He was honest with u from the very beginning, but u still chose this path with both eyes wide open. U have no one to blame but urself.

U deserve everything u got. So sit there n take it

A woman who clearly doesn't value her own self worth. To the 2nd wife, you should've listened to your relatives. They are absolutely right that your husband's family doesn't give a damn about you or respect your relatives because you stole someone's husband. Hopefully, this will be a good lesson for other women who are planning on becoming someone's 2nd wife.

As much as you're hurting, his 1st wife must hurt twice as much and beyond. Men like him don't deserve love from anyone. You don't deserve to be happy, but the 1st wife suffers from her poor decisions to stay.

Twb muaj peev xwm mus tseeb luag tej txiv es hos txawj tus siab thiab.

Cov pojnaim txeeb luag tug niam qhuav ntxim

Omg I can’t! Why does she even feel pain? Oh lord!!

You deserve it lady... because you took their husband...i don't feel bad...for you.

Yog kawg os niam hluas txiv lub siab zoo ib yam xwb os ♥️

Oh my...why be a Homewrecker? Why date someone else's unfaithful spouse?!!! You Reap What You Sow...

Niam ntsuab teev ca ntu no koj rog lawm lo ca koj hai neej neeg pheej hnov koj ua pa ib teg teg loj hauv no tsi tshuam zoo mloog na zoo li txog siav

Niam yau ces yog niam tiav rau txiv neej hmo ntuj xwb. You got what you asked for.

Your first mistake was when you opened your door and self to a total stranger. Your worst mistake was when you knew he's married but continued to sleep with the guy because koj ntshaw ntshaw ua lawv niam yau. No sympathy from people because niam yau is not someone people respect.

Luag rhuav koj lub neej koj ho mus rhuav luag lub, koj tsis LEARN..

Who said in this 20 century you still be a second wife. You cost all the pain to yourself sister. If there is no man on this earth, I still don’t take the place of some one second’s wife.

Thaum yus yuav yog niam los yus txaus yus siab mus ua niam yau ua tus nyob qab tswj hwm ntawm luag tus niam loj ces tab tom tuaj tham koj khoob koj tus mi qub txiv qhov ntsewg es nws ho tau hnyos 2 nyuag lo xwb tsis tim leej twg tim koj lub siab xwb txhob tu2 siab rau tus sab nrauv os

Tu siab chim siab los twb los nyob laus tag ces ciaj los nyob tuag los rau nws pam xwb

Koj Los txeeb lawv tus txiv tab sis koj txeeb tsis tau txhua yam ntawm lawv ces koj thiaj li khib npaum li ko. Vim muaj cov poj hmoob zoo coj li koj es niaj hnub no thiaj tseem niam yau qees. Koj paub khib thiab paub tu siab ces zoo kawg.

Yog vim dabtsi...nej ho Kam mus txeeb luag tus txiv ntawm luag lub neej na lawv...koj tus Los koj yeej mob siab ..Cas nej cov poj niam mus txeeb yuav luag tus txiv...es nej ho txhob txwm mus yuav luag tus txiv ...puag yog nej muaj lub Siab phem na lo.....

Niam ntsuab teev kj rog lm kj hai neej neeg txog2 siav lm hehe

Please 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 Thov tswv ntuj kom pojniam hmoob grow more backbone to be able to live more independently and STOP this life style. Tsis ntev cov thaub laus 50/60 xyoo uas tseem niaj hnub mus yuav niam mos ab no twb yuav mus tu noob......thov txhob ua lub neej niam loj niam yau no lawm os!

To niam yau, Cas Koj yuav Txawj tham ua luaj os, tsi siab leej twg kiag li nawb, Koj yeej Txawj coj kawg lawm, tiam sis peb txais tsi tau cov niam yau os mog, nrog koj tu siab kawg os.

Cov txiv neej es nyiam nyiam ua dev thawj thiab mu pw ntawm tej chaw nyob li tus dev xwb tiag

Yog koj paub tu siab ces koj yeej tsis mu txeeb luag lub neej os cas nim muaj plus kawg

Ntiag ntsej muag dag koj niam tsis siab ntag cas koj ho mus txeeb lawv tus txiv nas

What year was this? Who lets a total stranger into your own home? Sleep under the same roof as your own kid's!? He clearly stated he has a wife! Call her and tell his wife to pick him up! Such a shame what you did.

