When You Just Ain’t Got it All Together

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Dry Creek Wrangler School

Dry Creek Wrangler School

Жыл бұрын

Young people are under so much pressure today to have everything figured out and worked out by a certain age. The truth is we're all learning and growing our entire lives and there are always going to be failures and points in our lives when we don't feel like we have a clue what we are doing. This is natural. I just want to encourage you that in your time of failure do not consider yourself a failure. No one ever has it all figured out. No one. Life is about learning and growing over the course of the entire journey.
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@mecalos
@mecalos 7 ай бұрын
This is the best cutscene from Red Dead Redemption 2 ever.
@MrWinning43
@MrWinning43 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@xler3441
@xler3441 2 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you so much and He is waiting for you with open arms, please accept Him in your heart and life while He is near
@andrewbuchanan3380
@andrewbuchanan3380 2 ай бұрын
Lol
@SmileyCat360
@SmileyCat360 2 ай бұрын
He's definitely an honorary member of the Morgan/Marston Gang 👌
@fluffernutter6633
@fluffernutter6633 Ай бұрын
RDR2 is a shit game
@anthonygill3261
@anthonygill3261 7 ай бұрын
“A smooth sea has never made a skilled sailor.”
@nostalgiaurges
@nostalgiaurges 3 ай бұрын
Nice!
@millsykooksy4863
@millsykooksy4863 3 ай бұрын
I love this
@Jazz12211
@Jazz12211 3 ай бұрын
Amazing
@sloshed-rat
@sloshed-rat 2 ай бұрын
A great Franklin D. Roosevelt quote, for sure.
@tamatama8117
@tamatama8117 2 ай бұрын
​@@troxexlot18lol
@questioncontrol6787
@questioncontrol6787 Ай бұрын
"A man with enough wisdom has seen too much pain."
@kthx1138
@kthx1138 17 күн бұрын
Pain chisels at a man for sure. It either kills a man or it hardens his heart, his resolve. It also deeply humbles a man, so his priorities become simple, love and simple pleasures.
@Ck.m3
@Ck.m3 13 күн бұрын
The reality of life
@georgewhitehouse8630
@georgewhitehouse8630 10 күн бұрын
The smart people learn from their mistakes and the wise people will learn from others too ❤
@ohoyawa8656
@ohoyawa8656 9 күн бұрын
Or a man with enough wisdom has read a lot of books.
@RhinoStompin
@RhinoStompin 4 күн бұрын
Pain teaches empathy. Pain is a temporary punishment for a life long gift.
@nataliehunt7554
@nataliehunt7554 4 ай бұрын
Ppl think failure is bad, but its the best teacher. Failure is necessary for growth. Its a gift.
@xler3441
@xler3441 2 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you so much and He is waiting for you with open arms, please accept Him in your heart and life while He is near
@ninjadeamon
@ninjadeamon Ай бұрын
Failure is all fun and games until you end up homeless and starving under a bridge somewhere.
@huyphamle159
@huyphamle159 Ай бұрын
Except grades at school,nobody born with the same brain
@RFK_wait4_2028
@RFK_wait4_2028 Ай бұрын
​@@ninjadeamonI've been there before, and I'm there right now. Failure only breaks those who don't understand it. It broke me when I was studying math and physics at university where I became so anxious I couldn't study anymore. A few years later I found myself homeless for the first time. I was in Minneapolis in the summer. Minneapolis is an astonishingly beautiful city, with parks and lakes everywhere. I was outside for 4 months that summer and it was probably the most blissful period in my life. I spent the days meditating by the lakes, and working in a group home, at night I slept in a hammock in the park. It's all about perspective.
@FrankCalero-oi7tx
@FrankCalero-oi7tx Ай бұрын
It is, and it doesnt matter how many times you fall and fail as long as you keep getting back up and try one more time....that's how you get it together.
@RatedMf0rmanly
@RatedMf0rmanly Жыл бұрын
Hearing a stranger on the internet say "It's alright. You're not supposed to have it all together." is one of the most comforting things I've heard since my life took a turn for the worse.
@morgadoapi4431
@morgadoapi4431 Жыл бұрын
The only way to feel human and connected to anyone in my life is by sharing our vulnerabilities
@justchikibaby
@justchikibaby Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@erikasmith4267
@erikasmith4267 Жыл бұрын
this is an amazing video and so much respect for this guy doing this video
@helloworld2784
@helloworld2784 Жыл бұрын
Same 😭❤
@kachi2782
@kachi2782 Жыл бұрын
You're supposed to haver it all figured out and all together if you don't then you become self-indulgent, self righteous and self-entitled and you end up being a parasite to the world you live in, to the people around you and eventually to yourself.
@gone84328
@gone84328 Жыл бұрын
Beginning of video: "Now, im not very wise" Rest of the video: *Pure, unadulterated wisdom for us to learn from*
@TolstoyPlastic
@TolstoyPlastic Жыл бұрын
The more you know, the more aware you are of all the things you don't know...
@HawkGTboy
@HawkGTboy Жыл бұрын
The beginning of wisdom is "I do not know."
@xxxx7344
@xxxx7344 Жыл бұрын
nj
@ericbeagle5174
@ericbeagle5174 11 ай бұрын
Yes, precisely my friend
@50clint85
@50clint85 11 ай бұрын
The wiser you become you realize just how little you actually know. This man is a blessing to us all. He's sharing his testimony of a cumulative life lessons put in perspective he worried about everything we worry about give a helping hand once in awhile if you see somebody struggling
@lev-listens
@lev-listens 4 ай бұрын
I’m a 13 year old girl who was just scrolling on youtube to get my mind out of the worries and stumbled upon a cool cowboy philosopher. must be a little weird seeing my age around here but I wanna say thank you.
@overratedprogrammer
@overratedprogrammer 3 ай бұрын
You have time to figure it all out. But you also don't have forever, it's a balance. Too many people wait for the right conditions and life passes by. If I could go back to being 13 I wish I was more focused. Now I'm focused but don't have the time. It doesn't have to consume your life either, enjoy being a kid and take care knowing you will have many, many lows, but they always pass somehow.
@davidacevedo8403
@davidacevedo8403 3 ай бұрын
@@overratedprogrammerl
@pandaiboi3281
@pandaiboi3281 2 ай бұрын
god i needed to hear this as a 17 yo ty @@overratedprogrammer
@BRC_Del
@BRC_Del 2 ай бұрын
PLEASE take the time to choose to be an idiot. Now. Call a friend and go do something stupid today or tomorrow. You'll remember it for years.
@xler3441
@xler3441 2 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you so much and He is waiting for you with open arms, please accept Him in your heart and life while He is near
@curioustrades
@curioustrades Ай бұрын
Going to leave this here as a reminder for myself. Whenever this gets a like I will get reminded. Sometimes I wonder why God makes me wait. I know his plan is perfect. I know God has me waiting for a reason. It feels like I've been in isolation for a long period now. I'm about to get back into doing what I love. I know God will always be with me. I give my life to Jesus Christ. I know looking back I'll be able to connect the dots. Understanding it had to happen just as it did. All the heartbreaks, setbacks, and nights worrying about if you're on the right path. It will all be lifted once I get there. To anyone out there. God will never abandon you.
@paigee.walker
@paigee.walker 2 күн бұрын
Im also in a waiting season. About to leave my job, its slowing breaking me. I need to trust Jesus
@7777SN
@7777SN 2 күн бұрын
😓😓
@beeamerica5024
@beeamerica5024 Жыл бұрын
Well Dwayne I'm 75 and I'm here to tell you I don't think you ever get it completely figured out we are all our own worst enemy 🐝
@HistoricMetals
@HistoricMetals Жыл бұрын
I am 54, twice divorced, father of a 31 year old daughter from the first marriage, and I've been on my own again since the second marriage ended in 2005. I still have no idea what I am doing and I don't think my health will see me through to 75 (45 year heavy smoker and bad emphysema). Not the man I thought would grow into, but I'm more of a man than most guys I know in my peer circle who are still doing ridiculous things and learning lessons I learned long ago by starting early. I still have no idea what I am doing ,and I am totally okay with that at this point. I have some shoulda/coulda/woulda's but those are the most toxic thing I can imagine, so I try not to let them eat me from the inside out like a corrosive. And that's that.
@beeamerica5024
@beeamerica5024 Жыл бұрын
@@HistoricMetals the sad part about 75 is I've seen so many friends go already and many of them come to me telling me they don't want to go I simply look at them and smile and say change your lifestyle you will be here longer it says if we try to destroy ourself with our pleasures I am very basic been married three times divorce since 94 have a grown daughter by first wife we don't talk my mother recently passed my sister's taking all the money but I still have a positive outlook and a smile on my face and try to get others to do the same we're all here for a reason and we'll all leave when it's our time I'm actually working part-time as a security guard which I seem to enjoy meet a lot of nice people but that could be the end of me also 😁😆😉🐝
@HistoricMetals
@HistoricMetals Жыл бұрын
@@beeamerica5024 I havent talked to my daughters mother since our last day in divorce court either almost 2 decades ago. She cheated. She took everything. I took a long time to recover. I attended my aunt's 90th birthday party yesterday in Nashville. I can't imagine turning 90 and you yourself are still a long way from it too. Here's hoping we both make it, just to be able to say we did that too. Hell sounds like we both already did everything else. I too am very basic. I think going through a lot of tough experiences in relationships, finances, having those ups and downs finally makes you realize, you can even out the bumps by being happier with what you got in the lows of the curves and not being so damn wound up about climbing back up to the peaks that matter less and less over time anyway. The middle, is nice and even and easy. Is it choosing mediocrity? Maybe, or maybe it's just choosing to get off the silly cycle and even things out. Good luck out there, Sir!
@beeamerica5024
@beeamerica5024 Жыл бұрын
@@HistoricMetals you too my friend and you are right
@dmz5141
@dmz5141 Жыл бұрын
There's no reason to be your own worst enemy. You should always be your greatest supporter. What you mean to say is...Your mind is your own worst enemy. But that's because you never took the time to train it. Like a puppy that's pissing and shitting itself. Well that's our mind too, that is unless we train it. Only then will it do what we want. Let's not take our selves too seriously and confuse our own psychological drama with existential reality. It's miraculous that we are even alive, not to mention in this day of age where we have so many comforts and conveniences. Pull out a picture of yourself taken when you were 5 years old. Notice the smile, the joy, the exuberance for just being alive. That's how we should be every moment. We've somehow forgotten this as we got older. This is a reminder~ you are still that kid deep down inside in love with life itself. No need to make an enemy.
@Thepenarmy01
@Thepenarmy01 Жыл бұрын
I had no idea there was an entire genre of cowboy philosophers on KZfaq. It’s very comforting to hear that it’s okay to not have it all together. Thank you, mysterious cowboy man!
