I want to stop crying in every argument , it’s so embarrassing 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@mortifer63904 жыл бұрын
john miller go away
@jasminerussell20414 жыл бұрын
@@johnmiller-jf3ez fucking dumb ass troll.
@savannarose76024 жыл бұрын
john miller why so negative. Not all woman are emotional and obsessed with drama.
@savannarose76024 жыл бұрын
john miller most woman and girls are dramatic and emotional though I do agree with you lol, but we’re all human.
@johnmiller-jf3ez4 жыл бұрын
@@savannarose7602 i agree.
@darchenie-47525 жыл бұрын
I wanna be able to stay relaxed when something stressing is happening
@akiraelai80534 жыл бұрын
SAME HERE😭 I get so anxious, it’s not even funny💀
@neinnien65034 жыл бұрын
No it's what you do in spite of what you feel
@Brian-fg5bc4 жыл бұрын
Smoke some really good Indica.
@terlo65034 жыл бұрын
@@Brian-fg5bc me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too me too v
@facksvillain22964 жыл бұрын
Don't run from the stress, acknowledge it and take control of it and be honest with yourself in the process. It's temporary.
@Roobiie13 жыл бұрын
Whoever is reading this. I hope you find peace and happiness in your life. And dont think youre alone. Even someone who seems strong on the outside is battling their emotions inside.
@Roobiie13 жыл бұрын
@@almaslakhani6693 there is no answer, and the fact we are both here trying to figure out how with this KZfaq video shows we are aware and want to change. And thats really good and positive. I think it is just becoming stronger. And learning about ourselves more. Only you know yourself and only you need to understand yourself. Just find that. Because it is so disheartening when you want to be fixed and make the same 'mistakes'. Just see every emotion as a test and as an opportunity to grow and become stronger. Be proud youre trying and look back at how far you have come even if it is little things. Just know your feelings and emotions are valid and you will get through it. All the best Almas
@doctormoney6013 жыл бұрын
Love you
@teriweatheread61723 жыл бұрын
I am one to show myself to be strong while on the inside I'm shaking with fear especially when my husband is screaming at me.
@lswan63893 жыл бұрын
AWAYS one of these guys
@christelthrasher56253 жыл бұрын
emotions can be the enemy.people that can overcome sad emotion especially must be very rockhard people.gotta try though
@gggddd23503 жыл бұрын
They should educate us about how to handle our feelings/ emotions in highschool or even maybe earlier. Seeing this video 4 years ago would of helped me in many situations, thank you for this.
@retro15333 жыл бұрын
Exactly but they teach us a whole bunch of bs instead of this and other things humans actually need to know.
@1MT113 жыл бұрын
School is a scam
@Chaielectric3 жыл бұрын
If you could handle your emotions, you would make better financial choices, and that could be bad for big corps
@maxmercor57723 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately school does not supplement general life advice, they just teach you to be a good worker for companies. So if you don’t have this teaching at home, you are left to learn it yourself or never..
@kelseyann67483 жыл бұрын
Definitely earlier. It would be immensely helpful
@brokestudenthelp78718 жыл бұрын
Watching this because I get attached too easily and my emotions take over. Hate myself
@jcccc44208 жыл бұрын
If you keep spitting negative Bullshit to yourself of course your body will react with a heavy dose of emotions. You may believe your body is worthless but it has a mind of its own. Think to yourself positively and with admiration...you'll see your body do justice for you. think of it like how you treat a pet... you don't give love or feed it. it wont listen. same goes for your body.
@rav00018 жыл бұрын
That's exactly whats making things worse, negative affirmations, you will start to believe them.
@selenalopez59626 жыл бұрын
Same
@radu72ful6 жыл бұрын
I am in the same spot as you, i am a very emotional guy, i take everything to heart, and I cant say that i overcome them but I will try, they are my emotions as your emotions are your's, we have to control them, and I am sure we know this but we still act on them. But I am sure we can overcome them, we are strong. :)
@voicumarian86276 жыл бұрын
Same =) =(
@JosephineDeSmet5 жыл бұрын
powerful, I'm constantly fighting with my own negativity, I'm actually tired because of it
@jedhatcher2524 жыл бұрын
don't be tired . I messed up my mind from lsd.20 hits or more. negativity? I can maybe help you with that. I was a guy that had it all at one time. that 20 hits.......I dont look cute no more because of a scarred smirk. i Don't like hearing people say "just be positive" I have my reasons. I agree on his trying to help. 20 hits pure uncut is basically a trip to "everything goes black!" I'll get into it more if you want. This guy kinda left me in the cold? I read about the wheel of dharma,edgar cayce, and Ram dass. this guy didnt do anything wrong. I gotta somehow find micro doses and just one time of dmt without police. My own fate! I just dont wanna be arrested. i don't do anything wrong
@jedhatcher2524 жыл бұрын
I will tell you this. he does seem credible. its like I know the answers ,cause i do that he has the balls to share and help. which is good. But if he fixed me .........i'm not charging 250 a book. I know what he knows ,but I guess 1 thing. Marketing. If you really want to help people.............hes not doing it! So if you feel me? He can shuv that 250 up his ass. Theres Ram Dass who was free and willing to help "for free", and Edgar Cayce. Theres a dry ice battery that costs 300 made or you can build it yourself honestly! That may solve your deal? Me. I fucked up eating too much lsd. 20 or more hits. yeah. was hoping for this guys help but...........hes a holy roller. get me if you can on this if you want? this guy is a biz! trust me.
