Another Pregnancy Scare + Being Dropped by Your BFF - PRETTY BASIC

Another Pregnancy Scare + Being Dropped by Your BFF - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 249

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4 ай бұрын

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Welcome to Pretty Basic Therapy! In this week’s episode we welcome guests, Ashley Nichole + Taryne Renee of Unsolicited Advice podcast and chat about the struggles of the “protective friend” vs. the “friend that gets a new boo thang”, how to have productive conversations, and what it feels like to mourn the loss of a friendship. Friendships go through ebbs and flows, sometimes they require space and other times they require hard conversations even if that means (gently) cornering your conflict avoidant friends. After all, friendship love languages are just as important as romantic ones.
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@dancesing116 4 ай бұрын

🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️ officially putting in a vote for this foursome to do MORE episodes together! If ya’ll just combined podcasts in general….NONE of us would be mad! You all compliment each other so much!

@JCamcrew 4 ай бұрын

Yasssss

@sofiapomar6366 4 ай бұрын

dude literally im rewatching this again

@emmaweb2006 4 ай бұрын

I love the 4 them together it’s my favourite ❤❤Xx

@yesival12 4 ай бұрын

I agree all four together make the podcast wayyy more interesting

@tyramarsh3985 4 ай бұрын

my girl katelyn❤ BFF foreva 💟

@basketballgirl023 4 ай бұрын

Taryne is so well spoken about talking about feelings!!

@rebeccamcauley4549 4 ай бұрын

Completely agree ❣️

@britt08 4 ай бұрын

Ash is just GLOWING! She is truly in her LOVE era and it looks SO good on her, can def see the change in her, and she is just GLOWING! So happy for you Ash😘💕

@rebeccamcauley4549 4 ай бұрын

Completely agree ❤❤

@smome7773 4 ай бұрын

Did she ever share the story of how she met her man? I know I don't watch her channel often enough and she keeps things pretty private but was always curious.

@Msjessi6 4 ай бұрын

@@smome7773i think she said dating app

@AyseG2SJMS 4 ай бұрын

@@smome7773 They met on Hinge!!

@nbla39 4 ай бұрын

This is probably my favorite episode. I need more talk about just being single in your 30s. Alisha and taryn should do a solo episode about it ! And also would love to hear more about how alisha and ashley grew up.

@DaisyCrowder 3 ай бұрын

Agreed

@subynaaa 4 ай бұрын

absolutely LOVING this episode! love taryn, she gives such amazing insight and i love the UA x PB dynamic of four besties having deep introspective talks, 100% y'all should do more of these

@carliejade256 4 ай бұрын

This is by far the best episode. It shows you can be friends and have differences and it’s okay!

@celcravero 4 ай бұрын

1:36:54 Taryne and Ashley's moment here had me in tears. This was such a great episode, girls !! 🥺🫶

@onetwothreefour2822 4 ай бұрын

I feel like Ashley prioritizes relationship over friendship but taryn equally prioritizes both. It’s a personality thing, not a reflection of the amount of love thing.

@kaylag8687 3 ай бұрын

you must’ve missed the fact this is ash’s first serious relationship in their 10 years of friendship. that’s a hard thing to balance a new love and your friend love. she’s trying her best but it’s her fire time

@Mvegvn Ай бұрын

Idk if choose my boyfriend over my friend (depending on the situation obviously) but mainly because Im looking to spend my life with them so why wouldn’t I?

@elizarod223 4 ай бұрын

I absolutely love Taryne, I've always been a fan of hers, but this episode is fire!! I love how she expresses herself and just knows the right words to say!!

@gabbin5414 4 ай бұрын

I’ve been watching Alisha for 10 years now and I’ve always felt very similar to her but this episode really sealed the deal. Between relationships with your older sister and wanting to be more connected to being the chronically single friend, Alisha thank you for sharing your stories they help me feel so seen

@kellynataliabrito8264 4 ай бұрын

Omg Ash worded out what I could never pinpoint! I was also raised in a family where sex and relationships weren't talked about, and I never had a relationship with my sister such that I could communicate these things and to date I still hid many things!!!! Unlearning to be that way is so difficult

@Adorkabledog11 4 ай бұрын

This is one of my favorite episodes EVER. The friendship discussions made me reflect on my own friendships and I definitely can improve in some areas - thank you!!!

