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Answering Controversial Questions on Marital Issues + We have an Announcement | Rica Peralejo

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Жыл бұрын

Treat this as your free marriage seminar! A seminar of what not to do in marriage 😂 seriously speaking tho, we are grateful to all who sent their questions. They not only point to answers but are answers in themselves in that it makes us all feel a little less alone in our struggles. 🫰🏼
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FAQ:
*Where is the book available?
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*Is there an ebook versuon?
None yet.
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@jammiedmsd8348 Жыл бұрын

"Differences do not make you wrong. Differences make you strong." Damn that hit hard.

@BlancheNtrOy Жыл бұрын

I absolutely love this vlog! And I can relate because just a few months ago, my husband and I (married 12 years this November) went through one of the hardest trials in our marriage. We went through a lot before but I feel this was the culmination of it and it was also witnessed by our children. The enemy wants to destroy our family forever, but GOD! He broke us both so we can heal properly through the Holy Spirit and His discipline. It was very painful but it needed to happen. And praise the Lord, my relationship with my husband has been way better now that we are on the other side. If we didn’t push through and just gave up, our children would suffer tremendously as well as ourselves. It’s all by Gods grace and power that are we still going strong. And I also have seen a huge difference in my husband. We have studied Ephesians 5 and it truly helped us. We will continue to walk in faith and have God as the master of our marriage.

@joebonifacio Жыл бұрын

Wow, praise God! He is really good. Thanks for sharing this testimony.

@richelleannepadin9273 18 күн бұрын

The last question. This happened to us when my mum passed away last year. I was so mad at my husband for not being there for me physically when my mom is in her death bed. We fought for months about it. I resent him for it then here we are stronger than ever. We just go through it. Hindi namin tinigilan yung pag-uusap ng issue na yung almost everyday until ok na kami.

@lililustre2826 Жыл бұрын

Yung sinabihan ako ni hubby 2 days ago na ..i hope u wont regret marrying me.. dhil God knows nilunok ko lahat para panindigan ang promise ko na tatanggapin at mamahalin ko sya thru good times and bad. Grabe i think wow ganito pala talaga ang marriage...nakita ko namn na ng effort din siya to accept my flaws so dapat give and take talaga..

@melaniecabotaje2745 Жыл бұрын

In the middle of listening to this, I pressed pause, then went straight to Shopee and bought not just one, not just two, nor three but FOUR books. The insights that you share is just full of wisdom that it feels a crime not to share it with married friends. Thank you. :)

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

WOW SALAMAT sa SUPPORT!!!❤❤❤

@louelladiezmo1998 Жыл бұрын

God is true to His character and Promises! Kasama Niya tayo sa hirap at ginhawa. He is not giving up on us kaya we will not let go of Him kahit ang hirap hirap na at ang sakit sakit na dahil sa life dito sa mundo at dahil sa katigasan ng ulo natin. His Grace is Mooore Than Enough. Kapit at tiwala sa Diyos. He is coming through.He is coming soon!

@Geraldjayr23 Жыл бұрын

This is what absolutely in line with God’s center relationship … keep moving

@sjrelucio782 Жыл бұрын

I'm not even in a relationship but this is too gold 💛🙂✨🙏

@christinacalcana2817 Жыл бұрын

This vlog is an eye opener for couples. There is no such thing as perfect in relationship. I hope you do more of this. Full of wisdom. May God Bles you and your family po. ❤️

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@mjnaynes5734 Жыл бұрын

Ms. Rica, I saw you last time s FeastCon. My husband and I attended the masterclass that you and your husband are one of the speaker. it's my first time to see u in person and sobra ako nastartruck aside s dami ng take away learnings. And yes, matagal ndin ako subscriber s vlog nyo 🥰. One of my favorite also is when you guest in Toni Talks 🙂. Thank you for all the inspiration 🥰

@AlohasVlog Жыл бұрын

I'm still single but I learn a lot from you two. Thank you for sharing this. You're inspiring a lot of people for your wisdom and genuiness. Stay in love and God bless❤

