Afraid to make mistakes in English? WATCH THIS

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How to avoid making mistakes in English? Say NO to perfection and Yes to communication. In this video, I'll talk about why it is so freaking important NOT to let your self-judgment and fear of failure stop you from achieving your goals and dreams and prevent you from taking your abilities in English to the next level.
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@AbuAmmar2 6 жыл бұрын

I come from a country (Yemen) where people's English is being judged based on their accent. To be honest, that was holding me from expressing myself for years despite having a good level of English. I gained more confidence after getting an excellent score in the IELTS exam, but speaking is still the skill I would like to improve. After recording videos of myself over different periods of time, I can see the progress made. I regret the years I spent in silence fearing others to judge me and the fact that I was withholding my thoughts and creativity because of that. I have learnt to never judge anyone based on his/her accent. For me, speaking a second language is a huge achievement that we should all cherish, not criticise. Your channel is an eye-opener Hadar, I really thank you for sharing your invaluable and very humanistic experience.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

This is so inspiring. You are amazing⭐️Thank you so much for sharing.

@AbuAmmar2 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Hadar! I am still learning, there so much to learn, especially from you. Glad that I found your channel on KZfaq. Keep the great were-k up!

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

😊😉

@ahaz8834 6 жыл бұрын

Greetings from KSA.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Come say Hi on Instagram @accentswaybyhadar and join us for the challenge

@DV-ux8eg 6 жыл бұрын

Accent's Way English good Happy New week teacher

@ro-in1900 6 жыл бұрын

Accent's Way English superb!

@resistor425 6 жыл бұрын

Sorry, i'm not available in instagram

@juanmartinmolinari435 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Hadar! It´s so stressful and frustrating to speak in a language that we´ll never master like our native language... Thank you for give us encouragement.

@sedefashley2021 5 жыл бұрын

Doesn't matter what I watch or listen to when I am on KZfaq. I always end up here listening to you and your great ideas about English. And this topic that you mention in the video is super important. As a person who is in love with the English language, I even sometimes feel scared of making a mistake when I speak English This idea of being perfect every time you speak English really kills your motivation and enthuasism. And it really stops you from expressing yourself in English. I think what we all should do is to start seeing our mistakes as a way of learning. Thanks a million, Hadar. You are awesome and to me listening to you is like listening to my favorite song. Bye...

@watchando938 11 ай бұрын

comunication over perfection YES!

@davidsmailus4725 Жыл бұрын

I feel pleasure and hapiness that there are so many awesome people like you on KZfaq taking their time to help others overcoming problems. Thank you so much.

@Pedro-ds3cq 4 жыл бұрын

Perfectionism is bad in all sorts of activities in life, according to my therapist. And she's right! Let go of the need for perfection, and you will be much happier. Take for instance beauty, everyone wants something more; maybe it's a few inches taller, a smaller nose, a six-pack. Whatever it is, work hard to improve it (if it can be improved; height, for instance, can't) but remember that perfection is unattainable. That being said, one's pronunciation surely can be improved, so one should work hard to improve it, but one should be satisfied with his or her progress too.

@maghazahmad3307 6 жыл бұрын

I must say that you are gorgeous brilliant teacher that i didn't find ever. Love you Thanks

@verarivadeneira5275 Жыл бұрын

Wow! I’m so Glad I’ve discovered your channel! I would’ve liked you to be my teacher back in high school! I respect you and appreciate you so much and you know why? Not because your content is great but for the PASSION you have to TEACH! So kudos to you!

@rosayanez8378 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Hadar, you are a great teacher!!! I enjoy each lesson!!

@taniaolave5813 6 жыл бұрын

estoy en el nivel básico de ingles, pero ver sus vídeos son inspiradores para mi. Me parece que tiene el acento perfecto, espero algún día lograr el acento que usted tiene.

@cb7324 7 ай бұрын

I see learning a language like this: You learn, then you forget, you learn again, then you remember, then you forget, and then you remember

@elsamonteverde5967 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Hadar! You have an amazing gift! Excellent English coach. And yes we all have to learn not to be afraid of finding our own voice in other languages!

