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When I was younger I thought being a feminist meant being aggressive and strong, to prove I'm just as good as a man in all things, but I created this toxic masculinity within myself and am now relearning how to celebrate and love the feminine parts of who I am... Because it turns out I too believed that soft, delicate things were weak and therefore innately bad... That being feminine was to be a victim. It's hard work to unlearn these ideas. Thanks for the video, it really resonated with me.

‘’Beware people who talk in absolutes: all women, all men, no women, no men, everyone, everything, nothing, no-one. It is the greatest indication to an immature level of consciousness, which hasn’t integrated that which they are judging or attacking inside of themselves.’’ 19:22 Appreciate the nuance and maturity you speak with🙏🏼🌲

I just found your channel today and been binge watching your videos ever since. As someone who recently started their “spiritual journey” (such a cliche thing to say), I found your videos so informative and wanted to thank you for creating these well-thought and well-structured content. Compared to other channels who are doing videos on these topics (either too empty so feels like there’s no credibility or too video essay-ish and feels boring) yours are in the happy medium because I feel like I learn a lot yet it still feels personal. I hope you’re well, sending you hugs! ☺

Wow I’ve studied Carl Jung & others for roughly 6 months. I can see within a few mins you are far ahead.

This is so beautifully psychological, philosophical, & spiritual all at once. I guess in a way that’s the most accurate way of perceiving ourselves. This is high level material that I feel only someone who has been searching and doing a lot of inner work can truly appreciate and resonate with . Thank you for sharing this. New subscriber!

the way you speak is so eloquent, the message really got across to me. thank you

I just wanted to say that your calm yet firm and deep voice was very soothing to listen to. And thank you for the much needed message. :)

You are such a gift to humanity. Much love and gratitude 🎉❤

Hey man I just wanted to say I appreciate your videos. Recently found them but I'm really vibing. I've studied much of the same material (I'm an integrative depth therapist and meditation teacher) and just wanted to say it's great to come across other similar minded people on KZfaq and it seems like a lot of people are benefiting from your videos. Keep up the good work.

Learn how to be whom we are chasing! I agree! My mother married 5 times,so consequently of course I would be attracted to men who are emotionally unavailable . I began to realized I needed to have a relationship with myself first.I very much agree that we need to become what we want to attract without loosing our feminine essence if we are a woman. Integrating masculine traits can be empowering and useful to our survival. I love it when a man is helpful and I also love to help,I don't feel less a woman.I want to embrace all my strengths and vulnerabilities they are both our teachers. Yes I can experience masculine energy without loosing my feminine. I love your reminders.I hope I understood you correctly, thankyou for reaching out to us! I have not looked at all your videos, just begun to view.

What are the ideal traits of your partner expected: Women’s perspective: Mission driven Strong Decisive Speaks the truth Family man/father Clear minded Perception Other superficial features - finance, athletic Men’s perspective: Softness Care taking Nurturing with Delightfulness Sexiness Fluidity/flow Motherhood-feminine mystery Shadow traits/ dark shadow traits. Confronting:Which toxic trait you are attracted? Women’s perspective: Cold mechanistic man/ruthless/calculating-disgusting/repulsive but get bonded as somehow confused to believe security. Men’s perspective: Emotionally turbulent - moody, chaotic- captivating, mysterious.

Dude, finally a smart, uniting and understanding voice in the internet! I guess there is hope for humanity

I once had an indescribable dream that featured what I've interpreted as my anima. The parts I can describe is that she was a crystalline goddess; when I check the note of it I made I also noted 'player character' which is very interesting. Also what may be a very important detail is that she didn't have a face.

Great work to help people become aware of the damage projection of inner conflict onto others can do. I've struggled with this for 30 years - even with Homer's Oddysea constantly on my consciousness. I even did a music video with my wife that shows the struggle to wake up - The Trail of Moonlight.

Recently found your channel and your teachings through my binge thus far have been amazing! Super helpful, well structured and practical. Thank you much!

