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0:00 My husband cheated on me with someone from reddit
1:37 not allowing my boyfriends sister to bring her service dog to our birthday party?
3:57 I accidentally traumatized my son with science
5:51 I cheated on my wife with a fictional character
7:04 Should I tell my boyfriend I cheated this weekend?
10:07 My girlfriend left me the same day I bought an engagement ring
12:30 Am I the Jerk for stealing from my job?
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@Akatsuki0Dark0Vulpix 2 жыл бұрын

For story 2: There are some that have "service dogs" that really aren't. When I worked at a food establishment, there were people that had "service dogs" that ate right off the table, begged for food, barked at other guests, and entirely misbehaved. Some people register their dog as "emotional support animals" and pass them off as "service animals" with no training or understanding what it actually means. There is certain things that one needs to actually come to a conclusion in the story: is the service dog in a vest/is certified? Some states require that you have them, others don't, but just having it can clear up if it is genuine. She doesn't need to disclose her issue, but rather just provide proof that it is a legitimate. I know for some, it isn't fair: but op does have somewhat of a point. If she doesn't want something in her house, then she has every right to say no. If the op's husband is dancing around what is wrong, but won't confirm that is registered, then I would be suspicious as well. As for being a jerk, I can see if she is tired of confusion and just wants clarification. So it is undecided if she isn't or is the a-hole.

@reienna6410 2 жыл бұрын

seriously...a really close friend of mine [raised almost like a brother] had an ex-girlfriend that had the emotional support animals but they had no formal training or restraint training or any of that stuff...and i personally deal with that on occassions when people bring their 4 legged yapping purses into my house. yes, i have a dog myself...and i adore dogs...i spent many years training to be a vet till my back problems prevented me from it...i also think having those kinds of animals helps...be service animals or ES animals...that said people that have no consideration for the people or animals that actually reside in the place normally and still insist on bringing untrained animals...that do not know how to be around other animals without being hostile...can piss right off and not bring the freakin pets. i personally had to torment my dog by confining him to my hot ass room because a guest brought a violent little 4 legged purse that tried to attack my dog before it even got through the front door...and ive also been attacked by dogs myself when i was younger because they werent properly trained on how to be mild around other people that it didnt see as part of its family/pack

@TH3SILLYMAN Жыл бұрын

to me it does seem a little suspicious of the girl not to tell, nor the boyfriend, the person who submitted the story should maybe look into it and say sorry still, since it wasn't very nice for calling out a service dog who probably needs it

@kayliewebb1346 2 жыл бұрын

I have a service dog but plenty of people fake needing them I have seen it many times. Half of them put me at risk so no she is not in the wrong

@NordicViking29 2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@kalemmackey2917 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! She didn't mention a vest on the dog and she implied that she asked what the dog did, which seems like a harmless question someone could easily answer.

@redpandafirefox9434 2 жыл бұрын

I'm mixed on that one. it could be faked. but it could be an emotional service dog

@endymion30 2 жыл бұрын

Im in agreement, i think the narrator made an assumption about the woman simply asking a question and being skeptical, if im suspicious of a support animal’s status and have been told that it’s not great with children I wouldn’t want it anywhere near the kids. On the other this lady could be a karen and the children are brats

@badopena8521 2 жыл бұрын

For the 2nd story idk if he's joking like don't get me wrong kids shouldn't mess with legitimate service dogs but the girl is just being werid about not saying the reason for the service dog

@spacecat4042 2 жыл бұрын

I was just about to comment this same thing

@krazykonnects8213 2 жыл бұрын

That dog isn't doing a job at all. The fact the owner made the claim that the breed is aggressive to children in any capacity automatically takes it off the service dog list.

@SuperStoploss 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I think you were a little bit over the top with the service dog thing. There are absolutely people out there that need service dogs. However, there are nearly as many people who claim that their pet is a service dog just to bring their pet into places that pets aren’t allowed. I’ve never seen a legitimate service chihuahua. I don’t know how long OP and her BF have been dating but you would think that if his sister’s disability was severe enough to warrant a service animal it would be known to OP and when OP’s concerns about the safety of her children were made known to the BF he would have told her about the disability to justify the dog. Lastly, it’s the OP’s house. It’s her job to make her home safe for her children. That includes not letting potentially harmful people or animals into her house. On the flip side of that, if the OP’s children were messing with the sister’s dog at the sister’s house, the sister would be within her right to ask the OP not to bring her children.

@drakesilmore3760 2 жыл бұрын

Judging by how OP writes, I'd never share my disability with her. So there's probably a reason why she doesn't know. The brother has no obligation to share his girlfriend's disability, that's completely up to the girlfriend. I do agree with your final point. OP can decide who or what she wants on her private property. She is also free to face the consequence of no longer hosting the party. Edit: Just to make a point, there are service animals that help cope their owners deal with PTSD, such as after a traumatic intimate event. It's completely understandable that someone doesn't want to share that and it's nobody's business.

