The lord is concerned about every part of our journey, hence praying for friends in adulthood is of paramount importance. Also, depending on the holy spirit for discernment. The devil can send counterfeits our way. Ya'll are really awesome, I love this platform. ❤️❤️❤️

Currently I'm in the season where God is isolating me from friendships and it's very scary and sad sometimes I am doubting if this is me or God because I miss them so much but I definitely appreciate this episode of the podcast.

Setting boundaries early in those new relationships is key too!

I just turned 26 last week and I'm now in a season where I feel that I really need a circle of solid Christian girl friends. Earlier today I was telling my boyfriend about me needing to make new friends but that I having social anxiety stopping me. I really needed this. 💜

I can SO relate to Brenda with being apprehensive about adult friends, AND I use to cut people off too, but thank God for progress 😂 I'm glad you guys have each other! This was refreshing to see. I love Stephanie, and this conversation 💞

This came right on time I just read a verse on do not be yoked to unbelievers n it got me thinking about whether i can or can not be friends with unbelievers. The verse was 2 Corinthians 14-18 I have a problem of cutting people off lol this was for me lol

Friendship should pour back into you💯 if they not adding VALUE to you, they shouldn’t be in your space.

Friends come and go. Its great to have solid people that you can trust. Most of my mew friends came from jobs or my children friends parents. Cherish the real ones.💕💕💕

I love this 😂 Brenda is funny. I did not know she was from Chicago 💪🏽 but yes this was needed. I use to have the attitude of Holier Than Thou as if I was perfect. God had to humble me through a couple of people. But Thank You God 🥹🥰

This was such a needed conversation people need to know how to have healthy adult friendships 💗

Watching from Botswana 🇧🇼 Africa. Love y’all’s ❤️

I can relate so much to this right now. I'm struggling with finding kingdom friendships. I'm definitely giving this to God. Thank you ladies!

I’m so grateful for this podcast! I honestly needed to hear this today. I’m only 23 and have been struggling with making friends with like minded ppl but you guys opened up a new perspective that I need to examine myself and my own walk with God. Thank you 🙏🏽✨

When she said" Don't be a Needy friend!" ...Shots Fired !!! Well oh well

7:59 and that’s the key. A seek ye first His kingdom mindset will always attract the desires of your heart to you, rather you go after it. Beautifully said

Where is the other lady that's normally on the show? I hope she comes back. I love the conversations ladies 🙌🏾

Whew every time these 3 Queens coming together they be dropping heavy gems💯🔥 so grateful for y’all. Thank you for feeding us🤍

The timing of this video is truly God sent for me! Thanks for allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through you all. 🙏🏾💕

Great conversation!! It's difficult making friends as an adult but you have to be open to new relationships. Trust me God will send you friends

This is great. It's so natural how the convo is going, no outline just spontaneity to each line of convo. They just chilling, having an outpouring of mindsets concerning a subject and I'm outchea learning.

the louis vuitton part was too funny 😂😂😂😂 but this was absolutely true, especially the needy friends part & the judgment “friends.” authenticity is key! also I was definitely the cut off friend that would cut somebody off at the drop of the dime but as I grow in my walk with God, im more honest, more big on setting boundaries & also recognizing my faults that I contribute.

For real! I agree on saying out what's bothering you in a friendship, instead of keeping silent ❤️

Beautiful purposeful friendship here.

This is so good. Thank you ladies. It’s amazing to watch God redeem relationships in full time as you partner with Him in obedience to just allow folks in, even the same ones that you’ve hurt or have hurt you and to watch hearts soften right there. It’s weird when you’re witnessing it, but it’s nothing but His grace and a solid yes.

This was such a refreshing conversation! I totally relate with a lot of the points that were made especially about staying to myself because I’m not trying to be out here being thirsty lol. I too, was apprehensive about letting people in too quickly. I even questioned why I have this such strong desire for friendship but God had to remind me that He put this innate desire in all of use - we need each other. He had to get me together & remind me that He’s given me discernment in this season and that it’s not enough for me to desire friendship but that I have to be willing to move with faith & put myself out there & move with that discernment. I know God is about to bring the right people into my life and I pray that He does the same for everyone else reading this. I’m praying that we all find those people we can be our genuine self around and move in purpose with 🤎

I can't stress how yall spoke a mouthful. I will add and take nothing from all that's being said. I also love how you put a strong emphasis on genuine authenticity, that's one value I live by in friendships. and also the need to take inventory around the people the people God puts around me and why I'm not letting them in. I know I'm guilty there. I had someone relentlessly pursue friendship with me in this season and I told her I wasn't ready to be friends. She's quite patient with me but I'm realising the fear may never allow for the friendship to happen. So thanks for this again Guys.

Fatima I have a very similar situation, at my own wedding last year someone came with her husband that I have not spoken to in a long time and the relationship was unresolved. And when I did my rounds at the tables to say hi and thank you, I told her I missed her and I am sorry and those tears were healing tears.

