Blaming you and calling *you* digusting for being *born* is seriously messed up. Your parents are the ones who chose to be disgusting and cheat on a dying woman, but them holding *you* more accountable than their dad who made the choice is horrible, but not as horrible as the dad and grandparents who try to make you feel crazy for noticing and not being ok with being abused for something outside your control because you hadn't even been *born* yet. Make your half-sibling, dads and grandparents aware that because of their *disgusting* behaviour in choosing to blame the child for their parents actions, you'll be going LC or NC as soon as you're able to (by age or moving out) since all of them feel your dad and mums actions are somehow your fault since your dad and grandparents have never called them on it, probably justifying it with 'they have the right to be mad' when they're taking it out on *you* and be sure to tell your half-siblings kids to hope that their parents never do anything wrong or *the kids* will be blamed for it, even the kids that aren't born yet. Look them all in the eyes and leave with your head held high, knowing that they'll all probably congratulate themselves on 'finally' getting rid of you. They are toxic people who think they're justified, so no matter how right you are in standing up for themselves, they're mindset has *them* as the victims and *you* as the problem, so no matter how many times you call them on it, they'll never see their actions as wrong even more so because your dad and grandparents never hold them accountable.

this makes me unbelievably angry, op is innocent but is suffering the punishment

Poor kid needs an entirely new family. Thankfully, one of the best things about becoming an adult is having control over who u allow close to u. Forget all of them, find clubs at school or community groups, support groups....etc. you'll find people who understand u and actually care. "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the waters of the womb." Basically, the ties u make to people throughout life mean so much more than who u share blood with. Don't ever let anyone guilt u into doing things u don't want to because of "family". None of them deserve to know u.

0:59 for those from shorts!

As an affair child I can relate that shit sucks.Especially if the cheater doesn’t feel remorse or even say it’s their fault this happened. My half siblings one older one younger are creepy (the older one seems to view me as not a sibling more like a girlfriend so yea I think he like incest) (younger just like smashing things and looking me dead in the eyes) so I wouldn’t really know how it feels to be hated just hurt and the pain of not getting your feelings acknowledged when you are opening up about something they do…

Nta

Just turn 18 and go scorched earth. I fight so if I ever heard something like that I’m definitely getting active🫡