God's grace.

I think this sex thing is the one that finishes us all😂

@@skhoemalele9715pretty much- kids and drama from men

Yes...That is a Blessing....

you can say that again

He certainly knows this, from beyond the grave. He was a bastard & sure enough, he got his just desserts over yonder. I'm sure she will meet him one day in spirit when he will apologise profusely. It's a thing with young men, and esp European ones, to ghost women. They just play the field, then run away.😢😮

For all you know, he could have been murdered in the night and buried before sunrise. No one would have known.

If she doesn't speak English, how did she communicate with John?

@@kgkg4118 John was a missionary he most likely spoke their language or had an interpreter

😂😂😂😂

Yh that's perfect only 75

she's probably 75

She looks 87 at least

Exactly. I would be long ago with another date the next day or so.

​@@Truffles563304 cat lady

Because you dont have values or caracter 🤫

Out of sight out of mind 😂

​@@rrrealqueen yep 🙏🏻🤭

You can say that again. What could be so urgent that he could not spare a ln hour or 30 minutes to communicate. If there were no cellphones, he would have gone to ssy goodbye

Me too 😢

Nothing "happened" to anyone. She made a choice.

You’re next

@@stephandalton2390She had a boyfriend who left or disappeared without saying anything. She didn't have to wait, but if he left her on purpose without saying anything, he could have said something. If he didn't leave on purpose and something happened to him, that's still sad to have occurred.

😂😂

​@@bobaathudi2737why are you laughing

@@Honeybee96710 The waiting for a ghost part disabled me with laughter 😆

That's true

Waiting for a ghost husband

That's right I agree a men love is not through

I don't agree with you, I think it depends on the situation.

You can wait for that "Special someone" but don't wait forever. Action speaks louder than words. Disappearing without saying a word or even leaving a letter of explanation, should tell her "Don't wait for John".

Really that's true

To wait or not to depends on my circumstances. I'll just take logical decision, as I think I should myself and people around me.

True

So many women in the US do this....they are waiting for the perfect man that's never coming. They waste their life away waiting for perfection, then later regret passing on decent guys because they didn't have the latest car or enough status to impress their friends/family

I will say this though, the sad part is most men WISH they could find a woman THIS loyal...and the one guy who did find one didn't even care. That's life for ya

@@kgkg4118 AGREED!!! 💯👍🏽

Doubt nobody would wait 80 years for a man.

Impatient me would wait only 2 weeks before moving on😅🤓. I'd prepare a good explanation in case he returned. With a few crocodile tears.

​@@Zaitoon55😂😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

😢

Yes, you are 💯 % correct 👏

@@Zaitoon55 😆 😂

Honestly with this strong i gat to move on😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Amen, you said it 💯 % right! 😢

I agree.

Honestly nobody could not advice this grandmother plan B

So true ❤❤❤❤

How do you know he didn't die in ww2? Unwise to jump to conclusions.

He left without even saying goodbye ​@@DontLikeCubes

I think is dumb, but I agree with you at the same time... Haha

​@@vanilla0012 Maybe because he *knew* she wont let him go. So he chose to broke her heart and doesnt give her any hope becaue he will die soon. But yeah, true love never dies. That girl is real personificatom of true love.

Finally somebody that understands. She lived in the rural areas, so she did not understand the ways of Europeans, the ways men act, and many other things. So sad

How do you know he didn't die in ww2? Unwise to jump to conclusions.

​@@pureone8350How do you know he didn't die in ww2? Unwise to jump to conclusions.

@@DontLikeCubes You don’t wait for dead people. That is common sense

Yes...

Why blaming him if u don’t know what happened. Why he left and reason he never came back

@@slaitracy7 You are right. I should not be making assumptions. However, in my head, I was thinking that no matter the reason he left (aside from being murdered) he missed out. I really just wanted to comment on what an amazing woman she is and most men are looking for that kind of loyalty. Seems like she would have stuck by him through thick and thin. She could be making things up, but let’s say we believe everything she is saying……seems suspicious on his part kind of. I hope he didn’t get hurt. 😞

@@slaitracy7 innocent until proven guilty attitude. You are a rare breed!

That's if his alive😢

It could be the case

Most likely so!! Reason he left without saying goodbye, He knew she was deeply attached to him and couldn't look her in the eyes to say goodbye. It was easier for him to just disappear in thin air.

​@@Zaitoon55this is very possible. He was also likely already engaged or had a betrothed back home 😢

Well said 😆 I said the same thing. She was just somebody to sleep with while he was over there.

He didn't sleep with her, the woman is still a virgin​@@BRKS627

I agree with everything except her love not being real. She rejected other proposals for him. Her love has lasted decades

I went to India alone and got married to a man, then we found out that he couldn’t automatically get a visa to come to the United States. So we are stuck in India, four children and seven years later!

​​​@@ashleykindheartministriesthat beats his purpose lol coz he probably wanted to marry you for the citizenship and also for your color. Atleast you gave him one, so maybe your marriage will last.

@@ashleykindheartministries Are you happy?

