8. Elegant ladies never sleep in their makeup.

My grandma said being elegant isn't about buying expensive stuff but simply taking care of yourself and what you have.

The silk femenine pyjama is a LIFE CHANGER. I feel femenine and beautiful and my partner can't stop telling me how soft it is and how good it looks on me. He loves it.

This lady pushes me to become a better version of myself❤

My mom used to always say: "cleanliness is next to godliness"

I don't understand a man or woman not showering before bed if they sleep with someone, but showering in the morning before they go to work. They'd rather smell nice for coworkers than someone they supposedly care for?

"When I start my day checking social media I set my day with foreign energy. The morning should be about myself, my goals and positivity." That got me! You're right! Thank you!

I appreciate how she values elegance in relation to self-care and empowerment. Every lady deserves to feel and be treated like a princess from time to time!

Anna: "it's not a sex video" Me: "DAMNIT"

“The morning should be about yourself not others” Bravo!

I feel like at the age of 15-18 I was really focusing on being trashy (without even realizing it. It seemed to be a trend to wear five layers of makeup and revealing clothing.) but now at 19 I have honestly gotten bored of it. As a college student, and soon to be woman with a bachelor’s degree next year, I feel that role no longer serves me. With that information I am so glad and excited to have found your channel! I believe that stepping into the role of an elegant woman of class will serve me greatly when applying for jobs and in life. Thank you!

This video makes me realize I need to get myself together...my poor husband. He's gotten so used to my wild pj pants.

Wow I never realized this...leveling up means LEVEL UP everywhere!

I started watching Anna a few months ago and I always hear her voice in my head 😂 went out to a buffet and immediately heard Anna “you are not starving ladies!” 😂 the big sister I never had ✨

The "Use your bed only for sleeping" is actually a great tips. Few years back I had a conversation with a psychologist about lack of sleep I was having. She informed to use my bed for only sleeping. So psychologically your brain will associate your bed with sleeping. So no eating, watching TV/ KZfaq/ Netflix , or reading in bed for me.

I study fashion and you might like to know that silk isn't only good for your skin because of the gliding. Cotton can absorb water and silk can't so your skin and hair stay hydrated during the night and your hair and skincare products don't disappear during the night. ❤️

The straight hair makes her look so young, I think it's because it makes her face look rounder?? But in a good way, like a teens, idk but it's pretty 😄 Also: I already do almost all of these things, even though I'm very single atm, but they just makes me feel better about myself and I would def recommend them as well! 👌

Silk pillowcases also protect your hair. Black women have been doing this for years

I’m literally binge watching this channel 😫

I’m chinese. We somehow believe in Fengshui. In the bedroom, we never place bookshelves in front of the bed, we dont put our beds too close to the window (middle of the room is ideal). I know some of my friends say they leave a gap between the bed’s headboard and the wall behind it. So energy flows around the bed.

Can’t believe this channel gives out all this wonderful, basic and essential information completely for free. So generous, since I watched the first vid 1 year ago I haven’t stopped, and will never stop watching!! Thank you for making this content available and for being so generous with all the tips you’ve gathered throughout your own journey+experience. ❤️

I love how Anna's channel evolved from being (almost completely) how-to-attract-a-wealthy-man-focused to personal development one. She uses femininity now in a sense that it's not about being/acting feminine or using femininity to attract someone affluent, but to connect us to ourselves more, to make us a whole person inside, before we step into outside world. I enjoy more and more in her videos. It just shows how much she values work on self and when she told in one of her recent videos everything that she had accomplished in 2019, I was amazed by her strong will and hard-working nature and it inspired me to work harder in 2020. She has become stronger, more educated and more confident in what she does, which is visible in a way her channel, her thoughts and visions are currently presented and therefore she is gaining more popularity day by day. I want to have (and I do) a high-value man by my side, however what I love is that she is showing us that personal development and working from the inside out is what's important in being first happy with yourself and in the end, in attracting someone of a value. I want to thank her for her time and energy, as well as providing us with actually useful tips that we can implement in our lives to feel more feminine, be more successful and live a happy, content and, perhaps even affluent, life.