@jedhatcher2524 жыл бұрын
look at his starting vid pics????? you'll be alright. trust me? all he's talking about is irrational thoughts which absolutely noone can tell your thinking. and its inside of you to realize that noone can tell what your thinking. Look at the pics at the side for that guy wanting 250. lookup a sweat lodge! Please
@lisaclark15754 жыл бұрын
hatcher s
@JanineBelle14 жыл бұрын
Same!! It's draining! It has to be something rooted from childhood... I know for me it is. I started doing a lot of shadow work and self hypnosis.. It's been helpful.
@svty47983 жыл бұрын
I’m pessimistic and emotionally dependent to others person’s reactions or life circumstances. I’m gonna change that garbage cuz honestly nobody deserves living that way.
@nyixxo81393 жыл бұрын
i support you on your journey, good luck
@MsAlexik3 жыл бұрын
Me too ! All the best !
@shreyamahapatra3 жыл бұрын
U can do it..
@user-pz2gc9ke2x3 жыл бұрын
Made my day, we are indeed not alone
@MonikaSwe3 жыл бұрын
give yourself cred for having the self instincts, a lot of people lack of self reflection. Now that you know, admited it for yourself, i have no doubt you will make a change.
@TairyinKlossner2 жыл бұрын
“It’s not the environment that’s creating your emotions. It’s how you see the environment that’s creating the emotions.” So perfectly said.
@lovemischief46683 жыл бұрын
Coming back to this video after watching it 4 months ago. This video changed my life.
@sprisyatasedai6403 жыл бұрын
How?
@emirodriguez87233 жыл бұрын
Would you care to explain how? I'm struggling with this
@SherryTaylorReynolds3 жыл бұрын
It helps to come back as much as you need to.
@thumper629733 жыл бұрын
Coming back, after months, myself..
@almaslakhani66933 жыл бұрын
I hope it ll change my life
@typicalbanditt18704 жыл бұрын
I've just come to the realization that this is one of the most important skills in life..I hope to apply this in my teenage years
@retro15333 жыл бұрын
Wait damn how old are you watching this video you must be a wise kid
@amided38163 жыл бұрын
@@retro1533 ikr he seems smart, or in another perspective cautious, or in another perspective hurt.
@mkeitstop03 жыл бұрын
good luck brother
@lukemarkham70293 жыл бұрын
Good on you - 28 and only have just realized how important this is in life
@btw3453 жыл бұрын
Hey! Good luck applying it! I wish I knew this since I was a teenager. You still have a long way to go! Develop your skills. Be positive!
@zentilian56614 жыл бұрын
Dad: *shouts* Me: *dosent feel emotion* My brain: *you have mastered the 4 elements*
@renahaiko61623 жыл бұрын
I'm wheezing 😂😂
@alexandrapavon92353 жыл бұрын
Lmfaooo😭
@emilys28493 жыл бұрын
-you might just be dissociating at this point.
@antwandarellefenton3 жыл бұрын
Hahahah
@uyso60453 жыл бұрын
You used King Crimson to Erase your emotions from this world
@kohakusstrongestsoldier83165 жыл бұрын
*I'm not Heartless I just use my Heart less*
@kohakusstrongestsoldier83165 жыл бұрын
@@dasai1143 hahaha yeah it is
@josekarakatsanis73545 жыл бұрын
Okay then you're heartless
@AnimeMLG5 жыл бұрын
Yato Gami のらがみ yay Noragami
@arpita62525 жыл бұрын
Yato Gami のらがみ hee good
@IamINERT5 жыл бұрын
i am Heartless but i smile too fucking much
@jorostuff5 жыл бұрын
Summary: You choose how to interpret the external stimulus. The way you interpret is the thing that determines whether you feel bad or good. It's true, you get triggered in the moment and it may hurt, but you can ease the pain by choosing a positive way to interpret what has happened.
@Lene1973a4 жыл бұрын
And what if someone you love dies? Its not fair to say we choose to feel bad than.
@ysera.c4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I was looking for a quick summarisation. 💛
@unitynofear77584 жыл бұрын
@@Lene1973a Why not? If someone you love dies, would you rather choose to feel good instead? Or would you choose to grieve? Besides, by being attached to a mortal human you chose the consequencss. There are also historical examples of people remaining unaffected by strong stimuli that would be emotionally devastating, like news of their child's death. Like any skill, choosing how to interpret respond takes practice to get good at.
@sarangkim63734 жыл бұрын
*I think my lover is going to abandon me* *I think my business will go wrong* *I think my friend will gossip about me* This baseless imagination turns on the switch of your anxiety. In this state, a logical approach is meaningless. If you can't calm down this anxiety, your imagination already becomes a reality. That is why you get anxious and impatient *search youtube "paradox of I can do it"*
@patrickbonney80823 жыл бұрын
Ye I drive up to a red light and think I have to stop when it turns green I drive on.
@gregorye72493 жыл бұрын
Today I was so depressed and I looked up “how to love yourself.” I found your video on the subject and that led me here. Thank you so much!
@jaquinlaner91283 жыл бұрын
I came here because of a fight between my brother and I realized I acted out of emotions instead logical reasoning.
@jaquinlaner91282 жыл бұрын
@@hettywillows8708 thank you self awareness is very important in changing bad behavior and recognizing bad behavior. Now most the time i get angry i reflect before i do anything stupid.
@KandyKoatedKrafts2 жыл бұрын
I hope things are better now Gregory 💙💙
@16savvgeflysohigh794 жыл бұрын
Nobody can deny the fact that of how much enjoyable this person is when he explains....maaaan! This world need more of you
@MrGilMoNayO4 жыл бұрын
The saddest thing of all time is that most people don't realize that regardless of any external circumstance they always have the power to choose to feel good and that feeling good is what leads to manifesting an epic life.
