“The fool does at last what the wise man does at once.”
@Jamie-8433 ай бұрын
Le sage fait immédiatement ce que l’imbecile finit par faire. Nicolas Machiavel.
@80X20FitnessXFinance3 ай бұрын
Yup. Procrastinated on my fitness brand for years. Only to arrive to the question: ”what am I am waiting for”. Now I’m all in.
@casy62033 ай бұрын
😂😢
@radscorpion83 ай бұрын
As a fool I can confirm that I procrastinate
@crispywhiskers93653 ай бұрын
@@80X20FitnessXFinancebest of luck my friend
@dbbdbdbxvdjdkskkskd99433 ай бұрын
I’m glad Cillian Murphy is sharing his knowledge with normal people.
@jeffwhite25113 ай бұрын
I thought the same exact thing
@imogen45353 ай бұрын
He looks more like Matthew gray gubler lol
@cheriegoesrock3 ай бұрын
Thought the same!@@imogen4535
@TotalWealth3 ай бұрын
😂
@iloveshcool3 ай бұрын
@@imogen4535this is the right answer
@luminar23 ай бұрын
Not me clicking on 'save to watch later' 😭
@bddybdz2 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lizethluna4932 ай бұрын
I literally did that 😭😭 but I’m watching it rn so that’s what counts
@venux85702 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@jesslim49672 ай бұрын
fr i did that and immediately checked myself
@Clawdiatherescue2 ай бұрын
😂LOL.
@Lisa.AlexandraАй бұрын
living a soft and slow life in this fast paced world is the revolution 🙏🏼✨
@SpiKSpaN-ei6zqАй бұрын
That's very true 😮
@Levanooo16 күн бұрын
Your statement doesn’t really align with the rest of your content. Do you feel any cognitive dissonance?
@Alex_NBA_Trading12 күн бұрын
@@Levanooo😂
@unstxr11 күн бұрын
@@Levanoooomg 😂
@ViktoriousDead2 күн бұрын
Says the absolute grifter of a human being on KZfaq schilling myths and lies
@edwarda55843 ай бұрын
The biggest lesson I got from this is the need to break free of recreating nostalgia and fulfilling the distorted dreams we had as children. Not every present action needs to be in retaliation to or a repudiation of our past misery. Our actions must always be in response to the needs of today. Instead of toxic thoughts controlling our actions like: "I'm buying this because I was a laughing stock when I was 12. Where are the snobs now? Are they still mocking me over what I didn't have? Am I still a joke to them? Not after this." We should instead think: "I don't need this right now. Who cares what people think about me. Who cares what they ever thought." Somehow we internalised others' negative opinions as personal truths and live our lives controlled by this toxicity. We're better at deflecting it as adults, but when we were young and seeking trusted guidance in the world, we absorbed a lot of it that now controls us.
@seabreeze45592 ай бұрын
why do I respect their opinion of me, more than my own opinion of me?
@dorianlambin26512 ай бұрын
really good comment on a really good video. I will try to think about what you wrote every time I need it. Thannk you and have a good life ! :)
@Cr1z_R2 ай бұрын
@@seabreeze4559Because the environment forces us to do so; if we go back to a couple thousand years ago when we used to live in tribes and clans, being outcasted by the people would most likely result in death, thus it's a survival mechanism. It would also explain why when someone moves to a different part of the country, the accent and vocabulary changes to some degree to fit the new standards of that location.
@JocelyneSegundo2 ай бұрын
Train the subconscious mind. Reboot it is a machine it believes everything you tell it as fact.
@WildDiscoDance2 ай бұрын
This hit me to my core. Really hard to let go of these thought patterns as somebody extremely stubborn and hard headed.
@donotoliver3 ай бұрын
"life passes most people by while they make great plans for it"
@MsWill8133 ай бұрын
I love making plans more than anything 😆
@serpentsound2 ай бұрын
@@user-st6zi6lt8u I think it's more so that we can fulfil an idea that we have. We feel more achieved once we have hit or excelled expectations created by ourselves.
@dylanphelan30102 ай бұрын
I do neither
@wilburdog45082 ай бұрын
@@dylanphelan3010 "life is what happens to you when your busy making other plans" John Lennon - beautiful boy
@timothyslaughter4762 ай бұрын
LIVE, LEARN, DIE....CRUEL TWIST OF TIMING.
@user-ic3hd4sy9f2 ай бұрын
I love how the entire video is just one take rather than the usual multiple snippets edited in together. This feels far more genuine and much closer to a conversation than most content out there. Thank you! Keep up the true work.
@shyinsomniac2 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@kevinguzman81552 ай бұрын
the difference between real knowledge, and youtube knowledge, i'spose?
@allisonkirk69162 ай бұрын
Thank you for pointing out this observation.
@NhungNguyen-zf3bh9 күн бұрын
True😮
@user-re3fd9up7eАй бұрын
Let's admit we clicked on this video because we all feel lost at the moment, and figured maybe hearing this guy out will tell us something we don't know already
@funkXCIV3 ай бұрын
"How long are you going to wait before you demand the best for yourself?" - Epictetus
@FroggyFrog90003 ай бұрын
Thats pretty good.
@brinckau3 ай бұрын
That's also what Karens think. What about demanding the best for others?
@thekantedkalcedony3 ай бұрын
@@brinckauyou indirectly demand the best for others by being your best self.
@brinckau3 ай бұрын
@@thekantedkalcedony But narcissists would use the exact same quote. So, I believed it should be rephrased. Otherwise, you have no way of telling why someone is using this quote.
@agon35053 ай бұрын
Forever
@Jamie-8433 ай бұрын
By procrastinating, life passes us by. And then we no longer dare and everything becomes difficult, far and heavy. Love your videos, thanks for posting this one today.
@user-uq8xv2fp2l3 ай бұрын
What are you chasing? The starting line ? When all roads lead to finish line .
