When I got disappointed with relationships, I went back to school and added value to myself.

You don't ask God for a white husband you ask him for a good God-fearing husband who's gonna be a great father to your kids a great provider who's gonna love and respect them and stay by their side through everything.

No one deserves to be abused. I hope Betty is doing well she uses humor to help deal with the abuse. She was naive but brave and brutally honest.

She is so brave and transparent. Most people are judgemental but she was naive. It happens to so many others. She is so brave to speak up even though people will shame her. I am happy she is strong, a survivor, and great personality. She is very admirable in my book. Sharing her story can help so many young women.

i am a white men from the Netherland and my wife is from Afrika we together for 17 years and everyday i treath her like a queen, she is my wife for life, her family is always welcome, sometimes her family stay for 6 month in our hous and thats fine by me. if we go to afrika her whole famlily threat us so good, we can stay as long if we want. i am a bless men

Bad marriage can kill you but being single won't kill you 🙏

It wasn’t BECAUSE he was white it was because she prayed for a color and not character God is not a shallow God. She definitely answered her own prayer.

Never " need" a man..never want somebody to take care of you..never be afraid to leave. You still refer to him as your husband..that's a red flag and a sign that your open to taking him back..cut the ties

The devil answered NOT God, God does not add sorrow to his blessings. May God heal you and your children 🙏

It wasn't God that answered your prayers, you answered your own prayers.

It is all about her. When she was depressed from being alone in Russia, she felt she needed change that the man answered by going back to Kenya with her. Then the exact same thing happened to her man who was resorting to drinking as a coping mechanism. Her answer was different in a wrong way. None of them is to blame in this case. They need to see a therapist to understand their early childhood upbringings that shaped their current behavior. Otherwise blaming this and that is not going to help at all but it will take things from bad to worse.

When she said even the chickens were stealing that took me out lol. I love her personality in the face of adversity

I don't know why women think been single is a crime not every marriage is from God almighty

She has a great sense of humor and personality. The greater the storm. The brighter the rainbow!

Betty you are a very beautiful strong woman. I admire your courage to open up and be vulnerable. Many blessings ❤

That Russian man married an uneducated village girl who was very naive... She said he was a doctor? This was not a marriage from God... This was a marriage from hell. She was very ambitious looking for a white man to give her everything and she keeps saying she wants a husband to take care of her over and over again. Your husband is not your father and you can't be so naive to believe life is a fairytale and you'll be treated like a queen because life has struggles. He should have rather left her instead of drinking. Him abusing her is unforgiveable but she is not innocent either. She's not a victim because even after he beat her, she didn't leave and she got pregnant again. They were both toxic people. I wish I could hear his side of the story. I do feel sorry for him and I don't think he was a bad man. I think he went mad in Kenya and it was because of this woman. So it's a lesson for all of us to stay away from toxic people and leave toxic relationships. Never marry anyone who sees you as an opportunity and never stay with an abuser.

I don't know who needs to hear this, what you've passed or passing through can't be compared with the joy that awaits you. Soon your story will change forever for good❤❤❤

I had a alcoholic husband as well I moved to America and he started to drink more and I saw that he started drinking more I separated from him and a few years later I divorced him. I worked 2 jobs and raised 4 kids and bought a house which is paid in full and retired now and thank God for everything he had done for me. We African women are very strong some don't realize it. I came from Africa as well. Thank you Lord Jesus 🙏 💓

I don't get this story for one second. You lived well in Russia and he provided for you. How did you expect him to provide for the family when that's not his village or language? You could have tried your best to adjust to life in Russia or plan more vacations for your home sickness. Just as you were depressed, he was depressed

No, my sister. God will never give you an abusive husband. It was not God. I pray you heal from whatever happened to you, but don't blame God, its not His fault.

Why do women think getting a white man is the right thing? There’s bad in every race, but when we pray, because we want it so bad we immediately think God answered our prayer when the first person comes along, the red flag was when he offered money for sex, instantly she should have left because that man was not sent by God, my heart goes out to the children that God will not only heal their hearts but the mother as well. We as women must learn to wait on God and be able to identify when and if it’s God🙏🏽

Ladies!!! Let's not be in a Rush getting into Marriage instead Pray wholeheartedly, God's a good listener & he answers Prayers.

I really like the interviewer, it's the second interview I see of him and he seems so interested and full off compassion.

She is an honest girl and a good story teller. I love her energy. Im from Uganda. You girl God will see you through oo

I thank God for answered prayers and the unanswered prayers too. If God doesn’t answer a prayer, be glad about that too. He knows what you don’t know.

