Accept Your Reality to Win

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Accept Your Reality to Win

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MANY OF YOU DOUBT YOURSELVES IN YOUR ENTREPRENEUR AND BUSINESS, CAREERS. WHAT'S MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR DISADVANTAGE IS BETTING ON YOUR STRENGTHS. SPEND MORE TIME ON WHAT YOU DO BEST AND DON'T FOCUS ON WHAT THEY SAY YOU DON'T DO WELL.
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Gary Vaynerchuk builds businesses. Fresh out of college he took his family wine business and grew it from a $3M to a $60M business in just five years. Now he runs VaynerMedia, one of the world's hottest digital agencies. Along the way he became a prolific angel investor and venture capitalist, investing in companies like Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Uber, and Birchbox before eventually co-founding VaynerRSE, a $25M angel fund.
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@TheHyena-ru8bz 8 жыл бұрын

Gary is one of those rare people who is always brutally honest, but in an intelligent way.

@tiffanyonwudinanti 8 жыл бұрын

Casey was literally about to shake his head yes before Gary said "No." 🙈😂

@peyondi 8 жыл бұрын

I like it how he says "BE WHAT YOU CAN BE" not what u want but what YOU can

@Digitalfaces1 8 жыл бұрын

My dad used to tell me that being a minority is harder. That I will have to work 3 to 10x harder than anyone else. But you know what? He said the one lifting the most weights is stronger at the end of the day. SO be grateful you get it harder.

@KwanaJackson 8 жыл бұрын

I love the honesty of this so much. This right here is why I'm still riding with Gary after all these years. WTG.

@paulysci925 8 жыл бұрын

+Gary Vaynerchuk brilliant guy gary glad I found you on the tai interview! Very much a logically mind realist!

@JkDubbed 8 жыл бұрын

Whose the guy in the middle?

@rva 7 жыл бұрын

✌💪

@paulwalsh5097 8 жыл бұрын

That was such a great answer. I bet that had a huge impact on the girl who asked it. Sexism... see ya, now get on with marketing yourself. From the heart Gary - so authentic

@ODiTee 8 жыл бұрын

wow... I fucking LOVED how honest this was. Wow. dude... "We need to spend less time on what we can't be, and we need to spend more time on what we can be" - so like, playing to your strength. But then again... Often through sheer force of determination/will/grit you CAN beat the odds. But yes... In a 7billion world, it's prolly best to identify your strengths and play on them.

@dpfutbol 8 жыл бұрын

I remember that day when Gary was talking over Casey and it really left a bad taste in my mouth for Gary. Gary then owned up to it and apologized which really wow'ed me. I then gave Gary a second chance and sure enough it was just a mistake and his personality ended up later appealing to me. Now I watch Gary's channel more than I watch Casey's even though I really enjoy both of their content enormously. Gary, it took guts to apologize to everyone. In the long run though you at least earned me as a subscriber and viewer because of it. This really shows the kind of character that you possess. Keep going man!

@BrianThomasLund 8 жыл бұрын

Betting on your strengths: That's been one of the most impactful ideas as I've built my channel. Thanks Gary!

@B1FREQUENCY 8 жыл бұрын

Gary your words sincerely help people realign their own SELF Talk....and i love how you SHUTDOWN....the Negativity...Doubt....and anything that has no USE to make oneself better...thank you

@terrencefreeman749 8 жыл бұрын

Being u is surely our biggest strengths!

@samuelgardner9931 8 жыл бұрын

Gary, thank you for existing and striving to become the best version of yourself everyday. In world full of lolly pops you are absolutely sucker free

@JIYkp 8 жыл бұрын

Strong message. Sometimes it's difficult to take the "focus on your strengths" message to heart when my partner doesn't accept my weaknesses.

@lansonharfistan8518 8 жыл бұрын

Do not accept your partner. They are liking their imagined version of you and not respecting the actual version of you if they do not accept all of you.

@littleripper312 7 жыл бұрын

I'm a woman in a male dominated career. There is blatant sexism and it's a barrier for women trying to move up and build a career. However my dads advice was great he said yes it's harder for you and it's unfair but crying about it being unequal isn't going to change that. Focus on what you want and how you're going to get there and stop wasting energy crying that's it unfair. My dad also likes to remind me that my grandma never got to go to school despite wanting to and at least I'm not in an arranged marriage forced to be a housewife like many women in other countries still are today.

@GoatzAreEpic 7 жыл бұрын

You know how easy it is for you, you can just suck your way to the top, we actually gotta put in work.

@elvisialcin140 7 жыл бұрын

i learnd from you more than i learnd from my family my brothers and my friends, heep on going , is all about the happiness the peace of mind...

@lanewilkinson6409 8 жыл бұрын

...Less time on what we can't be, and more time on what we can be. Man that's just the facts, I honestly think that the way you deliver your "self-awareness/content" is impacting our lives at a deeper level. Thank you Gary! It truly is gold what you do, GET SOME!

