Aging in Perspective 🥹

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Ай бұрын

Time never stops moving forward and aging is an absolute, but growing old doesn't mean the person you were when you were young is no longer there 🥹
🎶 Original score by the oldest McFarland brother, Mitch McFarland 🎶
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@isaactaher9396 Ай бұрын

When you expect a dad joke but end up feeling the feels 😭

@gabrycast5395 Ай бұрын

that's what makes you more emotional, you don't have the expectation of a skit that's sad or bad

@gabrycast5395 Ай бұрын

and that's why i have to clean my eyes too 😢

@warweasel2832 Ай бұрын

When you beat your dad at a sport/game and he says “Yep, your old man is slowing down.”

@husseinsalih6952 Ай бұрын

Oh man @@warweasel2832

@dyjital Ай бұрын

No shit.

@PrestonDavidson Ай бұрын

The detail of having the old man in the reflection is top notch

@SanHydronoid Ай бұрын

Damn thanks for pointing out

@girayhankaya Ай бұрын

Didnt figure it out, thx

@YRO. Ай бұрын

Also the hand that picked the coin

@rorydakin8048 Ай бұрын

Twice! It's easy to miss but after he picks up the coin his reflection in the glass is of the old man.

@eily_b Ай бұрын

And the old hand picking the coin up

@Sienna_hobbo 6 күн бұрын

This literally made tears stream down my face because all I could think about is how my great grandad calls me sweet pea and I know that he doesn’t have much time left😭 I love him so much 😭😭

@redinabloogs8477 2 күн бұрын

thatst hard im sorry :(t

@dawnsharkey817 Күн бұрын

I don't have a great Gan dad 😭😢😥😭❤️‍🩹

@dawnsharkey817 Күн бұрын

And that is hard for you guys

@jiangriffinabesamis8193 6 сағат бұрын

😢

@farvista 14 күн бұрын

The body ages, but the voice inside your head, it never changes.

@abeluna9304 22 сағат бұрын

The voice inside your head is a fallacy, truthfully it’s just another thought.

@gailcapshaw5772 8 сағат бұрын

Absolutely! I still want what my mind wants and my body won’t let me. I still try though and I’ll never stop.

@farvista 5 сағат бұрын

@@gailcapshaw5772 When you quit trying, you start dying.

@my.names.robb.with.two.bs1 Ай бұрын

Dude. That was deep.

@therookie5714 Ай бұрын

@@uncleswellwhere did he say it was uncommon?🤔

@thylabyrinth Ай бұрын

@uncleswell Not even AI sounds this lifeless and robotic.

@Owly_Goth Ай бұрын

@@thylabyrinthnah fr

@xraystudios3693 Ай бұрын

That's what she said

@A.S.S.M.A.N Ай бұрын

Life really does pass you by if you don’t stop to enjoy it. It’s a culture of working yourself to death just to survive now for a lot of people. I’m 41 have had a lot of fun in my life and like Kurt cobain said “now I’m bored and old”.

@KevinVenturePhilippines Ай бұрын

That's it. I was 18 yesterday. Now I'm 54.

@joaocorreiamedia Ай бұрын

I was almost sure I was going to be 18, not 39 this year.

@grundlefairy Ай бұрын

I hope life treated you well. Rip

@KevinVenturePhilippines Ай бұрын

@@grundlefairy My life has been amazing, thank you. Should be a movie. Now it is just starting over again because I am moving to the Philippines, where there are over 7,600 Islands all prettier than those in Hawaii (where I lived a while) and I will soon be SCUBA diving with whale sharks! 🤘😎

@abewiggle6049 Ай бұрын

@@KevinVenturePhilippines glad to hear that man,,, enjoyy your time in philipines . if you free come visit my place, malaysia. you need to try food here !

@joaocorreiamedia Ай бұрын

@@KevinVenturePhilippines Mate be literally sleepin with the fishes soon!

@BigGamerPlayz_YT 4 күн бұрын

For those that lost family is really heart breaking. This really shows that taking care of your family is important because we don't get to see them one day. Spend time with your family till you have time.

@jacsonaaron 15 күн бұрын

He was still capable of getting around like he was 35...I say get it young man...let's go!

@Jiamil Ай бұрын

A 70year old friend of mine said at 30 you kind of stop feeling you are aging and every morning in front of the mirror, you are reminded of how the time has passed.

@susan7775 Ай бұрын

I can vouch for that. Mentally I don’t feel old, physically is another matter

@Crazywaffle5150 Ай бұрын

@@susan7775 I'm 32 and feel the same as I did at 25.

@ComplexConfiguration Ай бұрын

@@Crazywaffle5150 40's is when you start aging FR tbh. 30's are still young person .. ;) Enjoy.

@NOSTahlgia Ай бұрын

Even when I was 27 years old people thought I was 21, 22. Once I turned 30 I really started seeing my appearance catching up with my age, but from the inside I haven't aged a day. Sometimes I realize I can recall memories of my younger years better than I can the last week

@squishy_Rio Ай бұрын

Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh for reals man wtf

@GamingintheAM0801 Ай бұрын

Didn't expect this to hit. I'm only 34, not that old, but in my head, it feels like I'm still 17. Life gets ahead of us.

@Izanagioomikami Ай бұрын

Ahahahah! You old fart ! (I'm 33)

@CHEWYUMFAT Ай бұрын

When you're 40 buy yourself a motorcycle. It will kick you like 10 years back at least :-D

@yobimobi2736 Ай бұрын

I'm 17 and still think I'm 14

@user-sy2mt3fr7j Ай бұрын

Im 30 and feel like 45

@davidt0504 Ай бұрын

Dude same. I'm 34 and I think about time passing faster and faster just about every day.

@_Vanto 13 күн бұрын

Im just seeing this today on the 29th. Today is my great grandfathers birthday. He would've turned 84 today. The chance that i see this today is just... Fly high🕊

@karenhann8956 Күн бұрын

Turned 65 this year. The truth of this just reduces me to tears.

