

@caroleminke6116 10 ай бұрын

They often have relatives who are cops too! Mine had a cop father & son as well as an ex father in law 🤦‍♀️ he tried to get me in trouble by calling the police after I filed two restraining orders but he got told to leave & never come back 👩 some cops get it now!

@ericb8413 Жыл бұрын

We saw with Jonestown that hundreds of people were brainwashed by a sociopath and died as a result. It’s not hard to believe that this could happen to a young girl. Jan your story is very therapeutic and I thank you for sharing it. Also Dr Ramani, you are awesome!🌻

@danielhainline8882 5 ай бұрын

A former follower of Jim Jones says she was sucked in before she knew what was happening. I see the same brain washing in Trump supporters and the things they say are wild and they, like the Jonestown cultists think Trump is the 2nd coming of Jesus!

@closingthedivide1187 Жыл бұрын

This was an exceptional interview, Dr. Ramani. Your skillful questioning and intermittent commentary truly helped to shed a light on the fact that many times acute evil in this world can often present itself to be benign, unassuming, and sometimes under the guise of caring exteriors. This insidiousness is what makes abuse, (psychopathic, narcissistic, or otherwise) so damaging!! As always, thank you so much for the work that you do! May the survivors continue to thrive!!

@schwifty7062 Жыл бұрын

🙋🏻‍♀️X-Mo here. I just about fell off my chair when I watched her documentary. It’s wild but absolutely possible (I grew up in it too). I would love to hear from his children. I would be interested to know Jan’s take on his family today and their position as she was going through this.

@michelehermann14 3 ай бұрын

What I can't understand is that his wife was groomed at 14 yrs old and she protected him but when he divorced her she still didn't open up. They even had a daughter. Their eldest son knew. His wife made me more angry.

@HLBear Жыл бұрын

A brave and beautiful soul. The Mama Tiger who gave her the power to stop being afraid was... her own inner adult, protecting the wounded young self. We are fortunate she has shared this story to help so many others!!

@SweetiePieTweety Жыл бұрын

One of the best story breakdown and interview comprehensive dynamic I’ve watched. So spot! Thank you.

@chartydurrant744 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! This was so healing and extraordinary - kudos to you both. I got 'groomed' by a predator into selling my house - its taken years to recover. We must push as a body to-have The LAW AND eDUCATION CHANGED - THERE IS nothing NOMRAL ABOUT ABUSE OF ANY KIND. AND WHEN A SURVIVER IS NOT BELIEVED INDEED BLAMED -ooh la la we get a double portion. You are both heroic and turn something this dark into light is something so special. And gives us all the hope and courage to open our mouths and speak - for silence is violence and this how the perps get away with it. Bless you!

@Grace.AlwaysGrace. Жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting this. Many of us are determined not only to survive but to thrive. We need THIS! So very happy to see, to hear, to observe victory in another’s life ... and deeply saddened for her trauma and loss. Bless you both!

@maevebutler4641 10 ай бұрын

Excellent podcast Dr.Ramini One of my children were sexually abused when she was a child by a female baby - sitter It only revealed itself during her late teens The overwhelming guilt consumed me as our home life was not a healthy home with a grandiose malignant physically abusive now ex husband I told her recently that i could never not blame myself for not noticing the abuse that took place They now have 3 beautiful children & they sought therapy I cant ever say that they have totally healed I do know that she is a super Mom I asked today if they wanted to see a trauma therapist and they said no It took her years to totally recover I feel she is healing through her own children Jan is a sweet & divine soul to have the ability to talk about the horrendous abuse that she experienced Brilliant work on your part Dr.Ramini

@E.K.2003 Жыл бұрын

The fact that the wife mentions his "mood swings" is interesting. Did she know something about her husband that she wasn't sharing?

@ericb8413 Жыл бұрын

I totally agree. What in the h was wrong with this woman?

@kateb7155 Жыл бұрын

@@ericb8413She was undoubtedly manipulated by him beyond your worse nightmares.

@ericb8413 Жыл бұрын

That’s a good point.

@caroleminke6116 10 ай бұрын

Ted Bundy had a girlfriend at the time of his killing spree & she tried to turn him in but the cops wouldn’t even look at him 🤦‍♀️ in fact he was cleared 👩 the wife probably didn’t think anyone would believe her in the church either

@shorelined1 10 ай бұрын

Yes, dissuading and missing child's parent from calling authorities is very strange and suspicious.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Thank you doctor Ramani for helping me understand fully what occurred in my youth and adolescence. And as snoop dog said, I'd like to thank myself, for thinking about everything else doctors did not think aboutm.