@frenchienuguid240 Жыл бұрын

Thank you the Bonis for this inspirational talk. I am so enlightened by how you presented everything. 🥰 I could relate so much to both of you and what my husband and I have gone through over the course of 12 years. It's amazing to know that we're not alone in this journey. It truly is magical to be hearing this from you guys. I truly feel that this has awakened my spirits that there really is hope in most marriages. ❤️❤️❤️ God bless you both. May God protect our marriages. 💞💞💞

@anajeaninacorpuz1298 Жыл бұрын

I love this vlog. I am still single, and still waiting for my God’s best, but it hit me to the core. I have learned a lot. Thank you ❤

@meadowdez6302 Жыл бұрын

This kind of vlog would still be definitely relevant for many years to come. 🙏 Thank you. 🧡 God bless you both in every way for His glory.

@treivien Жыл бұрын

before anything else!!! you really look so good on yellow!!!

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

Hahahaha thanks i think yellow is my color nga hahahaha

@lendelacosta7168 Жыл бұрын

bat teary-eyed ako sa vlog na to e hindi naman sya nakakaiyak?😅😆...tusok na tusok kase haha..thank you for this, Bonis 😊.. i may not be able to buy the book now because di talaga keri ng bulsa but there's hope sa ebook..crossing my fingers that i will get that copy someday..🤞 God bless you power couple!♥️

@joyluciano2488 Жыл бұрын

I’m such a big fan of you Ms Rica and Pastor Joseph. I’m still single but your content really helps to see through what a Christian living should be like. Napakagaling ng thought process nyong magasawa. Even I as a single, madami akonh natutunan. Praise God for your wisdom and stories! ❤️

@jennylynsantos1616 Жыл бұрын

Good thought of dealing with differences daw kapag isa sobrang generous, isa naman praktikal is para ma-weigh nang tama kung may sumusobra na sa inyo haha. Never thought of that. It's a nice point! The pleasure is ours. Your wisdom is gold. Thank you and God bless your beautiful marriage!

@lizli8339 Жыл бұрын

Salamat po dito. Sakto ikakasal na ako this December. Dagdag po ito na pang eye opener. Nawa maiapply namin lahat ng natututunan namin sa mga pre-marriage counseling.

@elvieanndiputado3150 Жыл бұрын

We want more, the Bonis! :) This will help us singles to prepare for marriage season.

@sha3174 Жыл бұрын

Love this vlog, thank you, Hope all the couples going through hard times and thinking of ending the replationship will watch this. God bless.

@leamaytcalingo Жыл бұрын

You're both SO in the zone here! 👏

@AngelSalumbides Жыл бұрын

This is so nice! I've learned a lot. And this is very helpful because I'm about to get married. Thank you!!🥰

@mylenemyls74 11 ай бұрын

Enjoyed watching this . Both very articulate. 😊

@desTINAsyonPH Жыл бұрын

Super nice questions. Just to add up, laging sinasabi sakin ng spiritual mentor ko. Hindi ba sa ating mga tahanan tayong mga asawang babae ang taga linis? Ganoon din pagdating sa asawa natin, if ever may naging maling decision sila, tayo ang taga linis, tayo ang taga ayos. ❤ ehehehehe God bless to all of us. Kaya natin yan mga mars 🙂 God is with us, wag hayaang mahulog ang mga prutas 😅 Thank you Ms. Rica and Pastor, medyo pareho kayo pagdating sa giving ng hudband ko 🫣

@rosariomerencilla1683 Жыл бұрын

Excited for the book! Sharing this vlog to our couple friends as well 🎉❤

@sigridsoriano911 Жыл бұрын

super like….. nkakarelate ako as a wife and mum. pls make more videos like this.