Ooooh, this is a good one! Again, the way you explain it makes it easy to understand. It’s made my head spin but in a good way ❤

Thank you, Jordan!

Loved this video. Been working on stepping into my feminine over the past year as I was very stuck in my male (as a woman). I have experienced how not intgrating our own masculine and feminine energies ripples out into attraction and relationships so deeply, and can cause a lot of pain and confusion. Very important message so thank you 🙏

"But, he won't be everything you're after in terms of that ideal..." It's tragic how so many people have trouble finding and developing healthy romantic relationships. With the right expectations, there's little reason people should be single if they don't want to be. Access to the Internet has given us more reach in finding a partner but less ability to discern the right one. It's become an online shopping experience where people try to "order" the perfect lover(s). They are ultimately disappointed, frustrated, and disheartened when they realize that everyone has flaws and will change over time. The idealization you spoke of is, in large part, the source of their misery. Thanks for another fantastic video! The exercises are super helpful.

Thank you for so eloquently explaining the anima and animus theory - the most clear and resonating explanation I've ever heard. I can very much relate to the pull towards the dark masculine persona and I want to understand more. So glad to find your talks! The path to healing our core wounds can feel isolating and difficult yet important, necessary and beautiful. I would love to hear you share your top books to help us understand the integration of the animus. Looking forward to watching your videos.

Wonderful content, I am listening to this over and over, absorbing ever morsel to create a better future for the world around me. Being in my 3rd marriage with plans of forever in our timeline. Proud to have you as a teacher💛🕯️

You have a amazing smile and voice A true healer

You have such amazing content! I am so glad I came across your channel, thanks to the KZfaq algorithm. You have a new subscriber! Your voice is very soothing, not gonna lie, that helps too.

I am very glad to have found your channel, thank you. For me as a man i think it took a while to understand that to integrate my anima doesn't take away from my masculinity but instead it enhances it. It is interesting to me that my ideal woman and ideal man, while being diffrent in specific areas, are for the most part very similar. I guess that is the idea that while being in a dualistic relationship each pearson is mostly a integrated being (to be fully with oneself). The Shadow-exercise toppels that whole idyllic idealism over, because those conflicted attraction points cropped up, for example while the ideal for me is for the partner to help me to acualize myself to the most of my capacity, the shadow-interest is to be extremely dependant on one another, kind of to do everything for each other instead of helping the other person to achieve it. I am also interested to know if you have any thoughts and experiences on the animal soul? I think Jung also called it the bush soul. For me it seems very interconnected with the anima as in so far that it also provides the drives for us to take action in the world, but it seems also more archaic and as such more visceral and raw.

I found your channel recently and not to take away from what you're doing (which I like and appreciate nonetheless), but I like to put a video on before bed because your voice is so incredibly soothing and beautiful!!!