I love my silk pillowcases! Ever since I made the switch I've been gifting them to all the women in my life. Most recently I brought a silk pillowcase to a holiday party as my Secret Santa gift, and the recipient was delighted. I enjoyed the video!

Two seconds in and I am already feeling attacked. You leave my cartoon printed pajamas out of this 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Feeling guilty as I'm watching this video in my bed...

When she said we shouldn’t wear pjs with cartoons on it and washed out t shirts, I cried a little lol. But you’re right, I’m a grown woman and I should look like one lol.

I love her hair like this.

I am from Hong Kong and all those feng shui masters tell me never to place a mirror directly in front of your bed. Because mirrors are thought to bounce energy around the bedroom, which may result in restlessness and amplify worries. Your bedroom should not have any prickly plants like cactus, it is going to affect your health!

More Feng shui bedroom tips (I am an expert in this arena): -SOLID headboard, good mattress, a raised bed with NO STORAGE UNDERNEATH -Have a solid wall behind the headboard (no windows), and do not place bed facing a door, TV or window -A nightstand on each side (balance). Keep both sides of the bed accessible (keeps energy balanced). -No sharp edges pointing at your bed (no slanted ceilings, harsh exposed beams, or sharp nightstands) -No fans directly above the bed -No sleeping under a window -Have furniture with legs, no rectangular box-shaped furniture (blocks the floor's energy flow) -Keep bathroom door closed -Keep plants or flowers around. Pink flowers, especially roses and carnations, are great to look at first thing in the AM. They promote beauty, happiness, and a lovely sex life. I make sure there is a bouquet of pink or white flowers by my bed so it is the first thing I see when I wake up. Heavenly!

Number one rule: never argue in the bedroom. Just find another place and mostly find another hour, not bedtime

I don't even have activewear, I'm never active.

Thank you for pointing out the cleanliness. I am someone who NEVER goes to bed without a shower, teeth flossed and brushed, skincare done, etc. I don't understand how so many people I know are out all day, even in sweaty clubs, then just get in bed. I don't want to bring everyone's germs in my bed. Absolute cleanliness in my partner is a non negotiable. It's actually what attracts me most to someone when I meet them.

Elegant ladies remove their makeup before going to bed!

“Only use your bed for sleeping.” As she films her KZfaq video sitting on a bed 😂😂😂

She’s highlighting self-respect, women empowerment 👏🏻💕

I've been practicing Feng Shui for about 20 years and have had the most fantastic results. Most of it made so much sense to me, however I questioned the "why" of many principles I studied. Mostly I decided to trust the process of these VERY specific ancient rules. I couldn't have been more surprised or pleased with my results. One thing I found particularly interesting, and many of the Elegant Ladies reading this may as well, applied to our handbags! Regardless if your bag has small "feet" on the bottom, Ladies.... Never, NEVER, place your bag on the floor. Even in your own home or closet. Similarly, placing some interesting or beautiful stones/pebbles in the bottom of all basins and drains, and either incorporating some stone into the flooring of bath/restrooms, or if that isn't possible, simply placing some of the same stones or pebbles around the base of the commode/bidet. I absolutely loathe devices of any kind in the bedroom. Or while dining. It's absurd. Never, under any circumstance, place the headof your bed on a wall that has a toilet on the opposite side. It's gross and can even contribute to many health issues. Finally, perhaps my favorite thing I learned is how to combat anxiety, stress, and even depression by becoming a proper "tree hugger". That's right 😊 hug a tree. Get outside. To actual nature. Reconnect with the Earth's energy. It's powerful. Take your shoes off in a lovely garden or park,maybe even just a small patch of well loved lawn. Concentrate on the vibrations of fresh clean energy coming up out of the ground. Find a tree. A lush healthy tree with which you may feel unusually drawn to. Hug it. Literally put your arms around it. Think uplifting and positive thoughts about the tree. Admire its strength and beauty. You can even talk to the tree. Thank them for the air we breathe. Gratitude goes a long way. You may want to do this last bit in relative privacy lol, or else people see you talking to a tree, and think you've gone quite mad 😆 Don't even get me started on the 9/9 breathing technique 💜 it's miraculous!! I encourage everyone, Elegant Ladies especially, to brush up on Feng Shui concepts and principles. They really do make a difference.

