Andrea speaks her experience and ordination in NKT

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8 жыл бұрын

Andrea Ballance is a ex-member of New Kadampa Tradition (NKT). She speaks about her experiences and ordination in NKT. This is an education to the general public about so called New Kadampa Tradition - a false Buddhist organisation defaming His Holiness the Dalai Lama in the name of religious freedom.

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@robin-hkIjc6eiq
@robin-hkIjc6eiq 2 ай бұрын
*Also Search; Recovery From The New Kadampa Tradition, A Resource Centre.*
@polly-eIjn2iuIx
@polly-eIjn2iuIx 2 ай бұрын
Watch: 'An Unholy Row' BBC Documentary, about this NKT Cult..
@Ymirson999
@Ymirson999 7 жыл бұрын
Poor woman. I hope she found a better place for herself.
@petagonkyi
@petagonkyi 5 жыл бұрын
NTK is marketing Buddhism like a Walmarts selling cheap products. The founder of NTK was expelled from his monastery (Sera) for being extremely sectarian. He dishonestly inherited the centre which belonged to Lama Yeshe (FMPT - Foundation for Preservation of Mahayana Tradition). FMPT invited him as a teacher at the centre but years later refused to leave and converted it into NTK. In true Tibetan tradition, one becomes Lama after having studied over 20 years but in cults like NTK produce teacher after a very short period of a couple of years.
@Art_Tibisolum
@Art_Tibisolum 7 жыл бұрын
LONG LIVE HH THE DALAI LAMA!!! - Andrea have you investigated the FPMT? Thank you for your heart felt honesty. You're amazing!!! Thank you!!!
@elizabetho925
@elizabetho925 4 жыл бұрын
For those of us in the lineage, who may struggle to make sense of online acrimony and ill will toward us from fellow Buddhists, as I have, I offer the following insights from contemplating and meditating on this very thing. We know samsara is of the nature of suffering. We find evidence of suffering in all the sanghas throughout history, all the way from the Ven. Buddha’s times, with no shortage of schisms in the sangha, even attempted murder and actual murder in the sangha, as recorded in the Suttas. In this current era, in the HHDL,s own monastery, murders occurred, see the story of what happened to the first Regent who discovered HHDL as a child, as well as the upper echelon betrayal leading to the successful Chinese occupation. Murders occurred in Dharmasala, and not only in the Gelug tradition but the Kagyu too, Nyingma, you name it. In fact, there is no lineage, tradition, Buddhist school free from suffering in the sangha. After all, until we have purified and transformed the six classes of living being, we are still deluded and will encounter suffering, as well as be the cause of it, leading to more experience of it, etc. Now, in these degenerate times, we hard headed ones who haven’t found enlightenment yet, despite countless Buddhas emanating throughout countless aeons, we must really have some serious karma going on! Don’t expect your path to be easy, now! Yes, we now have the great fortune to find a highly qualified spiritual guide, who provides us with all the exactly right conditions we need to achieve enlightenment right now! These conditions must be equal, at least, to the dense delusion and karma obstructing our minds! Yes, it is hurtful to encounter disparagement from, it would seem to be, our fellow Buddhist brothers and sisters. That is exactly the point, though! Its what we need. How else would we be able to live the teachings, to appreciate the gifts of suffering, as Shantideva stated, to realize the true meaning of our precious human life! Our spiritual guide has perfectly revealed the unmistaken path. Remember that all phenomena have no inherent existence, so what we experience is a function of our arising karma. Our spiritual guide gives us the tools to transform adverse conditions into the path! We find the perfect conditions, whatever is arising right here, right now. No duality. Geshe Langri Tangpa says it best, “With the intention to attain, the ultimate supreme goal that surpasses even the wishfulfilling jewel, may I constantly cherish others. When I associate with others, may I view myself as the lowest of all, and with a pure intention, cherish others as supreme. Examining my mental continuum throughout all my actions, as soon as I see a delusion of self cherishing arise, that may cause I or another to act inappropriately, may I firmly face it and avert it. Whenever I find unfortunate beings, oppressed by evil and violent suffering, may I cherish them as if I had found a rare and precious treasure. If someone I have helped and in whom I had great hope, nevertheless harms me intentionally, may I view him or her as my holy spiritual guide. When others, out of jealousy or anger, hurt me or insult me, may I take defeat upon myself and offer them the victory. In short, may I directly and indirectly always offer help and happiness to all my mothers and secretly take upon myself all their harm and suffering. With the above practices and a mind undefiled by the stains of the conceptions of the eight extremes, and who sees all phenomena as illusory, may I and all my precious mothers find freedom from mistaken appearance and illusion.” Geshe Langri Tangpa, 8 Verses, as translated by Ven. Geshe Kelsang Gyatso in The (New) 8 Steps to Happiness. I offer my merit to those who feel wronged by the New Kadampa Tradition. May you find the peace of permanent liberation.
@gyurmethlodroe1774
@gyurmethlodroe1774 2 жыл бұрын
your comment is just like those made by 50 cent army wumao. 1. It is long, too long for anyone to read. 2. It is full baseless lies...even the title of geshe kelsang gyatsho. Which monastery granted that title? 3. Kadampa is institued by an Indian scholar Atisha hundreds of year before dolgyal 4. Je tshongkhapa was non sectarian and wrote many praise to holy teachers of other sects. He didnt not make any reference to thing called dolgyal 5. Dont misuse the good name of Kadampa. 6. You cannot create a new kadampa, it doest work like that. There is no precedence like that. You have to follow the old lineage 7. Please I beg you, dont mislead the innocent people trying to follow the path of Buddha. (none of the sutras and shastras, running into hundreds of volunes mentions dolgyal)
@stevewallace6254
@stevewallace6254 Жыл бұрын
. . . that's a longwinded distraction from the observed facts of NKT corruption and abuse of vulnerable people . . .
@anita-dn6iIfu
@anita-dn6iIfu 2 ай бұрын
A Creepy Cult run by a conman freak, that looks like dracula. I'm not surprised that which ever center I went, people were waking up screaming in the middle of the night. Keep well away from this lunatics NKT Geshela & Shugden they worship Cult.
@nerthus4685
@nerthus4685 Жыл бұрын
This is sad.
@PeterTerpstra7
@PeterTerpstra7 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you kindly dear Andrea for telling what is on your heart.
@lobsangdekyi3641
@lobsangdekyi3641 6 жыл бұрын
It's so sad when she started crying about being fooled to ordain. For a woman, it's literally worse than getting married without even knowing who the husband is. So horrific.
