Never tell one of THESE men. You should be able to talk to your significant others about damn near anything. Especially your past. If you can’t do that then that means you need to end that relationship bc it’s not going anywhere. Either it’s a you, them, or both

Ain’t that the truth!

Amen!!!!

Truth.

Facts!!!

YUP!

Hollywood is filled with these sick people🤢

@thelies-thisiswhoiaminreal7498 Yea right lol. So they never asked how old she was huh? I guess so they could play dumb

@The Lies-This is who I am in real life sure they might not have known at first, but he was dating her for a minute lol you’d have to know her age when her birthday comes around

Nasty

We agree ❤️❤️

Oh this comment reminds me F- Balenciaga.

@@princessjada3808 Spill the tea. ☕

@@danavixen6274 ( not allegedly) The most recent ads glorified and showcase kids( insinuate)being compromised in the worst way. They also had books highlighting demon worship. Unapologetic and intentionally. The freaking teddy bears had S&M straps. Disgusting 🙅🏾‍♀️

@@princessjada3808 Thanks for letting me know. 🤢🤮

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And her mental disabilities… it all makes sense.

Blah blah blah

I do hope she looks into some form of counseling, it’s affected her so much at this point. She needs to find other avenues to heal, if not for herself at least for her kids

@@ansiejeanty8814 lol

She most likely lied about her age. She mentioned she would forge her mom's name on release forms so she could appear in music videos.

BINGO! Corporations have a responsibility to do their homework. Doesn’t excuse them

I am living for “Boward Woward.” Thank you 😅

Not Boward Woward 😅😅😅😅

No you did NOT just put Boward Woward honey I'm HOLLERING!🤣

@@kiarieray5975 🤣🫠

@The Lies-This is who I am in real life my heart broke when she did that like tbh and seeing how Cyn reacted was so sad

Agreed!!! 👏👏👏 She needs to heal from her past, relationships etc. And heal from her self bf getting into another relationship. But just my opinion!

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Thank you!!!

Big facts. Her toxic ass and she been a bully for years

Exactly

I think both of then play apart in the married because i understand how raise but she have want get therapy instead go from one man another man.

Lol

Wow that’s deep!

Yep, the same black man ♂️👞

They get the same black men that we get even though they think that they're better than us.

Are you happy about that or something???? You’d be crying colorism/racism/featuring if someone said that about unambiguous bw

This comment I hate that they have the standard that they are different from black women

I been knew that’s why I cringe every time I see black women begging for black men to stay. Nahhh LET THEM GO!!

Who cares what happened to her when she was younger. How many black women have been abused and mistreated in our community, where is the sympathy for us?????

Bird Lady Speaks. Same here. Ty for sharing this. As a survivor of childhood trauma I also accepted Christ & years of recovery work. It all saved me from a lot of pain and not making horrible mistakes especially in the relationship paradigm. So many stories everywhere just like this. Many of these women ending up murdered or committing suicide. Tragic.

She’s toxic but listening to her upbringing I see why

@@ansiejeanty8814 In case you did not notice this video is about Erica. No one is ignoring the fact that alot of black women have been through abuse and mistreated also. However, this video is based solely on Erica that is why people are commenting on her situation. Had the video been about black women then the main focus would be on black women.

@The Lies-This is who I am in real life This...👏👏👏👏 Let's be honest if Erica was not a preference to certain black men alot of black women would not be acting so heartless, spiteful and bitter in the comment section. I am so happy that I am soo secure within myself to not have hate in my heart. It was certain black men who labelled her a preference so go be angry with those black men. I will never ever be bitter towards any women that a black man prefers to be with.

Exactly

Yes she is the red flag

Spot on

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This is THE COMMENT!!!!😭

All her relationships are a distraction… from herself.

Yes, that's her in the towel smh

They should not allow girls so young to be in that kind of work, they should make it 18yrs old.

Trust me it was worse in the 90s and early 2000s for them.

That would help her so much!!!

Most people had tough childhoods.

@@black5547 Definitely and many of them continue to suffer and make unscrupulous decisions as adults.