@LOOOVEIT Жыл бұрын

Love you both! Jan is such a force for healing and hope. It was so great to hear you both, together. 🤩

@kimmcdaniel8933 Жыл бұрын

The age of consent, to anything, needs to change from 18 to 25(at least.) For multiple reasons. Eighteen was never made legal age based on brain maturity, it was implemented for the war draft.

@adimeter 11 ай бұрын

Jan your story is riveting. Thank you for sharing it. And that you Dr. Ramani for inviting her. Every word delivered. I am going to journal gratitude everyday. I have also identified my 'broken shelf' day. You see, I am in therapy. It is going swimmingly. It took off like a rocket the day Ross Rosenberg taught me how to say 'NO' I'm good! That same day my healing from CPTSD and early childhood abandonment began to heal by leaps and bounds. Oh, I can hardly breathe from the excitement and joy of what I have learned today. So let me get started. Jan I am grateful for your survival and now thriving. God bless you! WOW WOW WOW WOW

@user-gr1dh4gg9n Жыл бұрын

Dr.Ramani Please interview Elizabeth Smart on Navigating Narcissism

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

And i still questioned whether all of this happened, and it did happen, but i worked for several years in a dissociated state not knowing, hoping that what had happened was real love.

@carolejackson8357 Жыл бұрын

This is common. I hope you get the help you need.

@saraw112 Жыл бұрын

What a wonderful woman!!! She’s inspiring!!! ❤❤❤

@sarahmurphy-nf4yl 11 ай бұрын

So glad to see your podcast Dr Ramani. Uou are a blessing 🙌 for exposing these disordered evil 😈 people. 🙏 🤲

@mysticlady7512 9 ай бұрын

This was so frightening,my heart broke for her,her family needed to help her more.

@carolejackson8357 Жыл бұрын

What a nightmare. Thank you all for finally bringing all this to the light. That is what set you free, truth. Thank God Jan never got pregnant by B.

@itoobable Жыл бұрын

Dr. Ramani - I've been through a similar experience, but my parents continue to be under the mind control grooming of the perpetrator. They haven't been able to admit that my brother was mean to me, let alone that I narrowly escaped being abducted, so I've never even tried to bring up all the other horrific things that happened. is there any hope for resolution before they die? I am not really in contact with my family, for obvious reasons. My parents health is failing, and I want the best resolution possible. I'm open to any way pointing that you can offer

@sjassjasen1161 Жыл бұрын

Would love to see you have a conversation with Anneke Lucas

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Ive been listening to your story miss. There are many women that were abducted around your age! I saw these storiesz and yours is unique! I am frustrated that in the real world we are not believed miss!

@lillian9676 Жыл бұрын

This is too hard to believe and it’s super sad her family was so naive, so sad the naïveté went this far my God it’s scary

@analuisaballinasnino1702 11 ай бұрын

Love your chanel!!

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

For instance my biological mom kept telling me over and over that I was sick. Her projections onto what was her punching bag. She told me to get therapy even though I was going to therapy when I was lured by internet predators and the therapist knew I was meeting people on the Internet and did not speak up. So, I've been watching and learning from psychology. Understanding that there is a trickle down affect of the work you do. I know it's not easy to hear. But if I go to any therapist, right now, it would take her a lot of time and effort, to look up a safe house for this trauma survivor to go to.

@chartydurrant744 11 ай бұрын

Well said! it is a 'Pyramid' of Darkness and those who enable the perpetrators are as guilty as the criminals. My child was abducted twice due to the fact that my own therapist would not sign a document. We live in a sick twisted world - but survivors once they heal and rise up as we all do now together as one body are more than a match for the evil bastards. Learn all you can. stay off internet dating sites and grow a strong self and a thick sturdy shelf then all will work in your favour. Amazing interview and brilliant comments Rock on Ramani!

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Under neath the video about Sinead's life: "I was raised Mexican Catholic, and we cheered when she ripped up that picture. We were poor and abused children and finally someone spoke out for us! Not to mention Lion and Cobra is brilliant!"

@lilyghassemzadeh 11 ай бұрын

I had to look up “groom“ in the dictionary, I didn't know its meaning. Wow! What a story!! I'm so sorry for what happened to Jan. And I'm so glad that nowadays both parents and children are more alert and able to avoid the dangerous situations that would entrap and torture them just a few decades back.

@FredHerbert999 10 ай бұрын

Holy shit. Jan was born in Pocatello. It's just an hour south of me in Idaho Falls. What a trip.

@ashleyspires8944 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story. How do I find out more about gratitude journaling?

@whipwalk 11 ай бұрын

She could heal because she had an amazing foundation. Most don't.