@@suhazareer1950 Yes😊❤️ We are expecting our fifth soon.

or women

Or women

Amen

Very true men do promise things they can't keep!

With no communication at all and you wait

It’s just sad, poor woman

​@@lijohnyoutube101 Why sorry for her,she was delusional and didn't appreciate men who would love her .

@@lenkamuhammadova1463 because she deserved a better life.

​@@lenkamuhammadova1463 bcoz she was in love with only one man and stayed loyal for her whole life why would she see another man when she already has one man in her mind . Not everyone can have 4 partners and marry them altogether some are dedicated to only one whole life . Don't blame her u can't imagine the dept for her love . If she didn't choose any other man than how is supposed to appreciate another man for whom she don't have any feelings.

Are you an indian?

@@baishnavi3309 AND. What does that have to do with anything? 🤔

How do you know he didn't die in ww2? Unwise to jump to conclusions.

@@DontLikeCubes Nobody is jumping to conclusions. Whether or not this man passed away or just continued living his life. The fact is she never saw or heard from him again but hung on to the hope he would return to be with her. That is very naive. And not calling it for what it is, is also quite naive.

@@Seaotters.and.smiles Are you an indian?

Hahaha 😆 😂 😆

For real 🤞🏾

😂😂😂

Yes, it is hopefully someone watch this video knew about John and so Mariam Hussein is going to have a closure of what happen of his beloved John.

This I what happens when you choose the bear. You survive

I think spouses should love like this

Yes

This woman was just thirsty for a white man, I 100% believe seeing John made her less attracted to black men which is why she turned them down, and I believe even more that if another white man asked her out, she would have said yes & followed him to Europe, she was tranced by his colored 'sparkling' eyes & colored hair. John was never serious about her.

It was real and I was there…

Yes! and is so sad and annoying! This type of live is never reciprocated 😢ohhhhhh I wish to no body

or he may be killed at her village because he disappeared without a word.

Her life was not stress free. It was riddled with pain and worry. She brought this upon herself, and she is very stubborn. 😣 Part of the reason is because she wanted so much to be the special one who married a white man. She knew that she would never get that chance again... Do you know how rare that was in those days?

😂😂😂

😂😂😂

I agree! And she's still beautiful, and doesn't need any walking assistance. That's amazing ! I'm 45 , and started my celibate journey a few yrs ago, I do find myself looking better and younger since.

Objectively, the possibility of a woman developing uterine cance is higher if she never had children.

70's tbh

@@learnersguide13 okay then, 70s

Because she’s had not had…

You can’t be serious. She looks very old. At least over 85

+

😂👏

I think he died too

I think he was kidnapped and killed

@@nadiastar6264 Could be that some locals became envious of him...But he sounded too invested in the village, to just leave and never return.

​@@Dream_more_age_less The guy like lots of white men taking advantage of african women just left her behind

@@Dream_more_age_lessCIA does that when they are planted in Africa. Convinced the whole village. That’s how they operate

My mom told me when you cross 100 year age your teeth grow back n hairs turned black.. An example of woman in our neighbours

@@lilyvlogs214never heard that one before. Now I have to pay attention to the hair of those who reached 100

​@@FaithandNovathis😅

Being celibate childfree manfree does that

You have a point😐

Brad is her Gawd! He can spit on her and she would still bow and worship.

Black racist detected

😂😅🤣

But in that last life time relationship and marriage won't exist, but she made the best choice to remain single❤

I think they have found each other but in wrong time..hopefully they will find each other in another life time. The perfect song for Mariam is a Thousand Years. Hopefully, we can help Mariam her dream came true through writting a book about Mariam and his long lost lover. What do you think this idea?

In this digital Era, it's easy to trace anyone. Help her find him please.

To everyone is given only one life, and then there is God's judgment for how we lived while on this earth. Hopefully, he will know that she waited all of those years just for him. 😢

@@madamwakesho, help her find what became of him!

Exactly,

Stay faithful to God. That doesn't mean stay waiting for a man that's never coming back and forgot all about you. She lived her life waiting on a man.

So true

Amen to that

True

And good health. Health is wealth.

Absolutely

Yes very true, because is better for her, may God bless her

Crap!

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all!

I also noticed it. She has so pure spirit❤

Mariam and she is one of a million because she 's been waiting for a long lost lover. Her story you can a write a book or even a possible movie..anyway, anything is possible under the sun.

The GenZ is more faithful 😑💯

The women maybe, and you still have women like that

But she lost out in the end -

Yeah... He dissapeared suddenly 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

@@Lina-hj8bw 😆😆

But only John she truly desired. She is faithful.

Her hair is not even all grey

That’s because she didn’t deal with pookie

​@cheryl_ann938she looks younger than her real age.

I agree, she looks like 70-75 max

​@@lss4u💯 percent

@@lss4ubc she is 😂

What is the meaning of living for 103 years when you do not have your life partner with you? You don't have your children, you don't have that happiness. I believe that there are many sorrows that we get in married life, but the happiness that we get in the initial days is much more

You can love yourself ❤.