Thank you for guiding people to confront these deep topics. I have still a lot to heal in my relationship dynamics or anima and animus. I am in a relationship since summer 2021 with a dad of 3 kids. The relationship I commit feels like meaningful soul connection but I have had a lot moments when I think its not safe and I wanna run a way. My biggest trigger is the mother of his youngest daughter who and his daughter that i never met to this day. It creates in my opinion a double reality when I never meet his ex and the child. I do wanna just trust its for the best as his other ex, mother of other 2 kids says it for the best too. I have very good healthy relationship with the 1st mother. I love his 2 daughters I know very much and this for me is always reason to stay even things get hard. Indeed its very confrontial question to think what is the toxicity I am attracted to? Maybe I am toxic too in some ways I cant see. Chaotic a bit maybe as I am always doing 💯 a day and multitasking a lot also as being mother and freelancer a lot. So back to what toxic traits I am attracted to. It must be addicted kind of man. He has alcohol issues for sure drinking a lot beer every day. Yesterday we were about to enter a local village pub and the pub owner denied his access just because he had not paid 6 euro beer last time. I was a bit wondering why he always ends up upsetting people and testing everyones boundaries. He has really strong personality for sure so he always gets noticed. I was very proud of him when he stop all alcohol for 8 weeks last summer. He is addictive in other ways too watching p*. I have secure attachment style. Sometimes I wish I just had a normal guy who with I can plan things well. Still I am very attracted to this man and he can be very sexy and romantic that i like. Lets see how this will continue. I for sure try to draw healthy boundaries with him and usually focus on good qualities he has. I did wrote 2020 a big dream day text to be fully aware what kind of partner I wanna have. There is a lot missing still from that ideal and I wonder at times if its ever possible for me. My dream guy goes pilgrim with me and I see myself also trekking with him somewhere in Lapland or spending time in Finland more with him as I have a beautiful summer cottage in Finland by the lake. This guy I have for real never wanna leave his village. We do walk around the countryside luckily but he is not wanting to travel unless its some all inclusive luxury resort. I do like packpacking and low budget travels. There is a lot differences. Lets see if we go surfing next summer. I already tested his surfer outfit that fit also to me. I know its a bad habit of mine to always see potential, what can be. My girlfriends usually advice me to focus what actually is currently happening and value things based on true actions a man takes towards me. My guy contacts me every day which is good. I always know he is in his work or in his house with his dog which is nice compared to my cheating travelling ex partner i used to have. I do understand life is not perfect and nobody is perfect.

Good thoughtful advice in an unstructured age. Thank you.

I enjoyed very much this video! Thank you for your work and helping us to reflect into the being of woman/man through the exercises proposed

Thank you for this one ❤

Very intelligent man... I'm going to have to watch this again... My ears are dancing with this new information for them, my mind wants to pretend I didn't hear you and my soul is saying this is good information for you.... I'm not as far on in my recovery/awakening as I thought infact back to the drawing board... I'll be back 😊 thank you

Gratitude Jordan. 🙏🙏🙏

Excellent content, love it. Thank you for sharing

A soul connection is a resonance between two people who respond to the essential beauty of each other's individual natures, behind their facades, and who connect on this deeper level. This kind of mutual recognition provides the catalyst for a potent alchemy. It is a sacred alliance whose purpose is to help both partners discover and realize their deepest potentials. While a heart connection lets us appreciate those we love just as they are, a soul connection opens up a further dimension -- seeing and loving them for who they could be, and for who we could become under their influence. This means recognizing that we both have an important part to play in helping each other become more fully who we are....A soul connection not only inspires us to expand, but also forces us to confront whatever stands in the way of that expansion.

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Thank you 💜 I think you may have touched upon the topic of limerent relationships? This concept all defined by a word now may have always been in my awareness I didn’t know how to define it. These attributes i bring to relationships the healthy and unhealthy have brought a new level of awareness to me today through this knowledge. I am very grateful for you sharing your insight 🙏

Thank You 💕😊

What I find to be interesting within those extreme movements when it comes to the "ideal" man and woman is that it often comes with this notion of "there's only this one way to embody masculinity and/or femininity", while in my personal experience and observation there are quite unique natural balances to be found within the individual. I don't mean the gender distortion and denial ideologies which often seem to be born in trauma loops and self-repression. Though in my observation there are men who in their essence are more naturally receptive and women who in their essence are more so emanating yang energy, which doesnt make them less of a man or a woman either. I feel it often cultivates a lot of internal tension and stress and ultimately an acidic environment when the unique composition of a being is or feels forced to adapt to these quite fixed ideals of what masculinity or femininity is "supposed to be." I find it beautiful when we contribute more towards these elements within us going into cooperation, instead of feeding the split, though in order to do that I feel it can be helpful to stop holding one another in these frames of what is "ideal" or "how a man and woman has to be," otherwise there's no truthful meeting in the key and only battles of molding one another so to say. I'm thankful for your videos, as they help me with integration and I feel them to be quite empowering.❤ On a more personal note, as a man, I find it interesting that in my case I often relate more so to themes that adress the feminine, when it comes to relationships in the past I often attracted more so emotionally unavailable women who had a hard time opening up and talking about their feelings and were quite disconnected from their bodies, they also embodied some masculine traits that I had abandoned/never learned to integrate myself I would say. What is your observation when it comes to this theme playing out for men? In relation to what I talked about before I wonder if all this "having to become more like this or that" can sometimes even be in the way of just embodying our nature and the unique energy composition we are in within this human form? When I tap into the moments of feeling the most "whole", then there hasn't been any judgments of "too masculine" or "too feminine", neither within myself nor in my surroundings and more so an acceptance of the present nature. I'd be curious about your perception regarding this. Thank you for what you're doing, very inspiring!