@patrickmcdade73532 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry power to CHOOSE? Free will is a myth. I didn't choose to be an addict for ten years and I didn't choose to become clean it just worked when it was meant to. This vid and others like it are bullshit and wow its amazing all the presenters r wearing a 1000 dollar goddammit suit , well off of course you can "change" you people don't know what the fuck it is like to be stuck in a shithole state with no opportunities for someone starting out except for fast food jobs id rather ow my fucking brains out. But that's where I work and doing college. Hoping for the best and preparing for the worst
@patrickmcdade73532 жыл бұрын
Get real
@progamermoves39572 жыл бұрын
@@patrickmcdade7353 some stuff is your fault though, you didn’t seek for help, or stop early, take accountability or you’ll never feel accomplished man
@progamermoves39572 жыл бұрын
@@patrickmcdade7353 I’m in a bad spot rn too but don’t worry about the future or going homeless, just do what you can and don’t worry about the next day, it’ll give you a bigger health problem than being unemployed is
@karl24052 жыл бұрын
Free will is a myth. If we choose to feel emotions, that is just under the false paradigm of free will. Yet... we still chose, whatever that means
@bronsinc91515 жыл бұрын
When I was 29 I achieved this, I felt like a beast. I was literally unstoppable, its been three years since I lost it and I'm fighting my way back in achieving this. Everything he says is so true
@true45855 жыл бұрын
Brons Inc Sir, how did you loose it?
@bbqsauce97515 жыл бұрын
The same thing kinda happened to me. Like felt unstoppable. I would handle anything, had my own back. Knew that i could do and handle anything that came up. And that changes ur whole lifestyle and your whole energy, and the whole way you carry urself though life. I lost it too. But i dont think you can loose ut because it's not s physical thing. I think somewhere along we adopt other mindsets over time without being aware of it. And that changes feelings and actions over time. But when i know who i used to be i only think about that i want to be that person but thats not good. And it feels like you can't get that back. Like you try the same things that got you there but it feels like it was one magic wish u used up. Cause when u do the same things it dosent work like it once did
@true45854 жыл бұрын
Film him!! Weed is not the best tool. It’s a psychotic/hallucinogenic. It causes depression in the long run. If you have anxiety it will make it worse. It helps some, but for others it can make some permanently mentally unstable. That’s is also the reason why it’s being so regulated. Talking from experience and being a psychology student.
@true45854 жыл бұрын
Film him!! I understand you. Infact like you from time to time I smoke as well and it has helped me (dive deep within my head), but when my depression and anxiety got really bad and almost borderline, I went into psychosis and just the PARANOIA. That is the true reason why I am trying to put this disclaimer out there. In this day and age everyone is trying to smoke weed and you got these young kids and impressionable people watching and reading these comments and I don’t want them absorbing this information incorrectly and using it irresponsibly. After that psychotic break, weed is something I’m quite defensive about.
@vitocorleone14624 жыл бұрын
If you have perfect peace with god internally (god being the universe, balance and perfect harmony of the world) then, nothing external can change your state of being, as you are in perfect peace. Therefore we should not feel emotions, just peace. All emotions are a sign of weakness because you haven't found god yet and you are living in this false reality instead of the reality in which you are one with everything (everything being god).
@joejoefasho42672 жыл бұрын
I forgot about this video, I’m coming across it as a 22 year old and wow I’ve been living my past 6 years thinking like this trying to explain people to control their thoughts. Rewatching now not at 15yrs old I can really understand that interpretation layer. Thanks for this video it has changed my life.
@blackroze14713 жыл бұрын
For a long time I believed that I was controlling my emotions by suppressing them. Then I would have a melt down or sudden burst of overwhelming emotions. I’m not sure if it’s pms or just a result of suppressing my emotions. Thank you Leo, I have found my happy medium. The filter ! Now I can work on having real control of my emotions
@GuruLifts8 жыл бұрын
Watching this to become a beast
@fay74558 жыл бұрын
Like zoro
@Giggles507 жыл бұрын
Epic comment! I am too. I want this badly!
@michaelkylow44117 жыл бұрын
What you mean a beast?
@MrRevexx7 жыл бұрын
Michael Kylow He means an emotionless murdering machine
@michaelkylow44117 жыл бұрын
Oh, I get it. I second that, feeling are aways getting in the way.
@xaviermorais37775 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail looks like an alien planning an invasion
@michaelpaul72715 жыл бұрын
or vitas
@shannuzoomin5 жыл бұрын
His Face looks just like an Alien That we all watched in a Video or Cartoon or something else Hahahaha
@markassbrownlee40245 жыл бұрын
Hes an alien he was hot
@kickativetruth34195 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@perrofalderodeisabel5 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t anybody have anything good to say to him? Wow, ppl are so negative this days.
@blessdbee Жыл бұрын
I watched this video 5 years ago one day when I came home from my call center job. I was so emotionally drained because I have to deal with customers who complain all the time and it was really getting to me because I did not know which emotions to use in certain situations or how to even control my emotions. This video started my personal development and manifestation journey.🌠
@blessdbee Жыл бұрын
@Cheech Vitale yes I did!
@marynrosee3 жыл бұрын
I’m very young and ready to take control of my happiness. This is the big first step I’m taking and I just want to thank you for all the content your releasing!
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
If you liked this video, I recommend you watch these related videos too: 1) Why Am I Depressed? - The Shocking Truth Behind Your Depression 2) How To Control Anger - The Shocking Truth Behind Your Anger Problems 3) How To Feel Happy - Scientifically Proven Ways of Creating Lasting Happiness 4) How To Feel Good - Re-Designing Your Life To Feel Amazing
@Ten-ol7nc5 жыл бұрын
I say myself to go “robot 🤖 mode” when I get attacked by negative emotions so that words or events can’t hurt me. There will be only smile in my face. Thanks Leo for a wonderful video. Learned a lot from it.