@bookbeing 11 ай бұрын

would a class added to the public school curriculum help teach our young kids to see the signs of grooming, speak up when they see it and be safe? That monster scumbag who hurt this guest as a girl is next level evil! He's worthy of vigilante justice! I can't believe they let him run loose to potentially harm her again! Maybe if every parent and child heard her story, they could know that some grownups can lie. If families and their little one are trained to stay safe and know what to do should a grown up ever ask them to keep secrets, not tell parents about ______. I hope our kids can know to talk to their parents immediately if someone ever says "if you don't do ______ then something bad will happen to people you love". My heart breaks for the guest and her family. 💙💔. I am so glad she is sharing her story and helping others find their way through similar traumas.

@anniemac7545 5 ай бұрын

Justice is such a huge need for survivors. Jan is putting her nightmare, monster experience to good, because of her strong empathy for children who are abused. Kudos to Jan. I agree with Jan, why aren't we throwing more resources at ALL childhood abuse? It is the root of SO MANY problems in our society. If I hear someone say (especially in a legal courtroom by a defenders solicitor) " why did it take you 'X' number of years to come forward?" I think I might turn into an Alien.

@elvan5922 4 ай бұрын

This is amazing story .I watched the doc. But possible in different degrees

@alid3424 9 ай бұрын

She's lovely, just lovely.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

I got photos of my son from the newspaper who reported on his class project that he got first place. I dont feel any type of way about his winning but at least his einning allowed me to see his photos. He is a beautiful boy i love him so much. He is a smiling boy. I dont want him to hide his pain. And i have studied enough psychology to help him. But i am so isolated. Natalie Cole - Nature Boy

@jaykay3839 10 ай бұрын

Wow! Dr. Ramani, what can we do to prevent our kids from being taken in by people like this? Especially when they were raised with someone manipulative in their household? I geel so helpless. Already, two of my kids were targeted by a manipulator who had special needs so they were "polite" and gave in tonthis insistent, manipulator. Please help!

@Nidhi_Maheshwari 7 ай бұрын

Gavin de Becker's "Protecting the Gift" on libgen. I read his other book on intuition and feeling safety.

@AmberPearcy Жыл бұрын

I have so much more to say than just thank you. But that’s the most important. Thank you Jan. Thank you(always) Dr. Ramini. 🫶🏻🫶🏻

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

My mind will probably never stop looking for long term solutions for the female gender. And that when I invest my time into considering these issues, and letting you know what's going on and asking the questions on behalf of everybody. . . That I do so while living in severe indigence. That's why I've been thinking about going back to growing foods and helping people learn as well. To be unheard then, unacknowledged, and putting these ideas into the net, where you never need to acknowledge, Do you see that quality is not cherished? Fast fast fast is demanded. And it needs to be done for free now. It's unsustainable. When you've undergone severe rape, manipulation, betrayal, it's true you dont want anybody to experience the same. But we as a female gender do not know of any place in the entire USA where somebody who went through these things can go to receive a hand up? A new start? Such as somebody similar to Gabby Petito regardless of skin color, who would have needed support in society,? We don't know where she can go? We don't know of any place in all of America? And I say to you, I'm willing to be the person who gives life to being there in case somebody needs to ask me for food, and shelter, but I simply cannot do it alone. If you could explore how to get lines in, You know how to write grants, Maybe grant funding is right Maybe getting a line into joe biden or cori booker or somebody similar is right, I am exploring, But we can't do it all alone. And frankly when you keep saying therapy is essential, when you don't have therapy offices, for face to face, and these women don't have the financial sustainability for therapy, What is going to happen then? You have to think back to the beginning of the process, and not create a hierarchy regarding who still has a shelter.... If you are operating from a have and have nots position, that is not helping at all.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

What is deeply disappointing is that there would be no acting out if i could just be allowed to grow the foods and farm the foods and contribute. But in the real world, next time you visit farms, let me know what you see. And after you see what you see, ask if anybody who owns a farm, can give a cauc female who wants to work a hand up. And keep in mind that i was very athletic and before my back injury I was training to lift 150 pounds repetitively.

@jcrocks6698 10 ай бұрын

I'm not sure why they left this out, but Berchtold seduced her father as well. He really went after the whole family. It's horrifying what he did, but even moreso that her parents AND law enforcement failed her for decades. "It was the 70s" is not an excuse for ignoring the emotional and psychological needs of a child. My mom was abused in the 50s by a neighbor, and my grandmother went after that guy HARD. She certainly didn't bang him and allow him to do it a second time. Having said that, this was a compelling episode. I really appreciated the discussion here on the numbers of children abused and this woman is an inspiration.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

When you get in to this club, we need to ask the hard questions. First and foremost, wouldn't it seems decent, to know of any place in all the land, where somebody who experienced an extreme case of abuse, can go to escape? But we don't have the answers.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

With all the travel I've done and the feeling of zero community, it's not easy to settle down in any one area. You need at least one community member, to settle down, or else you would not feel any anchors.

