Accept your lover unconditionally

Accept your lover unconditionally | Relationships - 101

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5 жыл бұрын

It's hard to accept someone fully, isn't it? You have your basic expectations from your partner. If they are not fulfilled, it's so hard to let that go. It's an endless struggle. Here are some ideas to get yourself out of the mess and make your relationship more peaceful.
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@Shridharlifeschooling 4 жыл бұрын

HELLO EVERYONE! Please tell me what problems or confusions you're going through in your life, so I can make videos for you, with some solutions and answers. forms.gle/n3SAakwChceESJp47 Let me know by filling this form. (You can keep it anonymous) .

@positivityaroundyou...1646 4 жыл бұрын

If you get this plz reply I need help I am in relationship past 4 year ..in starting things were good ..but right now when my parents wants me to get marry I told him.so he can talk their are some issue in his lyf family etc. .I told him atleast give confirmation to my parents that you LL do but he always might be give some. Kind of unexpectable issues ..am also agree with this ..may I doing wrong ..if I say say atleast yes or no ..am in mental trauma..plz help. What should I do .😔🥺

@sujatashetty4717 3 жыл бұрын

@@positivityaroundyou...1646 dear leave him.and move on....don't give so much imp to any one..who don't deserve it.and be happy

@sravyasadhineni323 3 жыл бұрын

I want to know why parents force to do something even after the age of 25 years.. their son or daughter are working in MNC they are explored in society...parents are from village..when we come to native why they force to do things... especially am facing the issue with my mom..don't talk with anyone..don't crack jokes..they will think ur mental... Maintain high standards..wear good dresses and get ready better than anyone..if we talking with someone y she always pull hand r dress.. y she affride to take me to somewhere...she have insecurity they will think as am mental😂😂

@spiritologyunleashdivinity4548 3 жыл бұрын

I'm really trying to implement these ideas with my young son! I find a block when it comes to media/tv/youtube! Children cannot watch whatever on tv if it is scaring them right? Do you have a good solution?

@sujatashetty4717 3 жыл бұрын

@@spiritologyunleashdivinity4548 sorry dear I not clear about what u r asking

@BabyGirl-ow6zk 5 жыл бұрын

You can choose people but you can’t decide to change them forcefully. Yes👏🏻💯

@louisgianfrancesco 4 жыл бұрын

Man this is a great video. This is the best way to look at not just your partner, but your friends and families. If you can't accept it, leave it. That doesn't always mean completely dismiss the person, but you can just leave what annoys you and let it go.

@tilldend20 4 жыл бұрын

This tip will make sense when both the parties in a relationship follow this with honesty. Only one partner trying to keep up to this will lead to all hell breaking loose one day or the other.

@heenachavda7270 5 жыл бұрын

Man you are incredible. This must be watch by every human being on this earth..👌👌🙏

@supriyahulsure4426 4 жыл бұрын

But we cant force them watch and agree with us.😊

@sheshikumar2522 3 жыл бұрын

@@supriyahulsure4426 😄 yeah this is what I thought to comment on it

@sheshikumar2522 3 жыл бұрын

@@supriyahulsure4426 but we can make them to watch before taking decision of getting into relationship to express our rational view on relationship 🤷🏼‍♂️, I mean we can express in our way othwise this video helps

@ritikak2612 3 жыл бұрын

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@LaxmanBolishetti 2 жыл бұрын

@@supriyahulsure4426 true

@salmaansari1416 5 жыл бұрын

You're awesome!! Those three starting points in a relationship are much much needed, you made decision making so much simple...

@devcodes312 3 жыл бұрын

This is exactly how I feel. I’ve never had it articulated as such and I just wept because it was so beautiful. Thank you. Thank you so much for saying out loud what I have wanted to articulate to my loved ones. How I feel about our relationship. It’s okay if they don’t feel the same way about me, I accept them unconditionally.

@boitumelomofokeng6158 4 жыл бұрын

This is one POWERFUL message I've ever heard in my life regarding relationships...I repeated it twice after listening

@timagination1295 2 жыл бұрын

This is really deep...RESPECT is a sign of maturity and wisdom!.

