Nooo I only know her from the "acting like my Hispanic mom" videos. Why do people always have to be weird 😔

Since he asked her to take it down, then she should take it down. Girlfriend or not, he has right not to be used for her content.

About the cop thing- This is a worn out argument but if the genders were reversed there would be no debate about the inappropriateness of this. ESPECIALLY when she got her friends involved and they all sexualized him FOR THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE TO SEE

Let's not sexualise random people regardless of whether they are taken or not.

Angelika is the only way I keep up with TikTok drama

The cop situation gives me an ick. If the roles were reversed, a storm would be brewing. Sexualizing him with your friends saying, get him naked, is a shitty move. Then removing the girlfriend’s comment is a red flag as well. People just don’t respect other's relationships anymore. If the man did that, a war would be happening. The friends are not innocent either. I get it, complementing is a normal thing to do, I would do it too when I see an attractive guy or a pretty girl, I wouldn’t go to the extent that don’t see through walls to get a chance to become a pick-me or self-centred. Personally, I’m not a pick-me or self-centred, I complement to make people happy and love themselves. If he was single, that would be a totally different story. Why broadcast and post on TikTok, it makes it more ideal that she is a pick-me trying to use her “pretty privileges” to gain something she wants for her gain without seeing the other party and not realizing she can’t have everything. I would ask, if he’s single or not, that is the easiest thing to do, asking questions is not hard. Self-respect is gone, totally gone. I feel bad for his girlfriend and blaming her for no reason, people are so stupid. I’m on the girlfriend's side on this one. I don’t why people embarrass themselves for a few views and likes that won’t matter in the future. Consent is not a thing to take lightly, if he says no to posting on TikTok, it’s a no and don’t post it. Two sided consent should still be in place even if it’s a humble cute video. Sorry for the grammar and the paragraph. People don't understand boundaries, do not accept people who are in a relationship and got to the extent of being a third wheel and being so self-centred, or a pick me.

Kinda off topic but her laughing in that one tik tok with her friend is legit so annoying😂😂😂

As a mom of young ones…your idea of writing a letter for every birthday is amazing…I wish I had thought of that sooner! I will definitely be doing that! ❤

Hey Angelika just a heads up: it seems as though you were intending to keep the child's name private at 1:14 as you blurred out the audio of you saying it, but it's not blacked out of the screenshot you put up so people can still see it. Idk if there's anything to be done about that post-upload but just throwing it out there in case you weren't aware.

Can we just talk about how creepy the way she was sexualizing the cop was?? If the roles were reversed the man would be absolutely called out. Just because she’s a woman doesn’t make it ok. The whole “she should be happy people think he boyfriend is hot” is so gross 🤢

Unfortunately, if sign a birthday card or write a loving message privately, and give it directly to your child (without the layover into social media with a click of the camera first) no one will be around to congratulate you for doing this. It begs the age old adage “if a tree falls in the forest and no one posts a pic of it online for likes, has it ever happened”.

The cop is definitely hot AF but was clearly just playing along. He gave her respect and she needs to return it. I'm sure he had no idea what the video would do to his life.

7:10 the unhinged hysterical laughter is a bit much, it's not THAT funny. Thinks a lot of herself, doesn't she? 🙄

Hey you censored the name of the child in your speech but the kids name is still on display on the post you read.

Kat is giving mean girl energy in every clip of her I see!

also to be noted, she's best friends with Jacquelyn Hill. I unfollowed when I learned that.

the instagram post for the kids Bday gives me the same vibes as my dad posting pictures of us on his facebook about gifts he gave us/ trips he took us on when me and my siblings were kids. (he always forgot the mention that the gifts/ trips were his way of bribing us after he got angry or got in a fight with our mom) Not saying she's a horrible mom but these kinds of long 'love letters' to kids always remind me of it. It's feels very fake somehow.