@hadar.shemesh 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you! ♥️😊 and yes, absolutely!! 💪🏽🗣

@bacojonibacojoni5189 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for all your encouragement.

@kattiaarrietamontiel5697 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for encouraging me because , I'm a shy person but your advice is good for me and inspires me , to keep on practicing everyday.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

YES!

@ampmat 6 жыл бұрын

Saying how much I appreciate your job would be a complete understatement!

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@daniAd-qm9xy Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Hadar! I really appreciate these kinds of videos,. They help me a lot!!! COMMUNICATIONOVERPERFECTION👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

@english4you83 Жыл бұрын

Hadar, your tips and encouragment to speak are amazing. Thanks your video I'm willing to get out of my comfort zone and speak as much as I can😊

@mahmytdavaji2610 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Hadar, you are great teacher.

@larissapaschoalini6481 3 жыл бұрын

You are such an inspiring teacher!!!

@takumita7810 5 жыл бұрын

Your words are very powerful. I love to watch your videos.

@horaciosalazargomez9488 6 жыл бұрын

Hi Hadar! :) Exactly! I think you nailed it! Rather than getting affected by negative comments it's much better to focus on positive ones, specially those which are really objective and tend to be supportive. I also think each one of us are smart enough to read the context of a comment, whether it's a true critique or just a mere 'troll/hater' trying to make you upset. And, just as you said, it's quite important to push yourself a little bit every day to gain experience and improve, overcoming the fear to speak. In my case, it happens always, even though I've had a noticeable improvement in English skills. By times I still feel discouraged and afraid of failing; but suddenly I recall it's failure that will make me grow, and the more the better. Well, just wanted to share the thought. Have an excellent week! :D Blessings!!

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said. Thank you so much for sharing. Xoxo

@masteryoussef9798 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the video, Hadar.

@moulmour 6 жыл бұрын

Yes it is !!! very helpfull and thank you for that Hadar.

@fiorelasantur2144 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, of course. This is very helpful, thank you :)

@RIRigoni 4 жыл бұрын

Your videos are amazing" Thanks for being this awesome teacher!

@joannad4283 6 жыл бұрын

I can relate to that. I always try to be perfect in English and judge myself. Thank you for the video, Hadar.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

I really hope you'll take this opportunity and dare to fail! Making mistakes is the ONLY way to improve.

@marcellokenji7904 6 жыл бұрын

I totally agree. I say to my friends and coworkers: perfecting the English is only possible if you learn with failures. That´s the path I have followed, and I still make mistakes. At the beginning I was afraid to make mistakes but I had noticed that it was counter-productive. So I decided to speak even speaking with mistakes.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Yes, absolutely!! Thank you for sharing :)

@pilouuuu 5 жыл бұрын

This video is perfect! And not only about English, but about life in general.

@hadar.shemesh 5 жыл бұрын

❤️🙌

@bluestar9793 6 жыл бұрын

I am such a perfectionist which is very annoying and I’ve Iost many opportunities by being afraid of making mistakes but your video has taught me that’s okay to make mistakes and communication is over perfection thank you so much for the great advice and content you give 😊

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Yes, it's absolutely ok. The mistakes we forget after a few hours, but we carry with us the missed Opportunities for life.

@thazinjff3548 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for ur advice!! U inspired me alot, my English is not that good especially my pronunciation, but now really i got no scared to communicate with people!!

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Yes!! And good luck! Let me know how it goes :)

@monamansour4213 6 жыл бұрын

Great, thanks alot for your decent way, videos, encouragement and everything you post it for us.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you🙏💜

@mohammadwaseem523 5 жыл бұрын

Enjoy learning from you , keep motivating Madam..

