john miller go away

@@johnmiller-jf3ez fucking dumb ass troll.

john miller why so negative. Not all woman are emotional and obsessed with drama.

john miller most woman and girls are dramatic and emotional though I do agree with you lol, but we’re all human.

@@savannarose7602 i agree.

SAME HERE😭 I get so anxious, it’s not even funny💀

No it's what you do in spite of what you feel

Smoke some really good Indica.

@@Brian-fg5bc me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too v

Don't run from the stress, acknowledge it and take control of it and be honest with yourself in the process. It's temporary.

@@almaslakhani6693 there is no answer, and the fact we are both here trying to figure out how with this KZfaq video shows we are aware and want to change. And thats really good and positive. I think it is just becoming stronger. And learning about ourselves more. Only you know yourself and only you need to understand yourself. Just find that. Because it is so disheartening when you want to be fixed and make the same 'mistakes'. Just see every emotion as a test and as an opportunity to grow and become stronger. Be proud youre trying and look back at how far you have come even if it is little things. Just know your feelings and emotions are valid and you will get through it. All the best Almas

Love you

I am one to show myself to be strong while on the inside I'm shaking with fear especially when my husband is screaming at me.

AWAYS one of these guys

emotions can be the enemy.people that can overcome sad emotion especially must be very rockhard people.gotta try though

Exactly but they teach us a whole bunch of bs instead of this and other things humans actually need to know.

School is a scam

If you could handle your emotions, you would make better financial choices, and that could be bad for big corps

Unfortunately school does not supplement general life advice, they just teach you to be a good worker for companies. So if you don’t have this teaching at home, you are left to learn it yourself or never..

Definitely earlier. It would be immensely helpful

If you keep spitting negative Bullshit to yourself of course your body will react with a heavy dose of emotions. You may believe your body is worthless but it has a mind of its own. Think to yourself positively and with admiration...you'll see your body do justice for you. think of it like how you treat a pet... you don't give love or feed it. it wont listen. same goes for your body.

That's exactly whats making things worse, negative affirmations, you will start to believe them.

Same

I am in the same spot as you, i am a very emotional guy, i take everything to heart, and I cant say that i overcome them but I will try, they are my emotions as your emotions are your's, we have to control them, and I am sure we know this but we still act on them. But I am sure we can overcome them, we are strong. :)

Same =) =(

don't be tired . I messed up my mind from lsd.20 hits or more. negativity? I can maybe help you with that. I was a guy that had it all at one time. that 20 hits.......I dont look cute no more because of a scarred smirk. i Don't like hearing people say "just be positive" I have my reasons. I agree on his trying to help. 20 hits pure uncut is basically a trip to "everything goes black!" I'll get into it more if you want. This guy kinda left me in the cold? I read about the wheel of dharma,edgar cayce, and Ram dass. this guy didnt do anything wrong. I gotta somehow find micro doses and just one time of dmt without police. My own fate! I just dont wanna be arrested. i don't do anything wrong

I will tell you this. he does seem credible. its like I know the answers ,cause i do that he has the balls to share and help. which is good. But if he fixed me .........i'm not charging 250 a book. I know what he knows ,but I guess 1 thing. Marketing. If you really want to help people.............hes not doing it! So if you feel me? He can shuv that 250 up his ass. Theres Ram Dass who was free and willing to help "for free", and Edgar Cayce. Theres a dry ice battery that costs 300 made or you can build it yourself honestly! That may solve your deal? Me. I fucked up eating too much lsd. 20 or more hits. yeah. was hoping for this guys help but...........hes a holy roller. get me if you can on this if you want? this guy is a biz! trust me.

look at his starting vid pics????? you'll be alright. trust me? all he's talking about is irrational thoughts which absolutely noone can tell your thinking. and its inside of you to realize that noone can tell what your thinking. Look at the pics at the side for that guy wanting 250. lookup a sweat lodge! Please

hatcher s

Same!! It's draining! It has to be something rooted from childhood... I know for me it is. I started doing a lot of shadow work and self hypnosis.. It's been helpful.

i support you on your journey, good luck

Me too ! All the best !

U can do it..

Made my day, we are indeed not alone

give yourself cred for having the self instincts, a lot of people lack of self reflection. Now that you know, admited it for yourself, i have no doubt you will make a change.

How?

