38 turning 39 in April, no friends, no wife, no kids and also an orphan. May God bless you with everthing you desire.

I'm 38 no children or husband and i can trump you. An unemployed graduate to top it off. But ive never been more closer to God so honestly lifes good🙏🏽

We care about you my beloved Somali sister much love from Djibouti. May Allah protect you and bless you. Stay strong ✊

الزًواج ليس إنجازا في الحياة يا فاطمة .. هو رزق من اللّه يكتبه لمن يشاء لحكمة و يمنعه عمًن يشاء لحكمة ..هو يعلم و نحن لا نعلم و أمره كلّه خير ..رزقك اللّه زوجا صالحا و ذرية صالحة و راحة بال ..آمين

Sister Fatima, you are young! I met my husband at 42!! Nothing is impossible biithnillah! Make the "Rabbana hablana" Dua everyday in Sujood. It worked for me and will work for you too Insha'Allah. May Allah SWT bless you and every single sister with blessed marriages, and put barakah and blessings into every marriage. Ameen 🤲

Im turning 44 and just had a baby a year ago. So dont despair. Allah has His plans. Just do your best with each day your are given and dont mesure your success by the yardsrick set by humans. Rather measure yourself by the way your Creator has set the standards. Read surah Al mu'minun, the first page to understand what it means to be successful in the eye's of your Lord. What He considers successful is more important than what the created think is. Sending you love and positive vibes ❤

I’m 37,no husband and no kids yet. I worry sometimes if i’ll ever have kids coz it has caused two of my relationships not working out. I’m an orphan too,mum died when i was six years old. I’ve been thinking about her so much lately. Thank God i have many pics of her and us together and i remember how loving she was. I’ll live with that forever. I see a lot of her traits in me and i love it. When i get kids God willing,i’ll do a lot of documenting to keep the memories. I’ve seen it’s importance especially when you’re no longer here. I’m your new subie ❤

I'm a man and was 34 when i got married. Everyone said i was old to have kids blah blah blah. Especially my family members. Im an attractive guy. But my little education and low pay were why a couple of families rejected my proposal. Then, when I turned 34. I met my wife. She asked me about if i offer salah. I said all 5 regularly, Alhumdulillah. She asked about my job. I told her it was low paying. She didn't care. Because she was more focussed on my deen. Alhumdulillah, today i am married and have 4 kids. I know the feeling you are going through, even though im a man. InshAllah you will realize like I did. Allah is the best of planners.

Well let me say this . I was 35 and married , still no kids and then 3 and a half years later my husband died suddenly at age 38 . This is now 4 years later and I'm still single and no kids . In life all we have control of is now and we must be happy every day and not just wait for these moments we hope to achieve because life is short and goes by so quickly.

Im 23 soon 24 and I have always thought that my weight is the reason why I am not married yet, and chose to start my weight loss journey. But witnessing other slimmer women that goes through this, made me realize that it was nothing wrong with me. However im stilll going to complete my weight loss so I can please Allah by taking care of the body he gave me

It's great that you are talking about yourself. This is most cathartic and most helpful to your mental health. You are just fine as you are with your experience today. Don't blame yourself or feel that you're a failure. Life's a journey so enjoy it fully. Don't compare yourself with others. It's not worth it to judge yourself harshly. Be yourself

25, not married but a single mum to one beautiful daughter. Sometimes I go through my life in my head, over and over, wondering how different things would have been if I had not chosen so wrong. But every time I look at her, she gives me a reason to wake up everyday. Will I ever have any more? Perhaps not! Will I ever experience a normal family? Never. Will I ever get married and perhaps change my mind on more kids? I don't know. Whatever the trajectory of my life turns out to be, God is holding my hand and I his. I am okay with where He leads me. All the best dearest. I am sure that it is never too late to get married and have a child

Patience is important. Pray and wait. But don't be blind by kindness. I met my husband at 33. Married at 40, 1st baby at 41, 2nd at 43 yrs old 😍 💖.

I’m 39, no husband, no children. You are not alone sister. May Allah grant us good spouses Ameen 🙏🏼🌿💐❤️

Last year, I was working full time, budgeting groceries, unable to afford date nights, and missing time with my kids. Now I learned how to make money online. Now am a SAHM, homeschooling, and making profits every week.

