NTA if the roles were reversed no one would tell her to forgive him, I don’t care if she’s pregnant abuse is never acceptable

Amazing how pregnancy seems to be a "get out of jail free" card. I call bullshit! Also, I wouldn't have threatened her with the police, I would have just called them.

NTA explain how you accidentally hit someone with a frying pan

NTA! This is who she really is. She pretended to be oone person then revealed her true self once she believed OP to be locked in with the child. The kicker for me was the father, who didn't oppose OP's actions and just helped her move. He knows the kind of offspring he raised. That poor baby is now going to have one hell of a life with a mother like that.

No. Absolutely not. That is abuse. If you were to lay hands on her, pregnant or not, people would go savage and try to throw you in prison within a heartbeat. Of course, you guys can co-parent if you want but going back with an abusive person is a HUGE no-no.

Nta this was clearly like even before the frying pan, her telling him leave the house and then locking the door behind him was a form of revenge for her. Also I'm sick and tired of people crying double standards whenever female abusers are brought up because it's really not like that. Society always afforded grace, while their victims need to forgive

What is with the speed??