@RicarditoRicardon4 жыл бұрын
For me, I just tell myself that life is only a video game and I'm watching myself in third person
@unitynofear77584 жыл бұрын
These both seem like limiting, coping mechanisms with no chance to heal the actual reason your emotionas get triggered.
@seelezaychic75124 жыл бұрын
Ricardito tru boi thats wut ive been doing this whole ling year
@BeInspiredWithDebbie4 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rLZ-hNaF36rLdWQ.html
@KrazzyKittyy4 жыл бұрын
@@unitynofear7758 exactly
@Vincentizer3 ай бұрын
One stoic revelation that has helped greatly in my own life is this: The enduring of hardship, suffering, and challenge, is the universal payment for future prosperity. I wish all wonderful journey.
@quinndaly62583 жыл бұрын
You have literally turned my life around, thank you for being so brave and getting these messages out
@adriannerobinson23574 жыл бұрын
“If your happiness is contingent upon randomness in life, that is not a good way to be happy” Preach! Thank you so much for this video I think everyone would benefit from being told to take responsibility for their emotions instead of blaming others for it simply because it’s easier to blame than to put in the work and get out of our comfort zone
@anmoltiwarii3 жыл бұрын
You gotta hear Sadhguru, his words are simpler and the knowledge is great
@AlaskanPanda215 жыл бұрын
I watched this about three or four years ago. I was in emotional chaos and so very unhappy. This has helped me on my journey of life so much. I've been working on emotional control every day since I watch it back in the day. Thank you
@sunflower886395 жыл бұрын
Did you did extra things apart this video?
@AlaskanPanda215 жыл бұрын
@@sunflower88639 I broke free of the religion that was shaming my sexuality, I moved away from my controling home environment. I learned to make three deep breaths when I felt the extreme frustration and anger. I relized that the person I'm talking to at work, a co-worker or customer doesn't know my past didn't know I was having a rough day or a rough patch in my life, they have no idea what's going on my my head, and I still struggle with getting out of my head mind set when at work and not taking it out on other people, the anger, saddness or what emotion I'm feeling at the moment. I also learned to take Tim away from my phone and people and just be with myself and my thoughts, even if they're negative thaughts, I took time to think about why I jump to think a certain why in a certain senario, and I used that method with many senarios and if I couldn't I did research and read about it or listened to another video on the topic on the way to school/work. And if I felt that my best friend could help me with a question I'd ask her or my other close friends. It's early in the morning, if I think of anything method I forgot to mention I'll come back and add it
@sunflower886395 жыл бұрын
@@AlaskanPanda21 thanks for your reply I appreciate it.
@otorishingen86005 жыл бұрын
Is there a good book about this topic?
@sabrinabangtan28565 жыл бұрын
Would u mind sharing some advice of controlling your emotions
@shaniquereece93422 жыл бұрын
Something I definitely want to master! My emotions have controlled me, my whole entire life and I am over being a victim to it. Thank you for sharing and giving different perspectives on the situation. God bless you!✨🧿✨
@warkchocobo82303 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely brilliant! This concept has given me so much clarity into why I am the way that I am. And I just gotta say, accepting that you are responsible for your own emotions and working to be in control of them is one of the most freeing experiences. Thank you for this awesome video! Namaste!
@danrockwell45072 жыл бұрын
The video help me alot, am also happy it help you out
@kapkanbesuda92987 жыл бұрын
Please never stop making videos.
@ripulsaxena62167 жыл бұрын
Ikr!
@jusrme42656 жыл бұрын
Hey leo! I watched your video like 2-3 months ago, before that I used to be very emotional like I use to cry n very little things due to my personal issues, I wasn't able to control my tears even in public it was very embarrassing for me then I googled how to control emotions I saw your video, no offense I thought it is some hypnotizing sorta video and shrugged it off but later after 1-2 days I found your video again and viewed this time. after like 6-7 min you made me realize I'm the controller of my emotions and after I exit the video I thought about it deeply and vowed to try it for once at least. I tried controlling my emotions everytime I felt low Honestly it worked now I can control my emotions like a pro. I don't show my weaknesses to others or burst n tears before anyone😀 untill or unless I want to! I'm really grateful to you leo because without you my life would be miserable like before. Thank you so much for helping me😊😘😘
@laniyahgodfrey49386 жыл бұрын
Aparnaa bhagat that is me right now😥😭😭😭😭😤😭😭
@carziyah41926 жыл бұрын
Aparnaa bhagat your paragraph gives me hope I get upset easily and cry a lot to and some people actually like seeing us like this some ppl get a thrill off of breaking us down
@juliaalawar63005 жыл бұрын
Aparnaa Bhagat Yes ur r8 at some point but you gotta feel the emotions In other words when u feel like crying go on and cry it all out then you'll clear ur mind and start feeling good again We need to go with our spontaneous body needs within us
@aleksagrujic61965 жыл бұрын
I have te same problem, I am a boy. It is very hard, when someone starts arguing with me and I start to cry, everyone laughs at me
@rosemarymorin67025 жыл бұрын
@@aleksagrujic6196 That's OK My grandson does that too . Love and Peace P. S. I think these videos can help you they sound appropriate to what he's talking about.
@binali27753 жыл бұрын
This was my first leo video and it changed my life forever and since I’ve been listening to at least one lecture by leo everyday. Profound and Life altering content
@BrotherBoresIsBest3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful message. I'm raising two girls without their mother, and I need to learn to be a strong male role model for them. Being strong in mind is the first step.