@susanmazzella1586 4 ай бұрын

Where do I get a good therapist? I'm in CT which is sorely in need.

@emesevasvari3216 7 ай бұрын

OMG!!!! Poor woman! I'm shocked by hearing her story, it is unbelievable how a predator like this can go on undetected! So glad her parents were loving her unconditionally and helped her heal. She's a strong woman! 💗 I was abused sexually at age 14 until age 16 by a then 35 year old man with my parents knowing him and I guess knowing he had been with me sexually every month at least once. They accepted him sleeping in our home every time. Once they let me go with him to his home. At age 15 o 16 I started self-harm by cutting my arms (which they didn't even note until I told them at 26 years of age or so). I'm 41 now and just starting to connect the dots. Hearing this episode I'm starting to think that our family was groomed also. I still feel anger for my parents for not protecting me. I asked my dad 3 years ago why he let this man have a relationship with me and he said they let him be my 'boyfriend' because they felt that he was safer for me than those boys of my age. I was afraid to tell them all the things I had to perform with him sexually just so I wouldn't lose his love. I'm also mad at myself for falling for this whole thing. I was not even conscious of this thing being a sexual abuse. I don't even know if this counts for rape. I don't know any good therapist who specializes in trauma. I have two daughters and a son and I swore never to let an older man go near them. Hope I can manage it.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

I listened 4 times. I know your story now. ❤ Im sorry for sharing under yours if it at all irks you. I was taken by a woman twice my age on weekends and during summers. I went because i was trying to transfer my bond to the maternal figure to her. My bio mom was mentally ill and using me only. Instinctually i sought out confidante, connection. We had sex 3-4 times at least, that i can remember. Actually, the first time we met, was when my brother was visiting a state college where she lived. I took the 7 hour trip north with my family. While my family was taking my brother to the college, for tour, i went to where she worked, and met for first time. Then she came to visit me. She booked us in motels and we also had sex in my parents home. We met in 4 states - VT, MA, NY, NJ. I was 14 & 15. We stayed in contact for 7 years. Meeting periodically in all those states. I tried to keep in touch. My bio mom asked me, "how is _______?" It was confusing. And catastrophic secret. I don't know where to go now. I feel as if God stops loving me, when i talk about it, and when i am suspicious of psychology for, loss of face to face, not seeming to hear that i dont have a stable shelter. If i get stable shelter and food, i can start to go to trauma help. But nowadays theres not many who give Face to face. Things are in internet. Where i was groomed. It wasnt only her that preyed on me. There were two more. seemed as if therapists didnt hear me. I am homeless. And they would take the money, while i would be no closer to shelter, and a shelter is vital. I dont know why peiple think we can live in cars without the basics for cooking, long term. Ending up on streets. Of course. You know. Terrifying for any human being. I am a poet. I used to get melodies naturally. But while living in car i dont get melodies in my mind to put poetry to song. I dont know if my life is over. Or if my life is just beginning. The fitness club plays base jumping videos all day today. Jumping with a chute. The Planet fitness is playing drone videos of base jumping. All morning. I love watching them. Jumping with chute off the needle tower in city, and deep canyons. I guess this is my jump. Because my phone bill defaulted too.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Now I want to let Gabby rest in peace, but if Gabby had survived, or there are more out there, these are the questions that would instantly come into play, when she doesn't own a house and property, she is all alone, and she needs to start anew.

@onetime7408 Жыл бұрын

She told the very tragic story of her step-daughter dying in a car accident in a really weird "off" way.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

No she did not. Look at statistics of people dying in car crashes as well as young people dying on motorcyles, and also truckers dying out on the road. Look at the EMS who respond all the time to such incidents. She told the experience back decently and kindly.

@adimeter 11 ай бұрын

@@cascade00 Yes she did. Thanks for speaking up.

@carriet6977 Жыл бұрын

Pertaining to abduction or boarder control issues

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

I think due to my biological mom behaving as if she has money to spend, this potentially frightened people, and also getting entangled in a same sex statutory rape, caused me to not want to talk about it, because of abandonment fear. I feel that these circumstances caused me to feel like a "woman in chains."

@bonnies.d.1121 11 ай бұрын

I do not understand all of what you wrote, but I feel moved by what you did say, and I very much hope you will find a good and safe place to share your story more thoroughly! Take care of yourself...!

@Namuh23 9 ай бұрын

Amen.❤

@sarahmurphy-nf4yl 11 ай бұрын

⚠️ Women also don't come forward because police and judges don't always believe them, and when someone has spoken out and are not believed by the people meant to protect them, that is like SECONDARY ABUSE.

