Well, you did go to far by breaking things but you should juste have break up.
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Sooo she's living rent free and largely bill free in your house other than paying the utilities, and her part was trying to find a new job that she stopped doing 1/2 a year or more ago and cleaning and cooking...and she stopped cleaning months ago to play a game about *virtual* cleaning? And you're asking if you're the AH for adding to the mess she couldn't be bothered cleaning up before leaving and *she* cleaned up everything but the extra mess you made out of spite and went to her parents? She's taking advantage of you and you're letting her. BREAK-UP! Find someone you have feelings for who *also* contributes to your combined household either with paying some bills (depending on their income) and/or household mmaintenance/chores. I'm pretty sure your ex will come back wanting to reconcile after *you* apologise, but don't fall for it; she'll just get on her parents nerves and they'll want her out and she'll remember how good she had it with you and act like she's doing you a favour.