An alternative to self-improvement.

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Angelo

Angelo

Ай бұрын

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Modern self-improvement is a great start, but as time passes, it is veering further into nihilistic and narcissistic territory. If you're doing the basics, but you still feel lost, purposeless, or without direction, self-authentication can serve as a more integrated and personalised practice/way of life.
Self-authentication focuses on the development of skills, virtues, and character traits, not on their external manifestations.
They say 'the good shit sticks', and self-authentication is the culmination of everything that has stuck with me throughout my 4-year journey of bettering myself and achieving my dream life as a byproduct. I based much of this on the work of Jordan Peterson, John Vervaeke, and Iain McGilchrist, three scientists on the front lines of the meaning crisis, as well as the work of many of the ancient stoic philosophers and some other sources.
I will follow up with future videos focused on each of the individual elements of the practice, but this video is an introduction, and should get the conversation going, while providing enough information that you can get started today.
Self-authentication should provide you with not only the 'things' you want in the long run but also move you towards a greater sense of meaning in life.
Channel overview:
A few years ago, I was stuck in bed, hating the universe for subjecting me to the 'sick and twisted game of life' without my consent. I was pathetic.
It was only after I realized something very important that things began getting better... life didn't suck; I did.
In the absence of friction, my mind was conjuring its own, so life was hard, yes, but it didn't have to be. The suffering was unnecessary. After a few years of incremental progress, I'm having the time of my life. I've never been in better shape, my mind has never been sharper, I've never experienced so much happiness, and it's all rooted in a deep sense of meaning that was once absent.
I had to shake myself of lots of old beliefs and patterns to get to where I am, and I believe there are millions of other people who feel stuck and could learn from my mistakes. So that's why I'm starting this channel: to share some of the insights that formed the foundation of the psychological habitat I now occupy.
I don't know exactly how the channel will develop but I'm going to start by posting my raw ideas as that's the only thing I can consistently do at this point in time.
I hope it helps!
Socials:
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@flawed0007
@flawed0007 Ай бұрын
I love this guy man. Fucking GOAT, I started watching him a while ago and I have seen a little but fast improvement after incorporating a bit of his ideologies, also did you just whip out a vodka bottle randomly and start day drinking 🤣🤣 chad
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
It’s tea 😂 I don’t drink alcohol
@flawed0007
@flawed0007 Ай бұрын
@@AngeloSomers Oh bet lol, I know I'm ruining the whole vibe but please keep up the good work man, most of these "motivation/self-help faceless channels are just unethical means to attract vulnerable insecure young men to make money. I am a testament for that, I have also tried to prey on people like that and attack their insecurities instead of giving well-researched and experienced advice. Same goes for the ones who do show a face too, they show their face and openly steal money. You are doing something different and I really appreciate that.
@StrongBodyandMind33
@StrongBodyandMind33 Ай бұрын
Yes! Keep worshipping another man!
@DKP33
@DKP33 2 күн бұрын
​@@AngeloSomers real Chad 🗿💎
@JohnCena-uf9pq
@JohnCena-uf9pq Ай бұрын
Love how everyone who's trying to present himself as an individual on his self improvement path has to publicly announce it, and give the very same examples of how he does it: gym, hygene routines, podcasts (something like Joe Rogan usually), most popular books on finances. Everything is a copy of a copy of a copy
@mihaildaniel4
@mihaildaniel4 Ай бұрын
😆😆It’s basically regurgitating the same message with the same mundane message in order to get them some views. As it’s some sort of “wow news” that nobody knew about.