@user-yv9fq5ym9w3 ай бұрын
ooh I felt that.
@ImHeadshotSniper3 ай бұрын
@@user-uq8xv2fp2l i use this analogy literally every day. my dad will often be in a rush to go through a traffic light he has no hope of making before it will turn red, and i'll say all the time "you're rushing just to get to a red light..." this even happened within 20 minutes of the time i'm typing this.. literally. i'll see other people do this all the time too, speeding up past me on the road going at my chill pace, only for us to meet up again at the red light. obviously the analogy is a bit different when there are no traffic lights and you can just keep going, sort of like you can in life, but i do feel like it's a good visual for people who are in a rush to get to the finish without enjoying the race.
@Kayak-qe5fs3 ай бұрын
@@tylerhawksmoor9601you people?
@InShoArt80653 ай бұрын
Powerfull
@aGrapeInUtero2 ай бұрын
Needed this. Perfect timing. 2 days ago I quit a job that was causing me to waste away. I was being treated horribly and just sticking it out because I thought I had to. I didn’t. I came to a breaking point with some of the horrible emails my boss was sending me. I worked hard and I gave them the best I could, but that man is sick. I took a risk and quit on the spot. I couldn’t do it anymore. I feel a lot freer… doesn’t feel real yet… and I need another job. But… I think, despite all of the social constructs that make me feel like it was stupid, it wasn’t and I’m going to be okay. Everyone close to me saw how it was impacting my quality of life and were all very supportive. I didn’t expect that. They called me courageous, each independently of one another. I guess they’re right. I get one life. I want to enjoy it.
@michaelwave8017Ай бұрын
Proud of you and very happy that you have such a supportive circle of people around you. Forget what the constructs shout at you and believe yourself! You got this!
@sphumessanctum70502 ай бұрын
“Hunger is cheap, the pallet is what’s expensive” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@pleasestopcreatingmoresent3328Ай бұрын
Palette is related to art and pertains to colors and painting. Pallet is linked to logistics and denotes a platform for goods transportation. Palate is connected to our mouth and taste, both literally and metaphorically.
@tia904Ай бұрын
@pleasestop The primary school teacher is here... some never got beyond that stage. Thinking is at a higher plane.
@pleasestopcreatingmoresent3328Ай бұрын
@@tia904 ...
@user-hf6ip4mv2gАй бұрын
Healthy food is the most expensive nowadays though
@chrissyp9003Ай бұрын
@@pleasestopcreatingmoresent3328nice
@clarissawright53733 ай бұрын
Society teaches us to think this way, to postpone ourselves, put work first and then play. It starts from school.
@marlonjormungand78453 ай бұрын
You are responsible for yourself, not society.
@zx32273 ай бұрын
@@marlonjormungand7845both can be true
@Craftal3 ай бұрын
@@marlonjormungand7845 Society is composed of selves. We are all responsible for everyone and everything.
@LucaDolanRuiz3 ай бұрын
@@marlonjormungand7845 It's called social conditioning.
@marlonjormungand78453 ай бұрын
@@zx3227 yes both can be true, yet one aspect is in your hands the other one isnt. So where do you begin your change?
@campetrie65623 ай бұрын
“They try, in their adult life, to live up to a child’s fantasy.”
@ExecutionSommaire3 ай бұрын
I believe the unnecessary luxury comes mainly when people give up on their primary goals and start relying on petty pleasures for some sense of fulfillment
@zensvlognotapro3 ай бұрын
I saw a quote and since then it becomes my motivating nuggets it says: Don't postpone Joy. Joy is one of the fruits of holy spirits.
@rakish87373 ай бұрын
@@zensvlognotapro Amen.
@johngilmore6973 ай бұрын
@@zensvlognotapro Tripe
@zensvlognotapro3 ай бұрын
@@johngilmore697 meaning?
@sarsoorGio2 ай бұрын
The problem now is the sheer increase in cost of basic necessities. I agree the priorities are off with things like fancy cars - but even a modest used car now is way too much. People who constantly want more more more things are usually empty inside anyway- it’s a dead end. My problem isn’t in the wanting of excess - I want basic needs met without costing me 3k a month, ya feel me?
@danielafalcao6461Ай бұрын
this
@StellaM2213 күн бұрын
This!!!! Its not striving its barely surviving
@StellaM2213 күн бұрын
And just keeping yourself with a roof over your head, renting or otherwise
@l.w.paradis21084 күн бұрын
Lord, 4k per month qualifies a single person in Chicago for certain benefits. I didn't think I would live to see when a salary of $50k would not be considered solidly middle class. People with degrees expect $80k. Insane. (And what's it like in New York?)
@ionamcbrid2 күн бұрын
Yes, I rent an apartment and travel by bike ( I live in France where this is possible), I buy the majority of my clothes second hand and don’t eat meat or eat out. I’m a university lecturer and all my time is spent working . I’m a single mother of two and rents are high. I’m clear in how I want to send my time but cannot see how it can be done and not become homeless.
@JUPITER111192 ай бұрын
"I travel faster by foot than you by train..." That really captivated me. I'm so glad to find your channel! You have a very calming voice. Like nighttime radio. 📻 I'll be listening at night to wind down.
@del-marmare16463 ай бұрын
Hunger is cheap, the pallet is expensive... wow I love that.
@gregorymoats40073 ай бұрын
Palate
@gregorymoats40073 ай бұрын
Pallets are cheap….
@NygmaNL3 ай бұрын
@gregorymoats4007 Good quality pallets are expensive too
@gregorymoats40073 ай бұрын
@@NygmaNL “Hunger means nothing to the cheap skate…”
@daimsaeed3 ай бұрын
Makes sense delivering food could be more expensive depending where it is being delivered to
@FarkyCZ3 ай бұрын
I am lost in the sea of noise. Past mistakes, current success of others, depression, procrastination. It's healthy to slow down, stop consuming ( literally and metaphorically) and maybe think about more important things in life. Thank you for this video which momentarily stopped me from mindless scrolling and maybe made me reflect on some things in my life. I think we humans should have moments like theses regularly, like a mind calming excercises. Looking for your next videos.