It's Very Rare To See A Women Look 10 Years Younger, Because Usually Women Age Faster Than Man، Good For You And God Protect You, My Sister Fatima، And Do Not Lose Hope, God Wiling You Will Get Married Soon

Turned 36 yesterday no child and husband... You are not alone and there's nothing wrong with us ❤

I’m almost 35 no kids no husband I’m just living my life my mom is low key pressuring me but we don’t all have the same journeys it’s a marathon not a race ♥️♥️♥️

Thank you for starting this! You’re doing a great job.

Life is not a race sister , do what you can and soldier on ❤

Please continue documenting your journey; it makes you feel less alone knowing that there are other women who are in the same situation as you x

I am 32, never married, no kids and battling spinal and knee osteoarthritis. Not bad am able to do daily work but I think peace is more important. I treasure that now.

This is bold and courageous of you coming to air this. Sometimes, life just happen. We implore Allah have mercy on us throughout this life journey. Wa sabiroon innallaha ma'asabiriin

The wisdom behind men having multiple wives is soo evident. Wish sisters could realize how beneficial it would be for them..

Good to meet you. My belief is that there's a very special societal role for people like us, single and no children. We live outside the cultural norms. We have a perspective that's valuable. ...Thank you for sharing with us.

I'll be making 34 soon and I have no husband or kids. I pray we all get married and make happy, healthy and prosperous families. Aameen.

Life is nothing but a test. We are all being test in various ways. The victorious are the patient.

thank you so much!!! PPl think they are fighting alone, spiritual fight is real, everything we do we should do with Almighty God, you are very blessed I believe. Baraka Allah feek

❤ I'm 29 and have lost all interest in romantic relationships, children, or marriage. I dont think this will change anytime soon, and thats okay.❤ All the best in your pursuits ma'am 🎉

My mom got married when she was 34 and she had my sister at 40 years old when I asked her how she handled Society's hurtful words and the pressure from her friends and relatives she told me that she had strong faith that Allah swt has the best plan for her always keep Allah in your minds sisters and have faith and hope ❤️❤️❤️ (I'm sorry for my bad English😅 )

I just turned 30 with no kids and no husband but you know what ! I’m Gonna live my best life and look good doing it . I have so much debt and my plan to finish school and get out of debt so I can travel the world . I know I will meet my husband one day. We have to just take it one day at a time and walk in our purpose . ❤

You are a blessed child! The problem with us human beings is that we try to establish our own destinies which often is almost always influenced by our environment/society. But the ways of the Almighty arefar beyond our small finite minds. But we MUST ALWAYS wait for GOD'S time to avoid real trouble. Be encouraged 🙏

What people don’t tell you about relationships is that you don’t get a say in whether you are loved, hated or just simply rejected by someone, it’s up to them. And in no way should anyone be sitting up wondering if someone else will love and accept. If it happens great, if it doesn’t that’s okay too, especially if you tried

If you are not married and have no kids. Please do not feel that your life is unfulfilled. It’s better to be in a place of peace than hear kids crying or always have to communicate to make arrangements for kids. Believe living your life is more important than making the world makes you feel you have failed

Sis do istighfar you will see a miracle inshallah may Allah swt bless you with a loving husband

Wow....this video touched me. I immediately started praying for you Fatima. Let me assure you, you are not a failure and you have not failed in life. You are just beginning your beautiful and amazing story. I know you are a Muslim...I myself am a Christian but my family are Muslim. I believe that God makes all things new in his own time. If marriage and children is your desire he will surely make it come to pass in his own time. I really enjoyed your video ❤

I’m 36 in an unhappy marriage, 2 cute dogs who show me unconditional love, one cat, and no kids - do what makes you happy not what society expects-keep God first

Sis my aunty was 40 who got married. Got a child 41 and honestly it felt probably for her forever too. But guess what?? It happened. And I have utmost believe Allah has a plan for you in a way you would be pleased with your Lord. Be HEAVILY with/within your Heart believe it. Forget everyone and everything what the society says. We do not an should not follow their guidelines. We follow Allah's. May this reach you and may Allah allow it to keep you steadfast and give you the imaan and strength and increased belief and hold your heart steady and recognise this message.

Thank you for finally putting this out there

This came on my recommended, and I am immediately captivated by your energy. May Allah continue to give you peace and happiness. Thank you for sharing your story. I really needed to hear it♥

You can get married young and still end up with no children and get divorced. Such is life, we go with the flow that Allah has ordained for us. We plan, but Allah's plan is better. May Allah swiftly award you with everything you deserve! Ameen.

