Bjorn Whyte I’m glad they helped. Become an advocate, fight against the stigma whenever possible. Good Luck on your journey my friend.

Krista Mcginnis I’m Glad it helped. I’m personally winning more battles. Haven’t won the war yet. Good luck to you.

I have made tremendous leaps in my recovery and managing my health anxiety. My formula to mental health was building a routine. It doesn’t mean I can’t fall off and regress. It takes time for sure. Thanks for sharing your journey with me. Sending good energy your way.

Christa Landon Thank you for your support and kind words. I have made huge strides towards my mental health. It’s so great to hear from someone that is surviving with their anxiety.

You’re very welcome...anxiety is very real and once you get the proper medication, therapy relying on God for strength you will get there...I promise!!!...one day you will look back at this season in your life and be like “wow”...why did I even worry about all of that???...I’m thankful I went through what I did because my 19 year old daughter has anxiety as well and I am able to understand it and tell her she’s not “crazy”...and her anxiety is just like any other chronic illness such as diabetes, etc...as with any physical illness that you have to take medication for it you have a mental illness which is also physical as the chemicals in your brain are out of whack...don’t ever be ashamed of mental illness the stigma is horrible!!!...you WILL get well and be so thankful and will be able to help others through it as you are helping those out there that have this same fear and anxiety to know they are not alone...I’m here for you if you ever have any questions or need reassurance...continued prayers!!!...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

John Baker Thank you for the support! I’m glad to do my part.

Hi ...me too ...can you tell me your story,please?

How are you now? I hope you’re fine

It’s is conclusive. I’m glad the video was helpful and that your test was negative. 🤘🏽

I’m in the same boat. Like you I am very fortunate to have been successful in my journey. I recognize though that the underlining causes of my health anxiety still persist. My routine plays a huge part in keeping me emotionally healthy.

How r u doing now?

Thank you so much for sharing with me. You deserve to live a healthy life and it comes with work. Good luck on your journey towards mental health.

search for ynzinbing I have the same problems

Murade Omer It is a struggle that’s rooted in fear and for me was a loss of control and identity. It takes time to rebuild. You will beat it though. You deserve mental health and to enjoy the gifts that life provides. The FACT that you are negative can not be debated. Invest in your mental health, by starting healthy habits. Healthy habits are what has gotten me to this point of recovery. It’s also something I haven’t accomplished alone. Speak out and fight against the stigma of HIV and general anxiety. We aren’t crazy.... we are human. Good Luck on your journey.

@@apreeahaynes9259 I didn't have any symptoms beside being OCD. yes I am still negative. Unfortunately few months ago I got needle stick at work and that kind of almost reactivated my OCD but I didn't let it get to me.

Bro I am dying. I had potential exposure like 12 days ago. Soon after 3 days I got fever. I tested covid and I was positive. Fever is gone but I have lost my appetite and when I eat I feel like I’ll have a diarrhoea right after. I am so worried. I feel like this js the end. Can you please tell me what kind of exposure you had?

Player1original I’m so glad to hear you are overcoming your fear. Even if that fear sits on the fringe of our thoughts, we aren’t alone. Our rational minds tell us we are fine. It’s an unreasonable fear that makes us irrational. You are totally correct, it’s apart of our journey and growth. I’m so glad to hear from you. Good luck as you continue on your journey and thanks for the well wishes as I travel on mine.

How did you test at 90 days?

​​@@manjunathah2152 how are you now?

@@manjunathah2152 good to hear that.

R v Your results are conclusive. I’m glad the videos helped. Dry skin can be a result of how much water you intake. Your anxiety causes life style changes which in turn change your body. So see a Dr. It’s not HIV your test in conclusive. Look up what the word “conclusive” means, if you ever doubt your results. Good lucky on your journey towards mental health.

@@joelopez3105 Thank you for the quick reply bro :). I really appreciate it........you words help me a lot. The only worry I have is that it is a second gen rapid test and I am not sure how common and safe these are for conclusive results on HIV screening !!!

R v Before you delve into the web don’t get wrapped up in percentages of accuracy. The rapid test is as accurate as they come. HIV does not hide in your body. If you have already looked online as to the percentages of accuracy let me explain those publications are talking about false positives. Never false negatives. The test is that sensitive. What you can do moving forward is continue you education on HIV. Become a force multiplier and fight the stigma. That’s what causes the fear. It’s this old stigma that we need to fight against. Happy to help. Try to pay it forward in the future. You aren’t alone in your fears. I hope now you see how fear alone can devastate someone’s life. Good lucky on your journey towards mental health.