@chithravinodini834 4 жыл бұрын

Brother, actually this was my problem but after i heard your words, that make me thinking and also i realized how to make my life as a heaven. Thank you so much brother. You are absolutely awesome.

@JuneMoments21 4 жыл бұрын

Unconditional positive regard, is something counsellors are expected to uphold in therapy. Proud to be one! 😀

@laurab8270 3 жыл бұрын

I've never heard anything so powerful about acceptance. It requires a lot of work to accept it but everything sounds so obvious. Only by understanding and working on it, we can improve our relationship with others and be at peace with ourselves. It is the perfect beginning for a journey of self reflexion 🙏🏼

@zuhakhalid3139 2 жыл бұрын

Everything that he's saying is excellent. Truly we all want perfection but we don't expect ourselves to change. 😓

@nishobit.1293 5 жыл бұрын

This is a very radical notion. But I agree it is 100 % true.

@seanmclaughlin4395 4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you on this. It's well worth given it a go in any area of a person's life. And you get to feel better for it yourself.

@bhaktmeera4473 4 жыл бұрын

I haven't seen anyone more articulate. Thank you🙏💕

@omtoolika 3 жыл бұрын

Summary: fall in love with yourself 💖 than all this chaos later!!

@muniag 3 жыл бұрын

I keep on listening particularly this video for months. He is a super therapist no doubt about it , but I really adore him because at the same time he is a very wise person! Much love! ❤️

@jayjaytr1849 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve never seen anything make more sense 👏🏻

@whatever7004 5 жыл бұрын

Very correctly said!!! I needed this at this point in life!

@Madhra2k24 5 жыл бұрын

Completely accept 🙏...Support them 🙏...Regardless of what they reciprocate ! 🤷‍♀

@antonykolembrath1792 5 жыл бұрын

Not easy to do. I"ll try brother. Thanks for Good message. God bless you brother.

@sumandogra4110 5 жыл бұрын

It's just amazing ,u have gone through a lot u have a very much independnce in your thoughts and ur voice Wawoo 💐💐💐💐for u amazing

@karinanikoghos7285 2 ай бұрын

This is one of the most amazing speeches I have ever heard. Thank you so much.

@savitachawla4025 5 жыл бұрын

Yes I too completely agree with you. Good work sir. 👌👍

@mahimaarukala9839 5 жыл бұрын

hello sir, i am a psychology student in Hyderabad university. Congratulations for JRF and for the way you have built your career. Your videos are really good for a common man to understand and makes them feel comfortable in reaching out to a counselor.

@DivyaSharma-xx6xm 4 жыл бұрын

You know all the points that are in a relationship,this is very helpful,thank you,Great work! Keep it up😊

@thesoulonquest 5 жыл бұрын

You are doing a great job.Giving very logical, to the point, practical solutions to common issues👍

@NeelamSharma23500 4 жыл бұрын

Sir u r life saver🙏.... I'm learning from u... How to deal with a relationship and how to maintain self respect in that relationship....

@mrskhan597 2 жыл бұрын

This was actually very good. Must watch it again and again. This is exactly opposite of what we have been conditioned. But THIS is the solution. Really appreciate this daring upload.

@swarnalatha3781 5 жыл бұрын

What ever you said is true when it is followed by each and every one in family...

@mikeshah4873 4 жыл бұрын

This is most vital part of any relationship and I have accepted my love Gina totally as she is change yourself not other I have this in my head from so long but I am bad in communicating sometimes but I love her ..... stay blessed all of you and nice message brother keep it up

@reva669 5 жыл бұрын

I have recently started watching your videos. I love them. Please continue making them. They are very insightful.

@riddhipatel5386 4 жыл бұрын

while reading the comments realized one thing..people have come across not so acceptable relationships but there are amazing people like him on earth.. it's pleasing to ears, and with right intensions a good relationship is definitely possible.. thoughts and intensions are important.. well said sir.. you are a great influencer to many..