@TiagoReganha2 ай бұрын
That's ADHD 101, look into it. Medication is not magic but can help a lot.
@FarkyCZ2 ай бұрын
@@TiagoReganhai am not sure, never was diagnosed with anything. Noone cared back then.
@gabriel.brasileiro2 ай бұрын
I asked myself: "maybe do women in general think this guy is handsome? I have no idea but suspect so..." lol thanks
@AckDue10 күн бұрын
9:27 My reading is you've never put yourself first. We have a task to fulfil in this life. A Purpose known before birth but forgotten soon after. I have a feeling this is the mystery behind "Know Thyself"
@WEHAVETHISDREAMАй бұрын
This I’d so refreshing: just a friendly human being, pleasant voice, a deep message, no music, no fast cuts, no unnecessary intros/outros, no plea to subscribe or course or limited time offer… JUST A DEEP RANDOM chat with a person. Thank you! THANK YOU.
@sabinethepurposelawyer16653 ай бұрын
It took me 40 years to learn this lesson. Thanks for sharing and reminding me of my focus.
@pleaseusernamework2 ай бұрын
I have always known this and done this until society expected of me to be like everyone else. Expectations and lots of them. I lost my joy of life, health and motivation. Now I am struggling to find my way back to the colorful happy person I once was. Today I am a pale, sick shell of my old self. I look in the mirror and hardly recognize who I have become. I have stopped caring about everything that once meant something. I find that even worse to have known it but to have lost it. Knowing what makes you happy but letting society's expectations to ruin and run your life. I'm happy you have found it. It's never too late. Run with it.
@Hot.sausee3 ай бұрын
People look down on my $4000 car, like they feel bad for me. But the freedom of being able to buy another one, in cash, if something happens to it is what people who want “financial freedom” are looking for. Lovely video
@adaharrisonn3 ай бұрын
How reliable is that 4000 dollar car buddy
@hollycook10243 ай бұрын
Rubbish click bait
@beelzebabe51123 ай бұрын
Who doesn’t love a good ShitBoxCar
@Hot.sausee3 ай бұрын
@@adaharrisonn not bad. It’s a Toyota. Hasn’t stranded me since I got it 3 years ago (knock on wood). I take good care of it tho.
@stumbling3 ай бұрын
"Don't buy anything you can't replace."
@myeloon3 ай бұрын
This is great. My life's been better ever since I adopted a mindset similar to this about a year ago, doing what I want to do in the moment rather than waiting for the "best time" to do it. E.g. going for that bike ride now, rather than waiting for the perfect weather that will never come, or waiting for other people to join in. I found living cheaply was much easier once I found these things that I really enjoy. Waiting for money, other people, or nice weather just leads to doing nothing at all. Live in the moment, cause the future is exactly that, always in the future
@healingpalmsca2 ай бұрын
I agree with you 100%
@seabreeze45592 ай бұрын
abraham hicks and the concept of being in the vortex
@sunmarsh2 ай бұрын
My friend totaled my car 5 years ago, and instead of buying a new one I decided to live without a car, and I moved to an apartment that was within walking distance of a supermarket and bike trail. I also got a job nearby that I could bike to. All this in a city that was not and is not known for being bikeable. (Charlotte, NC) Over the past 7 years I’ve gotten rid of, donated, or sold at least 40% of the things I own, and I live off of about $15,000 a year. My parents don’t understand my decisions, especially since I have three degrees but don’t want to pursue a career in any of those fields. They don’t understand when I tell them I don’t want to work full time. I spent most of the money that I got from my car being totaled on music festival tickets, travel, and tattoos. It took me five years to get back my creativity after graduate school sucked it out of me. I’m now a starving artist and am perfectly content, not having sold a single piece of artwork. My family doesn’t understand my art, but I have a close friend who is into fine arts and her enthusiasm for my work keeps me going, as does my newfound creative spirit.
@Keralite2920 күн бұрын
Congratulations to you for breaking free of your former conditioning, and living an unconventional life that you actually gain more contentment from. I really enjoyed reading your comment - people like you are an example for those of us (like myself) who live on autopilot to follow. Hope you continue to remain true to yourself.
@peterbejger33562 күн бұрын
This is a very inspiring story!
@MackenzieBlume2 ай бұрын
beautiful message. I heard this today: "You can get everything you want, but not until you say with your full chest that you want it". Reminded me of exactly what you are saying. Thank you
@SylviaGonzalez3 ай бұрын
I stumbled upon this notion a year ago and have been working towards it since. Essentially, as adults, we typically get up in the morning to 👉🏼 get ready for work. However, I'm advocating for a shift towards getting up in the morning and, 👉🏼 getting ready for play. And now, play can be whatever you do to keep that fire inside you turned on. ✨ Unlike work, which for a lot of us, dims our light. -- Before this realization, I was a strong proponent of working nights whenever possible. 🌙 Trust me, scheduling your day this way, prioritizing your own work in the morning before doing work for in someone else’s name, results in much higher energy levels. It may feel like when you rearrange a room and you see that you have so much more space, and without having gotten rid of anything! 😉
@Boniquca3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this reframe! 🙌🏾
@junkjunk24933 ай бұрын
... wow , thats clear , thx alot , got it
@HeyY.T.StopDeletingMyComments3 ай бұрын
i could argue with you but I would be wrong..