@Oldmoneycore
@Oldmoneycore Ай бұрын
Not how it works like making a vanilla cake there’s keys & recipes to making it and it’s not wrong that everyone has similar or same recipe or way of making it dosent mean its wrong or doesn’t work same with great philosophers & artist thru history when it comes to wisdom & way of life & let’s be honest 99% of ppl don’t even apply & actually do 1/3 of the basic “self improvement” then say it doesn’t work or a “copy” this video is still a “self improvement video” he’s just talking about level 2-3 of self improvement after u get pass the basic stages nun crazy 😂
@averyintelligence
@averyintelligence Ай бұрын
Excuse but this year has been difficult. Im now 3 months and 4 days sober from sugar. I wake at 4am, i eat only lean meat and veg, i wash and moisturize my skin, i use a bidet when washing my ass, i only drink water with 10000 electrolytes and special golden powder, i do all my work before 7am. I meal prep 21 dishes for the week every sunday, i go to church on sunday. Not cos im religious. But vos im yhere helping. I gice £50 a week to charity. Its a personal journey but just eanted to let you all know. Now congratulate me and show me attention
@vinkoanic
@vinkoanic Ай бұрын
The thing that took me out of this space was the ungenuineness and the inauthenticity. You have 15 year olds „teaching“ you how to optimize testosterone, yet their balls haven‘t even dropped. It‘s just content being regurgitated and it‘s getting old man
@ricardorocha6612
@ricardorocha6612 17 күн бұрын
You are so right, thank you for sharing your opinion Mr. John Cena.
@huismus111
@huismus111 14 күн бұрын
Finally someone thats just geniunely trying to improve, that sees through the bs that has mostly overtaken the self improvement scene, and that isnt just trying to sell a course. You're a rare one bro, ngl. Appreciate you for the info you've given me
@faresmahdid_
@faresmahdid_ Ай бұрын
Legit life changing content wtf Gonna be rewatching this while sat down with a pen and paper to actually work on it and not just watch and forget. You're really inspiring man, humour on point as well, keep it up brother
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
Legend
@sjorgen1236
@sjorgen1236 16 күн бұрын
Agree, i gotta rewatch this again and have a big think
@Velociraith1
@Velociraith1 Ай бұрын
"Self improvement is masturbation". At it's core it is meant to make you feel better about yourself. That's it's purpose. (This is overly simplistic, but it is the jist). Sure you've got big muscles, but are you a better person? This life ain't about just being happy. It's about becoming something more. There isn't one way to be happy. We don't all have to chase after the same goals. You don't have to be rich and jacked and dating the hottest girls to find success or fulfillment. What do you trully believe? What do you truly value? What truly matters to you? What do you truly want? And does that even truly matter? Surrender to the truth. Perhaps one of the hardest things to do. And I ain't perfect. No one is. So don't try to be perfect. Just try. We're gonna make it boys (and girls)💪. And Angelo, seriously thank you. Fantastic video. Stay humble 👊
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
My fuckin guy let’s go. More of this attitude is what we need 🙏
@MrTaker_
@MrTaker_ 14 күн бұрын
It’s cope. You don’t have to have these things, but if you could snap your figures and have them, would you? Of course. Meaning it’s all cope. Using “mental health is more important than self improvement” as an excuse is self destructive. It does not mean you should just entirely stop improving other parts of your life. Another thing is, some people just aren’t happy being mediocre. No matter how good your mental health is, they can’t allow themself to be mediocre. Some people have a fire inside of them, and you just happen to not be one of them. It’s your life.
@Velociraith1
@Velociraith1 14 күн бұрын
​@MrTaker_ I think you might have missed the point a little bit. Allow me to clarify, this isn't about Mental health or any health for that matter. Those things are important but here the point is more about your character. Your values. You beliefs. What do you want?
@bruhman5829
@bruhman5829 14 күн бұрын
⁠​⁠​⁠@@MrTaker_”being mediocre”? Why do you say that?
@HCforLife1
@HCforLife1 7 күн бұрын
I see that self-improvement is basically skill-race. All the "grinding" and "hustling" been labeled back in the days as a "rat race". The only difference is that in 80's-2000's this stuck to 9-5 corporate workers. now any "hustler" is an "entrepreneur". It's all madness. Still rat race. It's not about being happy. It's about putting an mask and pretending that you are happy, and advertise yourself as a "winner". I hate self-improvement grind culture. Most of those gurus don't care about your mental wellbeing. Especially dating coaches, confidence coaches and other red-pill gurus.
