Do this, instead of staying upset after a fight.

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@Shridharlifeschooling 3 жыл бұрын

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@padmapriya6811 3 жыл бұрын

if they dont come dint ask any like why you upset what to do

@sangeethas285 3 жыл бұрын

Sir what is the cost of your counseling

@tanvykanojia65 3 жыл бұрын

@Boston Khari does they charge

@sreekalavijayarudran4810 3 жыл бұрын

I on personal experience say The harsh protest came into picture after many peaceful protests .. the mere fore granted and least care attitude however more irritating is their words which no mor has any value Bcz it’s always easier said n forgotten than make an effort to change .. hard to digest that how one can not realise the difference wen the perosn they so called “love the most” is acting different 😂😂

@faylobo1629 Жыл бұрын

How to cope up with a relationship with your husband whose relationship with his mother is enmeshed?

@kritikachauhan5441 Жыл бұрын

I can say one thing for sure ...everyone who saw this video and searched it ...def cared about their relationships genuinely ...thats is for sure ...cz no one would search how to solve problem bout relationship until n unless they care about it a lot ....stay positive yall hope yall get along with ur partners and stay happy for ur life 💖✨

@lobubesteavlog Жыл бұрын

☹☹

@keerthansuresh231 Жыл бұрын

So generous....this made me smile Thank you 😊

@xmanwolverin751 Жыл бұрын

Or may be to settle our mental health out of all those relationship dramas

@YashSharma-qo1sy Жыл бұрын

You are certainly a gem of a person Kritika🤗😇❤️ wishing the exact same thing to you🙌🏻

@SangeethaSDas Жыл бұрын

Wow beautiful comment by Kritika . Such a remarkable positive attitude. Keep it up . ❤

@zarinabano4485 3 жыл бұрын

He is absolutely right. Everyone makes mistakes. Learn to forgive and forget. But the problem is too hurtful make sure to bring to his or her notice. So they don't do that thing again.

@darkraigameingdk7738 3 жыл бұрын

Completely agree with you!!!❤master level skills😄😄

@alnapm2113 3 жыл бұрын

It's so practical and goal-oriented.Basically,its my natural way of protest,or I learned from life at some point, the tagline of the video gets my attention because I have to ensure it is the best way.Iam glad that I watched this.It was really helpful.

@pragnyanakka1150 3 жыл бұрын

Staying upset with patner who loves u truly. Works out....becoz he will notice the difference and clear the prblm.. so dont get too much upset with wrong person it may lead to depression.... which is dangerous ...

@brindhagopal294 3 жыл бұрын

True

@SM-yo2rs 3 жыл бұрын

True...

@mounikab8117 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true

@rosiepestel7836 3 жыл бұрын

Trur

@Mr007JUNED 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely right

@rajnipriyas 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Sir, its uncanny ,but this is exactly what i needed right now ..God bless you ! Thank you.🙏

@92tanushree 3 жыл бұрын

Just the video I needed to watch today

@naveenshrivastava9957 3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@nandinisharma1130 3 жыл бұрын

Same yar...I am in relationship with a girl.... she loves me alot ...she does care...she always has my back...but we fight sometimes like idiots

@anilkarande9543 3 жыл бұрын

Kmiiaàa

@BikerTia 3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@Supriyakrish 3 жыл бұрын

Mee too. Just right on time

@Madhra2k24 3 жыл бұрын

*Pain is Inevitable... Suffering is purely our Choice...🤷*

@rosiepestel7836 3 жыл бұрын

True

@MazharSunil 2 жыл бұрын

Love changes everything try to explain by action how much u love him/her , if he get understood , then happyness will rain on you

@Madhra2k24 2 жыл бұрын

@@MazharSunil Happiness is within us !!!

@sonupersonal8911 Жыл бұрын

@@Madhra2k24 that's the most important point

@mohammadshakir6606 3 жыл бұрын

Long term Block of communication creates negativity...So dont break communication ... Thanks

@sonalinavadgi3009 3 жыл бұрын

Yeeee ik

@arwachaudhary4063 3 жыл бұрын

True

@sneharai8291 3 жыл бұрын

Sadly but not everyone has that level of understanding.. No matter you protest Or you die... They have their set pattern of living life keeping the other at the worst.. Disturbed, distracted and what not? 🙏

@MrVishalkankatala 3 жыл бұрын

This is a problem I noticed. It cannot be our responsibility to change someone who won't understand you. Reducing expectations and setting boundaries are the only options that actually work. It isn't our responsibility to make some one understand and at the same time , it isn't practical to wait for karma after an unfair encounter. This is very difficult but with conscious efforts everyday, i do believe someday I can be the source of every emotion of mine and not somebody else. Again, I'm not sure when that day will come :)

@purvamandlik4696 3 жыл бұрын

If their pattern doesn't agree with you, it will crop up all your life. I would add, if improvements are not happening, do not invest yourself more in that relationship. Every unresolved issue should help you decide if you want to take a step back from such a relationship.