@phoenixmode69093 ай бұрын
Wow!! Thank you, so much. Your post is the BEST thing I've read this week....or maybe far longer. Thank you!! Yes!!😎✌🏻❤️✨🌻
@operationeight-ld5kd3 ай бұрын
I completely agree. We burn ourselves out for *someone* *else* and we are slaves to the system. Meanwhile, our lives tick by without ever having the opportunity to live them- unless we’re lucky enough to make it to old age, in which case, we are too old and feeble to truly live out our dreams. I’ve learned that hard lesson after being a workaholic, only to become disabled by that job at the age of 37, and that workplace that I gave so much of my hard work, energy, and dedication, where are they now? They don’t care about their employees, they care about the bottom line. When I got hurt, they treated me like a problem they were trying to make go away. And although I truly loved my job, I wasn’t making great money to be there. And now my body is destroyed, in my prime, and for what? Live your life, don’t put yourself last. Don’t procrastinate in your true journey of becoming you. We all think that there will always be plenty of time “someday,” but what happens when you’re unable to use that time to good purpose when it comes? I spend most of my day in bed, even unable to read most times because it’s too painful and difficult to sit up enough to read. I have a lot of time on my hands, but it is spent in pain and immobility, and spent waiting for something that will never come. I don’t say this for anyone to feel sorry for me, I don’t want pity. I am saying this because it is imperative that you enjoy your life *today.* Do the things you want *today.* Life the life you deserve *today.* Because tomorrow may not come in the way you think it should. I’m so grateful that I have KZfaq and that I get to discover phenomenal individuals like this man here. This was one of the best things I’ve ever watched on the importance of living your life, I just wished I would’ve seen it sooner, but I would’ve been busy living life to make other people happy. Live your one precious life. Live it *today.*
@1dw13 ай бұрын
Great presentation. Great message. Straight to the point, no distracting music or edits. Just a man, his books, and philosophy. I just subscribed.
@Automobiliana3 ай бұрын
You wrote what I was thinking. I subscribed too.
@thesharpmedia84822 ай бұрын
And he’s so handsome gosh
@nina_ana3332 ай бұрын
Same! I don't usually subscribe but 10 seconds in and I was like "damn I need to check out all his videos''
@kamileonneАй бұрын
same! i subbed as well and this is the first video of his i've watched
@cbrashsorensenАй бұрын
Excellent commentary. It takes a strong and self-assured personality to undertake the suggestions you make here. Going "against" societal AND parental expectations will be the hardest task you will ever undertake. We are programmed from our earliest days to "fit in" to societal expectations by parents who have embraced societal expectations. Be prepared to be alone--a lot. Be prepared to be pressured to "give up" your silly childish desire to be authentic. Your Mom will want a grandchild. Your Dad will want to boast about your career. Your siblings will want to compare themselves to you. Your potential "wife" WILL want to big house, the nice car, the Hawaii vacation, and 2 children. All those things said, the very best thing a person can do is go their own way.
@worldwatcher693 ай бұрын
At this point in my life, I really need a friend like you.🙏 You are a good person who shares wisdom and give us really positive energy. Wishing you all the best ❤️
@nicoledyer92313 ай бұрын
In my own experience it has proven to be helpful to actually know what it is that I want and just do it. Simple things like having a coffee on my balcony in the mornings when it’s warm outside - taking care of a beautiful plant - having kind and insightful conversations with my partner. As I continually find myself naturally living a life that I find fulfilling, I continually find that I ALWAYS have ALL of the resources to support that life. The momentum built up in the so called small things evolves into much bigger things in an organic way.
@1YzeWhoaman68213 ай бұрын
I resonate with this.
@3kg_tangerine1133 ай бұрын
beautifully put
@monicricri3 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@hangloosejanjuc3 ай бұрын
Are you doing manifestation type work?
@nicoledyer92313 ай бұрын
@@hangloosejanjucI consider it a cross section between many different philosophies. Mentalism, Buddhism, Stoicism, Taoism, etc. I typically navigate the paths of awe and wonderment. I think that I understand your question though…and I can answer that with a yes, but among other things as well.
@majapapaya75253 ай бұрын
Can we please have more videos on this topic? I feel like we as a society are so much trying to become a perfect "ideal" of a high functioning "nothing". We are all caught up in this high performing "successful person idea" but we don't ask ourselves where we are going. It's like our "direction vector" is not present but we're full-speed jumping into the abbyss.
@SylviaGonzalez3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing in this observation with me. I’ve been feeling judged because I’m not status or wealth seeking. It seems I was on an upward trajectory back there, but not for MY PURPOSE. So I had to learn some new skills, which meant taking a step back from the hustling and instead, studying. Now that I’m essentially starting over, I can literally hear the judgement (I’m clairaudient.) It's inspiring to find others who refuse to be mere participants in the rat race, even in an age where it's conveniently packaged within the palm of our hands. Here's to those who value meaningful pursuits over the mindless hustle. 🥂✨
@jeanjacqueslundi35023 ай бұрын
Success is bs. ALl forms of it. I knew as a kid that the life offered to me was BS, but even the more conscious humans subconsciously pass this sense onto you you are nothing if you are not doing something. Life isn't homework. Life is YOUR experience. It's MY experience. I do what I want with it......and there's millions of ways of doing it. Running around like a headless chikcen chasing thigns, or being a harsh critic of mysel sound very dumb. To what end? Death's only cool thing is that it helps put time in prespective. When I die I won't care one bit what I accomplished. I don't intend to take the judgements of this world with me to my personal heaven.
@benjaminmitchell60163 ай бұрын
@@jeanjacqueslundi3502 yes but if you aren't doing anything, at any point, then who are you? How can you have no ambition, or will to do something good with your life?
@jeanjacqueslundi35023 ай бұрын
@@benjaminmitchell6016 How do kids go through life? Is it ambition, or enjoyment that drives them? And I didn't say I don't have my desires and ideals....just that they have nothing to do with you or the programming of the world. And I don't have to make myself feel like "sh*t" if I don't manage them. Unless they are moral....but I got those covered WITHOUT playing into the world's idea of ambition.
