Alt-Right Star Details NIGHTMARE Tradwife Experience
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12 күн бұрынRight-winger Lauren Southern shared her horrifying experience with being a tradwife. Cenk Uygur and Ana Kasparian discuss on The Young Turks. Your Support is Crucial to the Show: tyt.com/team
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"Does promoting marriage and motherhood inevitably make women easy targets for subordinate status, increased vulnerability, and a return to second-class status? One of the very first columns I wrote at UnHerd, back in 2019, described how, for me, becoming a mum meant giving up on a great deal of the liberal ideology I’d embraced when younger - because it was impossible to square with the embodied reality of caring for a baby. A relatively conventional home life turned out to be much more fulfilling than the radical one I’d adopted with my progressive politics.
My accounts of questioning this individualistic ideology, and embracing marriage and motherhood have resonated with social conservatives. Most of these, it goes without saying, feel (as I do) that family life and women’s distinctive sexed realities should be better understood and valued in the public conversation. Some, though, take more hardline positions: that women should never work, for example, that we should always be submissive - or even that women’s right to vote should be repealed."
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@crystalwalker4403 10 күн бұрын
If “Be careful what you wish for” was a person!
@tacitus6384 10 күн бұрын
Having a shot-gun wedding because you slept around and married a guy you barely knew is not 'trad wife'. She slept with and married a terrible person and blames everyone else for the bad decision.
@DoubleOhTheG 8 күн бұрын
Just like the saying goes: "play stupid games, win stupid prizes"
@Betavey 10 күн бұрын
This is why women fought so hard to get away from being forced to live this life style. It puts you in a extremely vulnerable position for many forms of abuse
@aeoligarlic4024 8 күн бұрын
I think traditional household and dynamics work for some people. The thing is, right wingers mistake traditional dynamics as women being fully submissive and dependant on a guy thus being in a risk of abuse
@shinjishinjs6060 7 күн бұрын
Women had "equal" power in the sense that in the household their voice was more powerful than the husband. It was not that one sided as you think it was.
@Canadiana_Invicta 7 күн бұрын
Its only a danger if you ignore red flags like Lauren Southern did. Just marry a non-abusive guy (most of them) and you won't have problems.
@gingerthomas5758 7 күн бұрын
@betawyThis is factual. I'm 71 years old and my wife and I have a partnership. We raised our daughter to be strong. Her husband is smart enough to appreciate her strength. He's a good man, a veteran, the same as me. He doesn't need her silence so that he can be heard.
@XaraK1 6 күн бұрын
That's why I always laugh about the whole desirable 50s housewife thing as if those women didn't usher in another wave of feminism coz they were miserable 😂
@kayallen7603 7 күн бұрын
As an university-educated woman I find this TRAD BS disgusting. Now she is divorced while I have been married to the same man, after two kids, both of us having had a military career, now we are retired and still together. WE REMAIN IN LOVE. I was NEVER submissive. I RULE MY HOUSE as a WIFE SHOULD. This trad BS, is CONTRARY TO HISTORICAL TRUTH where hubby went off to war and his WIFE help the reins of his estate. Next time, learn before you marry.
@UnclePumblechook 7 күн бұрын
Her husband wanted her to work. Last year she was saying her husband left her for being a 'career dead weight'. She wasn't in a 'trad' relationship at all. Yes, in actual 'traditional' families (like the one I grew up in) women were in charge of the house (and usually the family's social life) while the man was the provider.
@carsi7282 6 күн бұрын
@@UnclePumblechook Typically, not always, women are much better at perception and social cues so that is why women were in charge of the house and society. The alpha females also always kept an eye on the future. They knew personalities, who was related, who were teh good providers and good matches. Women build societies, men provided for and to safety for them, and women care for the men. But there are always outliers. It's about ability to communicate, to adapt, humility and respect
@ArlecchinoAKAFather 8 күн бұрын
Who knew being in a relationship with people that hate women would be bad
@Scops96 10 күн бұрын
You wanted to be treated like crap, you was treated like one. Marriage shouldn't be master-slave relationship, but two people going through life sharing both joy and pain together.
@mosamaster 10 күн бұрын
Born to an Indian family I was also a fool who wanted to keep traditional marriage values but ended up with a horrible human as a spouse. It happened in UK where I was treated like trash and me and my 3 year old kid was kicked out of the house with a divorce notice in the midst of the covid pandemic. It took me an year of counseling and therapy to get back to normal. Now I am a single parent . I am a man and not a woman. The victim of domestic abuse can be of any gender.
@Jenifer_R_ 10 күн бұрын
"Traditional marriage values" always favour the man. At least you considered your wife to be human.
@RobertaTMS_ 10 күн бұрын
You're the exception of the exception, I'm sorry.
@Jenifer_R_ 10 күн бұрын
@@RobertaTMS_ All we know is that he wanted a "traditional marriage" and she left him. Her side of the story is missing.
@drumpfisidiot5021 10 күн бұрын
Now let's hear the woman's side....
@plaidpanda 10 күн бұрын
@@Jenifer_R_ Any woman who doesn't want to parent her own toddler pretty much tells me everything I need to know.
@dayrohan 9 күн бұрын
If she listened to the women that lived that way… she wouldn’t be in this mess. There’s a reason, many women cringed at traditionalism.
@ryanjones4877 8 күн бұрын
And all the people that think things were so much better in the past are simply advertising they know nothing of history.
@shinjishinjs6060 8 күн бұрын
Or rather the situation is more complex and you were lied
@johnmiller7682 7 күн бұрын
The number one problem with the "trad" wife concept, is we don't live in the world any more. They only way for that to work would be to find a kind, compassionate, loving husband. But here's the catch, any husband who is those things, doesn't wan't a trad wife, he wants a partner, not a submissive. So all that leaves is the assholes.