@insanedebater6352 2 жыл бұрын

For the second story if u don't tell me what's u have and get mad about it. Also she made it seem like the dog is dangerous I wouldn't want that dog around my kids either. Leaving me out the loop and thinking ima just trust u is funny af. Even if I can't see it how someone words things would make me want it to stay away at all times .

@78dentedhead 2 жыл бұрын

Regarding the last story... as a general rule, if you see someone stealing food (or nappies/diapers), you *didn't* see anyone stealing food/nappies/diapers. Obviously, there will be exceptions (people who don't need said food), but generally if someone is stealing food or essential supplies it's because they have little choice.

@jorelnavarro 2 жыл бұрын

People have lied about being veterans, cops, who they're related to but lying about a disability is somehow something no one would lie about. Get off your high horse dude.

@AnthonyBlamthony 2 жыл бұрын

High horse? No more like get a brain dude. He’s 100% what right. What right do you have to question someone’s disability just because *you* can’t see it? When someone lies about being a veteran you can tell, when someone lies about being a cop you can tell, you just need to look for the right things. When someone has a mental illness or disability which is invisible how do you see it? How many times do bozos like you need to be publicly embarrassed for this same reason till you get the message?

@benthoblix8008 2 жыл бұрын

You should look up tics and roses and you will see

@katelynstenstra3168 2 жыл бұрын

story 2 the sister asking about what disablitiy the girlfriend had to have a service dog and what the dog does as a service dog is a good question she had the right to ask her brother girlfriend

@bigl56 2 жыл бұрын

for story 2. an ex of mines sister made up a story and claimed ptsd to get a service dog so it does happen, someone claims to have an issue to get one because they want one. i have no idea if thats the situation in this post, theres a strong possibility it isnt, just saying that it does happen.

@HavianEla 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much for pointing out invisible illness!!! I’ve been crippled from non-stop chronic pain for over half my life, and had TWO (2) out of hundreds of doctors take me seriously, so you sticking up for some of us makes me happy :) Also, fuck that manager. Eat at Panera, they give their old bread to soup kitchens

@Kingcrab0 2 жыл бұрын

The happy meal one is sad. I really think it's sad that the OP thinks that what they did is wrong, as it's obviously corporate conditioning. The fact that the manager didn't have any empathy for them and was just heartlessly enforcing corporate policy is sad. It's sad how businesses/corporations will condition people to see something ethical (letting an employee take home a meal that was going to get thrown out otherwise) as evil/immoral acts that are worthy of punishment and without any regard to situation/circumstance.

@elmythe3136 Жыл бұрын

Feels like a lot of people are focusing on the wrong issue in story 2. The owner of the dog says the dog is dangerous around children then it can't qualify as a proper service dog. Being distracted by children playing is one thing but it sounded a lot more like it was implied that the dog can and will hurt people. As an owner you can't get mad at people if you give warnings that your dog can cause harm and then those people don't want you around

@franklinlee8132 2 жыл бұрын

But does she have a paperwork on the service dog I worked with blind people at a camp and there were some that had service dogs and in order to bring them to the camp they had to have paperwork with them

@Nareimooncatt 2 жыл бұрын

The ADA doesn't require you to keep any paperwork, and have no officially recognized certificates for service dogs. Requiring those left the camp open to some serious lawsuits.

@chandradvaipayana872 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like this one is a roasting video lmao 🤣🤣

@AnimeOtakuDrew 2 жыл бұрын

In the case where the poster cheated on her long distance boyfriend, both of them are in the wrong. The poster is absolutely in the wrong for cheating as there is no circumstance under which cheating is an acceptable behavior. However, she did point out in the story that the reason she cheated was that her boyfriend was growing very controlling, demanding to know every little detail of her life; everywhere she goes, who she's with, and even what she's wearing! This doesn't justify her cheating, but this kind of controlling behavior is not acceptable either. She said that she wanted to feel wanted again, so clearly this behavior by the boyfriend made her feel UNwanted; it objectifies the person in question so they feel like all they are is property. This relationship needs to end and both parties need to find people more suited to them. The poster needs to find someone who makes her feel loved and appreciated WITHOUT trying to micromanage every aspect of her life, and the boyfriend needs to find someone that is where he is and that he trusts enough that he doesn't feel the need to take control of her life. This relationship is doomed no matter what the poster does, so the best thing she could do is break up with him, giving a full explanation of everything: the cheating and everything that led to it.