I really love your videos, and even though you said you didn't cover all the topics, which I appereciate as a watcher, still the things you didn't mention which are important about us women, are the intelligence and sharpness we share, and also the emotional intelligence we have. Sharpness is not a masculine trait, it's a human trait, that both men and women have. So does intelligence, even if feminine intelligence is expressed differently, maybe as a softer, more yielding one, like water. A lot of women don't go to the more nurturing job position, because it's not their passion, but ARE more nurturing in their approach, their relationships and their romantic relationship, maybe even unintentionally. And perhaps it's expressed through their motherhood.

I would appreciate it if you talked more about this topic and especially about the animus. Sometimes I feel so lost in this world and I would love to have a strong, masculine, deep man. I want to devote myself to a man like this. Meanwhile I am becoming the most masculine man I know. I have such an intense longing to be able to fully embody my feminine side. Grateful for your insightful and kind videos, thank you for your work.

Amazing video. Thank you 🙏

Beautiful video ✨

Thanks for making this man! Keep being you. - Felix

Amazing video. It’s more difficult to find videos on Animus integration than Anima so thank you for this exploration on the feminine psyche as well.

Very well done, thank you Jordan! Greetings from Italy

We NEED more videos on this specific topic

I know this is a serious subject but man I need to tell you. Your eyes are absolutely spectacular. 🤩

Wonderful teachings, thank you! “My church offers no absolutes” 🙏

Found you today, new subscriber and thank you for explaining it this wonderfully

If the consciousness get higher the old programs automatically get erased this is what i have noticed but i still have serious inner work when it comes to relationships I’m an avoidant mixed with an anxious vibes😞

I always love the videos here. As illuminating as this was, it has me wondering as a member of the LGBT(the G part), should I be developing my masculine or feminine? Guess some self reflection is needed. Any opinions?

Great video, your exercises are really interesting. My Anima was the character I found the most during active imagination. She had skin and hair white as snow, purple vivid eyes, a very delicate and angelically beautiful appearance, and a mail armor with a valkyrie like helmet. She appeared, at the first time, at a snowy place in the middle of the night below the moon. And we would always talk about our Dreams when we met... We both have Dreams, true grear goals that are as valuable as out lifes, and we both chase it with all the strenght of our wills, but our take on that is a little different. Her take is more emotional, her emotional connection with her Dream is ever bigger than mine, and this can bring an even stronger sentiment of hope, but, at the same time, can turn into obsession more easly. Those active imaginations were always deeply interesting.

Loved this. May we unite the Edward Cullens and Jacob Black in all of us. Here's a little poem of mine that this video vaguely reminded me of- "Officially A Fucking Tree Hugger :)" I'm in withdrawal from being close To your body -The healing effect Of a calm earthen presence Still. Strong. Stable. I find a hiding place in the park And bury myself in the roots, crying Aching for you Aching for the tree to hold me back Purging this pain into the silence Tears hot against my face Ear pressed against the trunk Listening Closely Yearning so much for it. Softening. Soundless. Safety.

Love your voice!

Your very interesting and have a calm and sweet voice Love from another growing KZfaqr 🌺🌼

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I love revelation you make which is the person are seeking in the opposite sex is ideally what you need to work on in yourself. Regarding the emotionally turbulent woman, there will be phases in life where challenges can make people moody, but isn't that part of life and natural? As a partner, yes it can take some energy and time from you as you help, but isn't showing up during the ups and "downs' also important? Maybe the other learning here could be, how do you maintain your energy levels around people regardless of who they are.

