Adulting 101: A guide to surviving being a young adult with Lebo Mehlomakhulu

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Ayanda Vana

Ayanda Vana

Жыл бұрын

For the next 3 episodes, I’ve partnered with @solal_sa and together we’ll be bringing you conversations that cover themes around mental health through the month of October. For today’s episode, I sit down with my friend, Lebo Mehlomakhulu and we speak about “Adulting 101: A guide to surviving being a young adult”.
For this episode, Lebo and I will be sharing our journeys on:
-Lessons learned in navigating adulthood;
-Why navigating your 20s are so hard;
-Navigating relationships & friendships;
-The process of becoming;
-Building a wellness tank and refilling;
-Lessons from building a business & career etc
Lebo is an advocate of love, wife, mommy, entrepreneur, digital content creator, sold out for Christ curator of Marriage Monday.
This episode was special because I got to bring you into my world alongside my friend Lebo. We hope that this episode will serve as a space to remind you that you are alone and remember to breathe and be gentle with yourself.
Episode sponsored by Solal
Solal: solal.co.za
Location: Radisson Hotel & Convention Centre, Johannesburg, O.R. Tambo
Full episode available on
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Production: LoTv

Пікірлер: 83
@Ntuthu28_M
@Ntuthu28_M Жыл бұрын
One thing about Lebo she's so humble♥️♥️I love love her not to even mention you Ayanda♥️yall are the epitome of what a true woman of God is ...keep up the good work.
@ChatswithNene
@ChatswithNene Жыл бұрын
Wow beautiful topic. My daughter is 21 and she thinks she’s so ready for marriage and I’m like heyi girl, ima kancane… you still have a long way and you still need to learn more about yourself. Hayi ke ugirl uzamenzan when she’s inlove 😂. Love you ladies
@gracehlatshwayo2789
@gracehlatshwayo2789 Жыл бұрын
Ayanda your work is incredible girl, you genuinely built a safe community for us ladies ❤️ . Lebo you such a super woman...much love 🌷
@corneyeats.6361
@corneyeats.6361 Жыл бұрын
I'm still navigating my early twenties & this hit hard . I totally loved it!🥺❤
@Lindeka_M419
@Lindeka_M419 Жыл бұрын
Ayanda please consider having these one on one conversations with Lebo every week I enjoyed this episode so much ❤
@taythankane
@taythankane 7 ай бұрын
I love how soft spoken you are Ayanda, you remind me of my demeanor.
@ConversionWellness
@ConversionWellness Жыл бұрын
Ayanda your purity of heart shows so much in this episode. May God heal every wound that's still triggered in this season in Jesus name🥰
@nthatifuma
@nthatifuma Жыл бұрын
I love such friendships, Lebo is such a great friend, she’s able to be honest and real with her friends without making them uncomfortable 😍😍😍 You can tell that Ayanda is comfortable and this is a safe space for her❤️ I have always admired Ayanda , specifically as a friend😢❤️ she takes her friendships so seriously and I hope she is surrounded by the people who are able to receive her well because she’s such a sweetheart you guys😍😍😍❤️❤️😭 You guys are so beautiful 🔥🔥❤️
@thatoolga
@thatoolga Жыл бұрын
"Your yes to something, is a no somewhere else" 🥺🥺 Really enjoyed this conversation. Thank you Ayanda for this platform and thank you Lebo for pouring into our cup ❤❤
@michaelamaraitjies4176
@michaelamaraitjies4176 Жыл бұрын
Hi Ayanda my name is Michaela I'm new to your channel just want to say I love your topic such important things to listen to, something I can also go back to when I'm being hard on myself forcing things to happen. I'm 25 years old struggling with career choices sometimes I feel so confused, I'm thankful for the topic💕❤️.
@elleakenya
@elleakenya Жыл бұрын
I'm 24 still struggling with career choices finding a job and I have to remind myself to be kind to me even if I'm so idle and broke
@leonndhlozi2739
@leonndhlozi2739 Жыл бұрын
U both look gorgeous, wow 😍❤️
@phumimthiyane289
@phumimthiyane289 Жыл бұрын
My two favorite girls...love you so much and your lives display uncomplicated Gospel of Christ.
@portiasibandar4067
@portiasibandar4067 Жыл бұрын
Such a grown up conversation and it is well received ☺️
@beckyphala5436
@beckyphala5436 Жыл бұрын
I recently got what I would call my big break after spending the larger part of my early 20s with sooo many dreams and boy does the pressure mount! We need to truly be gentle with ourselves. Own lane, own race
@justchloe3052
@justchloe3052 Жыл бұрын
This!😭❤
@prudencedantye9297
@prudencedantye9297 Жыл бұрын