There are some people in comments who are very Judgemental, I appreciate her for taking the time to tell her story most people wouldn't..Instead of Judging lets learn something

We woman sometimes are ungrateful I think this lady is changing because there are no financial benefits 😢, for the fact that he left his country it means he loves her

I'm so sorry for you my sister 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂you're strong you'll heal the biggest step you've taken is to admit you made a mistake from that admission you have paved your healing road❤❤❤

The sad thing about it is that Betty depends on a man to provide but God is your provider. She will fall for the next individual quickly that comes into her life and I pray she considers those 2 little girls,,, you can’t just let any man into your space now!!!

When God sends you someone to share your life with, He doesn't send you a broken person for you to fix.

It's not the color of the skin or religion that defines a person, it is their free will to make the best choices in life.

What a life story! Alcohol is poison and addictive! Alcohol is terrible! 😥 Your husband needs to stay 100% away from alcohol, from people who drink and places which have alcohol! Your husband has to be honest to himself and he has and needs to make the decision either to have his children happy and proud of him or to die miserably! Continue to be strong and don’t let your husband come back unless he changed and has not drunk alcohol for 3 years-100% ! You are awesome!

The best prayer as a woman is to pray for a God fearing man. Not by color, tribe,etc... just a God fearing Man.

Alcohol always destroys family always.

I believe in God and I'm celibate until marriage. I will wait until God sends my husband to me.

It was not GOD that answered your prayers my dear, The blessing of GOD add no sorrow. Every good and perfect gift comes from GOD.

All young men and women please ask God for a godly partner that fill with peace, joy, love and understanding. Never ask God for a color partner.

May God bless her and her children. Thats so brave of her to share her story. I pray she may find peace and happiness in life. We've learnt alot

Been with a white man for 18 yrs with 3 kids. We moved back to my country but we had a big plan before doing it and he is thriving and successful here. I asked God for a God fearing , good husband and father and He sent him in a lighter skinned 😊

I like the way Afrimax is keenly listening with all the gestures. Sometimes you really just want to be listened to as you pour away all the pain. It's a therapy.

That lady didn't know what she wanted in a man. She has seen international relationships and created a scenario in her head. So when she asked for a white man as her husband, the devil sent exactly what she wanted. He was once the angel of light after all

I really love the brevity and frankness possessed by Betty, you deserve better mama. You are strong and I have learnt a lot from your story, as a young man I have known the things to avoid when marriage time comes.😊😊

What a tragedy. It's so sad that two people who loved each other fell apart in such away. Its not a matter of colour, it's communication. Im sorry for your loss. You are an amazing person Betty.

He really loved you, to leave everything behind and start fresh in Kenya. I think he became depressed when he came to Kenya, just the way you got depressed in Moscow. I pray God strengthens you both.

You weren't specific about your prayer. You just prayed for a white man. You got a white man. You didn't ask for a kind, thoughtful, loving person, someone who would treat you with respect. Your prayer was granted as you requested.

What a story! A few lessons for all of us! Thank you for sharing.

God bless you sir for your ears and eyes! 🙏😁 You did a wonderful job with this interview. She has a very strong telling story

I am a "mzungu," and I have no idea why some people think that it's better to marry a mzungu. We are definitely not all rich, and wazungu have problems too! We are all human beings!

I wish people would show compassion and grace with their comments. She admits she made mistakes and at that point she wanted her marriage to work, but it wasn’t with the right person. Betty, you’re a strong woman and I pray you find the peace you seek. May God be with you and give you wisdom to make better choices for yourself and your daughters. We are all allowed to make mistakes in life because there’s always a lesson in it. The interviewer was so graceful to allow her to share her story without interruption. Your next chance is coming up and I pray it’ll be one of peace and joy! All is well Betty!

Thank you for sharing your story Betty ❤❤.. I hope our young African girls learn from your experience and learn how to identify red flags. You are very beautiful 💕.

This is a very touching story,its sad when what we think we need is what the enemies use to deceive,a wrong marriage is something that is hard to be undone due to the intricate nature of life, God bless her heart,she's a woman who has true love and is seeking betterment of her life, God bless you dear❤

From her stories, you can tell that her Russian husband started suffering from depression in Kenya. People handle depression differently.

Just ask God to send you a good partner doesn’t matter what colour they are.

The problem started when she insisted that they relocate back to Kenya, forgetting that Russia is the man's place of comfort too. He is good man affected by change of environment

Such a strong woman!!!! I pray that the Lord will heal you and provide for you !!!!

Life abroad can be very lonely. Even in English speaking countries like UK, you can still feel alone as people keep to themselves

My advice to you is to go to school even trade school. Never depend on a man for your survival and that should be the lesson learned.