@MnemonicHeadTrip3 ай бұрын
@@jeanjacqueslundi3502the role that corporations play in this should not be ignored. We are not meant to work 50+ hours a week at a retail or office job just to be able to afford to have a shelter. If our time at work was limited then we would have more time for ourselves
@JaydedWun2 ай бұрын
HIlariously I left this open in a tab for weeks before finally getting around to watching it. I feel like I live in line with these ideas more than many of those around me, but the messaging from society has gotten so strong that I find myself constantly questioning my values. It's always nice to be reminded of these values through the reflection of others. Thanks!
@SapphireNguyen2 ай бұрын
I have to say that I love everything about your videos, and about your channel in general. You are so honest, kind, erudite and calm. Your videos are so simple in visual or sound effects yet they are fascinating to watch and full of wisdom and warm, secure, positive energy ❤
@mrsteve30383 ай бұрын
Thank You! "you go to work, but THE WORK of LIFE, YOU HAVEN'T PUT A SINGLE MINUTE IN!" LOVE IT! Blessing and LOVE!
@arthur782 ай бұрын
I haven't been this captivated by a KZfaq video in a long time. Love your demeanor and delivery.
@megyerizsuzsadora2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts - pretty inspiring! I’ve put myself last for many years - was disconnected from me *and* was there for others. Over the past months, I’ve turned the tables and am now happy for finally choosing me and am sad about losing people around me. Here’s to this new exciting chapter that is called growth🤗✨
@haleyhart93733 ай бұрын
We all need more patience and less procrastination, we must believe in who we’re becoming instead of the fear of who we might truly be
@nina_ana3332 ай бұрын
Well said 🙌🏾
@MK_ULTRA4202 ай бұрын
Live, Laugh, Love
@VickyDPi3 ай бұрын
Look, I'm a simple woman: I see a handsome guy in front of a bookshelf reminding me of ancient wisdoms, I click.
@shaneemoretgrowthacademy2 ай бұрын
😂
@raggaahmed86262 ай бұрын
😂 😊😊😊😊😊
@alreadybanned-pe6se2 ай бұрын
Get a husband who loves God Looks aren't important
@noorlita2 ай бұрын
@@alreadybanned-pe6seshe was not asking for his hand in marriage relax
@seabreeze45592 ай бұрын
@@alreadybanned-pe6se "looks aren't important" you must be fug
@paolamura34972 ай бұрын
A beautiful man with a beautiful mind. Not something you come across everyday!
@Moonriversoul2 ай бұрын
you're so comforting bro, book people always are, love you
@user-xz6cb3iz8s3 ай бұрын
I wish this video was posted a month earlier. I’ve grinded myself into depression, almost deleted myself from existence trying to accumulate more money, trying to create a place to be happy with my beloved girlfriend in a future. I’ve completely forgot that I’ll never be in a future, here&now is all that I’ll ever experience. Now I don’t have a girlfriend. I’ve ruined everything. Paradoxically, after some time of mental agony, after I’ve lost my dream, I’m awake as I’ve never been. Just trying to become the best possible version of myself. Better late than never)
@escherichiacoli70693 ай бұрын
if you sometimes get the feeling things are falling apart, maybe they are just falling into place... your suffering is not created by your circumstances, but rather by your resistance. keep your head up bro, this too shall pass.
@SonicUmami3 ай бұрын
At what point did you realize you were overextended yourself for money ? I,myself am trying to have enough money to pursue my dream, but I keep wondering at what point does it become destructive instead of freeing ?
@user-xz6cb3iz8s3 ай бұрын
For me it was the moment when I realized that I think about my job almost every single hour. Either what to do with this or that particular nuisance, or what am I doing wrong, or what if it’s not “my type” of job. Now I clearly see that the common denominator of all my career choices and mistakes and problems was me. Of course, it’s (probably?) cool when your job is so meaningful and exciting that you can think about it all day long; but now I try to distance myself from my job. It’s not me. No matter how hard am going to f*ck things up - it’s all out there. I’ve done what I can out of what I should - and that’s it.
@TerriblePerfection3 ай бұрын
I realized many years ago that it made no sense to give any other human power over our happiness. Although I have been married 30 years now and would prefer that my partner continues to grow older with me, his physical absence couldn't diminish the beauty of life. I hope you always know that too.
@jamessteele71023 ай бұрын
You’re lucky you weren’t married to her or she would have taken with her half the money you made trying to impress her, and she’d now be spending it gleefully with her next boyfriend(s). All guys should insist on prenuptial agreements before getting married, no matter how poor they are, unless it’s an extremely rare case where the woman is wealthy and they guy is not.
@QuranKareem5633 ай бұрын
Well said! Our luxuries cost us more than money, they come at the cost of time and the things we actually love.
@seabreeze45592 ай бұрын
opportunity cost?
@iamabigaillucille2 ай бұрын
Needed this so much today, thank you.❤ I took the day off of work (2nd day in a row) and felt so guilty about it. I just wanted time for me, I didn’t want to “perform”, I just wanted to be. I am going to be 32 this year and haven’t gotten around to all the things I want to do in my life because I have been in the mindset of “if I just work for a little longer then I’ll start on my passions” I’m already about to be 32 and I’ve had this mindset for ten years and it’s time to reevaluate what is truly important. Thank you ✨
@BerniceNelson2 ай бұрын
I genuinely appreciate that you didn't edit this..I felt like I was sitting down with a friend and I needed to hear this. Thank you✨️
@brianh93583 ай бұрын
Back in my late 20s I decided to get married and have a family. When you make that decision you also take on the responsibility of providing for the needs (and wants) of your family. So my time isn't necessarily my own anymore. That adds another layer that separates you from taking care of your own personal goals. I don't regret my decision to have a family, but sometimes I do wish I had more time to focus on myself. I have found myself being more forceful with taking that time recently, but it is difficult to do (and even more so when you have a family). But it is quite easy to fall into the "Well when I retire I'll have that time" mindset. But when I think back on my father, he maybe had 2 good years after he retired before health problems closed in. So, my suggestion to you is make sure your family knows that you need your own time and that their needs can't always be paramount. Be equally forceful in regards to yourself - don't allow the eternally expanding to-do list to take over your life.