@@joelopez3105 Thank you so much for the detailed reply Joe. Yes, I was googling the accuracy of the tests and worried that my test would be a false negative. Thank you so much for reassuring me. I will definitely help people fight this stigma, try to educate them and myself while trying to overcome this problem. Thank you so much for spending your time and patience for all the people who are in need and have no one to talk to !!! Thank you.

No, there are other medical conditions. It’s not HIV.

I don’t know how I missed your message. I’m sorry about the late response. Fear actually causes a chemical change in your body. Your body doesn’t differentiate between good and bad. Your body becomes dependent on the chemicals dump. The fight or flight. Look that up. See what it releases in your body. Once you get spun up on that you will understand what your body is going through. So, the way you start to regulate this chemicals dump is through combat breathing, meditation, and healthy habits. Good luck on your journey towards mental health. You will beat it.

Yeah am too experienced the same😐😐..eventogh I used all protective measures

Huhuhu this is so me..I had sex with someone who is hiv positive but he told me he is undetectable.I took pep and tested negative but still worry and paranoid sometimes about delayed seroconversion.I get crazy every day thinking about it.I hope I will be cleared soon I Jesus name!

Omg same shit. My mind goes crazy

Same issue too even after a 4th gen ab/agP24 test 8 weeks after pep ,which is actually 12 weeks after exposure. Fear is such a crippling feeling.

I’m just wondering why you are concerned? Do you have concerns about your sex partners or do you already suffer from health anxiety. What has brought this about for you? In all honesty you are doing the right thing by getting tested if you are sexually active. Also If your sex partners are not IV drug users and Heterosexual males it is extremely unlikely. I know waiting is a scary time, just know HIV is only a chronic condition now. You live a full and healthy life with a +status. Of course this doesn’t take away from having a healthy sex life. Consider Prep if you have multiple sex partners. Talk to you health care provider about it. Sending positive vibes your way. You will be good 🤗.

How's the result? would you share with us?

I used 2mm dermaroller from amazon,sterlised it with 70% isopropyl alcohol for about 3-5 mins then used it,now I'm having an anxiety what if the derma roller was used by someone else before me,what if they have sent me used product😔

Hi brother what is your symptoms

You have already tested negative. Tests do not lie. You are negative. If you continue to not feel well I would see a Dr. You could just have a sore throat.

😢😢😢😢😢😅

Trust the results it it 99.8% accurate

I did too I was working in the basement pulling up old tile with mold. I got a swollen lymph 😢 idk if I have hiv cos I gave a dude bj also and swlalowd it 😭

Your test is conclusive. That means beyond a doubt. You are negative.

​@@joelopez3105 Can my test results be used as a basis for life and how can I stop this anxiety so I don't keep thinking about it

​@@joelopez3105 please, I'm waiting for your reply to make me more sure and always calm

Mico Banug Anxiety is what you have. HIV Phobia is a real thing. Tests don’t lie and HIV does NOT HIDE IN YOUR BODY. Seek out a Councelor. Work on your mental health. Good luck in your journey. You are not alone in this.

@@joelopez3105 thankyou so much sir hoping and praying for our healing

Mico Banug bro if you don’t get any symptoms after you think you have transmitted like after 2-4 weeks than chill still check after 40 days if its negative than just forget it

what were the symptoms you have?

What was your exposure

If your anxiety has been growing since you touched blood it’s possible that your itching is a physical manifestation of your anxiety. Although you might have had a cut on your hand the body actually closes it’s wounds to prevent infection. I’m sure you washed your hands after that experience. HIV also loses its ability to infect outside of the human body within several hrs. So it’s unlikely. To sooth your concerns I always recommend testing. You can do it with an at home test. Good luck on your journey and sorry about the delayed response.

Have you tested??

Pretty Lady I recently learned how fragile my healing truly is. Today after external influences I found myself counting days from potential exposure to my last test. 237 days, that’s the count. I know without a doubt that I am negative, still there is the fear. Because my fear really has nothing to do with the virus. It’s my battle with OCD and GAD (health anxiety). I will never be invincible, like I once thought I was. Sure it’s immature to think oneself indestructible, only I truly believed it. After surviving so many horrors in my life, I thought nothing can hurt me. Then, in just a few days my world was rocked with unimaginable fear that took a year of my life from me and still takes days away from me on occasion. All I can do is recognize the irrational thoughts and let them wash over me. I think the fact that you test every year is courageous, only I wish you saw it that way. Not in a negative light. You are doing what more people should do. What I’m getting at is take strides to own every moment of your life. Own even the fear. My fear although irrational is apart of me. It’s okay, and I’m not broken, it’s just me. I accept my imperfections and work towards making each day better when I can. If I slip, I simply start again. Thank you for sharing. Good Luck on your journey towards mental health.