I’m late to this but Kat lives in Tampa where I live. She is known to make deals with local places to make content that she passes off as candid and relatable. For example she went to Amalie arena, paid them thousands to be put on the jumbo screen “kiss cam” during a huge hockey game, purposefully timed it so she was taking a bite of a hot dog, and used it as a way to show off her new boyfriend and how goofy and relatable she is. All of this she passed off as “candid”. She goes to local hair, nails, lashes and other beauty industry places expecting free services all because she has a large following. Many people I know refuse to take her as a client because of this. Her house was given to her half off because she portrayed that she was a struggling single mom when she’s been bankrolled by her family her whole life and everyone knows it. She drags her babies father through the mud when they have always had 50/50 custody and he shows up for her. She’s a grifter and is hated by her own city.

no cuz i loved her videos of like "acting like my hispanic mom" or "we're influencers, of course we __" type stuff. i cant be surprised because shes an influencer and i dont know her but like damn

all that over a cop 🤮

It's not enforced (arrest), but in some US states infidelity is illegal. That mean technically, NDA won't apply (since they can't be used to silence victims).⚖

I simply could not associate with someone who’s a “public figure” and have open socials. It’s obviously not their fault that people go and attack them, that’s a larger issue with people dogpiling strangers without evidence of wrongdoing, I simply just wouldn’t be able to handle that.

Kat is definitely coming across as a pick me girl 😬

Girl talk about the youthforia foundation scandal !!

It actually bothers me when people say “your child is so and so age, they don’t have social media and can’t read this post” and then turn around and will say stuff like “ew why would you post a barely clothed picture or video? Your child is gonna see this” it’s like wtf??? I can’t post positive things about my child because they won’t see it but I also shouldn’t post risqué pictures because my child WILL see it! It’s insane.

3:40 such a classy response! she seems like a good woman

Can I just say thank you so much for the idea of writing birthday posts down in letters and stuff for your kids to read when they are older! I used to post then every year but recently took a break from social media and am now looking at writing my current posts and future ones in a high quality notebook for the kids to read on like there 18th birthday. Thank you ❤

Not eevvveerrryyyoonneee glazing over how disrespectful cUrTis was too his girlfriend in this.

Haven’t even started this video but I just get so annoyed when I see her online I’m SO happy you’re making this

I mean, the cop thing was a cute video. However, did she ask him if she could post it? Did he know the context it would be posted with? The girlfriend Curtis is coming off insecure though…

I’d be more upset at my man for making a tiktok swooning over another woman ….

I had seen that cop video and didn't know any of the back story and just assumed that the video was Kat hard launching her dating a cop...so yeah I think that is really disrespectful and if asked she should have taken the videos down. I find her normal content entertaining especially the stuff with her mom, but I remember awhile ago I saw her post a video just absolutely breaking down and sobbing because her toddler daughter couldn't come to her birthday dinner b/c it fell on Halloween and her ex husband had custody that day. It just seemed really odd to me, she framed it as "I'm showing you the reality of co parenting" but it seemed way more like a guilt trip towards her ex who knows about her social media and a grab for attention and validation from the public. I've definitely gotten a bad vibe from her and hearing more about this drama just confirms it for me. It's too bad b/c she does seem really funny and entertaining and she definitely was wronged if her ex cheated, but her actions are overall just immature and not really defendable...

I’ve been following you for years since highschool so like 5 years xD I love ya Angelica thank you for continuing to post about tiktok I had to get rid of the app for my own mental health but still loving the drama thank you!! 😊

One thing I learnt when my Dad passed away was that I didn’t have enough photos of him. I had no photos of me and him at all and honestly, it broke me even more than I already was. So ever since then I take so so so so many photos of my kids, of me and them, of our life and I post them absolutely EVERYWHERE! Granted my socials are private and only the people who I allow to see them sees them, BUT I would NEVER shame someone for posting messages for their kids or anyone else on socials even if you think they can’t see it or read it. One day they will and they’ll see just how long your mum/dad has loved you unconditionally for. Keep on posting your birthday messages. Keep on posting your videos and photos. Take as many as you can and save them everywhere you can because one day, there all you or they will have left. ❤

This is so ridiculously petty.