@TheStephaneAdam 7 күн бұрын
And look, we *never* lived in that world in the first place. Working class women have always worked, even if it was often part-time or informal work mending clothes or raising a few chickens. They're LARPING 50's dishwasher comercials.
@liliswenson6144 10 күн бұрын
I am 77 and grew up in thev1950s. Her view of a traditional wife is not what a traditional 1950s wife was like. Sounds like she married a guy with some personality and emotional problems. Traditional may have stayed home and not worked, but they RAN the household and were not as submissive as she imagines. The wife made the household rules.
@encorefootball 9 күн бұрын
100%. Thank you for being honest
@jahbloomie 6 күн бұрын
We’re the same age. Sounds like you have a healthy matrilinear history. Many of us aren’t as lucky. A lot depends on having good mental health yourself so you pick a worthy partner. Also, freedom to date and shop around.
@theprogressiveway 10 күн бұрын
Who’ve thunk becoming property of another would have bad consequences
@mgaus 3 күн бұрын
Here's a hot take: A toxic relationship can be progressive or traditional. The basis of values doesn't dictate the relationship's success or health
@lacey892 3 күн бұрын
No but patriarchal values where women are considered 'lesser' create an inherent power imbalance and abusive behavior.
@fatgrandmafinds 5 күн бұрын
She got exactly what she asked for when she decided to be a submissive wife, give up her job and give him all the power in every aspect of her life.
@rmsavig2204 10 күн бұрын
Why do people think a 22 year old knows much?
@5400bowen 6 күн бұрын
22 year old men are expected to “know much”. Excuses. These women snicker when family and friends warn them about an abusive man they are dating. But he’s SO SEXY!!!!! So tough and cool and masculine and self confident. It excites women sexually. It’s the Emperors New Clothes story all over. With women, nice guys finish last.
@jasonmay6368 10 күн бұрын
Who would've have guessed a man with toxic right wing views would treat his wife like utter crap?
@keksi6844 10 күн бұрын
She actually needs to marry believing Muslim man not some right winger.
@larryc1616 10 күн бұрын
Typical conservative males. Never date nor marry a trumptard. Think about how your kids will be raised. A Trump rally will be their Disneyland
@jl-io3vw 10 күн бұрын
@@keksi6844 She married a right winger and got everything she deserved. That's what happens when you marry the poorly educated.
@TreyIM22 10 күн бұрын
@@keksi6844Suuurrree
@antclerfont8478 10 күн бұрын
No kidding
@whereaboutsunknown4370 6 күн бұрын
Everyone makes errors. She has the balls to admit she was wrong.
@RemnantDiscipleLazzaro-Rev1217 6 күн бұрын
Just because she chose a man who violated the traditional role does not mean traditional roles are bad.
@Nazi.Brains.0n.My.Hammer 6 күн бұрын
@@RemnantDiscipleLazzaro-Rev1217 Gods not real, and you commenting on every other comment to defend awful sexist roles, portrayed in your fairytale book, is pathetic. tell yourself whatever you want, then stfu.
@scotiadragoon5974 3 күн бұрын
She didn’t spot the red flag of a guy wanting a tradwife. Don’t expect her to get any sudden clarity in any other aspect of her beliefs.
@watermelonlover745 3 күн бұрын
She married an Asian guy.
@dimxsk 10 күн бұрын
Okay Ana, Except she influenced likely thousands of young women to go through the same hell… And so she deserves zero credit.
@LAinLA86 10 күн бұрын
Anna is the worst
@dennisduncan7561 10 күн бұрын
And then realized how dumb she'd been and changed her views. Don't dump all over her. She's making amends.
@pinkyfloyd7712 9 күн бұрын
Ana's the type to give credit to kids who are warned not to touch hot stoves, touch them anyway and learn the hard way and then cry about how they are suffering the consequences everyone warned them about
@leilac6970 7 күн бұрын
Totally agree with you! Bad comparison! She didn't buy hazelnut creamer instead of vanilla creamer...she was abusive, racist, backwards and lied to tons of woman.... she's gotten enough attention from us. I want her to be forgotten, no more revenue from the people!🙄
@GabrielNicho 10 күн бұрын
Who knew that ignoring tons of red flags and marrying someone anti-social could lead to a bad marriage.....
@twinklemagic024 6 күн бұрын
I grew up in the 70’s. I’m SHOCKED that she didn’t enjoy being objectified, patronized and subjected to misogynistic toxicity. It’s almost like “traditional values”, means that women and minorities are considered to be inferior, disposable servants… Who knew? 🤷♀️🤦♀️😊 Sorry, I can’t feel bad for someone who didn’t do her research…and then encouraged OTHER women to be in highly dangerous and abusive situations.
@Shogun1982 6 күн бұрын
"But I didn't think the leopard would eat MY face!?!?!" ~Lauren Southern 2024
@nedsantos1415 10 күн бұрын
Tell her to pull herself up from the bootstraps????? Not to be cold-hearted here, but what she essentially did was just the same thing the conservative chauvinists have been doing to the women who choose not to be someone's "tradwife" but to find their own worth and strength and to be independent.
@nedsantos1415 10 күн бұрын
She deserves no sympathy until she apologizes to those who she berated and criticized when she espoused that toxic ideology.
@JennieBanks 10 күн бұрын
This.
@stickiedmin6508 8 күн бұрын
@@nedsantos1415 Absolutely. If she can separate herself from that ideology and denounce the awful things she said and express a little bit of remorse for the harm she caused, then she deserves a second chance - not until. Nobody deserves to be treated the way that she was treated, obviously, but at the same time, nobody deserves to be forgiven _just_ because their own bad choices blew up in their faces.