@brandyoctober59232 ай бұрын
I understand this ❤ i love my daughters and i want to provide so much for them.
@BloopyChips3 ай бұрын
The way you speak is so calming. I think a philosophy ASMR series would take off like mad.
@winchesterdown3 ай бұрын
This is fine. No need to be AMSR.
@RM-ti8nf3 ай бұрын
I find it boring
@dickurkel69103 ай бұрын
@@RM-ti8nfMaybe your attention span has already been killed?
@cici25622 ай бұрын
I think he sounds incredibly similar to Dr. Gabor Maté (whose voice I love!)
@Chirp-zi4nx2 ай бұрын
I can’t stand the swallowing noises
@DreamOfGermany2 ай бұрын
This man looks like a Chad and thinks like a Greek philosopher, he has a bright future ahead of him
@QueenQueenly2 ай бұрын
I postponed myself 25 years. It’s exhausting
@Tellittothefireflies3 ай бұрын
I’m very glad to have found this video. I’ve been needing to hear something like this for a very long time, and known it as well. This is the first video I’ve ever come by of yours and it won’t be the last, your content seems genuine and refreshing, thank you for sharing.
@AppalachiaHermit3 ай бұрын
This video randomly showed up on my feed. Really appreciate you taking the time to put this out there. I didn’t realize how much I needed to hear this.
@v8BlaCKzZ2 ай бұрын
the stuff touches the soul man - thank you for reminding us
@BKing0072 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙂🙏🏼 felt like a great reminder and a conversation or genuinely listening to someone than watching a video on KZfaq for self-help as a guy who's got a lot to figure out all by himself
@anakk67783 ай бұрын
Having spare time for reading - that's the privelege Never thought I'll grow up and the sick mad world will take this away from me Tomorrow I'll see if I'm able to put it as priority at 6 am
@KRAZEEIZATION3 ай бұрын
Guy sounds like Gabor Maté when I look away! Brilliant advice.
@MetalizedButt3 ай бұрын
Looks like Spencer Reed from criminal minds when you look straight at him
@nokateno2 ай бұрын
a lot of people starting to sound like Gabor Maté on here 🤔
@shyinsomniac2 ай бұрын
Huge compliment. Gabor mate is very intelligent, love him.
@Innamoramento92 ай бұрын
That's what this guy looks like! I'm just listening without looking at the video and even the way he talks, wording choice and cadence, is all Gabor Mate.
@EdmundIZHigh3 ай бұрын
Appreciate the reminder. Follow the flow and react accordingly, for nothing is predictable 100%.
@josefadams6473 ай бұрын
Thank you brother. I’m blessed from hearing this.
@3ki3ra33 ай бұрын
i’ve found myself stumbling upon stoicism so often recently. something that has always deeply resonated with me, but i push to the side in pursuit of the comfort of what i know to be “easier”. i’ve struggled to remain focused on many things recently, but this video really spoke to me. thank you for this.
@craftygurl101013 ай бұрын
As much as I’d love to agree with this, and good points are made, I live in minimalism and still have to work my ass off for bare survival. Of course being poor is expensive (the boots tale is a good one) but at the end of the day u must pursue ur passion relentlessly, but manage to make urself strong enough to balance it all.
@ablurida2 ай бұрын
This
@Akash-yr2if2 ай бұрын
Thomas, Loved your advice.
@kasperprime34792 ай бұрын
Thank you for expressing yourself. This touched me.
@mojoryse78363 ай бұрын
i can tell you are a genuine person :) thank you for your words
@kevinradigan26883 ай бұрын
Good video! This is exactly what I've been struggling with in recent months and what you talk about is exactly what I need to hear. Thanks for making content like this.
@LyticiaAMR2 ай бұрын
I've been posponing this video, but was deffo worth it. Thank you!
@eclipse981003 ай бұрын
Everyone clicked on this video bc this man looks like a legend
@PureAwareness762 ай бұрын
Of course he's not 🤣
@aceilidhАй бұрын
Nope. He just looked like someone worth listening to to me.
@AnAntiqueLady3 ай бұрын
Actually I clicked on this video because I thought you were Cillian Murphy
@zeniascreativespace38903 ай бұрын
Me too! 😅 but I love this person’s message
@stevecarter88103 ай бұрын
Genuine chuckle in the middle of all this stoical earnestness. Thank you!
@user-jv2lp5pn2t3 ай бұрын
this guy looks better than cillian tbh.
@yo62853 ай бұрын
he looks like that guy from criminal minds
@trinityshears273 ай бұрын
I thought it was Matthew gray gubler🤭
@rmschindler1443 ай бұрын
my principle is: love made me like itself; I am love . in the face of that brilliance, I easily see, for example, how putting myself down is _not_ love
@yosmuc3 ай бұрын
It’s beautiful ❤
@rmschindler1443 ай бұрын
@@yosmuc you’re beautiful! :)
@yosmuc3 ай бұрын
@@rmschindler144 😊🤗
@naeshelle2 ай бұрын
Oh, I love this. How wonderful, thank you for this.
@Ch0senJuanАй бұрын
Women… Lol
@crunkcore2 ай бұрын
It’s like I know my routine is keeping me down, I know the ways in which it’s negatively affecting my life, but it’s still so hard to change it
@PistisSophia.1Ай бұрын
Same. My sleep schedule is messed up my whole life. Even if I try to restrict and force myself, I switch back to old habits and a shitty routine. Like, if you're bored with your routine, try doing something disruptive like deciding to do something creative, following your healthy impulses, etc. A bit of randomness can be good to counterbalance rigidity and monotony. I wish the best for you! ❤ ... I have to say that you look a bit like the artist St. Vincent! Hugs, Ronald "Nique" McDonalds
@apspencer66853 ай бұрын
Taking time to watch this today was my work of life; I did what I wanted, then what I had to do, and then what I deserved.