@caroleminke6116 10 ай бұрын

Then the abuse returns 🤦‍♀️

@lessisbest3286 10 ай бұрын

I was abused by a medical practitioner and had abuse in my marriage and some abuse as a younger child so I would like to join the survivor or whatever you called it. I think it would be good for me.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

You know of people who take full advantage of the guilt she experiences after rape, to guilt her into taking responsibility for African slave trade, before she ever, ever, ever gets to speak out about the rape she endured. Unacceptable.

@marypaino1327 10 ай бұрын

I might possibly be making a harsh statement but it is one that the world must wake up to. Children are now living in an extremely unsafe world, more than ever parents need to take full inventory that their actions or inaction, that will possibly endanger their child's life. In this case both parents were very malleable in this predator's hands. Stranger danger is extremely high and predators have worked the system where if your child does become a victim by some level of consent, it will be on them. Just saw a video of police actually saying so much to the parents, the child was approached online and as the parents said, "she was manipulated to send photos". The more or less said it was on her and walked away. The laid responsibility squarely onto the parents. We must be stronger and resist when others try to manipulate us into uncompromising sexual excursions or any unscrupulous activity. A terrible way to live to have second guess every neighbor or any person in your life, but evil is always lurking around the corner.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Your actress work sustained you? Historically I worked behind the scenes as lighting, audio, and video. And that's how I escaped my biological family. But I can tell you, without a shelter it's so difficult to continue on looking for work. And then when I had a child, it was so confusing to think about going back on the road as a touring technician. Does this make sense?

@bereal6590 9 ай бұрын

I've thought it and said it forever, if kids then teens were looked after physically emotionally psychologically, the world would be a much better place. My own parents suffered extreme physical and emotional abuse and they passed that right on. The buck stopped with me, it's a heavy burden to carry the can, to be the one who sees it. Jan is very strong, the buck stopped with her ✌

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

And without an apology from my Vietnam vet dad beating me up when my biological mom discarded me last time, before she attempted to hoover me again, I cannot go back to anywhere i think my folx may be. Florida or Massachusetts.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Six years. . . Living in a car. The first 3 were staying near my son, because the idea of letting go of my son to go take work on the road, did not feel right for me as a mom. The last 3 years, I let go of staying near my son. Been invisible. Nobody hears. If Gabrielle Petito had escaped Laundrie, this is what she would have endured? once inside the van, you are not considered to be a homeless person. So you're isolated. If you're in a car, you couldn't even cook, or stretch.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

❤do any psychologists and therapists know how the Turpin children receives after care? How the children rescued from international child sex slavery receive aftercare? How does that process play out?

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Somebody please hear me, that living in a tiny sedan, for six years with no running water, no cook top, and no stretching inside, has caused a loss of hope, and a need for a real shelter, in order to get back to work. Shelter is first now. If people ignore that shelter is first, I am forced to isolate myself and starve myself in the wilderness. No felonies or misdemeanor. No theft whatsoever. Not even theft of the food sitting on the Starbucks bar for an hour, that got ordered to another store.

@carriet6977 Жыл бұрын

Kids don’t run because they are children also causing a child to be home sick is child abuse

@shelleysmith6667 11 ай бұрын

Wouldn't surprise me a bit if Joseph Smith (Mormon founder) was same as Berchtoldt. Just saying.... 😮

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Willing to clean the toilets, the floors, the tables in that huge building your studio is in in exchange for a safe parking space and a new start.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Miss believe it or not, bad guys are truly afraid of me. I interupt their activities. They don't want me around. I also dont take nonsense and can sniff it out. So as far as my safety, i feel decently safe. But they do try tricks on me to get supply, such as offering housing and spare car parts with massive conditions and its hurtful. Especially since cooking, cleaning, and organizing as well as creating are my favorite works to perform daily. My mind likes that work.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Did the sexual assaults affect performance in school? And take you away from thinking about dreams for future? Ok loneliness and desperation that's not easy to describe, Catastrophic secret. Ok. This is what it feels like to be lured to love a lesbian twice my age, and then finding out it was not love at all. Behavior changed so severely. Exactly. And I burned myself and scarred myself due to the pain. These men have a brotherhood. It's a joke to them. Or they were made into jokes so easily? So they concoct elaborate stories. many times they think that when a doll type of innocent girl / woman is there in front of them and looks like she needs help, they come up with something bizarre. I think it is a brotherhood. I think they think, that fucking with the minds of girls and women is a boost for their business. At least it gets them something to keep going in their every day lives. I have been pondering these matters. Trying not to think too much. And i cant avoid it since i am always in society. What do you think am i right or wrong about brotherhood? I think they learn in the brother hood that manipulating women gets them some type of acceptance, or business boost. I've seen it too many times to not think this. But also I've met decent men. I don't expect anything of them.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Miss i am available to serve these abducted children, my whole life is available to be of assistance, but nobody hears me. Nobody understands these children like me, who was lured by internet predators yet nobody believes me. They dont understand how that couldve happened. Though now there are cops working specifically on these internet cases and can tell people exactly how it happened. My body and life is available to help people, and nobody hears me. This is what these younger gens are dealing with. People pretending their are resources, and now i know, no resources. So i offer to grow food, and farm for us, so we dont have anxiety about eating, and again, unheard.

