What is the best piece of advice you've ever received on love? XO, A

My first boyfriend and I started dating when we were both 13 years old. We dated for 8 years. Then we got married young at the age of 21. We had our first child age 23. We both graduated from college. We have four beautiful babies and we became homeowners. We've been married for about 9 years and still going strong. 😉❤😁

“If you go ghost on me, I’ll go Casper on you” I FELT THAT SIS😭🗣

She seems so mature and happy in love. Those are actual goals.

Is it just me or Adrienne really has a very refreshing personality that radiates!! ♥️♥️

The best advice that I got about Love was that "Love Is Patient" from our heavenly father, True Love Is Worth The Wait & Let God Write You're Love Story

I may not always comment, but I never miss a single video. I can't get enough of you beautiful Adrienne!!!

Lol my brother actually had the biggest crush on you Adrienne. He put me onto 3LW & then there was the Cheetah Girls, your reality show with Julissa & now there's The Real. Damn girl you've grown & it's so incredible that I got to see it all. ❤ Stay blessed.

After only a minute I'm already snapping giving you a "Yes girl!" I personally relate to your situation with your first boyfriend and wondering how a guy can like me but his "type" is everything but me... but as you said HE BUGGIN! lol

Communication and forgiveness 😁 I was heartbroken over my ex boyfriend of almost 2 years!! I remember crying in my dorm room for months, my mom told me to NEVER give up on love.. focus on yourself and make yourself happy.. which is what I did I graduated from college :) got good grades than a friend of mine revealed his feelings for me :) im so much happier in this relationship! and he doesn’t cuss at all compared to my ex always cussing up a storm

I actually started dating at 15 years old, and i dated the guy for almost two years. Then we separated because we needed time to know who we were and, 7 years later boom 💥 now we are together again and planing to probably get married and start a life together.

Falling in love with yourself first! Ohh if I only understood this in my 20s 😢

I'm a young mom of 4, one being a teenager. Sometimes, it's easy to get sucked into life's routine, work, home, school, homework, cooking, cleaning, etc. Sometimes by the end of the night, my husband and I look at each other for what seems like for the first time. There are challenges but we do love hard and we also take time to "cheat on the kids" where we take off when they're in school. It's important to make time for each other to unwind and get back to the basics before children. 😘 Love your channel.

Definitely personality over looks, Adrienne. Who agrees? 💕

My man has never called me out of my name as well in the last 24 years! You have a good man Adrienne. And I do too!! ❤️

this was awesome! im currently 26, a virgin, and me and my fiance aren't having our first kiss until our wedding day because we wanna do it Gods way!!

God! Having God as number one is the most important, if He’s number one, everything else will fall into place.

I started dating at 18 and he was my first love. When we broke up I thought that I would never get over it. I met my husband a few years after high school. But didn't get married until a few years after that. Been married now for 15 years! I love the fact that you and Israel won't spend more than one week apart. That's soo smart for your marriage and relationship! 😘💕💝

SO true honesty, trust, laugh,yes !! and respect for each other, I have been married 41 years and happy

I fell in love for the first time with my current bf at age 25. I always thought I'll end up alone but little did I know someone amazing will come along. The feeling of being in love is priceless!

Marriage certainly looks good on you. Thank you for your pearls of wisdom. I truly believe my true love is out there. I'll be 45 on Thursday and my only birthday wish is that I find my Mr right.

however what hit me hard and was difficult to admit is to know when you are not someone priority. it s not that they are busy or tired or wtv . you just not top priority and that does not mean that something is wrong with you are that you are not valuable. Someone will come and show you what it s really like

I started at 14! Just got out of a 9 year relationship! I definitely agree that you can not love someone else until you love yourself.

First let me say that you and Israel's performance on The Real last week was so good! I've been married over 20 years and we've had our ups and downs, but I believe that what brings everything back into perspective is the foundation we've built together. Marriage is work and the dynamic is constantly changing. My first real love was in college, and we even got engaged a few years after, but our life goals were on two totally different levels so that breakup was my first real big heartache.

