Its pretty crazy

I really hope the same 😢

That one is really gross and disrespectful yes. Affair doesn’t surprise me, it’s natural, but naming a child after woman you had affair with? Idiot :)

I think it's a little to late for that. She's probably stressed already.

Pregnant and older in Hollywood standards, while her husband gets dirty with a younger model, I’m pretty sure it’s not stressing her out at all.

You know real good men are out here smfh and yet we get the shit end cause yall don't give us a shot lol smmfh.

I'm sorry love. it breaks my heart that people this shitty exist.

I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I hope you are healing ❣️❣️❣️I wish you all the best 🥺

@@rickrolledtruth5834 she just talked about an awful experience she had why are you shifting the focus and putting it on yourself and trying to find a way to blame her for it? Let's have some empathy and decency please.....

@@rickrolledtruth5834 You're not a good man. Your comment is proof. The you wonder women don't give you a shot. Ofcourse you get shit. Talk about a self-report.

He's Adam fucking Levine ffs. Compared to him, she is mid at best.

@honestrat03 unfortunately I've met people who blame themselves for their partners cheating

Even Beyonce bro. You're not safe, men are just gonna be men ☕

@@lunix3259 The thing is, I think that sentiment is kind of unfair. To say that cheating is just "men being men" implies that infidelity is something that men just *have* to do, like they have no control over their urges and therefore less responsibility to be loyal to their partners. It also implies that women who cheat are worse than men, because women aren't programmed to be cheaters the way men are.

Agreed

I know! People blaming her for knowing hes married are really disgusting. He made the decision to go after a young woman while he is married. Not to mention the power dynamics of him being rich and famous. People are really gross

The mistress could have privately messaged his pregnant wife rather than making tiktoks. I think this is all to boost her OF

Also her trying to play the victim. Nope. Yeah Adam is a POS but she is not much better.

Well she’s equally disgusting because she knew he was married and still knowingly flirted with the man. Levine deserves the hate and is just as gross but cmon, this side piece defo should be part of the backlash too. I mean, she’s obviously a clout chaser so she probably enjoys this even if it’s hate.

Nah she’s not innocent in this either cuz this isn’t some Joe Blow off the street. She knew and continued to engage in it. Both her and Adam knew better yet continued anyway. 20 years old is still old enough to know right from wrong

Fr how much blame can you put on the other person until you realize it takes two to tango 🙄

Same

100% 👏

Same

No one is asking for you to.

Absolutely 😔 The line was crossed & trust broken, even if he didn't sleep with her, which he def did. Then the baby name thing on top of it?? Omg I'd be LIVIDDD. 😫 There's no salvaging that, smh.

He's a man...it was just sex. Either he lacks game and felt like he had to lead her on or he thought leading her on by creating an emotional connection would stop her from exposing him. I guarantee he still loves his wife and had no intention of going past the physical with the other girl.

I agree! Like my told my husband if you won't do it in front of your spouse then you probably shouldn't be doing it! It common sense to some of us but many don't get it! If you are sneaking around...ITS CHEATING! Also, I have a female cousin who found out that her dad named her after a girlfriend that he never got over and the whole time he's been married to her mom for 30 plus years! She is now 35 and just found this out about a year ago. Her mom (who is my moms 1st cousin) just found out as well. TRUE STORY!

You are talking from a woman perspective. I can tell you for men it's all sexual. They can have sex with plenty of women without wanting to leave their wife. They want both worlds having a good family and an exciting sex life.

🙌🏽

And they never change, only think of ways the next time not to get caught

Adam LIE-vine from Moron 5

Period

It’s was 4 girls and he’s been cheating all the way back in 2014

True and Once a mistress is always a mistress

yes so disgusting ....

SO DISGUSTING.

Egotistical people lol

Fr tho 😂

Literally what I was thinking 😳

No no no, there's hope!! Not all men are like this 🙏🏻 I'd argue the fact she's so beautiful is exactly why he went after her, as like a status symbol, rather than cherishing her ☹️ Those shallow men are what you have to watch out for, imo 😔 But don't lose hope!! ❤ I finally got an amazing husband after a decade long abusive relationship, so there's def hope, sis!! ❤

As I've learned (from others' experiences): It doesn't matter how beautiful, intelligent, or wealthy you are; if someone gets it into their mind to cheat, then there's nothing that you could have done. That shit's on them, not you, and you deserve to be with someone that will show you that they love and respect you through their actions, not just through their words.

