At 16 he could have gone to the police and tell them that he is 16 and that his mother kicked him out of the house because he refused to marry someone whom his mother had just met!;!; The mother would be arrested and charged with child endangerment! Besides contacting your relatives they would get you into many programs that are available for you!!!
@darlenekozak8967 Жыл бұрын
Or he could just move in with his family and not get involved into the emotional problems that comes with calling the cops. Not everyone wants to lash out and sometimes they want to just get it fixed without involving the government.
@Biancanevesony Жыл бұрын
But if he's from India the police would do nothing because is a family matter 😢
@NJ-kp3wu Жыл бұрын
@@darlenekozak8967 I can't think of a better fix to this situation than putting that horrible person in jail.
@MusketeerGweneth Жыл бұрын
Thanks to Tangled, I cannot hear the words "Mother Knows Best" without my brain starting to sing Gothals song, "Mother knows best, listen to your mumsy, on your own you won't survive" and I shake my head to myself. Is there no cure?!
@CreekSong.warriors Жыл бұрын
There is definitely no cure sorry ur out of luck
@BIGBLOCK5022006 Жыл бұрын
There's also "Mother" by Pink Floyd.
@bluewolf1795 Жыл бұрын
I am so happy that guys escape his crazy mother.
@Batman-lg2zj Жыл бұрын
The boyfriend in the second story isn’t the jerk . It his money and he should do whatever he wants to do.
@DesertRainReads Жыл бұрын
True, and she should just ditch him to his own devices. Not worth investing any further into an obviously dead-end relationship.
@thatrandomguy56 Жыл бұрын
Honestly think the op in the second story is at fault on having no input on the house he bought. Buying a house isn't an instant process, and he has been trying to get her to move out for a while before the death in her family happened. Then she says she needs at least a year to deal with that before moving out, which is way too long to ask someone else to put off buying a house. It's even more unreasonable to expect a say in the house he picks if she had no concrete plans of moving into it, which seems to of been the case.
@The_Mr_Mugiwara Жыл бұрын
@@thatrandomguy56 this guy reading the story been taking L opinions lately othe r narrator id better.this one always sides with the girl
@6ixBosss Жыл бұрын
@@The_Mr_Mugiwara yeah i thought i was going crazy thinking that he always sided with the girls lmao. average simp L
@nowilltolive Жыл бұрын
@@thatrandomguy56 bro, it doesn't matter if it was year. It's a family member that DIED, if it was an extended family member that she wasn't very close to yes its way to long. But if she was close to them like it was her father or mother, maybe a sibling she has all the right for it to be a year
@elizabethp1772 Жыл бұрын
Ok the mom in the first story is absolutely insane, the fact that she tried forcing her child to marry a girl the OP didn’t know, all because she thought was best (and I’m pretty sure it’s against the Bible to force your beliefs on others). I definitely feel this op for not being into religion because I’m not into it either
@amandasanetrik4916 Жыл бұрын
I'm a Christian and I agree there is a difference between being a Christian and weaponizing Christianity my aunt like to weaponize the Bible and twist it into getting her way and trying to force others to do what she wanted unfortunately there's too many people out there that weaponize Christianity and they give all Christians a really bad name Christian should not judge or condemn or manipulate or threaten and a multitude of other things unfortunately there's more bad than good and this mom was not in the right I'm glad op got to a better home with love
@bordeauxproductions9882 Жыл бұрын
Yea the bibble says your not to force anything on anybody and as a christen I can conform the mother here was being very ungodly.
@jasoncarpp7742 Жыл бұрын
I agree. Same here. I've never found myself believing in *"God"* or following the Bible. Good on OP for leaving. I'm not against those who believe in *"God",* but I'll never understand why they should force their belief in God on other people. It shows lack of morals on their part.
@stillpixel9233 Жыл бұрын
If the dudes mom from the first story truly held these ridiculous outdated beliefs as close to her heart as she claims, then she'd realize that her son is the man of the house and she has to listen to him. Plus doesn't the bible preach not forcing it's values on others, and that people need to find god in their own time and on their own paths?
@Ernesto87 Жыл бұрын
She also forgot the part that says not to provoke your child to anger.
@stillpixel9233 Жыл бұрын
@@Ernesto87 yup. Also if we really wanna push it she probably eats sea food and wears mixed fabrics and trims the hair on the sides of her head
@twlightnightfall1315 Жыл бұрын
As a Christian, I can confirm that it states all the things that ya have mentioned. Though, more so on the "everyone has a choice part." I'd need ta reread ta find the verse again..