Adrienne you are an inspiration. I really needed this video today, as I am going through the motions of a 6 yr relationship. You’ve really put a lot of things in perspective for me, and really has me thinking what I truly want. Thank you for opening up to all of us and sharing your thoughts on various topics. I always look forward to that notification on Tuesdays ❤️ keep doing great things. Lots of love (love, love) - Tabatha

Communication is very important. Don’t forget

Best advice from my grandma: “Don’t date anyone from your neighborhood bc you’ll never leave.” That resonated with me bc I wanted out of my hometown and I listened! :)

Adrienne coming through with that bomb advice I love this ❣️ this will help me out in the future ❣️ I love love love this thankyouuu QUEEN 👑

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I loveeee videos like this from you!! I see myself in you so much, it's crazy! I can especially relate to your past experiences.. Thank you for this video Aid, love you xoxo

You hit everything on point. You are awesome and I just love love your videos. ❤️

Adrienne been sounding the same forever lol this girl dont age

“I’m gonna go Casper on you, oh wait, Casper is a friendly ghost, I have to find a real ghostexample. “ 😂😂😂

Seriously my favorite KZfaq channel your content is so refreshing and real! I’ve been with my husband since I was 17 first love 💕 He is always traveling due to his service to our country but we make it work. Communication, trust, respect and food lol is how we make our marriage work! Can’t wait till we have more time to spend together and grow our family.

Feels good to be married an in love no matter the situation 💖💖💖💖 my husband an I are the happiest!!

One of the things I admire so deeply of you and Israel is your love for God. I truly believe relationships work and get thru it all if you put him first. Love you guys and this video girl ♥️

I personally like being single... relationships come with a lot of stress sadly.

A lot of what you said I’m currently learning the hard way lol. I’m glad I watched this, the advice was sound 👌🏽

This was refreshing to watch. I couldn't agree with you more when you say "A person can only treat you the way that you ALLOW them to treat you!" You may not be able to change the way a person speaks to you, but you sure as hell can bounce up outta that relationship. On a completely different note, can we be expecting a HighLow Fall Outfits/Lookbook video soon? I hope so. ❤

The best piece of advice I’ve received is make sure the person you’re dating respects you but also your family!

Your eyes really lit up when you spoke about your dreams of touring with your hubby n kids. You truly inspire me, that's the kind of love I need in my life. A man of God, a Leader, protector .....😍😍😍😍😍

You don't know how much your advices mean to me A !😭💯💜

So happy to see you in a place of JOY Adrienne. Often the hard lesson, heartbreak and struggles lead you to acceptance and value of self. When we become whole we attract someone whole. Blessings to you girlie ......in love, life and building your family. You're a good example of what fostering high standards look like. Thanks for sharing. I'm so proud of you!!

You look gorgeous!!! Love your channel so much!! Your the best girl 💗💗

“There is going to be farts in life” 😂😂😂

I never liked the phrase, "They treat you with what you let them get away with..." because it seems to take responsibility from the abuser/toxic person.

Girl, you hit the nail! Falling in love with yourself first is so important! Only when you love yourself and realise your worth will you be able to let someone else love you the same way! I’m 19 and still single, and I have had two crushes, both which were never reciprocated. Painful, but it taught me to put myself first. I’m now focused on working in myself and loving myself, so that when the time comes, I’ll be loved the way I ought to be. Thanks for this video, I really needed this! 😍❤️❤️

The point you made about not being apart for more than a week is so special. It's amazing that you both have this level of communication. I pray that your love lasts a lifetime. Best wishes to you both!

I love how she shouted out Hector! Hahaha!

Going through a heartbreak right now. Needed this today, thank you!!

We've been married for 26 years and we had a nice talk last night. I'm so thankful for your wisdom. May God bless you Ms Adrienne

I just turned 21 and I am so happy I stumbled upon this video. I love how open you are😭💕

My 1st bf was at 15-16 lol also behind my moms back 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🙈🙉🙊😛😝😜

Im waiting for the video on when you discuss your journey on getting back to singing. Making that video would be so important to me bc when you discussed why you stopped singing on the real i literally cried with you. Please speak on the advice you received and what ever else you believe people need to hear.

Yesss, girl! Love yourself when going through heartbreak.

"I love him for who he is." WOW. So simple yet profound. I want the same A.