@ennead6072 жыл бұрын
this is so so sweet. sending you guys happiness
@_Harry_Potter Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@GUMMIBEARS7301 Жыл бұрын
Happy fathers day!! sending wonderful vibes to you and your daughters🥰
@siddhantpurohit65018 жыл бұрын
Leo, I would want to keep writting long paragraphs on how you are one of the most important human being to be existing as you are making thousands of lives better by sharing all of that knowledge. It seems like the fellow fans of yours have already done that work for me so thank you everyone. Just wanted to say that whatever you're doing, oh you're doing great at it. keep it up.
@MoroccanRose854 жыл бұрын
I just wish I’d stop being angry and annoyed about damn near everything. I’d rather be nonchalant.
@PCLHH4 жыл бұрын
You just got to ask yourself Why is this thing or person so important to you, to get annoyed or angry over. Is it worth the energy? Is it even relevant?
@amided38163 жыл бұрын
@@PCLHH i acknowledge your attempt of helping this person
@robin-vt1qj3 жыл бұрын
@@amided3816 whaha I acknowledge your acknowledgement too
@fastestninjaboy67683 жыл бұрын
Same here im always secretly having negative thoughts thinking about how people do things for no reason
@briannazuniga9283 жыл бұрын
Being nonchalant is overrated, just don’t let your feelings get the best of you it’s a work in progress for me as well but anger is a secondary emotion try to understand your real feeling toward whatever situation you have going on and I hope it gets easier 🤞🏼
@damonland35342 жыл бұрын
For the first time, my reckless emotions are actually starting to make sense. Identifying their source can finally equip me to control them to my advantage. Thank you Leo...these seeds have fallen on good ground. Merci!
@lilsy50182 жыл бұрын
What a difference this is making to my life. I've spent the last year having negativity and more and more of it, all because of a betrayal.. finally after months I'm feeling positive and really feeling such an amazing change. Thank you Leo! Changing my life for the better
@dankmemer93975 жыл бұрын
Day one: laughs so hard cries Day two: laughs almost cried Day three: laughs Day four: laughs less Day 5: barley laughs Day 6: almost laughs Day 7: smiles Day 8: straight face *mission complete*
@ceftu5 жыл бұрын
Day 1: straight face Day 2:smiles Day 3: almost laughs Day 4:barely laughs Day 5: laughs less Day 6: laughs Day 7: laughs almost cried Day 8:laughs and cries *mission failed*
@irstalina5 жыл бұрын
whut?
@plantmc93195 жыл бұрын
I wish it took 8 days lol
@ajarix90565 жыл бұрын
Day 1. Dont care Day 2.-- I give up
@aashimaghai49254 жыл бұрын
@@ajarix9056 i feel that way all the time.
@SomethingClever_5 жыл бұрын
I REALLYYYYY need this today. I’ve been letting every dumb little thing get to me. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@yeeebhop90124 жыл бұрын
Same
@sarmilasenchure66943 жыл бұрын
Same ☹️
@mwhisper24693 жыл бұрын
This was in my recommended and I feel like I came across it for a reason. I used to be happy when I didn’t let “bad” things control how I felt. This video was a blessing for me. Definitely going to watch more
@gabriellin60392 жыл бұрын
I've been struggling with all the things that happened in my life recently, this video saved me.I watched it 2 yrs ago and didn't make any action to apply it, but now just by watching it I instantly feel more happy and satisfied with my situation. It's hard to explain, I hope everyone here can find their own peace someday.
@lysabantu24904 жыл бұрын
I have Started to pay much attention how I respond to situations and how they affect my outlook. I thank you for sharing this. In return to a negative thought, I do three positive affirmation to allow positivity to take over. Our biggest enemy is our thoughts, let's fill the empty space with positivity and love. Blessings to everyone one who is in the self awareness journey and those who are intentionally working to speak to themselves in a loving way. Namaste 🙏🏽
@AdrianaMaria-zd1jw5 жыл бұрын
Someone put this man on spotify
@maysafatima95344 жыл бұрын
army?
@kakyoindonut32133 жыл бұрын
@@maysafatima9534 what
@maysafatima95343 жыл бұрын
@@kakyoindonut3213 Sorry, the previous comment was deleted. Someone was being rude. That's why I replied as such.
@kakyoindonut32133 жыл бұрын
@@maysafatima9534 oh sorry I though you talking alone, I'm apologize
@maysafatima95343 жыл бұрын
@@kakyoindonut3213 It's all good
@chriscarrera31282 жыл бұрын
I’ve struggled for years with controlling my emotions, and I’m glad I discovered this information
@angeruandrei8424 Жыл бұрын
our way of expressing these concepts always attracts me, and nothing, but nothing compares with it-- the tone, the depth of spirituality, I can't put it into words. Your Manifesting Manual is something I can read over and over and soak up. I am in process of making the routine a solid part of my life, and it has made a difference! I LOVE your 12 meditations too kzfaq.infoUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq I know I am a different person after 9 months with Super Manifestor, and in process of continued positive change! You deserve accolades every day of the year! Keep on with everything, and as we say in Spanish, ANIMO! Lots of love and every blessing to you both.
@ApricotData4745 жыл бұрын
Control everything except people. People are off limits unless it's in a positive way to help them achieve greatness.