Loved the conversation, so relatable❤ especially when Ayanda spoke about how she has always been a pursuer in friendships. I was also the same way but I have learnt to let go. I came to a point in my life where I was completely DONE with that. When my energy is no longer reciprocated, I just let go. God has a way of bringing new friends when other friendships end.
@tidodlamini
@tidodlamini Жыл бұрын
I Just Know I'm Going To Listen To This Again and Again! Beautiful Honest Conversation. Thank You So Much For This Ladies.💗
@nomsa06
@nomsa06 Жыл бұрын
Loved this on friendships. I resonate with both of you at various levels. Learning. Unlearning. Allowing God to do a new thing.
@nonhlanhlangwenya7870
@nonhlanhlangwenya7870 Жыл бұрын
My fav combo...
@charitymbokazi3829
@charitymbokazi3829 Жыл бұрын
Lebo you such a great woman free spirited person looking good ❤ thank Ayanda
@sewelalucracia4169
@sewelalucracia4169 Жыл бұрын
I'm more of Lebo I have lots of yes and lot's of No to things that matter, I need to work on my boundaries, Thanks for this conversation 🙏
@nokwazikunene8392
@nokwazikunene8392 Жыл бұрын
Much much much needed. Thank you Ayanda and Lebo :)
@thembalihlemiya3395
@thembalihlemiya3395 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful 💚
@boipeloandsipho
@boipeloandsipho 8 ай бұрын
This was such a beautiful watch! ❤️ it felt like we were eavesdropping on your coffee date. So vulnerable. Thank you!
@mulindathavha5189
@mulindathavha5189 Жыл бұрын
I needed this badly,I can relate to everything.
@corneyeats.6361
@corneyeats.6361 Жыл бұрын
''twenties are very hard to navigate '' felt that when Lebo said it.
@laoneoloratodirakano4658
@laoneoloratodirakano4658 Жыл бұрын
I love this podcast ❤️
@boitumelomogashoa6886
@boitumelomogashoa6886 Жыл бұрын
I felt that part when Ayanda said i am a pursuer in most of my friendships ,i keep trying and trying and trying and honestly i got to understand that it's okay let certain things okay yes friends come and go and that's okayy and one day just one day you are going to meet you the friend you have always been to your past friends ,and trust me it's so beautiful you would always look up and say God i have been waiting for such .
@unlearningwithjoey
@unlearningwithjoey Жыл бұрын
I love the honesty ladies
@phakamamjungula8729
@phakamamjungula8729 Жыл бұрын
Ayanda❤️❤️
@leonndhlozi2739
@leonndhlozi2739 Жыл бұрын
I love this combo❤️❤️
@malefaeland3711
@malefaeland3711 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved this episode 😍 not to mention the ladies look stunning😍😍
@xolasitela8663
@xolasitela8663 Жыл бұрын
Navigating friendships is so hard, how normal it is to not have friends because right now I am tired
@vanessankhokwe1640
@vanessankhokwe1640 Жыл бұрын
I really needed this conversation ❤️❤️❤️ thank you
@johannaramaesela9298
@johannaramaesela9298 Жыл бұрын
Yoo I relate so much to Ayanda😊
@phakamamjungula8729
@phakamamjungula8729 Жыл бұрын
Lebo❤️❤️❤️
@lydialekgothoane117
@lydialekgothoane117 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed listening to this❤❤❤lovely conversation ladies!
@innocenttjimbundu4063
@innocenttjimbundu4063 Жыл бұрын
This was such a pure and honest conversation, thank you ladies!
@siphosethumongwe6742
@siphosethumongwe6742 Жыл бұрын
Aaaarrrg I loved this. I actually didn’t want it to end! 🤗♥️ lovely conversation.
@lisahlatshwayo4875
@lisahlatshwayo4875 Жыл бұрын
Throughly enjoyed this❤️
@ulander7058
@ulander7058 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this conversation Ayanda. You ladies were great. I could relate so much when you speak about being a persuer, you put a name to what I am. It so painful though to hold back when your heart wants to reach out but I guess one needs to come to the realization that not every friend will be a life time friend and that is OK. Hope to see more of these conversations 🌺
@puseletsomafuna4081
@puseletsomafuna4081 Жыл бұрын
Love the wisdom from you both. ❤
@Nunu_M
@Nunu_M Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this conversation..... ❤️🥺
@tintswalomashaba7694
@tintswalomashaba7694 Жыл бұрын
Heyy just show the trailer with my fave Lebo ❤️❤️ went right in
@b_reshoketswe2777
@b_reshoketswe2777 Жыл бұрын
This is so calm and refreshing, thanks Lebo & Ayanda ❤
@noluvuyomakhoba2901
@noluvuyomakhoba2901 Жыл бұрын
Wow ladies🥰 thank you for such a wholesome conversation 💓
@asandiswamagazi418
@asandiswamagazi418 Жыл бұрын
I love uLebo bethuna she is authentic Thanks Aya💕💕💕
@wandilehlabangane3484
@wandilehlabangane3484 Жыл бұрын
Lovely conversation ladies 🌻🍃