@Stinkyremy
@Stinkyremy 6 жыл бұрын
no one can be fooled into ordination. She obviously just didn't think things through and rushed into a life changing commitment. Similar to rushing into marriage.
@andreaballance
@andreaballance 5 жыл бұрын
@@Stinkyremy No I did think things through I was just tricked
@jopar3292
@jopar3292 4 жыл бұрын
@@andreaballance How long were you ordained for?
@sinosgongostibetanos
@sinosgongostibetanos Жыл бұрын
If u can't get don't go. Is not for weak. Woaman usually play of pity... I hate that....stupid
@solarneddy
@solarneddy 7 жыл бұрын
Our minds are under the influence of delusion. Pure Dharma is very rare. Practice with faith and all things are possible. Ordination is more about committing to changing your mind, not merely your clothes.
@BioStuff415
@BioStuff415 7 жыл бұрын
Andrea - rely on the Dhamma Buddha put forth. There are no perfect organizations. If you gave your vows to follow Buddha, Dhamma & Sangha, why would you not be ordained? If you think others are supposed to look after you, this might be a wrong expectation.
@CYork-gg7zr
@CYork-gg7zr 5 жыл бұрын
I vê known kadampa for a long time and I think the problem is that your ego was expecting to be spoiled. Been a nun is a lonely path. Plus font mention serious accusations if you can't prove.
@recoveryfromthenewkadampat3445
@recoveryfromthenewkadampat3445 4 жыл бұрын
This message is cruel. When someone has been traumatised by a 'Buddhist' organisation it is cruel to force Buddhism on them. There are no perfect organisations but most have safeguarding policies and procedures, and don't allow alleged sexual abusers to keep senior positions. The NKT magagement also attack survivors viciously - death threats even. They practice 'Fair Game'. Bullying someone who decides to leave is suggesting they are inadequate and allowing the organisation to become more sociopathic
@DisobedientSpaceWhale
@DisobedientSpaceWhale 2 ай бұрын
Isn't the Sangha supposed to look after each other, particularly the most vulnerable?
@rainbows9060
@rainbows9060 5 жыл бұрын
I witnessed some of what you speak of at NKT. Guilt and shaming the main tools to beat its followers with, a very "closed system"in operation at that centre.I met some good examples , but not many, cultish flavours were shot through this tradition, you cld not have you're own mind. Or experiences., I feel so bad for you my love, wishing you peace and blessings., nothing is wasted.
@harveytruffautparis
@harveytruffautparis 5 жыл бұрын
May you find serenity and peace
@whichypoohs
@whichypoohs 7 жыл бұрын
This is very worrying
@Pennee101
@Pennee101 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Andrea for your forthright video that I am positive will help a great many people. Wishing you all the best of everything.
@aundraeblackwell2949
@aundraeblackwell2949 3 жыл бұрын
I really like the NKT centers I have had lots of great moments there.
@aundraeblackwell2949
@aundraeblackwell2949 6 ай бұрын
@christo-dIj3pIibd been going for over 25 years.
@maurice-fIic9jwv
@maurice-fIic9jwv 3 ай бұрын
​@@aundraeblackwell2949 Are you still Trolling the NKT SURVIVORS.
@polly-eIjn2iuIx
@polly-eIjn2iuIx 2 ай бұрын
Watch: 'An Unholy Row' BBC Documentary, about the NKT Cult.
@DisobedientSpaceWhale
@DisobedientSpaceWhale 2 ай бұрын
Very sad, Andrea seems like a good person and perhaps a vulnerable person. Some of the cold comments on here from NKT members seem to prove her point. The difficulty in the UK is the lack of alternatives to the NKT. The FPMT is hard to access for many British people. Triratna has also had sex and power scandals. The OBC is hard to access and has also had scandals, although mostly in the USA. It's hard to be a British Buddhist and find a good sangha and good guidance.
@renee-uiIf1ejIur
@renee-uiIf1ejIur 2 ай бұрын
Yes you are correct the NKT Cult specifically deliberately target nieve and vulnerable people.
@polly-eIjn2iuIx
@polly-eIjn2iuIx 2 ай бұрын
Watch: 'An Unholy Row' BBC Documentary, about this NKT Cult.
@DisobedientSpaceWhale
@DisobedientSpaceWhale 2 ай бұрын
@@polly-eIjn2iuIx where do I watch that
@ShineTube1959
@ShineTube1959 8 жыл бұрын
thanks for your vidoe and its really usefull for many people around the world
@andreaballance
@andreaballance 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sonam Gyurmey
@willbrinkley4041
@willbrinkley4041 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for discussing your difficult experience with this group. NKT centers are everywhere and it's important for people to know what they're about.
@hiltonrecardoizakhartnick4243
@hiltonrecardoizakhartnick4243 8 жыл бұрын
I am an NKT follower and I am glad you posted this video. It shows me what is happening in the minds of people as well as what they expect to achieved and get. It is however sad to notice how you experienced NKT as it is, but as the Dharma says, we experience what we do because of the karma we ourselves have created and none other. Also, what you said that Geshe la said that he is not your even your teacher, he was right, in the scriptures, the ancient ones, Buddha Shakyamuni himself stated many times to the followers of back then, that he is not their teacher, the real teacher lies within, he is merely the guide and none other. This is what he intended when he said that to you, you should have found the answer within yourself. The other things you mention as well, they are dealt with as the Dharma teaches. The Dalai Lama without disrespecting him is a very stubborn man, he chooses the Dharmas that he follows even though he says that he does not, yet rejects what he knows. If I stood in front of him and asked him the fundamental question about enlightenment, what and where enlightenment is, he would stubbornly answer that it is the Buddha, when I say it the self quest into the unraveling of the understandings of reality, there is no enlightenment, because if I according to emptiness do not really exist, where is the enlightenment if I will never realise it? Do you get the point? What is to be expected when the expectant and the expected neither exist, then what is? There is no observer neither observed. The Dalai Lama says? Avalokiteshvara, well I do not exist, because there is no Buddha (if I am extreme)! I wish you well and I hope you find enlightenment within your heart, because there is ultimately no real enlightenment, yet there is a very unique realisation which I call enlightenment, that only when it is not, then it is. Regards, HRIH
@thebogiecattva
@thebogiecattva 6 жыл бұрын
GGyatso seems happy to tell other people that he is there teacher... but you wouldn't actually know what he thinks because I bet you have never met him. I have. More than once.