I met my hubbie at 37, got married at 40. No kids, but a happy relationship for 12 years now. I was happy before I met him and I am happy now sharing my life with him. Happiness is coming from inside, nobody is meant to be in this world to complete us as a person.

You are wonderful. Don’t despair.

My sister is one year older than me, got married at 23 and has 3 kids now. She's 35 and I'm 34, single, no kids, never married. I never ever wish to have her life, and she never ever wishes to have mine. We're just different people with different personalities, dreams, and destinies, and we're both very happy with what God has decreed for us.

i am in same case, almost 38 and no husband no children, this video helped me a lot

My mums husband passed away (my father) when she was 33 and she got married around 38 and my little sister was born when she was around 40. Allah always has a plan for you, he knows what’s best for us. Tie your camel and put your trust in Allah. It’s never too late for anything

Thank you immensely for your vulnerability and courage in posting this video. There are millions of us here who can relate to everything you are sharing.

thanks for making this video, now gonna watch part 2

No woman should measure worth on being married and having kids. All my life I thought these were milestones, but, they are not. I got diagnosed with cancer in my uterus in 2019, I turn 42 this year. Are kids and marriage such a huge thing? No! Being happy in life is, that happiness isn’t attached to marriage or conceiving. I thought all this before, but life humbles you and you’re not sat there thinking you “failed”. Some of us have a different calling, embrace that, if that’s what is happening. ❤

You don’t look 38, you’re gorgeous sister

Masha Allah, truly inspiring. While I may not fully relate, I have six sisters experiencing similar things.My advice, not just to them but to anyone entering marriage, is to avoid making it challenging for men with unrealistic expectations.. Marriage is a blessing, but my plea to my sisters is to ease the process by avoiding unnecessary prerequisites that many men find difficult. Wallah I’ve seen sisters turn down amazing men for stupid things.Finding a good man is more then his looks or the degree he has. How many women married so called “ good looking and successful “ men and regret it . Don’t be shallow and follow what other women tell you,set your own expectations based on what you value the most. If you’re very shallow and looking for picture perfect spouse to pose on social media then you already lost. Finally don’t forget the power of Dua and Istikhara. To my beautiful sisters out three ,stay resilient, and what's meant for you will come in Sha Allah

I really commend your bravery for posting this video. I'm a successful male. I make more than enough with a great job. Growing up I never thought ill have children with 3 different women, the third woman being my wife. By the way im not promiscuous its just that made wrong choices twice but finally made the right choice. My point is, life says everything is a straight line then throws us a curve ball. If there's anything I've learnt, it's to find happiness in every disappointment. I look after all my kids and make sure I'm in their lifes every day. all my brothers have kids with one woman. Sometimes I feel I'm a loser and wish I could change back the hand of time but lately I've come to terms with it and find solace in my children. Worry less and be happy. Everyone has some issue that they will rather trade with yours; it could be marriage issue, children, money, sickness etc. Don't give up, and always look at the positive side. All the best

My aunt was a little picky, didn’t really go out to meet people and lived in a countryside, where all the men is married already with kids. It was her decision to not marry and decided to care for my grandparents. She dedicated her life to her parents. Now, we are taking care of her.

Everyone’s journey is different sister. I was so reluctant to get married due to some unpleasant events in the past. My engagement broke almost 11th times. I was so heartbroken after my first engagement got cancelled after two years, cause I somehow developed feelings towards him. It was then I started my hifdh journey, now looking back I realise It was undoubtedly a blessing from Allah. 8 years later Allah granted me as a hafidh of Quran and blessed me with an amazing husband who is truly coolness of my eyes. My journey was not easy, I fought with severe depression but I made it with the grace of Allah

You're really courageous for expressing yourself. You're complete in Allah and the joy you need is already with you. i can definitely understand these fears but be kind with yourself especially when you think

Be strong my sister allaah something special for you

My sister is 32 ,no kids,no husband, I'm 40 I'm a single parent, there's nothing to be ashamed of being single with no children, focus on yourself and don't worry about anybody else 💝

Can we talk about how stunning you look ❤ glowing!! I believe there are no mistakes in life and wherever you are on your journey is where you are meant to be.