@Saltyboi_14 Ай бұрын

My grandad talks about how it feels like he’s not old and even gets annoyed at other old people for being slow until he sees himself in the mirror. This really put it into a great perspective. Well done.

@automagicashie Ай бұрын

Noted. Destroy all mirrors after age 55. Key to eternal life

@charliechurch5004 Ай бұрын

My granny used to say "I don't feel old" 😞 she would say "I look in the mirror and think who is that old lady?" 😞

@Tokyoghoul4life Ай бұрын

Shit

@Tokyoghoul4life Ай бұрын

@au😂😂😂😂😂😂tomagicashie

@Caoimhin93 Ай бұрын

@@automagicashie nice 😂😂😂

@susanjohnson9795 Ай бұрын

This is so true. 73 and I'm always surprised by the mirror. I'm about 35 in my head. It goes fast enjoy where you are.

@lyricjohnson7638 Ай бұрын

We literally should live to at least 120 year, but because of the type of food, water, air and other things I won't mention, if we see 80 we're considered blessed

@Fahad-21 Ай бұрын

I wish humans didn't have to go through the cycle of life and just stopped aging at one point. I mean aging is meant to be a deterioration of your bodily features. Maybe there will be a future someday where humans solve that problem? Either way, I wish you long life and prosperity.

@RenegadeRukus Ай бұрын

Dang, I'll be 35 this yeah... though I feel like I'm probably 50+ after a decade of Military service and being in some motor vehicle accidents. 😅

@eangapala Ай бұрын

@@Fahad-21 without death or getting age life would be meaningless

@OsvaldoBayerista Ай бұрын

Thank you sir

@pallepogusatya6523 16 күн бұрын

I cant leave without loving this short...

@clowrie7856 2 күн бұрын

Aging does truly feel like this. Im only in my mid 50s but am always surprised when i see pics of myself.

@mikebennis77 Ай бұрын

This is absolutely true. I’m 46 this year and I have this perception that I’m still 22.

@bennoreuter4393 Ай бұрын

Dude I am 70 and I date 19yo girls, fuck that mentality.

@shizuxo Ай бұрын

love you man stay like that

@tilda3316 Ай бұрын

I'm almost 40 but I'm definitely always about 26.

@jamesv4463 Ай бұрын

I think that's a good thing

@brandongaysr.4922 Ай бұрын

I'm 37 and still look for the adults when I walk into a room.

@realNoMee Ай бұрын

The constant in between shots where you can just barely spot his "real" age is some stellar foreshadowing.

@lockl00p27 Ай бұрын

And the glass. His reflection shows his “real age”

@sajidismail755 Ай бұрын

This comment needs to be pinned. I didn’t even notice till you said it!

@swtvic Ай бұрын

oh i just noticed, nice details

@orilio3311 Ай бұрын

Seriously tho

@xaurelienhancoux Ай бұрын

Topnotch editing right there! It's obvious on second watch, but it means it worked subliminally 😮 awesome! And don't get me started on the feels 😊😢😅 everyone can relate!

@user-rg5fu2nu3g 13 күн бұрын

Something about that song is just so calming

@rezwanahmed8329 15 күн бұрын

The videography is amazing. Loved every detail

@Nighturz Ай бұрын

Details.. when he picked up the coin his hand was the old mans.. when walking into the diner, relfection was the old man. This was deep and real. Thank you so much.

@richbeach9664 Ай бұрын

Wonderfully spotted.

@yuemcoy835 Ай бұрын

You can also see the reflection behind him when he goes to grab the coin

@moiouimoi3858 Ай бұрын

On the phone when she takes the picture, too !

@Fobia17 Ай бұрын

When they first cut to the crosswalk, too

@djkiltech Ай бұрын

Came here to comment about those exact details. And the phone screen when she takes the picture, during the shot over her shoulder.

@MM2009 Ай бұрын

That's life no matter how old are you, you always feel 20 years old inside, your body just not catching up... Happy birthday seniors.

@buuuuuh365 Ай бұрын

eww

@Scary3ye Ай бұрын

@@buuuuuh365wdym ewww?

@Scary3ye Ай бұрын

@@buuuuuh365you just a dirty mind person

@manfredmichael_3ia097 Ай бұрын

3 minutes ago ahh comments

@buuuuuh365 Ай бұрын

@@Scary3ye Idk, but that kinda stuff is what pedos say: "Oh, we are just kids trapped in an old person's body." Like you are old, be old. How can you feel 20 when you are 70 LMAO.

@CharlesLhirondelle-sg4gf Күн бұрын

Too true. You always feel like the same person when you get older. I'm 57, but still feel like I'm 30. My kid's are grown up, have grandkids. Wouldn't change anything ❤❤

@judithsimpson6508 2 күн бұрын

Keeping his dad reflection is the perfect detail!!! ❤

@ekowcrent1246 Ай бұрын

This is not a skit. It’s deeply philosophical and artistic as it is. Thank you 🙏

@nekad2000 Ай бұрын

They could have used someone who's closer to 84 though. You're 55? Perfect for the part!

@DavidMark-jk5yk Ай бұрын

@@nekad2000he's still pretty young honestly...

@MissKitten-gt4zb Ай бұрын

They do another skit where his daughter is pregnant sitting at a bus stop. He forgets that it’s his daughter and it shows her talking to him like they’ve never met before.

@UnanimousDelivers Ай бұрын

It's a good film but I think you're lowering the bar for what's "deep"

@ekowcrent1246 Ай бұрын

@@UnanimousDelivers I believe using the word “deep” in this context is purely subjective. You could use that word in a different situation and someone else would disagree with your choice of words.

@TimeWarpKing Ай бұрын

My fucking heart. You did more in 60 seconds than most movies do with 90 minutes.

