AITA For Calling The Mistress's Family To Get The Child Or CPS?

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AITA For Calling The Mistress's Family To Get The Child Or CPS? - Best Drama Reddit Family Tales

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AITA For Calling The Mistress's Family To Get The Child Or CPS? - Best Drama Reddit Family Tales
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AITA For Telling My Ex-Hubby's Mistress's Family To Take The Baby Or I'll Call CPS Cause He Had A Heart Attack & Can't Care For Anyone.
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The 53-year-old woman is about to divorce her husband Roger (47y), whom she forgave after his affair. Four months ago, Roger brought home a baby after his 22-year-old girlfriend could no longer care for him and left the baby at Roger's work before leaving for Spain.
She allowed Roger to stay at home on the condition that he had nothing to do with the baby. However, about a month ago, Roger had a heart attack and became very weak, unable to take care of himself and the baby, and unable to pick him up from daycare.
She helped take care of the baby but now she doesn't want to do that anymore. She informed Roger that she wanted a divorce and contacted the child's grandparents. She gave them until Friday to pick up their grandchild or she would call Child Protective Services (CPS).
Finally, the grandparents came to pick up the baby but blamed her for being too cold towards the innocent child. She felt differently about this baby.
Roger is recovering and she will move out of the house. The house belongs to Roger and she has not contributed anything to it. She has the equivalent of 22 years of rent and interest on her own savings. According to the prenuptial contract, her savings are hers alone.
She has a job and doesn't need anything from this marriage except herself. Her children advised her to stay and help their father, but she said they could come and help their father take care of himself and the baby. Both refused this offer.
She didn't feel she did wrong, but Roger, the children, the baby's family, and a few mutual friends thought she was wrong. She hopes writing the story and receiving feedback will help her see things more clearly.
As she prepares to move on, she reflects on the emotional toll the situation has taken on her. The stress of dealing with Roger's infidelity, his sudden health issues, and the unexpected responsibility of caring for an infant has been overwhelming. Despite her children's pleas and the judgment from others, she stands by her decision, believing that she deserves to live her life free from the burdens that were unfairly placed upon her. She is determined to find peace and stability on her own terms, confident that this difficult choice is the best for her well-being.
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@rissagrrarg Ай бұрын

People trying to make her feel bad for not taking care of her husband's afair baby are HYPOCRITES 😂 none of y'all would do that if it was you.

@NourAmsterdam 29 күн бұрын

Exactly.

@hotfriesarethebest Ай бұрын

Those people are crazy and stupid for expecting you to forgive your cheating husband and care for him and his affair baby🙄

@ladymorrigan5950 29 күн бұрын

Yes. I heard that one on another channel earlier. The number of people who think op is somehow responsible for the affair baby and an AH for not wanting to take responsibility is astounding. WTAF 😢

@Vdiaz367 Ай бұрын

i dont understand why people are attacking this OP? her dead now cheating husband did the deed and now he is 6 feet and the baby mama abandoned the kid and now no one wants to take care of the baby but attack the OP. She deserves every penny from what her hubby did. she is being nice and giving what she gets for her future. everything else the OP and her kids will get. anything else that baby is not your responsibility.

@musicjunkie31karma 27 күн бұрын

She’s being nice?! Really?? She’s under no obligation to care for that child but shit….where is your heart for an innocent baby that didn’t ask for this

@zoe9190 26 күн бұрын

@@musicjunkie31karmashe literally has no legal standing with this baby. If the baby is sick she cant take it to the hospital because she doesnt have insurance or any rights for the baby. She hasnt adopted the baby, or assumed any responsibility for the baby even before the husband became incapacitated or died. Her option is call cps or have the family of the baby to pick her up. Would you really want someone who despises your existence to raise you, of course not. Her late husband and his ap made their choice when they had the affair and get her pregnant. It had nothing to do with op

@justinenicole3926 21 күн бұрын

She's 53 why should she raise some random woman's baby alone? @musicjunkie31karma

@funkadesiac 24 күн бұрын

Why would anyone go after OP when the ACTUAL mom abandoned that kid? The kid is not OP's. She has no responsibility to that kid.

@73shay93 27 күн бұрын

Mistress thought getting pregnant would get Roger to leave his wife in her 50's, but that fairy tale ended fast when Roger didn't leave.

@lisavogt56 26 күн бұрын

She has NO responsibility to that child. It's not hers. Adoption is best option.

@user-rl3tn1uh3p 20 күн бұрын

Why would someone raise a child that is not theirs or agreed to adopt? The babies mother, ex-husband, children, and the babies family needs to grow up.

@tamykapolk78 28 күн бұрын

I do NOT care what anyone thinks. I'm not caring for your affair baby. I already have to forgive you for stepping out on me, then you expect me to raise your child!? Absolutely not. You must've bumped your head....

@gigireads1716 26 күн бұрын

Lol never EVER would I stay and take care of an affair baby… if my husband had kids with someone else before we met and got married I’d welcome them with open arms. But affair babies? You gotta be out your damn mind.

@babe8917 Ай бұрын

I think she is NTA, she divorced him over this and she took care of the baby for a while even though it was clearly a matter of contention and she is not responsible for their grandkid. Maybe they should go find the baby’s mother and make her take responsibility for what she has caused. I mean that is rich, having an affair with a married guy and then leaving the baby to party and then ask the divorced wife to take care of the baby. Just get real.

@kimmesser9671 27 күн бұрын

Its crazy what people expect women to do.

@user-qt1lt4ny1v 25 күн бұрын

You do what is best for you and to the rest of the world who are you to judge? If you’re not going to step up and take responsibility for the kid then hush up.

@sleepylittlekitty2963 25 күн бұрын

So,he was unfaithful,but everyone wants her to keep caring for his cheating as* and his affair baby? What is wrong with all those people,? They wouldn't do it either.