@Ironica82 Жыл бұрын
@@stillpixel9233 SMH...really...do people not actually take the time to listen to explanations about topics and just misuse verses, thinking that they actually know something? There were three types of laws that were given in the Old Testament: Moral, Ceremonial, Civil. Moral laws are meant for everyone at every time (they are still in effect) Ceremonial laws were done away with as Jesus fulfilled them on the cross Civil laws were for those Israelites at that time as they were a nomadic people. Both laws that you stated were not moral laws but had very good reasons for them: -No shellfish, pork, etc. - If you notice what they could eat, these were meats that, if a little undercook/raw, are not bad for you. However, if you do not cook shellfish, pork, etc. to the correct temperature, you can easily get food poisoning. -No mixture of fabrics - They were a nomadic tribe. When you mix two fabrics (back then), it did not last as long. Also, the symbolism behind it was to show them that they should not mix their worship of God with any of the pagan nations they were going to. We have the same distinction in our society with criminal laws, civil laws, and traffic laws. If the mayor/governor/president got up and abolished all civil laws, that does not mean we can ignore the other two. As for forcing values on others, it does not say anything against it IIRC (could be wrong so if someone has a verse, tiss would be nice). What it talks about is adding your own rules on top of God's laws and making your rules more important than what God has instructed.
@stillpixel9233 Жыл бұрын
@@Ironica82 okay mr.know-it-all. You realize that I was going of her logic ya?
@annmarie2730 Жыл бұрын
Leave you mother. Go out on your own. Live your life for you not her.
@lorijean Жыл бұрын
At this point I don't think you'll ever get that money back, because if he was really going to pay you back he would have done it already, get away from him now and write it off as a lesson learned
@kazan9918 Жыл бұрын
She can't just make the son sacrifice his future for some random woman. She should be ashamed of herself for threatening to kick him when he's not an adult and arrested. I hate those kind of people who think they got absolute control of anyone, including their own kids.
@hugosinclair6798 Жыл бұрын
my aunt is crazy religious, it got so bad she'd burst into my room at 3 in the morning to scream about the rapture coming and to give our souls to Jesus before it was too late, reason why that stopped was because i was about to finally fall asleep due to a fever and when she busted my door open i swung a E-tool and whacked her right in the face, cops had a good laugh at that one and refused to arrest me since i was defending myself from an intruder, the trying to push religion on me and my sister in general stopped because everytime she tried we'd both scream "HAIL SATAN! LUCIFER OUR TRUE LORD!" she knew she couldn't win that fight especially when our just as religious grandmother joined in taking our side XD
@AutumnRaen Жыл бұрын
The girlfriend has to realized that she isn't married to him so she really doesn't have any say. I think you should separate. How long will you grieve and use that as an excuse? Sounds like you need therapy.
@chobitstheoneforme Жыл бұрын
I felt like the second story was totally wrong. She felt like she had power over his money and what he does with it and she wants to do whatever she wants with his money. That’s not how it goes. Why does she have to decide what house she wants it’s not her money
@VioletLimes Жыл бұрын
“How long will you grieve and use that as an excuse” wtf? it could’ve been her sibling or her parents or someone she was beyond close to?? People take different times to grieve? It’s gonna be her house and it’s kinda unfair for her boyfriend to without consulting her, buy a house, and then expect her to move into said house. Kids have a say in what house they move into even though the parents buy it. Why can’t she? He can’t really expect her to want to move into a random house he bought without informing her on?
@chiagochilagorom2206 Жыл бұрын
@@chobitstheoneforme if two people are going to live together shouldn't they both decide what house to buy as it is not just thevone who will sleep there
@youllneverknowname Жыл бұрын
@@chobitstheoneforme How would you feel if your significant other just bought a house without asking you knowing that you would be living there soon?
@manjurulmolla5787 Жыл бұрын
@@chiagochilagorom2206 but should be ask for everything he will buy? Like the dog? He wanted a dog and just can't have him because the girl doesn't want to work a little which he didnt even ask for...she is sus she kept on saying that she loves the dog but just because she is morning her bf can't have a dog?
@jasoncarpp7742 Жыл бұрын
*Story 1:* I've never understood why any parent would *force* their children to marry who *they* want them to marry, rather than *allowing* them to marry who they love. I've heard of people like that. So the parent happens to be *"religious",* so what? How does that justify this hideous behaviour towards their children?
@legendsgrinder3364 Жыл бұрын
First story ... my guy theres literally a bible verse that says parents arent supoose to provoke their kids lol couldve used that against her lol
@bellagarcia5400 Жыл бұрын
I actually understand the 1st story very well because I had this very bad controlling relation ship with an old friend and when he said that he didn’t realize he also had his family to support him and everything and didn’t notice. I actually relate to that because I used to have an old friend that would use to make me do what ever she wanted me to do and if I didn’t want to she would tell me that if u don’t this then we can’t be friends anymore and would start to be very toxic and that would make me get very very stressed out and it started to make feel scared of being alone with no friends, family nothing so I would forget about the the classmates that actually tried to support me be my friend and even comfort me when I was sad and she also never let me talk to anyone at all
@Leosloth2011 Жыл бұрын
R.I.P to the first stories OPs father he was a smart man believing that all are entitled to their own belief
@Ironica82 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: Lots of frustrated people take hold of anything that gives them peace, be it political, religious, science obsession, gender confusion, etc. I do hope that the man realizes that those who mishandle the truth terribly does not neglect what it true. That mother needs to stop looking outward and realize how much of a wretched sinner she is (as we all are), focus on getting rid of that huge pride issues, and beg her son for forgiveness (without expecting anything from him). Story 2: Unless you have a ring on your finger, you don't get a say what he does with his money. It sucks what happened to your family but if ya not married to him, then don't complain about what he buys with his own money. Same towards the narrator. They ain't married so there is no "we" or "significant other". No matter what they talked about, unless he did it out of spite, there is no commitment to anything being "them". Story 3: Sounds like he was using your innocence to get what he wanted and then left. Story 4: That's hilarious!