Would you care to explain how? I'm struggling with this

It helps to come back as much as you need to.

Coming back, after months, myself..

I hope it ll change my life

Wait damn how old are you watching this video you must be a wise kid

@@retro1533 ikr he seems smart, or in another perspective cautious, or in another perspective hurt.

good luck brother

Good on you - 28 and only have just realized how important this is in life

Hey! Good luck applying it! I wish I knew this since I was a teenager. You still have a long way to go! Develop your skills. Be positive!

I'm wheezing 😂😂

Lmfaooo😭

-you might just be dissociating at this point.

Hahahah

You used King Crimson to Erase your emotions from this world

@@dasai1143 hahaha yeah it is

Okay then you're heartless

Yato Gami のらがみ yay Noragami

Yato Gami のらがみ hee good

i am Heartless but i smile too fucking much

And what if someone you love dies? Its not fair to say we choose to feel bad than.

Thank you, I was looking for a quick summarisation. 💛

@@Lene1973a Why not? If someone you love dies, would you rather choose to feel good instead? Or would you choose to grieve? Besides, by being attached to a mortal human you chose the consequencss. There are also historical examples of people remaining unaffected by strong stimuli that would be emotionally devastating, like news of their child's death. Like any skill, choosing how to interpret respond takes practice to get good at.

*I think my lover is going to abandon me* *I think my business will go wrong* *I think my friend will gossip about me* This baseless imagination turns on the switch of your anxiety. In this state, a logical approach is meaningless. If you can't calm down this anxiety, your imagination already becomes a reality. That is why you get anxious and impatient *search youtube "paradox of I can do it"*

Ye I drive up to a red light and think I have to stop when it turns green I drive on.

I came here because of a fight between my brother and I realized I acted out of emotions instead logical reasoning.

@@hettywillows8708 thank you self awareness is very important in changing bad behavior and recognizing bad behavior. Now most the time i get angry i reflect before i do anything stupid.

I hope things are better now Gregory 💙💙

I'm sorry power to CHOOSE? Free will is a myth. I didn't choose to be an addict for ten years and I didn't choose to become clean it just worked when it was meant to. This vid and others like it are bullshit and wow its amazing all the presenters r wearing a 1000 dollar goddammit suit , well off of course you can "change" you people don't know what the fuck it is like to be stuck in a shithole state with no opportunities for someone starting out except for fast food jobs id rather ow my fucking brains out. But that's where I work and doing college. Hoping for the best and preparing for the worst

Get real

@@patrickmcdade7353 some stuff is your fault though, you didn’t seek for help, or stop early, take accountability or you’ll never feel accomplished man

@@patrickmcdade7353 I’m in a bad spot rn too but don’t worry about the future or going homeless, just do what you can and don’t worry about the next day, it’ll give you a bigger health problem than being unemployed is

Free will is a myth. If we choose to feel emotions, that is just under the false paradigm of free will. Yet... we still chose, whatever that means

Brons Inc Sir, how did you loose it?

The same thing kinda happened to me. Like felt unstoppable. I would handle anything, had my own back. Knew that i could do and handle anything that came up. And that changes ur whole lifestyle and your whole energy, and the whole way you carry urself though life. I lost it too. But i dont think you can loose ut because it's not s physical thing. I think somewhere along we adopt other mindsets over time without being aware of it. And that changes feelings and actions over time. But when i know who i used to be i only think about that i want to be that person but thats not good. And it feels like you can't get that back. Like you try the same things that got you there but it feels like it was one magic wish u used up. Cause when u do the same things it dosent work like it once did

Film him!! Weed is not the best tool. It’s a psychotic/hallucinogenic. It causes depression in the long run. If you have anxiety it will make it worse. It helps some, but for others it can make some permanently mentally unstable. That’s is also the reason why it’s being so regulated. Talking from experience and being a psychology student.

Film him!! I understand you. Infact like you from time to time I smoke as well and it has helped me (dive deep within my head), but when my depression and anxiety got really bad and almost borderline, I went into psychosis and just the PARANOIA. That is the true reason why I am trying to put this disclaimer out there. In this day and age everyone is trying to smoke weed and you got these young kids and impressionable people watching and reading these comments and I don’t want them absorbing this information incorrectly and using it irresponsibly. After that psychotic break, weed is something I’m quite defensive about.

