An honest conversation about where we are mentally | Why haven't we been doing well?

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We felt like finally being honest with you guys. How are you really doing? We would love to hear below. Listen to the end to hear how were helping ourselves through this!
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@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын

How are you really doing? We would love to be there for you guys and all be praying for one another!

@savelu-4169 2 жыл бұрын

Just wishing you guys happiness

@fatimaliliana6820 2 жыл бұрын

I’m not going the best but I’m praying! Thank you! Prayers to your family

@liyahsunshine 2 жыл бұрын

I’m doing great but hoping y’all get thru it ❤️

@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын

@@savelu-4169 so sweet thank you!

@nikole2896 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 40 weeks prego today, I am honestly worried for my marriage because the husband works like 50 hours a week and we hardly spend any quality time. We love each other and do what we can, and are so grateful for how the Lord provides and for any time we do get, but I am very lonely most of the time and we have been spiritually dry and dont want it to get worse. we hardly pray with each other or can read the bible without falling asleep, and communing with God together is so vital in marriage

@michellereedg 2 жыл бұрын

when Chelsea started choking up thinking about what it ACTUALLY means to be a child of God... ❤️ I felt that. I know you both mentioned how we don’t need to have all the right words, but you both have such a way with words. thank you for sharing!

@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын

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@sathersocial2190 2 жыл бұрын

Hearing Nick speak so openly about his struggles as a man brought me to tears. Chelsea you are so lucky to have found someone so connected and comfortable sharing his emotions. This video was so important and thank you so much for sharing your hearts!

@asifulhaque916 2 жыл бұрын

Brought you to tears? You’re not a man then . Men don’t cry

@nickhurst2508 2 жыл бұрын

@@asifulhaque916 I guess I’m not a man either then. This is absolutely horrible advice. Some of the strongest men I’ve ever met aren’t too prideful to share their emotions.

@kristiankiser7190 2 жыл бұрын

I really appreciated Nick’s “challenge” for himself to be honest when asked about how he is doing . It’s true .. we never want to burden anyone else with our problems . But God calls us to share our struggles with one another . I think I’m going to try this soon .

@emmaleepearson1120 2 жыл бұрын

That's so true... we think we need so many words when we pray and we don't... There are some days the only thing I can pray is "help Lord"

@aubreyidleman 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! We, the church need to be in unity and encourage one another. It’s so hard to be in a dry place. You loose motivation and you often quench the spirit! I am so glad you guys had your breakthrough!

@EmilyCyr 2 жыл бұрын

thanks for sharing. this is me too. have been at the lowest point of my life physically/emotionally/spiritually and this was an encouragement to hear im not alone

@97Peacesign 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you guys are able to open up and be honest about what is truly going on. I've been dealing with some family issues and just doubting myself, it is really important to talk about it and surround yourself with good people and people who care about you

@volleyy18 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video and opening up about this. I’ve been feeling so overwhelmed lately and as a new mom (along with healing from a fairly big surgery) feeling like I’m failing- as a mom, a wife and a friend. I haven’t been honest with anyone about it, even my husband and family, and it’s exhausting. Listening to you talk about this is so comforting and a great reminder that I don’t need to be okay all of the time. I really hope I can find more time with God for peace and share that with my baby girl as she grows💕

@celinem.3847 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so, so much for talking about this! My boyfriend and I have been doing long distance since the beginning of our relationship (almost a year now). Lately, we've been feeling so exhausted and worn out from everything going on in our lives. Like you guys, we're very ambitious and put so much pressure on ourselves. We really needed to hear this message...this revelation is going to help us so much. Thank you. Thank you for being open and honest. I love you guys and may God bless you! 💗🙏

@lizd6886 2 жыл бұрын

So grateful for your transparency, it was really helpful to feel not alone in this rut - this video was such a God sent, felt like you were speaking directly to my soul. God bless you💛

@KAyLA_K 2 жыл бұрын

I love this video so much ❤️ Thank you so much for being honest and I’ve come to realize recently that oddly enough it actually really helps to know that everyone has their struggles. Like I’ve realized I can sometimes get rapped up in social media and start to think I’m the only one that has things to work on, but then just talking to friends who are honest and open about their struggles actually really help me!! Like I’ve realized often my mindset becomes a problem not when I have a problem, but when I feel like the only one who is struggling ❤️ Thanks for being so honest with us and I’ve been praying for y’all ❤️