@Ironica82 Жыл бұрын
@@natturefrk Why? If they are not married, then what is his is his and what is hers is hers. Ones they are married, then everything is both of theirs. She was always hesitant about moving in with him. He probably just got tired of waiting and decided to buy a house and a dog on his own. Now, it would be a completely different story if he expected her to pay for some of it (then it would be both of theirs) but that was never mentioned. It is the same in reverse as the boyfriend has no say on how the OP spends her money or time.
@natturefrk Жыл бұрын
@@Ironica82 it's not about possessions.... It's about working as a team.... Working together to find common ground that both agree with. You don't need a piece of metal to do this. If there is no way of compromising then it's time to move on. There has to be for the relationship to last.
@colbylawson5331 Жыл бұрын
@@natturefrk Okay, but that's his money though. You don't go around complaining about a house and a dog. If she doesn't like it and wants to complain so much, then she can find someone else to be with herself. Teamwork is teamwork, but her boyfriend is trying to live his life, not be worried about some chick of his that has nothing better to do than complain. She needs therapy and isn't taking therapy.
@Treeoflife25 Жыл бұрын
@@natturefrk i agree with you, the boyfriend is expecting too much from a grieving woman and doesn’t try to put in a single bit of effort, i get that he has insane work hours but he is too lazy to clean and if he’s working longer than a 12 hour shift then he can take said company to court, since he still has like 4 hours total at the bare minimum to help clean. I’m absolutely messy but i have a few reasons for that, the guy just seems like he is somewhat gaslighting her and never talked about big decisions like buying a house and expecting her to immediately move in
@natturefrk Жыл бұрын
@@colbylawson5331 I did say that it wasn't about possessions. Money is a possession. Clearly you misunderstood what I was saying because what you just said is not teamwork. It's extremely selfish, but hey continue to think the way you do. I'm sorry that you do. I would want nothing more than for you to find someone where you can truly be happy with. That attitude of yours though will only lead to resentment, distrust, and unhappiness. You can't just think of yourself. I will give you an example. My mother and step father discusses everything . They have been married for 12 years. She divorced my Father for doing things without telling her and not communicating. Only thinking of himself.
@Nathan_Bookwurm Жыл бұрын
Srsly, the dad with the dog in the last story makes my heart boil. Kids believe all sorts of stuff, the dad basically ruined the kid's relationship with his dog that he'll never get back. The OP will never forget how he turned his back on the dog by believing the stupid joke. And then he also gets laughed at by his family for it now. Ok, the dad probably didn't think his joke had so much impact on the boy, but with kids and relationships to their loved ones you can - in my opinion - not be careful enough, or at least mention after that it was a joke. I mean, my kids even believe me when I say there's unicorns flying in the sky making rainbows. Might be different from the OP since they have autism and generally believe everything I say, but even kids without autism believe the stuff their trusted parents say to them. (Immortal santa clause with tons of Elves bringing Xmas presents in a flying reindeer carriage through chimneys every year being one example)
@daykibaran9668 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking that too. What could have been if the dad didn’t say that to him….😢
@rainbowunicorn709 Жыл бұрын
Horrible parent. I agree with everything you said. He needs to cut off all contact with the entire family and block them on everything.
@Glitch-Gremlin Жыл бұрын
Are you people fucking SERIOUS!? Even a 5 year old Knows a DOG CANNOT TALK! much less a 20 year old! im 100% SURE he was just joking never thinking she'd be so Low IQ that she'd actually BELIEVE IT.
@SomeGaymerNerd Жыл бұрын
lmao was gonna comment that I've got autism and the same thing would've happened with me for the last story- like, if someone sounds dead serious when saying it, how am _I_ supposed to know it's a joke?
@Allantitan Жыл бұрын
@@SomeGaymerNerd even without autism if one is young enough then how are they supposed to know it was a joke sadly
@rimurutempest7367 Жыл бұрын
For OP 2, I can see his actions being justified. Example: He understands his girlfriend is in a bad spot, and they've been already planning on living together. He buys a house nearby, thinking she'd want to be closer to family. He brings home a dog, so that she has something to do while he's unable to be with her the entire time, since it sounds like he works so much and is rarely home. But his bad habits of being messy, not properly listening, disregarded his girlfriends feelings completely and gaslighting her when she has something top say does not help at all. But at the same time, he can be stressed out that all of his extra effort to make his girlfriend happy and keep her busy is not being appreciated, so when it comes to him feeling cornered by her, he speaks too bluntly. You cannot forget, most men have problems with properly opening up to another person and they'll do thing impulsively based on what they feel is right or wrong.