@jonharvey55
@jonharvey55 4 жыл бұрын
You preach love, patience and acceptance but heavily criticize the Dalai Lama for reasons that don't even make sense. This is a huge contradiction to your teaching. My suspicion is because the Dalai Lama represents the old Tibetan tradition of buddhism your guru used to follow but because he has now created his own Buddhist religion and has ordained himself as the one and only spiritual teacher, he sees the Dalai Lama as a threat.
@recoveryfromthenewkadampat3445
@recoveryfromthenewkadampat3445 4 жыл бұрын
This is a spiritually abusive, victim blaming message.
@eternalricemuncher
@eternalricemuncher 8 жыл бұрын
I'm in the NKT and my understanding of the Guru connection is this...People want the ultimate connection with another person. We can hang around with people from all walks of life but never get to that point... Or in the case of marriage and having children we experience some amazing moments but then they pass and bickering, complexity, etc all come in.Buddhism is saying the ultimate experience is beyond our reach because of the way we see ourself and the other person. This is why there is, from what I have seen, two approaches.1. The hardship approach...where things become hard to get so then they are valued. Eg if the teachings are hard to obtain then the experience of that moment when you get them-like when Milarepa finally got a teaching-is close to the ultimate connection two people can have.2. Sitting down alone, visualising another person, and trying to correct whatever sabotages it so it becomes pure and indestructible ie a love that can last forever.I have felt that I want more than option 2...that option 2 is much weaker than somebody grabbing me, forming an intense (non sexual) bond with me where they are guiding me directly one on one and I am awestruck... but isn't this moving towards new problems? If it went wrong, the teachers would be blamed. I don't think this type of teacher disciple relationship can work in the modern world.I did meditation on how myself and the other person, eg you, are equal - and that helped more than attending countless meetings with various incredible people (Buddhist and non Buddhist) I got further just by sitting alone, visualising the person in front of me and working on it using the instructions - these instructions are not NKT they existed before. They say the work on Guru relationship is mainly done alone...there are very few commands from the Guru except to meditate. Because if he said to do 10 things and meditate...we would say the 9 other things are inherent rules and only put 1/10 th of the importance on meditation.Things are not perfect but the meditation advice and how to connect with another person...via visualisation, I think its bang on.Eg me and a close friend (non Buddhist) are going through a rocky patch at the moment...why? Its because what we see when we look at each other has changed. He is seeing me as having problems that must be fixed IMMEDIATELY and that if I don't do what he says I am lazy and foolish. That's his visualisation of the person in front of him. The visualisation is key...hence all the work on it.I don't think the ultimate connection is one of compliance and obedience. I think we want it to be so because our happiest moments often are with our parents. We want to be passive and the other person to do it all. So we visualise that and try to get 'commands'. All this is human nature. So we visualise a parent, and because meditation is hard, we try to get instructions that are easier, eg sweep the temple like Lam Chung. Then we get all excited and say this is inherently correct, then we add that other people should try sweeping too. Then we add why aren't other people joining in. Then we add that the people who aren't sweeping are wrong to not join in. The whole issue is 'concreting' an attempt to help. It started off as something nice then was blown out of all proportion by excitement and a belief in inherent truths. The intense focus on it rather than on meditation is simply a reflection of how much easier it is to potter around than it is to sit down and meditate.
@grahamhowarth3167
@grahamhowarth3167 5 жыл бұрын
setsebbat
@robin-hkIjc6eiq
@robin-hkIjc6eiq 2 ай бұрын
*Search; Dr Michelle Haslam's Psychological Report On The NKT.*
@dollyk8324
@dollyk8324 7 жыл бұрын
Very brave lady to tell her story, I'm so glad it didn't put her off of Buddhism. I'm happy for her
@yogalinda
@yogalinda 8 жыл бұрын
Very powerful and moving testimony. Thank you Andrea.
@yogalinda
@yogalinda 8 жыл бұрын
As I said before Mr ButtHead, I don't for a minute imagine I can make fanatical cult devotees change their minds :-) You go ahead, believe whatever you like - I just laugh at you with your falseness and phony Yogihood. LOL - that picture of you on FB "meditating" under a tree, trying to sit all serenely in half-lotus posture is funny - with one of your knees almost up in your armpit you look hilariously awkward as you try to look so holy. I'm sure having been apostate once to the religion of your birth and culture, turning your back on your new adopted religion would be too difficult and painful to contemplate for you. So when I stop laughing at you, I actually do feel rather sorry for you.
@yogalinda
@yogalinda 8 жыл бұрын
Is that the best you can manage by way of retort? To make false and libellous accusations against me? I've taken a screenshot. If you're going to libel me with accusations of being a racist with far-right opinions you had better have your proof ready.
@yogalinda
@yogalinda 8 жыл бұрын
As you well know Mohammed Butt, it's not me doing the hating - it's the NKT. I am here to rebutt the hatred and lies peddled by the NKT about the Dalai Lama and to reveal the NKT for the nasty little cult that it is, peddling phony spirituality and lies about one of the greatest living spiritual masters of this world.
@yogalinda
@yogalinda 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for revealing how pathetically weak your stance and arguments are that you have to resort to making false allegations against me of being racist/xenophobic/far right in my views. This truly is the tactic of the psychopath. When a psychopath feels like he's losing the argument he will resort to playing the victim card and wildly fling any mud he can concoct at his target to discredit them and divert the argument that he is losing. You are a pathetic loser and utterly false Buddhist.
@yogalinda
@yogalinda 8 жыл бұрын
Dear reader, I refer you to Cult Characteristic Number 10: "Personal attacks on critics. Anyone who criticizes the Guru, the cult or its dogma is attacked on a personal level. Rather than honestly and intelligently debating with critics, using facts and logic, the cult will resort to low personal attacks on the critic, using name-calling, slander, condescending put-downs, libelous accusations, personal slurs, accusations of bad motives, and casting aspersions on the critic's intelligence and sanity" Please take a look at the other 99 characteristics of a cult and you will see that the NKT and its devotees score very highly indeed: www.orange-papers.org/orange-cult_q0.html#cq_personal_attacks
@robin.sihIp8mz
@robin.sihIp8mz 6 ай бұрын
*Search; "Dr Michelle Haslem's Psychological Report On The New Kadampa Tradition"*
@007EnglishAcademy
@007EnglishAcademy 2 ай бұрын
I've read it - how on earth did she did a PhD?
@007EnglishAcademy
@007EnglishAcademy 2 ай бұрын
@@sebrina-jIku4iIm Don't patronise me. I could rip her silly report apart on the first reading not because I necessarily disagree with some of it but because it is a very poor piece of work.