@RugbyPass81 8 күн бұрын
She hasn't changed though, have you watched her videos? Same hateful right wing crap that the likes of that toss-pot Gavin McInnes spouts. You know why she does it? Because it's more profitable than being progressive and trying to improve the world. Conservatives and other right wing knobheads are dumber, easier to dupe into believing and/or following a lead. That's why people like that twat Ben Shapiro (who can only handle university kids), Jordan 'word salad' Peterson, Alex Jones, Steven Crowder and so on do what they do. Take big paychecks off of the likes of the Koch brothers of fossil fuel and right wing fame, in return for spreading a certain kind of nastiness. But the people they spread it to are people who simply want their worldview confirmed, not challenged by open thinking and so on. Honestly, the right, they're dullards, dunces.
@delphi-moochymaker62 10 күн бұрын
She attracted a hard core right winger, then she was surprised he was a hard core right winger.
@henrywestbrook9773 10 күн бұрын
While I realize she was only 22 when she married, I still can't believe she got to be 22 years old and actually believed that men could do no wrong. What planet did she live on?
@larryc1616 10 күн бұрын
Reap what you sow deplorables!
@stephenkennedy266 10 күн бұрын
Like all leftist are complete saints.
@archelonprime 10 күн бұрын
@@stephenkennedy266 Spoken like a typical right winger attempting a straw-man because he KNOWS he has no real defense for the POSs on his side. 🤡
@jl-io3vw 10 күн бұрын
@@stephenkennedy266 Saints compared to right wingers. Fact!
@anonymousa-uy1hk 8 күн бұрын
Nah, no sympathy for her. That’s like feeling sorry for a person who just realized that punching someone in the face is wrong because they got hurt by someone else punching them in the face. She didn’t understand because she didn’t want to and she felt so secure about her life that she believed she would never be put in a position where she would have to understand the other side and what other people were possibly going through. I say toughsky shitsky, Lauren.
@leilac6970 7 күн бұрын
Exactly!! She has no sympathy for other people.
@williezar2231 5 күн бұрын
My mom used to say, "Be careful of what you wish for". Turn out she had a great point.
@emptyemptiness8372 10 күн бұрын
She wanted a 1950s marriage and she got one.
@SonicBoomC98 10 күн бұрын
Yeah I'm sure you're an expert on 50s marriages
@DavidRichardson153 10 күн бұрын
@@SonicBoomC98Well, seeing as how 1950s marriages more-or-less ended when Reagan created the no-fault divorce, which had the knock-on effect of DV and murder calls plummeting because women now had a much easier time getting out a 1950s marriage with their lives _and_ their freedom... I don't know, you tell us, assuming you want to assert that you know more about 1950s marriages.
@larryc1616 10 күн бұрын
Bless her heart
@SonicBoomC98 10 күн бұрын
@@DavidRichardson153 This is complete BS. No fault divorces did not cause a decrease in DV or homicides. And most of the people talking about how bad marriages were back then often aren't married or got married decades later. This idea of all the bad marriages back in the 50s is just a narrative that was pushed decades later
@archelonprime 10 күн бұрын
@@SonicBoomC98 Is that how wanted to out yourself as another pathetic right winger no real defense of your fellow POSs? 🤡
@patrickdavenport6254 10 күн бұрын
She asked for it, she got it. No tears from me.
@jaynebarry5658 7 күн бұрын
If someone is so insecure they need you to submit, that is your first clue.
@dawn-gk2tr 7 күн бұрын
He spotted a willing victim and , with her co-operation , tried the limits and found she had no boundaries so he kept pushing . I have no doubt that he finally got so bored that he stopped caring if he lost his slave . I married in 1966 and my husband used to say that any man who needed a submissive woman was a dead loser who had no sense of worth . He also was horrified to think of how " bloody boring " living with a " little woman " would be. Suited us both until death parted us.
@UnclePumblechook 7 күн бұрын
Naw, there's more to this. He lost his exciting 'James Bond' agent job by marrying her (a controversial and despised activist). He resented her because of this. She wanted to be a 'traditional' stay at home mom and she thought that would please him. He wanted her to work and found her more attractive when she was a 'boss babe'. Oh, and he was an abusive, manipulative, a$$.
@JCasR3 10 күн бұрын
Let’s remember… plenty of wives and mothers packed up and left their husbands and families back in the 1950’s too
@humboldthammer 10 күн бұрын
Yep, and plenty of guys died from a hemlock or foxglove heart attack when they turned 66, too. "Divorce is a sin."
@SonicBoomC98 10 күн бұрын
Right
@Krise343 10 күн бұрын
How can someone be so incredibly uninformed and naive in 2024?
@LostChildOfTime 10 күн бұрын
Some right wingers in America try to live in the 1950s in isolation.
@jl-io3vw 10 күн бұрын
@@LostChildOfTime Unfortunately they are pushing their evangelical views on the rest of us.
@DrejaAndi 10 күн бұрын
Turn on a TV and you'll understand. It's not just rightwingers either, we're inundated with ignorance, propaganda, and selfishness.
@josephgreear5789 10 күн бұрын
You can be brainwashed by your old assed family. She’s in her early 20s right?
@galacticwarlock2271 3 күн бұрын
It takes guts to come out like this. I 100% don't like her but she at least has more spine than any republican senator.
@MFBloosh 10 күн бұрын
Welp, does anyone feel bad for her? What did she expect? She puts that energy out into the world, and she married a man who did exactly what she preached.
@famalam943 6 күн бұрын
She married a fed who was reporting on her and he randomly left one day.
@jingleball2427 10 күн бұрын
Lol Anna and Cenk are basically brother and sister at this point huh? 😅 Anna's "HOLD ON" hit like a sister
@Stickyickyslapshot 10 күн бұрын
I came to the comments just to see if anyone else noticed that 🤣
@paulaj.7685 8 күн бұрын
She deserves no sympathy
@johnm84 7 күн бұрын
Exactly. She deserves no sympathy at all.