As a person living in a cold climate, and feel cold constantly, I could never wear silk to bed since it feels too cool.

so, I’m watching this in bed, while drinking a hot cocoa, on my christmas pajamas, cotton shirt...

I'm in highschool and I'm sitting here taking notes to please my imaginary husband 😩😭

Finally I found someone who loves silk and never eats in bedroom ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Time to KonMari out all of my old sleepwear, you're right, it's 2020 and time to be a princess.

This hairstyle is absolutely gorgeous on you! Makes you look very youthful.

I needed this advice. Because I grew up poor I tend to hold on to things till they are fallling apart, especially pjs. And I will run myself ragged so I’m too tired to do anything but pass out. These are really self-care advice.

Honestly, this is such a great self-love advice video. Especially during tough times, where your mood is low and being lazy is the easier option. You fail to realize that being like this just sends you down a rabbit hole of depression. Yet following these routines really help shift you out of these moods by investing in yourself. I especially love how you invite women to express their femininity. I myself can be quite a tomboy and sometimes don't even know or forget how to deal with my feminity. Watching your videos has helped me so much with this. Anyway! I can't wait to see more self-investment videos from you!

I've had silk pillow cases since I was a teenager because of my kinky hair, I even had one to travel with so I didn't have to use a silk scarf or bonnet. It wasn't until later that I knew it was also good for my skin! It's great everyone should have one!

This tan really fits you and the hair color is perfect!

The point with no devices in bedroom and starting your day with foreign energy OPENED MY EYES! Thank you! 💗💗💐💋

i'm happy you mentioned feng shui. my family has a trusted feng shui master but didn't take him seriously until i had sleeping issues. when i changed my bedroom placement based on my kua numner, i never had insomnia ever since

I’ve never liked eating in bed, it really grosses me out. 🛌

I told my partner about this video, and I don't know why but he got really excited about the silk pillowcases, anyway now we have a nice pair of silk pillowcases to sleep on 😂 Thanks Anna!

I'm by no means trying to be an elegant lady, but these videos are so awesome. I always find at least one takeaway or tip that ends up helping me or improving my quality of life in some way. Love the channel!

I watch these videos to remind myself it’s okay to be confident and invest in your self worth.

I have been a long time Alpha, feminist and often times given myself masculine traits for respect. You have changed my entire world. Thank you for all this (free) information. You’re helping me understand so much about being an elegant feminine woman that I’ve always felt inside. It’s going to def take some time to change some of my habits but I’m ready! Thank you

I would add, make your bed every single morning (properly, not sloppy), and make sure your sheets and bedding is clean! Switch out your sheets regularly and have a good laundry routine for your bedding.

Silk pillowcases has made such a difference to my skin, especially skin on the side of my face that I sleep on.

Being a feminine soul that was raised by a woman with wounded masculine energy, these are so helpful. I am 19 years old and have no role models of elegant women. Thank you !!!!

"Spontaneous one on one" such an elegant word to call it !!

Feng Shui tip: - Put your toothbrushes in the shelf instead of leaving it on a sink. - Close the toilet seat because of Chi and good energy flashes out. Also REMEMBER to turn on the aeroplane mode on your phone before sleeping and also take out your Wi-fi from the socket. Helps with electronic smog. Thank You for your videos! They open my mind on things I would like to be better at. You are doing a great job! Thank You ☺️

Umm hey Anna can we have the *other* bedroom etiquette video as well?🙈😂💛

This is the 5th video of yours I've watched in a row. They're so easy to digest and calming while being educational.

“no ladies, you can have it all” - I need to print this and pin it on my wall!