@user-xz7hq1dl6j
@user-xz7hq1dl6j 17 күн бұрын
I love this. It has been something that I have thought about a lot actually. I realized that all of the "self-improvement" stuff is just the same stuff. Almost like people are copying and pasting the same information. I was introduced to the "self-improvement" world a little over a year ago, and I admit, it helped me get a bit higher than where I was at, however, it felt like I eventually plateaued. I was doing the stuff, working out, meditating, journaling, all that stuff, but I didn't feel like I was getting anywhere. Something just felt off about the whole situation. Then I had a realization, that we are all on different paths, and so one set of advice will not help everyone. In fact, it will only help a few individuals compared to the rest of the world. So thank you for making this video. It helps explain this concept in a really good way, and I feel it has helped me to understand what I can do to improve in my own personal path, and how I can figure out what is best for me. You are awesome, keep it up!
@High_Tier_Human_1
@High_Tier_Human_1 18 күн бұрын
Self-improvement is the first step imo, self-fulfillment is necessary after that
@jameswa3366
@jameswa3366 Ай бұрын
This man is onto something, and I'm all here for it.
@Justiceroote
@Justiceroote 28 күн бұрын
I always appreciate a video packed with real and original insight. This is what self-improvement content should be. I'll have to watch it a few more times for it to sink in.
@vedkapur1
@vedkapur1 Ай бұрын
Bro i was planning on making a self improvement channel and my first video was gonna be about authenticity and how to cultivate it. You took my words away from my mouth. Now im even more inspired to start my channel
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
Do it!
@xanderjcliffe-musicreviews7740
@xanderjcliffe-musicreviews7740 Ай бұрын
I'm definitely in my 'stationary phase' but I'm slowly clawing out. I got to 100k on a tiktok account, leveraged that for movie premier invites and more, but ultimately felt unsatisfied because it didn't fit my purpose. So I started a new account, this time in the philosophy niche, and I'm hoping to grow it into a real business, with public talks.
@BadBoy-fg5rb
@BadBoy-fg5rb 18 күн бұрын
I cant belief that this video has only so few views… You’re words are so so important for everyone and especially the younger generation to hear!
@kaya4414
@kaya4414 Ай бұрын
2 weeks ago I was in a situation, where I realized exactly what you said in this Video: I stepped out of my comfort zone and understood for the first time in my life, that overthinking everything with the main goal of not being weird will make me unhappy and stop myself from being who I want to be. So I tried to change in some situations and did things I wanted to do, with no regard what other people will think. The results were incredible and people that triggered my social anxiety, reacted most of the time positivly. And even If not, for the first time I did not care. Sadly since then I got recommended all these other self improvement videos but yours was the first one, that really could deliver what I dont like about modern self improvement. Thank you for the video, you really inspired me and put in to words what I thought and felt in some ways too.
@neomawzz
@neomawzz Ай бұрын
*said 👍
@whatyousaydere
@whatyousaydere Ай бұрын
What a strapping young man. You shall be a positive influential force for your peers and community, God bless you bro.
@Knightofthewin
@Knightofthewin Ай бұрын
This new alt you presented needs to be pushed further because what I noticed about the self-improvement community is that 1 it was largely external improvement 2 People were taking away their individuality to become like a influencer because the influencer belives this is the right way and 3 many times people don't even take action
@wasthataflute
@wasthataflute Ай бұрын
Beauuutiful use of language! This concept is a solid bridge for all who are lost in "self-improvement". Your message reeks of 'YOU ARE ENOUGH AS YOU ARE", and yet you don't say it once. Powerful subtext powerfully tickles subconscious⚡️💆 No improvement for perfection; only expansion.