@renzaluski1385 6 күн бұрын
* Talking about how women are yelled at if they express a differing opinion from a man and how that's bad * * The woman is yelled at & talked over & told that she's wrong as soon as she expresses a differing opinion from a man *
@MoonBeamsChild 10 күн бұрын
Give her credit for what? Realizing she was wrong? Are you serious? She got a taste of her own medicine. This is freaking karma!!! Nah... No credit!!!!
@tacitus6384 10 күн бұрын
She didn't get a 'taste of her own medicine'. She slept with and married a guy within 4 months of meeting him, and he turned out to be emotionally abusive because he resented her for stunting his career with the Australian government. She made terrible decisions and blamed 'trad wife' ideology.
@MoonBeamsChild 9 күн бұрын
@@tacitus6384 if that isn't getting a taste of her own medicine, I don't know what it is. She's been crapping on single mothers for years. Now she is one for following her own insane tradwife ideologies. 🤷🏾♀️
@jamilieberman996 10 күн бұрын
Yep - living life like it’s pre women’s rights is surprisingly not ideal for women. Who’da’thought? People who think women should submit to their husbands forget that men were also admonished to care for their wives as they would their own bodies. Now I believe they should be equal - but if you’re going to claim that the Bible says women should submit to their husband so that’s the way it needs to be - they should also recognize a husband’s obligations too.
@akmal94ibrahim 10 күн бұрын
Yep. The same goes for Islam. Sure it says that the wife should submit to the husband (as long as he doesn't ask you to do bad things) but it also says that it is the husband's responsibility to provide the family with shelter, food, safety, education, a loving environment, etc. A lot of this tradwife thing sounds like just the wife holding up her end of the bargain and the husband doing jack shit apart from giving food and a home.
@SonicBoomC98 10 күн бұрын
But most men who are looking for a wife to submit aren't saying men shouldn't care for their wives and work together with them. This is just them finding an example of an extreme case
@jamilieberman996 10 күн бұрын
@@SonicBoomC98 I really wish it were so. Absolute power corrupts absolutely. I’ve been a part of a religious cult when I was young that had expectations of women to submit. I became a teen mom. Very few men are kind, faithful, protective providers. I wanted nothing more than to be free to stay home and focus on raising my child, but I had to leave and work two jobs and put my child into childcare, which I didn’t want to have to do. Because most men abuse the position of dominance and lie, cheat, womanize and beat their wives. I’ve also researched my family history and my great grandmother and grandfather were Orthodox Jews. She never learned to read and he beat her - and that was just the way it was for most women back then. Pop out children till they died in childbirth- and then the men remarried a young woman and she popped out more children and so on and so on. Women were second class citizens with no rights, no opportunity for self determination and nowhere to go when they were abused. And that’s what religious extremists want us to go back to. I say hey-ell no!!
@aeoligarlic4024 8 күн бұрын
They always conveniently leave out that last part
@jesssss99610 10 күн бұрын
Cenk is 100% right here. Ana is comparing an honest mistake to someone espousing outright white supremacy and sexism. Kinda disturbing the way she feels the need to make excuses for that. You can say you’re glad she’s realized the error of her ways in one particular instance, while also acknowledging that shes said disgusting, racist and sexist things that she has not apologized for, and there’s no excuse for that.
@chrlpolk 10 күн бұрын
“Crossed state lines” for a year was not an honest mistake.
@StupidAnon-gn8ih 9 күн бұрын
@@chrlpolk You'd be surprised how often people repeat things for an extended period of time without checking their facts, because the sources they use make them believe they _have_ checked their facts. Like how a lot of people still believe Rittenhouse shot black people.
@dalekrenegade2596 8 күн бұрын
@@StupidAnon-gn8ih Yes he shot and killed black people that's just a fact
@breathnstop 7 күн бұрын
They isolate you then crush your spirit then dump you. Thats an insecure narcissist.
@kevindavis9095 10 күн бұрын
Apparently, she is still as self-centered and narcissistic as ever. She spoke only about herself and her life. Not a word of apology to the countless other women out there whose lives are ruined because they believed and followed her advice.
@jl-io3vw 10 күн бұрын
Great point!
@antclerfont8478 10 күн бұрын
What an era.... It really is sad..
@ICon-sy7go 10 күн бұрын
Good ole republicans they can’t let go of that slave life.
@themetatruthengineer1442 10 күн бұрын
I tried the trad wife life, and I was abused. And while I am not a fan of Lauren southern, she at least stands up about the dark reality of being a trad mom. It sounds good, but it can go to hell really quickly.
@MsMelyjean 8 күн бұрын
But the damage is done. She has hours and hours of the toxic material. No one is going to see her apology or mea culpa.
@derekrequiem4359 10 күн бұрын
Huh, so she became one of those divorced single moms that she previously hated so much. Karma, how I love you 😂😂😂
@leilac6970 7 күн бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂
@mdaddy775 10 күн бұрын
No sympathy for the devil.
@jahbloomie 6 күн бұрын
No enemies
@mdaddy775 6 күн бұрын
@@jahbloomie She's not an enemy, but I don't have sympathy for her
@jahbloomie 6 күн бұрын
@@mdaddy775 I have loads of it because she's me at a younger age. When the adults in your life put you in a mold you grow into an unnatural shape, just like a square melon. Very few of us have the opportunity to escape. Who's the devil here? Real victims are rare, but children raised in high control groups are. If not sympathy, could you find a spark of compassion?
@mdaddy775 6 күн бұрын
@@jahbloomie It's not her anti-feminist views, I have compassion for that and for you. It's the fact that Lauren relentlessly vilified and campaigned against Muslims and people of color for years and years.