@ginadossantos1297 2 жыл бұрын

Really needed to hear this. I'm just coming out of a season of being completely burnt out and lonely. It's comforting to hear I'm not the only one. Praying for you both and little Hudson and Waldo

@mazvitamapengo1599 2 жыл бұрын

This made me feel really encouraged. I've been feeling quite crappy recently and its nice to know there is other people in the same boat as me

@mckaylamorris5327 2 жыл бұрын

Needed this video more than y'all will know. Have been battling feeling emotionally & spiritually spent off and on this year & your guys' story felt so similar to my current one. Thanks for your vulnerability & obedience to Him for using your journey to help the rest of the Kingdom as well

@knanserrano 2 жыл бұрын

wow I’ve been watching you for years and this was so honest and genuine & really am sending so much love & strength your way. you guys are amazing& your baby is just precious. xo

@nikole2896 2 жыл бұрын

the whole point of our faith is acknowledging that we arent enough, we arent adequate, but our worth is not in our productivity or ambition; we find these things in Jesus. He is perfect. we are to cast our cares upon God, for He cares for us. He is the rest, the sabbath, for those who are heavy laden with burdens. He is there even when we feel distant and are just trying to be a mom or a dad, and you are still glorifying Him by doing so.

@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! It’s easy to know all those things but to live it whenever everything is shaken up is different. We are learning what that looks like in this season! ❤️ thank you☺️

@nikole2896 2 жыл бұрын

@@ChelseaandNickim preaching to myself as well. sanctification is rough and messy sometimes !!!!

@nikole2896 2 жыл бұрын

@@ChelseaandNick I've also learned that self sufficiency is an idol and it's easy to remain closed off and not open up to people, when we need to lean on the body of Christ!!! how can there be harmony within the body if one part is dysfunctional/wounded or cut off from the rest. the rest of the body sends help and healing!!!

@janiceleong2004 2 жыл бұрын

I relate to you guys a lot, and I honestly am spent too. I am tired of how accustomed we are to answering "I'm good" when we are not. Thank you for sharing this struggle with us. Sending lots of love from Malaysia

@joshandsav 2 жыл бұрын

We love you guys! Grateful to have such incredible friends like you. ❤️

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@alissa1ann211 2 жыл бұрын

I love how open you guys are and really appreciate your honesty and sharing Jesus always! Love you guys so much! I've been in another season of waiting and just leaning into Jesus. But I love when I just sit and be with Him, like y'all said we don't have to have this scheduled connection with Him and have all the fancy words. He loves to just commune with us. ❤️

@lexxs8346 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to hear 😭 Sometimes life feels so stagnant and I feel guilty for not having this picture perfect life and having a constant direction to follow. Thank you so much for reminding me that God doesn’t expect that from us. ❤️❤️❤️

@tonyagaines3511 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate this video so much, I'm sitting here bawling😭 cause you have ministered to me , seems like you were talking directly to me, you all just don't know how much I've needed to hear this video, , I've been feeling the exact same way for months, feeling alone, burned out, and so tired from mental, emotional and spiritual exhaustion, I've been at my breaking point for months and been needing a friend, a shoulder to cry on, I'd appreciate prayer, I will pray for you all as well, Thank you for this video, God bless you both.

@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын

So glad you were comforted friend 🥲❤️

@kaelaward6588 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! I needed this. I have always felt that “guilty” feeling for trying to share my honest feelings. I have 3 kids and feel so isolated sometimes. They are truly my biggest blessings. God has been so good to our family, but I was NOT prepared for the season of sacrifice and hard times. I will say it gets easier in some ways, then other ways become harder. Always have GRACE for yourself, your marriage, and your relationship with God. The enemy is working hard to cloud our minds to keep our focus off of the Lord. Keep your head up! Love and prayers❤️🙏

@madspadilla2353 2 жыл бұрын

16:26 I literally burst into tears aaaaagh. I haven’t been able to admit to myself that I’m so exhausted and overwhelmed because I’m so focused on just trying to keep going. But sometimes we just have to sit in the pain and the weary for a moment because these are often the moments that we feel Jesus sitting with us in our sorrow, and then we lean into Him.