@user-sj8rn6tp5j
@user-sj8rn6tp5j Ай бұрын
Here before he blew up
@zamo333
@zamo333 Ай бұрын
I don't normally comment on videos, but your advice was eye-opening to me. You're exactly what the self-improvement space needs right now. Keep it up
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
@BitcoinTheo
@BitcoinTheo Ай бұрын
this video was so good, the emotions at the end were real. keep it up bro
@Kunal_W
@Kunal_W Ай бұрын
Love this video more than any
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
big facts
@Andrew-fi5sb
@Andrew-fi5sb Ай бұрын
You are the best man. Don't ever quit! Self-Authentication over Self-Improvement!
@bruhman5829
@bruhman5829 14 күн бұрын
That’s a great phrase. I like that. Be true to yourself
@levidwashington
@levidwashington Ай бұрын
You have top notch content man, most self-improvement is pandering, narcissism, and consumerism in disguise… the heat you are bringing, is not that. Keep it up!
@MrTaker_
@MrTaker_ 14 күн бұрын
Narcissism? You never were meant to be in this space my friend. As soon as someone says something that doesn’t hurt your feelings, now you’re pretending like you suddenly like self improvement. As soon as someone is soft and doesn’t want you to do all of the intense hard things about self improvement, suddenly it’s all great. You’re not on self improvement. Your on purely cope, and nothing more.
@levidwashington
@levidwashington 14 күн бұрын
@@MrTaker_ multiple things can be true at once, and I think balancing is important. Super cool PFP btw tho bro
@bejbebejbe2313
@bejbebejbe2313 Күн бұрын
Never in 19 years of my life has somebody effortlessly predicted every single thought of mine about the subject in the subject itself. FUCKING GENIUS
@thereal_mattng
@thereal_mattng Ай бұрын
Bro your content is so good it's unreal LOL. Your flow is so natural and the tempo just hits the perfect balance between entertainment and info... taking notes taking notes on my end 😈😈
@camroncowell
@camroncowell Ай бұрын
Such a real topic brother, modern self improvement strives on avoiding the areas where we can find real change.
@ribreadmusic4658
@ribreadmusic4658 15 күн бұрын
thank you dawg, much appreciated and I love the philosophical answers.
@marcellszelenyi8280
@marcellszelenyi8280 Ай бұрын
this is legitimate POWERFUL stuff thank you for your service!
@ludeum
@ludeum 15 күн бұрын
I did not expect to be this impressed by this video but here we are. Great work.
@yojasonallen
@yojasonallen Ай бұрын
This is the breakdown us in Gen Z and beyond needed-not all the BS the gurus of nowadays spout 💯
@robinvask4943
@robinvask4943 Ай бұрын
Really loved the chill vibes in this video. Will definately ponder over some of the things you mentioned!
@kareemelsadat2041
@kareemelsadat2041 Ай бұрын
You are so real cl and also i respect how you don't over edit your content with bs dopamine spikes
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
Cheers bro!
@feels_bad_max4266
@feels_bad_max4266 25 күн бұрын
Thats what I needed. Giving me so much input to think and actually improve myself. I think all these good habits like going to the gym etc. are a base for some deeper work like this. Thank you.
@Gisus-Cryst
@Gisus-Cryst 9 күн бұрын
Thank you, I hope you are having a lovely day.
@arthuragostinho9132
@arthuragostinho9132 19 күн бұрын
Me pausing each 30 seconds to take notes 😂 Your speech is really precise man! Got a 45 minute content in 20 minutes. Crazy!
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers 19 күн бұрын
doing my best not to waste the viewers time hahah!
@noahriske9620
@noahriske9620 Күн бұрын
Great video. The lighting and captions have improved so much since a couple videos ago.
@bruhman5829
@bruhman5829 14 күн бұрын
Thank you for actually using your platform to promote authenticity.