@jahbloomie 6 күн бұрын
And thus you can see the cognitive dissonance for women in the Bible-believing quarter of our population. You either please the people who love you and raised you or with whom you have children or you break away and speak out. There is no safe harbor for figuring out what healthy choices might look like. The human brain matures at about the age of 25. She's still a child. What could a woman in this situation do differently to earn any shred of a humane response from you?
@shaniasmith284 8 күн бұрын
When I was a young girl who still believed, it was THIS bs about being submissive that made me question my church. After that I started actually looking into the bible and I was appalled by how churches glorify a book with such heinous acts. Change only happens when change is less painful than the norm. I didn't question my faith until I was made uncomfortable. Now as an adult atheist I literally cry over the BS I put myself through. Thankful I got out.
@bridgetveralidaine3761 5 күн бұрын
The only time a traditional dynamic works is if the woman **wants** to do it, not because it is some romanticised ideal, but because it is what she truly wants and is fulfilled by it, and understands that it is challenging and most of the time, a 24/7 chore.... and, more importantly.... it only works if the man is mature enough, has integrity, and doesn't just want a stay-at-home trophy wife, but understands that the role is just as demanding, stressful, and difficult as whatever corporate or blue-collar job he has. It only works if he wants to provide and is willing to sacrifice to do so and understands that he can clock out of work and relax for the rest of the evening. His wife, who has likely started her day before him.... will still be on the clock after he is in bed, especially if young children are present.
@salaltschul3604 5 күн бұрын
Yes. Because both partners are communicating, meeting one another's needs and desires, and willing to be flexible. Everyone has to pull their own weight and work together, not essentially stop being a person. I wish more people, men especially, really understood that being a husband and father requires more than an ability to open a wallet. ANYONE can do that. Literally anyone could take that job out from under him, especially if this new dude treats her as a person lol.
@bodhisattva2348 10 күн бұрын
I do not feel bad for this woman.
@ldy2hzlft1111 10 күн бұрын
I use to judge women who stayed with abusive men.Then I was in one.I stopped judging women who stay.
@Katsnacks 10 күн бұрын
I’m pretty sure she had some Nazi ideology before she got married sooo am I still supposed to feel sorry for her even though she’s may be extremely racist
@DrejaAndi 10 күн бұрын
It depends on what you mean by "judging" them. If you recognize that it is harmful to them, their children, and many other people in their lives, that's not so much judging as it is an accurate assessment of the situation. If you recognize they have problems with self-respect, boundaries, standing up for themselves, it's not judging, it's a description of what they are doing and why they aren't getting out. I used to think it was always wrong to "judge" until I recognized that judgment also means, by definition, the ability to make considered decisions or come to sensible conclusions.
@NotInMYName_AntiZionistJew 10 күн бұрын
@@DrejaAndi It sounds like she did the right thing and got out, many abuse survivors aren’t that lucky.
@willedelman7960 10 күн бұрын
@@NotInMYName_AntiZionistJew She got out according to her because her husband initiated the divorce and received custody of her child. She didn't publicly complain about his treatment until the marriage was over.
@DrejaAndi 10 күн бұрын
@@NotInMYName_AntiZionistJew It sounds more like she was kicked out than got out. He left her. So it wasn't her decision that set her free. Now she's back on social media trying to make money from a new image. Time will tell if she's given up defending white supremacists and extreme rightwingers. Maybe she should try to go into a profession that actually helps people instead of trying to sell an image. But yes, things could have turned out much worse for her if they were still together.
@aleinstein3223 5 күн бұрын
Don't take advice from a 20 year old. They haven't experienced life yet.
@Mitu918 9 күн бұрын
I am a traditional wife with a traditional husband. When we got married, I wanted to be at home and he wanted to work. However, we live in NYC, one of the most expensive city in the world, so we both had to work to survive. Husband and wife are a unit. You change as your environment changes. You deal with life as life goes on. From a traditional wife, I had to become a working wife and a working mom. From a traditional husband, he had to become a working house husband and a working dad. Life does not have written-in-stone type things. You change as your situation changes. A traditional husband and wife do everything in their power to keep the unit going. The unit needs love, respect, and mutual goals to work toward.
@RugbyPass81 9 күн бұрын
Singapore is the most expensive city in the world, closely followed by Zurich. It's searchable but I know personally that this is the case. Ask me how I know? Us Brits are an awfully well traveled bunch, I've worked in both in investments (high level short and long term), lived in both cities, as well as NYC and Texas for a time, and the cost to live in both Singapore and Zurich will make a New Yorker's eyes water and their wallet melt. I'm originally from Chelsea Kensington, London, where an average apartment goes for £2,000,000 (about $3,200,000 of your US dollars) and it certainly made my eyes water. I was glad to get back to NYC, London, Paris and other places where it's nice, but definitely cheaper.
@ryanjones4877 8 күн бұрын
Sorry honey, a union of equals is not a traditional marriage in any sense of the term
@RugbyPass81 8 күн бұрын
@@ryanjones4877 Only according to religious bigots and their little books of hate 😁
@Mitu918 8 күн бұрын
@@RugbyPass81 one of the most expensive...
@Mitu918 8 күн бұрын
@@RugbyPass81 In queens, more affordable housing goes for 1.5mil. Manhattan, obiousely you know the price it get raise up to. Most killer in NYC is unaffordable health insurance. If you break a bone, you would lose your house to pay off emergency bills. NYC is unaffordable, not because of the price of the house, because of cost of medical care expenses. New Yorkers do not go to emergency or call for ambulance unless they are close to dying. and if anyone has cancer, Fuhgeddaboudit
@ericpleasant7225 10 күн бұрын
Just what do these female right-wingers and traditionalists expect? These so-called activists reap what they sew.
@Eagle-rv3iy 10 күн бұрын
It's almost like people have no idea wtf they are doing in their early 20s... maybe she shouldn't been given a spotlight as an influencer with 0 life experience
@user-zl3wo1ux2t 3 күн бұрын
This is not Trad, its abuse.