@Gergaloth
@Gergaloth Жыл бұрын
This is actually why people love cowboys Not the guns or the horses It's the fact they're all warrior poets
@celenabarclay1488
@celenabarclay1488 Жыл бұрын
Country folk have more thoughts going on in their heads than a city slicker might fathom... nature has a way of bring it out in all of us...
@__Gw
@__Gw Жыл бұрын
It’s just a man speaking on life, no genre
@fy4729
@fy4729 Жыл бұрын
COWBOY PHILOSOPHER 💀
@g.m.i.9771
@g.m.i.9771 Жыл бұрын
@@Gergaloth He seems like a nice enough guy. And the pipe helps. Anytime a dude with gray hair is smoking a pipe you automatically want to listen to him. But even though he seems pleasant and he's trying really hard for the look, all he's really doing is stating the obvious and throwing in some cliches. If you want some real "cowboy" wisdom and advice from a man who isn't quite so domesticated and actually has some rough edges and scars then I'd suggest you listen to anything Billy Joe Shaver ever wrote or sung. That's a real warrior poet. This guy just seems like your average, run of the mill, nice neighbor type. He's neither a warrior nor a poet.
@Xombra.
@Xombra. 4 ай бұрын
I’m 33 and reading some comments, I realize that everywhere in the world there are people going through difficult times, and it makes me value what I have, no matter how much or little, there are people who are really in a difficult situation.
@xler3441
@xler3441 2 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you so much and He is waiting for you with open arms, please accept Him in your heart and life while He is near
@jmart5302
@jmart5302 2 ай бұрын
31 here, such valuable advice
@kylie6243
@kylie6243 26 күн бұрын
30 here. I agree.
@nickinskeep
@nickinskeep 20 күн бұрын
34 here and realizing that gratitude for what we have here, right now, is all you need. The rest is moot
@370Redline
@370Redline 7 күн бұрын
Relax and aim.
@Ummmzaxk
@Ummmzaxk 2 ай бұрын
I’m 25 and lost my brother to suicide. I needed to hear this so badly. Thank you❤
@willabrams9449
@willabrams9449 Ай бұрын
So sorry to hear this
@huyphamle159
@huyphamle159 Ай бұрын
Condolence,brother.And don't give up on this life
@tootsieboy778
@tootsieboy778 Ай бұрын
im sorry brother my condolences dont stop and keep fighting God loves you
@danielrojas7937
@danielrojas7937 Ай бұрын
I'm so sorry friend. I wish you a steady healing journey. Remember, he is always with you
@user-xs5xo2tl8b
@user-xs5xo2tl8b Ай бұрын
embrace you man
@Dylan-cu4ty
@Dylan-cu4ty Жыл бұрын
30 years old, still live with parents, no marriage, no kids, no idea what I want to do career wise and just trying to manage my depression. Feel so lost and behind, and always feel like a loser. But this definitely gave me some comfort, right at the time I needed it. Thank you.
@your_boi3365
@your_boi3365 Жыл бұрын
Right in the same boat as a 22 year old...just learning like others who got touched by this video, which is to live life to the fullest and embrace what we have around us.
@Dylan-cu4ty
@Dylan-cu4ty Жыл бұрын
@@your_boi3365 You are young, trust me you got time. My best advice, have fun but don't lose your twenties completely.
@your_boi3365
@your_boi3365 Жыл бұрын
Much love fam..and thank you..hope all is well for you too.
@adamcotton9657
@adamcotton9657 Жыл бұрын
Construction labourer and get a trade maybe. Get your hormone levels checked oestrogen vs testosterone and thyroid.
@nigelpalmer9356
@nigelpalmer9356 Жыл бұрын
I believe in you man and ik that might not be much from a 22 year old, but I do. You may be older, but when you find what you want to do, you'll have the experience to back it. All I ask is you believe in you brother
@PhryTheBreather
@PhryTheBreather Жыл бұрын
In a world full of people making you feel guilty for not spending every day getting something done, it is refreshing to hear a voice that reminds us it’s okay to take it slow and appreciate life. Thank you man.
@chrisweidner4768
@chrisweidner4768 Жыл бұрын
Indeed. Decided at 64 to simply get off the treadmill. Been 6 months. My wife and I are happier than ever before. The decision made it impossible to have trinkets desired when younger. Miss them zero.
@lanichilds2825
@lanichilds2825 Жыл бұрын
Look up I’m only sleeping by the Beatles
@nerobaal6655
@nerobaal6655 Жыл бұрын
At 30 you should be able to build a robot replica of a humanoid that can pass off as a real one.
@chrisweidner4768
@chrisweidner4768 Жыл бұрын
@@lanichilds2825 “Don’t get me wrong. She turns me on, but I’m only sleeping.” Listen to John Lennon’s “Working Class Hero.” All the best to you and yours.
@Dan_Kanerva
@Dan_Kanerva Жыл бұрын
@@nerobaal6655 ah yes , the Elon Musk life gameplay
@pacificnebula4899
@pacificnebula4899 3 ай бұрын
You’re a good man Arthur Morgan
@TjYau
@TjYau Ай бұрын
This is unironically the most manliest man video for men about men having struggles its awesome
@olliedawizard
@olliedawizard 8 ай бұрын
I’m 22 and haven’t been able to get a job. Pressure from family and peers is killing me right now. This was nice to hear, it was sort of relaxing. Update: I just got a job!
@kirbythings
@kirbythings 8 ай бұрын
congrats on getting a job man!
@eugene540
@eugene540 8 ай бұрын
congrats man im looking for one myself
@Lamijosniak
@Lamijosniak 8 ай бұрын
well done my guy :)
@BJFPV
@BJFPV 8 ай бұрын
Congratulations man!
@ImJugg
@ImJugg 8 ай бұрын
Congratulations Brethren!!
@Amelia_loves
@Amelia_loves 7 ай бұрын
I’m 37 and going to college for the first time. I have to remind myself my timeline was different, and being a single mom juggling college is hard but I’m not giving up. Thank you so much
@johnnyviking8152
@johnnyviking8152 7 ай бұрын
"Never regard your study as a duty but as the enviable opportunity to learn the liberating beauty of the intellect for your own personal joy and for the profit of the community to which your later work will belong." -Einstein
@JbizzyLoL
@JbizzyLoL 6 ай бұрын
32 years old back in college as well! Good luck on your education journey!
@fern4real733
@fern4real733 6 ай бұрын
Best of luck to you! You got this!
@Brandon-yq9bj
@Brandon-yq9bj 6 ай бұрын
Ride the waves. Life's ups and downs
@kg0311
@kg0311 6 ай бұрын
You fine for 37, but I just graduated just this month at 33 😊
@jacobpoulton3547
@jacobpoulton3547 4 ай бұрын
"you'll not get there if you quit" saved me man. Thank you
@VFACodex
@VFACodex 20 күн бұрын
Hope you're okay, friend.
@r00kiet80
@r00kiet80 3 ай бұрын
I'm 27 and i have it less together then i ever did
@montayfinesse
@montayfinesse 7 күн бұрын
It be like that😂 you’ll pick back up gang
@sproggs
@sproggs 7 ай бұрын
I'm 31 years old. I have 60k in student debt, a degree I haven't finished, another degree I'm working on, a failed engagement, no savings, no mortgage, no kids, no partner, and am a barista at the coffee shop across the street. It will get better. It WILL get better. Thank you.
@outdoorfr3ak
@outdoorfr3ak 4 ай бұрын
Im right there with you just a personal shopper instead
@tendohanma1480
@tendohanma1480 3 ай бұрын
Same life. But 29, cooking degree//working on game design now, 40k in debt, I'm a server at a fancy hotel It will get better 🎉
@brianparks4352
@brianparks4352 3 ай бұрын
As it should and so will you. good luck with your endeavors.
@KeytarArgonian
@KeytarArgonian 3 ай бұрын
I’m from another angle but feel the same. I’m 35, Married to my best and only friend, 3 beautiful Daughters, been through some health stuff, as has my wife. And I’ve hit a point where my nobly doing physical hard work for jobs might be coming to an end. My body has started to turn on me and I’ve had my first real long term time off sick in my life. So I started uni today actually, today is the first day of my part time Uni course. To pick up my education again that ended in 2009. I’m struggling now to find non physical work, how wild is that, that the physically hardest work is the work I can’t get away from. The real heavy lifting work, I’ve wrecked my body at 35, and now I want to use my mind and I can’t find anything that doesn’t required being a graduate. But like you said, it *WILL* get better. It will get better. Love to you brother, you’re not alone. None of us are truly alone.
@_quapp
@_quapp 3 ай бұрын
You got this man! Keep going brother
@jaredrumsey8770
@jaredrumsey8770 8 ай бұрын
My dad passed away in April. Got married in June. Danced with my mom and talked about dad, then my mom passed away unexpectedly the week after the wedding. We were sitting on the tarmac delayed when I got that call. Transitioning out of the military next year and really wish I had my dad to talk to right now. I really needed to hear this today. Thank you for making these videos.
@danielschannel701
@danielschannel701 7 ай бұрын
I'm sorry, I lost my Dad a few years ago.
@museluvr
@museluvr 7 ай бұрын
May God keep you and bless you ... pray for your parents.
@morningwould5753
@morningwould5753 7 ай бұрын
With you the best my man, in this life we must roll with the punches and never forget we can always make the world a better place through our actions
@theoskywalker8370
@theoskywalker8370 7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for your losses. God bless
@robinw8047
@robinw8047 7 ай бұрын
You will make it... sounds like your parents led you well. Remember... it’s only a temporary departure. We absolutely go on and will reunite one day. Our passed on loved ones just graduated a bit sooner than we will. We still have a mission to accomplish here in this 3D world. Make decisions the best that you can and know that God is absolutely not worried about the final outcome. Your life will go exactly as planned. Be well... and know that ALL IS WELL. ❤
@onebridge7231
@onebridge7231 Ай бұрын
I’m 51 and starting all over again. Ended a 12 year relationship yesterday to a woman I love dearly because she finally admitted my deteriorating mindset and negativity has turned to bitterness and turned her off. She’s 💯 correct. I feel like a pile of shit. She’s 41 tall very beautiful and stylish with a high paying career surrounded by guys her age who were promoted on the fast easy track. My career has failed while hers flourished at our company. It was painful letting go as I tried to get her desire from acts of service and lived in her frame (this never works by the way). I’ll never do that again and it’s my duty to reframe my mindset to positivity and abundance by putting my needs 1st for the remainder of my days. Gym, I signed up for an Old Boys Rugby tournament in May. Find a new job, invest and study for better style and communication. I’m exhausted but my old DI is screaming in my head from what he always you to say in boot (Get your ass up and move forward, it’s your duty to always march forward no matter the difficulty. It’s your duty to always get back up until the day I die).