@myfriendisaac 10 ай бұрын

55:41 That is absolutely WILD 😳😨🫢

@yuncreations 7 ай бұрын

I think its a blessing she never got pregnant from him🙏🏻 She says she was prepubescent at 14, so that’s why? She Didn’t have her period yet?

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Second question, is, that nobody is asking to divulge your financial information but when people have to fake it regarding finances till they make it, and the faking it period extends longer and longer for the next gens, when will we be honest that, the system we are in, isn't considering the stability of females and that we need to lead the way. Your healing programs are designed to be a holding place until she can get therapy? But you don't have offices for face to face therapy. How are we going to repair the loss of face to face interactions?

@bookbeing 10 ай бұрын

I suspect he was using the mental health issue as a wild card or a free pass to get away and exploit and hurt innocent children and never be questioned or have to answer to those close to him. This neighbor was so evil! What a manipulative horrible man!

@Mscursed2 11 ай бұрын

Can you have sue klebold on your podcast

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

But we need to be able to discern too with whats going on in our nation. There are those of us who are being decent and just trying to get by. Ee dont drink on docks and we dont engage in fighting nonsense in real life. We are fully capable of team work with any person, and morally supporting each other across the divides. And then there are popular podcasts who play on the fighting So we eho connect over desire to be better and more understanding every time, and understand none of us are perfect, get drowned out by those popular fighters who trigger the trauma bond.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

I want to be a chef at chipotle, and learn the ropes, and also learn to farm. Forget about my dreams of publishing my poetry collection that details my climb out of the trauma, or don't forget about it? And endlessly beg for somebody to accept a rent money from somebody on a 15 dollar an hour salary? Or continue down the road of refusing to beg for anything? What do you suggest?

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Yeah youre right Jan, that its so frustrating that we cannot focus on whats going on in our own country, and my theory, one of them, is that we caucasian females are scapegoats, and im not always happy to be around them nevertheless i meet some amazing young ladies who avoid the nonsense of the elder caucasians, not you, those who think they must kick down,

@sallyostling 3 ай бұрын

I think it would be interesting to hear from his wife. Whether she ever realized what kind of man and abuse he wielded.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Yes Jan so much shame because my bio mom is a business woman, and you see how these powerful women, Martha Stewart, Gloria Estefan, Sade - the dynamic of being born to a mom that needs or gets supply and adoration, creates women who question sexuality. And then, a alternative, or deviant, or exploratory, sexuality is a means for profit, for many. It's very very very confusing. And the trauma bond to the mother is very uneasy to discuss. And it seems to mimick male homsexuality, of the brotherhood. My understanding only by observation.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Ramani because of you i don't feel that i miss my biological mom as Sinead did. I dont allow myself to be hoovered. And that is because of you. I see right through the pattern of behavior. Grateful. Life is uncertain without any female supports and any shelter and money. Nevertheless i am grateful to know what happened. Sinead didn't have that. Her interview with Doctor Phil explains a lot. Sinead wasnt to be feared at all. There was zero scary about Sinead. She wanted to mother her mother and her mother wouldnt allow her to. It was so confusing. She suffered stockholm syndrome? Let me ask you Ramani, is it right to feel empathy towards the female gender? Is it right to feel empathy for female and feel that the brotherhood is damaging to the female? Or is this stockholm syndrome? I dont think i can ever, ever, ever stop feeling empathy for the female gender.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

So don't be surprised if I show up in your driveway. This is the reality. For all these young women out here. Of course you can call cops or try stalking injunction, When the truth is I simply want team work, and to be of assistance, in my deep purpose and meaning, just as you.

@sfkarensf Ай бұрын

Was the wife of B a victim as well? In the peacock show, she mentioned she met him when she was 9....

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

You see these ladies who've been most severely abused and raped, putting back all her effort into helping people. My question is, if there are more females out there, who do not have any safe place to be rescued to, what will happen then? She doesn't get saved? She cannot begin her healing journey?