@Mass1fy Жыл бұрын
Correct i agree.
@torey7805 Жыл бұрын
The house thing I get but she flat told him she was against the dog and he still did it...not cool
@AmericanRambler0101 Жыл бұрын
@@torey7805 I think he knows on some level she really is not interested in the relationship. And these are all excuses she is using to get out of it. The dog is her replacement.
@johnburnside7828 Жыл бұрын
Oh, good grief! The boyfriend is a self-centered controlling jerk! OP needs to realize he doesn't actually care anything about her and needs to get as far away from him as soon as possible. I realize she has other problems, but attaching herself to him isn't going to help her one tiny bit.
@Xerukuta28 Жыл бұрын
Well, since it was his money that bought the house. His decision to choose what house. She fully says "I didnt choose this" meaning OP doesnt care what the boyfriend thinks of a home as long as it caters fully to her amd her needs. He works, and its clear she doesnt. Yet she is upset he spent his money on a home close to her family. Yes he is a douche for gaslighting her and not being understanding she just lost someone, at the same time, she is being entitled too as she thinks the house and where it is located, is solely up to her. She even admits that fact multiple times. They both are in the wrong here in my opinion.
@Paul-yn2zy Жыл бұрын
Devil's advocate here, his money his choice. Also, what's going on in his life that pushed him to buy that house when he bought that house.
@rainbowunicorn709 Жыл бұрын
That isn't devil's advocacy -- that's just logic.
@andrewthompson1611 Жыл бұрын
The first story is just crazy 🤪 she is now gonna have to live with her consequences
@frostyalplayz Жыл бұрын
I was able to get out of my toxic mom's house and I live with her mom now and it's like heaven here
@insignificantrat8992 Жыл бұрын
I can't live without these videos...
@ashlearhodeskim3112 Жыл бұрын
In a number of countries a mum who tries to kick out a 16 year old can be charged with abandoning a child. Such a abusive mother trying to claim religion.
@bobm5951 Жыл бұрын
Story 2 - why? Just why? DON'T MOVE IN should be simple and obvious to figure out yourself.
@AniketPanigrahyАй бұрын
The first story ,, the way the mother was treated when all the maternal family knew about it 😂😂 it gave me chills 🔥🔥
@Azulakayes Жыл бұрын
Story 3: OP got scammed. She better take him to small claims court to get her money and dump him. She needs to work on her self-love and to keep busy, she should consider getting hobbies because she can make friends and feel less lonely. I think that being 19 is a great time to have fun and not tie yourself up to a relationship.
@1mol831 Жыл бұрын
$2,000 from a couple months relationship? Why swoop so low? That’s like 1 day’s salary for a radiologist or what a medium business owner gains in 1 hour.
@CaptPro Жыл бұрын
Story 1 Call the police immediately this is actual abuse this mother of yours should not be in society she should be behind bars he’s abuses children.
@HalfDeadPrincess-uh5huАй бұрын
Just gonna say, my favorite part is always the voices he uses for other people who aren't the op. It always makes listening a little more fun
@orelliaorellia142 Жыл бұрын
And that my dear parents, is the reason why you shouldn't prank young kids whithout explaining soon after. Poor dog and poor kid, that's so sad.
@seanvo8222 Жыл бұрын
For the second story imo OP really is just complaining. I could be wrong here but it sounds like the bf paid for the house and renovations while OP is just unhappy about the fact she has a house now
@The_Mr_Mugiwara Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@michellamoureuxm Жыл бұрын
I agree, she basically expects her partner to pause his life completely for a year, so she can grieve, listen I lost my dad 2 years ago now, family deaths can be tough shit to deal with, but it's not an excuse to control your partners life, or decisions. Maybe she should buy her own house then, and let him pick all the renovations.
@The_Mr_Mugiwara Жыл бұрын
@@michellamoureuxm thank you my brother
@chobitstheoneforme Жыл бұрын
She sounded like a total control freak. She’s just a girlfriend why does she think she has power over all of his money and what house he wanted to buy. That’s his money. And he doesn’t even have a say in what house he wants. What the fuck
@The_Mr_Mugiwara Жыл бұрын
@@chobitstheoneforme I stg imma start making these am I the asshole vids better game play and actual none biased opinion
@dianeadams5598 Жыл бұрын
If the boyfriend does not clean and expects her to do everything, it is a harbinger of things to come. You can't change people. If you continue the relationship, you need to face the fact you will have a lot of work ahead of you.
@PuneetSharma-uw1kd Жыл бұрын
Did u even listen to the story? She clearly said that she isn't obliged or expected to do it, she does it because she can't wait for him to do it. It's simply that he is messy while she likes to stay clean.