@jcav7 2 жыл бұрын

This is by far the best video you guys have put out. Thank you for just BEING.

@knowledgeseeker2776 2 жыл бұрын

Any time there is a life changing event our faith walk gets challenged (in a good way). But the fact that you all are so young and recognize that fact is so wonderful. God bless you both.

@monica-jardim 2 жыл бұрын

your little family is literally an inspiration to me , such goals on to what I continue praying for my future family in terms of faith 🥺💖

@hangingwiththesengers6122 2 жыл бұрын

We love how you all are so transparent in this video! Your ministry will grow even bigger because of this! We all are human and just because you are a believer doesn’t mean that you don’t have hard days, weeks or months! God truly honors you all for doing this! Expect blessings to shower down over you! Love you all! Btw this my first time watching and I know you have a huge following but we think you are AWESOME!!!!

@hannahhukriede9827 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your honesty. I am actually in the same spot as you both. I came to a breaking point this Monday and had to step away from my classes at college for a week because I couldn’t keep going. I’ve allowed people to see me broken and it’s been so healing.

@abbyastella6768 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you guys made this video. I know a lot of people needed to hear this right now

@claire8012 2 жыл бұрын

I've been watching your videos from the very beginning. I'm 23 years old and from the St. Louis area. I've felt very connected to you in all seasons of your life. I'm a new mom to my baby boy, who is just over a week old. I really enjoy watching your videos Chelsea. You inspire me with your transparency and faith. I am thinking about your family and pray God gives you strength and endurance to continue the path in which He has called. I definitely feel like I am in a dry season in my faith. It is hard to not feel discouraged or feel motivated to draw closer to the Lord... even though I know that is exactly what I need. As for being a new mom, the first 3 nights were challenging and I questioned whether I could be a good mom. Baby boy didn't like sleeping in his crib, but with much effort to get him comfortable sleeping on his back during his day naps, he sleeps through the night and wakes me up to change and feed him every 1-3 hrs. I'm scared for things to get harder, but I also know this season is going to go by fast and every moment will be worth it. Thank you for opening up, Chelsea. It means a lot to connect to you as a wife, mom, and believer. Keep your head up high. We are in this together! Sending much love from my family to yours!

@JammieStarzyk 2 жыл бұрын

Being a parent makes you realize it really isn't about you anymore. The first few years are eye opening. The later years make you appreciate what you have worked on together. But you always feel like you could have done more. Thank you for being transparent and know that you are not alone. Key tip. Cut corners and save up. And know that God sees you both and is proud.

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@ayounk4202 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. For taking the courage for speaking the truth on how yoy guys are doing. I want you to know that you guys are in my thoughts and I am praying for your family. Love you guys.

@edenjohnson9533 2 жыл бұрын

I just wanted to say thank you guys so much for making this video!! It really touched my heart! Just be praying for me (and all of us too) that God would just make my heart vulnerable and more open to him. That I would just be willing to accept what God is doing in my life. You guys will be in my thoughts and prayers!! ❤️❤️🙏🙏

@alexandracruz2308 2 жыл бұрын

You guys make me feel so much better about not only my relationship with my husband, but also my relationship with God. I have been feeling that same dryness and I felt like maybe I was the only one, but now watching this video I know that I am not alone whatsoever. I thank God for the both of you!!

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@abigailpeterson564 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you guys for being so open and real. It’s so refreshing. It’s okay to not be okay ❤️ love you guys

@abiy9675 2 жыл бұрын

Soooo good! Yes yes yes! Thank you for sharing this and being vulnerable. This is so key.

@rachelmontefiori7575 2 жыл бұрын

I really needed this…. I’ve been very exhausted as well. Feeling very Burt out and dry in life lately. Recently I found a new church and it’s beyond refreshing to have a community of Christian’s again to help carry each other’s burdens.

@elliesolomons4805 2 жыл бұрын

One of the most refreshing and honest videos I’ve watched on the internet lately. I love listening to you guys talk about your faith, especially in regard to reconnecting to God. Thank you for sharing ❤️

@redforjesus1 2 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite sayings is, “Tears are a prayer that God understands”.