@@joelopez3105 thank you for your response. you totally get me! what's your ig?

Pretty Lady You can find me at Enderrevin. Its all motorcycles though.

@@prettylady6013 what is your symptoms after exposure

Once I muster up the courage to retest, I'm going down that road too. That's the safest way

First I’m sorry about the late response. I know how each day can be agonizing. Regarding your Skin conditions, understand those things happened before you started inspecting every inch of your body. Only before you didn’t notice. Skin rashes happen for a multitude of reasons to include weather changes and clothing articles you may be wearing to food you have eaten. Most importantly it will occur as a result of constant anxiety. It literally starts to affect your physiology. It happened to me. So let me assure you that tests don’t lie. Your girlfriend is negative and you are negative. As I’m sure you observed in my videos, tests are accurate after 15 days. The CDC considers tests after 90 Days conclusive. Think about it though. The US is extremely conservative in their findings. What you are dealing with is most likely guilt. You possibly feel like you need to suffer because of that guilt. I want you to know no one, not even an IV Drug user deserves HIV. Bad things happen to good people all the time. You need to focus your energy on your mental health. I agree that HIV is scary. The reality though is that HIV is a manageable condition. People live full lives taking one pill a day. That pill makes a person undetectable. It doesn’t mean we shouldn’t practice safe sex. Talking about your risky espouse. What you consider risky probably isn’t. Was it with a sex worker? If so female to male transmission is almost none existent. Male to male and male to female is extremely high risk. I hope some of what I have said has brought some peace to you today. I know that the journey will likely have darker days still in your future. Mental health doesn’t happen overnight. Good luck on your journey towards mental health.

@@joelopez3105 thank you Sir for your positive insight. Atleast you've helped this soul here, you've put a smile once more on me, I'll be peaceful today, but this anxiety this is really terrifying. One day you are healed, another day you are freaked out,,, ooh how I wish I could find medication to it. Otherwise I appreciate your lovely comment. May God bless you and continue using you to change lives

@@pankajnandihalli7674 hi pankaj

how is ur health now

Hi Rohit how are you now

If you are suffering from chronic anxiety, you can be assured that it manifests with physical symptoms. Many people think it’s only phycological, It’s not. This channel was created to focus on health anxiety and HIV Phobia, although it applies to anyone suffering from anxiety, especially if it’s something you hadn’t experienced in the past to this extent. Anxiety is a very natural human response to fear. If you are afraid of something or dealing with stressors in your life it’s very common to suffer from anxiety. There are many techniques to help you cope with these feelings. Just know the sooner you gain an understanding of your situation, the better it will be for you physically. Prolonged anxiety can alter your physiology and leave you with long term conditions. Sounds to me like you are suffering some kind of vertigo. This sounds like an inner ear issue. Seek medical attention specifically for this. Good luck on your journey towards mental health.

Im afraid about my status and result after 6 months because Im afraid to having of HIV this is always appear to my thinking and sometimes Im panic and you said a while ago this is chronic dizziness right? I have more questions! How many weeks or months to gone my dizziness? Because I want to back my normal status because as of now Im always negative thinking about my status but bro this day I get my result again and my result is nonreactive but my big problem after 6 months my final result that is my problem as of now therefore, I have anxiety that effect of chronic dizziness

@@joelopez3105 and bro as of now Im okay but my dizziness is still to me because that is chronic dizziness I hope this dizziness is gone huhu

90 Days is considered conclusive here in the states NOT 6months. After 14 days results are accurate and only change as a result of pre existing conditions. Still test at 90 days. There is no need to test again after that. The dizziness will come and go until you get your anxiety under control.

Kira Kabanovich In most countries tests are considered conclusive after 14 days. There are medical conditions you would already be aware of that would cause you to test + after 90. With that being said, you don’t have HIV. Not because of oral sex. Also do you know the status of the person you were with? Is there a reason why you have focused on HIV. Normally the fear has to do with guilt. It’s our way of punishing ourselves because we feel we did something wrong. Intimacy isn’t something to feel bad about. Instead have safe sex, get tested regularly, and put your energy towards living. Good luck on your journey towards mental health.