@pamparliament8676 Жыл бұрын
Story #2: I would suggest getting someone to come help explain things to him, again, if he’s not listening. If that work, perhaps this isn’t who you’re meant to spend the rest of your life with. If he doesn’t respect your needs and continues to push you, he doesn’t deserve you.
@colbylawson5331 Жыл бұрын
It's OP that's the problem. If all person wants to do is fucking complain, than that person than go be by themselves. OP's bf shouldn't have to put up with her bitching.
@conesnail1 Жыл бұрын
My view is that her bf knew that they were planning to live together when this tragedy took place, so now he is considering how she feels with grief and doesn't want to stress her out anymore and tries to get a house for both of them to start their life, it sounds like she is just complaining because she didn't have say in the choice of house... he asked for and respected her opinions in the renovations, which shows he cares, he gets a puppy because when living alone, life can be depressing... and could have been for her benefit too since dogs can be therapeutic... it sounds like she is just complaining because she didn't have say in the house
@The_Mr_Mugiwara Жыл бұрын
@@conesnail1 I sat she doesn't wanna be with him and wants an excuse to escape
@rollitup419 Жыл бұрын
No. She doesn't need to do anything but accept that his money is not hers
@The_Mr_Mugiwara Жыл бұрын
@@rollitup419 amen brother
@Chakawatts2 ай бұрын
Arranged marriages should be illegal. Forcing your kid to marry someone they’ve never met and don’t know is absolutely ridiculous.
@dieoux Жыл бұрын
amazing video
@maleighlovesbroadway Жыл бұрын
I’m a Christian, and the Bible says absolutely NOTHING about forcing your child to marry someone “you chose” for them, OR kicking them out because they don’t believe
@omega4596 Жыл бұрын
Your content is the best 👍
@Amber417 Жыл бұрын
Story 1 has got some serious Mommie Dearest vibes
@blackbird3327 Жыл бұрын
Story 1:I have 2 words for OP's now sanctioned mother, *inhales* "DRAMA QUEEN!!!!!!!"
@charlenevarada--Stargazer Жыл бұрын
That 1st story--that sounds like what was done in the middle ages when marriages were arranged by the parents!
@badatnames333 Жыл бұрын
Story #1: That doesn't sound like just some religion, it sounds like a cult. The way the mum talks, not to mention the creepy smile of the girl, gives very indoctrinating vibes.
@Lucas-eh5wr Жыл бұрын
For the first story , I wouldve called cps and the cops on the mother for threatening
@jesseedwards3526 Жыл бұрын
Story number 4 I wonder if there's a redirect Story somewhere titled "I got embarrassed when my daughter teased me about talking to the dog and I accidentally ruined their friendship because of it"
@GreyPlayz. Жыл бұрын
The op should go to small claims court so the court orders him to pay
@carlrood4457 Жыл бұрын
My dog talks all the time, just not in English. She's very good at telling me when she wants a walk, be fed, that I'm not giving her enough attention, etc. She makes herself heard quite clearly and I'm pretty good at interpreting what she's telling me. I know he was a kid, but who doesn't talk to their dog?
@michaelwilson3806 Жыл бұрын
They know how to communicate.❤❤
@mac1701a Жыл бұрын
All of 'a' sudden... not all of 'the' sudden... just being picky
@carlrood4457 Жыл бұрын
This is known as the "Sunk Cost Fallacy". He's never giving you that money back. Continuing the relationship won't get him to pay and you're just investing more of your time and emotions into a sinkhole.
@davyncarulli9000 Жыл бұрын
Op 2, that's literally a breakup and get as far away as I can think of. Find a better partner.
@OLBICHL Жыл бұрын
op 2 better break up with her bf... that way he can move on and find a lady who is more appreciative of everything he's doing... buying a house close to her family and renovating it to her liking doesn't sound like a selfish thing
@The_Mr_Mugiwara Жыл бұрын
Its not op the ah
@RohitDas-kl2vs Жыл бұрын
mom in first story "welcome to marriage in India"
@CountLurchalot Жыл бұрын
These stories would make a great anthology drama show
@Staggger11 ай бұрын
Story 3: This is called conditioning. When someone makes you drop your guard so you can become their marionette. This is often used with Scammers, and in this case, a con. It doesn't matter what the situation is, once the person wraps you around their finger, it's hard to unravel yourself out of the situation due to your emotional investment in the person. It's human nature to trust people, so don't take it too personally. Now that you've seen the signs, confront them. If they really cared about you, they will change. If they repeat their actions or suggest something that would cause you harm, don't stick with them. They'll bleed you dry and feel no remorse. Extortion through conditioning is a one way affair.
@risuban2748 Жыл бұрын
You know what Mr am I the jerk? Based on the amount of tik toks with your voiceover on them I've watched, I'm subscribing
@The_Mr_Mugiwara Жыл бұрын
L on the 2nd opinion youv started to always side with the girls brother.he payed for his house he isn't married to her he lives alone so he got a dog,she payed for none of the house so her opinion is irrelevant its his house so he can choose what he wants she's complaining bc she doesn't have a say in what he spends his money on
@Nkw022 Жыл бұрын
In story one I would have called child support for negligence by them kicking you out and sue their a## for violating the 1st amendment and attempting to for a marriage.