@theblairs5662 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your honesty guys! We are a few weeks out from welcoming our first child but are really struggling with loneliness. We were really plugged in to our church before covid but then we relocated and have struggled to get plugged into a church yet. We lost most of our support system and it’s hard not really having new people yet. There’s a lot of life change happening and we are trying to keep focused on God while we work through this time.

@user-fv5ol4or1b 2 жыл бұрын

this is so wholesome you guys, to be honest I started to feel worried in a slightest bit for you two since you are so young and learn everything from scratch but today I once again saw how responsible and wise you are wishing you best of luck

@marias6626 2 жыл бұрын

Everything you said about when people ask "how are you" is so true imo. So many times I wanted to say a response other than the quick answer of "good" but it makes me feel like a burden. How did we come to this as humans? We don't have time to listen to others? It's so sad.

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing and being so vulnerable! I can relate, I'll be praying for you guys! 🙏🏾🤍

@ajvideography7898 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so transparent… I can relate to what y’all are talking about.

@alejandracamacho2110 2 жыл бұрын

OMG! thank u for said that cuz my baby has almost 2 months and im really feeling like i can't anymore! And ur right sometimes u just need to cry and to move on! im saying again, thank so much for the real talk💛

@tayahyman7740 2 жыл бұрын

I wasn’t expecting to tear up but when Nick said started saying it’s ok if you’re spent…the tears started coming 😂. God bless you both for your honesty and vulnerability♥️

@claireanderson6570 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you both for being so honest and vulnerable with us. Please know that I am praying for you in this season, and Jesus sees you. I am so very sorry for all you’re going through. It feels like so many people have really hard things going on, and the rest thing we can do for each other is pray, and be there for one another. Sending prayers and a hug through the screen.

@mansibassi7546 2 жыл бұрын

It is so relatable. Being new parents is tiring and emotional time. You are happy and exhausted at the same time. Initially it happens but it gets better after 3-4 years. Everything starts making sense.

@StefanieandCaleb 2 жыл бұрын

Love you guys so much. Thanks so much for sharing so honestly. We are always here for you! 🤍🤍🤍🤍

@steff120 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you guys for your authenticity... the thing you're describing is called LIFE - your way of honestly speaking up is the only way to the promised abundance

@cricketfaith 2 жыл бұрын

Coming from someone who struggles with anxiety and stuff who doesn’t have church or friends to ever talk to I agree how important it is to have other believers to talk to. Sometimes I get angry because I don’t have anyone, especially when my anxiety is raging. Feeling dry spiritually is hard.

@ladybethia5457 2 жыл бұрын

I just prayed the Lord will bring you some good Christian friends.💛 And that the Lord will lead you to the right church or if for some reason you are unable to get there that He will provide a way. His Word says in Matthew to ask and it will be given. Seek and you will find.Knock and the door will be opened. Easier said than done, but The Lord is faithful!🙏🏻

@Moni-qw7yi 2 жыл бұрын

Wow!! I have never related so much to someone 😔 Just know you are not alone. I 1000% understand! Sending you love 🤍

@cricketfaith 2 жыл бұрын

@@ladybethia5457 thank you 🙏🏻

@cricketfaith 2 жыл бұрын

@@ladybethia5457 much love in return!

@Cinthiaa3211 2 жыл бұрын

“Everything will be okay” is always harder said than done. The reality is EVERYTHING will be OKAY! Having that faith even on dark days is a huge progress. Sometimes we let our minds take over and we feed into it. Having that spiritually connections is amazing and helps out a lot. Not having friends or anyone to talk to sucks and it sucks awful but I have learned that if you even just take a second and rant it out to yourself, can help. You are not alone! Remember that misery loves company. Your higher power is always there and will always hear you. It’s also okay to not be okay, if life was perfect we wouldn’t be happy. We build our own happiness. God made us on purpose, with a purpose, for a purpose.

@Moon_lulu 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this ❤️ I am encouraged to talk to God even if I don't have words to say, but just be in His presence.

@brittanyann3477 2 жыл бұрын

I can really relate to this. Thank you so much for making this video.💛🙏I'm struggling with alot of what you mentioned. And this helped a lot.