I think it’s a little weird the gf is like having such a fit about that tik tok but I also think that if Kat was asked to take it down, she should’ve

Shes a successful influencer and these are the worst things shes done? I dont know if i should laugh or be concerned that you expect moms to have near perfect social behavior

i had almost forgotten about her. know i used to follow her but haven't seen her on my fyp in ages. easily in over a year

all i remember is this girl getting a nose job right before her best friend's wedding

Girl I love when you post I've been binging watching you like crazy I'm like a year deep now 😂💜

Honestly everyone in this "drama" is at fault let’s be honest her ex husband current partner was anonymous nobody knew about her why would she comment a literal essay about it online now people will attack her, the cop should’ve refused to film a TikTok he’s in a relationship like it’s not new to him and he should’ve just said no from the beginning stop blaming kat and blame him I don’t how people just overlooked that he had the option to refuse but he didn’t he has absolutely no rights to be upset about it and his girlfriend should’ve went to him too not kat because he obviously wanted to be in that video giving her that reaction but kat reaction was childish she should’ve just taken the video down I get it was her most viral video but just take it down. Anyways they’re all at fault the ex husband partner, the cop and his girlfriend and kat herself obviously they’re all weird and petty.

6:48 the one in the ponytail is reminding me of me when I tried to get the popular girls to like me, and Kat is laughing like the popular girls used to- FAKE.

That is not "pick me" behaviour tho?

I’m sorry but how did the cop not know he was being filmed for what was clearly a TikTok? He’s reacting perfectly exactly to what she wants. The camera has to only be a couple feet away because no one‘s leaving their phone 5 feet away in New York where it could be snatched on a tripod. He knew. Whether she asked first or not he knew. He knew she was filming and he knew he’d be in it since she literally was using him like a prop. He should’ve asked her not to post it

i love that idea of the letters for them !!!

Her shorts were chronically recommended to me and she always had an insufferable and passive aggressive vibe to her and her videos, I actively had to avoid them and block them

The child and ex husband problem seems more serious than the cop drama. How many videos of hot men on streets posted by women do you see on tiktok? Aaall the time. "oh i went to X country for the architecture" and then the architecture in question are all the hot men they found just walking and minding their own business. The girlfriend was jealous the cop boyfriend was a willing participant in that thirst video and made it a bigger deal than it was. Everyone would talk about the video for a day or so and then move on to her next "acting like my Hispanic mum" video, but they didn't because of the drama

Some of those things are definitely icky and I generally don't get why influencers have to exploit their personal life on social media - but then again, I think I'm also not American and maybe that plays into it too. It's just a lot of very open talk about a failed marriage - Swiss people would never😂 BUT apart from that I think that she's genuinely funny and her Hispanic Mum skits are really witty and not in that dumb TikTok way you usually find. Let's just say that she should probably stick to comedy😅

This whole thing is so unserious lol

Icl I really don’t think it’s as deep as people are making it out to be

I use to watch her and thought she was funny but saw her do a tik tok with jaclyn hill once and instantly unsubscribed, the company you keep is telling

She is kinda old. And yet so immature. Sad. Guys should absolutely avoid this kind of woman because you can tell from what she does and posts that she is absolutely toxic. Good luck to her kid with a mom like that!

She drives me nuts. She has given me the absolute creeps and i’m thrilled I am not alone. 😭😭

Hey, do you think you will be covering the recent skincare/makeup community drama too? The youth foria foundation shade range and black foundation, the derm that keeps getting called out for and doubling down on misinfomation about glycolic acid being degraded by water and tretinoin by room lighting.