@idehenebenezer802 Ай бұрын

Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

@krepsak3399 Ай бұрын

@@idehenebenezer802 goo goo gah gah RAAAH

@r3d0c Ай бұрын

what shitty movies do you watch

@abizzle7504 Ай бұрын

Right!!??! Like I'm not trying to cry at work guys, come on....

@GoldenDragonGod Ай бұрын

@@idehenebenezer802I think u should be the first one in to do so! Do the exact same words u say!

@aishaabdalsalam7709 2 күн бұрын

Dad was just 61, I can't belive he's gone May God have mercy on you, dad

@user-ws8kn8oz6s 2 күн бұрын

I dunno, but I feel like crying. we will all get old one day. let us respect our elderly. love this video

@troy.s Ай бұрын

53 and I feel this 100%. Some days, I feel my age more than others, but in my mind, I'm still in my 20's or 30's.

@triskits_mmm Ай бұрын

Oh my gosh you baby. Man up.

@gyaniadmi2347 Ай бұрын

That is true, I am 45 I still feel like 25 , I even see myself in mirror as a 25 year old

@italianduded1161 Ай бұрын

Never give up sir!!!! I always tell this to my uncle, never think stuff like “maybe in my next life” or stuff like that, you want it!? You get it!!! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻never give up.

@tsavage4337 Ай бұрын

Take care of yourself and life will reward. My dad is in his 60s and still works his excavating job shoveling with my brother and I, hammering cement, and picking up logs and brick. Usually he’s in the excavator but when he hops down to help with the hand work you’d think him more fit than most 20-30 yr olds. It’s a shame people think after 30 or so they just become unable to do physical activity and can’t stay fit for much longer. Truth is, human bodies are very adaptable even in older age.

@MrBigMoneyMan909 Ай бұрын

As a 26 year old man, I’ll make sure to be extra thankful for my youth and to do my best not to squander it.

@zacharyrollick6169 Ай бұрын

84 and walking the town with full independence is a major landmark of health.

@deathbloom27 Ай бұрын

I work at a retirement facility and some of the things these people do is crazy. There's one resident that I didn't even realize was a resident, I thought he was an employee! He not only was always in the fitness center working out, but he was constantly walking around in the building or outside, I'd see him walking in town, he worked as a dish washer in a nearby restaurant. He looks like he's in his late 50s, MAYBE early 60s. Turns out. He's 80!

@user-zt7vb9kt8l Ай бұрын

Can't be that crazy the president is 81.

@ege8240 Ай бұрын

@@user-zt7vb9kt8lthere is no such thing as the president. there are lots of presidents, you need to clarify the country

@MagickArcher Ай бұрын

@@ege8240If they say "The president" assume they're from the US, most of us like to think we're the only country on the internet

@Ren_load Ай бұрын

@@MagickArcher yeah, truly one of those 'muricah moment (im from boston btw, so no hate)

@faridahaidalynbaraontong6665 7 күн бұрын

People never change. You always remember the past. They're all gone.😢❤

@veltie48 Күн бұрын

When reality strikes, the feeling of disbelief is really heartbreaking. My how rime has flown 😮

@bobbomcgee9958 Ай бұрын

Having the old man in the reflection is peak cinematography for a KZfaq short

@thatminer7174 Ай бұрын

Didnt notice that, thats smart

@izzyviridian1485 Ай бұрын

Hands too. And some cut away shots.

@xavxavxavxav Ай бұрын

i didn't notice. amazing catch!

@dukitcher Ай бұрын

This is comment, this is what I came here for

@maw5646 Ай бұрын

He’s actually sprinkled all throughout the video.

@Swoleminer71 Ай бұрын

52 and this is 100% legit. I've watched this one over and over.

@DaveRusso Ай бұрын

@GizmoMaltese Ай бұрын

Same. It's depressing to think about.

@danif620 Ай бұрын

@@GizmoMalteseDepressing and Blessing at the same time.

@starkidforlife136 Ай бұрын

Seeing white hairs on your own head is a major sign that your time is running out and that you need to find your creator before the day you can’t return for a second chance

@huntercoleherr Ай бұрын

Shit, and here I am feeling ancient at 41...

@ChristmasDayEveryday 15 күн бұрын

This kind of videos is heart touching because its true to life😢

@sunnydaye5942 2 күн бұрын

This makes me cry as I feel the same way.

@brandyb2931 Ай бұрын

My dad always said "my body is getting old, but in my mind, I'm still 25." He passed January 30, 2020. He developed Lewy Body dementia and it ravaged him quickly. He was very intelligent, so we noticed things quickly were going wrong. He hated what was happening to him. He was the smartest and strongest man I have ever known, and that disease stole who he was from him. When he passed, he had aged 30 years. He deserved to grow to be an old man. He loved life, and his passing left an enormous hole in our family that has still not been filled. I miss him so much.

@gassyalways Ай бұрын

😢

@dots-gastly3369 Ай бұрын

Dude love and respect for you and your family😢❤

@AmitRozee Ай бұрын

The space for self growth is as big as the horizon...grow into the example he was and surpass it...he sounds like a great man worth remembering.

@techlonizerGTX Ай бұрын

You have my deepest sympathies for the loss of a precious comrade of yours.

@Acidburn1155 Ай бұрын

Man, rest in piece.

@anthonyjohnston3851 29 күн бұрын

my dad said he knew he was old when he fell while working and people said "are you ok" , " let me help you up". He said that was the first time he fell and people didn't laugh or call him a " dumbass" jokingly.

@commenter621 22 күн бұрын

Damn

@blackman7839 22 күн бұрын

😢

@luciaacosta4801 21 күн бұрын

So touching

@royalexodus2666 21 күн бұрын

The more active one is and the harder it is to believe one is going to age. My dad thought he could just go hunting, climbing, spear fish, look for mushrooms and go camping forever. That was until he started getting tired with just 5 hours into the water and started missing his shots.