Naw, not all men are poorly raised and low quality. It does start with parenting though. If we want different men we need to raise them up differently because this set is like 75% defective and I blame our culture.

😅😅

Absolutely

😐 A marriage that's "falling apart" is still a marriage, tho. 😐 i get what you're saying, but also how old is this woman? She looks about 30 rn, so she wasn't *that* naive lmao 😐

@@JaseekaRawr She's apparently 23, so she was more than old enough to know better.

@@voidbreather7405 Why are we blaming her for him cheating? Misogyny at its finest, unless there's some detail I'm missing here.

@@marybean2231 Nah they can both get it 😒 But yes he's *most* responsible, for sure! He was the one that's married & initiated it. Also he tried to name his baby after her?? 😫 The disrespect, oh my god. I agree he's the worst here.

I don’t think the girl is calling herself a victim tho. I think the focus should be on the cheater. Adam Levine

@@justinejoni5566 When she said she was young, fresh to LA and manipulated is victimizing herself to excuse her behavior. She is in the wrong as well.

@@justinejoni5566 the focus should be on both of them

Lia🧋 No because Adam manipulated her saying he was gonna break it off with his wife. She stopped talking to him because he didn’t break it off with his wife. She should have sent these to behati sooner though. But we shouldn’t blame her.

@@candiceswanepoelcanmurderm5160 where's the proof of that? This professional victim could easily have created the text msg's. 🤦‍♂️

What she means by naïve is actually her not realizing that married men never leave their wives and kids for other women. Of course not! Why would he? That’s his family. Cheating can be fun but it is not fun to leave your family and start something with someone new that you don’t really know much about. He has a whole foundation built up with his wife so he will never leave that but he may like flirting with other women so here is a good lesson to learn girls! Don’t wait for married men & don’t mess with a married man.

@@Lemthepoetofficial so it’s her fault lol

@@Lemthepoetofficial and how to keep married men safe? Plz give suggestions, I'm not married but gonna marry in 2 yrs🥲

@@alexsay5536 you trust you found a good man but if you haven't, don't feel tied down and forced to stay

@@dimentioo nah but she's not entirely blameless. She's 23, not a child. She knew he was married. He knew he was married. It takes two. They're both at fault.

Why what happened

He's *always* rubbed me the wrong way! Like he thinks his shyt don't stink. 😒 Def a narcissist! 🎯 Now we have proof lol. His music is trash, too, tbh 😬

viva Chile mierda

@@JaseekaRawr all of Chile hates him

I do food videos while i’m high af on my KZfaq channel. I’m more raw & realer than most on here no cap i don’t fake anything 💯im tryna make it out🫤🫤

Why blame the misstress???

@@koola998 That's not how real life works. it's pretty obvious she's trying to play the victim by not owning up to her mistakes she's not taking any responsibilites by placing all the blame on Adam, but still I agree Adam is garbage he belongs in the street he should be homeless. Anyone with common sense can see right through her lies, she should've message the wife privately instead of creating a scandal in the internet.

@@koola998 we blame both, hes a cheater and she knew he was married

@@koola998 it takes two to cheat. Cheaters cheat if they’re with someone who’s willing to go along with them. Let’s say if you’re unaware that they’re married and you found out that you’re the side piece, it’s your choice to shut the door on them or not! Both are guilty. The cheater is guilty for wrecking their own home. The side piece is guilty for going along with the relationship bc they choose to stay.

@@koola998 You clearly need to reread my statement again.

True but I ask you this. Everyone knew that this man had a wife and children including her.If that we’re me personally as a women I would never-ever sleep with a man who’s not publicly divorced it’s just seems so gross to me 🤢

@@sandychan8379 I didn't know he was married or had kids. He told her that his marriage was over essentially and they would get divorced.

@@sandychan8379 I thought he was divorced honestly-

but she didn't? which doesn't make her less worse than she already is

This!