@abluvjb
@abluvjb 4 ай бұрын
I know this was for the guys but I’m a young lady turning 26 this year and this video has turned me into a whole baby. Life is ghetto & scary. I was told growing up if I don’t get it together I’ll have to deal with everything in my later age and that that is something I shouldn’t want. However I’m trying to get to “a long life well lived”. I need to chill out now. I’m burnout and it feels like everything is one second from ending. Thank you Sir!
@carmenosorto1970
@carmenosorto1970 Ай бұрын
I feel you! I’m 18 and I’m freaking out about being alone and buying a house, I feel like I’m so behind, thank you for commenting this
@Zincink
@Zincink Жыл бұрын
1. Your job isn’t your life 2. Find something you love and do it 3. Enjoy time w Friends and family 4. Laugh and live in the moment 5. Find happiness in the small things I was missing my Grandma today and your video came up. It’s warm to hear your words. Thank you for sharing.
@johnmcguinness6804
@johnmcguinness6804 Жыл бұрын
Missing my granny too…first holiday season without her
@rebeccaanne8546
@rebeccaanne8546 Жыл бұрын
Eat healthy and move every day
@ChiWillett
@ChiWillett Жыл бұрын
wish late-stage capitalism in the U.S. didn't make these key principals hard to follow (sending wishes of comfort regarding your g-ma though)
@topcat2033
@topcat2033 Жыл бұрын
I can't do 3. I have no friends or family 😭
@bonez_westoz
@bonez_westoz Жыл бұрын
The best thing ive ever heard anyone say ....38 and not whinging, just live , love and just be nice , be respectful, and youll recieve the same ... 💚🤙🙌
@robertmarley8852
@robertmarley8852 Жыл бұрын
"A pine tree Grows and matured very fast An oak tree Grows and matures very slow Which one lasts longer? Which one is stronger? Which one shelters more critters and birds? And when it's over and done. Which one is more valuable for the lumber? People aren't looking to buy pine furniture." WRANGLER SCHOOL These words touched me very deeply sir. Thank you
@FlyAmeliaEarheart
@FlyAmeliaEarheart Жыл бұрын
I must admit it, I liked that analogy too.
@sonortubelug3853
@sonortubelug3853 Жыл бұрын
Definitely not whichever one I used on my kitchen floor.
@josephpowelliii9169
@josephpowelliii9169 Жыл бұрын
Amen! Much wisdom here!!!
@organizedmicrowave4414
@organizedmicrowave4414 Жыл бұрын
Wisdom for the depraved. There is nothing wrong with gaining a lot in a little time, if you can handle it. Even at that stage, the mature pine tree still has an infinite amount left to achieve. However, whether you are the oak or the pine tree. Life stays strong within both, and life appreciates both. Some are just born pine, some are born oak. It's ok to be both. Each has their own path to grow upon.
@ClaireCraig
@ClaireCraig Жыл бұрын
he is a natural poet!
@serenetides
@serenetides Күн бұрын
I'm a 23 yr old woman who graduated from college last year. This gave me so much relief. Thank you
@clairedrained
@clairedrained 4 ай бұрын
These comments make my heart feel so full. Thank you so much to everyone here for sharing your experiences and being so vulnerable, as a confused 23 year old recent college graduate, your stories are so comforting to read
@khanyagatsheni
@khanyagatsheni 3 ай бұрын
As another 23 yr old who's confused and just recently graduated I'm comforted as well😭😭
@stevendaman5213
@stevendaman5213 5 ай бұрын
I'm 49, living in probably worst economy in the world (Zimbabwe). It's tough with unemployment at 97%. Our home was taken. Love this video just kept me going through another day, thank you.
@maymcanderson3768
@maymcanderson3768 5 ай бұрын
We will make it
@janithdesilva4960
@janithdesilva4960 5 ай бұрын
Keep strong brother!
@zackrodriguez6653
@zackrodriguez6653 5 ай бұрын
I'm rooting for you, brother.
@joelm7621
@joelm7621 5 ай бұрын
May Allah make it easy for you my brother and take you and your family in a safe position
@pkpknao.2604
@pkpknao.2604 4 ай бұрын
@user-ho4ns5te8b
@user-ho4ns5te8b Жыл бұрын
Think alot of young people need to hear this. I'm 25 and have pushed myself into depression by putting so much pressure on myself because I haven't reached certain standards I wanted to by now. Social media definitely makes the problem worse because it seems like everyone is happy, rich and in love etc
@user-hn9qg5qm3o
@user-hn9qg5qm3o Жыл бұрын
They “seem” to be, but are they really doing that well?
@user-ho4ns5te8b
@user-ho4ns5te8b Жыл бұрын
@J doubt it but the perception is enough to make people feel like a fuck up
@user-hn9qg5qm3o
@user-hn9qg5qm3o Жыл бұрын
@@user-ho4ns5te8b Well you’re not so just keep taking steps. 1,000 miles can only be walked one step at a time.
@austinvilleneuve5842
@austinvilleneuve5842 Жыл бұрын
Just turned 25 as well… I hear ya. I put a ton of pressure on myself as well and it’s not good. I’ve got a decent job but haven’t achieved as much as I’ve hoped by 25. I do have insta deleted though and I’ve even feeling better. Also listening to dry creek wrangler school
@TheOnlinePlaza
@TheOnlinePlaza Жыл бұрын
25 year old man here, man, I feel you. One thing I have tried to do in order to combat these kinds of feelings is to counter any social media content that makes me feel envious or low with content like this channel or something similar, remind yourself there are more people like you than those who are not and look to those who have lived well for reassurance, but mostly, as cliche as this sounds, enjoy the journey! God bless
@Akanchwua
@Akanchwua 2 ай бұрын
Thank you :'( cried watching this. Just moved to a new city, I'm all on my own, no job, no idea what I'm doing. I'm almost 27 and lost, my dad passed when I was 16 and I needed this so much. Thank you
@Awesomenes4L
@Awesomenes4L 2 ай бұрын
I hope you make it ❤
@Akanchwua
@Akanchwua 2 ай бұрын
@@Awesomenes4L ugh thank you🥲❤️
@KATALINAPEARLMANCINI
@KATALINAPEARLMANCINI Ай бұрын
i’m also on my own in a new city and i want to wish you luck and send love and positivity your way 🩷💜 i’m right there with u 💗
@Akanchwua
@Akanchwua Ай бұрын
@@KATALINAPEARLMANCINI thank you so much🥲💜💜 I'm finding my way slowly, I hope you are too
@KATALINAPEARLMANCINI
@KATALINAPEARLMANCINI Ай бұрын
@@Akanchwua tysm🩷it’s a slow process but i’m trying, we’ve both got this and i’m so proud of you! 💗💗
@wifsk484
@wifsk484 Ай бұрын
as a 23 year old guy i didnt know i needed to hear this in such a genuine way untill i just started crying out of no where
@7777SN
@7777SN 2 күн бұрын
كلنااا💔
@danbull
@danbull Жыл бұрын
As you get older, you do realise that so many things you worried about don't matter. You also learn to appreciate the things that DO matter. Thankfully, those things are yours for the taking, and are earned with discipline, mindfulness and love - not money, popularity, or possessions.
@afreen5058
@afreen5058 Жыл бұрын
Screenshotting this comment. Fantastic observation.
@DevouredByADream
@DevouredByADream Жыл бұрын
One of the most challenging aspects of communicating this to someone and them fully grasp the validity of this simple truth is that; a large percentage of people on't absorb it because it isn't a quick "fix" so it might not instantly make them feel better. It's sort of an esoteric, philosophical answer that tends to go in one ear and out the other.
@jacknthat7500
@jacknthat7500 Жыл бұрын
douglby out here with the life lessons
@tempacc9692
@tempacc9692 Жыл бұрын
Hey Dan! Huge fan. Love your work. Hearts.
@ldcent8482
@ldcent8482 Жыл бұрын
What happened to the algorithm that made danbull and I collide on this pipe smoking cowboy I've never heard of?
@starstrykr2021
@starstrykr2021 Жыл бұрын
I’m 25 years old and earlier this week just went through a breakup with my girlfriend of 6 years after she confessed to cheating and loving someone else. This topic could not have come at a better time, and I’m very grateful for you, Duane.
@jensgronning4436
@jensgronning4436 Жыл бұрын
You got your whole life ahead of you. I wouldn’t worry about it.
@bladyops9900
@bladyops9900 Жыл бұрын
I’m in a very similar situation brother, wife did the same thing to me after 6 years. “The cavity which suffering carves into our souls will one day also be the receptacle of joy.” I’m a little further down the road than you. Haven’t made it to the light at the end of the tunnel yet but I’m starting to see it, and I promise it’s not a train. Hang in there man
@highplainshollarhomestead3188
@highplainshollarhomestead3188 Жыл бұрын
Lots of fish in the sea, birds in the Forrest, and bitches in the world. Be single for a couple years man.
@la5chine
@la5chine Жыл бұрын
Stay strong man! I am going to say this, each boy needs a breakup to become a man, live your life man, go to the gym, work in your job harder and start figuring out how you want to live this is the best fuel you could get. Peace my man.
@enzogamesbrasil3714
@enzogamesbrasil3714 Жыл бұрын
Physical pain can be eased by placing your hand on the injured site, emotional pain cannot. I'm sorry you went through this, I wish you the best.
@JD96893
@JD96893 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video. I'm 27 and I've felt stuck now for awhile. No degree, no money, nothing saved. I've been living abroad for several years teaching English, something i never really even wanted to do, something that just happened of necessity. It doesn't pay well either, now I am moving back, Seattle specifically, with nothing to support my wife and not really much experience in anything worth while and I want to change careers too. My little brother already owns 2 houses and a baby on the way. Makes me feel like i failed in many ways. Granted I've been abroad making a 3rd world income, but it still sucks.
@lauras683
@lauras683 3 ай бұрын
I’m 27 too and have the exact same experience almost down to a T, except for the being married part. But I live abroad and taught English too, but now just have a dead-end job and am just scraping by, trying to figure out what to do next and how to overcome these mistakes 🥲
@ryanwoodward7699
@ryanwoodward7699 2 ай бұрын
Don’t think of it as mistakes, think of it as experience. You’re not restarting from scratch, you’re restarting with that experience you’ve gained from these past few years. On top of that you’ve done and seen more than the vast majority who live in the US ever will in their lifetimes. Just cause someone appears to have their money situation figured out doesn’t mean they have everything figured out or are happy with their lives. We’re supposed to experience life, not just gain materials to play defense against it. Wishing both of y’all nothing but the best moving forward, God bless
@Alex.Image1
@Alex.Image1 Ай бұрын
Never too late to pick up a trade! I’m 27 and training to become a Gas/Heating Engineer. The world is crying out for skilled labourers, might be an option for you. Keep going there’s light at the end of the tunnel 👍
@cherryandreasen708
@cherryandreasen708 2 ай бұрын
I'm 24, homeless, facing food insecurity, living in my car with my unemployed felon boyfriend who just got sober a month ago. I'm going to college to be a Firefigher Paramedic. I came across this video looking for the best way to write a cover letter and resume for a medical internship opportunity socialized my way into at work today. Your words reached my heart. You speak like my uncle used to before he gave into bad habits. I honestly cried because this is what I needed to hear. Life has been hard from brith to now for me but I have a plethora of good stories to tell, and I have experience under my belt that makes me feel 45. Thank you, God bless you!