@@yakshitjay7192 You must be living somewhere outside of the West to think this way. I grew up in Asia and I used to think that way because of how the society is. Now, I am living in the US. No children and I think I am very happy. I don't plan to have any ever.

Ikr

​@@samanthak3353 But it appears the lady in the video very much wanted love and marriage. Unfortunately the love of her life never came back and she regretted waiting. I'm sure that left her heartbroken. But to live that long is a blessing. And she looks amazing for 103

She had the love of Almighty God to live so long.

There is no peace in living years with a yearning and broken heart.

​@jillanejames4590 very true. And she herself admits she has regrets too.

Not true. In her village, it is common for people to live as long as she has. She missed out on a lot!

Did we watch the same video?

She has regrets, she maybe regret for not being a mother , not having a family... 😢 My grandma died at 95 and she had 7 kids and a husband

I can approve 😅but in opposite side😂.

I have a feeling this guy got called to war and didn't make it

Who knows, he may have been killed suddenly? It's cynical to presuppose he just left her without cause.

💯

She could have dies if she had him. Relationship or marriage can kill You faster dealing with stress.

@@MLagarde0425This mentality is not good. There is nothing wrong with being married & having children. People need to stop marrying/having kids with the wrong person.

Baaad

I was thinking the same thing. 🤔

Maskin mariam 😂

Неправда!! Наверняка он подавал ей надежду!

But she did say that they spoke about their future together

Thank you for noticing this and yes it indeed makes sense. Why does the title say that she waited for her fiance? He never proposed. It's all focusing on her falling in love with him but nothing about him returning his feelings. Plus he left without an explanation nor saying goodbye. It doesn't even sound like they were even bf and gf either. She was in love with a fantasy.

The white man has changed many nations destiny ... unfortunately

@@dollhouseq1530 yes

🤡

Very true. He was prolly saying anything in hopes of sleeping with her. Poverty makes u delusional sometimes

​@@SasaSasa-wy9wuif he only wanted sex he could have tried someone else. He likely had to go back home to get married to his betrothed.

@@SasaSasa-wy9wu 100% she was delussional!

That's not a red flag his family was not going to accept her.

😂😂kina mariam sis sijui tumelogwaaa😂we are delusional sometimes

Что это за друг, который сбежал без объяснений??? Друзья так не поступают!!

Friends don't do that either. If they do then they were never friends.

Friend? Nah .. if he was just a friend she wouldn't have mentioned the culture of no sex before marriage.. which means that John definitely tried to push for more intimate actions between then but she had firm bounaries

​@@nickeni3050 why would that suggest that john wanted to push for more intimate actions? that doesn't make sense. he is the guy that she truly loves and wanted to stay a virgin for his sake and hoped that he would marry her, after he left she wanted to keep her virginity for HIM. meaning she wanted him to be her first time and not some any other tanzanian man... If John possible pushed for more intimate actions, which I don't really believe because he's a white european man who grew up in the early 20th century or even the very late 19th century. a white person being with a black person was heavily rejected by society and was considered very taboo and scandalous, so I don't think he would really push for more intimacy considering the era and the environment he was born in, miscegenation/interracial was a no-no. But if he did really push for intimacy mariam would either 1. Decline and avoid him because of his actions or dialogue that suggest that he wants to have s*x with her out of fear of public shame and humiliation from her culture and her people 2. Accept because she is madly in love with him as she expressed in the video and would allow him be her first time. 3. Say that he has marry her before they have s*x which I don't know..... I don't think that she asked him or told him to marry her, I think she just expected it to happen. Mariam thinks that John truly loves her and would come back one day which is just... delusional... I'm sorry but I think john thought of her as just a friend or a person to hang-out with during his stay in tanzania and you know... she just caught feelings... I don't think he romantically loved her as she's trying to make it out to be, it's just delusion in my opinion.

Why do you question if it's true? 😮 Wow! Looking young is common for people of African descent.

@debbieanne7962 dark skin(melanin)helps protect skin from wrinkles. She does have grey hair, and I'm convinced earing organic food csn prevent s lot of inflammation on thr body(arthritis) and that helps mobility, as well as eyesight and everything else. We die earlier in modern countries bc of thr horrible food and lifestyle

she lived a 103 stress-free life, no husband, no kids, no boss, no junk food.

No wrinkles or grey hair??? Are you blind 😂

There are other people with 100 years plus and still kicking

That's what crossed my mind

😂😂😂😂😂

😅😅😅😅

Exactly 💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

True💯

So true , so true!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

Same…. She deserved so much more. .. what a beautiful wife, mother, g’ma she could’ve been

Atleast she met her soulmate. Better than marrying another persons soulmate and living a hellish life as many do.

@@terryray3147That’s is correct.

​@@terryray3147oooh weee

Me too this made me really sad. She deserves so much more than this. How beautiful soul she has...😢

Nah it's been here. You may want to read ancient texts. There was a woman asking for help because her new husband abandoned her in a foreign city. Apparently that was common in that very city

Most likely...

К какой любви?? Этот человек любить не способен, раз так легко бросил девушку, с которой у него был роман!

​@@Ellie_BathoryYou don't know that. He could have died in WW2