@ameinizee9378 Жыл бұрын

Perfectly chosen questions talaga, very relatable. I'm sharing this with the hubby mamaya, pag kaya pa niyang makinig sa kaka busy nya today. Thanks guys, you rock!☺️

@deltasierra3295 Жыл бұрын

i believe this is a hug for me from God. thank you, Bonis!💖✨️

@mariakarenmenez2563 Жыл бұрын

Wow I am crying. Good tears. Amazing wisdom. Turok sa puso. Praise God ❤

@mariakarenmenez2563 Жыл бұрын

Bought your book too using the Shopee link ❤

@feabambinamarquez Жыл бұрын

More vlogs like these please, I really enjoy seeing u both on a single frame! so much wisdom and takeaways for today

@tassdl2130 Жыл бұрын

My heart and spirit are full from the wisdom that flows out from you, Pastor Joe and Ms. Carla! God bless your hearts and more projects to come! ❤

@HannahCarlosPH Жыл бұрын

i am now both excited and nervous 😬🫣😂

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@honneyjanelaurenia3264 Жыл бұрын

I'm not yet married but I learned so much in this vlog. Thank you, Ms. Rica!

@tzagomez5155 Жыл бұрын

First 2 minutes and I'm already adding to cart sa shopee! I feel enlightened, understood and validated with my big feelings haha! Same with Pstr Joe, I also said the exact same words, 'Why is it so unfair, I feel like I'm on super hard mode in life' haha! I'm excited for the book to arrive! Thanks so much for this content!

@ForeverBlessedCharm Жыл бұрын

Timely to our situation i will recommend this to my husband to our devotion so we can learn together.

@iamkristina Жыл бұрын

Kahit d pa kame kasal open namam kame sa isat isa. We have no problem with money. we have one child. 😊👍

@sherryannu.thomas8819 Жыл бұрын

Wow, so awesome topic! Thanks for your topic and God's make away to understand me the marriage life. We're just getting to know each other this time for a month together from 4 years LDR. It's really hard, but thanks God for leading us to be stronger for the sake of our relationship. My hubby was good and supportive, but the problem is me and hard for both of us to adjust our attitude and behavior especially me. Difficult culture, but have advantage also. Thanks God for being our center of our life. God bless and more power to both of you Rica 🙏 Sherry🇺🇸

@aarontiamson158 Жыл бұрын

grabe yung laman ng vlog nato salamat po!!! (feeling ko po mic lang ni Pastor Joe nagrecord)

@goodannebana2402 Жыл бұрын

I am single yet this teaches me a lot as an individual whom someday will fall into a place called Relationship😊😁 Thank you po🥰😍

@WisdomSeekersofChrist Жыл бұрын

Wow, full of wisdom, I praise God for the both of you! Nakakaiyak especially the last part! 😭🙏💝🙌

@belyu4452 Жыл бұрын

I am interested in vlogs like this even though I am not married. Hoping to see more!

@Jessica-yf3do Жыл бұрын

This is a buffett for couples.❤ Thank you!Continue to shine for Jesus!

@roselleanerdis9106 Жыл бұрын

God bless you Boni's! This is a very enlightening and helpful vlog.

@maylineabastas9183 Жыл бұрын

I love listening to your conversation. A lot of very fruitful lesson to learn. How I wish malakas lng ang mic ni Jo. 😅

@momhoney3792 Жыл бұрын

yes definitely we would love to have more videos from both of you about marriage and family... praise God for the inspiration you both share to us, your avid viewers. Happy new year and may God bless... 🙏

@l.i.i.s2987 Жыл бұрын

Make an e-book please!

@arethamikayvalencia3847 Жыл бұрын

My idol since I was young.. Pretty as ever po Ms Rica..

@bellam6908 Жыл бұрын

Watched this with my hubby and he decided that we need to buy your book afterwards! Excited kami to answer some questions and to also write our own stories/insight about our marriage. We’re a young couple and we are very blessed to have you both to give us wisdom about marriage 💖💖💖

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

Pls share with us also your insights!!!!

@jonnalopez3183 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience. This came to my feed on the right time. Its like God talked to me and answered my prayer. I want to read your book. And yes more helpful vlogs like this one. God bless your family 😊

@rodelcaguicla5080 Жыл бұрын

Ohh Emm gee..ansarap pakinggan at panooren yung couple na toH, grabeh yung energy napaka strong..lakas makapam budol talaga lalo na dun sa may mga asawa😊,andami ko na naman natutunan,kahit single pa rin ako..paRang gusto ko na bukas mag asawa🤣 Yung last part sa vlog, tagus na tagus sa puso ko..damang dama ko promise😢 tHank you Mr. and Mrs. Bonis❤️

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

best comment hahahahahahhaha

@rodelcaguicla5080 Жыл бұрын

a die hard Fan..sana may award akong Eleven Eleven na book..🤣🤣 soo excited to get my copy.. may kasama n po ba yung libreng autograph?thanks po😊

@godsprincess5643 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Miss Rica and hubby, Jesus Loves Us!