@shahaverbhanu7220 3 жыл бұрын

My husband also same . he don't bother if die also

@mounikab8117 3 жыл бұрын

@@MrVishalkankatala correct..we cannot make a person to understand. Instead we have to save our energy from them.

@arupkumarjena5178 2 жыл бұрын

This is the situation I m going through right now.... I ve tried angered...I have tried silent method... I ve tried peaceful protest...but still she is stubborn... Now seriously it's out of my patience. I just can't bear more. May be I m behaving stubborn. But it's my nature and personality. If I m doing each and everything for you... I can expect few basics from you right . I m giving you all importance values but can't I get a little. Yar it's painful... It was the biggest mistake to get into a relationship .that too with completely opposite mentality girl.

@sunglad17 3 жыл бұрын

Now a days, relationship lacks love and have high expectations. If there are too many fights and less good moments, then think again you won't get this life again and you didn't come on earth to fight with this person. Try to see bigger picture, then being caught up in little things. See what is important, your relationship or your ego/ fight. In nutshell, if there is Love, then you will find a way. For Love, you need to have emotional connection with this person. Love = Respect = Communication ( no abusive words ofcourse, good respectful communication without trying to showing ur partner down)

@tayaabqureshi4426 Жыл бұрын

Awesome

@richardakinyemi2553 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent inspite...loads of respect and likes. Thumbs up mate.

@abhilasharocks25 3 жыл бұрын

If someone doesn't want to communicate then can't pressurise..This pandemic is not right time to fight and making communication gap.....But if someone doesn't want to understand this basic..We are helpless...may God help him and bless him with good health with prosperity

@swatisUtube 2 жыл бұрын

Very very clear and logical approach!!!

@meenakshim4437 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this important advice 🙏

@poojapodarjain3268 Жыл бұрын

Extremely helpful for bringing clarity and showing a way out of a conflict! 👌 Big fan of your videos 👍

@kazmisisterz51214 Жыл бұрын

SIRRRR PEOPLE STAY UPSET BECAUSE THEY ARE HURT. AND THEY NEED TIME TO HEAL.. THEY NEED TIME TO TOLERATE THAT PERSONS BEHAVIOR

@GodsGirl-fz6pr 5 ай бұрын

Where I'm at currently at right now😢

@amanisreeramoju5520 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much Sir.. You hav Explained a Very important piece of matter in an ongoing relationship.. facing issues..

@sarahravi6561 3 жыл бұрын

When I stay upset for a valid reason,he blames for staying upset and spoiling his mood making me guilty,then I forget my own feelings and prioritize him and getting hurt again,any ideas to safeguard myself?

@farhaneha6757 3 жыл бұрын

Yes same

@priyankar3532 3 жыл бұрын

You are not alone

@sripradhasrinath7457 3 жыл бұрын

Very true

@arabchic7855 3 жыл бұрын

my relationship is like this am currently working on putting myself first and focusing on me. my feelings matter too not just his. self respect ✊🏼 makes you more attractive i guess thats the only i advice i can give xx

@care4indianstreetdog 3 жыл бұрын

Can't agree more! Same to same..🙄🙏

@musharrifamohideen2401 3 жыл бұрын

Really useful info, I never had such a good relationship advice like this, this is really going to help me, thnx a lot

@PriyaSingh-fz8gv 3 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree and trying to protest peaceful.

@poonamsuryawanshi4422 3 жыл бұрын

Really....u rVery intelligent man 🙏

@niviyaw6921 3 жыл бұрын

This video is very useful and convincing . Thank you Sir.

@padhuprarthnaslifehacks_07 2 жыл бұрын

I've never commented in any of the videos I watch in youtube except this channel ! Yes , of course it's very very helpful for many ...it's actually an higher level of thinking which u actually discuss here . True it's just classy sir 👍🏻!

@nitikanagpal2697 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Really helpful.

@naturallyyounaturallyme1324 8 ай бұрын

Really made me think in a new way. Thank you!