I don’t remember the last time I’ve gone to bed without showering. 🚿

" my dear elegant ladies " aww wow! that hits different! I'm from middle east and i love your channel

I used to live in Geneva. Rumour had it when I came back to my town in England that I had been to finishing school ! This was because I was elegant even before I went. ( I had actually worked in a 5* hotel ) Although this was many years ago I think I gained lots of things from ladies around the city . Thank you for your videos I enjoy watching them.

I’m so happy that you included “healthy habits before sleep”. It’s more than just elegance!

Anna, your videos make me feel as if I'm listening to the wise older sister I never had. And your make up is SO on point (as always, duh)

Cleanliness in the bedroom is so important even if you are single. Shower before you get into bed and change your sheets and blankets often. Also, I love perfume and have gotten complimented about the way I smell on may occasions. I think that many people neglect wearing scents and it's a shame. For me, it's the finishing touch that you need with your outfit, makeup, shoes, jewelry, etc or you're not complete. I also love clean men who wear good cologne. Just remember to not use too much. Also, invest in good scents and nothing cheap or you will be doing yourself a disservice. Quality perfumes/colognes are worth the price.

Dear Anna I am a 25 year old girl and i am soo very happy to find your channel and i highly appreciate what you say . I am discovering a new side of ME through you Love and respect

When I have a partner, I don't wait till bed for bathing. I take time around 5 30 or soon before my man gets in from work. That way I am clean from the minute he walks in until bed time.

I love your content! It’s never snobby, you never show-off, everything is delivered so clear and balanced. It’s really stand-out amongst others reviewing things on you tube - thank you!

Only using your bed for sleep is actually a really good advice, especially now when most of us work/study from home. Having a set workplace or study area in your home helps you focus, and using the bed only for sleeping makes the mind delineate which place is your work area and rest area. This isn't just about being elegant, it's also about preventing burn out because of working/studying from home. Also, you're inviting insects to your bed when you eat there 😅 It's quite unsanitary to do that, like not showering before bed.

I love the no device attitude in the bedroom! It ruins not only sleep but intimacy too. I have a no tv rule in my bedroom!

Meeting empowering, positive women like you in real life is more difficult than finding a partner. Amazing content!

Feng Shui tip 1.) No family or friends photos in the bedroom. Keep bedroom photos to yourself and your partner or husband. If you keep photos of anyone besides that in your bedroom you are inviting their energy in and into your relationship meaning they will cause friction and come between you and your loved one. Family photos are definitely only meant for the living room. 2.) Keep your home as clutter free as possible cluttered house cluttered mind they believe.

I am insulted! However, you do it in such a humorous realistic, logical manner I find myself laughing at myself and it's alright. I appreciate all your tips. Thank you for sharing.

Anna, I am very proud of you! It is a delight to watch a classy lady changing the world for the better. Please include lots of comments about good manners towards other people in a society. All the best wishes ❤

The bed room is for romance and sleeping.... no tv, no phones, no work and no arguments in the bedroom! If you need to to talk about an issue move it to another room!

These etiquette come from a point of self-respect. When I got married, I learned to respect my partner. Now, it's more respect for myself, and consideration for my partner, or roommates, depending on the situation. As for sleeping in activewear, it's just gross! Keep up the good work

Are we going to ignore the fact silk stains so easily? Moisturizer, oils, etc.

Thank you to Jesus Christ 1st thing in the morning. Devotions, and PRAISE songs to Him. Then the day begins.

I have NEVER heard or known anyone who sleeps in their active wear... What even is this? Sleep in the same clothes that you are training in? My brain cannot compute this, lol... Also, if you are disciplined enough to wake up early and train first thing in the morning, surely you are disciplined enough to just... get out of your pajamas and put on your gym clothes, no? 🤔 I am so confused

Actually, I trained myself to sleep on my back - no sleep wrinkles at all! It also helps with lymph drainage and improves blood circulation. I don't wake up with a puffy face anymore. I also use bed legs that elevate the head of the bed by 6", which improves my sleep. Weird, I know, but it works.