@ReviewsDude 8 жыл бұрын

Casey & Gary = Revolution!

@AnthonyMiyazaki 8 жыл бұрын

The idea that most people will overlook their own stereotypes when evaluating other people is an illusion at best, yet each of us can still do our part to provide opportunities and (at least to some degree) overcome our own biases, whether positive or negative. Always stirring the coals G-man.

@ActuallyWacky 8 жыл бұрын

Gary and Casey making stuff together is great!

@emsisrbc 8 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your blutness GV, and I agree it sucks that the world provides different standards to men and women.

@salvusdoor7679 8 жыл бұрын

Each side has their collection of checks and balances.

@brainfarttz 6 жыл бұрын

did you even watch the video, Ruth? stop feeling sorry for yourself. he just said that there are so many variables, including being a woman, that you can't even complain about those variables. If the woman in the video asked "do you think a PRETTY woman can be in the same position as you men", I guarantee you he would say yes. so for women to be complaining about men, is like ugly people complaining about pretty people or fat people complaining about fit people. there are so many variables that taking time to dwell that you can't do it because your a "woman" is your problem, not the world's. i find that most women who believe that there is an unfair advantage for men will actually sell themselves short in the long run, since they think they can't do it, to begin with. it's like if you think you can't get a job, why would you even try if you can't. it's just another excuse for women so they don't have to try as hard.

@evolvo1 8 жыл бұрын

I actually really liked Gary's answer because he was honest. You have to be "self-aware" which Gary has a video on. You have to be mindful of how others see you. Its not idealistic we all know because we don't live in a perfect world. Work smarter.

@B1FREQUENCY 8 жыл бұрын

PROLiFiC....seriously... you are dropping HUGE Diamonds the Size of Bigger than 10K everytime you make a point...i am just believing that the ones who are still stuck on Repelling you...Finally discover within themselves that you have just been REMiNDiNG ALL of US no matter what...We are Alive....We Have Won ALREADY....Love hearing you speak Gary

@AleksanderVitkin 8 жыл бұрын

I think you handled that beautifully Gary, very presedential. :D Casey will be the biggest entertainer youtuber in the world soon...

@Thorvandal 6 жыл бұрын

Casey becoming the biggest entertainer? Never. He's great, but that title will forever belong to either a gaming channel, a comedy one, or gossip one. Not counting music channels :)

@alexbass8411 8 жыл бұрын

Awesome message. I remember seeing those comments by Casey's fan base. Watch both of you, but I always come back to you. Bet on your strengths, fuck your weaknesses.

@euanboy15 8 жыл бұрын

So much truth. Thank you for being honest in a society that wants to be politically correct, but seems to disregard reality. It is unfortunate yes, but we are making progress; which I am glad of.

@mlawal44 8 жыл бұрын

Exactly.. Focus on your strength!

@rza139 8 жыл бұрын

Love this video. Another home run from Gary. Fuck what you think you are not good at and focus on what you ARE good at.

@MarcYilmaz 8 жыл бұрын

People need to listen, learn, and live this.

@ErickaWilliamsCC 8 жыл бұрын

love this love this love this. ITS so TRUE. USE what you got and stop worrying about what you don't. I use to look at videos with certain women and think MAN she is getting all these views... because guess what she is just using what she got... NOW go out and GET YOURS. I have to say I get deals because of who I am. I am getting access to government loans and programs because of who I am...and I will walk right through that door and boss UP/take the deal and make the best of it.

@Stellanorthmediaproductions 8 жыл бұрын

I liked this answer and I believe it. We cannot change who we are or where we come from but we can change where we're going!

@JLSFyt 8 жыл бұрын

Dude, you blow my mind, daily.

@24inspiredmedia 8 жыл бұрын

straight up truth. maximize the hand you have been dealt.

@mrtnestevez 8 жыл бұрын

Hell no! You've already talked about this in the #askgaryvee but the twist you gives to the answer by asking back how do people consume was awesom! Keep it real Gary! Cheers

@SparlordPrime 8 жыл бұрын

I found your channel just now, through Phillip DeFranco. Immediatly subscribed. Your honesty, sincerety and intensity are really engaging and motivating!

@shailes 7 жыл бұрын

I watch this video just because of its title, really cool Gary, keep it doing

@rva 7 жыл бұрын

maybe not now. but it's continual growth.

@dalenevnel 8 жыл бұрын

YES! Play to your uniqueness!

@FishRFrenzNotFood 8 жыл бұрын

Lol Casey's reaction when Gary took that answer

@alexkatsanos8475 8 жыл бұрын

Truth truth trrruuuth!

@Ndo01 8 жыл бұрын

That's the realest shit I've ever heard.