@LearnKannada.MSI-KC 3 жыл бұрын

Superb technique... helps a lot to maintain healthy environment... But it needs lot of practice... yea..👍.. Thanks for making the video..

@nip473 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent stuff here!

@Princess201032 8 ай бұрын

Very good advice. Thank you for your wise suggestions.

@kiruthikaganesh7235 3 жыл бұрын

Your videos make good difference in my life thank you sir

@themoonbleu627 Жыл бұрын

Wow you are good thank you for this now I understand what’s going on with how I’m feeling

@user-fn1wz2mh5r 5 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot ! For giving life points to sustain a better relationship

@subratachowdhury9913 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks buddy really need this at this time Thank u so much

@rohinikokne2258 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@vishy1235 2 жыл бұрын

This is incredible video!!

@gopipritam1143 3 жыл бұрын

Well said..👏👏👏

@shiprasingh5115 3 жыл бұрын

Very beautiful.. And practical.. Approach.. When to avoid.. When to wait till the concern is addressed...

@MN-gs2nn 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent thank you

@shalinimehra586 3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful sir 🙏

@reemasaha1340 3 жыл бұрын

How to handle ego and attitude issues where both the partners have it in abundance & everytime it leads to furious fights???? Please come up with a video on this topic.

@neelamkoul8929 3 жыл бұрын

Ap kitne samajhdaar ho 🥰🥰🥰🥰

@roohiafzaf3112 Жыл бұрын

Superb surely it will work out

@user-ky1yb9xj7e Жыл бұрын

word by word, this is exactly what he does. i keep trying to change things for the better between us but more fights would come up recently. and now he has me blocked saying he'll come back once he thinks im okay or done fixing myself

@nidhimudgal4066 3 жыл бұрын

Very true, shridhar 👍

@amandabarrett2472 2 жыл бұрын

This is awesome

@khanafshar1198 3 жыл бұрын

Very much informative and helpful...thankfully i found your channel...😇

@siddharthpathare2 Жыл бұрын

Hope your videos will reach to all couples.Its really a professional approach to sort out the things.

@77_sneha 3 жыл бұрын

All of this will nly work... If the other person really understands this concept. Sometimes by being engaged people will take you for granted still...thinking oh it's all okay

@studyhub1698 3 жыл бұрын

Good noon sir 🌞, Well said 👏. Leaving the drastic issues..if we keep practicing in our mind that such issues happens..may we learn to live in flow..and let go off things.

@amruthaanoop4658 3 жыл бұрын

I needed this 2 years ago

@latikarohara29 Жыл бұрын

How did you deal with this situation? Could you advise.

@cherrys88s 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks👍

@saimazaki9649 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you...

@Fried5 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@sujathana7460 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent analysis

@koalatales6553 3 жыл бұрын

Aree...waaa...u nailed it ...exactly...

@punnamvaddepally4353 3 жыл бұрын

I am so lucky to see this video నేను స్వయంగా face చేసాను situation చివరగా మీరు చెప్పిన విషయాలు అలాగే నేను సాధించాను మీరు చెప్పింది వింటున్న పుడు అనిపిస్తుంది నేను కూడా బాగా నే ఆలోచించగలను అని 🤝

@sashsash2947 Жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot 💓

@DVDiaRies 2 жыл бұрын

Great video great advice thanks

@beingagirl6365 Жыл бұрын

What will comes after this all only one person suffer the other is comforting in this whole situation .. If you cut down luxuries they will find it from somewhere else n you r making of fool to yourself for a long run n at the end accept where it will starts means no or not … what an approach 👏👏 Nobody is affected by this bec everything going through with only one person other is free from all

@vijayasingh2897 3 жыл бұрын

Some scenarios mentioned here..might help ppl get ideas -How to stay upset... When it's so enjoyable..the respective partner who is enjoying definitely has already planned an "alternative" to walk away from the partner who's ruined already by the so easily mentioned "punishment"

@vaishnaviiyengar2369 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent 👌

@radhaacharya1881 Жыл бұрын

Nice one cleared many confusion thankyou :)

@akanchhayadav5818 3 жыл бұрын

U r awesome 🙌

@productmanagementbyutsav3069 2 жыл бұрын

Very good content bro !! Please do create more videos

@MyRahasyaHINDI 3 ай бұрын

You're right sir, I'm tired of her same temper everytime she makes me upset without any reason

@wishwhatuwant6422 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this vedio

@lovleen00 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks.. Its the middle of the night and i was just exhausted thinking about how i can get rid of this vicious cycle....