@Maguig550 17 күн бұрын

Guau... Es duro ése momento, las mujeres nos damos cuenta cuando nos llaman señoras personas de nuestra edad o mayores... Es feo envejecer por fuera, cuando uno por dentro se siente ágil, vigoroso... Qué triste es el ciclo de la vida 😢😢

@vargaslestrae7900 9 күн бұрын

If you're an elderly person and you have the spirit of a young adult, and you can maintain yourself without assistance, all the power to you. I hope I am that young in spirit when I reach that age.

@akingdom4mypeople343 Күн бұрын

This is so true. Shocking each time I look in the mirror.

@__seeker__ Ай бұрын

That’s the thing about getting old. People start to see you in a way you don’t see yourself. It’s extremely alienating. No one thinks it’ll happen to them, but it always does.

@ytj22 Ай бұрын

If everything goes well it does...

@kruz2727ify Ай бұрын

Hey!! Let me live in my own youthful fantasy. Take your filet knifed tongue onwards to the next clip.

@RedragonReviews Ай бұрын

Jesus that was deep bro. You definitely right man... I remember when I was 20 feels like couple weeks ago.. now next month I'm turning 32 I'm like wtf happened.... Jesus.... Life is wild

@Skiesoutthightsout89 Ай бұрын

Not me! I’ll never get old! Because healthcare is too expensive ill prolly die in my 30s lol

@vivianloney Ай бұрын

My mom's been talking about it happening to her at work. I had to do a double take, but she's a few years from retirement. I have to look at old photos of her when I was a kid to see how she's aged.

@cheryldavis8776 Күн бұрын

This could not be truer! We absolutely don't see ourselves as our true age! We have stopped aging in our head at some point, and the image in the mirror doesn’t jibe with the one in our mind's eye. Good health and happiness to all - no matter what your age!😊

@TDKHERE 3 күн бұрын

Time passes so fast that we don't even realize we are getting old.

@LilyNaahma Ай бұрын

THE REFLECTIONS IN THE WINDOW SHOWING THE ELDER IS PERFECTION. This made me start crying.

@sethf2258 Ай бұрын

Fr this short is so well made

@Kaleb-fi8vz Ай бұрын

I had to go back this is some insane detail

@jehrieltv8066 Ай бұрын

Fr real details

@ChefChiron Ай бұрын

the hand picking up the coin is also old

@shepardog8180 Ай бұрын

I didn't even notice that oh my god😢

@Barfield-cg7iq Ай бұрын

I'm 67 and in my head I'm the same as I was thirty years ago although my back hurts more. The other day for the first time ever a guy offered me his seat on the tram. I was both delighted and devastated in equal measure.

@KR0OK Ай бұрын

This is exactly how I felt the first time someone called me sir

@user-gx5lo6yu2i Ай бұрын

Did you accept the seat on the tram? Or graciously declined like the video guy?😢

@jawanation1850 Ай бұрын

Take this slow Gramps, Don't let it ruin your day!

@rayane2835 Ай бұрын

I know your ass is not 67

@ABombs1 Ай бұрын

My back already hurts, not looking forward to that future!

@YheReal239 6 күн бұрын

This is the only video that brought tears to my eyes. I feel 35. We see ourselves as still young but Everyone sees us at our true age. I am 64. When we feel great we forget how old we really are. What a superb deep video.

@melvinthomas6383 3 күн бұрын

Every year I get a little bit slower, and weaker. I also gain a little more understanding and tolerance. Thank you God for the journey and opportunity.

@judahawale8855 19 күн бұрын

"This Could Be My Last Birthday" broke me 💔 into pieces

@Brandon.R888 12 күн бұрын

😢😢😢

@Bobrys__ 9 күн бұрын

yea i almost cried on this one

@DM_Curtis 6 күн бұрын

Enjoy every birthday like it's your last.

@FarmgirlFriday 5 күн бұрын

My grandfather passed a month ago. He would have been 84 in August.

@NotoriousWhistler Ай бұрын

Wow, I didn't even notice all the little glimpses until my second watch. This is honestly so well made.

@criticaldatabeats Ай бұрын

The reflection in the window was a good one.

@deltavega9203 Ай бұрын

The aged knuckles picking up the coin was my first clue.

@nveptunes Ай бұрын

when she took the picture on her phone - that was brilliant

@___idk Ай бұрын

....

@bratva1354 2 күн бұрын

I miss you Grandpa. My you rest in peace. I will never forget you.

@AfricaisAlive957 Күн бұрын

The feeling doesn`t get old

@loafyloafloaf 17 күн бұрын

My dad is pretty old, and im pretty young. I’m scared that he’ll leave me when I’m not ready. I don’t expect anyone to notice this comment, i just felt like i needed to say this. Love you, dad.

@troyragnor919 8 күн бұрын

I noticed, as I recently lost my father in the time I was supposed to become independent, cherish all the time you got with him, because one swift virus and it can be over.

@2006_Times_Person_Of_The_Year 8 күн бұрын

Man I pray to God everyday just asking him to keep me here till my kids no longer need me. I fully feel for you here, my daughter came crying the other day saying she is scared to grow up because she doesn't want to stop needing me and her mom. Like I told her just cherish the time you got and have faith that God won't take your parents till you're ready.

@Programmed_For_Failure 8 күн бұрын

Don’t tell us tell your dad. You’ll have all the time in the world to comment how much you love them but make sure you comment it to him ❤

@jovana_kocic 8 күн бұрын

Let him know that❤ I lost my dad when he was 55. I always wonder if I showed how much I loved him

@ms.megaro1087 7 күн бұрын

I know it doesn’t help, but I don’t think anyone is ever ready. It will hurt just as much if it happened now or in 60 more years. Just make as many memories as you can, while you can

@holliemichailidis2951 Ай бұрын

It is a privilege to grow old. My grandfather died before I was born at 47 years of age. I also worked in aged care. Many say in their mind they are young, its just their body has aged. Its sad but everyone time comes to an end.