@melissareid640 29 күн бұрын

NTA> The child is not your responsibility. Why would you stay soon-to-be ex? Peace out play stupid games win stupid prizes. The people who feel badly can split days and take shifts with their ex and his love child.

@MerrySnowyOwl-cw2wd Ай бұрын

Survey says not the jerk

@gene8172 Ай бұрын

You have no obligation towards this child and it’s reasonable to ask Mom’s family to step up since Dad can no longer care for the child. This child is a legal and genetic stranger to you.

@gene8172 28 күн бұрын

4:38 Why would you put strawberries on a cake and not remove the inedible hull and the inedible greens?!?!

@shanelchamik2177 26 күн бұрын

The mother is alive, why is she pawning off her child.

@seccat 25 күн бұрын

If the OP kept the child, he/she would always sense the resentment. The child should go to the bio mom, or either grandparents. Don’t blame the OP’s children, because the infidelity was a betrayal to their family.

@lisavogt56 26 күн бұрын

2nd story.... Do you really want him back??!!

@Tomas-ql9yo 26 күн бұрын

I admire this lady greatly

@toriladybird511 26 күн бұрын

OP deserves her life back to.move on and find a happy path in her life. The kids and babys own family can do their best

@tessasmith1477 Ай бұрын

Catelyn stark, we know it's you!

@purpledevilr7463 Ай бұрын

Could’ve asked to pick up before pulling the ‘I will call CPS if not’ but not the ass. The divorce part is contextual. It does seem like, at least to outsiders, that it’s due to the medical issues. And splitting for that does seem cold. - it depends on the motivations. Was the health issues just the straw that made her realise? Seems so from what we can see.

@rhuonaChanel Ай бұрын

Yeah, i had this opinion too

@user-bi8ko7kc6h 27 күн бұрын

No, forgive him doesn’t mean not to divorce. You can forgive an affair but be upset and disappointed.

@Gma_Alma-Marie 23 күн бұрын

And yeah, inbox me if you want to send that information. I don’t have a problem taking care of children, innocent beautiful sweet unconditionally, loving children even when they’re not mine. I’ll adopt the child and I’ll love it with all my heart.

@syeneingram1218 26 күн бұрын

I think it's just projecting really. Doesn't make it right, because anyone with an actual brain could see how OP is the LEAST wrong one here. However, since the birth mom flew the coup theres no one to really lash out at for the situation, so she was the next best person for everyone to turn their attention to 🤷🏾‍♀️ That DEFINITELY doesn't excuse their behavior, just trying to figure out the "why's" of it all.

@RedditFamilyTales 26 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing ^^

@bobbirfosho236 26 күн бұрын

You have no idea if the child in question is even your deceased husband's child in the first place. If his affair partner just dropped the baby off with him and bounced out of the country then she should be charged with child abandonment, child neglect, and child support. I like how none of the comments say anything about the POS mother that abandoned her child! But expect a jilted woman who is already dealing with the aftermath of infidelity and then her husband's failing health and y'all expect her to also care for a new baby, GTFO! You have no responsibility, no obligation, no legal rights to the child! Your husband is dead and the best advice I can give is to lawyer up! Prove the kid is actually his and if it is set up a trust that they can access when they are of age!

@NadiaGirl1 21 күн бұрын

That’s what I said was there ever DNA testing

@freakerrr11 23 күн бұрын

Op aw op aw 😂😂😂

@Gma_Alma-Marie 23 күн бұрын

No, she’s not responsible for her husband‘s child from an affair however what she is responsible for is her attitude and actions that will directly impact that child during the course of all of this. The child is innocent more so than the wife because whatever was going on in the husband and wife relationship impacted the fact that he had an affair, the baby didn’t have any impact the baby had nothing to do with it. And nobody expects her to take care of the baby, but she didn’t have to act like an asshole and treated horribly and talk bad about it and you know damn well she did it in front of the child and the family and that’s just wrong. The child didn’t ask for this either you know. I have a little over 1 million and if she wanted to place the child with someone else awesome but you don’t go talking trash and treating the child like shit. You clearly didn’t forgive your husband don’t take it out on the child who is innocent. Counseling Jesus, your issues, but don’t mistreat innocent people.

@paulakelly3521 Ай бұрын

oooooooooohoooooohhhh

@Starrry21 26 күн бұрын

0:09 Thats my birthday But i am not born in 2024

@Some_Idiot_on_the_Internet Ай бұрын

But you didn't forgive him. At all. Two sentences later you lamenting that his heart attack didn't kill him, that doesn't sound like forgiveness to me. Not saying that it's wrong nit to forgive him, he's a turd, but don't lie.

@NourAmsterdam 29 күн бұрын

You don’t make sense or point

@fairyinutopia 28 күн бұрын

She did forgive him. But her condition for staying with him was that she has nothing to do with that baby or it’s maintenance. That agreement was breached when he had a heart attack, albeit unintentionally

@user-bi8ko7kc6h 27 күн бұрын

You can forgive someone but still be upset and disappointed.

@musicjunkie31karma 27 күн бұрын

You shouldn’t have taken him back then!! It’s not the child’s fault and having to be around a woman who doesn’t want it is damaging. It’s on this woman for staying. She’s a terrible person

@bobbirfosho236 26 күн бұрын

Really?!? ROFL

@musicjunkie31karma 26 күн бұрын

@@bobbirfosho236 yeah. Really. ROFL

@bobbirfosho236 26 күн бұрын

Your name says everything 😂😂🤣😂😂

@musicjunkie31karma 25 күн бұрын

@@bobbirfosho236 ok :-)

@musicjunkie31karma 25 күн бұрын

@@bobbirfosho236 don’t you have anything better to do?