@adaaleide 4 ай бұрын

agreed! made me text my friend afterwards🥲

@user-qo2tp4qd9b 4 ай бұрын

LOVED this entire conversation! A lot of gems about true friendships, so beautiful to see🤗✨

@rebeccamcauley4549 4 ай бұрын

Absolute agreement ❤❤

@rebeccamcauley4549 4 ай бұрын

Amazing collaboration as it has been a while since Ashley and Tryne were on. Great topic as any friendship break up is tough when the relationship becomes one side. Was brilliant to hear your honest opinions and advice on how to navigate the situation ❤🎉

@smome7773 4 ай бұрын

Woah, this episode makes me see how alike I am to Alisha, so avoidant and wanting to be involved at the same time. Its so hard.

@Mariana-vq5rl 4 ай бұрын

OMG I freakin loved this episoooode. It Made me teary to hear four people talk about how much they love eachother. Female friendship is one of the most beautiful things in life.

@dancesing116 4 ай бұрын

Manifesting the new Podcast with this foursome: Pretty Solicited!

@jesswarpp 4 ай бұрын

taryn and ash telling each other i love you at the end has me sobbing. so wholesome. 😭

@MariasBeautyForever 4 ай бұрын

I need some friends like Taryn and Remi. Im literally like Alisha and Ashley its crazy. Loved this episode. Learnt so much about all your friendships.

@MeganNicolee1 4 ай бұрын

Damn I knew I was like Alisha but the whole “don’t want to look dumb” really hit the nail on the coffin for me love love love this ep I HAD A REVELATION as well lol

@smome7773 4 ай бұрын

I've said that exact phrase so often in therapy 😭😭😭

@dimple2396 4 ай бұрын

Honestly this is the only podcast / remi & alisha are the few influencers i really keep up with still and I think it’s genuinely because they remain relatable in the way they talk about their relationships. You guys put so much into your relationships, your friendships, your constant enthusiasm to strengthen and invest in your relationships is so so real. I really enjoy hearing you guys talk about your relationships bc it’s the most relatable human experience for you guys to have as I also navigate relationships in my 20’s. Thank u you guys are doing so great it’s been so sweet watching you grow thru your 20’s 🥹🫶🏽

@serenaxg14 4 ай бұрын

I been on both sides… I was the only single friend and then I became the friend who got into a great relationship… however I never felt some type of way because I just knew it was a honeymoon phase. And I couldn’t wait to hear about it. I didn’t really mind them dipping out. But I loved the open conversation I also had with my besties too because we understood each other.

@mollyburgesser5605 4 ай бұрын

So I’m still kinda new to the ash and Taryne side of things BUT, I also have thyroid cancer, and hearing how it affected things for you guys is so validating for me. I was living with my roommate, we were BEST FRIENDS, did everything together. She then got a partner and things started to change and it was SO hard for me to navigate. I ended up moving out without saying a word, and we still don’t talk. And i still think about it at least on a weekly basis and am so sad about it still, and it’s been 5.5 years

@allaboutalit6228 4 ай бұрын

I’ve been single for 9 years and seeing Ash happy and in a healthy relationship gives me SO much hope! ❤

@lynae777 4 ай бұрын

I loved how you guys communicated all of that

@ShadierThanSlim 4 ай бұрын

i resonate with this sm. recently lost my best friend because our dynamic has changed so much since she got a boyfriend and i just wish i could have listened to this before we had the talk

@sofiapomar6366 4 ай бұрын

this episode helped me so much im literally rewatching this and it gave me advice to other situations i needed advice on this literally taught me to feel more comfortable w my emotions already and i immediately had conversations i didnt know bothered me a lot bc the ROOT mattered thank u sm

@Kase1313 4 ай бұрын

This episode was so helpful and healing ❤ I love the input and validation from all corners it was really awesome to see

@melanylopez2961 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for this, I’m bringing this all up with my sisters and I’m excited for the convos to have. You guys are amazing

@theresag.4188 4 ай бұрын

I love Taryn's insight on everything! I relate so much to her and Ash's situation. I was going through the depths of hell mental health stuff for like 6 months. Crying everyday and in such a dark place. I didnt even leave the house. I needed my sister who my best friend. She wasnt there for me hardly ever. Were good now but damn I was so hurt and betrayed by her. You think the person you love and are closest in the world to would be there for you. 🥺 i feel Taryn's pain. ALSO LOVE THE LONGER EPISODE!!!!!❤🙌

@amyyang9292 4 ай бұрын

I loved this ep!! I feel like we got to know each of you a little deeper and it was beautiful. Wishing the best for you all❤️🥰 please have more episodes like this together!!

@elledeeare5148 4 ай бұрын

This was such a good episode. I love the authenticity and the dynamic of this group. Cannot wait to see another episode with the four of them!

