The ones that I like, don't like me. And the ones that like me, I don't like.

I’m 64; my son and wife passed many years ago and I’m perfectly happy in my solitude considering what’s out there compared to my feminine smoke show traditional wife I had. I’m extremely grateful 💪

”If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away, If you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. And if they don't come, you still have your garden”

Having children is NOT an accomplishment. Almost anyone can do that. Raising a healthy wholesome family is the accomplishment.

By the time most people get rich, they’ve lost both their health and youth. The art is having all three at the same time.

As you get older nothing is better than PEACE - Kingswagger

49, never married, no kids, had an 11 year relationship that ended, been on my own mostly, enjoy doing my own thing.

I've found the sweet spot to be 23-35. the older I get the more I protect my peace.

I'm 46 and single. Not about selfishness at all. It's about peace and getting in touch with your soul...

To people who have never experienced true isolation; it's nothing to romanticize about.

We come in alone and leave alone.....best try to enjoy the ride....

Went my own way at 45 upon a divorce from 20+year marriage. 57 now. Each year that goes by seems more and more the case i'll be on my own to the end.

I've been single for 10 years...was married before that. No kids. I'm living like an absolute king. I have my "fun" but I'm single by choice and will never live with someone else. Peace and quiet is the best.

Men like women. Women like money. Nothings complicated.

It's better to want what you don't have, than have what you don't want!

I really don’t afraid of dying alone! Even if you have children, they’ll leave you one day and I’ll never sad even nobody comes to my grave

You born alone and die alone! Great content as always! 👏

3:45 “having children is the ultimate satisfaction”. Maybe this is true for some, but not for all. Many men abandon their kids.

I'm 52, never married and no kids. I work like a dog, eat like a king, sleep like a baby and travel like a nomad because I'm free as a bird. Seasons in life. In my twenties, I struggled to make myself worthwhile to someday have a family. I missed the boat. No regret.

I'm 54, never married, no kids, never wanted either. Have had some amazing relationships and am very grateful for that. But I've always been more or less a loner, introvert, etc. At this age I'm just about ready to remain single. In some ways it's a relief. I'm still human and still desire connection, but I'm really not sure what that will look like for me from here on out. Aging poses different challenges as your health becomes more compromised, your body starts to fall apart, and mentally you're tired too. You just want peace.

Hitting 31, 32 as a man is nothing! YOU still have a lot of TIME! Focus on yourself, make sure you can financially provide and the rest will follow! My cousin got married at 40, got a beautiful daughter. Don't let bullshit on the internet discourage you.

With Jesus Christ on my side im never alone seek him while he may be found.

Peace of mind is more important than piece of a_ _

58 and walked the golf course today and shot 3 over par. Drove the green twice today. I'm still almost as strong as I was in my 20s. Stopped walking on my hands at 50 to save my shoulders. I love life and people but Marriage is a rigged game....not worth the risk. Timmy C Arizona

I gave up on having a family. These lady's are players😢

What a shame the time were living in.LFA you'd be a good father

Keep in mind age is arbitrary, and humans base physical attraction off of biological markers, pheromones, and visible characteristics. Which is why most men are attracted to a specific age range of women. Not because of the magic number. But because of the characteristics most commonly seen amongst that demographic of women. -M

Someone once told me, "If you meet a woman in a club, that is where she's going to leave you!"

I just find there's no more incentive to date so i work on making money going to the gym and working on my hobbies, congrat LFA on 100k you have the best content in the manosphere

I'm 53. I gave up looking when I was 34. Girls were never interested in me. I wasn't bad looking guy. Just wasn't very good at the whole chase thing. Seems so false and fake. I figure that if I find someone naturally through my lifes journey then i will. If I don't I don't. I'm happy as I am and made peace with myself a long, long time ago.

I'm turning 38 this week and have never had a gf. But I'm not alone. I have friends, I'm in great shape (although could be much better but great compared to the rest of my family), workout everyday, and I have free time to focus on trying to get rich.

Was married at 40, divorced at 50. Now I’m 57 and single. I’m retired with no debt and with a nice balance in the bank. I can almost guarantee that I’ll die alone and I’m more than ok with that. At my age, peace and quiet is damn near addictive. I’ve never been happier.

For 25 years my wife and I were very happy, then we met.