OMG the farting!!! HAHA I love humor and kindness in a guy. Im 25 no where near to marrying and im so in love with myself and have such high standards that i havent ever felt the need to just settle for a blah and bad guy for me just because im lonely, i did that when i was 21 and my fear came true and was heartbroken again. Now i just love myself so much and im ok with just flirting and dating multiple guys within my boudanries because its going to take someone extremely special to really capture my attention! thanks adrienne

Just realized how much I like Adrienne ☺️

Iv always been in love with the idea of love. I just personally never believed people who would say I’m in love with my best friend. But here I am today dating my high school sweetheart of 6 years and I am so blessed to have found him at such a young age. Before dating we had been friends for 2 years and I couldn’t imagine him and I would ever date but I’m so thankful we did. I wish everyone the best in their love life. There is someone out there for everyone truly. ❤️ remember love is patient

I was in a toxic long distance relationship for 2 years, I knew I was better off but couldn’t bring myself to let go, I would let myself get treated so bad because I thought I couldn’t get over it and my heart was hurting. It was so draining, I wasn’t happy with my life. I knew I deserved better but I couldn’t get my mind stronger than my emotions. Finally when I got out of that relationship my life completely turned around for the better. At first it hurt, I was lost and felt alone. Out of that darkness I found my soulmate and now I have someone who treats me the way that I have always wanted a man to treat me. I didn’t give up hope and I am happy. I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I learned to love again and my heart healed. I got the man of my dreams who loves and takes care of my overly sensitive heart🥺

I just turned 25 today and I was thinking how I might never have someone that I want to marry.

This was awesome. Its amazing how two people from different worlds can fall in love. The week apart is a great idea. Cant wait til i can finally see my live again being in two different countries is super hard. Keep up the great work love

Honesty, Trust & Laughter. I agree 1000%... took the words right outta my mouth.

Great video and Great advise sis. The world needs advise like this. Love it. One of my fave quotes that I share with girls that are dating or struggling in their relationship is “You can’t change what you tolerate”. ❤️

You look stunning

Great video Adrienne ❤❤❤ I also wanted to share an experience that happened to me recently (since I never comment but I felt the need to because it's so important). So I dated this guy that I knew 3 years ago this year and I broke up with him. Because he wad broken. Because no one showed him what real love looks like. What respect looks like. What being grateful feels like. Him and I are completly different people but I went past my judgements but today I realize how thankful I am to have listened to my intuition. I had SEVERAL red flags about it but choose to ignore it because I had low self esteem & he was my first experience ever with a boy in my entire life. I will say that this gave me a wake up call, that just because I've been single for 21 years doesn't mean that I should jump on whoever gives attention to me. Patience is everything. Was I sad at first? Yes and no. More like confused. Especially when you recognized that verbal abuse is real even if it doesn't look like it from apparences, I was starting to become miserable. A controlling partner is the worse thing anyone could have. So today (after 3 months of breakup) I am still healing from all that stuff but I am in a much better place & I know that I deserve better & that person will come in God's timing. Never lose hope ladies, love yourself & the most important thing : GUARD YOUR HEART & SPIRIT. ❤❤❤❤

When she talked about loving someone with her whole heart and not receiving that in return, I felt that. You better speak the truth A!!

You show someone how to treat you is so important!!! I learned that the hard way now I'm divorced! I'm not ever, ever, ever going to make that mistake again

“Who? What? My heart is just fine” hehe

Adrienne, first of all your videos have been nothing but so positive! 😁 So happy for you! 😁 Isreal definitely treats you so good you can see that. Love how you both are as husband an wife! So beautiful.

There are so many good nuggets that you have given. I have been thinking that I was ready for a relationship, but I realized that I am still learning and discovering myself. Adrienne you said something so important about how being in space where you are defining yourself and bringing someone into the relationship that is defining you as well, like that makes so much sense to go ahead and know who you are, learn, discover and define yourself. It is best to learn yourself, love you first, get to know yourself you know it's great. Though there is a desire and getting to know who you want in your life because getting to know guys is okay along the way, it is just so great to have that understanding. I also liked the fact that Adrienne you said that you love your husband for who he is. I am realizing how right now it is so easy to see potential and to fall in love with potential of man, especially one who is growing and discovering who he just like I am. I never want to fall in love with man's potential. I always want to fall in love with who a man is. I have discover and fall in love with who I am first though. It is all a process for sure. Writing notes, writing notes! lol

I loved my Husband as my best friend. We, were in high school and he was everything a best friend should be, great listener, loving, supportive, etc. A few months after I broke it off with the guy I was with, he told me he loved me. Soon after we became bf/gf. 10 years later, we’ve been married 2 years and want to start a family. Not long ago he told me that he had been in love with me from the moment he saw me. I didn’t know that. I finally told him thank you for showing me what a loving man really was. The guy that was my “bf” at the time wasn’t very nice and I didn’t love myself. My husband taught me to hoe to love myself then I opened my heart to love him. I’m am so beyond blessed to have this man in my life. He is my first and my last.

a guy who broke my heart a few years ago remembered the details of our date and i doubt he cares since he did hurt me emotionally

Love all things Adrienne ❣️

"That you will always be together" - How beautiful is that.. This is what I want for my life, to have someone that is so committed.