@prathimavinay6829 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much. Looking forward to videos on how to resolve conflicts with spouse without offending them

@dibn1308 4 жыл бұрын

TRUTH ..& ..RESPECT ...THE ONLY KEY FOR THE SURVIVAL OF ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP....NOTHING ELSE WOULD WORK FOR ITS SUSTAINABLITY....

@Miniflower25 4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you. Love completes with trust in any type of relationship...This is 100% universally accepted.

@supriyahulsure4426 4 жыл бұрын

You are awesome!!! Thank you for making these videos👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏼

@sanjaykadekar1354 2 жыл бұрын

I watched this today, and am happy with myself for already been practicing this. 😃

@meenachoudhary3026 5 жыл бұрын

It was knowledgeable and life changing video, thank you very much 🙏🙏

@dr.mayabajeselsinhgohil3475 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so muchhh for making this video ...very nicely and simply you teach this concept of acceptance ..keep going .. all the best

@amitt319 4 жыл бұрын

You're awesome.. So deep and clear in thoughts!

@deepikarao3157 5 жыл бұрын

I agree with you and have felt it.. Good job

@swapnamutta9945 4 жыл бұрын

It is really a very great job. And loving what u r doing and enhancing urself and others lives with ur knowledge and understanding on psychology. That's damn admirable. Thank u so much. I owe u something. May be to time too. Bcoz at this hour i need help from someone to handle myself and my conditions. I happened to see one of ur videos related to my condition at this right time.

@rojamaheswari7975 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Shridhar... I understood the most important thing....thanks a lot.

@irmabronder 3 жыл бұрын

Just subscribed yesterday and I think you are bringing a lot of knowledge in the world. I have learned a lot in my life and I think you can teach me even more. Much love. xx

@ankitadoshi5724 5 жыл бұрын

Shridhar you are amazing and so true..... nothing can change no one can change

@nafisamahmoud7139 4 жыл бұрын

Sir Thank you for helping I'm now learning more techniques to deal with a relationship .

@jeseenajose5035 4 жыл бұрын

God knew you will help people...so God gave u a drop of his wisdom...Godly wisdom

@DhruvKaushik5 Жыл бұрын

I feel very lucky to stumble into this before getting into an arranged marriage. Thank you, the thoughts and advice shared here really resonated with me and has changed the way I look at relationships.

@amberpotmanjuoza851 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome Shridhar it's helps me alot to look things differently now. Thank you so much. Looking forward to your next video.

@j.l.rayner4592 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for uncovering a true gem of wisdom :-)

@lowkyachandaka9677 4 жыл бұрын

Right message at right time... Thank you

@natashabhatia2997 3 жыл бұрын

Loved your video. Thanks.

@payaldas2050 5 жыл бұрын

I could completely relate to all your examples...n it was so good to hear eachvline from u...u r too good

@sheetaldhamale1347 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing...each word and line spoken by you is very meaningful...👌👌👌👍

@bhaktmeera4473 5 жыл бұрын

This guy is brilliant 😇

@sohinisaha597 Жыл бұрын

I myself have come to these conclusions but your videos give me validation. Thanks a lot.

@parthcshah17 3 жыл бұрын

Not a single statement I would disagree to . Found this video 2 years late. But I am grateful. I listened to it. Can use it for every day morning meditation. And things to do. So I function well

@deepaijare893 3 жыл бұрын

Shridhar I truely get convinced by your talks and thoughts. It was so easy for me to mend things when there was a small scrap between we Husband and wife. Keep posting.

@shashi_6 5 жыл бұрын

Incredible....!!! Loved ur speech... Specially....the wordings displayed besides.....that's actually a good way of not missing some points said....it's strikes clearly in to the mind.....Thank you ...for doing this.

@benitadavid2668 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome speech! Very true.. And love the way you speak English..cute!!!

@jennifersantiago5443 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. I will watch this as often as I can as a reminder.

@purnimarai6822 5 жыл бұрын

It has definitely create change in me . I realized where I was doing wrong . Today will be the new beginning in my relationship from today and right away. I really appreciate the way you deliever life changing topic atleast for me . Thank you .