@Anonymous-sb9rr 7 күн бұрын
Getting married at 22 is normal, always being submissive is not.
@FDR_progressive_liberal 10 күн бұрын
Any guy who wants a wife like that will be a lousy husband.
@NotInMYName_AntiZionistJew 10 күн бұрын
💯
@kpepperl319 10 күн бұрын
I chose to be home and be a full time mom because it's actually cheaper than paying someone to look after our kids. Not once did my husband treats me like trash, and constantly ensuring me that i was a very important part of our relationship... Always the make sure to ask for my inputs. That's true love, true partnership.
@theindigopapillon3495 10 күн бұрын
Making the decision because financially it works out best is very different than making the decision because your husband believes women should be submissive. Two vastly different mentalities.
@Vladimiros82 10 күн бұрын
Then again, you didn't romanticize and fantasize about being treated like trash, like Lauren did
@jrch5563 6 күн бұрын
Some people have to learn the hard way. It sounds like HE had a WHOLE LOT OF ISSUES.
@Pilafian 7 күн бұрын
It’s frustrating that cenk keeps talking over Ana! Especially on the is topic that is about WOMEN, where Ana has lived experience, thus more expertise, thus I’d like to hear her take on it.
@kenmvilla 10 күн бұрын
Why is Ana all over the place in recent years? Cenk was trying to say hes not sure shes reformed her terrible views, and Ana is like "its inappropriate for me to go after her for her bad views, but i dont know that her specific beliefs have changed." She seems to be going out of her way lately to defend or not criticize bad behavior
@noprogressionisregression6854 10 күн бұрын
I don't disagree. Whie I haven't heard her say anything that has personally really bothered me, I feel like there is something going on with her and she's not really being upfront about it. Maybe she's just confused within herself. But when you work for a very progressive news outlet, you kind of need to have that s*** together
@kenmvilla 10 күн бұрын
@noprogressionisregression6854 she seems like she is no longer willing to hold conservatives feet to the fire for their toxic ideas in certain instances. Where before she used to say "no cookies for your now she likes to sit the fence. I get it, you have to understand where they're coming from, but I'm more like Cenk in that aspect. Show me you are an ally and I will treat you like one. Simply saying woe is me I am finally a victim of my own viewpoints isn't enough for me
@Tmack034 10 күн бұрын
There's a clear pattern of "people" she goes out of her way to defend. (see her updated video on the victoria secret Karen)
@ouyekiltipuehtesra 8 күн бұрын
She is having some humility after recognizing in other SOME of the behaviours she did herself. She's obviously reflected and been hard on herself over her journalism mistakes and is more sensitive to recognizing this in other circumstances.
@user-jz7hm2gy8x 10 күн бұрын
better single and happy than a married and a physical and a psychological punching bag.
@shushuwu 5 күн бұрын
Lay your self down like a rug, don’t be surprised you get walked on!
@Mouse_007 5 күн бұрын
Smartest comment on this video, should be pinned to top of page.
@ddlang2514 5 күн бұрын
Never give away your autonomy
@bonbonvegabon 10 күн бұрын
I'm glad that she finally came to her senses about her husband. Now hopefully she can become less racist!
@aeoligarlic4024 8 күн бұрын
I bet the republicans and right wing grifters are trying so hard to bury her story
@AG-xk6sq 7 күн бұрын
I’m glad she raised her voice at him and told him to hold on because it’s annoying when men interrupt and talk over us.
@haldareu 7 күн бұрын
I cheered when she yelled at him for interrupting her. Let us finish what we’re saying!!!!!
@deem7478 10 күн бұрын
TradWife is "wife cosplay." 1950s dresses, pearl chokers, red lipstick, high heels. It's dress-up play. Real married couples both red and blue don't play this game.
@richardprice5978 10 күн бұрын
TradWife is "wife cosplay." 1950s dresses, pearl chokers, red lipstick, high heels. It's dress-up play. Real married couples both red and blue don't play this game. no parts of my family and they make it work for them and monogamous, not for me im queer 🏳🌈😉 , 🤠 👰🤠👰 /bi-triad/cube, so my ideal is a hybrid, yes some of the "cosplaying is there like/ie 👗👠and 🧥+👢is ( look i didn't get married to Buch/or/bare 😉 way to much macho/gayness/stubbornness-etc for me 👨🏻💼👨🏻💼👨🏻💼=pass ) there and default part-time/no-expectation's of work outside of homemaker for marriage-matriarchal-due's ( flip for dad-due's as im trying to keep comment shorter ) as kids need stability's-etc, but if home-choir's are done them yes outside resources ( and or fun-time, like cruise 🚢ing ) are welcome as long as it doesn't degrade the union/marriage/others members careers my grandma's both wore dresses/tom-boy+hateful-to-motherhooding ( her husband and WW2-1980~ at first as i understanding sucked as husband/fatherhood roles but tried to make up for it as a grampa/elder-years 17yo-him-her15~yo/1940 to 1995/RIP grandma vet=2014~RIP ) one being into it less in motherhood/20's but changed later on you almost described my grandma-mom's side add in marge/simsom's hair and the newsroom azzy's/rettia adutuded aka outside-family she's known for being judgmental+grumpy etc, but you can see at least for me/90's/50th' she really loved ( yes high school sweetheart's/marriage under 20 year's old ) my grandfather/her-husband , and loved living as a wealthy* socialite-type's for parenting and time vs $$ someone needs to become default ( socialism or neo capitalism, like uk's 🇬🇧 parliament-works* ) and or default leadership/role's so there's value in learning experience from my family and my close friends parents, thanks Rex 😉 i tried the voting everyday but wow is it a mess+tiring, there's a reason why USSR ~1890-1950~ ( Adam's capitalism also has this problem ) community started to resemble/1980~ fashion/dictators types of leadership
@TheJevardo 8 күн бұрын
Look, being a traditional wife could work… but the husband has to earn enough, they have to be kind, gentle, and empathetic towards their wife, and attentive to his children. You know, like a traditional man. Unfortunately those men are rarer than gold, especially these days, so women have to have a recourse: the ability to file for divorce, work a job for extra income, and ultimately the freedom to make a different choice if they need to.