Yes. I totally agree being each others number one in communication. Not being away from each other for too long. And respecting one another. I love this advice as its exactly what works for me and my husband we have been together for 11 years and since the beginning we decided not to allow anyone or anything come in between us or our relationship. We have stayed right by each other in the good and bad in life. And we are so happily in love💕💕 real Love is hard to find we go threw bad relationships as we prepare for the real thing. God knows what he's doing. ❤

Yessss!! Love love from Kenya

Great Video Adrienne 😍 My Best piece of advice is to ✨Always put GOD 1st... 👉🏼 A family that prays together stays together!-:)✌🏼🙏❤️✨💫😘

Honesty , truth and laughter is what I deff agree with !!!!

I know this is a year old video Adrienne made but I admire and look up to her level of happiness. You can tell how in love she is and all the qualities she explained she looked in a man were exactly of mine. I've made a lot of quick decisions which basically left me break broken. But someone like Adrienne I have seen on television for years and it's good to see so much happiness come in her life and now she can sit and make a video about it. Teaching the rest of the single girls out there, your time will also come. Love you Adrienne!!

You’re so real . I love your advice ! 💕

I had a virtual relationship yet it really affected me. I was jealous, he was possessive and there was no trust. At the time of today I do not know if I still love it. Even if we are more in touch, I sometimes think of him and imagine a continuation of our story. Yet I know he will not come back.

Adrienne is now living the dream touring with Cafe New Breed Tour! God is good 🙌🏽

I love this video,I have been this person,20's are totally the time to go out with the bad boys!!🤣🤣I'm 33 and I have just met my true love,we have now been together 2 1/2yrs,I was single for 3 years before I met him and that was the self-loving time,I upped my game,I purchased my own house,own car and flourished in my career,when I met my man (david) i always say to him that I'm sooo blessed,he did NOT complete me,I did that,he was an amazing blessing to my life,god give me a bonus,everyday I'm grateful for him&our relationship!!thank u for this video,I love that it shows that women CAN have it all!!!

I like what you're wearing, I wish I could have that.

Good Advice. I feel the same way about answers you gave. I only been married for 10 years. I had some male friends at 16 but we weren't dating. Though we liked each other. I didn't start dating until I was 18. I was learning in my teens and 20's. In my early 30's is really when I started to know what I wanted in a man. Also learned about love, dating, relationships. I enjoyed your video. Love your spirit, your so pretty, so sweet, so humble. I love your outfits. Your always looking so cute. Have a great day. God bless and keep you. Thanks for sharing. 👍👍👍👍👍👍💜💜💜💜💜💜👏👏👏👏👏👏☺☺☺☺☺☺

I can’t believe I just found this video for the first time. I can’t stop crying. After 12yrs & 3 kids I’m getting a divorce. I really tried but he just gave up. I feel like I can’t breathe and have no strength, but I also realize that he isn’t for me unfortunately. I just hate that my youth is gone. It’s over for me.

I met my fiancé at 14.. 13 years later we found each other again I'm the happiest person. We fight too but over silly things his so kind so real I thank God each day

“Oh, you go ghost on me? Oh, sweetie, I will go Casper on you.” Lmao 😂😂

The JLo praise, not mad at it lolll. Love you Adrienne. #latinagang #ecuadoriansis

Marriage is definitely a Beautiful covenant that God Himself have created. Putting God first and thinking about how we hurt our Father in Heaven when we go against His Word. Living to please Him first can weather any storm. We should live to please Him and making Him proud to say, "Look at my son and daughter, I am so proud of them. They are representing Me well. Isreal and Adrienne give God all the Glory. Love 💘.

The part about ignoring the text, and being on social media hit hard lol. You right girl, tell em boy bye!!

Girl you made my day with this video..I hope one day God sends a good man my way.

Fall in love with Jesus first... Let Him teach you what love is, how to love yourself & how to love others.

I have e been heart broken several times...but I still believe that the right person will come one day

GIRL!!! Where were you 6 months ago?! 😫 I really needed to hear this then but thanks for doing this I’m going to apply this advice to the rest of my life ❤️

Love your videos Adrienne!!!! So authentic ❤️

I love her videos 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

Very real down to earth love advice. Time is another factor. If a guy does not spend sufficient time with you, move on!!!

Definitely I agree on this things honesty, trust and laughter are the best way to have a healty marriage. Thanks for sharing 💗