“Integration is the liberation from compulsion” Wow

Thanks for this, really eye opening material. I would like to elaborate on a few things but alas I feel I don’t to put it out there so to speak Not a canvas I wish to share!

like it, thank you 🙂

Listening to your videos while playing Dying Light, pretty fun .

Very good information. Well done. Thank you. ✨

Light bulb! Thank you!!!!

When you started listing quality's a person is looking for in a partner, my first thoughts were someone I can be goofy, relaxed, play with, but also someone that can hold space for my big emotions and stay when I'm not perfect (abandonmentis my biggest truama), Someone consistent and holds their word. So if i understand correctly, those are the parts of me I need to imbrace? Fully allow myself to be goofy, playful and hold space for my deep emotions? Stay with myself through my mistakes (stop self abandonment) And start seeing where I'm being inconsistent in my own life and not keeping my word with myself? And through this it will help me incorporate my masculine and feminine energy?

@Jordan Thornton thank you so much for answering my question. This is so far the best explanation of the Anima/Animus within, especially 07:48 was my aha moment. A lifelong search for the ideal partner, repetitive disappointments of 'different person-same object', projecting animus to the new person we seem to be so infatuated in the early stages, finally turning inwards and finding the holy grail within. This is the point I am currently in which comes with isolation and awareness of the dark side I want to work on and integrate. Amazing insight, much appreciated! Follow up question if you have the time: I feel like I am quite feminine when it comes to appearance but very masculine in competitiveness, knowledge, success, where to start to have a less rigid and more fluid state, mind and attitute?

☯Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it 'fate'" - Jung "Until we make that unconscious territory truly illuminated, we will fall into the same patterns, over and over and over, again." - Thornton I live by this notion. Well put Jordan. Thank you for your service, it is immeasurably invaluable. 🕊

That's interesting!! The point about our attraction. I've always been attracted to the "nice", nerdy, loner type. But was mostly groomed and abused by pseudo-nice guys and covert narcs. Lol like my mother. And because of women like her, I've struggled with my own femininity and trusting it. Outward looking in noone would tell, but my sense of "letting go", receiving, rest, etc. has been work. Strange thing is, my dad was a powerlifter but sooo not the dude-bro type. More-so charming, gentle, child-like soul who wanted to be a girl dad😂. Just fell for the wrong human, who so happened to birth me. I notice I really Love these kinds of guys. I just had to discern the real from the fake.

My question: Rising the quality of my consciousness is slowly helping my healing and understanding, however, I found myself unable to function well on a surface level with people. It feels like I can xRay them and find myself unwilling to interact because I can sense them as troublesome. I live by misunderstood & disconnected from the common daily realities. I also struggle to keep myself together. like the “Can't Help Myself” by Sun Yuan & Peng Yu hydraulic machine. How to prevent Nihilism and enjoy simple routine daily interactions if no joy is nowhere to be found. can a human live as a lone wolf forever?

Awesome video! Thanks for making this information relevant and practical. I tried reading some of Carl Jung's work on Anima/Animus some months ago and found it convoluted. I think you captured the essentials well without being overly reductionist. How do you prepare your videos? Do you script ideas first? Or does it flow naturally. I tried doing a video this week but I had too many interruptions to my flow. I ended up deleting it

im not in the fith dimension anymore and i dont know why i suddenly cant feel anything anymore

I liked when u talked about the guys being seduced by pornography, led astray, your energy leaking out to something that isn’t real

is it possible that i my soul made me forget things (trauma activating moments) to save myself?

Everytime I find myself unhappy or unbalanced I look inward and try to make sure that I am being good to myself as well as being honest with myself. I care so deeply to be self aware and as good to others as I want I hope to be treated. The more I do this however, I feel like I may be with the wrong partner. We have a blended family and we’ve been through so much together however there has been many times where I don’t like how I feel about myself when I’m with him. Sometimes he can be my favorite person, and other times he makes me feel horrible about myself. I keep looking inward to see if there’s something I should do but I feel like I’m quite balanced and whole when he’s not around. Am I missing something? Or is more of a relationship issue?