@ajaybritton7924
@ajaybritton7924 Ай бұрын
Thank you for introducing me to that song at the end. I added that and this video to my "Everyday Playlist" See you tomorrow. ❤
@karims9379
@karims9379 28 күн бұрын
Thank you for this powerful message ❤
@nytr
@nytr 17 күн бұрын
this is gonna blow up, gl with youtube man, actually trust ya
@WhybornMusic
@WhybornMusic 26 күн бұрын
Loving yourself
@hehexd3692
@hehexd3692 17 күн бұрын
When you said 14:47 to embarrass yourself I think most people would cringe or think you’re insane but honestly idk why I find this to be something that could be really fun to do for myself. I think about some of my fav artists and Tyler the creator really resonates where he doesn’t care if he’s awkward or who judges him in their minds it’s him being him and his confidence is why he is where he is now in life. I think that practice of self destruction is great for being comfortable with the uncomfortable and building a foundation of unwavering confidence.
@itsdonartony
@itsdonartony Күн бұрын
one of the most insightful and real videos I have ever watched. what a legend...
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Күн бұрын
My guy
@skinnysmalls
@skinnysmalls 19 күн бұрын
This vid hit me hard af. Great job man.
@xelmer
@xelmer Ай бұрын
I don't know if this fight club quote was intentional, but Tyler Durden litterally speeks through you right here 12:55 (same qoute pops up in a tv in the movie Baby Driver lol). Keep up the uploads and nuance, because WE need this antidote ASAP. I am grateful to have stumpled upon you.
@juancruzvi
@juancruzvi 17 күн бұрын
Great analysis man, really made me think
@haydenwidjaja311
@haydenwidjaja311 14 күн бұрын
You just solved three problems of mine: My belief I was delusional My feeling of purposelessness even though I lost weight and became skinnier My doubts of self-improvement
@sumeet.
@sumeet. Ай бұрын
I love the vibe at the end of video. Definitely unique.
@realitydesigners
@realitydesigners Ай бұрын
bro is really describing reality design 101 awesome video
@theblessed5737
@theblessed5737 Ай бұрын
Bro, your videos make me to REALLY THINK🔥
@Daekvy
@Daekvy 8 күн бұрын
That "Salad Days" hit me right in my chin. Love waht you're doing and your music taste man!
@scuffedchris
@scuffedchris 16 күн бұрын
10 out of 10. genuinely. i only know of 6 or 7 other videos i'd give that rating. well done bruv
@jakeracc
@jakeracc Ай бұрын
this was a great video man, a unique perspective and well put together!
@renarsdr
@renarsdr 7 күн бұрын
Great video - I'll share this. This is really valuable.
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers 7 күн бұрын
@@renarsdr thank you man :)
@talxnn
@talxnn Ай бұрын
bro stated nothing but facts , amazing video ,looking forward for more
@nabDoesYoutube
@nabDoesYoutube 16 күн бұрын
ngl, its defo like, just seek discomfort, challenge yourself, you being comfy is your greatest flaw. If you truly seek to improve at something, you have to practice and that's all it is, its not easy, you'll be bad at first, but just practice. Just go, start, do it, there's nothing more complex, its just start, practice, improve, repeat. Everything else feels like a positive byproduct of your action.
@Sravan.Allopi
@Sravan.Allopi 28 күн бұрын
Spot on video bro! This is TRUE self development, learning how to find the parts of ourselves that want to shy away from everything and run away and attacking that.. after accepting that we are deeply flawed as humans, integration. There is no "Adonis" or "gigachad" that's what causes people to separate from themselves. How else can we improve who we are that way? I'm looking forward to seeing more of this narrative from you, I think I will start sharing my own take here as we need more people speaking on the real thing instead of the cookie cutter generic status signalling that's being masked as self development! Good shit bro
@potatoisgoodnotacherry
@potatoisgoodnotacherry 19 күн бұрын
I agree. Too many people fall down the rabbit hole of 'self improvement', and it's just fake. I feel like you just need to 'do it'. Sounds kind of stupid and brain dead but it's true. Legit, all you have to do is act on things that you want to change. It ain't that deep.
@joshuajacob2739
@joshuajacob2739 Ай бұрын
Speech at the end is underrated
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
goes so hard
@domeatown
@domeatown Ай бұрын
"self improvement" content made one of my exes a red pilled addict, and then I had to leave him even tho I was still in love because he was turning into a psycho before my eyes. Keep spreading the word, kiddo. Every one that can be saved from the crushing jaws of the machine is also surrounded by loved ones.