Begging the horse girlie to cover the tiktok horse drama form a bit ago

In regards to partners, no one belongs to anyone else, everyone is entitled to function like normal human beings. In terms of respect, I don't think the first video from New Years Eve was disrespectful in any way to the girlfriend. I am ASSUMING she got permission from the officer to film his face and said that she would be posting online and that she has a large following. If not, I don't know the legality of filming someone that directly without consent but he probably would, he's a cop. In terms of sexualizing him, I really don't think she is to any extreme degree. He's a good looking man, she thought she'd make a funny video out of it. I think if the genders were reversed and a man did this to a good looking female, we might role our eyes but the interested party is literally just walking up to and past the person they think is attractive while implying so. I don't think it's upsetting if a man did this either. That being said, it's weird the girlfriend was upset by it. It's literally nothing. But that's the video alone. I can only imagine how uncomfortable it would be for everyone to find you and your boyfriend and be sent swarms of hate or love or DM's or whatever else that you didn't ask for. That's definitely not pleasant and I think the girlfriend and the cop had every right to ask for the video to be taken down for that reason, or the face of the cop of be blurred. But I think Kat would have had to have been asked a little differently, or of course threatened with legal action if any was possible...incentivizing harassment perhaps? As for the second video, I don't think calling him "my NY cop" is also not that deep. One- because at the time of posting that, she might not have seen the girlfriend's posts yet, and two- because as I said, he doesn't belong to anyone, and no one is threatening the girlfriend's claims to his affection if he's loyal. I could see the phrase as "my fantasy" which is not even about the cop, it's the idea Kat created of a caricature of the stranger. But the friend going on and on and on disrespecting HER partner and ogling a stranger is more than a little uncomfortable. TL:dr, Kat could take the videos take to be a nice person, but I'm sure she's making so much money from it and I think the cop would have to take legal action, and the terrible wife is the real guilty party in all of this.

Clicked as soon as I got the notification ❤❤

I have been waiting for this to happen, I used to enjoy her “Acting like my Hispanic mother” videos but then she became weird and annoying. Especially her “I like this little life!!!” Videos even her mom looked like she was annoyed by her doing that

New sub here and I just had to comment. I love the library! 🎉

Noooo I’m so sad she seemed so sweet and amazing .. she went through a lot . Why does everyone all of a sudden have to do something weird 😢

Im sorry, but why would the girlfriend comment??? If Cat didnt tag her no one would even know who she was. Now if someone wants to attack her online they don't have to do any digging to find who "the new girl" is, they can just find her in the comments... not the best move

“Maybe, just, put it in a letter” is the thought all of us have after those post lmao

Kat laughing like that as she helps destroy her friends marriage is the nail for me

oh i remember her i never watched her or follow her but that video of the cop is such an icky thing to do especially after he asked her to take it down and she refused this should be a crime no one want to be filmed without their consent and posted to millions of people sexualizing them It seems like it caused problems with his romantic relationships too! ickyyyy

Omg I actually love that letter idea. Im going to steal it for my girl 😅❤

I agree....why do parents post messages on social media to their kids that don't read? 😆

wait oh my god ive been wondering about her after the series with john and Alex - i think she’s fine really??? that cop video WAS A MOMENT & he knew what he was doing lol Kat looked hot, his girlfriend sounds annoying and possessive tbh… its really fake Kat posts about her exes new girlfriend but like EVERYONE DOES? That gf outed herself on Kats post, dont tell me she doesnt feeds into Kat’s social media presence. This influencer is clearly in a place of deep hurt, BUT isnt that her whole type of humor? Isnt that why we follow her 🙄 no high energy person on the internet is really THAT normal 😮 fr they all kinda toxic on this one, everybody wants their froot moment

I don’t use that tik tok anymore but I saw that police video reposted somewhere and thought it gave such pick me energy

Off topic but your skin looks amazing ✨✨

I used to think she was funny but recently my gut told me something was off with her, guess this is why. Smh

God I hate TIktok drama.

My name is Christine and it’s wild to hear it said that many times

Lmao we do know where social media will be, my mom has Facebook posts that are 15 years old, and pictures of all her kids on there too, we lost our photo albums, and everything else we owned due to becoming displaced and losing our home and everything in it to the bank 😂. I think a social media post would be harder to lose than a piece of paper. Not that I agree with what the lady is doing but, saying that a social media post can be displaced so we should write letters is kind wild, a letter is more likely to get lost. 😂

babe woke up Angelika posted

Now I'm going to write letters to my little she can open when she's older. That's the sweetest idea 😮

Oh shite I had no idea she was even problematic 😮

Damn. I liked her. Never knew she was this problematic.

i only saw the second video on ig i think and i thought it was funny cause i fully believed that they were a thing, since to me it was obvious that you shouldnt publicly post talking about a literal stranger that youve barely interacted with like that and with no consent. insane now to find out that not only are they not a thing at all, only had this one interaction and she was even asked to take the first video down, yet this is how she reacts? girlfriend or no girlfriend, it is still insane to publicize you talking about someone like that when you dont know eachother. sexual harrassment is what it is and im tired of women who think its fine to do it to a man. how can we stop men from harrassing us if some of us act like that?