@saif9amar4175 жыл бұрын
You can control your own emotions but you can't control the emotions of others
@KrypticKiss184 жыл бұрын
Adam Oliva exactly
@KrypticKiss184 жыл бұрын
Dant'e Stackz people take advantage of each other that’s how it’s always been
@sasyr31505 жыл бұрын
I like the energy in your video . I partly agree with you but don't agree with the point that there's nothing causing you bad emotions.. actually there are things that cause you naturally to be sad, angry or disappointed but the trick is not to stay in that circle and try to shift your thoughts and think positively so you can get out of that negative circle.. That's what I believe.. thanks
@FluffyLittleChick3 жыл бұрын
you know ! sometimes even my friends surprised when they anticipate me going to be angry on something and I don't. That really help me on my life to control my actions than results as you have said. thank u so much. this is the most important skill we should all develop on our selves
@chunqiu173 жыл бұрын
"You don't want what's natural. What's natural is shit." Here the subscription goes 😂😂
@kyso.organics3 жыл бұрын
This is really Epic🔥🔥🙌🙏 Thank you for sharing
@jenrich1119 жыл бұрын
Believe in yourself. Back yourself. Be your own Cheerleader. Be your best friend. Respect & Treat your mind/body well with regular meals (every 2-3 hrs) of healthy foods, correct portions, activity and regular sleep. This helps your mind/body feel calm and relaxed because your basic needs are met - (exactly like when playing SIMS3). When feeling out-of-sorts: have a hot shower; Have a nap; Take yourself for a walk in the sunshine; distract yourself with a movie; hug a velvet cushion and wrap yourself in a velvet throw rug; give yourself a pep-talk; lay down with a picnic blanket on the lawn and watch the clouds and hear the sounds of nature. You may notice that these self-soothing options, bring you into the present moment (ok not the movie) I am sure there are many more ideas out there that you can think of - especially stuff that works for you.... share please
@vmw51524 жыл бұрын
Whoa, I was feeling like shit before I watched this... I feel great now.
@diaso70294 жыл бұрын
happy to hear
@mystic5074 жыл бұрын
victor wynn yes!
@hellis24043 жыл бұрын
This video is an event, your thoughts made u feel great
@free_birth_mama4 жыл бұрын
Went from suicidal to empowered in 30 minutes. Brilliant 👏 thank you
@chinoscars56553 жыл бұрын
I can't believe i searched this up 6 years ago. And now I'm in a different mindset. My mind shifted so hard. What i learned is that everyday you have to condition your mind to be positive and level headed. At first it wasn't easy but i made it happen. Also what i eat matters too. Eating fruits and protein foods matter. What also helped me out alot is water. Water is the source. Water changed my brain for good. I drink it everyday after i wake up. Exercise 1 hour a day is key too. Also your social circle matters. My brain started slowly kicking the bad out and not needing them. It something isn't bringing value to your life. You should leave it. If you read everything good luck in life. Wish you the best.
@fernandocunnoris50084 жыл бұрын
What I get from this video : "Try to see the good things in every situations". That's it guys. It's all about that
@sakakaka40645 жыл бұрын
Watch it on x1.25 speed, thank me later.
@blahblah58985 жыл бұрын
Sakakaka thank you
@FreeFromWithin5 жыл бұрын
X2 here
@symbolicmeta19425 жыл бұрын
Light weight, try x2
@OddspitePodcasts5 жыл бұрын
Efficiency 100
@s3k4175 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH OMFG
@dextergill72223 жыл бұрын
currently writing an essay discussing whether emotions are driven primarily by our environment, this video changed my whole perspective / approach.
@ALLYRTV2 жыл бұрын
Can I say I love you???😭 Thank you!!🙌🏽🙌🏽 you’re so right. I needed THIS. This is gold😍 omg. All you have to do is listen people!!! Lol practice doing exactly what he is saying and you’ll see! Our thoughts control our emotions!!🤩 Everything he is saying is valid. I physically felt pain this morning from my “heartbreak” and now am much more realistic and am literally choosing to not allow this to destroy me. Thank you so much for this!!!!!😘
@parveen8118 жыл бұрын
this video should have got Billion of views... it deserves each one of them.
@monicamercado81614 жыл бұрын
Today I’ve been heart broken and I’m going to take control my emotions and my filter i will come back in 7 days and shared my experience
@sorrowtooth54944 жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing better
@mysticraphy26313 жыл бұрын
@@sorrowtooth5494 is it better now 6 months later ?
@ZER0VII3 жыл бұрын
@@mysticraphy2631 lol i think she died
@mmmmdonuts70373 жыл бұрын
@@ZER0VII why would you say that?
@jeffro456b3 жыл бұрын
You go girl ❤️
@brandonyafanaro97102 жыл бұрын
This is amazing . I stopped telling myself “this person isn’t making me feel this, the feeling is popping into my head” so this makes a lot of sense . I stopped and realized that I’m in control of how I feel . Not other people .
@sahdiakhalid30972 жыл бұрын
I like that
@Lovsnow Жыл бұрын
Can’t wait to try this. I get impacted by others a lot. My wife. People at work. Kids. I will CHOOSE how to feel. My own emotions
@brandonyafanaro9710 Жыл бұрын
@@Lovsnow absolutely! This still rings true for me. Meditation will open your eyes to so much
@kerwinbelt46002 жыл бұрын
Leo, I owe you. I was going through a lot with this person. My mind was spinning with all kinds of negative thoughts and emotions. They were starting to frighten me. I thought I was kinda losing it; good judgement. This talk is helping me. Thanks, Leo. Thank You very much.
@elisenieuwe46496 жыл бұрын
Hmm I always understood that you don't have to make negative thoughts positive per se, you just have to not believe (care about) the negative thoughts. The problem lays with the fact that when we believe those negative thoughts they create an emotion. If you have a thought but don't believe it (or don't care about it), it won't create a negative emotion.