@sebrina-jIku4iIm
@sebrina-jIku4iIm 2 ай бұрын
​​​@@007EnglishAcademy The nkt Cult already tried that and it didn't work. Research into this nkt Cult founded in 1991 by this expelled monk, fraud and conman fake geshe, kelsang gyatso.
@polly-eIjn2iuIx
@polly-eIjn2iuIx 2 ай бұрын
*Please Watch: 'An Unholy Row' BBC Documentary, about this NKT Cult leader, and the NKT Cult.*
@007EnglishAcademy
@007EnglishAcademy Ай бұрын
@pepe-kjIw8qIf What for? People come into the NKT with problems - mental/emotional/psychological - they fail to transform these problems so they leave with the same issues and then club together in tiny groups and blame anyone but themselves.
@BillSikes.
@BillSikes. 4 жыл бұрын
Well done for exposing this Evil Cult, and it's so nice to hear what you said about HHDL I'd like to know where gystso is, he ain't been seen for seven years, but he tweets almost daily
@gyurmethlodroe1774
@gyurmethlodroe1774 2 жыл бұрын
Look at the face of typical NKT cadet, brainwashed enough to shout, "Buddha Dont Lie, Buddha Dont Lie". Their protest reminds me of the zombies from the movie "Mummy Returns".
@quantumgrail4242
@quantumgrail4242 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Andrea, I've watched your video twice, so far, and on the second viewing I have to say I felt H.H. The Dalai Lama's hug. Your sincerity comes through, and it's obvious that you have the ability to help others - and from what I can see you becoming a Buddhist, because that is what you STILL are deep in your heart, was all due to the fact that you wish to find a way to genuinely help people. That is something NO ONE can (or will) take away from you. That is your vajra ground. When something is rotten it means it's decaying and decaying matter is fertile ground for positive things to grow, you already have the seed in your heart now grow from out of that. If you haven't done it already I would like to respectfully ask you if you could start a support group, or organisation, that especially caters for people that have experienced the things you have gone through. You would be more than qualified to talk about such things and give people a place where they can talk about such issues, make sense of what has happened, and not feel an overwhelming sense of confusion and (suicidal) failure. What disturbed me most was that you were being rejected by other places to where you went to seek sincere help. I think by starting a group/organisation you can prove to others that, as the Buddha said, all mistakes no matter how heavy can be purified - because nothing is permanent. I say this respectfully to all concerned, to reject anyone who has clearly seen the mistakes that they have made and that same person is now searching for help in order to amend for that period of their life, that form of rejection does not exist in any Buddhist scripture that I know of. By receiving that hug from The Dalai Lama you went straight to the source of pure Dharma. Stay there and don't come back. This is not the end of it, there are people out there and there will be many more people still to come who will go through a very difficult phase of their spiritual journey, the important thing is we (those who come before them) will be there to catch them by the hand - now is the time to be strong. "I summon every being, calling them to Buddhahood...may gods and demigods, and all the rest, rejoice!" - Shantideva SARVA MANGALAM!
@babyseal_5
@babyseal_5 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely agreed
@jennifersteffan2229
@jennifersteffan2229 Ай бұрын
I feel sad for her; she tried so very hard. She had such a passion for the teachings. They are beautiful teachings. My heart ❤️ goes out to Andrea.
@T4C440
@T4C440 Жыл бұрын
…sorry this has been your experience…but I’ve found nothing but peace through the NKT…practicing Kadampa Buddhism has transformed my life for the better…
@kimgfjb732K84L
@kimgfjb732K84L Жыл бұрын
People BE WARNED, please keep WELL AWAY from this Nkt CULT.
@T4C440
@T4C440 Жыл бұрын
@@kimgfjb732K84L People Be Warned…the NKT could transform your life for the better!
@robin.sihIp8mz
@robin.sihIp8mz 6 ай бұрын
*Search; "Dr Michelle Haslam's Psychological Report On The New Kadampa Tradition"*
@benjaminunion6557
@benjaminunion6557 7 жыл бұрын
Hello,you are warning people about what? Religion has always been kind of a "crutch" to help practitioners in this crazy life, as you call it. The goal from Gueshe La's teachings is to remove this crutch in the long term. By saying I am not your teacher he ment not to put all your weight on him. To give you ways to alleviate your pain by finding inner responses to your suffering rather than getting the "proper hug" from outside. Getting external brief reliefs is always helpful in the short term but can get tricky after a while...I say this with the outmost respect; what I did when I began practicing the middle path is a good therapy in order to accept the past events that made me call this a crazy life and turn it not a blessed life....Hope you find inner peace, xxx
@recoveryfromthenewkadampat3445
@recoveryfromthenewkadampat3445 4 жыл бұрын
How do you know what 'Gesh-la' meant when he said he wasn't Andreas teacher? You are spiritually abusing and gaslighting her with your message
@Kelkenso_Lhasa_Apso
@Kelkenso_Lhasa_Apso 4 ай бұрын
…because it was obvious!
@sarahyoung2110
@sarahyoung2110 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Andrea, it was fun to live with you! Take care x.
@samanthalewin4397
@samanthalewin4397 5 жыл бұрын
I have a lot of respect for this woman. She clearly had very good intentions. She wanted to learn how to help disadvantaged children, which would be something admirable in Buddhism. It is such a pity that she became so decieved.
@utahbrit
@utahbrit 11 ай бұрын
I found the NKTfew years ago on the recommendation of my GP and it has changed my life for the better. There's nothing worse than an angry ex-member of a particular religious group Whichever religion or non-religion you choose, it's the one that fits best for you and one size doesn't fit all!
@chris-hyI6Iclg
@chris-hyI6Iclg 8 ай бұрын
RUBBISH, I think you need to change your GP.
@Kelkenso_Lhasa_Apso
@Kelkenso_Lhasa_Apso 4 ай бұрын
…completely agree with you…the NKT has changed my life for the better…been practicing for years and NEVER have I seen anything that these angry ex members describe…
@DisobedientSpaceWhale
@DisobedientSpaceWhale 2 ай бұрын
There's not a lot of alternatives out there to NKT - NKT expansion means they're often the only Buddhist presence in towns
@DisobedientSpaceWhale
@DisobedientSpaceWhale 2 ай бұрын
@Pepe-yiIz3qjv search where?
@anita-dn6iIfu
@anita-dn6iIfu 2 ай бұрын
​@@DisobedientSpaceWhale I just Google it.