@Lvr765 Ай бұрын

I think he’s 𝕘𝕠𝕥 dementia

@shelbyb425 Ай бұрын

Ik this is serious but it really got me with the "before I was born at 47 years of age" 💀

@holliemichailidis2951 Ай бұрын

@@Lvr765 ..pardon? People with dementia go back through the years. One minute they think they are a mother then the next a school girl. They've still lived long lives mostly. One woman was in a constant state of happiness. She was just always happy. Dementia is sad but it doesn't need to be scary.

@holliemichailidis2951 Ай бұрын

@@shelbyb425 😅 yeah should have put a comma or new sentence. But currently I have the flu so it'll do.

@holliemichailidis2951 Ай бұрын

@@LeeroyFan101 so sorry for your friend, you and her loved ones. Yes, life can be cruelly cut short. Again my condolences.

@LusLand 14 күн бұрын

The tiny detail of his dad in the window of the restaurant!

@user-qv4dy4es3q 11 күн бұрын

The last one honestly break me

@Sentientpotatoh Ай бұрын

My dad passed away last year at 70. He always said he felt like he was still in his 20s-30s in his mind and would be shocked he wasnt young anymore when something held him back. I miss him every single day. Im so lucky to have had such and amazing father.

@littleharry7977 Ай бұрын

I’m sorry for your loss your father sounds like a great man ❤️

@vigi86 Ай бұрын

❤

@camman18fanformission Ай бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss... ❤

@crustydownunder Ай бұрын

My dad died a year ago at age 92. He said he still felt like 18. He never looked old, he was very fit and could still run and do chin-ups in his 80s. I can't say he was a great dad, he was mean and cruel, even so, I still miss him.

@Sentientpotatoh Ай бұрын

@crustydownunder I understand that. My mom was a terror. She died when I was 21 and I still grieved her terribly. My dad was by no means fit towards the end of his life, his health failed over his last decade of life. It frustrated him greatly especially as it became harder for him to walk without pain. He passed so peacefully in his sleep. Just went to take a nap one day and didn't wake up. May we all be so blessed to go that way. 🙏

@jcchandley 28 күн бұрын

This made me burst into tears. I know this well. I’m turning seventy in August and this is exactly my life now. In my mind I’m the same as I ever was.

@mellowillow 17 күн бұрын

It had me in tears too. My mom just turned 75 and says she still thinks the same way she did 40yrs ago. Our minds will always be young i guess

@michaelmuller8072 17 күн бұрын

The „I“ never ages.

@msmltvcktl 17 күн бұрын

I'm "only" 45, and I'm crying bc it's very real at any age.

@edithsegura9696 16 күн бұрын

😢😢I'm turning fifty next month and people looks at me as an old woman...but I'm feeling like in my 30's...

@mellowillow 16 күн бұрын

@@edithsegura9696 I turn 42 this year and my sis turns 52. We have the minds of 29 year olds😅. I get sad sometimes cause it feels like just yesterday I was in my early 20s. Where did the time go? I’m just trying my best to embrace my 40s.

@aradia_night-raven 2 күн бұрын

This was so wholesome and just hit me right in the heart ❤️

@soidih3930 10 күн бұрын

Time running so fast, Left we all behind😭

@nancyhyson6809 Ай бұрын

Im 72. This hit me hard and I burst out into tears. At my age you dont feel any different than when you were 30, but the mirror keeps reminding you.

@ALPOLEESHARKAWERDS 26 күн бұрын

Then why's ur picture eome 20 year old girl??

@hasratkalay2531 26 күн бұрын

@@ALPOLEESHARKAWERDSlol

@ZedaPetri 26 күн бұрын

lol you’re not 72, because every 70+ year old I’ve met feels much different than they did at 30. Also your pfp 😑. You just copied someone else’s comment (their comment is above yours). Poser

@AceNinja2112 26 күн бұрын

@@ALPOLEESHARKAWERDSThat's her 52 years ago!

@warchlak.970 26 күн бұрын

Nuh uh@@AceNinja2112

@azbeaux Ай бұрын

This is so true. How we see ourselves when we get old is entirely different to how we actually are.

@pbonfanti Ай бұрын

Very true, but physical pain is the way nature tells you are not more that young.

@Starteller Ай бұрын

Ya, but the mirror and the pain keep reminding us.

@JohnH108 Ай бұрын

How others see us is entirely different to how we actually are.

@blurgle9185 Ай бұрын

I find this only to be true for people with poor self-awareness.

@idehenebenezer802 Ай бұрын

Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

@nancygood8209 23 сағат бұрын

Thus is so amazing! Thank you! It made me cry, I'm an older citizen too and feel sweet 16! Everyday is a blessing, enjoy it ,treasure it and the special people in your life, ❤

@prinitakhatoo6165 Күн бұрын

I literally feel "THE PAIN OF GETTING OLD", I felt tear in my eyes...😮😮😢😢

@Iamskibidiman Ай бұрын

THE MIRROR REFLECTIONS WERE SUCH A GREAT TOUCH 😭😭 Edit: Also if you look closely, in every shot which isn't showing his face, is him shown as in his older self. Such as hands, body, shadow, picture.

@Laffytaffy0719 Ай бұрын

@Rosie_macaroni Ай бұрын

i didnt even notice

@wifsk484 Ай бұрын

Holy shit youre right thats quite awesome ngl

@Rivalunknown Ай бұрын

Those are windows, but yea it’s a great touch

@mollymauk4313 Ай бұрын

Same thing while she is taking the photo, they put a lot of detail into this

@cheriesmith4087 25 күн бұрын

This hits deep. You blink and 20 years have gone by!. A very beautifully crafted film. Xxxx

@themanicman8458 16 күн бұрын

Life flies by slow for me do something new everyday and then it'll take longer because you're making new memories

@marlydepina522 15 күн бұрын

Lindo!