If you have perfect peace with god internally (god being the universe, balance and perfect harmony of the world) then, nothing external can change your state of being, as you are in perfect peace. Therefore we should not feel emotions, just peace. All emotions are a sign of weakness because you haven't found god yet and you are living in this false reality instead of the reality in which you are one with everything (everything being god).

Like zoro

Epic comment! I am too. I want this badly!

What you mean a beast?

Michael Kylow He means an emotionless murdering machine

Oh, I get it. I second that, feeling are aways getting in the way.

or vitas

His Face looks just like an Alien That we all watched in a Video or Cartoon or something else Hahahaha

Hes an alien he was hot

😂🤣

Doesn’t anybody have anything good to say to him? Wow, ppl are so negative this days.

@Cheech Vitale yes I did!

For me, I just tell myself that life is only a video game and I'm watching myself in third person

These both seem like limiting, coping mechanisms with no chance to heal the actual reason your emotionas get triggered.

Ricardito tru boi thats wut ive been doing this whole ling year

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rLZ-hNaF36rLdWQ.html

@@unitynofear7758 exactly

You gotta hear Sadhguru, his words are simpler and the knowledge is great

Did you did extra things apart this video?

@@sunflower88639 I broke free of the religion that was shaming my sexuality, I moved away from my controling home environment. I learned to make three deep breaths when I felt the extreme frustration and anger. I relized that the person I'm talking to at work, a co-worker or customer doesn't know my past didn't know I was having a rough day or a rough patch in my life, they have no idea what's going on my my head, and I still struggle with getting out of my head mind set when at work and not taking it out on other people, the anger, saddness or what emotion I'm feeling at the moment. I also learned to take Tim away from my phone and people and just be with myself and my thoughts, even if they're negative thaughts, I took time to think about why I jump to think a certain why in a certain senario, and I used that method with many senarios and if I couldn't I did research and read about it or listened to another video on the topic on the way to school/work. And if I felt that my best friend could help me with a question I'd ask her or my other close friends. It's early in the morning, if I think of anything method I forgot to mention I'll come back and add it

@@AlaskanPanda21 thanks for your reply I appreciate it.

Is there a good book about this topic?

Would u mind sharing some advice of controlling your emotions

The video help me alot, am also happy it help you out

Ikr!

Aparnaa bhagat that is me right now😥😭😭😭😭😤😭😭

Aparnaa bhagat your paragraph gives me hope I get upset easily and cry a lot to and some people actually like seeing us like this some ppl get a thrill off of breaking us down

Aparnaa Bhagat Yes ur r8 at some point but you gotta feel the emotions In other words when u feel like crying go on and cry it all out then you'll clear ur mind and start feeling good again We need to go with our spontaneous body needs within us

I have te same problem, I am a boy. It is very hard, when someone starts arguing with me and I start to cry, everyone laughs at me

@@aleksagrujic6196 That's OK My grandson does that too . Love and Peace P. S. I think these videos can help you they sound appropriate to what he's talking about.

this is so so sweet. sending you guys happiness

❤️❤️❤️

Happy fathers day!! sending wonderful vibes to you and your daughters🥰

You just got to ask yourself Why is this thing or person so important to you, to get annoyed or angry over. Is it worth the energy? Is it even relevant?

@@PCLHH i acknowledge your attempt of helping this person

@@amided3816 whaha I acknowledge your acknowledgement too

Same here im always secretly having negative thoughts thinking about how people do things for no reason

Being nonchalant is overrated, just don’t let your feelings get the best of you it’s a work in progress for me as well but anger is a secondary emotion try to understand your real feeling toward whatever situation you have going on and I hope it gets easier 🤞🏼

Day 1: straight face Day 2:smiles Day 3: almost laughs Day 4:barely laughs Day 5: laughs less Day 6: laughs Day 7: laughs almost cried Day 8:laughs and cries *mission failed*

whut?

I wish it took 8 days lol

Day 1. Dont care Day 2.-- I give up

@@ajarix9056 i feel that way all the time.

Same

Same ☹️

army?

@@maysafatima9534 what

@@kakyoindonut3213 Sorry, the previous comment was deleted. Someone was being rude. That's why I replied as such.

@@maysafatima9534 oh sorry I though you talking alone, I'm apologize

@@kakyoindonut3213 It's all good

You can control your own emotions but you can't control the emotions of others

Adam Oliva exactly

Dant'e Stackz people take advantage of each other that’s how it’s always been

This is really Epic🔥🔥🙌🙏 Thank you for sharing

happy to hear

victor wynn yes!