@Patxgib
@Patxgib Ай бұрын
I just found you today from this video and I think you’re my favourite KZfaqr already
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
woah, thank you...
@Patxgib
@Patxgib Ай бұрын
@@AngeloSomers these vids are insane
@SeboVlogs1
@SeboVlogs1 12 күн бұрын
great video great help
@bembyu
@bembyu Ай бұрын
That a great videos man. Thank you❤
@mrvoteps
@mrvoteps Ай бұрын
Bro you're the men. keep it up i hope you wont sell your soul to be the same as all those self improvment gurus i believe you will need to somehow monetize your content at some point, i believe you will find very creative way to do so without selling bullshit courses which there is already endless of those.
@reakwon693
@reakwon693 17 күн бұрын
Would love it if you can go further into the reasons behind self destruction and why it can’t be resolved but needs to be integrated. That really resonated with me
@TamNguyen-yk9mn
@TamNguyen-yk9mn 13 күн бұрын
Just live. That's all there is and will be. Doesn't gets simpler or more complex than that.
@deathbunny3048
@deathbunny3048 21 күн бұрын
Thank you. Love from Belgium.
@dierrejziyai
@dierrejziyai 17 күн бұрын
Thanks for an idealistic DIFFERENT approach.
@sentient_part
@sentient_part Ай бұрын
Wow, top 3 of the best ytb video I ever saw
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
damn, ty
@martinmusli3044
@martinmusli3044 16 күн бұрын
Stuff hit good mate 👊
@chadsensei-ue6jn
@chadsensei-ue6jn Ай бұрын
The most basic self-improvement is to learn.
@user-ee1fn4vt8b
@user-ee1fn4vt8b Ай бұрын
If anything, great music choice.
@adamnili
@adamnili Ай бұрын
Really well done, Angelo!
@egoredmc
@egoredmc 29 күн бұрын
Here is some fking differential equations math in self-improvement video My boy really knows his stuff, respect!
@onnilattu9138
@onnilattu9138 Ай бұрын
Tbh hedonism and just enjoying your stay here is the ultimate way to live
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
How’s that going for you?
@alanacatherine3385
@alanacatherine3385 Ай бұрын
Excellent 👏
@AskConner
@AskConner Ай бұрын
Thank you
@BrisaRuiva
@BrisaRuiva Ай бұрын
such a great video, keep up the great content👏👏👏
@elitebacon2622
@elitebacon2622 Ай бұрын
I've been brought up on Paulo Nutini the incorporation of iron sky was majestic. It changed my perspective on the lyrics, brilliant stuff. I'll give self authentication a try🙏
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
Let me know how it goes!
@oyvind10
@oyvind10 15 күн бұрын
Thank you Brother. This helped me a lot. Also amazing production quality. Good Work. Do you have any advice on limiting beliefs and how to believe in oneself fully?
@cameronplunkett4304
@cameronplunkett4304 Ай бұрын
SUBBED! this was really great man, thanks. I’m sure you’ll be on Chris Williamson’s podcast before long 😁
@AbeOtt
@AbeOtt Ай бұрын
This is genuinely W content right here
@ellismark1059
@ellismark1059 Ай бұрын
edit at the end is the hardest thing ive seen
@The_Ilyaa
@The_Ilyaa 21 күн бұрын
That's exactly what I've been looking for & thinking about lately. Most "self-improvement" is just mental masturbation, it's just an online bubble where desperate people are looking to improve their lives, which they do, but only in 1 dimension, but they still stay empty vessels, without any personality, nor originality, living a boring & fake life. The worst part is they never achieve all of their goals, because some of the goals require them to not be empty vessels.
@jokerpilled2535
@jokerpilled2535 16 күн бұрын
Lying is very hard for me, that’s why I’m trying to learn to be a better liar.