Hard one and I'm really sorry for this! Everything will get better... he's out of the picture, it's your opportunity to live the life you always want to 💛 you are strong!

Some men's egos are just that disgusting. I am so so sorry.

In this situation..married for 5 years..2 years being cheated on blindly.. these assholes are everywhere 🥺

O my goodness my heart aches for you. So sorry to hear. Remember you are strong amd you deserve better. Believe me everything's gonna be fine. Yes nothing last's forever. Not even a HEARTBREAK. And maybe you don't need any man you can be the Queen of your own life. As a girl who have been depressed for three years over a relationship i know what pain is. But this pain is nothing compared to mine absolutely nothing. You are really so strong. Sending love dear🎀

@M I L K Y I asked him plenty of times while I still lived there and he just kept saying “idk”..

You are so right

Nah we already know this. The issue is that this grown adult women should also be held accountable for what she did. And she never told the wife on her own, she made it public. Clout chasing off of this is wrong

I agree!! Like the comments im seeing rn is sumner gettin so much hate but im like? Why? Shes to blame but not as much as adam hes the one with the wife and kids if he was actual loyal and wanted to do the right thing wouldve said no and ended things if it was bad

Exactly, he chose to cheat. Nobody forced him.

If it were some nobody dude who can easily lie about being separated from his wife then I could see your point but it's ADAM LEVINE. She could have easily fact checked and made sure before going ahead with an affair, he is married and therefore the blame falls more on him yes but that girl is also responsible for her shitty actions. Calling people out for their shitty behavior is not a bad thing.

As horrible as it is, it may end up being for the best for her to not have to care for another child from a cheater. I hope it doesn't happen, and it would be quite sad, but I know I'd be reconsidering the pregnancy if I was so blatantly cheated on

The girl my ex husband was cheating on me with called me to let me know when I got home from the hospital after having our son. She continued to call me to share details etc so that I would leave my husband. The stress and trauma the whole situation caused me to lose my breast milk and get very sick. Of course my now ex husband holds the majority of the responsibility for this but her calling me, texting me, leaving messages and driving by our house etc dam sure added to the problem. It took me years to heal and be able to look at my son’s baby book and pictures from that time in his life. Anyway sorry for rambling and so sorry for your friend. Cheating is so disgusting and can cause some real damage. No matter if you’re the cheater or the person that they’re cheating with, we should all try to think of others. It’s a very selfish thing to do.

😔😔😔😔 horrible

That's what I thought as well ! Too much stress is bad for the baby

@@tiffanysadler2072 I am so sorry to hear that and that woman is horrible for doing those things for you. Hope you are doing, all the best!

Literally

she is just refusing to accept any responsibility or accountability to HER part of this. This why it's important to hold accountable all and not victimize one and vilainise another based on sexes. I am in the industry myself (not L.A status). There are all scumbags sure 100% I have seen it but most of these girls know very well what they're doing. With 0 shame, during filming I had to talk to this girl that kept putting her feet on the directors lap during breaks and showing bikini pictures of herself disguising it as a "oh look throwback pictures of me hehe". I literally had to tell her that I'll have to write her down for inappropriate behavior and then gave me attitude all day. She never came back to film.

100%. A simple google search would reveal his martial status.

Period! You should just know not go for a married man! Even if the man isn’t a celebrity, still should go after a married man!!

Yes I agree to an extent. If someone I knew or found out was married and was pursuing me, I would call them out on that and not pursue with the relationship. It’s just wrong to continue. I think it falls on both of them, especially Adam

Exactly

Same! Ive known about Maroon 5 forever now but didnt know Adam was married. Dont know why people are hating on her when hes 100% at fault. If it wasnt her, it was going to be with someone else 🤷🏻‍♀️

Fr… and I honestly would’ve bought the “we’re keeping the divorce a secret for now” thing too. It’s entirely believable, especially when you look at how the tabloids are

On the one hand yes, because if she wouldn't have given him the attention, some other girl would have. But then again: When I got hit on by guys in a relationship I never acted on it. Because no matter what his excuse for cheating is, i don't wanna be the reason for it. Especially because he is famous, because media will be extra cruel to her.