Masha Allah! It shall be fine, just be you and focus on the good side of you which made you to reach out to us and be mindful of of many of us. In Shaa Allah this Ramadan you other part will reach out to you. I must say you are beautiful in and out I hope so.

Thank God for unanswered prayers Fatima! If you have inner peace and fulfillment this is all that matters. Don't suffer fools gladly - relationships are serious work. Best wishes for 2024

Sister my cousin got married when she was in her early thirties and got divorced and suffered a miscarriage. She didn’t think she’ll get married but she did in her early 40s and tried IVF to get pregnant but they told her she wouldn’t get pregnant. She got pregnant a year later naturally. Subhanallah she has a beautiful daughter now who’s a year old. So don’t ever feel like you’re a failure. Allah has a plan for everyone. I recommend if you aren’t doing so to wake up for qiyam layl and make dua for all you desire. I pray Allah showers you with happiness, love and success.

As a new muslima, I am going through same sister close to 30 no kids no husband but I just tell myself “Allah willing” if it’s not his will for me, I do not want it..sometimes Allah has other plans for us and that’s ok!! ❤️😄

Even though I may not relate, your video resonates and I would like to send some love your way and say that we have hope in life because our true identity comes from a place beyond the origins of our humanity. Our true identity lies in the Divine and it is my prayer that we all find the path to reconnecting to that true identity in God that is found only in Jesus Christ.

Im 37 soon to be 38 years old Alxamdu lil Allah. You are not alone sis. Allah knows best. May Allah subhana wa tàala bless us with good spouses and kind good hearted children. Amiin!!! 🤲🏾

Thank you for sharing your journey. You all have a path that Allah has chosen for us. I have been married twice and 2 children, 1 from each. Took 10 years between the 2. I am still in a divorce proceeding with the 2nd. It has been Rocky, trimultious, shattering, full of grievances... the stress has taking a toll on all of me. I don't think I will never recover. I wish you an amazing man that would make your wait worth it.

I am 31 years old. I am not married and have no children. My family constantly pressures me to get married. They say I will become old and unwanted. Their words hurt me. I believe that God has plans for us.

Walaal I am saying this from the bottom of my heart . You are beautiful, educated and modesty young woman. I see a lot of energy and strength in you. Walaal you are a strong . I understand your frustration. Please continue praying to Allah and ask for help more than you ask anyone else . I will keep you in my prayers . May Allah ease your burden

Live life on youre terms missy as long as it doesn't hurt no one else there no problem no shame to be had

This “ failure in life” shouldn’t exist in a Muslims mind, it’s a kuffar mindset who lacks the concept of the hereafter. We as Muslims have the belief as long as u are breathing there’s a chance to success. If u are unmarried, unable to have children etc then that’s a qadr of Allah. Do try to get married, if it doesn’t work out remember that everything in this dunya is bound to perish nothing lasts forever it’s all temporary. The real failure is not returning to Allah while you can. May Allah make it easy for you sister

May Allah make it easy on u Sister . I’m 44 and have no husband . Never loose hope sister we never know what Allah has planned for us if we don’t get it in this life Insha Allah in the akirah we will 😊

Wow.... Everyone have reasons of doing things either right or wrong. I will love to be in your life and be that experience for you, you will ever be blessed to have.

No worries. Just Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah. Greetings from Ghana. Remain Blessed Muslimah sister.

I commend you sister for facing your fears, and not allowing cultural taboos to hold you back from sharing your story. Whatever plans Allah has for you, you’ll not miss out on.

Fatma I’m not Muslim, but I am in my late 30s and not married with no kids. I feel like I’m different as well. The way the world works, I don’t feel like I fit in. But I believe in God and I believe he has someone special for us! ❤ I’m wanting to document my life as well but just scared.

It's never late until it's late. Everything is possible under the sun wherever there's intent. 38 looks good on you ✨

I'm very proud of you young lady keep up the good work

35 and no kids, no husband. I’ve had more travel and experiences than all of my friends with children combined. They love to live vicariously through me while I love watching their adventures with their beautiful families. I have a boyfriend an while kids seem wonderful in many ways, the older I get the more I realize I do not need them to feel complete as a person. Much love to everyone, children or not we all have different fulfillments in our life that makes us feel completed.