@ericachitwood2465 Жыл бұрын

I'm not really sure what to make of this story

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

The truth is when it comes down to business deals did you have any choice? You always used radical acceptance? or you trusted, in hopes that you found a safe haven? Or something else? while you were gathering radical acceptance methods, you were trusting? When you become an exceptionally trustworthy person, where do you go then? If you refuse to even steal food when very hungry, (and only a person whose been there would know the struggle) you don't steal anything, you don't coerce anyone, you don't sway anyone, it's a pure place to be, But the long term sustainability, is something it would be good for you and yours to think about. I know you like to align with upper echelon, But if females in the upper echelon feel forced to become wicked, and judgemental of the Elizabeth Smarts in the world, then perhaps the rest of us don't find the upper echelon appealing, Yet are willing to dedicate entire life to helping those few isolated cases. Do you know what it takes to say, you'd prefer to be there for the Elizabeth Smarts, Gabby Petitos of the world, Than the masses?

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

I am sorry if you felt that I was not interested in what was going on in India. ❤ I like to know about the sewage back up there and consider if there's any way I can help to solve anything there. I know some young ladies in college are studying to solve these issues. It's true that the sewage issue in India is very severe. The only thing I ask you, is that you create a space that sees that we are willing to think about you and yours. We need to balance out the time for working and making progress, with the conversations that keep us informed. But in order to work, a shelter is essential first. Shelter she can stand up in, stretch in, and make some simple foods in. I am sorry if I made you feel as if you were creating barriers. We need to pinpoint the real issues and stop the nonsense. These women you've chosen to tell their stories are all in understanding and are willing to become more and more understanding. We already know about good and bad being in every race of people. Just as you see drunks on docks you see homeless robbing stores. There is violence involved in those incidents. Women who experienced violence don't want to be near it, no matter who is the offender. We also don't really want to be involved in constant battles. We know already that there's good and bad in every ethnicity. That the majority of us were cut off from roots, caused our minds to need to get caught up in petty nonsense. No more. My people in Ireland were enslaved by British. Your people as well. This is not at all to be a competition when we know very clearly that we are here to help each other.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

I don't know how you feel because we don't converse. But it was frustrating to hear you say that your healthy ethnic cuisine was stolen ( in my upbringing we traded foods and there was no stealing foods. And also as a hidden homeless with zero money, I refuse to ever, ever steal food. If you ever went hungry, you'd know that discipline is needed, to refrain from stealing foods when you're very hungry.) and I am willing to get you back to healthy ethnic cuisine You don't respond. Lack of community. Not granted communication. I really understand why the younger women find these methods, confusing, depressing, and anxiety inducing.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Willing to clean your toilets, the hair out of your drain and off your floors without a second thought, cooking, cleaning, in exchange for a driveway. You could ask and ask, and people pretend not to hear. Once you know that shelters allow druggies in, and druggies steal all your valuables even your work boots, (You can read about it NY Times and also believe me that it's occuring everywhere) you'd be exceptionally tentative to go to any joe shelter

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

We already know about good and bad being in every race of people. So all I ask is that you allow these rape survivors to heal and not to play on her guilt. Just as you see drunks on docks you see homeless robbing stores. There is violence involved in those incidents. Women who experienced violence don't want to be near it, no matter who is the offender. We also don't really want to be involved in constant battles. We know already that there's good and bad in every ethnicity. That the majority of us were cut off from roots, caused our minds to need to get caught up in petty nonsense. No more. My people in Ireland were enslaved by British. Your people as well. This is not at all to be a competition when we know very clearly that we are here to help each other.

@FredHerbert999 10 ай бұрын

Barely into the story, and what a freaking tragedy. Her father must feel like the most epic failure of all time.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Ramani I ask some tough questions for your consideration. Because it's true that rape survivors are easy to guilt. And if it's just an ordinary rape and there's no sensation behind it she doesn't get to speak about it at all in many cases. You hear them speaking out for Anita Hill, but at the same time, we deserve not to be guilted endlessly while we did not ever get a chance to heal from rape. If your black investors want us to know about the names of the families who went to Africa and purchased slaves, such as Time Magazine reported regarding slavery in Barbados, I am willing to listen. I am willing to listen to how the origins of slavery in Africa began, how slaves were sold in Africa. How did that process occur? That's what I am willing to learn about. I'm willing to research it on my own, and I'm willing to converse. But we who have been raped, and come from slavery ourselves, because slavery did not end when the slaves were free, the slavery behavior continued in side many families. It didn't continue in all families such as Jan Brobergs. Distractions away from healing, when we come to healing from different perspectives it's true ... Some body may have had government section 8 housing and food stamps. Somebody else may have never learned how to get section 8 and food stamps, and put it on credit cards. We come from differing perspectives. But you see these women, alive now, All the women you interviewed are still alive, and we deserve to be recognized as encouraging the healing and recovery of all people.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Tamron Hall interview is a perfect example of people working across the divides.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