@benjaminsams163 ай бұрын
You should consider giving a tour of your personal library/bookshelf. I think a good deal of us viewers would be greatly interested in such a video considering the depth of knowledge you seem to possess. Looking forward to the next video regardless!
@user-mb1vh5fr8c3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. It really helps me reevaluate my own priorities and values.
@mirjamaruvalja3 күн бұрын
this is exactly what i needed right now. pure gold 🙏
@pinkflower131Ай бұрын
I was drawn to your aura & your concerned expression of your video picture 🙏🏽 your energy looks & feels so calming. ❤️
@federico6173 ай бұрын
I'm at 2:28 and already mindblown! My version is: I need to first heal my difficult health condition (and trauma etc) and then I can do all these things that make me happy.
@AaronLyons3 ай бұрын
Read the book cured - the science of spontaneous remissions Often remissions from health issues happen when people completely redecorate their life and alter their routines Joe Dispenza has great books on the topic titled You are the placebo, breaking the habit of being yourself, and becoming supernatural
@desiderata3332 ай бұрын
@@AaronLyons Thank you! I will check this book out. I feel much better and my MS is not as bad once I left my evil husband. Same for my chronically ill daughter. We both still go through so much, but with that evil man living with us, we are much better after 4 years.
@AaronLyons2 ай бұрын
@@desiderata333 please check out Joe Dispenza work and committedly do the meditations
@anowhouston3 ай бұрын
I was about to postpone watching this video by throwing it in my “watch later”… then I thought, well I better just watch it now 😂
@JackDullBoy52 ай бұрын
Great video 👌🏼🔥 I think it very much depends on what you want in life, sometimes you have to ‘postpone yourself’ and do the hard graft first in order to achieve it. ‘nothing in life is handed to you’ for most of us in life this is the truth. You are definitely right about cutting out the BS like social media, procrastination and pointless distractions though that’s universal!
@jamesanderson49332 ай бұрын
This is one of the most profound insights I have heard or watched. Thank you.
@hmki6213 ай бұрын
Your voice is relaxing. Listening to you talk is therapeutic
@shivongay3 ай бұрын
i usually dont comment but im going to cry, thank you for this video and this channel and all the things you said and your narration. the one thing i promised myself to do this year was to start living actively and to get into stoic philosophy, and this is exactly the push i needed. i dont know, i just feel so grateful, thank you so much;'(((
@exodusthang4 күн бұрын
I just wanna say thank you for this thoughtful message. I wanna be like you. I really appreciate your videos. Your voice is very calm too.
@Gamer-monk.2 ай бұрын
What a brilliant presentation. Simple and profound! Thanks a million for this! I SO needed to hear this...
@zack493 ай бұрын
You know what's more expensive than a car though? Dependents. Unless you are fine with letting them grow up in poverty and letting them figure out how to fund college (or to not and have their career options severely limited). And, if you work less on improving your earning power in a career, you will end up spending more hours at work to fund a basic lifestyle because you are paid less per hour. It's not like you can decide you are no longer materialistic and just stop working, have all this free time. I agree that it is important to know what is really important in life and put that first. That doesn't support the claim that the answer is to 'desire less, earn less, spend less'. That applies in a minority of cases where somebody is putting in overtime at work in order to buy luxury goods, and they could stop putting in that overtime. I believe your observation here was helpful, but the conclusion rang hollow, was not sufficiently thought out. Edit: I think that a better conclusion would be to have more clarity on personal values and how those translate into action. I think if you asked most people what their deepest values were, their answers would be vague at best. Certainly not developed enough to live out. That would be a good place for most people to start.
@rob_see3 ай бұрын
well put, while the wisdom he shares is undeniable, he is a young man living well in his twenties in a rich country, and it seems obvious he comes from a good family, so his advice doesnt apply to all people or even most people
@mosof553 ай бұрын
This is a very good comment. Earning a good salary means your kids can grow up in a safer environment that fosters growth, and attend schools with more thoughtful teachers and students (ironically, they will spend time with people who are NOT glued to a tablet or an ipad all day). Having money also allows your kids to pursue fine arts, sports and cultural activities. I have lived amongst the underclass and it is not something to be glorified
@wenchology2 ай бұрын
I agree.
@relicofgold2 ай бұрын
It's not a mystery. We postpone ourselves because of 1) fear of failure, 2) not enough resources to pursue our dreams as we toil away at useless, pointless jobs.
@aliceandappetizersАй бұрын
Heavy on not enough resources. There are so many things I want to do and so many things I am capable of doing but I came from a low income background and have yet to breakthrough to a better financial situation. It’s discouraging because I’m getting older and my years are passing me by but also, I want to do the things that inspire me and the things I’ve always dreamed of doing
@relicofgoldАй бұрын
@@aliceandappetizers This sounds pollyannish, but your only real choice is to keep trying and keep the faith. I wish I could hand every starving artist a million bucks. Lots of people make it later in life.
@tblack9711Ай бұрын
Exactly!! I'm not "waiting" to create, I don't have time because I don't have $ and I don't have $ because I'm wasting my time working jobs that I hate instead of drawing/painting which will make me way more money in the long run. It's a horrible catch 22 and I'm starting to feel like I'm going to have a nervous breakdown if this doesn't change.
@Lauren_bexАй бұрын
we postpone our selves because we have lack of relationships, long term connections with other people are no longer a thing! Plus we can't afford anything because society has made it difficult to attain, so we don't invest in our society and even in ourselves.
@relicofgoldАй бұрын
@@Lauren_bex Sounds like a culture in decline.
@TheBoyWithDreams2 ай бұрын
thanks man, loved this. I am glad this came on my timeline. shared it with all the people i love and everyone else.
@discourser13 күн бұрын
You looked into my soul and said exactly the things I needed to hear. Thank you.
