Im glad that Miss XO has seen the light and is on her spiritual journey. ❤ She’s already been forgiven and heaven rejoices when one soul repents, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t face the consequences of our actions…

I would like to thank you, Owam, for saving from a dark path. I was heading when i was about to date a married man just when the Mihlali and Leroy scandal was a hot topic. I was jumping on the train that everyone is doing it so why not .keep talking the truth. Hopefully, more women will be called back to the reality of things . I stopped the scarcity mentality and honestly I would rather die alone than settle for such.

Miss XO is fixing her ways and growing spiritually. I'm so happy for her and I know a lot of people are learning and growing from her beautiful journey. I know God is going to bless her.

Don’t date married men . Never have but everything she said was very relatable to me as a single 35 year old childless woman.

Dating a married man is like being a second class citizen. always beneath the wife and there nothing high value about dating a married man with money

I wish people followed Miss X Os journey instead of just commenting on just that one video. She has been gradually exposing and changing her live. From how she used to dress etc.. Unlike all the other influencers who wouldn’t even dare to be as open and transparent as she is right now; I trust she is already in the right path. Gods love is for us ALL and we first have to confess, REPENT and ask for forgiveness. She knows. And she said she’s the one giving us her TRUTH… more stories about her past will be coming out. I’m praying for her. And I believe through her; we will see God. Most specially people who are her audience and believed that her life before Christ was right.. through her testimony I believe a lot of lives will be changed. God is using her and she did say that she’s still a baby in Christ. It’s all for the glory of God guys.. a TESTIMONY.

I feel sorry for women who can't be alone. In this Era mtase u must learn to be alone yoh.....😂

The commentary is so real. Those who have ears will hear.

God bless you Owamie for speaking on this topic. Im not married but im also totally against dating married men. I go to extreme lengths to find out information about a man even when they lie to me. Before i engage i investigate. It's actually very easy to find out if a man is married. As someone that watched my mother cry i wouldn't want that to happen to someone else.

Miss XO is saving young girls lives I applaud her honesty 🎉

You didn’t lie. The truth. The psychological damage is real and will leave you with long lasting esteem issues

NO "high value woman" dates married men shem😂. Miss Xoxo needs to revisit that label that's been going around the internet. High value also means having integrity, self respect, elegance, discipline and class. You can't be all that if you're settling to be 2nd best. And also she's probably crying now about getting a new man because most of the single men who are worth a damn don't want her. No man of value wants a woman who's been run through by married men. I have to say it like it is out there. They'll say"Shes for the streets" like Owamie said. She thought he was gonna leave his wife for her. But most married men don't leave their wives for sidechics. It's quite rare. Then she looks for a pity party from the so called Sisterhood of today that doesn't hold other women accountable for their actions. Anyways in her case, she learnt a lesson and I hope she's telling the truth about walking away from that part of her life. A few said there's no sound but mine is good though.

Miss XO is screaming desperation and that's dangerous because she'll invite bad men her way just to eat her up and leave.

Always wait for a good man that’s meant for you. Pray, meditate, do Yoga. Whatever it is you believe in. Most importantly don’t be ugly to other women. That stuff always comes back to haunt you.

The delusion of thinking you can do whatever you want, step on whoever, not care about another human being but not get repurcussions is crazy! Social media, money, beauty, fame whatever, will never protect you from your consequences, and the Universe also knows if you are being genuine and taking accountability or you're still stubborn... If you continue being in your Ego, you will continue being spanked until Uqolise

God renews and restores. I’m very much proud of her growth. She’s forgiven

Xo used to mock Sa men for being broke,made fun of ShopRite workers and giggled online😢said she only dates Nigerian men.What I’m getting to guys u gotta thread lightly in this life,now the tables hv turned she’s receiving the same energy she’s giving out it’s painful.Lets learn to be kind n watch what we say the universe listens.Karma is real🤞the first person I thought off when she started sobbing was Owamie coz she called out this behavior n people thought she was jealous