These are ideas. With the internet, only ideas are shared. Actually connecting with a community has gone down down down, while the socialism can be felt. Without community, the long term sustainability for these younger females who aren't so naive to get married within 6 months, or who are beyond the age of having children, is almost impossible.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

A good time ❤ a good time is not a threat

@cassandramarks4452 Жыл бұрын

Psalm 46 46 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. 2 Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; 3 Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah. 4 There is a river, the streams whereof shall make glad the city of God, the holy place of the tabernacles of the most High. 5 God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved: God shall help her, and that right early. 6 The heathen raged, the kingdoms were moved: he uttered his voice, the earth melted. 7 YHVH of hosts is with us; the God of Yaaqob is our refuge. Selah. 8 Come, behold the works of YHVH, what desolations he hath made in the earth. 9 He maketh wars to cease unto the end of the earth; he breaketh the bow, and cutteth the spear in sunder; he burneth the chariot in the fire. 10 Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth. 11 YHVH of hosts is with us; the God of Yaaqob is our refuge. Selah.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

The last thing I will say is that, I hope there can be a little more consideration for these uneducated people. I know what I know I have no awareness of how to get section 8 and food stamps. A lot of us don't know about the system at all. And in order to heal at all I had to sacrifice college. I couldn't go to college, because I needed to escape the abuser. All I ask is that you recognize that, we uneducated, are willing to pitch in, in significant ways, through the simple work of growing foods and teaching people how. Of being a real community member. It's true that, if I am trained, in psychology, I would be more effective as a community member. On the other hand, the resources. . . people always ask me to pay in, before I have a shelter. I understand their point of view. And I accept that I may never get to a higher level of learning because I lack resources. It's also true, that there is some trickle down affect of driving people into the internet for therapy, and healing. Taking away face to face. The loss of a real community with real team work. typing into devices, not being granted permission to contribute in tangible ways takes away from confidence, purpose, and meaning. I continue to ponder these issues to see what can be done If I don't know how to receive section 8 and food stamps and I don't know how to write grants, that doesn't represent a failure, it suggests a community is necessary. And if I never learn, I will always feel the need to isolate myself somewhere deep in the wilderness, I'm not easily found. Because I don't want to give cops a chance to re traumatize. Because as much as it's frightening, you know jail is not a place for you whatsoever. The PIC was a place where dignity was stripped. Nobody here who is without a shelter deserves to endure the stripping of dignity in exchange for a shelter.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

Men what did you expect of us? We see your pain we understand your pain, what did you expect of us, weve been cheated on multiple times, demeaned, put down, now what did you expect of us? What do men expect of females?

@Nidhi_Maheshwari 7 ай бұрын

🧘🌌

@annwarneka868 10 ай бұрын

Crazy scary story.I'm sad she charges for her newsletter and doesn't share newsletter before i pay for a subscription. Im exhausted.

@cascade00 Жыл бұрын

You see what happens when you follow the women who act as if they are the smartest women in the world. You were entrusted to truly be there. Team work eludes you. Even if somebody offers to perform the grunt work! You are still going to deny team work. You were entrusted to serve. those who feel goodness truly know how to meet rach other where we are at. We know how to meet Black theraoists and black musicians where they are at when they believe in divine feminine. But the narrative is still trying to ignore that in favor of fighting. We work perfectly well together when we are all embracing divine feminine. We already know how to give more understanding for next time. Yet somehow, getting along and giving grace is rocket science still and those whose females whose bloodlines were enslaved and who were raped, and serve as slaves, are forced to take the shame and the guilt before she can ever, ever ever talk about the rape she endured. The bloodlines who took slaves from africa are never ever mentioned. Who are they? Who put people in africa for sale? We never hear rhe deep cuts and we are drowned out by petty fighting petty nonsense. . Yes i truly want to tslk to the bright kind black women to ask about rhe deep cuts of the entire ordeal But we are not allowed to share these issues, for real. What to me is beyond fucked up, is how everybody says go to a shelter but you have zero understanding where any safe shelter is across the entire country and in other countries. And yet, these rape survivors are not allowed to contribute and feel confidence by growing food and giving back. But if she gets any dollars she must tell you that she plans to help people with all of that. Enslavement of those who have been groomed and raped. And you still probably will not go to any politicians to tell them to stop the nonsense and ask them to give the money they alocate to homeless addicts to homeless rape survivors who are not addicted to anything. the smartest woman in the world is confused. Where are you leading people? You refuse advisors? But if its dumped for free into the net youre okay. We all forgot quality for convenience. I offer to get us all there, forming a community, that extends beyond the internet and you ignore. You have no time to give it a thought. But in the future you will all see how it would have truly benefitted. It will be too late then. You wont be able to find me in isolation far into the wilderness.