@PETSWORLD_3 ай бұрын
Indeed this title spoke to me. There are many ways this title can be interpreted. For me, I’m at a point in my life where keeping my word to myself is my top priority. Why? Because I have not kept it for years now. This has affected my self-esteem, confidence, and ability to trust myself. My current life circumstances are also a result of postponing myself. Regarding the phrases “throw it all away” or “untie the knot” a phrase I also use is “burn the boats”. They all have the same meaning. Brilliant video and one that resonates exactly with this point in my life. Thank you sir.
@antonbarth13703 ай бұрын
Who is this good looking person and articulate literate machine? On you youtube?! There is so much wisdom behind your words (and Senecas of course) Thank you so much for sharing your clear intelectual and personal insights on youtube and for the algorithm to deliver it !!!🙏
@Raxfyr3 ай бұрын
this is a really nice comment and i dont mean to disparage it at all but it just made me think that in the future people will literally worship algorithms. giving thanks when the algo returns good, offering penance when it returns bad
@lena-Ramone3 ай бұрын
I know people can be so up but 😂
@daylinlott57233 ай бұрын
It's a common message. What makes him so compelling is he is talking to us from the 1970's.
@ronmackinnon937413 күн бұрын
@@daylinlott5723 Interesting observation. We might compare his appearance in this video to the cover shot of James Taylor on the 'Sweet Baby James' album.
@lena7xАй бұрын
wow, thank you. these words really resonated with me. i took notes and this is my new favorite channel. thank you for this small moment of enlightenment and hope.
@kevinlogan61712 ай бұрын
Thats the first time I see you. I feel something very positive and benevolent coming from you. Thanks
@lidianemota27813 ай бұрын
It’s a 2000 years old quote, and still I stumble upon this video about it right after a therapy session reflecting on that specific experience that has been going on for my entire adult life. Impressive one, universe lol
@r34ct43 ай бұрын
Damn, somehow the algorithm brought us all together and here we are all listening to this most profound powerful message. I am currently in bed delaying getting up, first thing i did this morning was grab my phone. Well done, sir.
@Bv-yl5dg2 ай бұрын
Hopefully tomorrow will be different
@luciahelenan.teruel301Ай бұрын
Amazing perspective! It's exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you!! 🌹
@IsaacBlencowe2 ай бұрын
This video came at exactly the right time for me. I have been feeling a lot of lower emotions recently. I have been feeling very deeply that its time to stop holding back on myself and what I feel called to in this life. I can see the person I can become and the things I want to bring into the world. But I keep holding back and 'postponing' myself. Ive been doing it almost all my life. 'Waiting' for the right moment to step into the person I feel is inside me. And the value I can bring to the world. Ive recently passed 30 years old. And starting to feel like time is passing me by and I can no longer hold back on these things. Some might say thats young and laugh. But to me having had these dreams and calling for years now. It feels like a long time to delay. Anyway I just randomly opened KZfaq tonight after feeling all these emotions the last few weeks and especially the last few days. I felt so present watching this video. And it hit me very deeply. It then led me to being reminded of this quote below. I cried when I read it. Thank you for this video. Its exactly what I needed right now. This is the quote: "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others"
@mariakhan45023 ай бұрын
You are so intelligent. And you look like an ancient greek philosopher.you’re just perfect 😢
@CollinMPLS2 ай бұрын
So what I gathered is to take precious care of the opportunity each day brings, and the choices within it. Also the priority and investment in actions with consistency lead to a stronger outcome. so if I cut loose what unimportant things bleed my limited time and energy, and focus that energy into what I value most, my life will change in that direction. Thanks, makes sense
@meribau2 ай бұрын
The key to being happy is so simple but many people want to be someone they are not, many people care WAAY TOO MUCH about what others think of them. Great video
@UniversalMysticsOfChrist3 ай бұрын
THANK YOU! This was perfect and right on time! It gave me a relieving clarity.
@vxgasworld2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Not too long ago I felt like I needed to build up two multimillion dollar businesses in order to persue my indie artist career. Then I realized I wouldn’t have the time for my music if I was busy running businesses. I quit my cushy factory job, moved out of my 2BR apartment, into my car that I own, and ran my business out of a storage unit. Once I decided to get an RV I saved up $1200 and got a fixer upper to live in. It’s beautiful and I couldn’t be happier. Now that I’m not working to live, living to work, I am putting all my money into my music career. This is an amazing realization thank you for speaking on this
@veronicaeugenia22313 ай бұрын
So true. I've tried to live by this most of my life. Drive a beater car that I own, no payments. Don't own a home or any of the toys that might get in the way of being free to pursue my dreams and compromise my time and energy too much. Tho I can always do better with this. Thanks for the inspiration!
@vintage_violet3 ай бұрын
Love my older car, no payment, not even 100k mileage on it (it's 18 years old!). If I can't afford to fix I'll sell it as I don't commute to work, luckily it's only a recreation car (and I don't even use it much for that lol). I'm "boring" but have space for things like reading, taking walks, hobbies, etc! I also live somewhere others may poo-poo (a mobile home park) but again it's the cost of "my life" that I factor in, no big mortgage means I'm more free...
@portugeese_man_o_war3 ай бұрын
@@vintage_violetI love your comment but by do you live in a port a potty?
@Romulan_type2 ай бұрын
I like the way you present this topic! It’s very easy to connect to
@YagnaseniMitra2 ай бұрын
I don't know what's more mesmerizing, that sentence, or your delivery in this video.
@Berrybabe092 ай бұрын
I don’t know if this was intentional, but your voice is so relaxing that i found it much easier to focus and absorb what you’re saying. It calmed me down from the usual fast-paced, rapid attention span style of advice that is so prevalent in social media now, specifically youtube shorts & instagram reels. I felt like it was a calm & steady lecture that forced my attention span to slow down and be present with, instead of having fast, efficient snippets of advice being thrown at me for sake of saving time. Thank you for making this video 🩷