@@black5547 everyone handles trauma differently

Multiple partners in adulthood also affects your adulthood. It comes with good experience but mostly bad that we ignore but will never shake off.

Oh we agree! But we can't really get into the other aspect of that relationship without the video getting flagged. We think the illegal and predatory aspect of it speaks for itself. And yes, Raul is the father. We forgot to add that part about the pregnancy 😭 thanks for watching.

Yeah I was confused when the son was mentioned

Raul/Fat Joe can go for twins..they look related. Even her son resembles Joe!

@@rrg you did great...to me it was explanatory that her first child was by Raul...

I'll pray for her with you cause at the end of the day we are all human lord please bless her and her babies in Jesus name amen ♥

LHH NY started in 2010/2011 not 2005.

Yes, however as a person who was sexually abused, prayed on, manipulated experienced Stockholm syndrome, hit by a person I thought I loved and loved me, tumultuous relationship with my parents, it's very easy to find comfort in drama. It becomes second nature, you begin to see yourself as less than and it's veryyyyy hard to break cycles, etc. Let's just pray for her, and not judge...

@@tinyking11 Your right Im sorry. 🙏

@@MizzTrinieFyre There are cycles and then there are excuses. Every human on the planet has a story and a testimony of tragedy including myself personally. But there has to come a time when you have to put your hurt, ego, pride and personal will to the side and make the necessary steps to not be that person who was hurt at 5, 15, or any age and take the grown up healing steps of forgiving the past, stop blaming everyone else for your pain, take responsibility for your actions and the pain you caused others, realize the generational curse you are walking in and accept you need to heal and need help from a higher power outside of yourself and what the world can bring with temporary self gratification. When every time someone acts reckless then tells their trauma story to justify their actions and does not apologize nor accept responsibility for the actions of the hurt they have caused others that person is using their trauma as a weapon to gain sympathy, to win arguments and to excuse their behavior and not heal from it and Erica Mena has been doing this since the beginning of this show. In the book of John 5 in the bible Jesus met a ill man at the pool of Bethesda. It says in the bible Jesus already knew he had been sick for 38 years. He asked the man do you want to be healed and at first the man gave Jesus all the excuses of no one helping him and he's been this way for years, etc. Then Jesus gave a command to walk again to be healed and instead of giving Jesus more excuses he accepted responsibility and said yes to coming out of his situation and accept healing and only then he was fully healed and able to walk again. This is what I mean by we all have a story and a tragedy that can keep us bound if we choose but we all have a personal choice to move forward into our healing as well and not be defined by our past and no one can do this for us but us. I watched this show in my 18-20s and felt for Erica then stopped for years and to see Erica acting the same way as I watch at 30 I don't feel the sympathy now I feel someone who wants sympathy not accountability.

@@katvogue2871 agree.

@@katvogue2871 all she is saying is an adult you have to take accountability for YOUR actions! At one point or another… she chose these men and continued to be in this cycle. Her childhood and teens were very traumatic. However, some of these cards were either dealt to her or she dealt them to herself. She needs to heal and love herself more to be able to receive the love she always wanted cause it ain’t in these men she choosing.

When you know better, you do better. I have no idea what abandonment feels like or having to do whatever to survive as a child. On love and hip hop, Erica never had the support from the other women. This season she a crew of sisters who are supporting her because she needs it. I say all that to say, your wake-up call to make changes in your life can happen at any age. Sadly, it takes some people a lot longer. I'll continue to pray for her

@@katvogue2871 yea that's what therapy and self-love come into play She has 3 minor children who rely on her and its unhealthy how she's been moving. If She doesn't change, she'll end up in prison or institutionalized which I'm turn will leave her 3 babies in the EXACT place she was in as a child when all adults abandon their love, security and protection. History will repeat itself if you don't ACTIVELY change and put I'm effort to center yourself around positivity & peace.