@lesleyperetto3770
@lesleyperetto3770 4 жыл бұрын
Why were the vows not real? Why did geshe kelsang say he wasn't your teacher?
@gwenfarrell4098
@gwenfarrell4098 3 ай бұрын
Sorry for Andrea's pain. But here are a few things that need to be corrected: 1. She said Geshe Kelsang Gyatso said to her that he wasn't her teacher, he meant that Buddha is her teacher and she should trust in Buddha, not just follow Geshe Kelsang because he was the founder. He wasn't throwing her away, just trying to explain to her that he was not the one who should be followed - only Buddha. 2. The path of a Buddhist nun isn't easy and not for someone who is looking for a home or support. It's a life of service and sacrifice. I don't judge Andrea, but perhaps she didn't understand correctly before she got involved, and regretably was disappointed. Tibetan Buddhism doesn't recognize NKT monks and nuns, but that doesn't mean they aren't really ordained and dedicated Buddhists. 3. She also mentioned that NKT nuns have only a few vows. Tibetan Buddhis has created over 300 vows for nuns and over 200 vows for monks - most of which were not made by Buddha, but instead were based on political and social culture. NKT ordination vows are the same for monks and nuns, they are much shorter and more meaningful and relevant to the western world, but they are taken seriously and followed. 4. Tibetan Buddhism isn't the only Buddhism in the world - it's also not the oldest or the most accurate. Which us one reason the NKT was created. The NKT is real Buddhism. Even the Dalai Lama said thet. 5. The NKT founder, Geshe Kelsang Gyatso, was not rejected from the monastery where he studied for 20 years for being a fraud or a crook, but because he broke with the Tibetan tradition and created the NKT - a new tradition for a modern world but founded on a Buddhist tradition practiced and respected for hundreds of years - even by past Dalai Lamas and other lamas. 6. Like any large organization, the NKT has had some bad apples and problems in the past and unfortunately some people were hurt. But thousands of others have, and still are, studying, practicing and benefitting from this solid, legitimate Buddhist tradition. Those folks are not deluded, brainwashed crazies, and they're not perfect, but they are trying to follow Buddadharma to a happier world for everyone. Buddha said if a person listens to his teachings and doesn't agree or doesn't like them, that person should leave and find a path right for them. The NKT may not be right for everyone, but that doesn't mean it's wrong, bad or not real Buddhism. In the Buddha's words, "May everyone be happy!"
@simone.zitIfp4rpdIj
@simone.zitIfp4rpdIj 3 ай бұрын
This New KT all it's members are mainly western people. There are no Tibetan people in it, not one. There are ( Dolgyal ) shugden worshipers in India but they don't belong to the New KT. Dont worship this Fraud kelsang gyatso, geshela & evil shugden it's an IDOIDOLATRY WORSHIP CULT. Reuters News stated the NKT were protesting the Dalai Lama and NKT were having links with the Chinese, CCP to try and bring down the 14th Dalai Lama, it didn't work. Please Search Information, Reuters News, "China co-opts a Buddhist sect in global effort to smear Dalai Lama" Then Search: "The Ugly Side of the New Kadampa Tradition". Keep Away From This New RECRUITMENT CULT. Don't Be Deceived.
@demetrious-mjhiI37nlm
@demetrious-mjhiI37nlm 3 ай бұрын
​People Do your Research & Homework properly. This NKT is a RED FLAG Cult at the TOP of the Cult Watch, DANGER lists. Search. 'NKT Cult'.
@robin-hkIjc6eiq
@robin-hkIjc6eiq 2 ай бұрын
*Search; Dr Michelle Haslam's Psychological Report On The NKT.*
@andreaballance
@andreaballance 8 жыл бұрын
Please can people stop replying to the creepy guy Timmi who is trolling these comments. He thinks by attacking people he is thier therapist and other creepy wierd shit. He knows he upset me with his comments and doesnt care so there doesnt seem to be much sanity going on there. I could be wrong maybe sane people act this way but I can't get my head around that. The NKT dharma can rwal twist the mind and we might be hurting what appears to be an example of weak mental health by feeding his inner troll. I am happy to be wrong.If anyone is up for a real chat about disrobing and the effects of that on the mind and faith I am all up for it. Other than that just let the creepy guy make wierd statements and nasty comments. It says everything about his personal lack of morals and his cult. It also really illustrates the vicious, cold and uncompassionate way survivors are treated while they are in the group and after by this high demand group. Thanks for being compassionate towards him he is obviously still entrenched in the cult.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
+Andrea Ballance Didn't mean to cause you distress, did want to expose the anti Shugden anti nkt nastiness that is and has been going on for some while. So apologies to you .
@andreaballanceadurseaoflights
@andreaballanceadurseaoflights 8 жыл бұрын
+Timmi Wally thanks for recognising how out of order you were. There can never be any peace in this situation while you think attacking survivors is an ok thing to do.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
+andrea ballance Once again, the initial comment I made regarding spiritual guide was perhaps a little harsh, rather it was a 'red herring' comment employed to get you folk to open up and further the peace process discussion that typically gets deleted or edited out in the 'survivors' and anti shugden / nkt FB groups . Apparently none of you want to see peace . Sorry about that.
@andreaballanceadurseaoflights
@andreaballanceadurseaoflights 8 жыл бұрын
Ok. I know you mean well. I get you are trying to be kind. But you just need to open up conversations with out trying to hurt people. Maybe you just see us as part of your crusade. I know you referred to this video as an advert. You can't cause peace with nasty comments. Thanks for trying to resolve this situation. I see that your intention through your eyes is noble ans admirable. Thanks again for seeing that you were unkind. It goes a long way to softening the shock of your peace tactics. I am sorry my tread doesn't seem to be as fulfilling as you were hoping. I am sure as time goes on people will open up. Maybe people just need a different approach. This is the last time I am going to reply to you. If you do actually care about your effect on me you will respect that I don't want this to carry on. Be happy Timmi.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
+andrea ballance Thanks for saying, Andrea. all best.
@massonman9099
@massonman9099 4 жыл бұрын
Well done, Andrea. NKT should be so ashamed for just this, but we all know there is much, much more harm they have done.