@alondrapacheco3785 2 жыл бұрын

From the bottom of my heart.. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO❤️

@sis51613 2 жыл бұрын

This season for my little family has shown me it’s not about being picture perfect with my faith. He accepts me completely. He’ll meet me wherever i am. ❤️

@thedementlife6846 2 жыл бұрын

I was feeling like I wasn’t good enough for God, and I thought I was loosing him, well I started praying at work, and then my hip starting hurting, and something in my spirit told me to go to a gas station and me and my husband went there and I had the opportunity to pray for someone and another person stopped and prayed with us, I’m just truly thankful that Jesus would give me that opportunity to pray for someone and to show me that he still wants me to be used by him, and that he is always there and just a prayer away, and he also showed me that there is power in prayer 🙌🙌

@lbocc809 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly where my husband and I are. We had our first son in September. My husbands been on a break from ministry since July. I haven’t been to church in months. And it’s just been a low. I’m glad to know it’s not just us.

@annamack6526 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so open you truly taught me an important lesson today and I am so great full you shared

@taygray6424 2 жыл бұрын

This video is such a blessing because I’ve been feeling the same way. So tired and exhausted spiritually. It feels like nothing is going right and everything that could go wrong is going wrong, but a few days ago I just broke down before God. I’m trying to hold everything together with the little strength I have, but God is a lot stronger than me. It’s been rough but my hope is in Jesus & that we will all see better days

@yashiraonque3932 2 жыл бұрын

The Lord is working to produce the fruits of righteousness in you! Faint not, fellow child of God!

@tusa7111 2 жыл бұрын

Baby just looking around while sitting on your lap just melts my heart lol ❤️ he’s so adorable I just can’t 😭😭😭

@15aliciagirl 2 жыл бұрын

I am definitely burnt out too. It’s very hard for me to go through the work week and fully enjoy the weekend because thinking of his tired work makes me and life

@Thelifeofmegan9621 2 жыл бұрын

You guys inspire me ! And I love this channel! Thank you for doing what you do!

@shannoncampbell2603 2 жыл бұрын

I am so proud of you guys, parenting isn't an easy thing, but you guys are doing so so well. Love you guys, God's got this under control

@denisesousa3456 2 жыл бұрын

Amen to all of this. Learning to just be a child of God without all the answers is such a task but it will better us for all the greater. The last two years have been exhausting. I feel the same way.

@brittanyluvsyouso 2 жыл бұрын

I commented on one of your previous videos that I could tell you guys were having a hard time, I knew because I was in that same place postpartum. It's such a big adjustment and it's hard when you feel like everyone else is having an amazing time and you are struggling 🙁 I wish more people would come forward about the difficulties so we can normalize this experience that so many new parents have

@momentswithamanda 2 жыл бұрын

Wow I totally relate to a lot of things y’all mentioned in this video. Praying for you friends 🤍

@briholmes25 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for doing this video. I feel like god wanted me to sit down and watch it. I love you guys!

@HomemakingCorner 2 жыл бұрын

I needed to watch this! I was going to keep scrolling but felt like I should click and watch.. and I’m so glad I did! Thank you for posting & thank you God for having me click this video.

@magstso 2 жыл бұрын

I needed this conversation. This was great. Thank you.

@angelicaarosee 2 жыл бұрын

i love you guys so much!!! this helped me a lot. keep God first always!! ❤️

@sis51613 2 жыл бұрын

Covid has divided me and my husbands fellowship. I don’t talk often about how badly it’s hurting me. But a few big sighs and a good cry this video shows my husband and i weren’t the only ones going through this season in the last couple of months. Thankyou for being Raw. ❤️

@xoLaurenBenwarexo 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you to the both of you for being so open with us about this! You both are only just a little older than me and already so so so wise already

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@t.d.d1570 2 жыл бұрын

This video was really an encouragement! I’ve been trying to make this school semester one where I do everything well and make excellent grades, but sometimes, I fall short, and I have to remember that that doesn’t make me a failure, and I know it doesn’t. Sometimes things just seem so close and important, but I have to remember to trust in God and ask Him for a new perspective. It’s hard when you have goals for yourself and you either don’t meet them or get caught up in things that you need to do at that moment. Yesterday, I had two exams and I’m trying not to make my scores be the end all be all, even though I poured my heart into studying. I still have an opportunity to do better even though how I’m feeling right now is not great. I’ve never shared like this before, but I just felt the need to be honest somewhere, to tell someone, other than my mom and my family.