Lub neej ua niam yau Ce yg tu txhaum thb swb tag nrho txhua yam xb o xav ce tu2 siab thb chim2 siab vim yu yuam kev lawm

Cas tseem yuav muaj tsej muag muab koj zaj neej neeg los piav thiab os ntuj aw

Nej yeej ntshaw lawv cov txiv ua lawv niam yau xwb tab sis txhob ntshaw cov tuag li koob hmoov os tej ntawv tau ntau mas haj yam nyuaj siab os

Koj ces yog siab dev Koj tus txiv tham hluas nkauj Koj twb mob siab yuav tuag es koj ho mus yuav luag tus txiv es luag puas mob siab thiab Nyob li koj ces tuag zoo dua Nyob los ua teeb meem rau sawv daws xwb

Hivhiv ntshaw ntshaw luag tej txiv ces kawg li no xwb tiag puas zoo Koj siab tsi need tu siab li os niam loj tseem mob tshaj Koj 10x

Koj yuam kev yog thawj zaug tus txiv neej twb qhia koj ncaj tias nws tseem muaj poj niam lawm koj txhob txwm los rhuav nkawv lub neej tus niam loj mob tshaj koj txhob tu siab

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Wow... who just lets a random guy sleep in your house??? This lady ain't 100% . Txhob ntshaw ntshaw txiv os especially when he already told you he is married.

Kj hai yog lawm os niam laus as😢

Nej cov poj niam es pheej xav2 ua poj nrauj na tsis yog peb xav tias los ua poj nrauj es ntshe yuav tau txiv yooj yim no pob yog peb tus txiv tsis zoo lawm kav tsij uv txog thaum kawg yog tsis zoo lawm tiag2 mam nrauj es ua ib siab txhob nrhiav txiv yuav lawm hos yog tej yam twb tsis tsim nyog nrauj Los cia li ua Lwj ua Liam muab nrauj tag ces ho tig khuv xim es tsis txaj muag Los tseem yuav tias khuv xim tus qub txiv ntshe tus qub txiv Lub qhov ntswg yuav khoob Loj heev vim khav2 no tsis tau tus hlub tiag Nev!

Koj yog ib tug pojniam yooj yim dhaus lawm os Viv ncaus..

Zoo li no los cov niam yau tseem muaj plus hos yog ua niam yau luag ua npaum luag ua tus niam lom thiab mas ntsai cov niam yau tseem muaj plus dua thiab cia li ko thiaj paub niam loj txoj kev mob siab

So many wrong moves by this lady! 1. Opening door to a stranger 2. Still wants to marry a man who clearly said he has a wife. 3. Still insist on dating the man when knowing you're wrecking another woman's life 4. Still wants to be a niam yau!!!! 5. Still went ahead to marry the man when the Niam loj clearly said i don't allow my husband to marry you. 6. Knowing the first wife will be in control of the husband (he even said his 1st wife is the main) but still stayed marry...😩 Are we supposed to feel sorry for you? Soooooo many redflags right from the beginning!!! Why be a second wife🙄🙄🙄

🤦🏻‍♀️ you did it to ur self!! Y complain? That’s what you get and deserve for stealing someone else husband. Koj xav tias Ua lub neej niam Yau es luag thiaj li yuav hlub koj? Koj xav Yau kev lawm nawb! Luag yuav koj los so Ko taw!!

cov niam yau tu txiv thiaj li hluab tshaj lua mua yog tia tsi hlub koj ce koj yeej nyob tsi tau txog tav no li ko li os qhov koj hai ko ce twb nw tsi muab nw tu niam loj nrauj es lo hlub koj ib leeg yuav koj ib tug xwb es khib koj xwb koj thiaj hai tia tsi hlub koj no xwb os yu mu txeeb luag tu txiv yuav es yu xav kom tu muab luag nruaj es cia lo yuav yu ib leeg hlub yu ib tug es yu noj kheej ma thiaj li yog hlub tiag ua li ko ntshai dhau cai dhau lawm pob 😂😂😂😂😂

