NTA. Absolutely not. The fact that he couldn't even handle critism like a mature adult and instead went to just cry to his church says it all. OP has valid concerns and the husband refuses to listen which is literally just validating her doubts.

Divorce is the answer

maybe the pastor and the church can keep there nosy little face out of your business and marriage

He's right, op should divorce him so he can find himself a good little Christian wifey

Nta send a group message to them stating that he knew your lack of religion prior to marriage if he wanted to have a wife of the same faith he would of found one in the church he didn’t he also knew prior to marriage that you had no interest on converting then block them all. When he comes home sit him down and say if he brings his faith up to you again in a way you don’t like you will divorce him.

Beyond being a jackass, in my opinion, the man should not have married someone in HOPES they would change faith. That's not how that works.

Tel them EXACTLY what you said and see how they react

You are not even a member of his church and those people have the audacity to harass you for setting boundaries. Imagine what it will be like if you do join this church. Run

maybe the pastor was right, in that she should repent... With a set of divorce papers;-)

NTAH, you’re being harassed by STRANGERS for telling the whole truth. You addressed the problem and he got mad about it. If it continues, divorce him and never look back because he clearly cares more about other people’s opinions than you-

NTA. And the church people should act like the religious people that they are and not just judge you based on what he said. They shouldn't meddle in your relationship either. And if they were really religious themselves, then they should practice their teachings as well and not jump on their high horse to attack someone without knowing the full story of both sides. It seems it's not only the husband who don't practice what he preaches, but the church too. It would be best for all of them to repent Also is the man a man or a little child who can't fix the problem he created himself? Cause if he is a man, he should fix the issue he has created and stop being judgemental towards others when he is in a much more worse place than the ones he judges. Cause only a little boy in an adult body like him will cry to others about the problem he created expecting the others to worsen his issues even further because they themselves aren't fixing his situation either

I think his church is a bad example.

Red flag he is getting counseling from clearly unfit sources that attacks his wife without meeting with her. There is no hate as harsh as Xtain love.

0:57 for people from shorts

NTA because actions speak louder than words and the OP's husband's actions contradict what he believes and always will, plus he needs to get his own house in order before he starts talking about religious conversion period.

There are religious groups and then there are religious religious groups. Sorry that your husband is part of the religious religious group. I'm a little surprised that he married you. He must have been very confident that he would get you to conform to his way of thinking. You might want to put your foot down NOW or it's going to get worse. I would be getting ready to run for it if I was you. The religious religious groups can be mean and nasty if they don't get their way. 💔👍

NTA it's pretty common for "religious people" to cherry pick what they want to follow since it's designed that way and the reason why there multiple denominations of any religion rather than one single 1.

You need to march up to that church and tell them what kind of spouse your husband has been and then I think you might need to talk to a divorce lawyer or get marriage counseling

OP left her church because she knew what they doing and what they were saying was wrong. Now she knows what her hubby is saying and doing is wrong. She knows what his church is saying and doing is wrong. That's why she told her hubby what she knew and believed. She wasn't harsh. She was straight forward. She should block the church. Tell her hubby that she will not be attacked by the people of his church. They are nothing and nobody to her. He can forget about her converting. Also he needs to step up and get his crap together. Worry about this house, this marriage and how he should be acting and doing things to prove he is her hubby. Like get a job, respect her beliefs.

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She needs to ask her husband's pastor who the fu*k he thinks he is and if he would like to be berated into oblivion in his own church for sticking his nose into other people's business.