Chile right!!

Because she knows she kept the child out of his life

@@FalaqX for 34 years? Half of that is bullshit because he was an adult. Lazy people really spend more energy making any excuse to do nothing rather than doing what is right.

That’s exactly what I came here to say smh but what a wonderful young man. He’s more mature than both of his parent

I said the same thing. Why?

😭😭😭😭😭

Uh oh...the Dusty Brigade gon be mad at u for this comment!😭😭

@@Bih1stOfAll Yes or call me a simp for expecting other BM to stop making excuses for not being active fathers 😂

@@scottrogue946 You know the vibes 🤣🤣🤣

Exactly

Say that out loud because it makes zero sense.

Some women take the “do anything for the D” challenge too seriously.

She fell in love with the pimpin

Yeah, her story don't quite add up. He ran you over with a car and you still have contact with him when you dont have to?? She cant use the son as an excuse because he's well beyond a minor. I think she is jealous of her son's relationship with his father. He didnt want her so she used the kid to punish him.

He may need them but both fault not just his

But he’s a grown man why hasn’t he tried to And if the father wanted to see him he would have made it happen

Plus my ex was like this his dad wasn’t around and when he was bout 19 he came into his life of course he wanted to know his dad and his dad admitted he should have been there for his kids

@@piinkam0r that's what's wrong it doesn't matter if he's grown... it's the dads responsibility to try to make it up to his child that he abandoned. U think because you're grown trauma just disappears? No.

@@meenahstyles9948 I was talking about the dad ? I was saying he’s a grown man and has been

Absolutely

Right! I rewind three times to hear the son out... so heartbreaking 💔😞

Smh that’s a shame.

Smh

This the comment I was looking for ❤

That he is

Yes!!!

Exactly!!

THIS COMMENT! 💯

Absolutely! I suspect the son in this case, could teach the father some things. Dad having a temper tantrum about $500 ... SMH.

I yelled

I was weak!!

That almost knocked me out me seat lol 😆 😂

Due to forgiveness, empathy and naivety.

At least you seem to realize that you currently have no answers to the questions you're asking.

Same thing I was saying

🤷🏿‍♂️

The something ì asked my momà....why are you friends with somebody who WASN'T there at all ...I dont deal with him at alĺ.

The mom might have stayed and was their (kudos to her for that), but I believe the father when he said her mom raised him. She was only 15. And I have a mom just like her who holds on to the past of my father. Sometimes a child turns out good because of the grace of God. God brought that young man up.

@@shawnpreston1639, did she stay 15 forever? Smh. It clearly take a village to raise a child. The mother and her family did a wonderful job!

I am pondering over you and others who are making this point. You seemingly are asking a question that you don't know the answer to. But you're vilifying her as silly when you don't her reason.

@@sereneamani1713 Okay, keep pondering🙄

My thoughts exactly!

@@fwb1012 I was probably being disingenuous. I don't ponder or wonder. For over 50 years, I've seen and heard people like you. Those who just talk to be talking with nothing solid to back up their aspersions. I just thought people would one day change. Now you can honestly say to me, silly you.

@@sereneamani1713 Okay, great!

😊

A wholeeee clown. I know her kids embarrassed 😂😂😂

Not really

@@badseedent4827 Exactly! Judge Mathis said, "...Y'all stop that nonsense. Stop it. They ain't no child. For number one. That man is almost a senior citizen..."

@@badseedent4827 Not really what?

@Bray Jay 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Judge Mathis was joking he wasn’t serious lmao

😂

Nothing.... Except maybe a bitter mother...

Except a miserable mother who's purposefully keeping the child away from him obviously

@@EnemyMarcus Are you speaking from your experience? A "bitter" mother cannot legally defy the courts.

@@karries6342 Explain the obviously, please. I'm missing the obvious.

@@sereneamani1713 not from experience but you literally proved my point by adding "legally", meaning you know there are ways a bitter mother could keep the child away. And yes, there are also legal ways through lies, manipulation, relocation efforts and the courts with restraining orders, jail time, etc. #oops

🤣😂🤣😂

Did you ask that question for an actual answer?

I thought I was the only one thinking that 🤔

Yes!!

For a loan?

No loans on Maury 👀🤔🧐👀

Yes, JM wasn’t going to let them make a mockery out of their son (he was protecting him) and his courtroom.

L

@@silethaking279 yes and I loved that he shut them down because he knew where it was going to go soon as the father tryed making it seem like the mom was a whore that pissed me off like forget if she really was you going to say that in front of your child

How is she slow?

That's not respectful! That's fucking rude and not necessary.

She just dont got no game or know the game. That's why he didn't stick around Lmaooooo.

All of em a lil touched

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Lol 😆 but 34 isn’t almost a senior citizen. He has over 20 years to go.

@@dawudj2286 right 🤣🤣 I guess cause the mom kept referring to him as his child. I'll be 34 this month don't do that to me Judge

15 and smoking crack. And she still has crackish ways!

Mother's off her rocker too!

He does but we’re working on it still

Wasn’t the “child” grown when she loaned him the money?

@@Gaia007 if u read the whole comment, u would have found your answer. But yes, the child was grown. Which is even more why she should NOT have loaned the money to someone who doesn’t handle their responsibilities And who technically already owes her. 🥴

💯

She was silly for keeping a baby for a man she only knew for 1-6 months.