@RanDoM5469
@RanDoM5469 2 ай бұрын
Hey things will get better !!! You and your bf put in my prayers 🙏
@freevids8169
@freevids8169 2 ай бұрын
Im 29 spent 24k in failed investments in the past 3 years living in a car also so your not alone working full time to keep this car and avoiding being really homeless. Im sick and cant even afford a check up at Urgent care credit is ruind mom has a house but is a terrible hoarder. Broken relationships with my God and embarrassed from my sins because the congregation knows o yeah lost my gf overseas because of the failed investments so yeah life is AMAZING
@alejandrafretes4707
@alejandrafretes4707 Ай бұрын
Keep believing in yourself. ❤ if you have access, try to utilize AI programs (like chatGPT) for resume/cover letter building. Once you have the bones, edit a bit to make it sound like you. 🤞🏼🤞🏼 keep trying! Best of luck to you ✨✨
@muganthediamondlion7506
@muganthediamondlion7506 10 ай бұрын
Turned 29 and tapped into my strength and stopped making excuses. Still a long way to go. Thank you my good man
@dangerouseducation40
@dangerouseducation40 10 ай бұрын
It took turning 32 and I don't have the energy to do what I need to do all over again like when I was younger. Good luck in your journey
@muganthediamondlion7506
@muganthediamondlion7506 10 ай бұрын
@@dangerouseducation40 I appreciate it but don’t underestimate yourself. Your mind is powerful beyond measure. Good luck to you as well
@prod.din0273
@prod.din0273 10 ай бұрын
@@dangerouseducation40stop making excuses just go for it with 32 you are still very young
@einnaoeilifu2648
@einnaoeilifu2648 10 ай бұрын
28, left a toxic relationship that made me feel emasculated. Low self esteem. I am miserable at the moment, but I am free to mold myself. Same with you, and God bless you with all the happiness, health and wealth.
@Bl00dMalice
@Bl00dMalice 9 ай бұрын
@@prod.din0273 Is 36 still young? Where do we expect a 36 year old to be at in life?
@Ishidalover
@Ishidalover Жыл бұрын
As an almost 27 yr old, hearing "act 26 not 56" really hit me. I worry so much about the future problems or possible problems that I don't focus on the now. I'm learning my worth and I want to stay open to learning more, always. Imaginary burden and cornering myself to worry about things that aren't mine to worry about (for the most part) are things I've gotta work on. I really needed to hear this, and by what I see in the comments, I'm not alone. You've done a great service for multiple generations here, thank you very much. 💕
@Peck_Bull
@Peck_Bull Жыл бұрын
♥️♥️💐💐
@Graeberwave
@Graeberwave Жыл бұрын
Jesus said "Only those who behave like children shall enter the kingdom of heaven." That's a fact. :)
@capcadoi
@capcadoi Жыл бұрын
It's ok that you worry about the future, as long as you also do something about it. Plan ahead, but also leave a little time and energy to enjoy the present.
@nolanyates247
@nolanyates247 Жыл бұрын
26 here, I feel like I’m in the same boat. So much pressure from myself to be like those 20 year old millionaires we read about. But they aren’t me. I think the mindset of wanting to improve is the most telling aspect of a persons potential
@rosendoperez6677
@rosendoperez6677 Жыл бұрын
Same here, check out this booked called “think like a monk” by jay shetty, my wife got it for me and it’s been helping me alot
@adz4528
@adz4528 4 ай бұрын
Such a peak video. This is one of those videos that will be timeless and people can always come back to. You're a hero for this one. I'm in my late 20s getting close to 30... As you said, I think what really hits for most people is not being where you thought you would be and that we should be somebody or somewhere by a certain age. But you're right. There really is no time limit to these things. I think that's what weighs people down a lot. Wanting to make their loved ones, parents and more important themselves proud. But it's difficult. It's cool to see a lot of people are in the same boat regardless of age. By the comments some have really gone through a lot losing their jobs, homes and loved ones...the courage it takes to pick yourself up is truly commendable and you should be proud of that. Every year that NY or a birthday passes, a part of me is just glad I'm still alive. Especially when I know a few who have taken their own life and considered it myself on many occasions. But even if I get depressed or stressed there are still very few moments of happiness to be had now and in the future.
@michaelhowell2541
@michaelhowell2541 8 ай бұрын
70+ and still learning. You never stop learning till your gone. "Keep on keepin on" is one phrase that gets me thru.🤔👍🇺🇸💯
@sethulrich5645
@sethulrich5645 8 ай бұрын
48 and I still have a ways to go
@JimLovell-np4pv
@JimLovell-np4pv 8 ай бұрын
47 and just starting to see the light
@Lebronisthegoat3
@Lebronisthegoat3 7 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🇺🇸
@patcummins6036
@patcummins6036 7 ай бұрын
Wisdom! From the books you read and the people you talk to!
@patcummins6036
@patcummins6036 7 ай бұрын
Thank you
@johnshaw8327
@johnshaw8327 Жыл бұрын
I'm 78 and listening to this young man of 55. Wish I was that age again. But this is probably the happiest time of my life despite the aches. I think you never stop learning even at my age I always thought old people must have it figuered out. Sorry they don't, not if they're honest. Just enjoy each day as it comes because you have less of them no matter what age you are. They're running out. I suggest you act now and stop dreaming of a better life. It's your life so take control. Mistakes are inevitable but you'll learn from them and at least you tried and you'll be a better person because of it. Persistence will get you everywhere. OK....enough.
@chaitea3421
@chaitea3421 Жыл бұрын
Wise words. Much respect sir I wish you all the best
@IAMEYI
@IAMEYI Жыл бұрын
Ty
@michaelatkin9649
@michaelatkin9649 Жыл бұрын
Ive been noticing i have been wasting a lot of my time wishing I was younger because things were better/easier with more of a future. Im losing my future now by being stuck in that mindset instead of living
@craysiswanted
@craysiswanted Жыл бұрын
Thank you for inspirational worlds sir
@beautifulday7528
@beautifulday7528 Жыл бұрын
I am 67 and wholeheartedly agree! Thank you, sir.
@jaydenstevens1334
@jaydenstevens1334 Ай бұрын
I’d have these talks when my grandfather all the time it’s been almost two years since he’s passed and watching your vids bought me back all the memories I couldn’t tap into
@Theodore45921
@Theodore45921 3 ай бұрын
I've listened to this a dozen times and each time it hits hard. It's sometimes what I need to hear
@solidfoundations7020
@solidfoundations7020 11 ай бұрын
Man, so many awesome take aways. 1. Lifes is not a race, so act your age and enjoy life. 2. Life is hard. The hardest thing youve ever been through is gonna feel like a disaster. Later on youll realize it wasnt. 3. Your gonna make mistakes, just make fewer. 4. Setbacks to goals happen. But dont give up. 5. Your not behind in life. The movies are a fantasy. Your ideal life is probably one too. 6. No one expects you to have figured it out. SAGE wisdom. Thank you brother!
@cmdrTremyss
@cmdrTremyss 10 ай бұрын
6. *Many expects you to have figured it out. But they can go f_ck themselves!
@Yeshayahu.
@Yeshayahu. 10 ай бұрын
The main issue with the first one is when you start comparing yourself to others, when people compare to each other they create a big poison to real personal success.
@jackferris1018
@jackferris1018 10 ай бұрын
bless up for the notes have a great day
@ShintogaDeathAngel
@ShintogaDeathAngel 10 ай бұрын
It's OK to make mistakes as long as you learn from them - it's unavoidable! Some things you think are a sure thing can still turn out to be wrong.
@thr0w407
@thr0w407 10 ай бұрын
You're*
@davidmitchley1144
@davidmitchley1144 Жыл бұрын
Lost my son, my job, home, all in a matter of months, I'm 42, Your words have just managed to lift this elephant off of my chest for a few minutes, thank you.
@lunarmist428
@lunarmist428 Жыл бұрын
go to JESUS brother.
@davidmitchley1144
@davidmitchley1144 Жыл бұрын
@@lunarmist428 I have, love and blessings to you.
@melissaguevara724
@melissaguevara724 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry! I’m praying for you!
@catherinesyme901
@catherinesyme901 Жыл бұрын
Blessings and prayer for you my friend! 🙏❤️🕯🕊
@Thomas_Angelo
@Thomas_Angelo Жыл бұрын
Keep it together man. Just know you are being tested for your strength. Be strong and pass the exam of life. Everyone has one or two so you aren't alone at all.
@Lindrunky
@Lindrunky 4 ай бұрын
This is some of the best, most wholesome advice I’ve ever heard. Thank you.
@peterdoherty787
@peterdoherty787 4 ай бұрын
Every time I feel lost, this man pops on my feed, and I feel found again. Thank you.
@leahreynolds1
@leahreynolds1 Жыл бұрын
My gosh, I'm a 47 yr old woman starting over from scratch and I needed this so much I'll probably replay once a day for a while. Thank you.
@youssef16844
@youssef16844 Жыл бұрын
How are you holding up?
@jaisrobins1545
@jaisrobins1545 Жыл бұрын
39 and starting from scratch but already feel like I’ve achieved more this time then I did in last 38
@Jath2112
@Jath2112 Жыл бұрын
I hope you are well Leah.
@Dark_AbsoI
@Dark_AbsoI Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for whatever circumstances led to you starting from scratch, but the fact that you are here means you’ve got a good head on your shoulders and you’ll be alright. Stay strong Leah.
@DistortedShelf0
@DistortedShelf0 Жыл бұрын
I hope you find success and happiness, Leah. Good luck!
@Justchillin429
@Justchillin429 Жыл бұрын
I'm 22 and I lost my dad 4 months ago and my 16 year old brother 2 months ago, it's honestly been a big struggle and a friend's mom sent me this video, it's honestly what I needed to hear.
@mvs5582
@mvs5582 Жыл бұрын
I'm 23 and lost my younger sister 11 months ago. Loss is incredibly hard. And it's alienating to experience it at our age I think. Remembering this videos message helps me. You only get stronger from climbing uphill. Things will get better eventually. Be patient and go easy on yourself!