@skullbrand1 2 жыл бұрын

There needs to be more info on the dog story. I'm not saying the op was right by freaking out but it doesn't sound like anyone knew why she had the service dog. Again, I'm not saying she was in the right. Just think there needs to be more info.

@Antonio10_2_8 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah we need more info we don’t even know why she has a service dog and not saying she is right for freaking out just need more info

@Akatsuki0Dark0Vulpix 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed more information is needed. I have worked with and dealt with legitimate service animals, and "service animals" that are just there because the owner is determined to bring them everywhere. It's annoying to have the fakes involved, and putting more stress on the really needed ones.

@singnienini4353 2 жыл бұрын

About the service dog... I've known about people with invisible illness having service dog, and mental illness could be one of them. When kids or people play with the dog, it could distract the dog from their duty. I do hope there is more side from the sister as what is her sickness.

@gamingwithsilver8138 2 жыл бұрын

The last story with the restaurant the manager was wrong for firing the writer because they going to throw away good food that could be give by the homeless people or someone who is struggling to buy food for their kids .

@tannerrich2388 2 жыл бұрын

maybe a little extreme but i understand the zero tolerance policy. just need a basic understanding of economics and human psychology to figure out why restaurants (especially the big chains) have these policies in place.

@ov7369 2 жыл бұрын

I was onboard with your deal but Imma have to unsubscribe cuz you sounded ignorant there are people I Newsome people who just wanted to take their dogs everywhere with them so that was a legitimate excuse to have their way by finding a loophole another example my ex-wife just wonder dog to be with her at all times so she filed for that and use that excuse that it's a service dog so that way the dogs could go everywhere with her and nothing was wrong with her so thumbs down just ignorant of you

@sheep2959 9 ай бұрын

Man this is the first time I think the reader is actually the jurk I wish I had that confidence

@Gamebro3844 Жыл бұрын

Oh gosh, Story #3 made me think of Louis C.K. He tells a story about when his 7 year old daughter asked whether the Sun goes around the Sun. the conversation went something like this. "Daddy, does the Earth go around the Sun?" "And I said 'Yeah.'" "Does it do it all the time?" "And I go yeah." "Will the Sun always go around the Sun forever?" And I'm like "Well no. At some point the Sun's gonna explode."

@Gamebro3844 Жыл бұрын

°Edit° Will the Earth always go around the Sun forever? Derp...

@Minzeraftt Жыл бұрын

Finally a Karen who seeked Reddits help

@skolldrachen9058 2 жыл бұрын

yeah that last one...i work at a fast food place. they know im on hard times. working that job. fiance being sick. they dont generally bat an eye when i take food home. its pretty fucked up to make a persons life much much worse over something that small..especially if they have a kid. i say the persons lucky they fired them. gods only knows how it would have ended in the long run. i hope they found a better place.

@tannerrich2388 2 жыл бұрын

oOooh a polytheist! don't see too many english speaking poly's these days. good for you. :)

@skolldrachen9058 2 жыл бұрын

@@tannerrich2388 huh?

@tannerrich2388 2 жыл бұрын

@@skolldrachen9058 you said "gods only knows" instead of "god only knows" implying that you believe in multiple gods which would make you a polytheist.

@skolldrachen9058 2 жыл бұрын

@@tannerrich2388 oh lol xD yeah. war love and gaia.

@Teamplatedude00 8 ай бұрын

this is the only video where i have seen someone who is the jerk

@ilovechika1 2 жыл бұрын

Story 2: yes invisible illnesses exist but this "Service dog" owner who is Family, refusing to tell what the dog is trained to do kinda rubs me the wrong way. cause people who have service dogs are open about what it is to family so the family knows what to do if the dog alerts. plus Service dogs are trained with incredible patience and would not be a danger to any kids. service dog owners would rather sit down and explain to the kids instead of telling "breed isn't safe for kids" that is BS. I don't believe this person has a Service dog. an Emotional support animal at most if even that, but that doesn't give them Service dog status and rights.

@armankhan371 2 жыл бұрын

what game is this?

@animetalk8132 2 жыл бұрын

Hello

@choasisgoated 2 жыл бұрын

Trust me that four year old is fine

@vvvjeko2397 Жыл бұрын

he listend to her before they broke up, he need to say abouth ring

@ezioblazesit9017 2 жыл бұрын

These stories are fun to listen to but istg sometimes your advice/comments at the end of each story are just out of pocket lmao

@JuiciestTree 2 жыл бұрын

In story 6 I think he was being to hard on the op because he was nervous and I garentee the girl would go back to him if she saw the ring and she probably already cheating if she moved to a different state and she said I rather you not to visit also

@locomadman Жыл бұрын

I dunno about your take on the first story chief. If (you know, big “if”) I was going to unalive myself, I’d kick around doing it in a hotel room. Talk to anyone in the industry, it’s not that uncommon. Note: before anyone gets alarmed, relax! it’s not something I actually think about, just that I know they have protocol for such things. Cool? Cool.