@The_CrackGoblin 15 күн бұрын

Nah fuck it never blinking again

@o-pwrdhd 15 күн бұрын

Or you think about when the 12 hours Shift ends, it will take ages lol

@ninazhu9432 14 күн бұрын

Yup! That is how I feel like, it feels like I was 7 yesterday.. But the next I am already 27 years old. And the world has changed, how did it change so quickly?

@gionottoli272 6 күн бұрын

“This could be my last birthday” hit me real hard. I just lost my 90 year old grandfather two months ago. I wasn’t expecting him to go so soon. The thing is he never let anyone help him. He felt 40 even though we all knew he was in his 80s. I felt this video and watching this reminds me of my own grandfather 😢 Well done. Well done.

@alberttedja9583 15 күн бұрын

The way he looked out of his eyes remained the same. But the way others saw him from the outside was different.

@CL-bm7bs Ай бұрын

One of the best things I ever watched. Very well done. I am 67 this year and I see myself as a 25 or 30 years old at most, but the freaken body and face belong to a stranger. Life is really short. When we are young we're so happy and think that everything is still ahead, and at some point in life we realize that everything is already behind. Thank you for your vid

@idehenebenezer802 Ай бұрын

Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

@panteleymonschekochikhin-k1978 Ай бұрын

Fuck me this is sad. I have to get the most out of my 20's while I still can.

@rewindlly Ай бұрын

@@idehenebenezer802 cringe

@travelstories2529 Ай бұрын

@@idehenebenezer802jesus is not god, he’s just a messenger of god, Allah is god. Turn to allah before you return to Allah… christianity id so messed up so many versions of bible, understand this, learn about islam and accept it.

@roo9642 Ай бұрын

@@travelstories2529 Islam is demonic, dead and false. Research more about your own religion, once you learn enough of its lies you will want to leave yourself.

@petemac7969 17 күн бұрын

I know this feeling! My "head" says I'm 30, but my body screams - you're 70!

@PixelSheep 12 күн бұрын

How old are you if I might ask? :)

@melindadawn5 11 күн бұрын

Amen

@brunos6599 10 күн бұрын

My birth certificate does the same to me, it tells me I'm 30 but every so often that sharp pain tells me "this is it".

@TheGreatTainoArmy 9 күн бұрын

Let's hope your actually well over the agr of 40.... it's so weird to hear 30somethings talk about there body in hella pain and call themselves old like that's a normal thing...

@AJPemberton 9 күн бұрын

Much of the time, my head tells me I'm only 5. 30 is pretty good!

@LeoBuentelloleo84-sl8um 5 күн бұрын

This got me all teary eyes and choked up, I just lost my Mom and now I'm sick from my liver, I 4 beautiful children who are the world to me, I don't know how much time I have left in this world, to everyone I've ever met, so glad to have met you wether it was a good experience or a bad one, I'm scared to die, but [thank you everyone who ever loaned their time to stop, and talked to me, I've helped so many people, not financially, I was only great at one thing, and that was fighting, knowing the fact that that bully wasn't going to mess with them ever again always did for me, I have always been a brawler, but I never took advantage off anyone more than the next, I'm 49,now and I can honestly say that it was always something about the fact that I knew no one would take advantage of them again, was my greatest reward ever.

@Lovesthetruth 22 сағат бұрын

Tears streaming down my face! Wow this was so powerfully deep. 😢

@DancingArmadillo Ай бұрын

When my mom turned 82, I asked her if she felt 82. She said that if she wasn't in so much pain, she'd feel young again. She died a year later. This video is amazing. Well done, my friend.

@Dissedits000 28 күн бұрын

Sorry for ur loss bro

@suen5006 Ай бұрын

This is so true. Time goes fast and you don't perceive that you are really older.

@alonelymouse5293 Ай бұрын

i think he has dementia

@HeraldoftheMEME Ай бұрын

@@alonelymouse5293nah this is something we think about all the time as we get older and then one day it just hits you like a cannon ball. Especially if you haven't done much with your life or have worked your ass off most of it without stopping to spend enough time with your loved ones ...

@johnsennett8557 Ай бұрын

@HeraldoftheMEME so true. And when you have kids and see them grow up you realize the amount of time that goes by 😢

@TrenchbabyMel203 Ай бұрын

@@johnsennett8557 Tell me about it I'm 30 now and can't believe it. My daughter will be 13 this year smh. I'm feeling old, and the young guys calling me unc when they find out my age doesn't help

@nollets Ай бұрын

Around 2012 or so, my great-grandfather was in the hospital for something that I don't quite remember. I think pneumonia, but not sure, I was like 10 at the time. What I do remember though, is that he was put with the elderly people, and his reaction to that was "look where they put me, between all the old people". He was most likely the oldest in the entire hospital wing lol, at a nice 97 years of age! He definitely felt younger than he was. Sadly, he didn't live too long after that, he died maybe a year later, max.

@MyKutie 4 күн бұрын

That was so goood!!!! The older man in reflections and for brief snapshots really gets me right in the heart

@amyhunter9590 10 күн бұрын

The "This could be my last birthday" part actually made me cry. Time flies so fast. Its honestly horrible.

@NM-pl1iv Ай бұрын

Just buried my Dad, he was 63. Appreciate what you have, love hard and deep, don’t hold grudges and don’t waste time.

@sylviekins Ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss❤. I lost mine 5 years ago, even though he was 92, I miss him🙏❤

@reynoldscs Ай бұрын

Same . My dad passed away at 63, 14 months ago, way to early. Brain cancer is aggressive and fast. I agree with all you said. Best wishes for you and your family! Cheers!