Reason 3: you have extreme social anxiety and turn people down because you fear being judged because of trauma.

Take it from an older guy: Life is much easier and fulfilling if you can link long-term with a sensible, loving woman who shares your values. I've been married nearly 30 years. Not every day is lollipops & rainbows, of course, but overall it's the best darn thing that's happened to me. YMMV

Im 40 now and single. For most my life i was in relationships. I was always worried about being single and alone. But after a year of experiencing that, i realize its actually quite awesome. I still have my friends, parents, dogs, hobbies etc. A lot of my friends are married with kids and arent happy either. There are no guarantees in life no matter what course you take.

I'm 31. The dating market is challenging! I've been on many dates last year. I am always given the same speech from women from these dates, "I don't feel a romantic connection" or "I don't want to lead you on" - but really I think they just found a better confident and buff guy. This year I'm doing my best to get more muscle and somehow be confident this year. If that doesn't get me a woman, it will at least give me a healthier lifestyle.

I'll turn 45 this year, single, no kids, but ok with it especially considering i was a completely different person up to my mid 30's. Like most people through some disappointment and heartbreak i became a grown up and aware of certain realities, but rather late in life, it took a lot of soul searching to reach this point of acceptance. It's my journey and most people aren't meant to keep me company all the way through it, no matter how much i actually love them, i've learned to love myself too.

My uncle turned 80 and never married. I am 49, never married. I am more at peace with myself now than I have ever been. Being able to socialise is just as important. It is finding the balance.

I got divorced around 35 years old. Started life over and it's been the best years of my life, both with dating and short-term relationships.

Good advice. I’ve lived 55 years, been through the mill. Wish I had this advice available when I I was a younger man. Build your life gents, the rest will fall in place. Be patient.

11:32 "Most guys aren't interested in 20 year old women in their sexual prime." -LFA

I'm 55 and still a virgin, I don't have the looks women like.By the way my body is in extremely good physical condition and I live a very healthy lifestyle. Women can not be manipulated just because you act like a confident alpha male with a good body. It doesn't matter how much confidence a man has in himself, if the women is not attracted to that guy she will definitely not have sex with him. over the last 41 years I have been rejected over ten thousand times. I am 100 percent confident in myself and a homeowner with a stress free life. The point of my comment is to say that hookup culture does not work for average looking guys. That is a fact!

LFA is not missing lately. Spoke to the core of me 😂. Being awake in this world is potentially a tough road. There’s plenty of marriageable women out there, but they’re becoming increasingly rare as a % of population.

if you married your high school sweetheart that is the way to go, our grandparents (pre-boomers) did it right

You're aging gracefully like a wise sage LFA.

I am 31 and I am from England fellas, I have been single for years and I don't plan to get married, it's too risky etc, I wish everyone all the best, your community on here is awesome, keep up the great work my man

Great analysis. I was in a 'common law' marriage for most of my 30's. I'm 57 now, successful, and never married. I put too much emphasis on money and success and regret it. Knowing what I know now I think it's a mistake for most guys to reject women out of hand. If you find the right one take a chance and go for it!

It’s not selfishness to remain single to focus on your pursuits and passions…It a personal life choice. It would be selfish if one had family/children and neglected them to pursue their own goals.

50 here. Been with hundreds and hundreds of women. Ex lead singer, regional band, now regular guy. Own my own home, I make 6 figures, multiple income streams. The young ones will leave you when they turn 28. The old ones are no fun. Just stay single guys. It's much more fulfilling. Focus on your money and stay away from alcohol.

Congrats on 100K! Long time coming!

I could get a girlfriend. Unfortunately, I don't want to jump through one hoop. At 52, a woman can't really add a lot to my life at this point. I've been married, had kids, what's the point after that?

3:45 i couldn't agree more! 💯 My kids are wonderful human beings and i am so happy with how they turned out! I am raising some good, smart, compassionate people! ❤️💪🏻

Tuned in on this video because im in a shitty situation atm. My wife is pregnant and we are at the brink of a break up. The anxiety that comes with this is biblical. Im just preparing to be alone and not seeing my future child most of the time. Life sucks sometimes doesnt it.