@devanshusingh31746 жыл бұрын
Right
@yeahoh22225 жыл бұрын
Parents: You did this wrong and I'm disappointed (stern mean voice :( Me: *c Ri Es*
@thedon53205 жыл бұрын
yeah oh 🤣🤣
@saraiojeda15 жыл бұрын
Yup
@mathsisdeadtomenow5 жыл бұрын
aww I love you
@anonymphity4 жыл бұрын
@@mathsisdeadtomenow this comment is so wholesome
@BeInspiredWithDebbie4 жыл бұрын
I will suggest you watch this video as well kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rLZ-hNaF36rLdWQ.html
@intenseek2 жыл бұрын
I love too see all the people getting changed because of this video(including me lol), and how people are cheering others up in the comments. Im proud of everybody that managed to change themself and their whole life. Have an amazing life, because we are probably never gonna see eachother again. Again, im really proud of you all so go out there and do your best :)
@MurderousJohnny2 жыл бұрын
This works, I’ve used this technique a few times already in past few years. Hard part is continuously using it. I rewatch this video to help remind me. It’s easy to forget how much control you have.
@baileyswinamer6014 жыл бұрын
Being present and being aware of your thoughts almost watching them and analyzing them before you think about them and react to them which would be your emotions is also a way to look at it.
@dragon0fly7498 жыл бұрын
I have had an mri-scan today because i had a brain tumor in the past and now i have to check every year if i'm still healthy. it always brings a lot of stress and negative thoughts. this video helped me remember that it is all waste of energy. so better be positive. Thank you. i really appreciate this video of yours and how explain every detail of how to be concious.
@ActualizedOrg8 жыл бұрын
Not only is it a waste, but chronic anxiety can lead to stuff like tumors and other serious health conditions. If you are fighting cancer, your life depends on you being positive and happy. Watch lots of stand up comedy.
@dragon0fly7498 жыл бұрын
+Actualized.org i know because I have created this sickness in the past. now i must cleanse my thoughts to heal better. but it is sometimes still a hard job after 8 years (("negative thought"))
@dragon0fly7498 жыл бұрын
+Dragon 0Fly well i don't mean cleanse, but filter the thoughts and reprogramming the thoughtprocess by being positive.
@barbara-holley3 жыл бұрын
“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” Marcus Aurelius I can not wait to read his book
@aliensouls17973 жыл бұрын
Leo, your videos have allowed me to improve my life in many ways. Thank you man, from the bottom of my heart.
@chrismcevoy25034 жыл бұрын
I tend to not control my emotions and overreact to things.
@mobinasalehaghili49143 жыл бұрын
Me too
@GoldenMushroom643 жыл бұрын
Same. It’s such bullshit.
@vvxnter3 жыл бұрын
@@GoldenMushroom64 same. It’s terrible
@amh17727 жыл бұрын
Leo: it's a great thing to have your videos. I don't mind the length because it has great content, I like everything in black cause I can focus on your face, I like the pace in which you speak and the pauses you make but truly the best thing is the message you deliver. thanks.
@STMARTIN0092 жыл бұрын
My high school wrestling coach used to tell us if you think you stink. Generally if you overthink things you won't succeed.I am trying to work on removing negative thinking.This is the best channel on KZfaq!
@chloerosewood4 жыл бұрын
I just want to remind everyone not to be so hard on yourself during your healing process. 💛
@rabbiyaali69053 жыл бұрын
Thankyou I really needed to hear this
@GoldenMushroom643 жыл бұрын
It’s the very fact that we are not hard on ourselves that we CONTINUE TO MAKE THE SAME FUCKING MISTAKES IDIOT
@jordynnewquist86863 жыл бұрын
@@GoldenMushroom64 no cause if you’re hard on yourself you’re feeding into the cycle, that’s the whole point of the videos
@karl24052 жыл бұрын
@@GoldenMushroom64 No. It's our judement of ourself which is our core emotional mistake. It is possible to do the right thing from a place of love, not fear/hate.
@Ayesha._.-nl6jc9 ай бұрын
thanks, i needed this
@rudy58653 жыл бұрын
I have been blessed to see this video in my lifetime and I’m not even half way through. 🙏🏽
@roxannecosmotology93065 жыл бұрын
You've just saved me from feeling depressed and tearful over a guy I just lost.
@axelsprangare25795 жыл бұрын
Wow you have changed my life forever, thank you.
@shuradesu4835 жыл бұрын
I thought it does not work in 2019 HAHA
@danial82715 жыл бұрын
@@shuradesu483 Lmaoooo
@eZraaa_972 жыл бұрын
MAY THE LORD BLESS THIS MAN FOR SAVING US WHO WAS HELD PRISONER OF OUR OWN EMOTIONS.
@Goodmourningdarby3 жыл бұрын
Leo, you’re influencing my perspective so much that I am changing my life. Thank you for making the content you do. I am very grateful to have been shown to you.
@mei-ud4tu8 жыл бұрын
I can shut off my emotions like a lamp switch.
@Tabitha048 жыл бұрын
Jealous.
@kika156526718 жыл бұрын
how!!
@mei-ud4tu8 жыл бұрын
Um let's just say six years of practice and not a lot of happy moments..
@chiamakae64168 жыл бұрын
+LlamaKittens how??..Please I would like to know...it's annoying that as old as I am whenever I'm angry or upset I cry..like even when I don't want to ...it's like my eyes have their own free will or something ..how did u learn to turn off your emotion?
@mei-ud4tu8 жыл бұрын
princess chiamaka It wasn't easy. My life hasn't exactly been the happiest so with every bad thing that happened in my life I started to feel less and less until my emotions were almost completely gone. Then, and I seriously don't know how to explain how, I slowly started to gain control of my emotions and later how to 'shut them off'. Just remember that this isn't necessarily a good thing and to be honest I wish I wasn't in this much control.
@whateveryoudreamis4 жыл бұрын
The person who actually recommended me these videos a while ago . Is the one who just broke my heart. Wish I had seen it before and was prepared. But it's a perfect timing to be here. Thanks!