I have seen many times the Anima/Animus being defined as our connection to meaning an to our unconscious. But I have, many times as well, seen your definition of the ideal feminine (or some similar one). This topic has been higly confusing for me because of that. I have already seen my Anima in active imagination, I know how she is and how she behaves, but I don't know how to interpret her place on my psique because I don't know what Anima is, I just know how my Anima behaves and how she is. And the fact that Jung gave to us a very good definition of each part of the psique BUT the Anima doesn't help, I read and read and doesn't matter how much I read I just get more confused about this topic... And whenever I think I have reached some conclusion another information appears to confuse me again. Can you help me with that? I wanted to dive deeper into this area, but I don't know how to do it properly.

Title: Anima and Animus... Brain: Anime and Animoos

BRO, just listing all feminine traits puts me back in my masculine

I really wonder how we could apply the anima and the animus to Trans people? I think it gets much more complicated and intertwined with straight up identifying with the opposite divine energy besides just having that duality within like cis people.. Definitely feel like that is a topic worth doing deeper research in that could unlock more within Jungian psychology.

Can you please clarify your final statement about the two halves coming together? Are you intending that we are halves and only become whole when we come together with a partner? I hope to have misunderstood this

Hey, your voice is so pleasant to hear. And you are handsome to look at :-)

What is your opinion on the whole virtual reality based therapy that includes ghost touch phenomenon using a third party romantic partner that had been romanticized more less through imagination though has kinetic gifts that if an individual unknowing gave access through trust and by a triangulation method of a narcissist intending to keep the the individual vibrating low level and by manipulating their spiritual growth by intercepting spiritual discernment from active true divine beings?

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It's kinda funny 🤔 we definitely had a lot more toxic masculinity before accepting more that we feel mostly male 😅 We couldn't dance, wear colorful clothes, had a very hard time showing emotions or being caring towards other people. Now that we've been socially transitioning for a while and our friends all call us he/ Max, we've felt a lot more comfortable with our own softer aspects. What we're attracted to: Sadism and dominance paired with high intelligence, basically dad 😂

It is normal for it to be reversed regardless of sex? Im a man, but the way you explained this sounds the opposite. I've been the emotionally turbulent/unpredictable one, and in terms of the toxic women I feel attracted to, it has always been the emotionally unavailable ones who are out of touch with their emotions. Cultivating my masculine side has been a godsend in my emotional maturity and stability, but it just gets me wondering, is what was unconscious my Animus? It confuses my when it comes to this topic, I've always more consciously resonated with the characteristics of the Anima, I've always seemed extroverted women who can be my sort of "container" per say, but that's always attributed to women. Could I simply say that I still have an unconscious Anima, but it's sort of like a "masculine" Anima, since those are the kind of traits I find ideal in a women?

WOW U really R Mr Synthesis, so grateful. My gender dysphoria dysmorphia is outa the box. If you recognize "soul murder"(Shengold) yep my inner boy was killed, my pronoun is "it". Tho i eventually emerged bi, issues in all the roles, all the genders. My nuclear females were violent, the dark shadow fem was umm oh nevrr mind🤣

You're so beautiful and intelligent.

Ok so in plain English.... Recognize that you have traits associated with the opposite gender and accept and integrate them. Did I get that right?

Great video, but that aside you look like a young Stephen Dillane. 😊

Hahaha your language is enjoyable.

when do you finally feel like you're not in hell anymore

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Are you a Fremen?

You're talking about heterosexual oriented people. How does all this rhetoric apply to homosexual oriented people?

OMG that's very sick..I don't have any of thoose dark side inside of me...any..thank God🙏❤️

This should be taught instead of that woke shit

I BELIEVE WOMEN DONT HAVE ANIMUS