BRENDA was so on point !!!

Same… I have no friends… I need some… godly

I’m so happy I stumbled across you’ll page, you ladies are such a blessing, and the topic today hit home. Being a single WOG and serving its hard for me to make friends with the ladies in the church because they don’t want to associate with a single women and of course their all married, so I serve and stay to myself, I don’t want it to be that way, because I want that Christian sisterhood. Thanks for an amazing show 🤦🏽❤️

When I went through this, I knew God was working with me helping me align better with people who have a heart for Him.

Such a blissful chat as a wife and mum life is so busy and with full time work - friends at work come and go but solid Christian sisters are truly a great gift and i pray for myself and other Christians out there to find a true loving Christian friendship that would help us enjoy life even more

Stephanie is so wise 🙏🏽🥰 love this show, God Bless all you sisters

Love these videos every time you guys post 🙏🏽🔥

Y’all had me cracking up laughing and then in tears. Sooo relatable. Thank you for continuing to be so transparent with us ❤️

This was such a refreshing perspective on adulting and friendship. I am that awkward person in starting new friendships and I have been praying that God sends my way lile minded people who will be my destiny partners. I think also not pre-empting according to our own liking like selecting people according to status what they have but really opening up ourselves for what the Lord has, He might just do exceedingly, abundantly, above what we can ask, think or imagine. I would love to be blessed with a friendship like you ladies have.

This conversation is EVERYTHING!!!!

I wish this episode was longer!😢❤️

I love and appreciate these women🤍

I love you guys...friends ❤️ in my head :)... I struggle with making friends...but I have faith that GOD is going to put the right ppl in my life at the right time

This is so good & right on time. Thank you for this ladies! I believe that God is preparing many of us for Kingdom friendships.

Ladies, this was beautiful! I praise God you all did this episode; it came at the right time for me. 🙏🏾💕

God authored this.Been going through a rough phase with friendships then this is video I see first

The beauty of even the dynamic of you ladies’ friendship. It’s admirable. How timely as I’m in a season of transitioning from isolation to community. It feels so uncomfortable, but I know it’s necessary and what God desires for me. Also - c’mon reggae. I’m here for it. It’s absolutely in my iTunes playlist. 😬 Thanks for finally saying that Christians can be dope and have a semi-corny swag as well. Lol ❤️

This show is Amazing, I truly understand & I went through this myself with friends & a past relationship🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

I am only 3 mins into this video and can already relate. Thank you God for the conversation!

Wow, this is really insightful that as Christians we don't have to play the police of who should come into our lives for the fear of someone hurting us. Come on girl, the Lord is our Shepard and as a Shepard he knows exactly where greener pastures are. We should let him lead us trusting that he knows exactly who should be in our lives for forever,for a season or just to show them direction and that's it. We are safe where we are 💕#enjoy For a start you are my friends, I found pastor Stephanie here on KZfaq just last month,I have watched almost all her teachings,all your talk shows,I mean intentionally watching that I was with her in my dream . I believe in predestination. YOU ALL ARE MIRRORS 💕🤍🥰 THANK YOU.

this blessed my soul! Thank you ladies for your authenticity

I appreciate all of the episodes and I find this to be timely especially as I see the Lord making moves and building in my life

Such a word. I have always been that thirsty friend 🤪 Seeking the Lord like never before and it’s lonely for sure. Thank you for sharing ladies!

I needed to hear this discussion about having non believers as friends

The special part for me was mentioning that because God is continuously working he decides which doors to remain open, closed or swinging. It’s so easy to determine the status of a relationship when it’s ended badly “I’m done with this person”. But God may not be. So I’m getting that if we allow God to decide the people in our lives, we will allow ourselves to experience what comes with it

I haven't even heard it yet but by the title alone YES YES YES!!!

I absolutely love this podcast. I have learned so much from you all. I praise God for your ministry.

So true that good godly friendships are a Gift... Maybe one day I can know what that feels like. To have good friends, as well as put in the work to be a good friend. Love how your friendship is routed in purpose, n secondarily about hanging out n having fun. God continue to bless you n your brautiful friendship.❤❤❤

I love the freedom to be real and transparent! 💙 But still Seeking to become a better you !

Much needed 🙏🏻😍❤️Thank you so much ladies!!! God Bless

I am grateful for this topic, I'm definitely learning the true meaning of friendship and have healthy, whole, spiritual minded friendship. Thank you

Awesome transparency ❤️So much fun

Can I just say it’s good to see believing women who look like me , have genuineness convos

The Redemptive part is big!!! I know someone with who I wanted to be a friend but I messed up the relationship before it even got anywhere. The funny thing is after God dealt with me on the issue which included an action towards the person's business, I had a dream that we were talking and laughing and everything was okay. When I woke up I laughed 😂 at the idea because of I was her, I wouldn’t want that old me close. But I’m beginning to believe in redemption not just in my spiritual walk but in all areas.