@@katvogue2871 I said nothing but truth and maybe it hurts but it is what it is. Idc what happened to you in your past....as an adult the responsibility to not be a victim of your past is ultimately up to you. Your trauma all the mishandling you may have gone thru is not ok.....but what r u gonna do about it!?!?!? As an adult you have to be responsible for your own healing to make a better you and ultimately a better life. She has 3 other lives depending on her. She doesnt have a choice but to get better. Her story doesn't have to be mine in order for me to say this applies to each and everyone of us regardless of our past.

Not to mention preyed upon, forced to grow up wayyyyy to fast with no true guidance, abuse, 🥺💫

@@MizzTrinieFyre yea good point… that’s why I understand why she normalizes dysfunction. That’s all she knows.

I can relate but I can’t relate being given the platform and resources despite all of that. Different rules for us and for them.🤷🏽‍♀️

Exactly!!

You contradicting yourself though. Once you deal with your past no one can use it against you. And not all men are trash, some actually create a healing environment for you

@@poelomokgotho8127 that’s why I used the words “Some” and “a lot” and also said go to therapy and work on yourself before getting into a relationship…

She's always taught that she was better and has been disrespectful to black women.

@@ansiejeanty8814 I know I honestly thought that she was black for awhile

I’m not understanding why she was picked as a topic

Yes!! Exactly how easily people forget but it's all well documented on the internet forever

Erica mena is an extremely hateful, evil violent person. This is her own karma and making

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I was looking for this comment 🤣

That is an awesome idea!! I would love to see that!

This one wasn't even fun or enjoyable to make like the other red flags videos, so we're done with this topic. Thanks for watching.

We don’t know what she did to him. He still on mute about it. She is no victim.

Nicki is still messed up til this day to walking around with that child predator as her husband. Whatever safaree is doing to these women must be sinister 😭

The toxicity is familiar. Abuse victims don’t know any other way so they replay the same scenarios out over and over. The only way for change is intense healing.

I'm telling you...that core of hers it rottennnnn baby, I can see it all over her face!

@@Shannon627 naw Erica is wicked !

Yep

Erica is THE Red flag

Draya from Basketball Wives? I was looking at the video like who dat? 😂

Sounds like GU.

this part!

Help is hard to find.

@@evaphillips2102 not if you truly want it.. help also comes in different ways.. could be through friends.. counseling.. possible therapy.. dating someone who understands and will be patient with you.. just depends..

Not just dated but got engaged 2 months after getting locked up

Hey bestie!

Nah safaree a whole deadbeat 🤣

@@mambatv2469 & she is a toxic piece of…….

So true

Me either

What are some things she's done? I get she's no angel but everyone seems to not care about her dispite her story.

I don't feel sorry for a lot of the ladies or men on these weird reality shows. However I think maybe if erica were dark skin maybe people would have empathy for her just saying.

@noneya123 I think its understandable but a bit hypocritical at the same time. They give so much grace to someone like safaree but when it comes to erica it's so much worse. It's very misogynistic and hypocritical in a way.

Yup

Thanks so much

I know she is very toxic, but it's clear she has some work to do on herself. Now is the best time to hit the pause button and do the work in therapy. Safaree broke her down so much that I already see the change in her.

Thank you, bestie!

@@rrg 🤗🤗

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Thanks for the sub, and we're glad you're enjoying our videos!

👏🏾💕It's the news lady voice throwing shade for me... 🤣🤣

Deserves? Lol

Not deserves. She deserves to get therapy. Her unhealed traumas is why she's so unhinged and always terrorizing others. She doesn't know peace.

No she doesn’t she’s terrible

LOL thanks for watching ❤❤❤

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I'd watch it, but I'm not supporting that other walking red flag Marcus Houston. He needs a video for himself if he doesn't have one already!

@@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect Lol...yes, RRG did a video on Marcus Houston already full of Plenty-Tea ☕.

@@unapologetic1413 thanks let me go look for it

Stepmother 2 is pretty good also. She is on two other Tubi movies.

@@kimc.5625 I saw Stepmother 2 recently and that was also good. The way the movie ended I believe there might be a Stepmother 3.

No shade to anyone or to other channels. It's just our preference at RRG ❤️

Hi bestie!

@@rrg Hey 🥰

We love you too!

Exactly KARMA