@learnandlead437 6 жыл бұрын

I love your necklace , your style, the color of the sofa behind you . Everything is perfect in this video . ❤️

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

🙏😘💜

@josidaka20 4 жыл бұрын

I needed to heard that today!!! Thanks

@hadar.shemesh 4 жыл бұрын

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

@rogerclaro9593 4 жыл бұрын

Sounds familiar. It's good to hear this encouragement video. Thanks Teacher Hadar. 🇵🇭

@abbashamada1831 6 жыл бұрын

This is what exactly inspired me! Thank you Coach Hadar.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

💜 thank you!

@mojoe717 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you this is a great piece of advice

@SunnyKumar-kt1po 6 жыл бұрын

You teach very well ma'am thanks

@dhiaoshaish 6 жыл бұрын

Sometimes this problem is deep-rooted that simple advice or one's own intention to overcome it simply won't work. I was raised by a father who expected nothing but prefection from me. I came on top of every class in school until the 8th grade. As a child, I had to make no mistakes in my education, or in the way I talk and socialize with others. My father would introduce me to his friends and tell them time and time again how perfect of a child I was; I never wanted to disappoint. Years later, I grew up to become more independent (18 years old back then) but I took most of that burden with me. I had free time so I decided to go to a school to improve my English. Again, I was on top of every class, but this time I felt my speaking skills lagged way behind my other skills, so I decided to spend more time with some classmates outside the school to speak English with. I made mistakes, and unfortunately my friends would somewhat ridicule me for it. "Dhia, how come you make these mistakes and you are the best student in class, not you Dhia, not you". I would hear those comments in class, too. Because of this, I preferred to stay quiet in my classes more often than not. "Mistakes like these make no one proud of you" I told myself. I graduated school (on top again) with extraordinary writing, reading and listening skills, but mediocre speaking skills at best. The idea of prefection hindered my progress, and gradually made me lose confidence. I knew where the answer was, not in school, it was in me, I had to do something but I needed help. I decided to see a psychothyrapist, my treatment lasted months, but it changed everything. I went back to learning English, but this time I was brimming with confidence, my speaking skills (fluidity and accuarcy) vastly improved in no time. Later I got obsessed with the American aacent, worked on it for years too, but it was a happy journey nonetheless.

@dhiaoshaish 6 жыл бұрын

Forgot to say, you Hadar are the best in business, period.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Dearest Dhia, thank you so much for sharing. Your story gave me chills. Both as an instructor, knowing that there's so much I can to to help and sometimes seeking for professional help is the only solution, but also as a mother trying to find the balance between supporting and helping my daughters succeed while not instilling the need for perfection or the fear of disappointing me in them. I admire you for this journey of yours. That's really inspiring.

@israelmiguel8768 6 жыл бұрын

It was definitely great! THANK YOU SO MUCH!

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@diegoarmando9856 6 жыл бұрын

Ur accent is adorable ....saludos desde colombia

@acommarce 6 жыл бұрын

Right, let's go!

@felixmaderodeluxe 6 жыл бұрын

You are perfect Hadar, thank you!!

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@summersaby 6 жыл бұрын

You made me love you with this video. It's just what happens to me, always!. thank you very much!. PD: I love your hair

@mariaocegueda8540 6 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your interest in encouraging me to keep my English up thank you.

@rambabu1092 6 жыл бұрын

Maria Ocegueda will you speak English with me? It's my whats app number..+8801720133642

@laurannejouanno7993 6 жыл бұрын

Hi Hadar! I can definitely relate to what you're saying ;-)

@eazzywilliam7666 6 жыл бұрын

I love your doing great things to us. God bless you!

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 🙏🙌

@coporo 6 жыл бұрын

Love your hair!!

@Chan-ux1rd 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you:) Your advice was just what I needed. I am participating in a Toastmasters club in Canada but I kept feeling frustrated because I cannot join in table topics and I am worthless in the club.. Thank you for your inspiring video.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

You are never worthless. I'm sure there is someone out there that needs to hear what you have to say. And good for you for participating in a toastmasters club !! It takes courage!