Joe Lopez Thanks for the advice... I gave my life to Christ and repented of everything. I was going down the liberal path but in my heart I’m conservative child of God, the person wasn’t bad but very liberal and found he has lots of experience,if he has something then he’s not aware of it.overall he looked healthy but I realized this is not my purpose go through this...

Joe Lopez It turn out negative. Glory to God! I can sleep better for now. If I don’t get any symptoms in the future, then I will forget about it.

@@seohyunvalencia8999 Just don't google about it anymore !!! That would be the worst thing you can ever do.

R v Thank you and I’m not gonna do that. The only thing that gets me anxious is the process of getting over the past situations because I already realized that I was blind but now I see. I’m human and is still hard but I know God is with me and I will get over it eventually and will pray for you guys too!💕

Mouth sores are common when you have a fever. If you had a fever you would have antibodies. Get an at home ora quick test to subside your anxiety. It’s great that your partner is aware of their sexual health. Getting tested is healthy although nerve wrecking. I understand this all to well. Before you start self diagnosing just get tested. Based on the way you expressed your concerns I’m under the impression that you have gone down the internet rabbit hole. I remember finding Acute infection during my internet searches. Stay off the internet as it will provide you half truths that won’t subside your anxiety. The internet is designed to make you keep clicking and all of it just keeps getting scarier. The truth about HIV is that it’s a chronic condition and undetectable means untranslatable. That means full life, healthy babies, and nothing holding you back from living. You deserve to have a healthy sex life. Don’t let this anxiety destroy you. The road back to mental health is so difficult. The only thing you are in control of is your outlook. Since you talk with your partner get tested together. Each of you buy an at home test and take it together. Before you start researching the accuracy of at home tests let me save you some work. The percentages associated with their accuracy are talking about false positives. NOT false negatives. That’s how sensitive these tests are. Good luck on your journey and keep me posted.

@@joelopez3105 is the test kit accurate after 30 days after exposure? Im planning to do it around 2nd week april.. i talked to the guy i was with he said hes clean and tested regularly and hes on prep.. he even sent me a copy of his last qr real time pcr shows negative last month which was feb 7, march 3 we had condomless sex coz he claimed hes clean.. what im afraid is he might catch hiv during those weeks before we had sex.. he said i was just being paranoid.. today im only experiencing recurrent low grade fever for a month now just fever like on and off , temp gets lower at night but everyday i have this raised temperature .. its making me go crazy.. u think hiv symptoms can only have fever?? Sorry for my english..

Lindawati Ningrum High Anxiety causes your immune system to be stressed. You are more susceptible to common colds. I know when dealing with my anxiety at its worst I was afraid of every physical ailment. To include a cold. Only way to know is to get tested. You can’t use symptoms as a means of identifying your status. It’s just not the way it works. Some people won’t show any symptoms for up to 8 years. So get tested. Early detection means a full life. HIV treated is no different than diabetes. U=U. Become educated on the topic and fight the stigma. It will help you with your anxiety also. Good luck on your journey.

@@joelopez3105 thank you for replying, man. Can I ask you another question? Did you experience swollen lymph nodes? I don't know if what's appearing in my body now is really a swollen lymph node or just another bump. My neck looks normal, not swollen at all. But when I turn it right and put my finger on it and give a little bit pressure, I feel a tiny, movable object. It doesn't hurt when pressed.

Lindawati Ningrum I spoke to my Dr. About this very thing and since you are checking and touching that area you will actually cause your nodes to raise. It’s very common.

I am going through the same thing from last 1month after possible exposure.... I am not able to sleep in night... Feel very weak.... Not able to concentrate... I am 100% sure I am HIV positive....

The severe anxiety can change your physiology. For example I never had inner ear issues. Now I do. It sucks. It’s also something I will probably deal with for the rest of my life. So it could be a common cold or basic infection. Remember you can’t diagnose based on symptoms. Only way to know is to test.

hi

hi,can I know the symptoms u experienced,its been a month I had last exposure,I have headache,vertigo,nausea,diarrhea,soar throat and white tongue. but I feel like I have fever from last three days but my body temperature remains normal @ 97 F. and I have no rashes. and I did protected sex all the time.