@Dtroy93 8 жыл бұрын

Lmao, OG Vaynerchuck always keeping it real. I love your honesty man.

@tybraaten 8 жыл бұрын

I'm a huge fan of Casey and you. Looking forward to seeing the video.

@samplumb3053 8 жыл бұрын

great point Gary. good video.

@QuincyMJackson 8 жыл бұрын

Awesome answer and explanation to that question Gary! Very Nice!

@killa704 8 жыл бұрын

Gary Vee, and Casey Neistat sharing the same stage = power move. Dunno the other guy but I'm sure he adds value to the group somehow!

@lassanadorleh3169 8 жыл бұрын

Preach!!!!!! You are awesome!!!!!!

@angelascully6622 8 жыл бұрын

BOOM! #WINNING! AGAIN!! XD Gary, respect. Do you. Stay in your lane. Do it the best.

@CurtisDonDeano 8 жыл бұрын

This is what I needed to hear!!

@fredyacuna9756 7 жыл бұрын

another good one Gary !!

@AnthonyGarcia-qd1nj 8 жыл бұрын

Sick!!!! Nice words man!

@guyr3837 7 жыл бұрын

thank you

@iWynax 8 жыл бұрын

Aye Casey Neistat

@TerryJulianLive 8 жыл бұрын

Powerful Video..

@maryandlife1155 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I really needed this message today.

@fcxzb 8 жыл бұрын

Hi gray, I'm 17 and I'm hungry to start my own "business" right now and want to sake you if you can do a video about email marketing or something that connect to that, how to start because it most difficult to start a new things specially when you have no knowledge about that . Thanks you and always remember you are the man!

@bigdrew1985 8 жыл бұрын

"Be what you can be" -GV

@tiffanyl3157 7 жыл бұрын

So true. It sucks yeah but it's true. Love the last line. :-)

@BradFennell 8 жыл бұрын

Mind blowing

@syfriamedia 8 жыл бұрын

Good shit man

@Atem_S. 8 жыл бұрын

none shall pass and did!

@shohruza3277 8 жыл бұрын

Ooooooo at the point Gary i love u

@LeviCorbett 8 жыл бұрын

Casey!!

@MRMATT2138 8 жыл бұрын

CASEY!!!!

@dexter88pienaar 7 жыл бұрын

This video is so fucking amazing.

@JordiUp 7 жыл бұрын

Hahahahahah. Garry V. Holy fuck, i think that was me. I think i hated you from one of casey's videos. I'm so sorry, that was very judgemental of me, and holy fuck are you wonderful and motivational and inspiring as a person. I'm on the grind. In a few weeks i'll message you with this business I've been working on for the past couple months.

@fbgm2475 8 жыл бұрын

MY CRITIQUE OF THIS VIDEO: COMMENT #1: What is with the black and white? Casey looked like Larry from the Three Stooges. COMMENT #2: I like this "forget about your weaknesses" narrative you've been pushing. Tim Ferriss talks about that a lot, specifically Pareto's Law (the 80/20). Could you keep pushing this idea, and maybe even a proper call-out of the 80/20 rule and where you see it applying to social media and entrepreneurship? COMMENT #3: How can someone who is "different" (whether by gender/race/background) that would normally impede them actually LEVERAGE their difference/uniqueness? (Is FUBU an example?)

@vonasken 8 жыл бұрын

Why are people so afraid of this truth? The thing is based on where your from, what you look like or gender, the rules of the game are the same for everyone. The only difference is the point of access to get in the game. An African American male might have easier access using a certain path than a Caucasian women and vice versa. Your job is to figure out which pathway will get you in the game. Why keep using a key in the wrong lock? Try another door! ...

@ErnestWarner 8 жыл бұрын

I agree with you in that this video goes beyond "accepting our realities" and hits hard on "playing to your strengths." Like Gary repeatedly states, the more self-aware we can become--and quicker--the faster our business will grow and be more stable because we will know what we are created to become, do and achieve. Therefore, figure out fast what you do well and enjoy and "Crush It!"

@mlawal44 8 жыл бұрын

well said.

@rollintroll 8 жыл бұрын

I think that while inequality is certainly real, it can be a huge distraction to entrepreneurs and professionals out there trying to get it. So yea Gary is right, just fucking work around it. But that should continue to be accompanied by the good work being done by people and organisations in calling out BS and improving conditions for marginalised social groups.

@ErnestWarner 8 жыл бұрын

I agree with you 100%. I think this echoes Gary's point that the truth is somewhere in the middle and not in the extremes.

@greatness1045 6 жыл бұрын

caseys face when he said "NO!"

@KeeganLanier2 8 жыл бұрын

FUCK YEAH...that is all

@minecrafter956 8 жыл бұрын

Will there be a full talk video on this??

@AlexanderEmmanual 8 жыл бұрын

Pretty sure there already is a while ago.