@hassanabo8801 6 жыл бұрын

The first ... my teacher

@amooriamoori8876 2 жыл бұрын

Great video , and awesome ideas. I am gonna teach my students same way you have mentioned in this useful video ... My regards from Iraq ...

@nadya9483 6 жыл бұрын

Hadar! You are amazing. I thought your speech is error-free. :-) But after you had said, "I make mistakes" I started listening to you more attentively. Yes, you have mistakes. For example, you said, "I would never succeeded..." On the other hand, you are so confident. All you errors often dissolve in your speech. People listen what you say not how you say. I noticed when I focus too much on grammar I make more mistakes. I've been living in the USA for 15 years. My English is pretty fluent but I often cling to grammar. I try to analyze how I said and my fluency drops. :-(

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this comment :) Let go of over analyzing your speech and focus on communicating. Small mistakes don't matter. Your personality and what you have to say is so much more important ❤️

@jesusfernando978 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Hadar. It was really helpfull. Your channel is helping in my own English learning journey. Thank's a lot

@hadar.shemesh 5 жыл бұрын

This makes my heart sing! Thank you ♥️

@longnguyen9638 6 жыл бұрын

Happy Easter to Hadar!

@laurafernandes7681 4 жыл бұрын

Hi teacher, how are you? I hope you be fine... Your work is amazing! Thank you for all the tips! :D

@ministro930 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent

@younesssoufaine2995 6 жыл бұрын

I like your accent 😊

@sakiwais2905 5 жыл бұрын

i like it perfect

@rachelgreen7830 6 жыл бұрын

Please make more video kind of "repeat after me" with some sentences each video, so we can practice speaking more. Thank you so much. Love you.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the suggestion!

@joseabelardoperezvargas103 6 жыл бұрын

Hello Hadar. Great pleasure for me to greet you today, hoping you are doing great after Eastern break. I recently became your follower and I admire and enjoy what you do very much. By the way you look so gorgeous and full of good vibes, as always, in this video. I liked a lot. Thanks very much for those motivating words and encouraging advices you mentioned on how to approach and how to overcome this always disturbing issue of communicating fearless and enthusiastic, in order to gain confidence that will help us succeed in this journey to become a fairly good english speaker. Wish some day to get close to your remarkable and marvelous level of English you've reached.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I wish you the best of luck!

@joseabelardoperezvargas103 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Hadar. I highly appreciate your words. I also wish you a very successful 2018, accomplishing all your personal and professional objectives and reaching all your goals even beyond the point or depth they were designed . I'm venezuelan, however I 've been living in Mexico since 2010. Have a good and peaceul night rest there in Tel Aviv.

@binli448 6 жыл бұрын

Hadar thank you so much,. Here's what I've learned , Find out someone who surrounding you and like to talk to you

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Great!

@matheuskarrilha4424 6 жыл бұрын

thank u

@sartorioful 6 жыл бұрын

She is my queen.

@mhejda73 6 жыл бұрын

You diserve more subcribers, Hadar. I love it.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

🙏♥️

@sartorioful 6 жыл бұрын

Essa é minha rainha.

@wiktoria4378 6 жыл бұрын

Impressive! :o

@12316231231231239 2 жыл бұрын

Ok, ok, now here I am, talking, chatting and writing comments and making a lot of mistakes. Now my problem is if I made a mistake I even won't recognize it, so I need an advice how I can work with it? What should I do to make my speech clearer?

@Ingles4allYou 6 жыл бұрын

best advice ever

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

😊

@sakiwais2905 5 жыл бұрын

i shy when i speaking English and i do not try then but i will try one time thanks

@yelisasanchez2142 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your words Hadar! I really needed this message 😊 Blessings for you and keep doing this excellent job.

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Much love❤️xoxo

@richardfrangie3518 2 жыл бұрын

👍

@jaimec2783 6 жыл бұрын

Make a video on when to pronounce 'going to' and 'gonna' :)

@kiam2651 6 жыл бұрын

Hey ..I found your account there😍😍😍😍😍

@emky1212 6 жыл бұрын

This is about comunicate not to be perfect, I'm not perfect even in my native language.