What I can tell Miss XO is that God loves her and if she is truly and fully repentant, God will forgive her and restore her. I have seen ladies like her being placed in a very loving successful marriage. I know so many of them. Actually when God does it, most people who believe they do not deserve it really despise them and try to discredit them. I can assure you that God is sovereign and he cannot be manipulated. He chooses whom to bless and no one can revoke that blessing. A good example in the bible of which most of us would consider the worst case scenario is the story of Rahab. Rahab in the bible was a prostitute. Joshua chapter 6. In chapter 6: 22, the Berean version of the bible says " Meanwhile, Joshua told the two men who had spied out the land, “Go into the house of the prostitute and bring out the woman and all who are with her, just as you promised her.” Please note: I am not calling Miss XO any names. I am just illustrating with a verse. From Joshua 6:22, you realize inside every prostitute, there is a woman. Rahab ended up marrying a very godly man irrespective of her background and she birthed a child who is in the lineage of Jesus. So, to all out there who think they have fallen so far and do not deserve the blessing of God, I would like to assure you that God loves you, you simply need to repent and walk with God daily. God will surprise you. He gives grace to the humble.

I understand it's karma and everything but she's going through what the rest of us self respecting single women go through,it happens because today's dating pool is different so it's okay to be single for a long time before you get someone great for you. Maybe she went into this expecting the same treatment that the married guys gave her kanti this time it's different and she needs to chill ngeke

I think she is trying to change ❤❤ love and light to her...❤

Relationships are difficult mntakabawo whether you dated a married man or not. The streets are cold, let's stop judging each other. For crying out loud she's now at her lowest and crying but still we are kicking her why?

MARRIED ARE UNAVAILABLE IN EVERY SENSE AND WAY!!

You are spitting facts Queen Ninja ❤ I dated a married man for 5 years and I had 3 kids with him. Life was good, guy used to sleep over almoat everyday, we'd go away on trips, spoils etc. Never had any altercation with the wife, not even once. However when I tell you that my kids died, they died like flies. I got a reality check right there and that is when I left. I knew I was next. I don't even know if she did witchcraft or if it was karma or her tears or God's will. I don't even want to know. I am happy now, with a man that is all mine 😂 We live together and all and after getting married will be trying for children again.

Not Owamie coming out with the red bandana 🤣🤣🤣 Xoli has stressed my girl out 😭😭

One thing about a married man, he will waste your time, the years you wasted with him you could've found a man for yourself. Even if that man is in an open marriage, fact is he won't marry you, so he gains extra marital relationships while you waste your time away. I won't judge Miss XO coz no one is perfect, she didn't know then what she knows now, it's called growing and learning and somehow, Karma. I just hope young impressionable girls quickly learn and save themselves because we cannot keep singing the same song, the results are always the same. When it comes to a married man, You are not an exception, you are not special, even if he leaves the wife, why would you be comfortable gaining a man who's character contains cheating???

Lets leave married men in 2023 please guys.

Weeeeh imagine when she finally gets the man and the kids she is been training on how to date people's husband then start practicing with hers😂😂😂😂I can't wait🙉

The part that got me was the “I want to come back home to a house full of kids”/“I want more kids” sana be soooo ffr because you TOTALLY have a child that you’ve worked OVERTIME to keep far away from you ?!?!? Come on … that’s like a slap in the face hleng SMDH !!

I won't laugh at her because I am woman. But seeing that vid of her with Mihlali. I will say yasog. The women you hurt allowed God to fight for them. Now look at you

Out of all the official languages you decided to tell the truth❤

You are sooo right shbooboo 🎉 everything you said is true.

Yoooh Owamie you’re spitting facts 😫

You've spoken a mouthful on this video ❤

In the words of Nene Leakes, close your legs to married man!! 🤣

💯If one's actions cause harm to others, the consequences are inevitable. The timing, location, and manner of these consequences are unknown. Karma is not just a concept, but an undeniable force that will make you a believer, whether you like it or not.

I've been waiting for this video since yesterday.

“ i had one open relationship with a married man, they both know about it” Miss XO i think this is what she said loud and clear if am not mistaken.

I understand she’s turned her ways and she’s on a spiritual journey now but like you said karma is real, just because you’re a child of God now doesn’t mean that you will not be accountable for the decisions that you have made. It’s great that she’s building a Godly life now but things will not change at a snap of a finger, even people who have walked with God and have done the right thing all their life still go through hardships and don’t always get what they want, she must join the line now and wait her turn. I hope she doesn’t lose faith and go back to her old ways cause that life does not pay.