@@manjunathah2152 headache, fatigue, felt like i was gonna pass out, felt something in my throat, coughing & lower back and other muscles aches

@@xeaq9 ok

@@Raafatgt yes i went for test i am negative

Hi Samriti, Same here dear. It is 5 months now after the exposure. Still, I didn't test. Because of fear. I can understand your situation right now. The first 1 month was very stressful for me. After that stress level is decreased. Now some times I am very confused. That time I am coming under this kind of videos. Hope We both get the courage to test soon.

@@unluckyman7140 did you get any symptoms?

@@samritibhardwaj4027 1st 1 month was difficult for me. I got throat pain & fatigue. 1-2 months I am always looking for the symptoms. So I don't know my anxiety & fear make the symptoms. what about you?

​@@samritibhardwaj4027 Actually I am not getting chat notifications of your messages. Sorry for the late reply. Don't worry, we will overcome soon.

@@unluckyman7140 no it's okay... but I think waiting for symptoms or even having fear why we have to like that

You can get a rapid test done at a local clinic. They do a finger prick and have a result in 20 mins. You talked about seeing HIV more in media. That happened to me also when I first started my spiral into anxiety. There was a program on Netflix. While the scene in the show played out my heart sank and I had a panic attack. I was so sensitive to my environment. You feel like you had a risky exposure. Think on this though, was the man you were with heterosexual, is he an IV drug user? If he is hetro and not an IV drug user the chances of him having HIV are extremely low. Look at those commercials and think about who they are focusing on. You are not a high risk candidate for HIV. So why is HIV what you fear. That’s the question I had to ask myself. Understanding that was another step towards my mental health. Please keep me updated on your progress. Good luck on your journey towards mental health.

@@joelopez3105 wow this is amazing,I felt better now because of this..

Did u test?

@@amelliandremillie6712 may i ask your story?

Story of my life now I have a muscle pull and swollen am googling symptoms every second. I had a horrible dream about it.

Deja Bolt This is health anxiety. You will attribute every ache, pain, or discomfort as a possible symptom of HIV. If you are still researching symptoms online you are disrupting your pathway towards recovery. Most people don’t realize many of the symptoms associated with HIV are very late stage stuff. It’s also not a single symptom you would be dealing with. Honesty this is the first time I have every heard of such a symptom. It’s really important to stop researching on KZfaq. There is so much miss information on here. I know it’s difficult. Just remember you aren’t alone. This isn’t a unique problem just for you. I recently went for my annual physical. My results are that I’m extremely healthy. Made me feel great. Still, Someone I care for called into question my Doctors abilities based on a completely unrelated topic and I lost some sleep over it. I still battle with my health anxiety. I managed it and got back on my path. It’s okay to have bad days. Just keep putting greater distance between them whenever possible.

Yes most of my days are great until I feel something and then I’m worrying again. I’m on the path to recovery and I’ll get there eventually, God willing. Thank you for all your support.

You feel like there is something wrong with you. I experienced that also. High levels of anxiety and hyper focusing on your body will make you feel weird. Recently I overcame another bout of health anxiety. I doubted the oral test and felt better once taking the blood test. Both negative. I know that what I was feeling had nothing to do with me testing or even being at risk of HIV. It had to do with being under allot of stress and recognizing this is how my mind responds to a disrupted routine. Mental health is a journey. Tests don’t lie. Tests have false positives. Not false negatives.

You obviously know its impossible that you have HIV. Your battle is with guilt. I want to make this clear, no matter how bad you may feel about what you did, it doesn’t mean you deserve HIV. HIV isn’t a punishment. Some people have contracted it after being in committed relationships. What causes your fear is a stigma that has had years to fester in our deepest fears. That stigma is a byproduct of miss information. If you are a heterosexual male , I’m sure you already know it’s virtually impossible to contract HIV. I complete understand why you are experiencing these irrational thoughts. You deserve to have a healthy sex life and a relationship. You could drink buckets of that woman’s saliva and not contract HIV. I could continue to give you affirmations that make you feel good, only I think it’s more productive if you discover what is actually causing your fear. For me it was control and guilt. Good luck on your journey towards mental health.

@@joelopez3105 I appreciate your reply thank you 🙏

You will need to explain more about the encounter so I can understand if you are high risk. 5 days and chest rash doesn’t seem likely. I also don’t know your medical history. If it’s been more than 15 days get tested. That will end any doubt you have. HIV is considered a chronic condition now. Just one pill a day makes a person undetectable.