@triloknarware4433 3 жыл бұрын

Very Helpful

@theRealityPodcastwithAlex Жыл бұрын

Excellent lesson sir

@anchalpaunikar7044 3 жыл бұрын

Very true 👍

@MrHarshal08 3 жыл бұрын

Suupprhitt 👍👍🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌

@urwaslife9946 Жыл бұрын

Your ideas are superb

@piyalisaha2066 3 жыл бұрын

U are awesome 👌

@freesoul374 3 жыл бұрын

Sir whenever I do this goal oriented protest he eventually forgets that anything has happened and behaves everything has fine and gone back to normal

@goodlife7959 3 жыл бұрын

Lucky enough

@poppins871 2 жыл бұрын

True

@vivekhakathirkaman4630 2 жыл бұрын

When my do this, i hate it. They act like things have been normal and doing the same thing again which make me upset. And again act normal.

@jask1081 Жыл бұрын

Not only that they enjoy to non emotional part

@shobhanayadav2375 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent video,thank you so much 👍

@CS-em4bh 3 жыл бұрын

This makes me curious to know about Shridhar's love life. Even before starting an argument he must be like "I know I know what's in your stomach".This guy knows it all 😂.

@dishaverma2409 Жыл бұрын

Great!

@ta5379 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent

@hemlatasoni6151 3 жыл бұрын

Much related .... to many ones 👌

@niveanivu7303 3 жыл бұрын

Its a good topic..👍

@mukundareddy1742 3 жыл бұрын

Thank u

@vizandra1 3 жыл бұрын

This is a great video and I’m totally able to relate to it , but what if it’s too late

@narayanbhat3816 Жыл бұрын

Very practical

@meenakshhisharma207 3 жыл бұрын

Yup u r absolutely right

@vidyatejaswisengupta3013 2 жыл бұрын

I watch your videos becouse of u only ..im new subscriber...i like ur way of explaining

@priyankajain9056 3 жыл бұрын

Hav done it all. Been upset nd also been upset for long. But it hardly affects them for more than a mnt. He hardly cares. Inspight of clear nd calm conversation s

@cherrys88s 3 жыл бұрын

Instead he may be happy that ur cool n calm..like in my case🙄

@Thelawofthought 3 жыл бұрын

I born to be happy..

@NormalN-wk2th 11 ай бұрын

Sometimes people stay upset because they are hurt. If things were said that’s ere very hurtful it can feel like you have been gut punched. Even if you talk it through it can take a little while to heal.

@Mr007JUNED 3 жыл бұрын

Helped me a lot

@lifesaver8142 3 жыл бұрын

He hurts me everytime . And he was changed so much and I CNT even be without him for a single day ..I should be down to him everytime

@lalithalalli8887 2 жыл бұрын

Same my life why I don't know

@nooneknowsme1791 2 жыл бұрын

No you shouldn't be. If you have conveyed your perspective and problems to him and Still he's hurting you then maybe he's not the right guy to be with. There are more beautiful and compatible people out there

@nayan1966 3 жыл бұрын

I feel like a lot of the housewife are in silent protests forever. It's a personal view.

@Sakshi-wj5go 3 жыл бұрын

Sure- without any result 😇

@santhosha5457 3 жыл бұрын

Two things happen...1. if we are cutting extra luxuries...they take it for granted...n try to cool us down... 2. If we r silent...their imagination is unpredictable...more questions...more of their doughts. What ever way u choose.... should come to the way which he wanted. All the credits goes to house wifes..

@embrace_the_uncertainty 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly... housewives facing this again anad again .... without getting any solutions 😭

@shruthir8936 3 жыл бұрын

So true

@ceefaithfull8534 2 жыл бұрын

I am sad in my situuation but this makes me laugh ...relationship is hard there is a bit of comfort in knowing we not alone and somebody understands

@kirandeshpande7758 3 жыл бұрын

I do this whenever it requires...and it works

@subhakeerthi2858 3 жыл бұрын

So good

@diptikumar9261 3 жыл бұрын

Superb

@thejillykilly 3 жыл бұрын

Examples please - one solid example will convey this even better!

@Sharon-yr6zj 3 жыл бұрын

Man...yu are so smart yaar✌

@minibhatia2896 3 жыл бұрын

Very helpful

@sooriadas5182 3 жыл бұрын

Super👌

@mister-Kayne 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing however, the only perspective you have taken is a relationship between a couple. Other relationships also have challenges which caused one to become upset. It should have been a generic approach on what to do when you are upset