Hi sis, you're not a failure. Your journey is going how God planned it. I'm turning 35 single but available, with no children and currently unemployed. However, I am trusting God with my life. I will not stress myself about how my life is at the moment. God is working things for you, it may not seem that way, but God has unimaginable things in store for you.

Trust me when I say this, as a sister to a sister, sometimes it’s better being single.

I am 30,not married,a mother to a three year old. I pray daily for the Lord Jesus Christ to bring me a good, kind, husband. I don't have any time for games.

Insha Allah it will happen for you, it will happen for you when it's good for you because Allah loves you more than anyone. I am 43 and have unexpectedly fallen pregnant, for Allah nothing is impossible, pls pray for yourself in tahajjud. Allah wants to draw you closer.

Every brother and sister that wants the easiness of this life and the next 5 daily prayers...doing good for both parents and relatives...alot of istiqfar and tasbiih...qiyamul leyl( night prayers)...sleep early you will be satisfied and not be fatigued and happy

Sometimes you just need to go around get to meet new people, it's help alot and you will never know how people care and love you 😍, just have faith

Allah is your strength my sister, when it's time it will happen. And yours will be among the best Insha Allah.

I just stumbled upon your channel and immediately subsribed.I too am 38,single,childless and unfortunately jobless .I am from south sudan and in my country single and childless women are a pariah,I am constantly shamed and ridiculed because of this.I live in constant depression and suffer low esteem.I thank you for your bravery,because through your story you are helping empower women like us.Thank you for sharing your story🙏🏿

I just turned 25 & I’m starting to think about marriage sort of frequently now, I don’t want to delay it for too long but InshAllah Allah will decide the right time for it. I felt for you, InshAllah you will get a good husband. I’m also glad I have a documentation of my life at many points of it so I’m honestly really grateful for that.

You're still young, girl sister, don't worry, live your life ❤❤❤

Calm down Fatma, try not to be too hard on yourself . Life comes with its seasons. A special GOD sent time will come to you, just have faith.

Hi Fatma, i just want to encourage you that everything has its time and i believe in the right time, the right person will come your way and even if we are alone, we can live life to the fullest! I am 30 and separating from my spouse of 4 years, got married at a young age and ended up realizing how unhappy we have been and that I am happier alone. But I am still keeping positive too! :)

This made me tear up. The part about fear is so relatable, keep documenting your life sis, these will become cherished memories

Assalam alaikum Fatma! Thank you for the story. Surely you are not alone. I actually did not know that there is any other person who wish to see her/himself as a young one as me. The hardships we grow in should not stop us from achieving our success. You now taught me a great lesson I will keep in mind! May Allah bless you and grant you ease!

Sister … I am a revert… I got married to a man when I was 35… he wasted my time and cheated and lied to me… I divorced… I was 41 and single…. I met someone else … he is much older than me … so I gave up thinking about having a family … at 42 I had a baby … then at 45 I had a second baby - naturally … I had been trying for years before with my first husband and it never happened. Pls stay positive .. I will keep making duaa for you… I am sure it is the duaa of others who gave me the chance to be a mamma that I thought would never happen to me

My mom got married at 38 and had kids in her 40s. There always a possibility but don’t make it your life’s worth!

Your doing great Allahuma barik ! Listen sis I’m 30 not married and there is nothing wrong with you sis change your problems to dua and have faith in Allah you’ve got this .

Just clean all that thoughts and be happy cause you deserve it ❤

Am 32yrs got a teenage son on my late teenage years tried marriage and a relationship never worked out now in my 30s have decided to raise my son happily single and thank God everything seems to work on my favour.

There's something about this video that really moved me.I don't know if it's because I wanted to start video journeys myself or if it's because you're a Somali woman who's putting her authentic self despite the social climate or if it's because you're an older woman who isn't married and has no children or maybe it's because I share your sentiment that I've been fighting the world, problems and people for long, I'm not sure what it is but something moved me enough to leave this comment. It's just so refreshing to see videos like this from faces like yours, I've subscribed and hope to see more from you!

I saw this video at the perfect time. I'm nearly 34, single and want kids. I want a life partner to share my life with and seeing all these women share about their journies in the comments gives me some peace

ALLAHUMA BARIK sis I pray Allah grants you with a righteous spouse and offsprings❤❤

My Allah bless you sister! Patience pays off. Dua or prayers is the only thing that changes or can alter God's decree. May Allah bless you with all that you desire, happiness and much more 📿👐