Putting your SO in a music video is like getting their name tattooed. The relationship is doomed after that

right?!! :/

@@Skysthelimit212 so true like if he rlly loved her and respected her (his wife) he wouldn’t have done this BS what a piece of f shit & THE AUDACITY he had to talk about naming the child after the girl he cheated with WTF ?!?!?!?! He needs psychological HELP for thinking that’s okay

And Shakira

Well none of that is the women's problem. Its their cheating husbands. Not every men are like this.

and my girl Rihanna :(

And Khloi

@@karma-lg3gf thats the thing tho , more men cheat than those who dont statistically and thats really scary

Word salad. I like that!

23 is an adult 🙄 she's old enough to know that cheating with a married man is wrong. Stop treating her like she's an innocent child. This is why home wreckers get away with being disgusting

Yes, he is in his 40s. He’s the same age as my dad and I’m 23. That’s so creepy and gross.

Yeah I'm 23 and i have met men who said they are divorced and I believed him cause the wife moved to a different city. But then I found texts later and found out they were still trying to work things out and the divorce wasn't fully finalized it was only filed. So yeah men lie 🤥 😅

Just curious, how is this a power play? And how did he manipulate her exactly? It didn’t sound like Adam was threatening her with his fame, money or power. Sumner has has money and influence as well so what could he have dangling over her head? I get it she’s young, but she’s old enough to realize what she was doing was wrong just like Adam. And she’s old enough to realize that most married men don’t leave their wives for mistresses.

I’m 22 and I know not to fuck with a married man. Or anyone in a relationship.

Don't generalize all men. By the way women also cheat very often

And men.

What's with the whole hidden reply thing here..

and when has viewing someone Instagram story a crime 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Literalmente ella sabía lo que estaba haciendo pero aún así, el principal culpable es Adam

Yuck, that's disgusting 🤢🤢

Oh god 🤮🤮🤮

JFC

Omg yh JFK vibess

Honestly i think so too

That's literally something no one is talking about. Usually men make these insane promises that no one ever talks about.

Hes so sick

Yh he’s Sick he loves her humiliation

exactly

i was thinking the exact same thing lol. shes in the wrong but not more than him. She's not the victim by any means. His poor wife and childern are

@@spaRKLES88604 this and the timing of the messages. Behati could be sent into so much stress by everything she.could lose her baby. It never should have made it public. Should have cut ties and turned her back on it.

Not really, the mistress does not know the wife so she has no “loyalty” to withhold, it’s morally incorrect for the mistress to go with a married man but honestly only fault on her character, other than that it’s all the mans fault

im sorry but i dont believe she didnt know. it’s one thing if they slept together one time and he told her the marriage is over. But she said out of her own mouth that they were having an affair for a little over a year. It took you a year to realize he lied? bs. hes def more in the wrong because he’s a cheater with the wife and kids. But let’s not act like she has no blame

How can Behati be pregnant for years? If they were separated as claimed? No excuses for the mistress please. She's guilty too. She's heartless to be his mistress for years. No guy can manipulate me at 19. Esp if married, I'm going to puke at his approach. Women must empathize with women so if Sumner has any sympathy for Behati she shouldn't have participated for years. Pretention here is ugh! No excuse for Adam whatsoever. Men and women like the two of them must be sent to a different world. They deserve each other.

@@concernedcitizen3022 Oh shut up. It takes months for someone to show during a pregnancy. Behati wouldn't have been showing during the time that Adam was cheating on her. Stop blaming this woman for Adam's mistakes.

@@concernedcitizen3022 Oh and btw. Behati only confirmed her pregnancy _a week ago_ Edit: Adam sent the text about the baby in June. And when Adam asked if he could name the baby after her they had _already split up for months_ . Behati probably wasn't even pregnant when her and Adam were together. You're just looking for reasons to hate on this woman.

Potatoes are yummy!

sounds great! how were they?

So did I :)

Lol me too girl

Your traits don't matter - if someone gets it into their head to cheat on you, then there nothing that you could have done to prevent it (and it wouldn't have been your responsibility to do so anyway).

It’s about power and options for men like him

His wife is not a babe at all. She is not cute at all. She is all bones and flat

Naw

The fact that she did it to outshine the pregnancy announcement is just really cruel.