This video is an event, your thoughts made u feel great

Sakakaka thank you

X2 here

Light weight, try x2

Efficiency 100

THANK YOU SO MUCH OMFG

I hope you're doing better

@@sorrowtooth5494 is it better now 6 months later ?

@@mysticraphy2631 lol i think she died

@@ZER0VII why would you say that?

You go girl ❤️

I like that

Can’t wait to try this. I get impacted by others a lot. My wife. People at work. Kids. I will CHOOSE how to feel. My own emotions

@@Lovsnow absolutely! This still rings true for me. Meditation will open your eyes to so much

Right

yeah oh 🤣🤣

Yup

aww I love you

@@mathsisdeadtomenow this comment is so wholesome

I will suggest you watch this video as well kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rLZ-hNaF36rLdWQ.html

Not only is it a waste, but chronic anxiety can lead to stuff like tumors and other serious health conditions. If you are fighting cancer, your life depends on you being positive and happy. Watch lots of stand up comedy.

+Actualized.org i know because I have created this sickness in the past. now i must cleanse my thoughts to heal better. but it is sometimes still a hard job after 8 years (("negative thought"))

+Dragon 0Fly well i don't mean cleanse, but filter the thoughts and reprogramming the thoughtprocess by being positive.

Me too

Same. It’s such bullshit.

@@GoldenMushroom64 same. It’s terrible

Thankyou I really needed to hear this

It’s the very fact that we are not hard on ourselves that we CONTINUE TO MAKE THE SAME FUCKING MISTAKES IDIOT

@@GoldenMushroom64 no cause if you’re hard on yourself you’re feeding into the cycle, that’s the whole point of the videos

@@GoldenMushroom64 No. It's our judement of ourself which is our core emotional mistake. It is possible to do the right thing from a place of love, not fear/hate.

thanks, i needed this

I thought it does not work in 2019 HAHA

@@shuradesu483 Lmaoooo

Jealous.

how!!

Um let's just say six years of practice and not a lot of happy moments..

+LlamaKittens how??..Please I would like to know...it's annoying that as old as I am whenever I'm angry or upset I cry..like even when I don't want to ...it's like my eyes have their own free will or something ..how did u learn to turn off your emotion?

princess chiamaka It wasn't easy. My life hasn't exactly been the happiest so with every bad thing that happened in my life I started to feel less and less until my emotions were almost completely gone. Then, and I seriously don't know how to explain how, I slowly started to gain control of my emotions and later how to 'shut them off'. Just remember that this isn't necessarily a good thing and to be honest I wish I wasn't in this much control.

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Stop you’re making me cry 😢 yourre so not alone. We will get better. We always do.

Same here

Same he..... no not me

Same:(

My friends tell me i always talk negative when they say they want to date some actor and i tell them how that isn't possible

Ikr?

Sarku Roll how far are you into self actualisation

I'm so sorry you have to go through that. I can totally empathize. I wasn't convinced that we can always transcend things happening in our external environment. Hope you can break free from your grandmother and save your beloved family members. Wishing you the best.

Cut them out of your life. If someone isn't helping you be your best and live your best life happily, cut them off at the root even if they're family or close friends. Move away somewhere else.

Oh god tell me about it, it’s just nonstop arguing in my family

Learn from it it’ll make u stronger

Same..

That is why it's necessary to develop consciousness. So that you can not get caught up in emotions when you don't want to. Emotions aren't the enemy. The problem exits only when your emotions got you by the balls. Yes, emotions can be signals, but most people get so caught up they miss the signal entirely.

Actualized.org Thanks for the reply Leo. What you say fits very well with the Tolle book I'm currently studying. Bringing neutral awareness (consciousness) to a strong emotion and it will dissipate.

DeeKay Definitely. Check out my video on Mindfulness for more on that technique.

***** Yes, emotions aren't a problem without thoughts.

***** First it is the thoughts about a particular circumstance or stimuli that causes us to feel emotions, then our thoughts about the emotions themselves can amplify the emotions or create a perpetual cycle unless we choose to break it. The cycle can be good or bad, but it's important to filter the stimuli to put yourself on an upward trajectory as opposed to random fluctuations that get you nowhere!