@hannahj7319 2 жыл бұрын

My mother is battling stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. I am not okay. This video helped me and I feel like I am your friend. Thank you for this. I wish I knew y'all in real life... I have no friends. I have nobody, and I am trying to find god. But why would he give this hardship to my mother who does not deserve it? She is the kindest person and she does anything for anyone. I am having a very hard time while working and taking college classes full time.... Love y'all!

@hannahj7319 2 жыл бұрын

Please pray for my mother, Nancy. Thanks everyone.

@kyaramarroquin 2 жыл бұрын

@@hannahj7319 I will pray 🙏❤️

@erinloi 2 жыл бұрын

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@kendra00 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve watched you Chelsea since you were in middle school. You’ve been someone I’ve looked up to since then. I appreciate this video so much. It’s nice to hear that you are just human and you have bad days too and you don’t just show the good ones. Personally for me, It’s not that anything is going on in particular that is causing me to feel the way I have been. But, I do feel burnt out, dry, and distant. My fiancé & I both have been feeling so dry spiritually and feeling the same way. I try to pray about it and honestly feel like I don’t even know what to say. I know there are things in our walk with God that we could do to feel closer to Him. I know if we seek Him then He will drawl near to us. But we just feel dried out and it feels like we don’t even know what to do sometimes. We just need that heart burdening desire again. The spiritual fire. I also wanted to add, I think it’s also hard for us because we don’t have any young Christian couples as friends around our age that we can relate to. We are the youngest adult members that attend our church so we don’t even know who to turn to, to even be able to talk about how we feel sometimes.

@kimberlyprice2 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video! My husband and I have been struggling since the beginning of Covid. Our marriage is strong but we feel exactly like you both are feeling. My husband is a FF/Medic/Engineer at a fire department and works a second job in a cardiac ER as an RN. He worked shifts that others would not due to the fear of getting Covid and infecting their families. He has been battling PTSD for year and burn out. He has worked three jobs for 35 years. I have raised two amazing daughters and have one granddaughter. I am raising our last, a 15 year old son with learning disabilities. I have been battling depression more than ever. My husband and I share our struggles with each other and God. However, we can totally relate to what you are going through. I will pray for you both.

@babytriin 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you guys for this video. Even tho I’m not religious, what both of you said throughout the video. I’m so tired mentally and it’s at the point that I sleep till 6pm . I’ve done what I think I can to help myself and I feel nothing changing.

@kaylaclose7544 2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!! Yes the Bible tells us to bear one another’s burdens and God was so good to design the church like that!

@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! So thankful

@traceyrebello7713 2 жыл бұрын

Wow you guys your self awareness is amazing. There is a spiritual drought going on in a lot of us right now. It is a sign of the times for sure. And it’s hard to stay in the word when we are feeling this way. Even tho that is the place we really need to be. Your openness is wonderful and I can say it has encouraged me as I too am feeling much the same ways as you. Dr. David Jeremiah is doing a great series about this right now, that I am really benefiting from. We are all children of Christ as you say and your perspective on it is priceless. Thank you 🙏

@angelinaralph7249 2 жыл бұрын

watching this was like a breath of fresh air. I love you guys so much

@ChelseaandNick 2 жыл бұрын

So happy to hear that 😭 We have another new video up today that might make you laugh if you wanna watch!

@pamelastadel7818 2 жыл бұрын

My husband and I just had our first baby and we’ve been feeling the exact same way! Thanks for this video and your transparency! I feel God directed me to this, prayers for you and your fam 💛

@aubrey326 2 жыл бұрын

I love you two 🥰 Chelsea, you got me through some of my worst times growing up! 23 now.