@faye_2 5 күн бұрын
To publicly announce, that you were wrong (espacially after you paraded so strongly for your previous point) is something only few people are capable of.
@dyodoleu 5 күн бұрын
Because she knows people outside the right wing spectrum are a LOT more forgiving, especially when someone falls victim. Like I despise Kaitlyn Jenner but you won't ever catch me being transphobic cause it got nothing to do with her as a person.
@beepbopboop7727 5 күн бұрын
Its only cause she lived in the woods and needed KZfaq money.
@ryanjones4877 2 күн бұрын
@@dyodoleu the left will hate someone for their actions while the right will hate someone for their identity
@josesarango3408 10 күн бұрын
Lauren has always been a narcisist, she hasn't changed
@Ryan-093 10 күн бұрын
she seems neurodivergent for sure, but idk if it's NPD.
@NotInMYName_AntiZionistJew 10 күн бұрын
@@Ryan-093 What? Do you even know what that term means? Neurodivergence has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with narcissism. Neurodivergence can mean ADHD, dyslexia and any other type of learning disabilities, or autism. It just means that your brain is wired differently than neurotypical people.
@Ryan-093 10 күн бұрын
@@NotInMYName_AntiZionistJew yes and NPD and BPD and such things are also part of neurodiversity too. idk what lauren has.
@NotInMYName_AntiZionistJew 10 күн бұрын
@@Ryan-093 NPD and BPD are part of Cluster B personality disorders as is Antisocial personality disorder. Neurodivergence otoh is neurologically based. Sure being neurodivergent doesn’t exclude you from having a cluster B personality disorder or vice-versa but they aren’t the same condition. Neurotypicals can also have a Cluster B personality disorder as well.
@franklingoodwin 10 күн бұрын
So one of her grifts backfired? Good
@feelthesun136 7 күн бұрын
she escaped a abusive relationship - very brave and strong of her.
@dawn-gk2tr 7 күн бұрын
No. He leftvher . A sh...thead but he probably got bored to death.
@johnm84 7 күн бұрын
@@dawn-gk2tr No wonder he left her. He is an asshole but so is she. She is an even bigger asshole.
@SunnyAquamarine2 3 күн бұрын
I've never heard of her. I didn't even know that trad meant "traditional" until a few days ago. I feel bad for everybody who is a woman right now. We've been screwed since the beginning of time, and it's only getting worse.
@blunderbuss3114 Күн бұрын
"Women have been getting screwed since the beginning of time." The things we learn on the internet.
@joshuawilliams6153 10 күн бұрын
Does she not have access to the internet? Women fought to leave that lifestyle for a reason.
@Free-Palestine 10 күн бұрын
As a Muslim who has encountered outrageous assertions about Islam and Muslims from her, I've never harbored any resentment towards her, and I still don't. Whether she revises her opinions on Islam and Muslims or not, she still has the right to be wrong, we all do. As for her marriage, not my business.
@willedelman7960 10 күн бұрын
It is okay if you feel that way. But she made her marriage other people's business by publicly broadcasting it.
@Free-Palestine 10 күн бұрын
@@willedelman7960 Agreed. Not something I would ever contemplate doing, personally.
@Estherbethe1... 10 күн бұрын
Christians who go after other Faith's conveniently forget their own history... And the majority don't even read their own bible. It's the same god of Abraham and who is anyone to say how gods servants should serve him. Each will give an account.
@johnst3296 9 күн бұрын
Awww. Couldn't have happened to a nicer person, what a shame....
@richardmasten3508 6 күн бұрын
Convenient or fortunate that she got married in a country where divorce is legal. If you really want the "tradwife experience" get married in a country like Afghanistan.
@nicholasmills8843 10 күн бұрын
She's just the latest poster child for the whole "F**k around and find out thing." Now she's bitching about the consequences of her own actions. Zero sympathy.
@franciscomeza8905 10 күн бұрын
And they wonder why many women are somewhat "decentering men."? SHM.
@BorkDoggo 10 күн бұрын
These are the same people who say stuff like "You chose the wrong man, so it's still your fault!!"
@charlajacob3079 10 күн бұрын
I love how Anna's like shut up I'm not done talking! ❤
@PallasAthenian 7 күн бұрын
Hey Cenk, let Ana talk, man. Dont be that guy. Because in this video, you were that guy.
@alyssamoore3626 10 күн бұрын
Everyone should have backup plans and basic life skills. Everyone should have emergency savings and a support network. In the tradwife days, if the man died, left, or became unable to work, the wife had no idea about the finances, how to drive, how to get a job, etc. Never rely on another person for your life and wellbeing. Gender, beliefs, etc, are irrelevant here. Also, it's almost impossible in the current system to raise a family in any degree of comfort on one income
@Rine.4656 10 күн бұрын
Thoughts and prayers!
@bonesneil 7 күн бұрын
I am sooo happy that Cenk made that point without Ana stopping him.
@consciouslyevolvingmen6832 5 күн бұрын
Karma…too bad she can’t undo all the harm she caused by trying to meddle and shame others into her toxic and unhealthy ideology.
@mmhmmmyearight7183 5 күн бұрын
Just because her marriage sucked doesn’t mean it same for everyone
@ryanjones4877 Күн бұрын
@@mmhmmmyearight7183 her marriage sucking shows the importance of the rights that feminists have fought so long for. in a real "traditional marriage" it would be legal to beat her (look up where the phrase "rule of thumb" comes from) and to even rape her (spousal rape was legal until a disgustingly short time ago). thanks to feminists she lived in a world where it was illegal for her husband to beat and rape her, and allowed her to divorce her husband without first getting his permission.