@raginald7mars4084 жыл бұрын
we have unbreakable anti fragile fresh new Hearts on sale! Grab it while they last!
@charlotterose15572 жыл бұрын
Leo, it's amazing how you can give this whole life-changing talk without stopping or stuttering
@bella_oio4 жыл бұрын
Leo I mess up again. Here I am sad... missing him, he doesn’t care. Thank you for the video. I want to get better and be happy again
@blackroze14713 жыл бұрын
Stop you’re making me cry 😢 yourre so not alone. We will get better. We always do.
@tavonrelation67695 жыл бұрын
Its so funny. Just before I watched the video I had the notion that I am a master of negative thinking.
@AlphaRommeo5 жыл бұрын
Same here
@mightyrupert3444 жыл бұрын
Same he..... no not me
@UncleRicko4 жыл бұрын
Same:(
@stevanstankoviii-29894 жыл бұрын
My friends tell me i always talk negative when they say they want to date some actor and i tell them how that isn't possible
@TheLifeOfAverageJoe4 жыл бұрын
You are Genius. You have changed my life! Tank you so much!!!
@thelifeofleelee4 жыл бұрын
Your videos calm my anxiety so much! I’ve come back to videos so many times over the years. Thank you.
@ginotang2 жыл бұрын
Watching this again after 7 years, and its still very helpful and foundational for anyone at any level, especially during these times people need to remember this 🙏
@laurenspivack19034 жыл бұрын
I have been dealing with issues of saying mean/hurtful things about and to people. At the time it feels good, but when I stop and think about it, I feel like a bad person. I want to change. I apologize for anything I have done to hurt anyone and for anything else.
@tavonrelation67695 жыл бұрын
I also realized that I was no longer in control of my emotions and that they have been hindering me from having willpower. Fear has completely consumed ever aspect of my life. I very much like what this man had to say and I'm hoping his videos can help me.
@originalblood60104 жыл бұрын
KZfaq Gold Award coming your way Leo! Thank you for giving us all so much value!!! 🙏 ❤️ 🌎 ☮️
@ruqayyahabubakarmusa Жыл бұрын
I want to stop overreacting over literally the smallest things. I just really hate that. I want to stay calm no matter what the situation is.
@DarronBrown887 жыл бұрын
For those of you who are wondering he isnt saying you cant be upset when someone cheats on you. It possible to communicate your discomfort from a emotionally stable position. He trying to teach us how to control our emotions and to not allow our emotions to control us. You should practice addressing issues or life not from a hysterical emotional position.
@happilyevernever42893 жыл бұрын
Ikr?
@Selena918957 жыл бұрын
Dude, you are so awesome. I live in full belief that people who help others in this form are automatically accepted into heaven lol The truth is told and you teach people how to not be alive, but live
@rops14396 жыл бұрын
Sarku Roll how far are you into self actualisation
@polat68103 жыл бұрын
"When u become ready to be a student, teacher will appear" from A wise man!
@lawtruth38723 жыл бұрын
I watched this years ago and came back to it. A life changing video so all Leo’s vids . Absolutely AMAZING.
@AStarryEyedLife5 жыл бұрын
My grandmother terrorizes me mentally and emotionally as well as most others in our family. Very difficult to deal with.
@aakashsapre49385 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you have to go through that. I can totally empathize. I wasn't convinced that we can always transcend things happening in our external environment. Hope you can break free from your grandmother and save your beloved family members. Wishing you the best.
@bonniehirtz7865 жыл бұрын
Cut them out of your life. If someone isn't helping you be your best and live your best life happily, cut them off at the root even if they're family or close friends. Move away somewhere else.
@itscc98295 жыл бұрын
Oh god tell me about it, it’s just nonstop arguing in my family
@trips85275 жыл бұрын
Learn from it it’ll make u stronger
@jisooturtlerabbitkim82044 жыл бұрын
Same..
@gk_knight10 жыл бұрын
Leo - sometimes the emotion happens very quickly and takes over us completely. When we're "inside" the emotion it can be difficult to see we're creating it because it takes on an almost concrete reality and we feel justified in our emotion. In my experience, accepting an emotion without trying to change it can make it pass quicker. If we try to reframe it, we can sometimes feel like we're fooling ourselves and that can make us feel worse. Maybe sometimes it's best just to sit with an emotion until it passes. Also, an emotion can sometimes carry useful information to us (e.g. loneliness might indicate I need to go out more, anxiety might indicate I need to exercise more etc).
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
That is why it's necessary to develop consciousness. So that you can not get caught up in emotions when you don't want to. Emotions aren't the enemy. The problem exits only when your emotions got you by the balls. Yes, emotions can be signals, but most people get so caught up they miss the signal entirely.
@gk_knight10 жыл бұрын
Actualized.org Thanks for the reply Leo. What you say fits very well with the Tolle book I'm currently studying. Bringing neutral awareness (consciousness) to a strong emotion and it will dissipate.
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
DeeKay Definitely. Check out my video on Mindfulness for more on that technique.
@ActualizedOrg10 жыл бұрын
***** Yes, emotions aren't a problem without thoughts.
@robertweekes578310 жыл бұрын
***** First it is the thoughts about a particular circumstance or stimuli that causes us to feel emotions, then our thoughts about the emotions themselves can amplify the emotions or create a perpetual cycle unless we choose to break it. The cycle can be good or bad, but it's important to filter the stimuli to put yourself on an upward trajectory as opposed to random fluctuations that get you nowhere!
@jaquinlaner91283 жыл бұрын
I came here because of a fight between my brother and I realized I acted out of emotions instead logical reasoning. Much appreciated.
@jenniferle35553 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! Taking full responsibility is def the step I need to master my emotions. I appreciate this video and it def helped!