Thank you for sharing your story❤ God be with you and I pray you get help, peace and love that surpasses human understanding ❤

You are a strong woman and sound very genuine and honest,interracial relationships are not so easy,you have to make lots of sacrifices and compromises, now this is my take on this issue,this husband in question made so many sacrifices from the beginning,he didn't care that you had bn with his friend for three days,he fell in love with you and kept his word came back for you,looked after you while sick,came back again and married you,relocated to Kenya just for you, 1) you should have waited abit in Russia just to secure your citizenship even for the sake of your kids, today you would have bn able to return and work to sustain the family 2) yes his friend may have contributed to the drinking but staying in Russia would have bn better for him, coming from Russia to start a business in Kenya,in the village for a white man is not easy, and that also contributed to the drinking 3) this man has given up completely on life,pls he needs first to go to rehab for the alcohol addition, second return back to his country to work and do something with his life to be able to look after his kids,pls don't regret the marriage,I feel there is still love between you two,just retrace your steps to where you both missed it

From this story I have learned a lesson. Pray for a God fearing man 🙏🏽

Very beautiful story telling. Exactly what I tell people on my channel. Interracial marriages are very complex and are not always a bed of roses. To Betty, thanks for sharing your story. I hope it empowers someone out there who is desperate and thinks a white man is the only way forward. God bless you and your little beautiful girls. Love from Germany 🇩🇪

"I just fell right into his arms" . This line made my morning 😂. Thank you for sharing. I wish you well with your family

I pray she gets the help she needs and her life gets better….God bless you sweet woman!

Been with my white man for 25 years and we are still in love. We had some hurdles along the way, but we always worked them out. There is something deeper going on here, please be strong

She is very brave to tell her story. Everyone has a different story to tell about their lives. Let’s learn to respect one another’s life journey!!! My life is very brutal & dramatic, I cannot dare to tell , I have black out lots of my trauma. I real respect her vulnerability & openness of telling her traumatic story !!! Sending you strength & love sister ❤️

Yes sister I agree let's listen and learn from her bravery to even share her story. I was a guest of the masai tribe when I was in Kenya. I was truly moved by them and their confidence and resilience.

You are a strong, brave and patient woman.. Sometimes we don't get what we ask for.. You are beautiful and your kids are beautiful.. Be stronger as you are a strong woman, surely life will change for you to the better in God's name.

She is a very strong and patient woman.She deserves nothing but the best.

Empathy and self-awareness is something we should all pray for 😑

Thank you for sharing your story. There is a great sense if honesty in your description. Tell your story. Dont mind the fortunate souls in the comment section, with all the right answers. You are beautiful.

I love her sense of humor, she’s beautiful and she has a testimony

You meet someone one day and move in for 3days with a stranger, its not good just to throw yourself on a man.

Be careful for what you wish for

Hello, Betty. I remember your family from your husband's channel "My African Wife".I feel very sorry for you. Not every Russian man are alcoholic, and an alcoholic person can be of any race. I hope you meet a good man. God bless you and your kids.

Hi betty i just watched ur full story which touched the bottom of my heart ,,it was actually a very beautiful story to hear from the beginning .....i wish it could end beautifully but its life ....sometimes things change in life and Pp change too ....but ur such a strong mom ....may u always b .....and u have this two beautiful daughters 😘 To take care of ....i hop that one day one time ur husband get the help that he needs and change and may u b reunited again forever....so this two daughters can grow up with the love of u both ...💕 otherwise if not may u get someone nice and faithful who will love u and take care of u ...and bring u happiness into ur life again 🥰and may u forget all ur tuff times u went through and suffers ......am a muslim mom i have lived in kenya b4 with my family am married to a white guy too and i can tell u that in every place in this world we have good and bad pp ....but if ur a Muslim u will get to know that this life no matter what we go through in this life its only a test for us from god ....and when u feel all a lone in this world and there's nobody to count ur tears ,just remember no matter where ur Allah knows ....and only him is the one who never tires of His servants asking Him, And Allah says in his holy book Of quran Surah az-Zumar 53. Say, “O My servants who have transgressed against their souls: do not despair of Allah’s mercy, for Allah forgives all sins. He is the Forgiving, the Merciful.” The Authority Of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said : "Our Lord (glorified and exalted be He) descends each night to the earth's sky when there remains the final third of the night, and He says: Who is saying a prayer to Me that I may answer it? Who is asking something of Me that I may give it him? Who is asking forgiveness of Me that I may forgive him?" Reporters. It was related by al-Bukhari (also by Muslim, Malik, at-Tirmidhi and Abu Dawud). ....................................... And Allah says in his holy book Of quran Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease. Verily, with the hardship, there is relief (i.e. there is one hardship with two reliefs, so one hardship cannot overcome two reliefs). So MY WISH AND HOP FOR U IS u to become A MUSLIM And to get to know more why God created us in this life ....and why sometimes we go through difficulties in life ...why is all that and how we should deal with all that in islam. The true way of life and the solution to every Matter and every calamity that befalls us . And u will find peace and light in islam and solutions for all ur problems in this world life . And i hop if one day u will b a Muslim that God bless u with a good Muslim husband who will show u THE TRUE LOVE in islam ....and b a good dad to ur kids . I will like to share this beautiful words from our prophet Muhammad that talks about husband.... The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The best of you are those who are best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.” Narrated Allah says in his holy quran ((Treat them [women] with kindness The words “Treat them [women] with kindness” [an-Nisaa’ 4:19] mean: speak nicely to them, treat them kindly, make yourself look good for them as much as you can, just as you would like them to do for you. So treat (your wife) as you would like to be treated. Allah, may He be exalted. And He says too ....No calamity befalls (one), but with the leave of Allah. And whoever believes in Allah, He guides his heart. Allah is All-Knowing about every thing. No misfortune 1 ever befalls unless it be by Allah's leave. And always remember dear betty Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease. I hop i could help u more ....but i can only DO whatever i can ....i have Muslims Russians friends who r married to Russians men .....and ur story reminded me of many stories of my own friends who suffered from this kinds of life some of them not all of them ....coz i have lived in Kenya, france ,yemen and now am in mauritania ..... Wish u all the best ....💕Sarah...from mauritania🥰