@AlmogShafrir 4 ай бұрын

SO EXCITED TO GET INTO THIS NEW EPISODE!!!

@crystalgagnon8252 4 ай бұрын

Being a cancer is crazy. We LOVEEEEE with passion and we forgive so fast because we understand and trust. Love you gurls. ❤

@fabfmb25 4 ай бұрын

So pumped for this also Ashley’s hair 🔥🔥🔥

@rebeccamcauley4549 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely agree ❤

@reallyi2132 4 ай бұрын

this is such an insightful podcast. needed to hear some of these words for real

@richellec1632 4 ай бұрын

This episode was so beautiful. You guys looked so comfortable and really opened up. I learned a lot for my own relationships

@sierrarose363 4 ай бұрын

LOVE THIS EPISODE!!!! I didn’t know I needed to hear this, but these are the types of conversations I wish I could have had with my friends and family growing up. Love you ladies! Please do more episodes together

@angiek6446 4 ай бұрын

what a amazing episode!! i love when y’all are together 💗

@virginiabutler8298 4 ай бұрын

So appreciative of this podcast. This was such a great conversation to listen and on!

@keepingmedown 4 ай бұрын

My favourite episode! Such amazing honest conversation. More of this with Taryn and Ashley!!!!!

@clairetrestrail7876 4 ай бұрын

I am so excited to getting this in new podcast episode 💕🥹

@isabellamacae1 4 ай бұрын

Favorite episode. I appreciate y’all being so honest. Thank you ❤️

@jenaayay 4 ай бұрын

This was the most perfect episode for the most PERFECT TIME in my life. Love you guys so much!!🫶🏼

@ThePrettyTT 4 ай бұрын

All four of of them together feels like my childhood!!!!😭😭😭

@Beemui7 4 ай бұрын

HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYY REMI!! 🩵🩵🩵

@elisamariakline1696 4 ай бұрын

YESS! Been so excited and waiting for this episode! 🤩 so glad they are back 🙌🏽

@Cheetahgirl25 4 ай бұрын

I 100% agree discussing this with your bestie just helps with so much conflict !! My PF is my bestie and she knows who she is !

@selaaleman1777 4 ай бұрын

wow. amazing episode. such valuable conversation. thank you for putting this out there!!!

@jooniespie 4 ай бұрын

yall this had me in tears, all my friends have been getting into relationships and i'm really happy for them, they deserve the best and more but i didn't realize how i had been suppressing all my emotions whilst hiding behind that emotion of happiness! great episode i loved it so much

@adriannap1622 4 ай бұрын

this episode healed me sm omg. thank you guys!!

@Havingahardtimepickingahandle 4 ай бұрын

Happy Birthday Rem! Hope your day is as fabulous as you are ✨

@JANELLEstaysDOPE 4 ай бұрын

This was such a good episode! Definitely going through some sort of this currently as well. Love your guys dynamic so much!

@CamrieRaeann 4 ай бұрын

This is one of my Fav podcast episodes ever I love the 4 of you together!!!

@Sincerelywendyy 4 ай бұрын

Such an amazing pod. Learned so much ✨🤩💫

@rebeccabarrotes3912 4 ай бұрын

Love love love this episode!!! Thank you for being so vulnerable ❤

@cammie3679 4 ай бұрын

This is my favourite episode! The conservations were truly good!

@katechandler1138 4 ай бұрын

This was such a good episode. I learned a lot and it made me understand relationships better. Thank you!

@Alicia19652 4 ай бұрын

My whole friend group all have significant others, and that has been one hell of a dynamic to try and figure out. i’m genuinely so happy for all of them but it’s also hard, and I’ve also been trying to not say things that might hurt their feelings because of how I feel about my feelings towards relationships right now.

@sydneyelmore 4 ай бұрын

loved this episode so much! currently going through the same thing - my best friend and I got into serious relationships not too far apart from each other, graduated college, and started regular 9-5 jobs. it's weird growing up so quickly and living individual lives when we used to hang out literally everyday. this helped me a lot!!

@e-lee-sah 4 ай бұрын

I need more! This episode was so good!

@rebeccauhlin7046 4 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this one! I loved hearing everyone’s perspectives

@mariaa531 4 ай бұрын

i LOOOOOOOOOOVEEEE these conversations, so so so beautiful, productive and healthy

@mhargorose14 4 ай бұрын

Love all of you!! My besties of going on 11 to 12 years now is Brianna

@patriciadetera7751 4 ай бұрын

you four are the best!! i enjoyed this episode so much!