Yoh I did this and I got burnt shuu. I would never recommend this to anyone. Looking back now I would rather be lonely than do that again. When you go into a relationship with a married man you are walking into heartbreak knowingly Sana and you will take the fall for it. The shame and embarrassment when it is put in your face uba he is not your man yooh. Uzoba right yena ms xo, she must grow up

I knew Owamie would be on this 😂😂

Hello sis greeting from Norway and i love ur Chanel 🇳🇴❤️

and then if he divorces, he will still not even make you the 🤣🤣🤣main chick, imagine being the side to new girlfriends 😔😔😔

This is true, i dated a married man and 2 months was enough. I'll never again😂

Thanx for giving us the advice. What u a saying is true. God gave u the gift of advicing people thanx for that God bless you.

😂😂😂 owamie i love you xem. You spoke nothing but the truth shibooboo.

Owami❤❤ spitting facts , yoh I am so worried about these kids, who are growing up thinking money, flowers and a few meals are life. They created a lot of mini’s and those mini’s are creating their own. It’s so sad

This is so true I know someone in the same situation and the wife always comes first she always gets canceled most of the times

Owamie ❤ here are your flowers 🌺 thank you for always being truthful 🙌✨

I am young and I love listening to older women as they are more experienced than me. I will never think older women are jealous when they warn about anything🤍

South African men are now good enough wow

Y'all give marriage too much credit! Miss XO did not break the vows!These men don't marry bcz they love , they secure the bag or bcz there is a child. Married women also cheat. There is marriage and a bible and then there is life and it's realities.

I had this conversation with my mom that im intentionally staying away from married men because you dont know if that wife is a prayer warrior or voodoo queen (either one is trouble). Im not afraid of men ...im scared of the wife because you never know next thing you can't keep a relationship, miscarriages, spiritual STDs yyyyeeeeyiii💯💯🔥🔥🔥 but im glad she's seeing the error of her ways now. Wish her healing and all the best.

Sadly some married men would rather let the wife and kids starve at home just for a sidechic to have a comfortable life.

"branded a jollofina"😩😭 Owamie khuzeka!!!

Bathong some of these married men lie a lot, they'll make empty promises saying they r not or they'll say they r due to divorce their wives and currently sleep in separate bedrooms. Whereas it's all lies. Overall especially amadoda ashadile lie a lot about their live🫣🤔. You r lucky if unguma khwspheni and you r told the truth😊

Owami is not following miss Xo yet she knows soooo much about her...

😅I was waiting patiently for you to talk about this😂

everyone has a path to go through she will be fine ......Self love journey in the making

Girl keep preaching❤

Lol karma allocated her address so fast. Where is her friend mimi

Straight talk breaks no FRIENDSHIP i love u for that👏👏👏

We all fall short of God's standard for our lives. And sometimes we have the misfortuneof having our sin being public. But when we repent and truly ask God for forgiveness, we are given the gift. It is not our perfection but God's grace. That we have the gift of Jesus who gives us a new life, forgiveness and redemption. Her journey is with God, not with us. We should encourage and pray for her and encourage her. Not remind her of of shortfalls. And this is not to condone but to say you are never too far gone for Christ.

How did I know you will cover this when I was watching it....eish kuthwa iinyembezi zomfazi(married woman)aziweli phantsi but she is changed may God bless her with the marriage she wants

I love that you love Nicki😂❤️

Let’s leave the judgement to God. As human beings we all make mistakes and learn from them. Miss XO is trying to charge for a better person let’s support her instead being this harsh to her. Love you both ❤.

You are right about true repentance.

😂 welele... I'm not siding with anyone or giving any opinion. All I'm saying is UMHLABA UYAHLABA😭 Kunjalo nje. I'm not judging anyone and I've been on both sides of the coin. I probably need therapy for this but me i checked out emotionally long time ago and some how i found my peace. All love and strength to all lovers and Lovers of love❤

Yes your own is what you need for so many reasons in life. Buzani kuthi kudala siphila kulo mhlaba kunzima ngane zamii....