I'm 45 and am still a never-married single with no kids. I always struggled with women, partly or largely due to mild autism which wrecked my confidence at a young age. I support myself ok, I work out, I take care of myself, I have a couple of friends, but I just never developed the art of flirting and escalating things or relationship skills, as I've never been in a LTR. There is also a lack of opportunity to even meet single desirable women these days, and apps don't work for me. Life just feels empty and unsatisfying. At this point, I'm grappling with how to cope with the high likelihood that I'm going to grow old alone, while still holding on to a fragment of hope that my luck could turn.

God Loves Losers, get back to God, it may not be the answer for everybody, but it maybe just what you need, some solid ground to stand on, God Bless!!!

Congrats on 100,000

Thank you for the video LFA! 😎🙏🏿

I'm 60..Married since 18 with kids and grand kids. What a ride..Cannot think of many mistakes we haven't made. Not sure I am ready to start a family. Laughs..No perfect moment ever comes. Jump off the cliff and make it work. If we can do it anyone can.. Only problem I really have with it is the fact the years went so fast. Don't be afraid work hard buy half the town then stare at it all and wonder what to do with it all. We been in and out of love at least a hundred times. Mountains and valleys that is where the wisdom comes into place. Truth is we need each other and a team of hard headed workaholics we stand. If one works hard enough you won't have enough energy left to fight and argue. One day I will be ready for all of this..lol...Oh wait it already happened... To love someone is to be willing to always put them before yourself. Hay second place ain't bad... it's dangerous,,It's thrilling,,,It's crazy to say the least. I am up for it again.. Oh wait shit I am worn out and beat up..lol..I would marry her again in a second and do it all over again. lol

50 with 3 great kids... LFA... you would be a really inspiring father. Consider your best babymama to go for it.

social media destroyed dating relationships and companionship, women are always shopping for the next best thing, TILL THEY FINALLY HIT THE WALL. stay on your path and purpose gentleman.

The only dudes who are never truly alone are those who run rotations. The cycle of single, relationship, single, relationship - is the most miserable thing ever invented. I can't believe men have gone along with it for so long.

Congrats on 100k. Been nice seeing your philosophies change over time. Keep it up.

That's been the case all of my life. The women I like do not like me, and the women who like me I do not like them.

I'm 35 and have been single a majority of my life. I have had one night stands and flings here and there but a consistent serious girlfriend was only one in my 35 years of living and even that was questionable with that situation. I've already come to accept that I'll be alone forever and truthfully, I prefer it now at 35 because I've been burned too much in life and prefer having peace over having a woman in my life.

Divorced at 29. 33 now. Already on child support. I’m good alone from now on.

Way to go on the 100K ! Id say well deserved. Appreciate the good conversations you start up with us guys

Congratulations on 100K subs!!!👍🏾💪🏾👊🏾

I'd say a lot of people will be on their own whether by choice or not, the modern world has really gone downhill, I think the internet was just too much for a lot of people, especially women, men usually get a reality slap real quick, where women can live in delusion. Psychologists will say, just because the problem is in someones head, doesn't make it any less of a problem, and here we are.

My god LFA you're amazing I'm 34 career house working out 2 cars an all. Truth it everyone is getting married. My ex was 10 years younger beautiful but honestly I jusy couldn't connect cause of maturity. Everything yourr saying here I can relate. I am also questioning if I want kids or not. Love ur content. Super grateful I found you.

Thanks for the comfort! Love your channel! 🙏🏻

Dude I love these videos. Thanks for being real and keeping it real man.

God Bless, LFA.

Thanks for the chat buddy.

A video from LFA is always a welcome thing😊

Discovered your channel.👍. Digging in. Narcissist wife reaped me after 45 years of service. My gain. Praise God.

Having children is not the ultimate satisfaction, raising them in fear of god is ultimate satisfaction. Even animals make children what’s so special of humans having children. Products of pleasure vs products of purpose.

I'm 39 and I've been single since I turned 19. I had some opportunities, but it wasn't the right woman or the right time for me. I'm a pretty decent looking guy and when I actually get out there, someone usually has interest, so I'm not really concerned about meeting someone if that's what I want at some point in the next few years. The difference for me is that because I've lived this way for this long, I know that I'm just fine by myself, so I have the ability to walk away at any point which is a strength/power you can't buy. It's one thing to be in your early 20s and not be with someone, it's another to have been with women and also been single for 20 years. You actualy have the experience and the perspective that a 22 year old guy doesn't. So, for the younger guys out there, if you're struggling or putting on that brave face like you're okay, but you actually aren't, just know that you'll be fine. Get to know yourself. You'll be better for it.