@ellaandrade1747 Жыл бұрын

Full of realizations in life bcoz of u guys. Thank you Rica and Joe! I will buy ur book definitely. More vlogs like this please.

@Iamarjey Жыл бұрын

Wow! More vlogs like this please!

@yanes.pebenito7582 Жыл бұрын

• The “in-laws issue” is a “spouse issue”. • “Pagkakaiba” lang ba ito or “Kamalian” na?

@yanes.pebenito7582 Жыл бұрын

Grabe, I can relate to Carla but I can also relate to Joe! Loved this vlog! Can’t wait for my copy of the book!

@yanes.pebenito7582 Жыл бұрын

Tnx for your candor, Joseph & Carla! Great questions, audience!

@acar957 Жыл бұрын

I love mr boni! I am enjoying your videos together more than I do with rica and the others 😅 power couple talaga

@joykojima Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much❤❤❤I love it❤😘🙏More please❤️🙏God bless you more❤️🙏Huge fan of yours from Nagoya Japan🇯🇵🇵🇭❤️

@zizaworld Жыл бұрын

This is 🥇 excited for the book. I dearly loved Better than Jewels. I know I will love your new book. Praise God for your lives. Thank you Bonis. I love you ❤️

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

Wow maraming salamat ❤

@deeyeyleigh2143 Жыл бұрын

Totally unrelated but that color really looks good on you Rica 😊

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

Awwww hahahah i think so also

@lenglengski Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this...Yes! #9.. hello to the Philippine legislative body!! it is so unfair sa naiwan na spouse, the infidel has this sort of freedom, pero the other spouse is just left behind. Yung freedom na lang nga sana yung regalo sa sarili, eh ikaw pa gagastos ng malaki at maghihintay ng matagal, as compared to divorce na mas mabilis sana. 😔 yes to a God-centered marriage, pero kung may chronic infidelity na, give the other spouse a chance naman 🙃

@sharingoutlovesol1663 Жыл бұрын

Wow! Praise God 🙏💖 Thanks to you both Where we can find your book Ms. Rica?

@anjo3615 Жыл бұрын

wow...a very smart couple..you're way younger than me but im really learning a lot...hope to have a copy of your book!!!!

@angeliquematriano6547 Жыл бұрын

Hi! Ms rica, it helps a lot for us! We are in 6 years in relationship and planning to get married soon! ❤

@magelamurielle7686 Жыл бұрын

I learned so much from this vlog. I love it! More to come pls 😊

@linadiaz1953 Жыл бұрын

Amazing input very anointed, full of wisdom. Thank you

@edenalon5435 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this very wonderful episode.

@jedviervlogs7773 Жыл бұрын

Hi thank you for the good topic that you tackled . Hope for more of this vlog about life and marriage.god bless your family , ❤

@ForeverBlessedCharm Жыл бұрын

Oh wow, I want that book. Where to get it ? I’m living in Melbourne. And yes please I want more of this, it’s so helpful. Thank you and God bless.

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

You may direct message @wellandwise.co on instagram :) they will entertain international orders

@Hannah-mr9xb Жыл бұрын

these are the exact answers for all of my questions and what if's..

@katleenevangelista1549 Жыл бұрын

Waiting!!!

@KITTEEKAT Жыл бұрын

So meaty. So full of wisdom! Is your book available on kindle? Thank you for doing this!!!