@natedonaghy
@natedonaghy Жыл бұрын
Much love ❤. Stay strong. You’ve got this bro
@jacks910
@jacks910 Жыл бұрын
How did your brother pass? Sorry for your loss btw. Stay strong!
@Justchillin429
@Justchillin429 Жыл бұрын
@@jacks910 he was robbed and shot in the head over $40.
@jacks910
@jacks910 Жыл бұрын
@@Justchillin429 Oh my god, that’s horrible. I’m so sorry to hear about that. It’s so saddening and disgusting to realize what kind of savages are out there in this world, who have no regard or remorse for human life when it comes to getting something they want. I hope they caught the SOB, if not which hopefully isn’t the case, I’m praying for the guilt to devour and eat up the perp. It genuinely upset me to hear about that, so I can’t even imagine in the slightest, what you are going through. Please stay strong brother, and never give up! God rest your brother’s soul, and let karma come strike down the sad excuse of a human who committed the act.
@bijanavvalentino4317
@bijanavvalentino4317 3 ай бұрын
Man you described so much that I have been through and I am so appreciative of your wisdom and even more so of you sharing it with us. I hope most people got the message “it’s not time which brings us the most wisdom, it’s experience.” Going out and doing things that require us to learn skills and everything that can go wrong. We don’t learn if we don’t fail. I very rarely put videos in my ‘Videos that Changed my Life’ playlist but this is undoubtedly going in it. Thank you sir.
@nadoa3
@nadoa3 4 ай бұрын
I've saved this, cuz I didn't think I was "old enough" the first time I watched it's. Been only a year, but it's been a year that teached me a lot. Teached me how to be a man, teached me how life isn't simple. We're always learning. Eternal babies, cause no one can tell you how to be you, how to "fix" everything. I didn't wish you were my dad, but I wish, you were a friend that I knew sooner. You speak truth, simple and direct. No one knows shit, we gotta live n' learn, always.
@StevenHellvaren
@StevenHellvaren Жыл бұрын
There's always something comforting about an old man letting you know it's gonna be alright. Shit is wack rn and it never seems to slow. Really needed this
@gg_2020
@gg_2020 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@DaveSchnare
@DaveSchnare Жыл бұрын
Lol....he's 53, that's not an old man. I'm 53 now and don't consider myself an old man by any means...more like a wise soul. You'll see when you're 53....God willing.
@Juliandelucca
@Juliandelucca Жыл бұрын
@@DaveSchnare he’s 55 he said it in the video
@rutt7147
@rutt7147 Жыл бұрын
@@DaveSchnare At 53 you're over halfway to dead. You are getting old. You don't have to *feel* old though. That's the secret. Some of the youngest souls I've met have been in creaky old bodies.
@StevenHellvaren
@StevenHellvaren Жыл бұрын
@@DaveSchnare 53 is old, nothing wrong with being that way
@nathanhexom6780
@nathanhexom6780 Жыл бұрын
The way he pauses and say, "but they ain't got cool stories to tell," gives me chills! Heres to failure, heres to never giving up, and heres to having a damn good time doing it! Love and strength to you all.
@i-love-comountains3850
@i-love-comountains3850 Жыл бұрын
Yup, I'm the one with no stories to tell for fear of failure. At 30 it is beginning to crush me. I'm glad for this video.
@larrycrowne8330
@larrycrowne8330 Жыл бұрын
Me too. One time I was in a cab ride to work, running late. We got stuck in traffic and got talking. He told me all hiking trails he’d completed. I told him about this one I’d tried and failed disastrously in hilarious circumstances (weren’t funny at the time I can tell you). We both laughed so much. Then he told me what I assume was his best hiking story, and it was that his wife almost fell over because her pack was so heavy. It occurred to me then that this guy may have meticulously planned and completed his trips, but I’d just went for it, messed up, but ended up with all these funny stories that I’ll remember for the rest of my life.
@belogical3961
@belogical3961 Жыл бұрын
You are so right it's better to loved and lost then have done nothing at all
@GaryMcKinnonUFO
@GaryMcKinnonUFO Жыл бұрын
Very well said Nathan :)
@Velocirarrptor
@Velocirarrptor Жыл бұрын
Cheers :)
@tankace3363
@tankace3363 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for, thank you very much for showing up in my life. I am going through a period of realizing how much hurt I have caused to myself and to others and your words are what I wanted to hear from them as I choose to grow every day. Again, thank you for being here with and for us.
@Sumsayy
@Sumsayy 4 ай бұрын
I’m 28 and I just wanted to thank you for this video made me feel better about my life, been going through a lot of shit that I haven’t had to contend with before and it’s been getting on top of me lately, hearing this has helped me realise I will get through it and was just what I needed to hear thanks again
@townbythetown
@townbythetown Жыл бұрын
This is real relevant to me. I’m 35, going through a divorce with the woman I thought was the love of my life, seems like I’ve lost everything in the last year. I was feeling like it was too late to start over, feeling like I was ashamed with where I was at. Living in the back of my $1000 truck working as a laborer on a construction site. Your video brought a little positive energy to me, I’m grateful
@dukesoffranks2718
@dukesoffranks2718 Жыл бұрын
Sound like a hard working individual.
@paulcordova8384
@paulcordova8384 Жыл бұрын
There with you brotha, just take it one day at a time I had a good size tire shop lost everything due to an ex but now working day to day. Im tired but we gots to keep going.
@nvrprfct9176
@nvrprfct9176 Жыл бұрын
living in the back of your truck? what a chad.
@jledesma1175
@jledesma1175 Жыл бұрын
Divorced at 31… had to pay out 30k in alimony plus half of everything. Now at 47 yea of age, got it all together. But still so much to learn Hang in there friend… you got this
@paulcordova8384
@paulcordova8384 Жыл бұрын
@@jledesma1175 any advice while going through it.
@penguin1105
@penguin1105 Жыл бұрын
I'm 18 with no car, no jobs getting back to me, and no scholarship's to go to college with. I struggled though highschool during COVID, got low grades, and I've lost near all my friends through school, school changes and rumors. I feel like I'm lower in life than others my age. this video helped me to realize that I need to slow down and keep doing things to help my future. Thank you.
@schotzfired
@schotzfired Жыл бұрын
Eventually you just gotta realize that you’re the only one who can save yourself and you gotta grind this shit out
@marcol6363
@marcol6363 Жыл бұрын
I was in the same boat. I couldn’t change on my own and decided I need the help. That help came in the form of joining the Marine Corps. Find your own legend, make that legacy!
@haxor6863
@haxor6863 Жыл бұрын
I’m 18 and in the same situation, 3 years ago my dad lost his job, he got diagnosed with dementia, we sold our house, was homeless for 3 months and he passed away last year in January. Then 5 months later I almost had a major heart attack and am lucky to be alive, the doctors said it would take a year to heal. So here I am with a bad education because of the reasons I just listed and on top of that I can’t get a job or move any of my chess pieces on the board because I’m still healing ❤️‍🩹. It could always be worse even though that really doesn’t help your feelings much but look at it this way, at least we aren’t in Ukraine getting blown up into a million tiny pieces right now. We both feel stuck, my plan is to get a car first, save some money and then go into the military or trade school. Definitely not alone bro and the grass is not always greener on the other side, sometimes there’s no grass at all, so chill and decide what the first step is and slowly move from there. I saw my dad slowly lose his mind, he couldn’t talk, he just screamed, he couldn’t eat, he had to drink shakes, he couldn’t drink hardly at all by the end of it and he was so skinny you could see his ribs, I had to pick him up when he collapsed. I would rather go to war than go through that again. THE ONLY REASON IM TELLING YOU THIS IS BECAUSE IT CAN GET ALOT WORSE THAN YOU CAN EVEN IMAGINE SO JUST CHILL
@schotzfired
@schotzfired Жыл бұрын
@@haxor6863 this is my motivation to keep going man I am so sorry that happened to you. You did not deserve that. But it all happened for a reason. God gives his strongest men the hardest tests.
@nochpo4230
@nochpo4230 Жыл бұрын
28 year old here, I can absolutely promise you, that if you keep your chin up and press on, it will blow over. You'll look back on this period as one of those times you had to "go into the forge to get stronger". All these difficult times count for something, it's just not always apparent when you're going through the thick of it. Press on.
@adamhill1601
@adamhill1601 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Dwayne for your insight, you say it’s not wisdom but brother God has blessed you with a very unique gift, keep using it to help this lost youngergeneration out!
@GermanGarcia-xg3bx
@GermanGarcia-xg3bx 3 ай бұрын
Sir you have no idea how much I needed this. I’m a 25 year old 1st year electrician finished trade school and everything. Life has been kicking my ass I had to leave my first electrical job because my circumstances changed and I needed to move from my parents. The electrical company didint wanna give me more hours because I was new which I understand to a degree but man it hurts so much not being in the field now I can’t find another company to hire me and had to take a night shift stocking position at a grocery store shit sucks man I feel like I’m going backwards but things will get better it has to. Thank you for this video love from California!
@bobdillaber1195
@bobdillaber1195 Жыл бұрын
I'm 83 and couldn't be more supportive of what you have just shared. Words that are important to all of us to absorb - even regardless of age. I would feel proud if I could do what you have just done here.
@marinusvanvliet5135
@marinusvanvliet5135 Жыл бұрын
thanks for your comment Bob, for me this felt so important. young men like me are yearning for connection with the elder folks, seems like it is wiped out in our society. to much loneliness, to little interaction.
@JozeManuLOL
@JozeManuLOL Жыл бұрын
my respect sir
@joeybutts13
@joeybutts13 Жыл бұрын
Do you have any advice for me at 28 years old?
@bobdillaber1195
@bobdillaber1195 Жыл бұрын
@@joeybutts13 I wanted to think about your request for any advice a while before I responded. So here goes. I never give advice because I don't live your world. But what I will do is suggest you think about this - from birth on forward we are all indoctrinated with the following belief which is as American as Apple pie, yet it drives most of our feelings and behaviors in a way totally unknown to us. That belief is: "You're not good enough, yet." Think about what that means, how that affects youvwhen you are silently and unknowingly believing it of yourself.
@bobdillaber1195
@bobdillaber1195 Жыл бұрын
@@marinusvanvliet5135 See what I wrote to Joseph.
@MrDegenerate28
@MrDegenerate28 Жыл бұрын
"A blade does not become strong, It does not become tempered until it's been through the fire" I'll treasure that for the rest of my life.