@andygratton4198
@andygratton4198 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you feel this way I remember you at Losang Dragpa centre Hoping you find peace again I am still practicing and have Geshla at my heart and from my experience is a correct path love Andy xx
@andreaballance
@andreaballance 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for deeply thought through and intelligent analysis Timmi WALLY.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for saying, Andrea. No offense intended. hope you manage to let go of your religion related issues soon. As you may be becoming aware, The various NKT 'survivors groups' are little more than a propaganda distribution front for a small party of Pro-DL / anti-china activists, who completely refuse to openly discuss the issues , are strictly bound to group think, and as such make sure to delete any attempt at rational dialogue or solution. They would rather perpetuate ill will; They are like the Westboro baptist church of buddhism
@andreaballance
@andreaballance 8 жыл бұрын
No they are not.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
Oh yes they are.
@andreaballance
@andreaballance 8 жыл бұрын
I am a survivor and I know directly with experience that you are wrong. I can see you have found this video challenging. Attacking survivors is a cruel thing to do and I pity you. You are making horrible karma. Timmy Wally casting false accusations around is a very naughty and selfish thing to do. I hope you have someone at home who loves you and never leaves you in the state this cult leaves it victims. You might want to reconsider what you are lying about here but I doubt it. So, Mr Wally you should know.... you can say what you like but you will not silence us because we have already been silenced. Accuse us of stuff that is not true and we will still act with in our truth because we have already lost ourselves and found ourselves again. Be as nasty and angry with us for not agreeing with you and for rocking your faith but we can not change our stories because they are true. You might want to think about why we have chosen the term survivor.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
I'm not lying about anything. i speak from the heart and personal experience. Have been on the 'nktsurvivor' group for around ten years . It is the outright bitterness of some members in particular and the overarching failure by those 'in charge' to allow rational conversation that most clearly showed to me the fakery of the premise being touted.
@thecontentguy3386
@thecontentguy3386 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I feel for you and am so happy you have transcended the false buddhas. The dalai lama is the real thing. Brightest blessings
@shantidewa
@shantidewa 3 жыл бұрын
NKT is the fast food of Tibetan Buddhists they even don’t represent shugdenpa
@soonhocksengseng1550
@soonhocksengseng1550 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you all
@danchisholm1
@danchisholm1 4 жыл бұрын
her point starts around 3:50
@jopar3292
@jopar3292 4 жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart to hear your account. I very much respect that this has been your experience and hope all the best in the world for you...but I just wish you had taken the time for the actual Dharma to sink down from the initial intellectual [all be it a very beautiful] idea to developing the and mixing with the actual Dharma in the heart. The actual 'experience' of Dharma is so profound, deep and beautiful BUT that experience can take many many years of steady practice to develop. Forgive the terminology but Samara is by its very nature is an absolute nightmare. Again Im trying my best to be respectful and I believe that what you say is how you experienced your time but . . . in fairness I need to add that for other people this has not been their experience. Many people are working day after day, year after year with good intentions and motivations to try to improve themselves and to help others in that Tradition. Is it perfect...of course not - nothing in Samsara is perfect that is the whole point of trying to practice Dharma to escape it in the first place.! I respect your bravery in telling your story and your wise words for people to be careful. This is good measured advice. To all those commentators who have no actual experience of that Tradition and just like to ignorantly repeat what they have heard others say I can only suggest to go and do a working holiday at one of the Centres and form your own opinion. Be it good or bad at least it would come from your experience. Anyway, I sure as heck would have given you a hug :'(
@ilogickindess2012
@ilogickindess2012 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is heart wrenching. So much love to give and placed in un great full hands. I hope you have found your peace, I hope this bad experience has not changed your beautiful heart. Blessings from NYC
@missfunk5
@missfunk5 8 жыл бұрын
hi andrea, having had teachings from one same teacher, I really understand your upset, I too was a bit deluded that so many of my teachers disrobed. it is upsetting. but like you I had lovely feelings too, but I am sorry for the pain you went through, but hey, here you are and all is wel again. I wish you well. thanks for your insight xx
@humanoid144
@humanoid144 6 жыл бұрын
You dont have to speak Tibetan, there are plenty of good Buddhist books in English but just i think all teachings become cultish eventually, thats how ego works, but most teachings help us build up more beliefs or more ego structures, I prefer non-duality
@gyurmethlodroe1774
@gyurmethlodroe1774 2 жыл бұрын
all teaching becone cultish? ...and You prefer non-duality. Dont you know that non-duality is a teaching?
@bhoepa5550
@bhoepa5550 7 жыл бұрын
That's sad
@Art_Tibisolum
@Art_Tibisolum 7 жыл бұрын
This really hurts my heart. why on earth is this happening???? someone need to seriously investigate this!!!!
@JamesGarry
@JamesGarry 7 жыл бұрын
What a dreadful experience - thank you Andrea!
@yogalinda
@yogalinda 8 жыл бұрын
Earlier this year Tim Hodgson was holding forth about how there's no such thing as karma. 6 months later he's taking Dolgyal Shugden empowerment and calling that thing a World Peace Buddha - a title unilaterally confered on it by NKT and Kelsang Gyatso who demand that their view of it is accepted by mainstream Tibetan Buddhism, on pain of being denounced as liars and shouted at if they refuse and playing the victim card, screaming and shouting on their so-called protests just because they can't get their own way.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
+yogalinda cool story , bro
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
+yogalinda if you are going to start on Jesus and Santa, Well, i'm off.
@yogalinda
@yogalinda 8 жыл бұрын
I don't think you actually believe in Shugden at all. I know you. You're just playing games to be provocative to the NKT "Survivors". That or you're on the way to a nervous breakdown and total insanity - it's particularly dangerous to mix up shugden practice with your psychedelic activities. Please be more careful - you are treading on dangerous territory all round. I am actually concerned about you - despite how much you irritate me.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
+yogalinda thank you for your concern, however it is unwarranted.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
+yogalinda I invite you to keep your speculations about my personal life to yourself and furthermore to learn to comport yourself properwise on the internet, & to, in future, respect the choice of spiritual path and the overall dignity of others. thanks.
@iyamnobaudi4851
@iyamnobaudi4851 6 жыл бұрын
I've been involved in Tibetan Buddhism for many years and what we need is an American Buddhism or a British Buddhism....Buddha would want us to make it our own...all respect to the old schools but it must evolve and quickly before it's too late.
@Knaeben
@Knaeben 2 жыл бұрын
You also have to be careful not to pull things out of their original context too fast. It needs to adapt, but the adaptation must be organic. American culture can destroy things quickly.
@meditateinsaltlakecity3136
@meditateinsaltlakecity3136 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Andrea and Londonnay, for critically examining the dangerous and misleading actions of the Dalai Lama and supporting these important demonstrations with your video clip. It was about time the public finds out that there are Buddhist worldwide who have the guts to stand up to his so-called Holiness, questioning and denouncing the abuse of power that is being done to countless human beings in the name of Dharma, mainly in parts of the world the West didn't know about. What degenerate times, so sad! Thank you for your support.