@lusherenren4222
@lusherenren4222 Ай бұрын
The wind is picking up
@lhathlete
@lhathlete 28 күн бұрын
Such a good video man! Best "self-improvement" video I have seen in such a long time. Keep up the good work man, massive respect for your work👏 Do you sell any product or community?
@RoboticsEngineer1622
@RoboticsEngineer1622 29 күн бұрын
Keep it bruv!
@Colossal.x
@Colossal.x 10 күн бұрын
this doesn’t get enough views because this isn’t flashy enough on selling false hope to people. This is the real truth on how it is but self improvement people don’t want you think that way, they want their way to stick but the reality is that everyone has their own way of life
@Sx-xy2zi
@Sx-xy2zi Ай бұрын
I'd be really curious where you got these terms from. Very interesting video so far. Still watching and will update at the end Edit: watched wll the way through, very good points made. We run from suffering and papier mache over it
@swasloids
@swasloids 17 күн бұрын
Ever heard of this stuff called " self acceptance" it is excellent and lets u do the stuff u want without worry.
@wickedpawnstudios
@wickedpawnstudios Ай бұрын
the tactile life
@emmanuelmondesir8677
@emmanuelmondesir8677 22 күн бұрын
Self-Acceptance
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers 20 күн бұрын
sometimes
@TheKasparas
@TheKasparas Ай бұрын
Hey mate love your content! What camera and microphone do you use? Would love to have as good video quallity as yours;)
@damncat2793
@damncat2793 19 күн бұрын
Here before this blows up
@Kokolitofora
@Kokolitofora 16 күн бұрын
Finally: other-deterioration
@dooderman8361
@dooderman8361 17 күн бұрын
A lot of what you said is true, for me I joined “self improvement” 2 years ago, I was depressed, hating life, and an underlying victim mindset (didn’t realize it was there until it was pointed out by self improvement my gurus). Following the advice of self-improvement which was to avoid victim mindset you need to “get some real hard on your life” to avoid the fake hard that is the victim mindset, so I started working out, eating better, losing weight, and it worked for a while (at curing my depression). But I never actually confronted the underlying reason why I used to eat poorly, why I used to stay up all night and get shitty sleep, I never actually confronted the reason why I hated my life, all I was doing was trying to force it to be better by “getting jacked” and 2 years later I didn’t get jacked and I’m sad again. Confronting the real issue is the only way to deal with it
@MrTaker_
@MrTaker_ 14 күн бұрын
“I didn’t get jacked” is all I really need to know. Of course self improvement isn’t going to improve your life, if your not improving your life! It’s that simple. No matter what this comes down to, it’s still your fault. The point of self improvement is not to just only focus on the gym. Everything you listed was about physical health. These things are very important, however they aren’t magically going to change your life forever. You simply didn’t do self improvement right. You’re supposed to focus on the gym, eating better, AND all of the mental health aspects. You at least realized that you needed to start focusing on mental health but instead of just adding that to what you already did to improve, you stopped EVERYTHING to only focus on mental health. That’s not how you go about it. At that point, it’s purely cope. You needed an excuse to quit, so you made up one. This is not some magical way of thinking that’s better than all of these self improvement “gurus”. The self improvement gurus ALSO focus on their mental health, while ALSO doing the important stuff like going to the gym, eating healthy, etc. You are literally just doing a lesser version of self improvement.
@Audrius-to8mh
@Audrius-to8mh 2 күн бұрын
I really agree with the idea that you can't have victim mentality and be winning at a difficult hobby simmultaneusly
@meharr.
@meharr. Ай бұрын
i fucking love you man
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers Ай бұрын
My guyyyy
@augustin19tube
@augustin19tube 21 күн бұрын
my man watched fricking Verveake !!
@AngeloSomers
@AngeloSomers 20 күн бұрын
that man damn near saved my life !
@Uncommony
@Uncommony Ай бұрын
If self improvement is not working or it's bad for you, then it's not Improvement. Stay Uncommon!
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