You need to pour a drink and take time to watch the video because uyabheda bar what are you saying. 😂😂😂God told her not to date Nigerians???? Does that even make sense? Just watch the video because she didn’t even say that

So Miss XO will 'fix her ways' and expects to get a good husband... What's to stop her husband from dating someone like the old her while married to the new her? 🤔🤔🤔 Not that it's wrong that she's growing. Good for her.

Your videos are always blinded by your own hurt. When it was your friend Simz who was cheating on her husband as a married woman it was ok. Colu has t dated married men specifically. She only ever spoke about One man now you are here saying she’s always dating married men 😮 You need to heal and don’t be bias and report based on emotions. She is always dating single men now because of that one man you want to crucify her and make it look like she made a career out of dating married men? Was it her brand? Owami when you are wrong you need to admit it and stop deleting my comments. You are not God you can’t say she’s single now because she dated married men. How do you know why she’s single? Many women have dated married men but they are married now. You don’t get to decide peoples karma and the video was not even about that. She said she’s selective about the me she allows in her life now. She can’t entertain every single man that approaches her. 🙄🙄🙄

Thanks girl for telling us the bad side of dating married man,it is really depressing

P.S we will not condone nonsense, when us in our 30's and 40's speak they say we are crazy or that we don't know what we are talking about. I will keep saying that the curse you carry once you sleep with a married man can destroy your life. These young women of today do not understand that what they do affects so many lives and God has seen the tears of those you hurt. It was all boldness when they stated they are with married men, now it ended in tears. Anyway we are all children of God, I just hope she has repented to change her life.

I love Owamie please ❤😂😂 nothing but the truth and she stands for the truth 😅you say it like it is ,Ms fear fokol

Well said Owamie❤

I love sis Owamie she says it like it is,🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌i wish i had an older sister like her.❤ The truth is never wanted-)Owamie

aish Owamie wayibeka kahle

Justice will always be served to the wives no more fighting

Owami I think you are wrong for your video heading. One thing about Xoli she was transparent from the beginning. She also mentioned that the wife knew about her since they had a open marriage. Since Jackie is your friend I'm sure you read her books where they speak on these things that the wives knows about the girls and this lifestyle. Therefore I don't think you should be judging her past since we all have a past. She is in her 20ties finding her way and making better decisions for her life. Pray for her and maybe try making videos which builds up young women instead of breaking them down especially when they trying to learn and grow from their mistakes. Not knocking your hustle but be mindful as well. Love an light unto you ninja 🙏

But guys everyone goes through heartbreak...sidechick or not you guys just hate sidechicks so much and want karma to hit them so much, news flash bad people thrive everyday guys thats just life

May you all go through the most mentally 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Owamie😂😂😂

"Don't burn your arm "😂😂😂😂

If she dated married men she was wrong yes and I’d say she didn’t know any better, but as we grow our mentality changes so as she’s ,can we now stop crucifying her and learn from her mistakes there’s a time in the bible where god said “if anyone of u is sinless go ahead and throw stones “let’s learn from her mistakes and wish her well judgement is for god only Respectfully

I'm parked here for this conversation ❤ so relevant

Ninja Signing in But guys she has been saying that the married man she was dating was in an open marriage, the wife knew about her and the wife had her own person on the side.

Yes god loves her n its good that she is closer to god but she wont get sympathy from me because she was the reason for some other women's tears.

Those women pray and the worse is coming for her, you can't date a married man, and and make a joke about that the worse is still to come for her kuse early.

I love you for this

100% on the nail. Yousaid this perfectly. Let the wise use their ears to listen and learn. All things are spiritual. What you sow you will reap

WELL SAID!

Not the Nicki Minaj verse 😂😂😂😂

you're spot on Darling🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ninja checking in ❤

I hope you are enjoying your holidays

Hmk, sad truth Owamie

Yoh iqiniso elingaka🙌

The commentary ❤❤

If ladies that were dating married stop that life to join us, they better be prepared to wait in life coz yoh 😩 the queue is long

Ma'am... they shall see in front 😆

Is Mihlali still with Leeroy? 🙈🤔🤔