This was such a powerful convo!! Received a lot from this!

I am late to this party! I'm so glad I stumbled upon the room! You ladies are AMAZING and real! Thankful!

Love this ❤️ Hey Guys, I’m new in this journey with God and I’m currently struggling with what Fatima said about what music to listen to etc so if you guys can please do a chat on “What a real relationship with God looks like” because I’m in a season where I sometimes condemn myself for listening or watching certain things, and it crippling me in my relationship with God. Thank you for this platform God Bless ❤️

Omg needed this

I absolutely love to watch each episode. I agree. Friendship in adulthood should be genuine. It should be surrounding yourself with others that will encourage you to be better is every way. Love love love this episode! 🫶🏾🫶🏾 Love seeing the bond that you all have!

I wish this was on Apple Podcast!

I love this podcast ladies !! Have a wonderful day ‼️🤍🤍🤍

I love this so much. Y’all gave me goosebumps 💜💜💜💜

I just LOOOOVE this podcast! PLEEEEEASE keep going🙌🏾🤸🏾‍♀️

Thank you so much for this conversation. I’m currently working through this. I live in a small city and the people around my age are leaving in masses (I wish I was exaggerating) but I’m trying to make adult friendships but may have to drive to a larger city to be in an environment with friends around my age who are like minded.

Love These conversations ❤️🥹

I'm 100% protective of my friends too 😅 I had to talk to God about it because I became jealous and envious of other people coming into my friends' lives.

GREAT WORD

I LOVE THIS SHOW!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH! THIS WAS GREEEAAATTT!

I loved this. This was so therapeutic to hear.

Am in a place of trying to understand who my new authentic self is, I been a Christian for about 3 years but I don't have Christian friendships only non-Christian friendships that I have for about a decade and longer but I usually stay by myself because most things I don't do anymore and some conversations I don't entertain anymore

I love this so much and resonate with all your topics!

Absolutely love this ladies!!! We pray for God ordained true and authentic friendships to occur with like-minded believers in Jesus name 🙏😍 🙌 ❤️ 👏 💕

Ask God to send me genuine people 🙌🏽So true

OK! God sent me to listen to this because I’m going through a situation with a needy friend right now! When Stephanie made the comment about offense setting in when dealing with needy friends! I had to rewind it and listen to her three times! She was so on point with that comment! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Great job again ladies 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Yo "Just say it"! Brenda was right on that one. On a side note if you all take requests, could y'all talk about prophecies that went wrong. Like in the beginning stages of learning how to discern if God is speaking to you or not and when was the turning point?

Wow this episode was amazing thank you!!!

I enjoyed this conversation 💕

I'm here!!!!! 🙌🏽😁

This is so beautiful

This is such a good episode 💕

I love this

So good ladies 🙏🏾

So good!

OUR FRIENDSHIP IS ROOTED IN PURPOSE BECAUSE IT IS INTENTIONAL AND ON PURPOSE TO BE PURPOSE TO FULFIL PURPOSE ON EARTH BEING AS EXAMPLE OF FRIENDSHIP THROUGH THICK AND THIN AND THROUGH RAIN AND FIRE FOR OUR RELATIONSHIP AND FRIENDSHIP IS ON PURPOSE AND I WANT TO THANK YOU AND APPRECIATE YOU ON PURPOSE FOR CHOOSING ME TO BE YOUR FRIEND AND TO BE IN YOUR LIFE TOGETHER AS WE ENCOURAGE AND SUPPORT EACH OTHER IN LIFE BEING THERE FOR EACH OTHER IN LIFE AND WE KNOW OUR FRIENDSHIP IS THAT OF A BLESSING FROM GOD THAT WE ENCOUNTERED EACH OTHER TO BE IN EACH OTHERS LIFE AS DESTINY PARTNERS AND VISION PARTNERS AS WE DO THAT OF GOD'S WILL HER ON EARTH. THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME AND PRESENCE FOR I APPRECIATE AND HONOR THAT OF WHO YOU ARE AND THAT OF YOUR GENUINE HEART AND LOVE FOR ALL GOD'S CHILDREN.

y'all this podcast is too good , thankyou for doing this,, this episode is a reminder that hey, on the right path sis ,, hehehhe, God bless y'all ..

I love you ladies! Weirdos connect 😂💝

Powerful

Where are my two friends at? 🤔. Lord bring them please 🙏🏾

I have enjoyed this conversation thanks sisters

This was so good to talk about making friend with unbeliever so powerful y’all friendship seem so genuine and authentic this podcast made me laugh 😂 on day where I need to

I'm in a season right now where i think God is weining out the friends who ain't for me. it scary for me because these are friends who've i've been friends with for 20+ years. but patterns and revelations are being exposed to me , and i'm SHOOK. like God if you want me to be alone just say that 😂. great episode ladies!

Yes God is amazing 🤩🤩🤩