@DmCharlotteParkesonnicegram Жыл бұрын

@allijoy2 2 жыл бұрын

Ok, I just got off the phone with my bf who is in seminary and told him this is exactly how I have been feeling. Super dry and struggling to just sit with the Lord. I moved for a church plant a year ago as and I’m so burnt out. Also have been feeling really inadequate about potentially becoming a pastors wife soon and all the things that come with that. Then turned on this video and realized yes, I am not ok, and I don’t have to put up an image to make me seem like I am. I struggle with letting others see my weakness’s, and letting it be ok. Thank you for this video though and all of your honestly. Chelsea I have been watching you for years and I’m always so encouraged by you but I’ve never said anything. :)

@erikasimone_ 2 жыл бұрын

This was so encouraging, thank you for this🤍

@rohanasimpson458 2 жыл бұрын

So I may be wasting time commenting after a whole week after this video but I am just in awe of how God works. I mean - I can relate to this video on so many levels. Truth be told, I have been at a place where I have been feeling so lonely and desperate to feel God again. I know He hasn’t left and all His promises are still true towards me but I haven’t been to church for so long and the internet services no longer feel fulfilling. I started clearing KZfaq’s notifications from my Notification Center because I am so sick of the mundane videos and people acting as if it never really gets hard. It feels so good to know that I am not alone. 🥺 I popped on here to listen to Lauren Diagle’s “You say” because I literally felt like I needed some form of reassurance this morning and the Holy Spirit would have me click on this video first. Thank you both for your transparency!

@ALina-jp2lw 2 жыл бұрын

Wow you have given the Lord so much honor. I am really touched 💕💕

@alieellersmith 2 жыл бұрын

Y'all are some of the realest people in the Christian community. Thank you so much for being so open, honest, and real. ❤️

@honestleen 2 жыл бұрын

hey chelsea ive been watching your videos for yeaaars. you guys are first time parents and obviously its really stressful!! im so glad you feel comfortable sharing both the good and the bad on this channel but if you ever need a break please dont forget to take it and remember that you dont really owe us anything if its costing your mental health. im muslim and of course i will still be praying for you as always love you sis

@autumnem9232 2 жыл бұрын

Hang in there! I am praying for you. 🖤

@emmarich1926 2 жыл бұрын

Prayers for you guys 🙏💜

@suziewiggins95 2 жыл бұрын

Been there, know yalls stuggles...... Gods blessings over y’all...... thiis is easier said than done........ hang in there......... It does get better with time........... Wish I could take the stress.................. l9ve you guys...........

@nirimoka 2 жыл бұрын

I'm not religious at all but nevertheless I really enjoy your videos and can relate to many things. To Nick and Chelsea and all the people here watching: don't be harsh on yourselves, you are worthy no matter what. Life isn't linear and that's what makes it unique for each of us and teaches valuable lessons

@DmCharlotteParkesonnicegram Жыл бұрын

@nirimoka Жыл бұрын

@@DmCharlotteParkesonnicegram you pathetic scammers are all over youtube, now here as well? I'd curse you so much here but I won't trash this channel's comment section. Gtfo.

@claubit32 2 жыл бұрын

Motherhood looks great on you, Chelsea!!!😊❤️

@rebar351 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video 💕

@KAyLA_K 2 жыл бұрын

I’m doing ok. It’s tough because I love hanging out with people, especially my Godly friends😊 But all of my friends live so far away and I rarely get to see them. We have some people who live close to us and I do enjoy being with them from time to time, but they are not Christians (which is awesome because it gives me a chance to share the gospel), but it can be very draining as well. I’m trying to find the balance of sharing God’s love with them while also making sure that I am staying strong in God’s word❤️ Also I struggle with sharing the gospel, because I don’t want to never talk to them about it, but I also don’t want to shove it down their face. Something that was encouraging was someone who lived close to us asked about God a few days ago which was really awesome!! Overall I’m very grateful I’m in a decent mindset right now. Somethings I can work on is not comparing my life to others. I like to think I do pretty good at that, but sometimes if I’m being honest I compare myself more then I would like to admit. So something I can work on is just being content with where I am and making the most of where God has placed me. 😊❤️ Also I can work on just realizing it’s ok to not have everything together. Like it’s ok to strive to have everything perfect, but ultimately Jesus died for us because we are sinners, we mess up. So just remembering that it’s ok to not have everything perfect is really helpful and something I can work on❤️