@GFGAngel Ай бұрын

My dad passed away almost a month ago. He was also 63. It doesn't matter how long someone has been in your life, it will never feel like enough time.

@BrianCunningham-kp1qt Ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss I don't know my dad because of grandfather but my real mum died when I was 5 in 77 & my step mum died on my birthday in 99 spend all the time you can with your parents as 1 day they may not be there RIP Mum love & miss you more every day xxxxx.

@ShawnSandiego Ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss! 🍀 I hope y'all find the strength for these hard times. It's also the same for me. Mine passed away at age 63 unexpectedly due to cardiac arrest after a successful brain tumor surgery. It happened 15 years ago but he's still sorely missed to this day.

@eshaaladeel4904 13 күн бұрын

I'm only 19 yet this has me crying because it puts into perspective how my grandfather felt and how my father feels as he grows older...

@luisitove3173 9 күн бұрын

I actually cried this is so sad😢

@bekkimcgrath Ай бұрын

The camera work switching to glimpses of the dad's hands, shoulder, reflection 😘 perfect

@Ovahlls Ай бұрын

It's actually really good for a KZfaq short

@peaceanquiet4528 Ай бұрын

I didn't see the reflection at the restaurant the first time.

@theprophet9429 Ай бұрын

Both windows too. Excellent

@MavrikUSMC Ай бұрын

Bro. I was trying to get out of the deep, and you come along and sink my battleship

@Jay-cq5qr Ай бұрын

It's crazy how people can mention things about a video that aren't even in the video 🤡

@julieleech8214 Ай бұрын

This made me cry because I understand it so clearly . I'm 62, and time goes so quickly

@idehenebenezer802 Ай бұрын

Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

@stevonico Ай бұрын

@@idehenebenezer802no

@Dev_095 Ай бұрын

Why does this sounds like you trying sell him Christianity @@idehenebenezer802

@MrFuzziiWuzzii Ай бұрын

@idehenebenezer802 No u

@MrFuzziiWuzzii Ай бұрын

@idehenebenezer802 Christ > Jesus 💯

@exocrxsh3962 13 күн бұрын

This actually made me ahead a tear 😢

@tinarussell6656 15 күн бұрын

This so beautiful. We never realized that we've aged. We are constantly the age where the most memorable things happened in our lives. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Must admit that even his hand on the cross walk changer was spot on. Perfect shirt film. 😊😊😊😊

@michaelzampelas4325 24 күн бұрын

One quote always stuck with me for most of my life. “Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” Thank you Ferris 😊

@Qwezeerss-dj9dw 11 күн бұрын

464 Likes and no reply lemme fix that (:

@Raiderman227 Ай бұрын

His dads reflections in the windows is a amazing touch. What a good job. Love this family!

@Biiilllaaal Ай бұрын

Wow i didnt catch that until now

@Dupont728 Ай бұрын

And the photo on the phone!

@esbastianordonezordonez5313 Ай бұрын

Not only that! But when the sign is covering his face in that same scene you can see the white beard.

@miacooper2307 Ай бұрын

Agreed. You guys are starting to get pretty good at this thing. I don't usually scroll. But when I do. It's mcfarland feed.

@austinkoeppen6122 Ай бұрын

Also when he picks up the coin, it's his dad's hand.

@anthonyquote1593 Ай бұрын

If only shorts were that deep in meanings, people would be better.

@2009samiy Ай бұрын

youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture

@AnweshNayak-ln6zf Ай бұрын

@@2009samiywat

@-_-_-_-_-ImGigs-_-_-_-_-_-_-_ Ай бұрын

@@2009samiywhy you copying and pasting that? Weirdo

@arthurmorgan2688 Ай бұрын

❤💯

@zeecee5881 Ай бұрын

@@2009samiy blah, blah, blah

@blossomebogbue2245 7 күн бұрын

Times flies. You only understand when you've clocked 20.

@richardradford6924 3 сағат бұрын

this got me tearing up RIP dad we love you

@incontinentia3119 Ай бұрын

I'm 30 and I'm still 18 in my head. Wild and it'll only get wilder.

@debrawestbrook8960 Ай бұрын

I just turned 32 and I still feel like a teenager even though I am not the same age my mother was when she had me (youngest of 5 kids). The new perspective is crazy. The age I am now, is the age my HS teachers were when they taught me, many of my old friends now how children...like how has all of this happened so fast!

@SirKolass Ай бұрын

We only start getting old at 30, so you're not any older than you were 10 years ago. That can be sooner or later though, based on how healthy you are. If you wanna stay young for longer, be healthy.

@metalrain300 Ай бұрын

I feel ya, I turned 30 last November and honestly I still feel like I left high school a few months ago. I don’t feel like I’ve aged, more important my body doesn’t feel like it’s breaking down either. It actually feels like the opposite. Lately it’s been unreal, like I’ve been able to actually spread my wings and follow the path I’ve always wanted to. I’m just waiting on my background check to go thru and I’ll be doing what I’ve always felt like I should be.

@catey62 Ай бұрын

My amazing Mum told me a couple years before she she passed away at the age of 90 , that she still felt the same as she did when she was 16, it was just her body letting her down. I'm 61 and I can relate perfectly. inside. I'm still a teenager, just my body is getting older.

@mbyrd9223 Ай бұрын

You all are still so young, enjoy it while it lasts. Wait till you hit 40 then you'll really start to feel like an old person.

@ChampionCynthia493 Ай бұрын

I am working at a retirementhome as a nurse on a station with people who all have dementia and it seems like this is what they go through all the time... some of them being in their 90's saying "tomorrow i will visit my parents" and everytime i hear that i can't let them face reality and lie because it would be horrible to say "they are dead and you are 94 years old" or even ask them how old they think they are... sometimes one of them who can not stand up anymore says they want to go home just for me to reply with something like "i am sorry you are at the hospital and you can not stand up at the moment. We need to take care of you the next days" or something like that. Sometimes a nurse has to be very very creative the way they talk with elderly people and even more with from dementia suffering people. It can be hard to keep an illusion alive just so people do not have a worse time.