@thatrandomguy56 Жыл бұрын
2nd story op just sounds entitled to me. Yes deaths in the family are sad but the world will not stop moving foward because of her grief(especially not for a year or so like the op says she needed). Why should her boyfriend even consult her about buying a house when she didnt have plans to live with him for a while? Also, depending on the area they live in, it isnt possible to just put off buying it to consult someone else who is too busy dealing with grief. They don't seem to be engaged so i see even less of an issue in his part. Was he supposed to just wait until she was ready to move in with him before buying a house (and probably prioritizing the op's wants), or was he supposed to just buy a house the op approved of just in case she makes the decision to move in with him (which according to the op would be an at least an entire year or so out) ? At least he let her be a part of the renovations. I also can't understand how she doesn't like the area the house is in when from her telling it is close to where she already lives. She also stated that her boyfriend said that all she does is complain, and honestly I am prone to believe him even with just her side of the story. If someone refuses to move in with me and yet still tries to dictate my house life I'd have the same complaint. You potentially moving in doesn't really justify a high level of control regarding the house, especially since it seems like he has been pushing to live together for a while even before the death of her family member but it never happened and wouldn't happen for at least another year.
@Ca_Fi Жыл бұрын
There’s no way that didn’t take you 15 minutes to make
@adambruno8728 Жыл бұрын
They've been dating for SIX YEARS what a waste of time, energy, and money the OP is.
@Azulakayes Жыл бұрын
Wow...seems you don't know how grief works. Good for you.
@vy8554 Жыл бұрын
Also just because you buy a house doesnt mean you have to live there forever. Rent it out, airbnb it, sell it eventually with a nice profit. Op bf saw an investment opportunity and took it , nothing wrong with that at all
@rollitup419 Жыл бұрын
@@Azulakayes you also don't know how buying a house works, or not controlling other people's money or lives.... I feel bad for anyone unfortunate enough to cross your path
@Bonesintheland Жыл бұрын
1. It does say honor your mother and father. 2. But it also says that the parent can’t provoke or anger the child which she has been doing 3. It says in the Bible don’t force it onto people.
@margaretmpbh9996 Жыл бұрын
My daughter thought Robinhood was a fox until a recent visit to Nottingham she is in her 20s this was entertaining for the family. When asked who told her Robinhood was a fox she said from a Disney film lol. My grandchildren love me telling this story about their mum.
@angelamurray2725 Жыл бұрын
In the bible it says “ Treat others how you want to be treated “
@kayschut9327 Жыл бұрын
There's information missing to actually form an opinion on the 2nd story. How long did they have plans to move in together (or how long has he) before this happened? How often has he heard "I just need another year or so"? For all we know this is a thing for years now and he has finally decided to actually take a step forward instead of staying in place. The OP seems unconcerned about her boyfriend's needs/feelings and then gets angry. I get that the OP is having a hard time emotionally, but him going forward with buying a house and such might be an indication that he feels neglected and lonely.
@chobitstheoneforme Жыл бұрын
In the second story I was totally on his side. She sounded like a fucking control freak that wanted to control his money and what he does with it. It’s his money he decides what house to buy they are not married
@kingalexander43 Жыл бұрын
The best thing you can do is stay away from marriage dude. Don't be a fool, don't get married. It's fine to date, but if you're going to do a relationship you got to be careful. And the next time your mother brings up the whole "I gave you life" thing, kindly remind her that god gives us life, and our parents just bring us into the world. If god didn't allow people to have children, nobody would be having children.
@sodorflubbs5000 Жыл бұрын
Once he gets to 18 he’s a grown up so she can’t do diddly squat. So as long as has somewhere to go beforehand it doesn’t matter right!
@kingalexander43 Жыл бұрын
@@sodorflubbs5000 That's true. Not a damn thing she could do when he hit 18.
@colbylawson5331 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. This is why I despise parents that try to force God on their kids. Teach them about God and his Bible, but don't provoke them as they're his kids and he'll bring wrath upon you for it.
@rollitup419 Жыл бұрын
Sorry, but your religion is literally annoying.