@anelisiwenoguda4451
@anelisiwenoguda4451 Жыл бұрын
I needed more,it was so short.
@kgaogelomohlala76kgaogelom48
@kgaogelomohlala76kgaogelom48 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful episode loved it so much, so light and freeing and motivating ,you guy’s energy was just calm and it’s just everything I really needed to navigate my youth days 😍
@AllThingsLindo
@AllThingsLindo Жыл бұрын
Watching your production for the first time Ayanda, in awe of the quality and the calm in which you executed this chat. Watched this while preparing a very stressful report for work and the calm in how you Ladies had this conversation made me take a step back and just breathe. You have a new subbie in me! ❤
@prudoschannel5038
@prudoschannel5038 Жыл бұрын
waitsi l see my life in a few years to come having mature conversations like these, love this a lot :)
@tadiwamatongo9972
@tadiwamatongo9972 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much loves for a beautiful talk. I learned a lot.
@gugulethudube2468
@gugulethudube2468 Жыл бұрын
God l love Lebo❤️❤️. Hello ladies
@olivebllaq4951
@olivebllaq4951 Жыл бұрын
Hi ladies. I'm new on this channel and I'm happy to have found it. Thank you I thoroughly enjoyed the video as I'm on a life journey and learning to be still and there are a few pointers that I resonate with and are very helpful. Thank you 🌸
@siyandangozo
@siyandangozo Жыл бұрын
I honestly enjoyed this conversation.❤
@priscillaamankwah3046
@priscillaamankwah3046 Жыл бұрын
Great Talk Ayanda & Lebo!, wonderful wisdom and advice given.👏🏾💕👍🏾
@nompumelelonobula9537
@nompumelelonobula9537 Жыл бұрын
This was beautiful to watch 🤗❤ big ups ladies
@palesamohale4977
@palesamohale4977 Жыл бұрын
This conversation was so liberating! Thank you so much ladies! May God bless you abundantly!❤❤❤
@kediboneshushu2891
@kediboneshushu2891 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ladies i enjoyed your conversation. Its never too late to learn. ♥️♥️♥️
@unlearningwithjoey
@unlearningwithjoey Жыл бұрын
Lol I can relate to you Lebo as a recovering fixer
@babsmat7735
@babsmat7735 Жыл бұрын
I love Lebo❤️beautiful conversation ladies💖
@moemedi_m
@moemedi_m Жыл бұрын
I appreciate this conversation so so so much! Urgh Lebo is just the REALEST guys… every conversation she has??! Absolutely Love her!🥺❤️ Thank you for this conversation Ayanda… you have freed alot of us 🥺🙌🏽
@masabathamhlongo6378
@masabathamhlongo6378 Жыл бұрын
Ayanda, I don’t know why I’m only subscribing now…woman keep up the good work, love your heart🌺♥️
@kiwigirl359
@kiwigirl359 Жыл бұрын
Wow this podcast is everything....I can relate to the pressure around me. I'm that kind of person who is always looking around to see where everyone is in their lives. I really need to be more gentle with myself
@charmainephasoana6850
@charmainephasoana6850 Жыл бұрын
same 😭
@ainaickua3102
@ainaickua3102 Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed this episode 🙌🏾. I can relate on Ayanda having to pause and see if a friend would reach out. That’s how I lost many people I once called friends. Lebo, being a fixer, let me just say, I learned the hard way.
@mvelo.z.mthombeni
@mvelo.z.mthombeni Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ayanda & Lebo🙏🏽❤️💖💫 really appreciate you for sharing your life experiences with us🙏🏽❤️
@innocentialentsoane3627
@innocentialentsoane3627 Жыл бұрын
This was really insightful..Thank you Lebo I needed to hear that, twenties are not easy to navigate…Oh and you guys are lovely and humble man❤❤
@olwenenenoncokwana8943
@olwenenenoncokwana8943 Жыл бұрын
Your voice sounds sweet
@nthatifuma
@nthatifuma Жыл бұрын
So excited ❤❤❤
@zinhlephiwokuhledlamini8194
@zinhlephiwokuhledlamini8194 Жыл бұрын
Literally 😍😍🤩
@theegiftedhands6415
@theegiftedhands6415 Жыл бұрын
Spoke to my heart❤️beautiful 🙏🏽
@thandilemagwentshu5433
@thandilemagwentshu5433 Жыл бұрын
😍😍😍❤️
@neojacob5127
@neojacob5127 Жыл бұрын
@takiramaphosa1643
@takiramaphosa1643 Жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful and honest conversation 👌👌
@sibulelepoto442
@sibulelepoto442 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@faithkatlego7100
@faithkatlego7100 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 🙏🏽 y’all dropped bombs!! 🥺🔥🤍
@elleakenya
@elleakenya Жыл бұрын
I'm 24 still struggling with career choices finding a job and I have to remind myself to be kind to me even if I'm so idle and broke
@charmainekuvare7108
@charmainekuvare7108 Жыл бұрын
❤️
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