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Txhob Hai tia niam loj txheeb txiv o kj ntag yog tu txheeb txiv na

Koj paub tu siab thiab yom koj puas paub tias koj yuav lawv tus txiv lub ntuj twb rau txim rau koj lawm koj ces yeej yuav npam tom ntej no xwb xwb li

Twb ntshaw txiv npaum li ko es koj nim paub tu siab thiab tus tsim nyog tu siab mas yog koj tus niam loj pob

Mus txeeb luag tus xwb Tseem muaj plhus tu siab thiab os niag maum dev

Twb Tsis Ua Niam Yau, Twb Tsis Hlub Thiab Os!! Tu2 Lub Siab Thiab Os!!

Koj ntshaw ua pojlaib pojnrauj ces cia koj ua xwb, txhob los hais tawm nthuav tawm, phem cia koj phem vim koj ntshaw lawv tus txiv, tus txiv neeg twg phem hais tus ntawv, txhob hais tias tag nrho ua ke, los pojlaib

I hope everyone learns from this lady's story and DON'T be a second wife, DON'T wreck someone else's relationship, DO respect yourself and love yourself.

Tus viv ncaus zoo li koj Yog ib tug poj niam yooj yim heev li Yog vim li cas ib tug neeg koj twb tsis paub ib tag hmo tsaus ntuj es tseem muaj peev xwm qhib qhov rooj rau ib tug neeg yus tsis paub hnub ib ob hmo xwb luag twb nrog koj pw lawm thiab tseem si nco kua muag poob tau. Kuv tsis paub lwm tus tiam sis rau ntawm kuv ntshe ib tug neeg yuav ua rau kuv lub kua muag poob ntshe yuav siv sij hawm ntev heev nawb.

Sometimes people are vulnerable at a point in their life and this can lead to poor decision. Please take care of yourself and don’t allow yourself to be a back up plan.

Koj yeej paub tias nws muaj nws tus niam Tsev zoo2 yog luag tsis nrauj luag tus niam Tsev es koj yuav mus txeeb xwb ces kawg nyob tos thaum luag tsis yuav lawm koj mam coj mus tu li ko thiaj yog koj tus xwb tiag txhob tu siab vim txiv neej hmong coob2 yus tsis xaiv ne ces kawg lub ko xwb

Tej zaj kev sib khib ntawm niam hlob niam yau li no ces mloog nkim sijhawm xwb, yog muab lub sijhawm 45 nas this no coj mus ua ces twb tiav ib yam haujlwm dabtsi lawm.

Txhob tu siab koj tsis dig muag...pob tseg tsis lag yeej paub ntsoov nws muaj poj niam koj nyiam nyiam lawv tu txiv ces ua siab ntev....tu txiv neej twg hnav khaub ncaws tuag npoo ai tu no nej thiaj li nyiam....tu hnav khaub ncaws ntsws ntsee tu no yog nraug nrab nej tsis xaiv....nej xav tias lawv tu txiv tuaj txhua txhua hnub ces yog yuav kiag nej yeej txhua yam...kom nej paub tias tu txiv tsev ntse ces luag tsis kam nrauj lawv tu niam tuav cuab nawb...tu txiv ruam luag thiaj li tsis paub tuam lub neej xwb....tu txiv tsev ruam txawm muaj 2 tug niam lo lub neej yeej muaj teeb meem tshaj

Your current husband has never ever talked down on his first wife to you.. he was always honest with you that his first wife is his life, where he is going to die and the place his money is going to be. You allowed yourself to be second, so don’t be sad. Accept it. He wanted you, but his wife is his life!

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I'm confused. Why are you surprised by the way you are being treated? You knew he was married when you opened your door. He was 100% honest with you about being a married man and you still proceeded with him. You gave him the impression that you are satisfied with being 2nd best or last. You are his concubine.

Honestly being their second wife is the worst.

Koj twb paub mob ne lawv tus niam loj mob tshaj koj os poj hmoob aw...