@thebogiecattva
@thebogiecattva 6 жыл бұрын
I always rejoice when an NKT member replies to these videos and ignores the pain in favour of some rote learning or an outward twisting of the truth. You guys can't help but prove our stories with your responses. Have a lovely day and whenjoy the NKT spit's you out you should check out new kadampa survivors. We will be there for you.
@kmdatkins
@kmdatkins 6 жыл бұрын
Really well said. Understandably some may be triggered by this video, but as you say there is support out there. I hope those who over-invested in the NKT will one day leave. The passive-aggressive approach used by some of their members here is indicative of the stress they are under.
@BillSikes.
@BillSikes. 6 жыл бұрын
Michael Mauncele She's not unstable in the slightest, she genuinely hurt, but you're blind to this, too puffed up with pride and self importance, this comes straight from your ego, but this is far to subtle for your petty little mind to perceive , you and the others that do nothing but berate, ridicule and condemn her, prefer to derive pleasure from undermining her, and tearing her to pieces with nasty slurs, insults and underhand personal attacks, this is enough to inform me to stay well away from this NKT, and the small minded, gullible spoon-fed fools, that fill its ranks
@kmdatkins
@kmdatkins 6 жыл бұрын
Michael Mauncele I hope you can one day leave the cult, Mike. Btw where's your guru?
@FeIix-nfIi8ujt
@FeIix-nfIi8ujt 18 күн бұрын
*Don't Worship Evil Shugden, Or The Fraud Kelsang Gyatso.*
@jonasadauto7673
@jonasadauto7673 2 жыл бұрын
I am sorry for you pain Andrea, however I still don’t get it !!!! People love Jesus and no one’s never saw him, the same Sidarta !!! Another thing is if I became a nun I would have to come out of myself grow and help others. And who and what says you are a nun is your real commitment to your vows, why officially, since man made write documents, what makes things written real ???? In this case I guess your own belief in your vows. Never saw anyone mistreated or turned back in NKT. And don’t get what it takes to be considered a cult. What makes me suspicious is politics and the comparison of one tradition to another. Hope you well.
@Kim-wx2ji
@Kim-wx2ji Жыл бұрын
Nkt is not Christianity or Buddhism, It's just Evil spirit worship.
@jonasadauto7673
@jonasadauto7673 Жыл бұрын
@@Kim-wx2ji that’s horrible. I don’t think you got the right to say it.
@phiIippa-bvIi8sd
@phiIippa-bvIi8sd Жыл бұрын
​@@jonasadauto7673 Just do your homework properly, Search: NKT Cult out here, that a good place to start.
@maurice-fIic9jwv
@maurice-fIic9jwv 3 ай бұрын
It's more than likely 10's of Thousands have ended up with ruined lives or in a Psychiatric hospital because of this Cult over the many years. This New Kadampa Cult is not what it appears to be, AVOID.
@blissblitzing
@blissblitzing 8 жыл бұрын
Shugdens live in halls of mirrors. I would suggest that Timmi Wally look at his own words. He said: "You are an anti-shugden pro-DL / CTA anti-chinese propagandist. so it is clear what you are doing here." We can do a simple reversal. Timmi: 'You are a pro Shugden, anti-Dalai Lama, NKT pro Chinese propagandist. So it is clear what you are doing here'. The words in the protests directly reflect Chinese interests. It would be the height of blindness not to see the similarities. Interesting how Timmi betrays his own spiritual guide by emphasizing that there is no need for his living presence - and no worry as to what has become of him. The 'books and communities' are enough for any 'independent' Buddhist like Timmi. That says it all. There is such an illusion of 'independence' when hundreds of them follow the Dalai Lama around to protest...they all chant the same things, speak the same words, promote the same philosophies, memorise the same pujas. I can only think that this stress on the 'independence' of the Buddhist philosophers who come online to try and minimise anything we say, is merely a cover for the complete lack of psychological independence they suffer. A psychologically rich, humane and mature sangha would be able to listen to criticism and do what the Buddha suggested - ignore that which they understand to be invalid and make changes from criticism that is valid. Anyone who leaves the NKT is immediately seen as 'invalid' even if their intentions over years in the NKT were good, even excellent. It is as if anyone outside the NKT 'door' is immediately seen as inadequate and not worth bothering about except to criticise. Self and other are sharply defined as 'with the Dharma' if you are in the NKT and 'against the Dharma' if you are outside the NKT. Fortunately, the NKT does not hold the only Dharma in the world in their hands. They only hold their 'own' Dharma - the one the NKT thinks it possesses, with copyrights and trademarks! I suggest that you too, are 'owned' by the NKT, Timmi. When you can see something positive in us, and in our journey, then perhaps I would say that you are going beyond the 'ownership' that the NKT have of your views and opinions. As above....(as in the mirror...)