EXACTLY!!!! Thats because she is LYING. And how did he not see that the whole reason she came to his show instead of her local court was because her intent was to try to publicly humiliate that man. The son confirmed he has a relationship with his father now and since he is grown the mother has no say in the matter anymore. She is probably a narcissist or sociopath that's jealous and controlling. She just used the loan as a way to still have some kind of control over that man. I know A LOT about Antisocial Personality Disorder and how people who have it operate and females are no different. They ALWAYS play the victim, they lie, manipulate, gaslight etc. She probably is still trying to punish that man because he didn't want her crazy ass. But she is definitely a liar. Her story sounds stupid, I don't see how anyone could fall for it. They just take her side because she is a female.

My moms side of my family always held resentment for my fathers

💯 And don't loan men money.

Thank you!!!! I don't know why everybody is acting like the mother is a saint. Clearly her story does not add up. First she was acting like she was torn up because he ran her over with a car, but yet you loaning him money now. And clearly he does have a relationship with his father now that the mother does not have a say. I caught what the father said to the son at the end and thats why he is so upset. I believe she and/or her family did keep him away from the son when he was a kid. Based off what the son said the mother was not being truthful.

Shut up!🤣🤣🤣🤣omg you are too much🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

In blue streak delivery that pizza 🍕

@@chick-fil-agal2264 🤣🤣

She obviously was lying about some things too. The son even confirmed it.

All children deserve child support. The mothers are too ignorant to demand it for them despite what the father does or feels about them.

That too, but in this case how did Mathis not see that the whole reason she came to his show instead of her local court was because her intent was to try to publicly humiliate that man. The son confirmed he has a relationship with his father now and since he is grown the mother has no say in the matter anymore. She is probably a narcissist or sociopath that's jealous and controlling. She just used the loan as a way to still have some kind of control over that man. I know A LOT about Antisocial Personality Disorder and how people who have it operate and females are no different. They ALWAYS play the victim, they lie, manipulate, gaslight etc. She probably is still trying to punish that man because he didn't want her crazy ass. But she is definitely a liar. Her story sounds stupid, I don't see how anyone could fall for it. They just take her side because she is a female.

No because he was never on child support. The mother is LYING. I don't understand how some people can't see that.

Naw I wasn’t embarrassed….. you don’t think about the cameras and public opinion doesn’t matter to me that much to get embarrassed.

She's still in love with the pimpin😎

But he didn't because he knows she is lying! Yall just take up for women automatically. He story had more holes in it than a slice of swiss cheese. Did you even pat attention to what the son was saying to his father at the end?? He pretty much confirmed that the father is not what she is trying to make hm out to be. He just didn't want to embarrass either of them.

Because she is a liar. And how did Judge Mathis not see that the whole reason she came to his show instead of her local court was because her intent was to try to publicly humiliate that man. The son confirmed he has a relationship with his father now and since he is grown the mother has no say in the matter anymore. She is probably a narcissist or sociopath that's jealous and controlling. She just used the loan as a way to still have some kind of control over that man. I know A LOT about Antisocial Personality Disorder and how people who have it operate and females are no different. They ALWAYS play the victim, they lie, manipulate, gaslight etc. She probably is still trying to punish that man because he didn't want her crazy ass. But she is definitely a liar. Her story sounds stupid, I don't see how anyone could fall for it. They just take her side because she is a female.

And the mother too.

Duh! Because she is lying. It amazes me that people will say a woman is slow before they admit she is a liar.

Lol he told them to "stop calling him a child, he's almost a senior citizen"(I'm paraphrasing)

Judge Mathis said, "...Y'all stop that nonsense. Stop it. They ain't no child. For number one. That man is almost a senior citizen..."

@@naturale9412 Thanks 🤗

@@Bray_Jay Thank you 🤗

And how did Mathis not see that the whole reason she came to his show instead of her local court was because her intent was to try to publicly humiliate that man. The son confirmed he has a relationship with his father now and since he is grown the mother has no say in the matter anymore. She is probably a narcissist or sociopath that's jealous and controlling. She just used the loan as a way to still have some kind of control over that man. I know A LOT about Antisocial Personality Disorder and how people who have it operate and females are no different. They ALWAYS play the victim, they lie, manipulate, gaslight etc. She probably is still trying to punish that man because he didn't want her crazy ass. But she is definitely a liar. Her story sounds stupid, I don't see how anyone could fall for it. They just take her side because she is a female.

A liar that wasn't really abused, that's who. People with antisocial Personality Disorder ALWAY play victim and they will make up a WHOLE story that never happened. The son is 34 years old now and he clearly knows more about his mother and father enough now.

What works for you may not work for the next, if you been through it you shouldn’t judge those who went another time path.

Easier said than done. My fathers side of the family wouldn’t have let that happen. It was safer for my mother to not say anything.

If we’re totally honest. It’s a slap in the face to the mother who raised him. His mother chose to stay behind and raise him, she could have ran off like his father did and left him to the system. It’s fine to forgive your father, but to basically be begging for the love of a man who has done nothing for you is the epitome of weakness and a lack of respect for the woman who chose to do right and raise you

Shut up.

My whole purpose is to break generational curses within my own personal family. I’m successful but he has to be in his grandkids life to continue to build our family up. It’s bigger than him n I