@GoneGYT Жыл бұрын

For story 7 you also have to take into consideration childhood trauma is a bitch and causes massive issues

@drperky6686 2 жыл бұрын

I want the old guy back

@musiceatsthekids371 2 жыл бұрын

Honestly I think the first lady is justified.

@sam-oz5ju Жыл бұрын

what is wrong with them

@Antonio10_2_8 2 жыл бұрын

The 6 story I don’t know he wasn’t ready you can’t get mad at him for not being ready he will be committing to something bigger the just being a boyfriend and also the girlfriend she was ready but he wasn’t and he should have had the courage to just do it before it was to late and when she moved states he should have seen that as a red flag and think of doing it before it was too late I don’t think it’s anyones fault it was just faith

@callumjohn2762 2 жыл бұрын

You’re wrong with the first one

@AnthonyBlamthony 2 жыл бұрын

Bruh how? He met up with a woman in secret he met on Reddit after they were dming also in secret for a whole year. How was he wrong? Even if anything happened or not he still was sneaking behind his wife’s back obviously knowing it was wrong because he never told her.

@AnthonyBlamthony 2 жыл бұрын

If your wife told you she met up with a random guy at his house after they were talking for a year and never told you anything about that what would you think?

@sugarsymph 2 жыл бұрын

I see a lot of people defending the op in the second story but forgetting the fact the only reason she doesn’t want the dog in the house is because the kids can’t play with it. It’s not even a legitimate reason. The women doesn’t have to tell her medical issue or prove anything. Even if it wasn’t a service dog. It’s her dog that she doesn’t want someone’s kids climbing on. Only a Karen would feel entitled to someone else’s dog. Even if it’s just an emotional support animal. You should be teaching your kids to respect boundaries human and animal boundaries. The animal can get hurt or upset because your kids want to climb on it. It’s not a fucken horse. On top of that. The husband said cancel the party let’s have it somewhere else. Solves the problem of it being in someone’s house. Why does she care so much about someone else has a dog. Seems a bit bored with her own life.

@queersoapybar Жыл бұрын

She was told the dog could be dangerous to her kids. In my opinion that justifies her not wanting the dog around her kids. No matter what the situation is, if the dog is a danger to the kids, keep the dog away. That's just my opinion. And kids don't always listen ya know. Of course, I could be wrong. But still. If I was told a dog could be a danger to my kids, I would rather keep my kids from the dog. Especially to keep them from getting tempted to play with or climb the dog. Keep away the temptation, everyone will be safe.

@Cluke6 2 жыл бұрын

I disagree with your take on story 5. His girlfriend didn't accept his fears and you saying they lacked future plans despite no info saying so is quite presumptuous. We can assume he did it in barely within timeframe and wanted it to be a surprise. That general lack of care and comfort for his fear makes her seem somewhat apathetic in the relationship. The fact she went back on the timeframe and never tried to help him overcome his fears (What your SO is there for is to help you process things and move past them, it goes both ways) makes it so that IMO, she's in the wrong. Relationships take time and forcing someone to work it within a timeframe is just gross.

@juliane.mfarias9285 2 жыл бұрын

1. I think the problem here isnt the husband, is the other girl. The husband have the responsabilty to tell her that he is married and cant go and see other girls like this, less in a Hotel. 2. I was about to agree with OP until you scold us, and i said "f*ck, he is right" i feel bad now. 3. Yep, he f*cked up. But this is fun. 4. If this was me i would be like: "honey if the girl wasnt Scarlet Johanson i dont care" 5. I agree 6. The manager should understand OP situation,

@f8ki 2 жыл бұрын

Bro ur too negative. You only look at the bad sides of people kinda pissing me off

@ethanmitchell912 2 жыл бұрын

Very nice my friend

@gabrielduquevizfraga6238 2 жыл бұрын

Thar's the first video of this channel that I disagree with every single thing the narrator says.

@wolve2k Жыл бұрын

You should chill out with the service dog, neither she nor the BF cant tell for what teh "service" dog is for, thats one big red flag like you always like to say. Double standards much?

@octofriends5601 2 жыл бұрын

With story 5 it’s clear he didn’t understand she was drunk and probably wasn’t even fully aware and obviously didn’t have the intention to purposefully do the deed she doesn’t want to tell him because she doesn’t want to hurt him and make him think it’s his fault. Even tho she cheated not the jerk

@sethcone3340 2 жыл бұрын

The one about cheating on the long distance boyfriend is definitely the ah she's trying to justify her actions by blaming everything on him. Just break up with him