@tonymagona334 Ай бұрын

You’re an angel to all these people, bless you ❤

@sandpitturtle3577 6 күн бұрын

The way the ending immediately had me ugly crying and realizing how much i still miss my grandpa.. damn, the feels are hitting hard today

@PaolaValentinaReynosoTap-hb2cm 12 күн бұрын

I would never thought a 1 minute video would touch my heart this much, i am literally crying for real😭😭😭

@sweetpealee056 Ай бұрын

Yep! This is exactly how it feels! I'm 70 and disabled now but I'm still that optimistic 17 year old in my soul! Thank you for making this 👍🫶✌️

@alegoncalves472 Ай бұрын

May God bless you and grant you a lot of good, happiness and a long fulfilling life!!! 😊🤗🤗🤗

@LYJManchesterUnited Ай бұрын

Oh dear and I thought it gets easier to let go, I’m only 30

@Guzmananinmates7077 Ай бұрын

This man has the vibes of that one cool grandpa that follows latest trends💀😭

@Gorebox_kenzie_wuz_here Ай бұрын

god bless you Mrs

@sweetpealee056 Ай бұрын

@@Gorebox_kenzie_wuz_here ummm, ima gramma!🤣🤣🤣

@JasonKB Ай бұрын

Are there Emmys for KZfaq Shorts? Because this should win.

@IDrawToothpicks Ай бұрын

Absolutely 😭🩷

@neilrivera4194 Ай бұрын

I would vote for this 😭

@miamitten1123 Ай бұрын

Should win an Oscar for best short film. Technically it qualifies as it’s over 1minute.

@blurgle9185 Ай бұрын

This is hardly original and it is way too cheese to win.

@idehenebenezer802 Ай бұрын

Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

@xt3rm1nat0r8 16 күн бұрын

I... I wasn't prepared for this. I sewar i had my earphones and ready for an ultimate dad joke. 🥺

@Bei7 12 күн бұрын

It's almost 2am and I've been crying over this short for half an hour now. It hits way harder than I expected.

@nicweiss9564 Ай бұрын

Time goes by a lot faster than we think. I lost 3 grandparents in a year, and each funeral was the last time I saw the next one. Time is precious, enjoy every moment you can get

@Heitmotivation Ай бұрын

That's heartbreaking ....hope you are doing well❤..RIP your grandparents 😢

@nowonmetube Ай бұрын

Wait... 3?

@nicweiss9564 Ай бұрын

@@nowonmetube 2 maternal grandparents and 1 paternal

@PriyadharshiniIndhira Ай бұрын

This comment hurts somewhere deep😢

@jakegenocide Ай бұрын

@nowonmetube Well, you have your mother's parents and your father's parents, then if they every had to remarry, you have step grandparents.

@maikutsukino4743 Ай бұрын

Lost my mom last year at 85. Just today I looked in the mirror and was reminded I'm not 20 years old any more. So this just hit pretty damn deep on me. I'm not crying, you're crying.

@kingki1953 Ай бұрын

Damn, you lucky though. You can have mom until she at 85. I was 19 when i lost my mom, she was at 55. edit: She got cancer at 50 and i was 14. I wish someone told me that someone who got cancer don't live longer than 5 years. I was concern about this while she got only one year left at my 18. I know there's nothing i can do. In her last 3 months, she spend day by day really suffer from bladder cancer. I accompany him in hospital everyday until that day come, when she never reply to my voice again..

@eksboks148 Ай бұрын

@@kingki1953i get you're probably just trying to say look on the happy side or something but it really sounds like you're try to one up someone with what couldn't be less of a competition

@SureshKumar-pv7yj Ай бұрын

i just lost my dad last week at the age of 65.

@k1llahh Ай бұрын

Жизнь странная штука, я вообще не ощущаю себя взрослым. В детстве казалось быть взрослым это круто, а теперь понимаешь, что это скукота и каждый день - день сурка

@hellothereuser1878 Ай бұрын

@@eksboks148 That was so rude. There's no one-upping here. This isn't a situation where we're discussing who made the most of a summer vacation. The guy is just trying to help OP appreciate the time he spent with his mother. Grief is proportional to the memories you create with that person, not necessarily the time you spent or when they departed. All he did was call him lucky and shared his own experience, and now you're trying to make him feel bad for nothing :(

@andy.billups 15 күн бұрын

I don't appreciate how emotional this made me.

@avry87 4 күн бұрын

"This could be my last birthday" got me in tears😢 my grandfather asked me, earlier this year, when I will come home to visit him, he told me that who knows how long he's going to be... he was almost 88 yo and I haven't seen him in the last 3 years and now I won't have the chance to see him anymore... 😢

@stevene.9858 Ай бұрын

My dad passed away at 84 years old. It's been 3 years now and I still miss him everyday. ❤

@brucewilkey3535 Ай бұрын

RIP Dad. My best friend and confidant. Oh how you are missed and loved. If only I could have you back even for just a short time. I would love to show you smart phones and self driving cars. I remember rolling my eyes when you told me these things should be invented. Thank you to the producer of this video. We Americans should be ashamed at how horribly we treat our grandparents/elders. 😢❤

@lmaomoofeq2505 Ай бұрын

84 years, he did very good

@Skyesoceaneyes Ай бұрын

My dad died at 84 years only a few months ago. It's hard.

@burgersauce8941 Ай бұрын

@Skyesoceaneyes May he rest in peace

@Rytrx_x Ай бұрын

Mine passed at 47, me being 13 at the time, now 14. That was september 7th 2023. Actually i dont know the full date. Or why, or how... i'm underinformed.. (if thats even a word)