Who says being a 2nd wife is gonna be a breeze n happy happy joy joy life....only desperate ladies like to live in that relationship...u chose that life so live it without regrets n complaints!!!

Qhov nyiaj 500 nws muah ray koj txhais tau Tia's nws muah ntiav koj zoo li koj yog in tug niam ntiav xwb os

Tug kav tug tsis uv,tsam no uv tiag.

Twg kom xav mug ưa niam yau

Tus siab ab tsis nas? Qho mus uas niam yaus ces txawm yog qhov tau tus txiv hmo ntuj xwb mas? Tsis muaj leej twg nyiam los tsuav tau tus txiv xwb?

Txuj kev moog txeeb puab le ces nyav ntxim. Koj twb paub mob sab koj xaj le nrauj koj tug.

Peb muaj ib feem poj niam lub siab yeej phem phem nws tu txiv tham hluas nkauj mas nws khib kawg twb yuav tuag tab sis thaum ua poj nrauj no ces ho mus tham luag tu txiv tsis paub tias yuav mob tu niam loj li....tu neeg zoo li no lub siab yeej phem...nws yog ib tug poj niam nws yeej tsis txawj hlub tu poj niam sab tom li...nws txhob txwm rhuav lwm tu lub neej thiab

Don't feel bad for you. You did all of this to yourself, and hurt another woman in this process.

Txhob tu siab os vim tias txoj kev ua niam hlob niam yau thiab txoj kev mus ua yeeb ua tshuaj ces yus yeej paub tias muaj ib hnub twg txoj kev raug luag ntxub luag thuam yuav tshwm sim los yus yeej rua muag tsu mus tos niaj hnub no peb twb tuaj nyob rau lub teb chaws vam meej lawm los cov txiv neej no pheej tseem yuav niam yau ua ntu zus los vim yog nej cov poj niam pheej qhib lub qhov rooj rau lawv.

Wow... This is America seem like you did it to yourself..but you choose too. wow ib cov hmoob noj quav nyuj laus xwb..

Tsis yog txivneej siab phem, yog pojniam ruam dhau.

meb cab aw luag twb tsis tau noog koj cas koj tseem siv qhia tias koj tsis muaj txiv no na koj mas thiaj yog xav txeeb luag tug tiag2 lau yom koj mas yooj yim tiag2 li o lawv aw koj mas tseem2 poj laib tiag

Nus twb ntse txawj xav kawg cas muam yuav ruam ua luaj!

Ua cas ua niam yau e neeg ni saib tsis taw li o

Kkoj txeeb lawv tus, koj qhuas koj zoo xwb. Qhov xav tau noov twb tau txs Aus lawm ne . . .

You can't be saying "niam loj txeeb txeeb nws" when you are a niam yau!

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Ua tsaug rau tus niam tsev siab zoo uas muab kojblub neej los piav qhia sawvdaw kom paub txog lub neej zoo li cas koj qhia tau zoo kawg yog neeg txawj kaw coj mus ua neej ces yuav pab tau ntau yam tiam sis yog mloog tag es thuam thiab xav tias koj liam tim koj es koj thiaj deserve ces yog tib cov neeg ruam ntsa ntse vim li cas vim tias txhua 2 tus neeg tuaj mloog no sawvdaw xav tias sawvdaw coj zoo tag nrho nim zoo txhua tus tsuas tus ua li no thiaj txhaum cov me viv ncaus muaj txiv nej nim hlub nej tej txiv ua twg nas tsuas lam hais tias hlub tiag2 yeej tsis hlub tsuas yog tom thawj cia li muaj tej no ces sawvdaw cia xav tias tus ua xog tus phem tsis hais pog nraug poj ntsuam yawg nraug yawg ntsuag tib si os . Es thov sawvdaw coj kom zoo saum ua zoo koj cem luag rau qhov phem los koj yeej phem liwm yam nawb mog cos nobody prefect but learn how to respects each other n forgiveness