@Muncichaos Жыл бұрын
That mother isn't religious she's using it as an excuse to manipulate his life
@KpaBaPa11 ай бұрын
Story 2: guy waiting 6 years , then gives her a year to grief, finally has enough and buys his own house and still wants her to move in and he is somehow the bad guy according to you? Big L my dude
@CreekSong.warriors Жыл бұрын
As a Christian myself(even thought I do not know what religion the mom is)the mom in the first story is infuriating that is a horrible situation to be stuck in for the op Even though I am a Christian I don’t try to ever enforce my religion on others the mom is disgusting to me
@Michael-nv9ll Жыл бұрын
“MOTHERRRRR KNOW BEST” tagled hehe
@lauramiller7690 Жыл бұрын
So glad you have the support of family and that you got out of that toxic household however is somebody that grew up feeling like religion was shoved down your throat don't slam the door totally when you find a normal religion and it is your choice it can be a good thing
@kaikosolano8172 Жыл бұрын
My dad Catholic and very religious, but he never forced his beliefs on me. I am far from being an atheist btw and do believe in Christ, just not as involved in the Church as my dad is. A few years back, shortly after I started my career in medicine, he asked me what are my plans in life, seeing as my younger brother already had a kid on the way. I said I have no intention to get in a relationship and was contented with my life. he responded with "ok". he never opened that topic again and up to this day are still close to one another
@DragonGamer50911 күн бұрын
Same
@tetra7billy Жыл бұрын
For #2, she's a little too whiny. If her money wasn't used in buying the house or getting the pup, then she shouldn't complain. No one is forcing her to come over, no one is forcing her to clean up. She should take a break and let this guy get his 💩 together. If he's forcing you to do these things, then leave. If you're doing this on your own, then quit showing up, or quit your whining. There's no ring on that finger, he's spending his own money, so let him deal with those things on his own
@alexiafranklin455 Жыл бұрын
My mom went on a health food break when I was about 8 or 9 years old she wanted to stop buying sugary cereal. So she told me they stopped producing fruit loops my favorite cereal. My mom became a teacher so one day I was about 14 or 15 years old and she took her students on a field trip to a college campus. We went to the cafeteria and they had all those ones serving boxes of cereal and I saw fruit loops. And I freaked out screaming look mom they have fruit loops they made they're making them again. And she looked at me with the most confused look on her face along with all of her students and then she remembered. Is she burst it out laughing and had to explain to her students how she had told me they stopped making fruit loops so she could start buying us only Cheerios. I had never been so embarrassed in my entire life everybody in the cafeteria heard me and was looking at me.
@iBeReaper Жыл бұрын
Honor thy mother and thy father is something my mother used to try and pull on me until I told her I didn't believe in her god
@1naoll Жыл бұрын
The second story is an eye opener. He picked this he got that he said we had to do this, THAT IS CONTROL. He is trying to control her!!! She needs to take a break from him! Or it will get worse if not abusive. Third story he used you and your money is gone.
@shegeek5559 Жыл бұрын
Second story - girlfriend has zero say until he puts a ring on it and/or her name on the deed and loan. You do not get a say in such things until there is a legal commitment involved between the couple. That said, you are looking at your future. Step back live where you want to live, and tell him to adjust, and, oh by the way, you do not respond well to *orders*.
@Lingeringwill4784 Жыл бұрын
20 dollars saying the religious mom is gonna ask the kid for something
@CidVeldoril Жыл бұрын
The boyfriend in the second story can do with his own money whatever he wants. Burn it, gift it, buy a house and puppy. If OP doesn't like that, she can leave.
@dwaynewrighton8547 Жыл бұрын
Story2: how tall is your high horse? I mean 6 years together, not living together, so bf pulls trigger gets house, and you whinge that it doesn't feel like a home, which it won't, until you move into it. Pretty entitled to expect him to wait whilst you grieve, after 6 years of already waiting, because he's not considering your feelings, when not considering his. You've literally stalled you future plans that you apparently made together the whole time. So he makes progress on it. And your unhappy. Like, do you even want to be in a relationship? Do you even care about your boyfriend, or do you have him around in your life, just for the clout of being able to claim your in a relationship and that you don't fail at basic adult things, whilst you clearly are failing at basic adult things. Sure. The dog thing. I could see why that would be an issue, but it's one you could work around or get over.
@mindofsirlurchalot1335 Жыл бұрын
The father in the first story sounds very reasonable
@AverageZeldafan-rz8vp2 ай бұрын
The fact that most of the men you end up having some thing with is just a hook up and your 19 is sad
@ReSoule3 ай бұрын
Honestly, I am just as worried about the girl as I was about the OP. She seemed to be completely into the idea and while it may be voluntarily, it still feels worrisome how willing she is to being forced into a committed relationship to a random person she has never met before and go with a set future she had no opinion on to set.
@arthurjones2454 Жыл бұрын
Honestly if your significant other owes you 2000 plus 600 for your sister and he/she doesn't wanna pay it back, and is avoiding you... rob them. Respectfully💯
@Glitch-Gremlin Жыл бұрын
OR Take them to Small Claims Court. hopefully she was smart enough to get him to Admit on Camera it was a Loan, not a GIFT.
@Blackinterceptor999 Жыл бұрын
The 2nd story, um he is the one living in the house alone, without his companion, so he got a dog...Stop being a drama queen. Also, it sounds like he used his money to buy the place and invited you into it, you turned him down so again, you're being a drama queen, perhaps acknowledging his needs and emotions will help your relationship
@brandonnewby1785 ай бұрын
You ain't gonna get your money if you stay with him either, so leave his ass.