@lunabranwen 10 күн бұрын
She found out the hard way. Sadly
@alwillmu 10 күн бұрын
Never feel bad for terrible people
@loriannrichardson7644 8 күн бұрын
Who is Ana yelling at? Just because she sees yourself in that ignorant, cocky, narcissist girl, doesn't mean ish. She's publicly admitting her poor judgement because she needs to make a living, so OF COURSE she had to explain why she's back online after disappearing.
@medicinalplantsteacher 5 күн бұрын
"How the turn tables?" I wonder what kind of marks her husband received on the papers she wrote for him. Was it Trump University?
@medicinalplantsteacher 4 күн бұрын
@@UnclePumblechook Ah, I didn't know! I'm not much of watcher tv. ; - ]
@ryanjones4877 2 күн бұрын
fyi language evolves over time
@medicinalplantsteacher 21 сағат бұрын
@@ryanjones4877 absolutely but I had not heard that phrase flipped before
@Nora_I_am_nice 10 күн бұрын
Better to be alone or a single mother, than stuck with a toxic dude who wants you to live under his thumb. But it is unfortunate if you procreated with said loser and are passing his genes on
@larryc1616 10 күн бұрын
Neanderthals hate and low IQ genes
@nobodythenobody9779 10 күн бұрын
Being a single mom is child abuse
@acausevic1 10 күн бұрын
Well who picked the said loser and spread her legs for the loser who made her a single mom? The single mother did so what does that make her then? You have no choice but to be single at that point because there isn’t a line of men waiting up to wire up a childless woman today yet alone a single mother.
@gstrdms 10 күн бұрын
Good for her for being honest. Most would just sink into the darkness to avoid the public shaming.
@RaheemGostar 10 күн бұрын
which is the normal thing to do, because no one wants to hear about your problems...they have problems of their own
@gstrdms 10 күн бұрын
@@RaheemGostar If you don't want to hear about anyone's problems, what are you doing on TYT? The least she could have done is come clean to prevent others from making the same mistake - and she did. Bravissimo.
@RaheemGostar 10 күн бұрын
@@gstrdms im paid to be here...believe me, i dont like it anymore than you...well...everyone loves a little bit of rage bait...
@leahw2124 5 күн бұрын
His uni homework?! My sister (not yet 40) is in hospital with her second brain tumour and is doing her uni homework. Just bizarre.
@PeoplecallmeLucifer 5 күн бұрын
DAMN! Your sister is a trooper!
@Dojo42 10 күн бұрын
I lived that life for 17 years with my children’s dad. It is absolutely traumatizing.
@megwysatta7393 8 күн бұрын
I don’t have to experience everything to understand it.
@KS19662 8 күн бұрын
What do you mean by that.
@ryanjones4877 7 күн бұрын
@@KS19662 in the vid ana said she needs to experience something to understand it. i wonder if she realizes it's a sign of low empathy an intelligence
@buicia1130 5 күн бұрын
She got herself a Harrison Butker.
@Akrucious 5 күн бұрын
They're reading a premade scripted statement on KZfaq. Spent more time looking at the script than the camera lol. I can't take someone who doesn't even know what they want to say seriously. Influencers put more effort into their 10 second Tik Toks than she put into this
@tracyhuddlestun2560 9 күн бұрын
Whatever university he went to should revoke everything now that they know SHE did his homework.
@EHSPianoMan 8 күн бұрын
Yo! ^Bump this!
@ryanjones4877 8 күн бұрын
She'd have to provide evidence, otherwise every bitter ex would claim it to hurt their ex
@trumpsAnti-Christs 8 күн бұрын
ah, it was trump uni., majoring in graft and indoctrination
@SailorSlay 8 күн бұрын
Don’t feel sorry for her at all
@immortalasirpa6006 10 күн бұрын
If someone demands you surrender your free agency as the price of their love and protection, walk away. They're not capable of either.
@shinjishinjs6060 8 күн бұрын
Focusing on a family has nothing to do with losing your agency. Unless you also think any responsability means slavery, because you have to be able to do anything you want whenever you want.
@ryanjones4877 2 күн бұрын
@@shinjishinjs6060 lol he's describing the mens side of "traditional marriages" without a hint of irony.
@talltom1129 9 күн бұрын
In my experience on this earth over 64 years, the kind of guy who demands that his wife be subservient to him is typically immature and narcissistic. Kinda reminds me of someone I heard about in the news lately......give me a minute, I'll think of it
@Goralyna123 7 күн бұрын
My father was very rare, being a man born in 1916 who respected women as people. He believed in talking about problems, and finding a solution that both sides could live with. I never once saw my parents argue. If they had a problem with each other, they would talk about it when they went to bed, and resolve it. What a shock it was, when I realised he was part of a small minority. For me and two of my sisters, that was a very hard lesson. But the other two, found husbands who could be that kind of husband. Men have been the masters for millennia, and you don’t change that conditioning, in either sex, overnight. It’s only a little over 100 years since women got the vote; 40-50 years since we were able to have a bank account, borrow money, own land, or buy a house, without a man to co-sign the documents. Domestic violence, rape and sexual abuse, are still huge problems. In Australia, with a population of 26 million, a woman has been killed by her partner/husband, EVERY FOUR DAYS! Our children need to be taught about human relationships and life skills, from as early as possible. These habits are so entrenched as to be genetic. Today’s adults have come some of the way, but we fall into those gender stereotypes, so easily. As women, we tend to let an issue go, because we can. Suddenly, you’re living a life you never wanted to live. Dad used to say, “It’s easy to talk about the big things. But if you don’t talk about the small things, they become a big thing.”
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