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

No hahaha! Inuubos muna ang physical copies hahaha

@christiandcmarcos Жыл бұрын

Excited for this❤

@michaelferrer2823 3 күн бұрын

Hello po pastor joe and ms rica can u give me advice i cannot erase my wife's past sexual experiences woth her past boyfriends meaning she was not a virgin when we got married and on d other side i was a virgin and it felt unfair to me. I know its wrong po, but i can help but u compare myself to the guys he slept with andit brings more doubt lack of self confidence to myself pahingi po ng advice please and prayers. Please reply to me po Godbless 😢

@jonnafemartin6864 11 ай бұрын

Thank u Guys

@anniesalamat1476 Жыл бұрын

Nice vlog!...indeed love is a decision, loving imperfect person seeking their highest good for God's glory....

@jeralyncabangis8811 Жыл бұрын

Kahit single ang daming take away ✨

@lovertabillaballeza7281 Жыл бұрын

Ang Ganda nito.. gusto kodin to.. thanks for sharing.maam Rica .

@jedviervlogs7773 Жыл бұрын

Hi thank you for doing this. You help a lot of couple especially those in a relationship or married couple. I hope you continue this blog advice or Q and A theme. It’s really interesting. Talk a lot of different topic in general mostly on how to deal in life and put god on yourself. Thank you and hope there’s more next Q and A god bless your family 😊

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

Meron pa! Hehe ❤ next year!

@jedviervlogs7773 Жыл бұрын

@@RicaPeralejoBonifacio wow okay thank you I’m looking forward for that❤️😊

@sharingoutlovesol1663 Жыл бұрын

Sold out the Book Ms. Rica huhuhu

@jocelynlabayoga6076 Жыл бұрын

Very informative. This is such a blessing!

@moo1779 Жыл бұрын

love this vlog that am very interested to have a copy of your book. ❤

@queincycarbonera7057 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this po! Very insightful even for a single woman like me ♥️

@princessnuevo1042 Жыл бұрын

Thank you 💕 dami kong natutunan hindi pala ako o kami ang nakakaranas 😅

@neriserosales5432 Жыл бұрын

Looking forward to have your book...prang sit down talk n toh hehehe.

@JillMG Жыл бұрын

Thank you po. ❤❤❤

@annecenteno Жыл бұрын

Galeng!!! Congrats guys! D

@gemmahamilton6876 Жыл бұрын

I love watching your vlog. Authentic and anointing by God.

@williamdevero7154 Жыл бұрын

Miss rica kelan ka kaya uli aacting kahit pa guest guest lang sa mga documentary drama series.

@bethvictor1190 Жыл бұрын

Excellent content!

@bloodymary0606 Жыл бұрын

I want to watch this but I fear it might strike a chord. My husband has depression, I want to support him but nauubos na ko, pagod na. How can I support someone who doesnt want to accept help? It pains me to see him lifeless.

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

😢

@joebonifacio Жыл бұрын

ACK! I had a long reply to this that got lost. Will retype it again.

@bloodymary0606 Жыл бұрын

@@joebonifacio thank you!

@joebonifacio Жыл бұрын

@@bloodymary0606 1. Get help for yourself, not just for him. You'll need it. Feel free to take a break, reach out to friends, or do something that energizes you. 2. Be prepared for the long haul. This may take a while. 3. Celebrate small wins. A smile, a touch, a positive response. Keep reminding yourself and your spouse that while you aren't rushing them, you are also in faith that God will show up. 4. Study up on how to help someone in that condition.

@bloodymary0606 Жыл бұрын

@@joebonifacio thank u Pastor Joe. If you can say a little prayer for me too, I’m still hoping we will get better, if nakaya nyo po ng wife nyo I believe can too. Salamat Salamat po.

@herspace94 Жыл бұрын

Waitinggg!

@herspace94 Жыл бұрын

Im a single woman but I know Im invested to this channel to prepare myself. Hehehe. Thanks Bonis!

@eleonorvelasco1488 Жыл бұрын

Nice episode .. great talk and discussion .. helped me somehow to understand things about marriage and realized many things..though just find this a bit too fast of a discussion (how probably you speak lols) but great great discussion and one of the best topics for the vlog, you are a couple who inspires, teach and a lot of sense! all the best..

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio Жыл бұрын

It’s a vlog kasi so the full version which is slower is in pur podcast 😂

@eleonorvelasco1488 Жыл бұрын

@@RicaPeralejoBonifacio soo excited for the book I just ordered after watching this... always a fan Rica..