She rubbed me the wrong way how she makes fun of her mom. I thought it was cute at first but then it felt kinda mean. Also I never considered the cop could have a girlfriend that's crazy!!!! She probably ruined their relationship...

The focusing of the camera was making it so hard to watch with my sensitive eyes 😩 the books would go clear then blurry the whole time. Other than that, I don’t follow drama or have any other social media anymore for about a year now, but have came across that girls shorts (including the ones shown in this video) and I thought I was the only one who got a bad vibe off her. Her comments are obsessed with her.

Those friends are also incredibly annoying influencers.

If according to the cop’s gf, he was told how to act prior to filming and then did as instructed, it seems like he agreed to the whole setup and agreed to be filmed. He should have thought about how it would make his girlfriend feel before he went along with it. If anyone is to blame, it’s him. Now that it’s on the internet, it’s never going away, especially now that this silly drama has erupted. I sort of feel bad for the girlfriend, but the back and forth drama only made the stupid TikTok even more viral.

Tbf if I was a content creator I wouldn’t want to delete my viral video 😅 but other than that she definitely shouldn’t have pushed it with the 2nd video especially with the “my nyc cop” knowing that he has a gf. It is extremely disrespectful.

Where's your dog, what did you do to her, show her, is she really alive?😘😂

Just commenting for the algorithm 🧡

I had no idea all of this had happened, as soon as her and her husband posted about their divorce I blocked her. Her content started changing really quickly and I just didn’t like the way she was acting and talking in front of her daughter. She seems super bitter and immature.

Woooooooowwwww!!! I’m so sad to see this about her. I didn’t know any of this and it just makes me disappointed. Time to unfollow her unfortunately. Especially because of the cop thing. She disrespected him by not taking it down when asked as well as his girlfriend. What a horrible influence on how to be a girls girl and also how to treat people. He’s not a piece of meat. He’s a human and deserves to be treated with respect.

I feel like I first started seeing her content because she was the girl whose husband wouldn’t get her anything for Christmas? Is that her? I remember people telling her to leave him and her blowing up after that. People felt bad for her. Now she 100% gives pick me and mean girl energy.

oh no is she bad now? :( ((just starting the video lol)) i followed her during her divorce drama bc she was so sweet w her babies

the YOUTH, Angelika don't be like that, you are my source to the youth, I learn the lingo from you 🤣

1:19 might want to blur the text on the screen as well here

The whole cop thing is old, but it does highlight how rude she is. She uses him for content and ignores his GF request. I can see why her husband didn't want her anymore. She doesn't respect boundaries

She is insufferable.

Idk, I agree she’s not a good person but he agreed and acted how he did in the video. So tbh he’s at fault too

Man… I actually really liked her videos too.. I hadn’t seen anything problematic till now. that stinks..

She’s in Reese Witherspoon’s Sunshine Collective so she’s fine probably 😂

seated

No way this girl too!??? No one is safe out here lol 🙌🙏🏼

I like the videos she makes impersonating her mother! I think she has a great sense of humor and a pretty good head on her shoulder:)

So, her 4-year-old can actually read that ridiculous SOCIAL MEDIA POST? My kids were good readers, but I'm pretty sure not a single one of them would have been able to read that SOCIAL MEDIA POST at the age of 4. Why not put that in a card that can be put away in a baby book for him to see when he's older? Oh, wait a minute... If she hadn't done this SOCIAL MEDIA POST, she wouldn't have been paid. Silly me, I forgot that we don't do things for our children simply because we love them anymore... We do them to get paid. *** You were literally making this suggestion as I was typing this, good minds think alike. ♥️