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
+Carol McQuire Hi Carol, I didn't notice your comment until today, {as it has been written stand alone, I received no email notification.} Your commentary does not appear to relate in particular to Andrea's video , or to the exchange between Andrea and myself in the comments above, which I had hoped would provide thorough example of my intentions. Regardless of this, I will do my best to address the issues and observations you have made. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - You wrote: 1] "You are an anti-shugden pro-DL / CTA anti-chinese propagandist. so it is clear what you are doing here." We can do a simple reversal. Timmi: 'You are a pro Shugden, anti-Dalai Lama, NKT pro Chinese propagandist. So it is clear what you are doing here'. The words in the protests directly reflect Chinese interests. It would be the height of blindness not to see the similarities. I agree with what you have said here; there are similarities if the positions are flipped. we come from different positions on the issues, which, it is worth pointing out, have become highly polarized. Yes, I am Pro-Shugden; Dorje Shugden is the Dharmapala of my tradition of Buddhism. Am I Anti-Dalai Lama ? No. as I believe I have expressed previously, I have no personal grudge, however there remain for me inconsistencies in policy ( such as the ban on DS ) and various alleged historical issues that do not seem to match or tie in with what one (I) might expect from the the head monk of Tibetan Buddhism . Am I a NKT Pro-Chinese propagandist ? Well, NKT is the tradition I first encountered and I remain satisfied with it. I have no personal connection to China, and have never been there. I am not racist in any way, and do my best to generate love trust and respect for all beings equally, regardless of race , nationality or species. I am not Anti-Communism. I would add that do not take the western mainstream media portrayal of China and its culture as being necessarily authentic. There is a long history of relations between Tibet and China, and it is well worth looking at the wider picture. The best way I can see is to look forward, letting go of current hindrances toward peaceful resolution of past and current political hostilities to peaceful and respectful coexistence. Rather, I regard myself as Anti-Imperialist, and Anti-Nationalist. Some anti-nationalists are humanitarians or humanists who pursue an idealist view of world community, and self-identify as world citizens. People who categorise themselves as anti-imperialists, often state that they are opposed to colonialism, colonial empire, hegemony, imperialism and territorial expansion of a country beyond its established borders. Am I a propagandist ? ; any reality is an opinion. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - You Wrote: 2] Interesting how Timmi betrays his own spiritual guide by emphasizing that there is no need for his living presence - and no worry as to what has become of him. The 'books and communities' are enough for any 'independent' Buddhist like Timmi. That says it all. I agree with some of what what you say here. From my perspective, I have received initiations and teachings in person and in written form from Geshe Kelsang Gyatso that I am satisfied with. Whilst I very much wish GKG a very long healthy and happy continued lifetime, it will one day come to an end, and his body will pass,just as it will for us all. He will of course remain as my spiritual guide. . . That may indeed say it all. As for the rest of your paragraph I can only really stand by my own tradition and say that I am happy with the lineage and teachings. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - You Wrote: 3] A psychologically rich, humane and mature sangha would be able to listen to criticism and do what the Buddha suggested - ignore that which they understand to be invalid and make changes from criticism that is valid Certainly we should all be open to criticism and open discussion in order to help see ourselves from others perspectives (who may also hold different views). It is up to each of us to do our best to seek out and ideally confirm informational validity for ourselves, discuss with others in our communities and also opponents, and find ways to integrate our results and findings into our world view allowing us to move on, hopefully better educated. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - You Wrote: 4] Anyone who leaves the NKT is immediately seen as 'invalid' even if their intentions over years in the NKT were good, even excellent. It is as if anyone outside the NKT 'door' is immediately seen as inadequate and not worth bothering about except to criticise. Self and other are sharply defined as 'with the Dharma' if you are in the NKT and 'against the Dharma' if you are outside the NKT. It is not really within my remit to comment on policy of what happens to people once they have left the NKT, However i am willing to offer the following opinion ; There of course needs to be some boundaries set. People who leave are often, as in your case, take the path of being vitriolic in protest and activity against them. I can only really suggest that you look to other religions for a precedent. There are many churches, for instance. where if you leave or are told to leave, one is ostracized completely. I'm not saying this is a good thing, but neither does it seem rational that they should keep supporting someone when they have rejected the tradition or church. Your comment about 'either in or out' is not my personal experience, rather the opposite, I find them welcoming despite my own enduring non-conformative demeanor. I understand that it is now some while since you left the NKT. Maybe time to finally find resolution and let go of any remaining emotional conflict you still are holding. Please accept that I am not trying to disrespect you when I say this. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - You continue: 5] Fortunately, the NKT does not hold the only Dharma in the world in their hands. They only hold their 'own' Dharma - the one the NKT thinks it possesses, with copyrights and trademarks! I suggest that you too, are 'owned' by the NKT, Timmi. When you can see something positive in us, and in our journey, then perhaps I would say that you are going beyond the 'ownership' that the NKT have of your views and opinions. As above....(as in the mirror...) See above for discussion of 'Who has the best Dharma' this is really not something that is a major issue as I see it. I do not concur with your statement that I am 'owned by the NKT'. You , I would suggest, have had enough contact me by now to know that I am a freethinker first and foremost, and can not be owned. I see that people are having a problem with the NKT saying that their tradition of Buddhism is 'best'. Well, for me, and many others, it is !!! There is of course no particular need for you or others to agree, but please respect our opinion as valid (for us!), as you would people of any other religion or culture, team or interest group. I can advise you that I do indeed 'see something positive in you' I assure you that I have no personal issue with you, I do appreciate you taking the time to communicate like this, and can tell you that I feel that you are completely valid in your setting up and running of groups dedicated to offering counseling help and advice to people who have disrobed / decided the NKT is no longer for them. Props. I do feel however that it is very important to maintain a non-denominational stance if one is in position of moderator or admin in such a community in order for balance . It is my experience of the NKTS yahoo survivors group that there is pressure from the 'in-group' to view things from the narrative of mainstream Buddhism as being the the 'truth' and NKT as being 'Lies'.This is, for me, unhelpful polarization which quickly results in angry extremist opinions being voiced and hostilities arising. I look forward to, and am interested in, participating in any further open discussion on any of the various issues that have been raised and any other relating, in the pursuit of speedy resolution to the current schisms and unrest which i feel do Buddhism in general no favours; ideally in an appropriate and publicly viewable online venue of your choosing. I Hope this Helps.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 8 жыл бұрын
+Carol McQuire Dalai Lama, Please be kind, and settle your differences with Shugden Buddhists.
@timmiwally
@timmiwally 7 жыл бұрын
Shuggies want everyone to be happy
@CYork-gg7zr
@CYork-gg7zr 5 жыл бұрын
She wanted to be spoiled. She was unhappy and she thought becoming a nun would be the solution of her life. Kadampa is very serious buddhist tradition. You are doing accusations without proves. Your ego wasn't ready to become a nun. Don't blame kadampa because you failed
@rainbows9060
@rainbows9060 5 жыл бұрын
How can you comment about this woman personally? This was HER exsperience! you speak of her ego.., that sir his her buisness, you're ego is of you're own, blessings
@andreaballance
@andreaballance 5 жыл бұрын
I was not expecting to be spoilt. I loved being ordained. The tradition is very flawed.
@recoveryfromthenewkadampat3445
@recoveryfromthenewkadampat3445 4 жыл бұрын
It would be the organisations responsibility to understand whether the person is ready by actually building a relationship with them. The NKT advertises classes for people with mental health problems, in order to draw more vulnerable people in, and then brainwashes them through guided self-hypnosis to give up their 'ordinary' lives. This is the NKTs fault, not Andreas. You are victim blaming
@tnt01
@tnt01 4 жыл бұрын
She is not a failure. Get lost, you idiot.
@user-lw8bm6lm8u
@user-lw8bm6lm8u 2 жыл бұрын
Geshlas New Kadampa Tradition, means = New Rubbish Scam Con You Tradition.
@PeterTerpstra7
@PeterTerpstra7 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you kindly dear Andrea for telling what is on your heart.
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