@Elxvate
@Elxvate Жыл бұрын
"A gem can't be polished without friction"
@Elxvate
@Elxvate Жыл бұрын
"Diamonds can't be formed in the absence of pressure"
@Elxvate
@Elxvate Жыл бұрын
"An arrow can't reach its destination without being pulled back"
@killerhamster4877
@killerhamster4877 4 ай бұрын
I'm 18, throughout my whole life, I've been taught and told that I was exaggerating whenever I went through some trouble, throughout my whole life, I've asked myself, why can't life just let me be for a day or two, I came in here, looking for a guy that looked like Arthur Morgan and looked cool, I was curious, but you said exactly what I needed to hear, I've been going through some tough shit lately, and thank to you, now I know not to be ashamed of saying it, you're right, I feel like my world is crumbling appart, and thank to you, I know that's exactly what's happening, I know I'm not exaggerating, I now know, im in my right to say it, I just didn't know it. You're a wise man, wiser than me (and I know that's not too hard), but even though I'm not wise enough to find a way to thank you for your words, I'm sure you'll be wise enough to get what I'm trying to say, thank you, really, I really needed this
@flankz_gaming1884
@flankz_gaming1884 3 ай бұрын
They way I long for a conversation with this man about life thank you for the wise words to keep us going
@lrgreen97
@lrgreen97 Жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and going through the roughest year of my life so far. I lost my Papa in August, and I only realized it after he passed but that man had all the wisdom and knowledge I needed to get me through this tough time. I was sitting here missing him wishing I could just ask him for some advice and then I open up KZfaq and this video just randomly pops up. My Papa was the biggest cowboy I ever met. And one of the greatest men to ever walk this planet. And everything said in this video is exactly what I think he would tell me right now if he could. Thank you for this.
@alu697
@alu697 Жыл бұрын
I lost my parent in August also. My mother was an alcoholic for as long as I can remember. I thought that since she was once in Hospital and was diagnosed with a liver cancer she will open her eyes. But she didn't, and 3 hours before she died I spoke to her on a phone (I am 19 years old and moved to Netherlands in June, didn't even had a chance to say goodbye to her in person). I am scared to death what will happen with me after my dad will pass away, and the fact that he is suffering from Parkinson's is a fuel for my anxiety. I wish you all the best, a lot of strenght. After some time we will surely get through this. :)
@wildblueangel7431
@wildblueangel7431 Жыл бұрын
Yessir!..keep your head up young man..there's greatness inside of you! Stay blessed my friend.
@puggilove
@puggilove Жыл бұрын
Your dad sounds like a total legend and I hope you can take solace from all the wonderful times you had together. I bet you've got some great cowboy stories! Sending you a big hug☺️💝 glad you getting some comfort from this video too x
@puggilove
@puggilove Жыл бұрын
@@alu697 dear alicia, I'm so sorry that you are suffering so much pain right now. I hope you can see your dad as much as possible but I know how scary it is - my father is 74 and I have anxiety about his health. I found polyvagal exercises are good for calming anxiety. There are books and videos on how to calm vague nerve. Also deep breathing, immersing face into ice water, mindfulness all help me to survive PTSD for the last 12 years. I wish you well, you are stronger than you think💐🌿☺️
@aliciafuentes410
@aliciafuentes410 Жыл бұрын
Pool
@jimbus6401
@jimbus6401 Жыл бұрын
"Stop being so hard to yourself." This, for some reason, hit so hard coming from him than any other person I've ever heard it from.
@fourplenty
@fourplenty Жыл бұрын
fr right!?
@TaxationIsTheft439
@TaxationIsTheft439 Жыл бұрын
Dude is the living Arthur morgan
@ironsteve21
@ironsteve21 Жыл бұрын
Probably because he truly meant it. Came straight from his soul.
@Mushr00m46
@Mushr00m46 4 ай бұрын
Im 16 Years now and struggle a lot with school and friends but I trained myself now to worry so much about that but sometimes Im in sutch a bad situatuin that I jus lay down and think this is the end. But when this happens I put always a Song on because I connect this song with a lot of good things a to be strong and and be happy to be alive. I was not a good Son maybe or a good Brother because I never was as good as my Sisters or thit as my parents said but I will remember your Words and just try to let things come as they come and try everyday to be better then yesterday. I deeply respect you. Thank your for your words. Thank you for anecdotes like the sword I really liked them. Its scary to go back in the fire or get hammerd but I look forward to it also to get knowledge, cool storis to tell and to grow to a big, strong Oak tree. Im scared of many things but thats okay. I learned because of you Life is to figure things out. Thank you ❤
@waveteyo8525
@waveteyo8525 Ай бұрын
What a great person you are. So much wisdom. Encouraging people to not get down. Chill, adapt and do not give up.
@ramshafarooq
@ramshafarooq Жыл бұрын
as a 21 year old who has been freaking out about "not doing enough" since my teenage years, watching this genuinely made me cry. and reading the comments section made feel so safe. it's weird but i'm actually so happy to know that there are people my age and even older than me who feel the same way. i feel like as a girl, i have to prove myself a lot and over and over again or else i won't be seen as "important" or "valuable" to my family. i know it sounds very immature and weird to consider yourself "valuable" or not but i really do feel that pressure to be the best of the best or else my education and my upbringing has been completely useless and i'm a failure. thank you very much for lifting some weight off my shoulders ❤
@HousesForSaleCairns
@HousesForSaleCairns Жыл бұрын
You are a human BEING. Just be!
@SaintSaint
@SaintSaint Жыл бұрын
Ah man, we love ya. I hear so many kids on VRChat who have these same fears. You *should* be afraid. Gen Z is looking pretty solid. Millennials were pretty hard on ourselves too. Half the Boomers see us as entitled and they don't understand why we can't buy or build homes as they draw another social security check from my children's future. Many boomers think we're not having children because children are inconvenient. Children are a blessing, but I'm not bringing more kids into a world without the time and finances to give them the best future I can give them. I waited until 34 to start having kids. That's not unusual for my generation. We're scared. The more I understand legislation, the more I see that we *should* be scared. Our parents excessively borrowed from our future and that payment is coming due. Don't think of life as inherited from your parents. It's also borrowed from your kids. This man has some sweet words, but they're sweet poison. We need to act. Don't just lean back and say "we didn't start the fire." The average age of first-time mothers in America is now up from 21 to 26, while for fathers, it's increased from 27 to 31. Children aren't inconvenient, Boomers are. They sucked off their parent's blood and then spun around and drained their daughters.
@MrShazaamable
@MrShazaamable Жыл бұрын
Im 27 and i still have this heavy anxiety and pressure that i MUST be buying a house, be earning x amount a year. But even in my mind i imagine having all of it together but I question myself "would that make me happy? Really? Would having all that just make my problems go away? I dont think it would. Whats wrong with me. What will make me happy-im lost. I panic. I shut down and dont want to do anything. I dont want to smalltalk people (or especially customers) i couldn't care for them as they make 0 difference to my life nor I do theirs. Then i think everythings meaningless. Then I blame myself for being so negative and thus worry about bringing others around me down with me and i hate myself for not being happy. Im stuck in a loop.
@QT-oc9rn
@QT-oc9rn Жыл бұрын
@@MrShazaamable I'm 30 y/o and will change my work because of bad work environment and adhd and depression related problems and doing a reha measurement and such. And I really start feeling happy and content although there is still so much to do and to think about. Try to take a deep breath, take your time and try not to judge your feelings, they are completely valid if you feel them, they have a reason. The world we live in is very complex and absurd and full of problems. So it's normal for every human to feel sometimes lost and every person takes their own time, some take longer and that's okay too :) don't stress yourself over what will make you happy, just feel your feelings and you will figure out what you don't want and what you clearly want... But most of it will be a maybe. So try to do some things and if they make you happy, try to do more of it :) you don't have to know what you want and how to get it, you don't have to be happy and perfect, the journey is what's counting. Be kind to yourself, that's the most important part.
@KanyeKetchup
@KanyeKetchup Жыл бұрын
Dude who cares you are young
@ginad9253
@ginad9253 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 27 year old single mom trying to start a small farm. I've just been struggling so much lately. My life is so incredibly far from where I wanted to be by this age but this video made me cry. It was full of things I didn't realise I needed to hear. Thank you so much for reminding me I'm ok and I'll figure things out. My own family is constantly on me for being behind or not doing things right. This brought me significant peace after a rough day.
@adambassador7727
@adambassador7727 Жыл бұрын
Hang in there, Gina. God Bless you
@JoshwaLaw
@JoshwaLaw Жыл бұрын
Hey, so this is just a massive shot in the dark, but im also 27 and going thru some tough times, but you said you're trying to start a farm but are struggling, basically I'm wondering if you have your own place and are close to a city and in a place that is warm during winter? I do door dash for work and I'm living in my car, trying to get to a warm place for the winter, but I'd gladly help you get your farm started in exchange for just a place to park and sleep in my car basically 🙃 I know it's a long shot and im just a random stranger on the internet, but times are tough and it's worth asking 🤷‍♂️
@user-en701
@user-en701 Жыл бұрын
Me as a 18 year old hearing about this I'm so proud your still thriving! Keep going :)
@MikhaelYacobMalech5742
@MikhaelYacobMalech5742 Жыл бұрын
@@JoshwaLaw She's a young single mother trying to create and run a farm best You go find another parking spot for Yourself and Your car. You may be a decent person but it's way too risky for a Young lady to take a chance. Besides isn't it legal to park anywhere for an overnight before moving on again. Then You don't need to park on lady's farm.
@MikhaelYacobMalech5742
@MikhaelYacobMalech5742 Жыл бұрын
Be careful what You post on the Internet Saying You're a young single mother & and running Your own farm to some means You're a vulnerable weak & an easy meal. At best You'll be conned and betrayed At worst You and Your child will be in danger Please be vigilant and wise for all things. Love and kindest of regards Strength and safety be with You and Yours
@jonathanharrison1009
@jonathanharrison1009 2 ай бұрын
58 and still learning life's lessons. I very much enjoy listening to this wisdom.
@franklinabreutapia2421
@franklinabreutapia2421 Ай бұрын
Found this video at a time in my life where I feel myself going through the fire. Really needed this talk to put things in perspective. Thank you, thank you, thank you
@williamjohnson5838
@williamjohnson5838 Жыл бұрын
I’m a 63 year old black man who stumbled across your channel. I agree with everything you had to say because I have lived it. Your past , present and future I realize that I’m not the same man I was in the past, and I will be a different man in the future. I am now retired and I realize at this age that I don’t know everything and I’m not trying to pretend that I do. I tell my wife that we have made it this far in our journey. God has truly blessed us , we find ourselves without any wants or needs, just enjoy the ride.
@tender0828
@tender0828 Жыл бұрын
bless you, sir
@shanebeatson912
@shanebeatson912 Жыл бұрын
When?
@kelly8107
@kelly8107 Жыл бұрын
Your comment is beautiful.
@thereissomecoolstuff
@thereissomecoolstuff Жыл бұрын
I'm a 61 year old white man....share the same feelings and experiences. Don't know what race has to do with it. A man is a man and their journey is their own.
@sorchajones1788
@sorchajones1788 Жыл бұрын
Nice one William. I’m glad I found this channel too. (I am a 60 year old, not too wise, white woman.)
