Yes but the year long credit i had that I used on the last day, having to be on the phone for an hour and a half because it wouldn't apply automatically, because it was the last day, how am i supposed to divide that up? I left myself six hours, ok four because of the time difference, but still, isn't that plenty of time?

Tasks could be divided fractally.... doesn't help. It's like, what should I do slapdash, and what should I go microscopic on?

God yes I just keep going omg that's mez but it's a pain in the hole to get diagnosed here

I feel so seen 😢😢😢

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To me she explained society, keep it fun with no responsibilities and everything will be fine. Added : It makes you wonder though if we'd have been able to keep it fun what society would be like. She was lucky or the rest of us unlucky she was allowed to be her as a child at school. As a kid we would have got that beaten out of us.

@@antonyjh1234 "keep it fun with no responsibilities and everything will be fine." You have misunderstood. The key word is not "fun". The key word is "interesting". There are plenty of things that people may see as interesting that, from the outside at least, are not fun. Maybe someone finds working on spreadsheets incredibly interesting and are able to focus intensely on that for hours. Maybe for others it's welding or painting. Personally I know that there are certain aspects of my job that fascinate me and I will focus on those aspects in minute detail. Not because they're fun (you would not look at me and think "that guy's having too much fun") but because they're interesting. But ask me to write a simple email and I will put it off until I can't possibly put it off any longer. I'm sure that many non-neurotypical students probably did have it "beaten out of them" in the past. I'm not sure from your comment whether you think that's a bad thing or a good thing.

I think you mean a broad church.

Never heard of Aisling before. Very amusing.

@@123bwlchYou need to see her with John Malkovich on Jonathan Ross. Malkovich nearly shat himself laughing.

Only just?

It's a very long queue...

I know the struggle. Solidarity, dopamine seeker ✊

As one word, 'wheelhouse', it is.

Thank you for saying this. I have ADHD and the thing that gives me the most anxiety is the constant worry I'm letting down my wife and kids or annoying them in some way or if they would think I'm unreliable and forgetful. It's a constant stress. I work hard (but erratically) and I earn good money but I know my ADHD holds me back and I'm fully aware that being around me is probably infuriating at times. Knowing my wife and girls are forgiving and understanding has really helped me so I can put that anxiety aside and give that energy to more positive things.

"Wait, so you wanna *add* the distraction of knowing something could start beeping a me any minute now?!?"

These sort of comments are pointless. Why do women need to have this kind of superficial comment made about them at all and worse still by other women?. I don't really care if you are a male or female saying it but it's just shallow and it's a good part of why it can be frustrating for a female to need to deal with it for apparently no reason whatsoever. I mean, why would you feel the need to go on and comment about someone's appearance at all. Legit, take a minute and think to yourself why you do it.

@@TheycallmeMrWonka Oh wow, you told me off. My one line, nice compliment was extremely thoughtless, you are right. It was completely deserving of your paragraph of disdain.

⁠@@LitteJeanieMr Wonka is Mr Wanker!