@sofiasversion 4 ай бұрын

omggg i already love it and it hasnt started yet

@luannam018 4 ай бұрын

ash and taryne at the end of the episode 😭 such a good episode!! lots of love! 💕💕

@lesliranchito7951 4 ай бұрын

I needed this episode two years ago😫😫 I love seeing both pov!

@anapetelinek8294 4 ай бұрын

I love you guys sooo much!!! ❤️This is the only podcast I can listen to nonstop hahah

@rosieoats 4 ай бұрын

Okay this may be my favorite episode! Taryn is so wise and she taught me so much! I relate so much to Alisha and ash so I definitely needed to hear everything she had to say.

@jordynwhitehouse 4 ай бұрын

Loved this episode y’all! You guys are so well spoken and I feel like I could continually come back to this episode when I’m dealing with certain things in all relationships. I am so much like Taryne, so there’s a lot for me to take away from what she said in how to deal with friends.

@BrandNewBamboo 4 ай бұрын

Taryne thank you so much I needed to hear this. I’m the friend that avoids conflict.

@juuiiicybaybee 4 ай бұрын

I love the self awareness from all you girls. But this is so theaprutic for y’all therapy session!! lol I wanna see more I love you guys ❤️

@user-mo9hc7zf7q 4 ай бұрын

OMG! the Galaxy AI looks amazingggg!!! I need this in MY LIFE!

@rosagenao 4 ай бұрын

love this episode, Taryne is such a gem 🤍

@iceyiana 4 ай бұрын

Listened for the first time in awhile and remembered why I love y’all ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@Monica-qx9qd 4 ай бұрын

Okay hut this green outfit Alisha wears in the first little “break” of here the heck is it from I need it in my life!!!!! 17:17

@Janelletravels204 4 ай бұрын

Same !!!! It’s stunning !!!!

@AlishaMarie 4 ай бұрын

Skims!!!!

@Janelletravels204 4 ай бұрын

Thanks ♥️!

@d.ivy.a 4 ай бұрын

I’ve always thought this way abt friendship like the sit down talk and get through it. So when a friendship ends cus of smth stupid I thought I was wrong but apparently mb this is how adults have a friendship and it’s nice to see it

@barbara20214 4 ай бұрын

This episode was so insightful i loved it

@jennalonghenry7287 4 ай бұрын

fav episode i think ever. loved loved loved the advice & friendship talk

@ashleylarkin9399 4 ай бұрын

loved this ep!! pls have them on way more oftern

@korenisme 4 ай бұрын

Awww I’m not done yet but I love this episode so much. This is sooo real!

@Janelletravels204 4 ай бұрын

The only guest we need is ash and Taryn! Such a great episode !!! ❤

@gcuarto 4 ай бұрын

I love love loved this episode!!!!

@caratcakeu 4 ай бұрын

LOVEED RHIS EPISODE SO MUCH!

@arianarachel 4 ай бұрын

The gasp after "you can leave a voice note" lmaoo😂 So relatable lol

@cattyqtip 4 ай бұрын

love taryne's pov!!

@emrajansen5094 4 ай бұрын

This episode helped me so much on how different people react in situation's and hard time. It's so funny that you guys are talking from the friend's side of this. I'm taking this with my relationship with my boyfriend he's more of an Ashley and I'm a Taryn

@lanisanchez8446 4 ай бұрын

my favorite collab of all time !!!!

@meganmullaney9469 4 ай бұрын

i relate to this episode the most!! The best episode so far!

@jalyngallen 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely incredible!!!!! My new favorite episode

@skylakimara6737 4 ай бұрын

THIS EPISODE WAS SO GOOD!!

@aznhelena 4 ай бұрын

Loved this episode and the comparisons between the duos

@ninnasmoggles 4 ай бұрын

I love this episode so much

@ninaserafin3473 4 ай бұрын

Truly one of the best podcast episodes I’ve heard in a while

@addienicholejohnson6447 4 ай бұрын

Wow like just got a free therapy session. Learned so much from my friendships currently.

@annac9668 4 ай бұрын

The annual collab 💖

@mariahbagneris8650 4 ай бұрын

This was such a great episode!!!

@Bruhndooon 4 ай бұрын

Best episode in such a long time

@libbyreid8652 4 ай бұрын

My best friends name is Halle. Similar to you guys we have been friends for many years and have grown to learn how to navigate our friendship. I feel so lucky I have someone who truly understands me the way she does. The good, the bad, and all the in between she’s been there though it all 💗