I mean even if she hadn't, the tabloids would have. Then people would have been man she didn't come forward. I think the timing of the pregnancy is just coincidence and a bad one at that, but either way it was going to come out

Yeah I agree this shouldn’t of made public.. this so humiliating for his pregnant wife!

she did it before it was leaked another way

Who cares about privacy. The Guy is absolute scumbag

Exactly. He's one of the dumber ones that isn't charming enough or smart enough to be able to hide it. But he thinks he is. Another example is the Weeknd. These narcs tell you exactly who they are, what they've done and will continue to do, yet think women will continue to lick theit shxts because they have the idea it's made of gold. They truly get off on misogyny, abuse and mistreatment. Narcs narcs narcs.

Omg it's you 😭😭

Even still, I sure as hell knew better than to let married men into my life when I was 22-23. If the marriage is truly over from both sides but they're remaining together to preserve their public images, then how about the one claiming this get their spouse on a face-time call to confirm it? Beyond that, yeah, Adam Levine is the one that's primarily at fault here (and wanting to name the unborn child of you and your spouse after your side piece? Okay Bella Swan, chill the fuck out 😬).

I just don't understand what y'all are seeing. This dude absolutely screams scumbag

I'm the same age as her and I'd never mess with a married man unless I saw divorce finalization papers no matter who the dude is. She's not to blame at all though since she's not the one who made the commitment of marriage and no hate should be going her direction. However, I think it's really irresponsible to try to pretend like someone in their 20's has no idea what they're doing. I feel like the younger generations are starting to be immature for longer because society is now infantilizing people in their late teens/early 20's instead of holding them accountable for their actions and decisions.

Even at 22/23 I knew to not sleep with married men. But she probably was blinded by the fact that he’s a celeb. Doesn’t excuse what she did but from that perspective, you did mention, I can kinda get her thinking in the moment.

Ok if you're in your teens. It's wrong to be in a any sort of relationship with anyone whose comitted. I'm glad she's outed him but she's not a victim. The only way she'd be a victim is if it was a total stranger with no fame and she suddenly found out he has a family.

so true-👀

I know right!! All he literally sings about is love!

@@stephanief9240 IKR

lmao me neither

his music is crap never listen to this

That is such a dumb excuse, she’s a legal adult doesn’t matter she made a choice so there is no reason to absolve her of blame.

I understand power dynamics for when young people directly work under those in power and their lives can be directly affected by them. But over social media? The block button is always there, and it’s not like Adam was gonna put her on blast for blocking him.

Ok and at 25 your brain is fully developed. So she’s what a couple years from that? In highschool a couple years is a huge difference, in your twenties it really isn’t anymore. I just turned 25, and even at 19 I could have told you sleeping with a married person isn’t right. It’s not that hard to think critically before you act.

22-23 is not young you are an adult

What? In what world is 22/23 young? In the UK she would’ve been a legal adult for 5 years by that point. Been able to consent for 7 years. That’s certainly not too young to not know what she’s doing is wrong.

she and him both

yup agree

Would bringing it up 9 months later make it better? If I was the wife, I would want to know asap. And not have his cheating hands all over my pregnant tummy. He doesn’t have the privilege

Also keep in mind the two kids they already have! This whole situation would be confusing to a grown kid but they're still quite little!

While I don’t think Sumner is by any means necessary, the focus should be on Adam as he is the one who cheated on his PREGNANT wife and he literally wants to name is child after Sumner 🤮 Edit: spelling

Most folks have common sense not to mess with a married man because when you lie with scum, you're just as dirty. Folks out here making excuses for her saying the mistress didn't know and isn't to blame... so why did Sumner make tiktoks coming for Behati? Why bring up how she was messing with a man married to a VS model? Why not just refuse his advances when a Google search and show this man is married? Why do any of this? If 23 is still young and naive, then when does that stop, 25? 27? 30? Now I am really understanding when they say "accountability is a modern woman's kryptonite" and holding another woman accountable just gets you called a misogynist

What's even more disgusting is Adams actions.

Yh she was totally fine with it im 16 and i always do background checks on guys before talking , its freaking adam levine she doesnt even need to try its not naive its bull shit and he even tried to name the child after her screams narcissism to me