This is so hard my house is literally a one room bedroom in which I have to do work, eat dinner etc

I love that you added Feng Shui to your list of important routines in your bedroom. When you were on the second item of cleanliness and freshening up, I thought how important Feng Shui is in the bedroom and how cleanliness is so key to self. It IS the place we get our rest and attract our partner. I’ve been practicing Feng Shui in the past 7 years and found that it has lead me out of an unhappy marriage and has attracted more love into my life. Thanks for sharing!

Was kind of hoping for a second it will be 'the real' bedroom etiquette... Lovely tips anyways! Kisses from the Netherlands

I love your videos 😍 Recommendations for new content: - hairstyles that you do - Do you do sports? Which exercises do you do? If you’re going to the gym: how should you behave in the gym? - How do you organize your day and do you have any tips? - Tips for being a host (How should you invite people, which food/drinks to offer, how to organize your party/meeting etc.) - Your Must-Haves in the wardrobe (in general or e.g. for winter or upcoming spring) - How can you look elegant without make-up (e.g. when you sleep over at your partner’s house for the first time, when you’re going somewhere and maybe don’t have the time to put on make-up)?

After my university degree I will apply these rules 🌸 🌸. Keep going Anna and don't care about haters.

You Sleep Better Naked Sleeping Naked Reduces Stress Sleeping Naked Builds Confidence Sleeping Naked Is Healthier Silk sheets and pillow cases let the body breath

That's a shame. I love both beautiful silk sleeping garments and those with cartoon characters (and my twins like it, too). Sometimes I'm in the mood of being a perfect lady even when nobody sees me (most of the time, that's the case, as I mostly run my business from home, but with daily video meetings), and sometimes I want a comfort of my Spunch Bob pyjamas 🙂 Somehow I manage to balance both versions of myself.

My dear elegant Anna, it is delightful to hear you teaching the new generations how to be Elegant in every aspect. I was in the same business, you are a soul daughter ❤️ Thanks for being so generous. Lilian Deasti former Miss Argentine and more ..

This is very informative and logically well explained. Thanks for posting this. The no-devise-in-the-bedroom policy is something my wife and I should consider doing not only for the mental health of ourselves but also for our small children. I appreciate you raised my awareness for a consideration of the meaning of being respectful toward others who are close to you. I also enjoyed your ZARA video and look forward to more to come.

I bought a silk style bedsheet set once and every morning, our pillows were on the floor, the fitted sheet with the comforter were on the floor, and the fitted sheet was always bunched up in the middle of our mattress! I thought, I am NEVER buying any material of silky feeling every again! It was just so slick, it was ridiculous.

I didn't know people slept in their active wear? How peculiar...

Ana, you're a friend in my head! I'm so happy that I apply most of your recommendations since my early 20s. They used to call pretentious but I'm so pleased that I am on the elegant path.

Been doing Feng Shui for 17 years and has made a huge difference in my life in all my rooms especially bedroom, living room, home entrance & office. Love your videos.TY 🌹

wait.. so not everyone showers before bed?! what the hell is this, this is disgusting. All asians shower before bed.

I am on my bed, holding my phone and watching you Anna 😂😂😂

Omg I never expected this video from you hahah I don’t mean it in a bad way Edit: I spoke too soon

I worked as Feng Shui consultant for about 5 years. Not pop Feng Shui like putting a mandarina duck in SW corner of your bedroom to bring you romantic love, a but a more complicated version of it. What I started to feel through the years is that the best thing you can do for your home is to imagine that you are that energy. Imagine that you are a flow entering your home. Do you like what you see, hear, touch, smell? Is it nice and comfortable? Do you want to flow inside or to turn around and leave? Do you like the furniture, the decorations, the light? Is it easy for you to perform all your activities in this space or it's so complicated that you just loose the desire to do anything? Can you easily find everything or have to search all the house for the book you are reading or your winter garments? Are there things that you don't use and don't like? Is the furniture placed in the right places or you continue to count all the corners with your hips or toes? Actually it's all about comfort and liking. You really should try doing this )) Don't think this time, feel! )) Good luck ))