@minecrafter956 8 жыл бұрын

Link?

@linodossantos6718 7 жыл бұрын

realeast guy i know.. foreal

@DominicSwe 8 жыл бұрын

How come you have a low amount of subscribers with so much awesome content?

@sebisman 7 жыл бұрын

I know self awareness is a big topic for you, and im learning a lot for it and I think is really helpful. And I´m curious because I've learned recently about Carol Dweck's concept Growth Mindset and I'm very into it and I think it also helped me a lot improving on some new skills and grabbing new oportunities. Do you think "self awareness" and "Growth Mindset" work in oposite directions? Or is just about different topics? How do you think this works? Thanks man

@ozarsangi7118 8 жыл бұрын

Rich get richer. Gary was rich before Vanyermedia. He had 3m. Imagine starting from nothing damn.

@mandykos 8 жыл бұрын

you obviously have not followed GV for very long if you belive that to be true!

@Digitalfaces1 8 жыл бұрын

Even if that was true. How is it going to help your life bro?

@guinthehouse 8 жыл бұрын

Your mentality fucking sucks. Fix that shit first and then you will get successful.

@galiciaart 7 жыл бұрын

i don't know who am o and who i want to be...

@ErnestWarner 8 жыл бұрын

I am curious to know everyone's reaction to Gary's comments. Who would like to start?

@Digitalfaces1 8 жыл бұрын

Like I said in my comment. Being a minority we have to work 10x harder. Just facts. But you know what? The person who lifts more weights at the gym is stronger and we will be too when the dust settles. So bring me more!

@NTJordan 8 жыл бұрын

This is the mindset of a successful, determined person.

@74Bagas 3 жыл бұрын

haha classic gary

@MaggieMagnoli 8 жыл бұрын

Where can I find the rest of this panel?

@laurynjoyce 4 жыл бұрын

💯

@theashoxford6127 8 жыл бұрын

If only it were that simple. Those Birchbox women would have been so much wealthier and further along if the first 50 hadn't said no. They might have already sold that company and been on to their next bigger and better project. Yes they did keep at it and found you to back their company. That's great for them. But say if they were men they could have been onto company 2 or 3 by now. The gender inequality in this country cannot be summed up in a 3 minute video.

@iamirish4361 8 жыл бұрын

It is hurtful to know that not being born a white male is somehow a disadvantage in some aspects of life. Yet, what you say rings true. So accept it with the notion that you will help change things forever. Better be real about, help make it a world where everyone has an equal opportunity to do and be anything, rather than long for the reality you wish were true.

@ElefitTV 8 жыл бұрын

Why are people so obessed with Casey? #justasking #curious

@ReviewsDude 8 жыл бұрын

Do you watch his content?

@ShammyLadoo 8 жыл бұрын

Yeah. Decent content but it's click baity which pisses people off but the actual videos are of amazing locations and some of his ideas are really awesome (like the snow boarding in newyork) - so sometimes he comes out with an absolute banger

@ReviewsDude 8 жыл бұрын

+Gary Vaynerchuk I couldn't agree more, gary!

@deangeloscott 8 жыл бұрын

He built a lot for himself, and people are attracted to a rags to riches story. Literally Casey was a troubled kid, had a child early, and moved to NY on a dream. Then he grinded it out hard, sleeping on couches and trying to make it work. He fell in love with storytelling and pushed everything aside/risked it all to make it happen. Then he and his brother made it big. He then got complacent and fell off (started doing poorly, not happy, etc.) So he decided to go back to his roots and story tell again. He stumbled upon (sought out) KZfaq for its flexibility and pushed his content. Perfected* his craft and now sits as one of the current kings of visual storytelling on the medium (vlogging). His story has what everyone loves in a story. (Not to put too much of an influence on race, but he's also white, which adds to his relatability/marketability.) At the end of the day, he seems like (and from what I hear) is a REALLY GOOD DUDE, has a HUSTLERS MENTALITY and CARES ABOUT OTHERS. This attitude pushed him far and continues to propel him. I hope that answers your question. Also if you read this far, thank you. I put together case studies on other KZfaqrs in an attempt to teach and share the skills needed to be successful on this platform (and in general really). I have one planned on Casey, (and Gary for that matter) so I had to do a little research. I encourage you to check out the first two in the series over on my channel if you're interested in these sort of breakdowns. But this is already too long so, I'll end it here. Good luck to you ElefitTV, and "I hope you grow to be as strong as an elephant" ;)

@ElefitTV 8 жыл бұрын

Deangelo Scott This has to be the best and most descriptive response I've ever recicved on KZfaq and for that I thank you! "Not to put too much of an influence on race, but he's also white, which adds to his relatability/marketability." THIS IS FREAKING SPOT ON! You're incredible and I will for sure check your videos out, thank you for that bud!!