@johnnymcneal5914 Жыл бұрын
I would sooner move out of her home rather than marry somebody I barely know and haven't even got to know it might have been acceptable back in the 1800s but you cannot do that today
@pamelaprince8134 Жыл бұрын
The girl with the guy that loaned all that money, just take him to small claims court. It's cheap enough and you can break up with him & don't fret there are plenty of guy's and nice guy's at that that'll treat you right and you'll truly fall in love. Really sue him the courts will make him pay!! It's about $100 to file & about $25 for the sheriff to serve him the papers. Just gather all your payments to him and texts!! Good luck!! You'll win!!
@Mel-zw3rd Жыл бұрын
Story 2 needs more information. She said she's need a year or more to grieve at her parents so did the boyfriend have to move out of his house for some reason so he decided to buy instead of rent. Did he try and involve her in the buying process? He bought close to her so he must have thought about her in the process, being close to her parents and all. How long was he alone in the house while she lived at her parents? Maybe he was lonely so got a dog to help.
@TheBlueFedora-tp2om Жыл бұрын
I can understand why op from story 1 didn’t realize it sooner because the truth about support their behind you unfortunately leaving out of sight most of the time
@mason4318 Жыл бұрын
Shoulda packed her bags the moment she started those bs threats
@TheGoyaHokage Жыл бұрын
Story 2 the girl needs to stop crying. She should have been more present with the boyfriend and she could have had a say. The boyfriend bought a house all by himself if she wasn’t stringing him along she would have had a say in the house.
@SenseiRaisen Жыл бұрын
Story 2: here is the thing... you aren't marry to the guy in 1st place, so sweetheart ... NO! you don't had anything to said on the matter as it comes from his pocket, not yours. Then the puppy ... sure it's a decision ... but ... again ... it came out of his pocket, not yours, so again, you don't had any thing to said in this one either if he wants a dog. The point is, you don't feel force to move, and he shouldn't force you to move there as well. Now here is the thing, if you're THAT whiny, why not tell him bluntly "NO, i don't wanna live here, i want to be sad excuse of miserable persona while griving"?. YEAH! it sounds bad, and harsh, but girl ... if you wanna be alone tell it and go directly, as it seems you're looking for validation to said: "yes! leave him, he is a jerk". No sweetheart, he tried his best to keep you busy from not thinking into that grieve and try to make you move on, only for nitpicking on him for anything when he "barely had time from work" as you said. And Narrator, stop been a simp again. As much as i know she has a tragedy and is griving ... SHE SHOULD TELL IT or get therapy, because how she is acting, sound very whiny and entitled as well as she didn't even tell him properly and put a stop to this. If he wanted a home, good. If wanted a dog ok. As it comes from his pocket. But OP isn't a entitle to choose this and she is planning things as if is marry too. IF he is running a marathon while she is trying to walk, then they aren't fit for each other either. In this case both sucks at not communicate this properly too.
@BIGBLOCK5022006 Жыл бұрын
I would've been going to jail for making threats towards the mom in the 1st post because she would get told that if she kicks me out that she better have her last will and testament written out because if she thinks that she so religious then she better be prepared to meet her maker because I would send her to meet them.
@cjmundy7184 Жыл бұрын
Story 2, would love to hear HIS side of the story
@mmmmmduffbeer Жыл бұрын
Literally all he would have to say to justify it to me is, "three percent".
@BlueGreen30sex Жыл бұрын
Oh my god im so glad that the OP in the first story was able to get out i went to my uncles for a week and something similiar happened to me but what you had to go through OHMY GOD MINE PALES IN COMPARISON
@brandonschod4478 Жыл бұрын
So in the second story she said it’s not what I had saw our life’s going? Seems like she will be unhappy unless he falls in line🤷🏼♂️
@brandonschod4478 Жыл бұрын
The third story girl got scammed
@justinmyers9515 Жыл бұрын
With the story about the boyfriend buying a house the woman does need to realize he is her boyfriend not husband she's not entitled to the house so if the boyfriend wants to buy a house he can I think the guy needs to walk away from her.
@Passive_dehydration Жыл бұрын
God does not judge people based on religion, but on their actions
@Ironica82 Жыл бұрын
True, and our actions shows us all guilty.
@matthewrogers9187 Жыл бұрын
second story the guy is on a speed run to life
@NeedlessExposition Жыл бұрын
That second story: OP is an entitled control freak and the narrator needs to stop simping.
@mmmmmduffbeer Жыл бұрын
But her boyfriend, that she doesn't live with, locked in a historically low mortgage rate. That monster!
@dragowolfgamer4214 Жыл бұрын
the first story sounds like my mother
@Thewhiterabbit360 Жыл бұрын
story 1: what happened to respect thy child
@fishcity5844 Жыл бұрын
It's also not fair for the puppy.
@krisirolfe43325 ай бұрын
Visit him and pick items you can sell for money to pay off his debts…..
@Lawtro Жыл бұрын
Why can't these kids in these stories call CPS (child protective services)