@apoorvsingh6951 2 жыл бұрын

This conversation might seems extreme but 100% true if one can follow these he''ll be so happy in his life

@Muktaspeaks 5 жыл бұрын

love you for this man! thankyou

@SSR287 5 жыл бұрын

One of the best vedio I watched till date.thank you 😊

@farhanarahman7324 4 жыл бұрын

Brilliant speech. Very important for every relationship.

@manjarishukla8787 5 жыл бұрын

This was wonderful Shridhar 🙏 Thank you for sharing your views.

@jairadhamadhav6069 5 жыл бұрын

Sridhar love your insights on relationships......excellent keep updating fresh ones ya...thanks...this is sindhu from omr

@freesoulcosmopolite6838 3 жыл бұрын

Such a nice talk, and insight!

@ashapraveen3823 3 жыл бұрын

Very very useful to lots of helpless people

@savetheplanet9076 4 жыл бұрын

thank you so much for this great talk!

@suvarnapatil2979 5 жыл бұрын

Really use full , I think after this I will try to improve my relationship with my son with your ideals Thanksgiving

@lakshmis6814 3 жыл бұрын

After Sadguru, I found this video is so helpful. I can’t say how thankful am.

@sunitasingh3247 5 жыл бұрын

Sir.,you really don't know how much helpful this video for me..... Thank you so much sir....... God blessed you sir always...........

@Hwoman1123 5 жыл бұрын

shona singh Baby i needed this. I don't agree to one part of it.. But I'll need this every day

@kpriyanka3 5 жыл бұрын

Extremely nice video! Please make more videos related to relationships

@shobhanayadav2375 3 жыл бұрын

Very helpful and informative guidance. Thank you so much

@preethikeloth3504 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for all these videos, very meaningful n everyone can rectify ones mistakes, i hope our old education system canges n teach childrens how to lead a happy life n give others happiness

@marietuico9252 3 жыл бұрын

You're so handsome. Thank you for this amazing insight. More power to you!

@suhaasinipillai7382 4 жыл бұрын

Your words are right, we always expect from the person we love, as per your words "one don't have right from the person they love", if one have to forgive all his /her expectations all along then he/she doesn't need anyone/anything in life though, love is the most expected thing in human cycle, if we have to leave all the expectations then we will become saints....

@hodanmuktar5980 3 жыл бұрын

This is a good piece of mind if we all follow that's ..tnx for sharing man!!

@shrutinim19 3 жыл бұрын

You are mind blowing sir ...you say all things very clearly and nicely thank you so much

@KajalSharma-ig2ow 5 жыл бұрын

Very true. VERY rightly Quoted.. Will surely start Practicing from NOW.. 😊

@harishashreeagrawal7821 5 жыл бұрын

Ur amazing

@suzannezakheim8263 4 жыл бұрын

absolutely excellent dr zakheim

@asiyaamin7515 5 жыл бұрын

Good to see you back after a long time

@bhargaviparate4922 5 жыл бұрын

Simply awesome thoughts you have

@dr.ansari3228 3 жыл бұрын

You are Great Sir, only great teacher can share this wisdom pearls of life.

@meenauriti8275 5 жыл бұрын

Your words r very precious. Thankyou shridhar

@ikkkudishalini121 5 жыл бұрын

You speak Really Well. Crystal Clear Voice with so much Passion 🌟 .. That really indicates how much hard working and honest you are. Cheers! 👍

@sanjeevkushwaha4043 3 жыл бұрын

Don't confuse communication skills with intelligence, scamsters have very good communication skills, confidence and charisma 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@mercymallari3871 4 жыл бұрын

Many thanks for sharing sir 😊 But when you are in a relationship you're expecting a reciprocity bcoz your investing yojr feelings ..you cant called 2 ppl hving a relationship if its only one person whose making his/her effort to maintain the relationship ..so expectation is there ..the better you value both the relationship bcoz you both following the same principles thats why its not hard for both of you to keep listening bcoz you know what to do ..