Congrats 100 000!!!

Congrats on 100k LFA 🎉

You are right about the age gap. Tried it. Wasn’t a huge age gap. Thought an older guy would be more mature, but I was wrong. It has a whole another set of challenges. It wasn’t just that you can’t relate, but eventually you’ll outgrow each other. They’re set in their ways, which is fine. However, it can be very exhausting. Like something as simple as going somewhere. Doesn’t have to be fancy, becomes a hassle. Or trying something new. I’m personally not a sit down an expensive restaurant type of gal. I prefer going to a cafe & having a light breakfast on the weekend. Or taking a little road trip to flower festival. Berry picking. Horseback riding. Hiking. Photography. ETC. However, I noticed most guys prefer the expensive restaurant girl even though they complain about it. They can show her off. Just like those women can show him off. It is what it is. Everyone just needs to stop lying to themselves. If you're into that. Cool. Also, by the time you meet him, he's been with certain type of females. So there is absolutely nothing you can add to the equation if you're serious. I know most would think it’s the exact opposite. But it’s not. How I see it is, he’s older so he probably thinks he has it figured out. Which is fine. However, what can I add? Nothing. Ain’t nothing wrong with that. Nor does it mean I don’t have something going on. We just don’t want the same thing. I’m sure he’ll find what he’s looking for. There is no “world” to enter. In the end, similarities is what keeps people together. This doesn’t mean I wouldn’t pursue an older man at all, but I definitely would have my own thing going on & his age would have 0 correlation to maturity.

When I was 33 I dated a 21yr old girl and there is such a big disparity in age and maturity such that you really don't have much in common and the relationship just cannot last. At least it didn't for me and I doubt it does for most guys. Girls that age are very immature despite outward appearances and change their mind virtually every minute .

Congratulations on hitting 100k!

Congrats on 100k subscribers. Thats an amazing achievement

You can be just as unhappy and confused with a family 😂

This is our last decade. So not that much left.

Congrats on the 100k!!!!

Best and REALEST youtube page out there. great content brother.

I'm 31 and decided in the last 2 years or so to start back dating, I've only had 1gf in my life when I was younger and it only lasted a few months. Dating was never a priority for me, I found it to be too time consuming and it slows me down in my career and life. Once I finally started working and made smart investments I finally started dating again. It was challenging at first but I kept going and I finally met my future wife, getting married this year. I think it all depends on your priorities, don't worry too much about time but also don't neglect getting into relationships and try to filter out hoes.

Congrats on 100k followers

The Fire went out on Cue.. Hitting the Wall.

Appreciate the video LFA. Nicely done well put inform video my guy 💯

Guys if you're 31/32 you can still meet a woman within your 30s & have kids by 40/early 40s & live a good life to watch them grow into adulthood. You're not facing "being single forever" as If you're a woman with a biological clock. Early 30s is young for a guy. Also by 35 you won't be limited to an unattractive geriatric 35 year old woman or a immature 21 year old. You can meet women in their late 20s (preferably anyways) who you still find attractive & can have kids with because she isn't geriatric. Make yourself as competent as possible & vet these women properly. This video is too black & white, Don't think the guy on KZfaq is ALWAYS right.

So true about the maturity differance.

30 years old. Never married. 1 kid that I won't see grow up because the mom took her away and left. Went crazy for a while because of it. You're right not because I wanted a steady relationship, but because that need for family. And raising one. And I've accepted that's not in the cards.

Thank you! I surly needed to hear this one. Dam it hit close to home

I find it very odd that you assume that its so easy to hookup with some girl on tinder. Its impossible for an average looking guy to get a date from a dating app or anywhere else.

This has been my experience. Also, you don't always get to even make a choice. Lucky if you do. I had plenty of dates and connection, but, none that went the distance. Now, older and tired of hoping. Guess so have to learn to really like my own company

Love your videos man keep doing what your doing

Good analysis of the realities of life! Damn! Peace and minimal pressure is a must!