People would make up anything to get publicity especially for their channels like this woman.

The owner of the shoes knows where it hurts. Do not judge this lady. Life happens but God is truly faithful ❤

dear sister. that man loved you ...he left everything he had in Russia because of you and had to start from scratch in kenya - this was not easy. just as it was not easy for you in Russia. May the Lord heal both of you. Love and prayers.

Betty stay firm God is always there in whatever situation you go into

Fight for him Bety,pray God for your husband please💪

When the person you love wants to leave, please allow them to go and if they are meant for you they will surely come back. Than ending in blood shade.

God's answers never back fire....when you pray ask for confirmation from God❤

Sorry to hear that you went through this❤. I shared my story of my marriage from hell with a German man on my channel. Not all marriages work out as we wish but may God be with you and your children.

I am from Uganda, my sister thank you so much for a story, however nothing else, but only God is your maker "Jeremiah 1:4" says he new you before you're formed in your mother's womb, therefore get saved God will do more than man can for you. Thank u

Most of us experience,heart break... pick up the pieces and move on.

That stomachache was a sign that she met a devil/narcissist but she didn't listen to her intuition your body reacts when you meet a bad person 😢

I am sorry for her baby boy. She's a strong woman

Presenter has strange facial expressions. I dont know why he was smiling the whole entire time

I'm a woman my advice to other ladies who are married far away from Kenya please just bare and be patient be understanding if your man loves you if he privide for you and kids than telling you wanna go back to Kenya and you don't have job. Bora mtu akupigi. This lady did a very big mistake by allowing her husband to sell everything in Moscow knowing he cannot get job in Kenya to rise his family. Sometimes ladies just see the consequences too it was better to stay in Moscow getting everything despite the boring you can watch tv or something keeping you busy since every time you go to your country for vacation with your husband and kids

He was actually a good man. You can see that he was very determined to keep his family together. He was just frustrated. The village is no place for foreigners, especially men. They need a place where they can work and meet people who relates to them. She was equally miserable in Russia but she had a baby and a house to keep her busy. She still almost went crazy. That situation could have been managed with better understanding.

She's quite eloquent for a secondary school drop out.

Beautiful kids Betty that Sasha gave you 2 Beautiful reasons to smile forget the rest just focus on those 2 pretty things he brought in your life such pure treasures ❤❤

Betty has a heart of Gold,she just need some help to push along and break the cycle of dependence, she and her girls will make it, May God provide her with what she needs

Beautiful vlog oh Gugu your topic touched me. Turned 45 and married still no kids , but will never give up on having kids. Thanks Gugu❤❤❤❤

My dear you have two amazing babies give God thanks. I believe you can see the positive side of the union and embrace it with grace.

Thank you for sharing your journey in life that other girls to think too wise 🥰

she already saw a red flag and she assumed it was not going to work

Life is not a bed of roses. You take the thorns with the flowers. Perfection does not exist. Beware what you pray for

Doesn't matter which skin colour your partner is .... Ask God to give you a loving and kind partner.

You go, girl, you are not the only one having these trials. You have the mettle to keep going and two beautiful girls to care for. I see you still love your husband, but you need to love yourself enough not to invite trouble back into your life. Keep forging ahead.