@mawy2572 6 жыл бұрын

What is the difference between kind & type

@nikky2074 6 жыл бұрын

thank you so very much to tell all of us all this gorgeous and inspiring things! you are right in everything what has been told there. you are awesome! and - i actually thought noone can force me to create IG account, but... =)))))))))

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Hahaha can't wait to see you there! But don't worry, the real challenge is coming in a few days and that's on FB:)

@nikky2074 6 жыл бұрын

=)))) omg, you won't believe ='))))) but I should admit that a lot of conversation is centered on FB and IG (even among friends I know personally) and not everything goes on twitter and other.

@nikky2074 6 жыл бұрын

it's funny, but i can see only your stories, even not my own =)

@countertenor5890 6 жыл бұрын

There is even a Weird Al song about something similar called "Word Crimes". It's about mistakes native English make.

@jokabjo1694 Жыл бұрын

I'm from Norway. And I am a little bit annoyed, if English speaking people, 'pretend' to, not understand me, if I say, what I have heard are the English word for the things, or items I want to explain, or talk about. Sorry, if I can't speak Scottish, or Scouse English. But that's the way it is.

@3ifa409 6 жыл бұрын

you are superb by the way you talked before in a video about your real name but believe i didn't got it hahaha

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

Ha-dar

@3ifa409 6 жыл бұрын

Accent's Way English is a beautiful name yes i just saw it in your instagram

@moniquemcp 6 жыл бұрын

I didn't know you are not an English person! It's amazing!

@hadar.shemesh 6 жыл бұрын

🙏🌸

@lalabinh4446 6 жыл бұрын

Monique Ferreira I

@fatihakhan4381 6 жыл бұрын

First 😀

@CheckSystem69 5 жыл бұрын

Can I tell you that I love you? Yes,No... it does not matter I'll tell you the same!

@hadar.shemesh 5 жыл бұрын

♥️🤗

@alonsofigueroa6173 5 жыл бұрын

Hi..... 👍😉

@lycapinho2410 6 жыл бұрын

Hi Hadar! You really sound like a native speaker! I hope to become as good as you someday. I love speaking English but I still fumble and get myself stuck every once and awhile. Well, I've been challenging myself lately posting videos here on KZfaq all in English. I'd love if you could check it out my latest message and give me your impression of my accent; it would mean a lot to me! May God bless and keep you 😊💕xoxo

@PlatonEmilMusic 5 жыл бұрын

I do not agree with the idea that people who are pointing out your mistakes are people that you don’t want around you! I mean the only way to get better is by noticing the mistakes and trying to fix them so having a friend who can recognize and point out your mistake every time that you do it can be super helpful

@hadar.shemesh 5 жыл бұрын

It’s not people who are pointing out your mistakes, but people who make you feel bad about how you sound, and make fun of you. These are two different things!

@PlatonEmilMusic 5 жыл бұрын

Accent's Way English with Hadar Shemesh oh okay sorry i misunderstood what you were saying! Btw I love your channel! Thanks for making these videos!

@salahahmad4647 6 жыл бұрын

where sub titles ?

@orhoushmand85 5 жыл бұрын

I call the imaginary enemy whose idea of perfection is his Baldi. He appears in Baldi's Basics, in this game the player has to collect 7 math notebooks and then get out of the school. That sounds simple but that's actually near impossible, because in all the notebooks except the first one the third problem is impossible to read and answer correctly, and Baldi gets angry when the player does answer any problem correctly and starts chasing the player and when he catches the player the game is over. Baldi is also commonly faster than the player and the player's speed is is slower than all the characters who can move, and the other characters are the principal who punishes the player for breaking his rules, playtime who looks for partners to jump in rope, and more.

@lycapinho2410 6 жыл бұрын

Here it goes 👉 Do not get tired of doing good: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/o72hic6Z1riqj58.html