@heizie88
@heizie88 11 ай бұрын
He needs to have a podcast. He has such a beautiful voice and what he is saying is phenomenal.
@DryCreekWranglerSchool
@DryCreekWranglerSchool 11 ай бұрын
You can find the podcast on Spotify as Dry Creek Podcast
@heizie88
@heizie88 11 ай бұрын
@@DryCreekWranglerSchool OMG you replied thank you so much I love your work!! I hope you have a wonderful day xxx
@Leo-ow3qt
@Leo-ow3qt 10 ай бұрын
A podcast with Joe Rogan would be sick
@masterlee9822
@masterlee9822 10 ай бұрын
Always good when young adults have their heads on strait and have some amount of good sense.
@GrasshopperRDG
@GrasshopperRDG 10 ай бұрын
💌, "🎁" TRUE UPLIFT... I MOST DEFINITELY CONCUR..."THIS SIR❣" WISDOM PROVIDED {GUIDED} WORDS, MUCH *PREFERRED* INDEED! 💯💚*🙏🏼
@user-vf5mz6gh8t
@user-vf5mz6gh8t 5 ай бұрын
I have to admit in the past I once made a negative comment about one of your vids and I apologise as I didn't know who you were and it is clear you are a man full of wisdom, this almost brought me to tears as it's so relevant and I really learnt a lot from this video, I subscribed, respect from the UK!
@fLaMeSeKeR16
@fLaMeSeKeR16 Ай бұрын
This is one of the best uses for KZfaq. Learning and sharing with peers is what this platform needs more of, thank you for sharing experiences and advice.
@Mysfit_Oasis
@Mysfit_Oasis 10 ай бұрын
I'm 49... This is the first year I've ACTUALLY had stuff figured out. I live on 5 acres in a 5th wheel off grid. At one point I owned a 3200 sq ft home.... Yet here with near nothing, I'm more stable, more focused, more centered, and yes wiser. I have a CLEAR vision of what I NEED to do... I've healed from my childhood trama and I'm finally figuring out WHO I am and what I WANT.... And what I NEED... this man is telling extream truths
@Samarth0607
@Samarth0607 10 ай бұрын
So happy for you! Good luck!
@leahladybug4226
@leahladybug4226 10 ай бұрын
I'm rooting for you ❤❤❤❤
@armandimuniz6784
@armandimuniz6784 10 ай бұрын
Needed to see this comment. 44 and see the same change coming.
@scotiacrumpler2824
@scotiacrumpler2824 10 ай бұрын
The sooner you realize that you’ll never have it all together the better imo. Not at 16, 26, 36…66…never, and that’s ok.
@Mysfit_Oasis
@Mysfit_Oasis 10 ай бұрын
@@scotiacrumpler2824 agreed....
@250R1983lover
@250R1983lover Жыл бұрын
Protect this man at all costs
@RolandKoller90
@RolandKoller90 Жыл бұрын
I think he’s doing fine man. Sitting outside smoking his pipe. He doesn’t need protecting.
@ArrtusMusic
@ArrtusMusic Жыл бұрын
@@RolandKoller90 for real, I hate when people say this shit lmao
@4eleven97
@4eleven97 3 ай бұрын
You are a grandpa that I never had that is upfront. You remind me of my dad. He’s not dead but it feels like it. We use to have conversations like this but now we don’t. He lost himselves with his thoughts and not himselve anymore. He grew like hating me and not see me like his daughter anymore and just some random girl. It breaks me and just listening to you just made me tear. Thank you ❤️
@josiahcorrea6183
@josiahcorrea6183 3 ай бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!! You are helping so much people with their mental health. You remind me of when me and my family lives in Texas when things were simple ❤❤❤❤😢😢 I need a friend like you I’m 26 and your videos are speaking to me and I believe God sent me here at one of my worst times in my head. Thank you ❤
@leftystrat62
@leftystrat62 Жыл бұрын
"I'm 55 yrs old, and I'm just starting to get a little figured out" I'm 56, that sounds about right. Your doing a good job sharing, and your using that gift that He gave you -the gift of encouragement. The world needs this right now, bravo for running your race and doing it well. cheers from New England
@jacksonbrowne6693
@jacksonbrowne6693 Жыл бұрын
Amen. Exhortation
@tomdutcher2131
@tomdutcher2131 Жыл бұрын
Very well put
@jackdeniston59
@jackdeniston59 Жыл бұрын
58, figured out I always have new things to figure out. I have figured out I will be able to figure it out.
@eliruiz6495
@eliruiz6495 Жыл бұрын
Damn this shit made me cry man. Being a man is so hard, especially when you have to grow up so fast from a young age. No one understands you and the world tries whatever it can to kill you. Thank you for making these videos. Sometimes its nice to just let it all go.
@cstephenson3749
@cstephenson3749 Жыл бұрын
The main thing is to get in a group which supports you and propels you to better circustances.
@tae3xs
@tae3xs Жыл бұрын
HONESTLY I JUST TURNED 18 I had to grow up so fast
@AM-es4mp
@AM-es4mp 11 ай бұрын
Everyone is in the same boat & they ALL understand !
@suqma
@suqma 11 ай бұрын
truth ... W
@markcoleman7246
@markcoleman7246 11 ай бұрын
@@AM-es4mp Not everyone, the people at the top get to coast by on "easy mode" while the poor suffer.
@user-mb1vh5fr8c
@user-mb1vh5fr8c 3 ай бұрын
I love the analogy of the infant struggling to walk and how that's the biggest disaster of their life. That's a great way of remembering that there will always be new tests and trials in life, and thus new life lessons and opportunities to grow beyond. Thanks!
@Mezdisna
@Mezdisna 4 ай бұрын
I've turned 19 one month ago, and I have dealt with anxiety and depression for about 3 years. I've failed school for 2 years and I was diagnosed with ADHD last summer, I had understood that why I couldn't learn and study but now I'm doing better than last year. I know that I'm finally getting better, I have been trying to get into university and get accepted, but I know it takes time for me, to study things I haven't learn in school and maybe I have to take another to study. Your speech really helped to chill. I was being frustrated with myself, remembering why I still cannot get I want, but thank you
@bluecrystalwolfqueen9268
@bluecrystalwolfqueen9268 Жыл бұрын
Might sound kind of cheesy, but I really needed to hear this today. I'm a young woman in my mid-twenties, and I'm only just now realizing that I'm not a failure because I don't have everything together. The last two years were so full of problems and stress, and in the last few months, I was completely broke and had to move across the country to a new job with only my sister helping, which up to then was one of the hardest problems I had encountered. I was terrified of driving big vehicles, almost to the point of anxiety attacks, but the only option I had was a U-haul, so I steeled myself up, said a prayer, and made it happen. And it turned out fine and I'm not as afraid of moving anymore. I tried to take those months of crisis, depression, and paycheck-to-paycheck one day at a time, and the good Lord helped out and everything ended up fine; now my job is going well, I'm ahead on bills, I've paid one of my debts off already, and I'm on the way to finish paying off the last two in less than a year. Sometimes things go up and down but the most important thing I've learned is that pain is inevitable and suffering is optional. When you face the pain and inconvenience and pointless difficulties in life head on and treat them more as learning and humbling experiences, you get a lot more out of it and aren't so afraid anymore.
@MyAwesomeAfro680
@MyAwesomeAfro680 Жыл бұрын
I'm a stranger on the Internet. Reading this filled me with genuine, strong pride. I'm adude in his Mid 20's, England, and I can relate to your issues so much, especially when it comes to dealing with Anxiety attacks head on. You may not believe it but you're inspirational. As much as you needed this wonderful video, I needed this comment. Bless you, Bless your family and bless your future. You got this
@chickenmama4384
@chickenmama4384 Жыл бұрын
Way to go girl 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 you need to be really proud of yourself. You are making great strides.
@rollierollout
@rollierollout Жыл бұрын
Good on you! Proud of how far you've come! It all turns out as it should in the end, despite the pain at any given moment.
@JW-fh1en
@JW-fh1en Жыл бұрын
Kudos to you for persisting! All obstacles can be overcome
@arcticfoxvikingseaking2206
@arcticfoxvikingseaking2206 Жыл бұрын
Enjoy your 20s. You got time. God is good, and Rome wasn't built in a day. "Slow down u crazy child, your so ambitious for a juvenile, there's only so many hours in a day." Billy Joel
@FetusFight
@FetusFight 10 ай бұрын
Man I can’t explain how badly I needed this, currently pouring tears because I can’t possibly imagine a future where I actually get off these drugs, but here I am 48 hours in and I’m gonna push these next few minutes thanks to you
@heatherowen830
@heatherowen830 10 ай бұрын
I feel you on that. I cannot see myself sober. Although I know that I'm ready to be. But bad things keep happening and I cannot control my life anymore so I have been turning to drugs to cope. It's so stupid because the problems are still there. I hope we both can stay strong. One day at a time right? ❤
@FetusFight
@FetusFight 10 ай бұрын
@@heatherowen830 one day at a time! Please don’t lose hope, the drugs aren’t the problem, it’s our minds. Like you basically said. We can improve and we must. We deserve the best❤️ we are worth it.
@the.seagull.35
@the.seagull.35 10 ай бұрын
​​@@heatherowen830 be kind to yourself. You've been in a lot of pain and you're getting through it. There's a deep seated reason for you to be self medicating. God knows that. Its the same for me... I have family history from my early childhood that I'm only just now realizing how much it's impacted me. Look back at those old wounds, even though its hard. bring them into the light. If you can find and treat the root cause you have a much better chance of quitting. God is very patient with people struggling with addiction. He wants us to be healed. God does not want us to hurt anyone else or ourselves, by getting too far into a bad habit. But his aim isn't to condemn us, its to save us through Jesus Christ. Jesus can and will save us, and forgive us. We just have to put our trust in him. "But for you who revere my name, the sun of righteousness will rise with healing in its wings." Malachi 4:2a ❤
@timkrouse345
@timkrouse345 10 ай бұрын
If you slip down the ladder a rung or two, just don't let go. As your body overcomes the addiction by staying clean as long as you can, as many times as you can, eventually you will have the physical part whipped. Don't let a "cheat day" become a surrender. See yourself as drug free and eventually you will become. ✊
@justindifeliciantonio5140
@justindifeliciantonio5140 10 ай бұрын
do yoga. eat right. get sunshine. walk and listen to books. research psilocybin. smile with friends. find a spiritual ally. travel. explore. do expressive writing, a lot. exercise intensely with a support group. play sport. love your family. take care of people when you feel good. that's how i recovered from and flourished after a very dark year of amphetamine use. that was more than 10 years ago. now i am totally a different person. actually thankful for that drug addicted year. it pushed me to explore natural healing and different perspectives on living.