😭😭😭😭Cas tu siab ua luaj li os lub neej niam yau na

Koj muab yooj yim dhau lawm ne hnub 2 xwb koj xwb muab rau lawv tus txiv ua lawm ne niam yau yeej ntxim ntxhub leej twg hais rau koj tias niam yau ntxim hlub na 😅 you deserve it lady and I don't feel sorry for you

Learned your mistakes lady. Take your time, never rush into a relationship. Why tell a stranger that you dont have a husband? Not smart lady. Either this story is fake or this lady is not smart and desperate 😂

Ab koj yeej paub zoo zoo hais tias ua niam yau zoo li ca lawm koj yeej yeem koj es tu siab ua dab tsi nawj kawg tag li kos lawm xwb

Cas niag pog no yooj yim ua luaj

Here is another woman trying to justify her homewrecking...Shame!

You choose such complicated life. Why you care about the funeral and hmong traditions. These are irrelevant Your happiness shouldn’t be based on traditional life because you choose to be their second.

Koj twb paub tu siab vim li cas koj ho ua lawv niam yau ? Nco ntsoov tias tus txiv tsev zoo hlub niam loj yeej muab tseem qhov nws yuav niam yau vim nws lub siab hlob xwb hos koj yeej paub tias luag tsis tso luag tus niam loj es koj tseem ho mus ua niam yaus ua dab tsi tsis yog koj tsis paub koj yeej paub koj yeej rua muag plias mus yuav thiab tsis tas tawm tuaj hais os muab hais mus hais los zoo li koj khib khib tus txiv xwb yog koj khib npaum li ko koj mus txeeb lawm txiv ua dab tsi txawm koj hais li cas los tsis muaj neeg qhuas koj os

Lej tawm tas, mam paub li, paub li ces lig zog lawm 😢. Txaus tu siab ua luaj-

tus koj hais ntawm koj ces raug kiag kuv ntag

Ua cas koj tus txiv tham2 hluas nkauj koj twb paub mob siab, neej thiaj puas ua cas koj tseem mus txeeb luag tus thiab os poj hmoob siab phem aw. Cov poj niam txeeb luag tus los ua yus tus mas I have no respect rau nws thiab xav nto qaub ncaug rau nws lub niag ntsej muag xwb os. Peb twb yog poj niam ib yam ua cas ho tsis txawj sib thaiv siv pab, es ib leeg tsim ib leeg.

Cas yus tsi mus nrhiav yus tus kheej nawb, it's your fault

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Koj tsis yog niam tsev, yog niam dev xwb. Tsis muaj leej twg yuam zij koj mus yuav luag tus txiv. Koj txeeb luag tus txiv, koj yog poj laib. Koj khua rov mus nyob tim hav zoov, vim tebchaws vammeej meskas tsis muaj cai ua niam yau. Koj yog poj liam siab phem. Lwm ntiav mas koj mam nyob lub txim phem tshaj tiam no.

Good story

Yus muaj yus neej yus tsis tuav mus txeeb luag tus ces nyuam qhuav ntxim

Tus no funny kawg

Tej lus koj coj tuaj tham no mas ntshe koj ho coj tuaj qhia cov nkauj nrab xwb hos dua ntawd mas ntshe kuv tsis hais tawm.

U put yourself in that situation. If u don't like it. Get out. He's not the only man left on earth.

She started when she said she had no husband to a stranger, and letting a STRANGER in your house for no damn reason. Nobody asked if you were married. And she wanna be a victim smdh! Tsis mob koj siab os mob niam loj siab xwb os!

I don't feel sorry for you. That's what you get for stealing someone else's husband.

G yog g paub tab meeg ua, tgaub kgwv nyiaj them nwi nceb $500 1 weeks. Koj mas Liam kawg g nuaj txiv neej ntawm koj nyob ler los

Koj twb tsis nyiam koj tus txiv tham hluas nkauj. Koj tsis txaus siab rau cov nraug nrab tham coob tus hluas nkauj. Tiam sis koj txhob txwm ho mus tham luag cov txiv. Koj yog dab ntxwg nyoog txeeb luag cov txiv, ua rau cov niam tsev mob siab. Koj tseem yuav npam loj ntau ntau tiam.