@antonioelsayah6765
@antonioelsayah6765 4 ай бұрын
17 yr old boy and I'm going through my first breakup with the first girl I've ever loved, I really loved the way you spoke about breakups feeling like the end of the world because I haven't had enough experience to really know. Thanks man
@Njkk500
@Njkk500 3 ай бұрын
Im 32 and ive been through a lot of family destruction including my moms death which i watched play out for over 38 minutes. Im a simple man who is passionate about science, astrophysics and the like. I appreciate every conversation i have with anybody i ever meet. And im a minimalist whos happy with tobacco and some biscuits. I have a lot of time ahead of me im still young. Thank you for the video
@brucestewart1223
@brucestewart1223 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 30 y/o combat vet with really bad PTSD. I'm terrified to leave the apartment to take the trash out these days. I've been right on the ledge lately and I'm not sure why, but 5:57 brought me to tears. "You keep going" in that gentle tone. Not a demand, not an order, not begging someone to stay...just the words from someone who did keep going. You say you're not wise, but you are. I will keep going and find that card to play. You saved a life sir. Thank you.
@kwekwlos
@kwekwlos Жыл бұрын
I hope things improve for you
@FineFeatheredHomestead
@FineFeatheredHomestead Жыл бұрын
So sorry it's been so hard. The VA has help for this. It's called CBT, or cognitive behavioral therapy. There are other therapy methods that can help overcome the severity of PTSD too. EMDR, and more.
@valissatate8496
@valissatate8496 Жыл бұрын
I haven't gone through anything nearly as traumatizing, but I went through a really bad breakup. Everyday I remind myself of how much I been through & that I'll get through this one too and it'll only make me stronger and then I would be unstoppable 😂. But there's some truth to it I feel. The more you go through, the tougher skin you develop and it becomes harder to take you down. Listen to, "There will be days like these", by Miles Carter. Every line is beautiful, but one he says, "your past is not who you are, but rather the context for who you will be. Your flaws do not make up your being, but serve as reminders that you are human broken in a way that is beautiful leaving no room for normalcy you... are special". "Realize there is power... in your perspective... the world is yours". Things will get better because your the narrative of your own story ✨️
@imperaTor92
@imperaTor92 Жыл бұрын
May God bless you and keep you safe! Greetings from Romania, bro!
@christianjondahl7198
@christianjondahl7198 Жыл бұрын
Your not alone sir. We are here for you.
@curtleykedukwakwa5076
@curtleykedukwakwa5076 10 ай бұрын
Man when you said stop being so hard on yourself.. I broke down in tears.. Thanks for the encouragement
@Blessed_V0id
@Blessed_V0id 9 ай бұрын
He's right. Best of luck to you
@curtleykedukwakwa5076
@curtleykedukwakwa5076 9 ай бұрын
Thank you buddy. I wish you all the best too..
@Iggy1328
@Iggy1328 9 ай бұрын
I hope you have been well brother¡
@adampickard9685
@adampickard9685 3 ай бұрын
As a 24 year old that has been struggling with this mentaly I needed to ear this thank you sir
@donmorrissey1453
@donmorrissey1453 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for that Dawyn I really needed to hear that. I'm 46 and still think I've got no where in life and haven't got it together. Hearing you o realize things r going to be ok.
@friendofgod_kingdom
@friendofgod_kingdom Жыл бұрын
29 year old black female and this video came out of nowhere. It is very helpful as this is new years day and I am approaching 30 feeling behind in life sometimes. Thank you sir for wisdom 🙏🏾
@queenofthedancehall5669
@queenofthedancehall5669 Жыл бұрын
Wow sis me too I'm literally exhausted and sick of this I'm working hard I'm not even enjoying my life just by trying to keep a roof over my head it's depressing to keep up a facade when I'm not okay
@k0k01
@k0k01 Жыл бұрын
SAME!!! 2023 time to just DO no overthinking just do it!!! We got this!
@carnivoroussarah
@carnivoroussarah Жыл бұрын
@@queenofthedancehall5669 it is ok to not be ok. I'm 27 with severe mental illness and just now getting some results with a few supplements I'm on. I finally was able to clean the kitchen and fridge. It was horrible and miserable, but my lithium orotate got me through it. One day at a time. One new supplement at a time, for me at least. Happy new years, let's hope our 2023 is better than 2022.
@oogbooga1924
@oogbooga1924 Жыл бұрын
God bless
@43warriormode98
@43warriormode98 Жыл бұрын
God bless you and your family ❣️🙏
@zombieblizzy3343
@zombieblizzy3343 Жыл бұрын
Got diagnosed with a rare brain tumor, vestibular schwannoma at 26. Turned 27 and had surgery a week later. I graduated college with my computer network engineering degree right before my surgery. I’m 28 now. Been in recovery since July 2021 when I had the surgery. Lots of therapies and moments of weakness with feelings of hopelessness as I learned to maneuver my new norm of the loss of balance, chronic dizziness, migraines, hearing lost on surgery side, memory issues, severe dry eye.. this video brought me a great amount of peace, and I want to thank you personally for putting this video out there to others. It was very introspective and helped put my life more into perspective. Take care!
@OverFork0ver
@OverFork0ver Жыл бұрын
I'm right there with you. 27 when I was diagnosed with a brain tumor (anaplastic astrocytoma), had the surgery (awake craniotomy, Sept. 2021), just finished up 15 months of chemo. I've had a lot of the same issues, I was about halfway done my degree when the diagnosis happened, ended up dropping out. Prognosis could be better, so school's off the table for now. But definitely felt the loss of normalcy and trying to readjust to everything again. Videos like this really help.
@squash2182
@squash2182 Жыл бұрын
I’m 38, a survivor of Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia, just a little over a year in remission and actually just had my port removed today. I keep talking about getting a degree in computer or mechanical engineering but haven’t put fourth the effort to enroll. I have 10yrs in machining but nothing else other than a ton of excuses . But this video and y’all comments are very eye opening and thank you all for that.
@tomgekas7077
@tomgekas7077 Жыл бұрын
You guys stay strong, you made it so far and I hope all the best and health for you. I don't know you but I am proud of you, stay strong kings🔥
@the13inquisitor59
@the13inquisitor59 Жыл бұрын
This might help, it might not, but maybe look into getting Daith piercings. Sounds stupid, but they do actually help with migraine and dizziness. I was suffering with both thanks to inheriting a susceptibility to them. Got the piercings and a month on, I've had maybe one dizzy spell since. Hope things keep on getting better for you.
@devildogentertainment4904
@devildogentertainment4904 Жыл бұрын
God bless you ! I’m turning 27 this year, you make my situation feel like child’s play.. but we’re bith going to figure this out! God bless you! I hope to get my degree in computer science
@thewerezatch
@thewerezatch 2 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you.
@user-un2ke3zw6i
@user-un2ke3zw6i 3 ай бұрын
Thank you. You are truly a gift to this world. This has helped me and so many others!
@cyberclip8468
@cyberclip8468 9 ай бұрын
I'm a 22 years old brazilian woman and just had a breakdown. I feel like I'm not getting anything although I always try really hard. I feel left behind, misunderstood and worst of all, a burden for my friends and mainly my family. I really needed to hear this, though I'm pretty sure it's meant to help young men. Thank you very much for your nice words, they were truly tranquilizing.
@saafigejongens1189
@saafigejongens1189 8 ай бұрын
We love you, im glad this video reached you. You’re a wonderful woman.
@dinogamesoff4544
@dinogamesoff4544 8 ай бұрын
BRAZIL AMERICAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
@pompeyboy1612
@pompeyboy1612 8 ай бұрын
I mean, men are the main demographic who consumes his content so it's aimed at them but it's absolutely meant for you too.
@freakthefreakout788
@freakthefreakout788 7 ай бұрын
Thank god because I'm a woman and I reallllly needed to hear this. ;( I'm so glad there is content like this for men and boys though of course
@timxiix3864
@timxiix3864 7 ай бұрын
You are not a brazilian woman. You are a woman. And you are not 22 years old you are just 22 years on this earth.
@darthsarmoth
@darthsarmoth Жыл бұрын
As a 23 y/o political science dropout who comes from a family of criminality, mental illness, addiction and unemployment, your words meant so much to me.. ty sir, subscriber earned.
@wasifkareem6441
@wasifkareem6441 Жыл бұрын
bro don't let your family affect your personality. you are born free. go to hubermanlab youtube channel and grab some tools for self improvement
@jonny_codphilo7809
@jonny_codphilo7809 Жыл бұрын
@@wasifkareem6441 farts
@xenthia
@xenthia Жыл бұрын
@@jonny_codphilo7809 facts?*
@warriorfb2010
@warriorfb2010 Жыл бұрын
I wish you well Darth. You'll be fine.
@ldn0224
@ldn0224 Жыл бұрын
I have had my dark days. I would say become a plumber or other such trade. Two years of effort and I promise your world will change. I promise you with work it will get better.
@user-sb2wj5ic9x
@user-sb2wj5ic9x 3 ай бұрын
Turning 34 next month and lost the last 11 years of my life to chronic pain and illness. Still in with the parents, anxiety through the roof and trying to figure out how to dig myself out of this hole I'm in every day. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this today Sir, thank you. Sending my well wishes to everyone in this comment section; keep at it, "chill out" and don't lose hope.
@TheirsHopewithJesusChrist_277
@TheirsHopewithJesusChrist_277 Ай бұрын
Thank you very much brother, Lord knows ive been upset even to the brink of crying and all that, because of things that have been going on the last few months weeks. Ive been super hard on myself lately, ive felt like i havent gotten anywhere, im only 30 and trying to make something of myself. God knows i needed to hear this.
@ladeacarr4245
@ladeacarr4245 Жыл бұрын
Sir, THANK YOU!! im 36, still havent met the love of my life, still havent had children... loosing my job on friday, have to go into life architect mode again, lost both my parents, and just been missin someone wise to listen to... dont have it all together yet, and this message really hit home... thank you!
@vibez5847
@vibez5847 Жыл бұрын
Youll do just fine, all I will say by means of urgency is you should consider freezing your eggs. Then you've got all the time to find that special someone. Im no doctor though, just something I heard about. Best of luck to u
@sabrina77769
@sabrina77769 Жыл бұрын
Sending you love and light . Focus on where your going and all the blessings in your life big and small
@hichammestini3383
@hichammestini3383 Жыл бұрын
Hey Lad.. Do your part, take your time, Let life figure it all out together for you, it's all going to fall in order, be your younger 36, keep growing ❤️
@africkinamerican
@africkinamerican Жыл бұрын
A woman of color, age 36, no kids? Stop 🧢ing !
@JWarr0924
@JWarr0924 Жыл бұрын
I salute you. You’re a soldier sweetheart🫡❤️ Continue seeking wise counsel
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