@@joelopez3105 it was protected anal but it only happened for 10 secs and j told him to stop as I didn't feel like doing it.... no past medical history

@@sunset_midnight1585 Getting tested regularly is a healthy practice. Your encounter was protected so it isn’t a high risk encounter. Don’t go down the internet rabbit hole. If you have Insta jump on Jennifer Vaughns page or check her out here on You Tube. Taking an at home test before having a new partner or getting tested after a new partner for all STDs is simply just being sexually healthy. Get comfortable with the dialog also before being intimate. Ask if your partner has tested and when was their last test. This conversation dampens any mood, I get it. The more you do it though the easier it becomes and the more comfortable you will become. It shouldn’t affect how you test though. Regarding the rash the word “persistent” is what you need to know. Meaning it goes away and then comes back after any treatment. Try an antihistamine or rub on the pink stuff (can’t remember what it’s called). Recently I had a heat rash on my waste and under my arms. It threw me into an anxiety spiral. I used my tools and remained functional until I could take a test. I obviously tested negative as I had no reason to be positive. I had never had heat rash before. Only my body is changing as I get older and weather changes recently caused me to bundle up more. There are so many reasons for us to get sick. It’s not going to be HIV.

Chrisy boo The tests after 3 Months are conclusive. That means beyond a doubt. You are negative. Especially with no further potential exposures. Your mental healthy is what you need to work on. It’s not HIV. How to believe your negative status... it’s a recipe that start with healthy habits and time. Be grateful for one thing each day. Learn to meditate, work on thought stoppage, get a Councelor, start slowly exercising, and educate yourself about what living with HIV is really about. You shouldn’t fear HIV because even if you were positive which you aren’t, your life wouldn’t change. You would still live a full life. You are however killing yourself with anxiety. There is a very real chemical Imbalance within you. I know this because there was one within me. It takes time to get ahead of this. Don’t beat yourself up because you aren’t magically better. People who do not suffer from HIV phobia can’t understand that a negative test isn’t the answer to moving forward. It’s a mental health issue. The FACTS are that you are negative is a part of the healing but regaining your life is a much longer road. Good Luck on your journey. You are not alone.

@@joelopez3105 yeahh thats what the doc say but its sooo hard i havent been slping good not eating good the doctor also said pour stress can lead to weight loss. Sometimes i feel suicidal

Chrisy boo So did I. Please don’t feel that you are the only one to experience thoughts of suicide. I also experienced this. It took a network of people to help me through some of my darkest moments. I knew that I had much to accomplish in this world. We truly have only a finite time on this earth. So please work on healing so you no longer squander this precious time that you have. Everything your Dr has said is FACT. Anxiety can ravage your body. It takes time. Please allow that time to pass so your hormones can start to balance out. Sleep is extremely important. While I was medicated it was specific to sleep. Once I had a sleep regiment down everything else slowly became clear. I’m no longer taking medications. Continue to fight for your future. You deserve it. There is still much you have to do.

@@joelopez3105 did you lost weight and experience like real symptoms

Chrisy boo Yes I did. I have finally gained my weight back. Probably more than I wanted to. I just couldn’t eat. I didn’t realize I wasn’t eating either. I was so focused on my other symptoms which were a result of my anxiety that I didn’t realize I wasn’t eating. Then I became very thin which also didn’t help my fears and compounded my anxiety.

George Castanza I had risky unprotected oral sex... and i’m really scared that i got it, cuz it was with a stranger so i don’t know anything about him and i have to wait 3 months until i can get tested and be sure if i’m negative or not...

@@monikatran7498 By all protocol 3 months is the window period but do it by 4 generation hiv test at 45 days and 90 days if the exposure is happen withhin 72 hour take PEP TREATMENT as soon as....

KhNeo Gaming well 72 hours passed already, cuz i didn’t know that this treatment exist... well my doc said that i should wait 3 months and get tested to all STDs, well i’m getting tested in March so keep me luck!!! But really i don’t know what am i going to do, cuz i really think i have it.... and it’s killing me so im going to therapy

Do you see any cut or blood when doing oral sex but oral sex is low risk or negligible by the research but certainly present in oral sex so do hiv combo test at 30 days this will give u 95 % accuracy after 90 days conclusive if you have money to do hiv rna PCR qualitative test after 15 days so good luck... This is my whatapp no if u want to contact me +919856285602

Monika Tran So Sorry about the late response. How did it turn out? Everything Khneo said was on point and berry accurate. Extremely low risk from oral sex.

Your test is conclusive. You do not need to test again. Focus on moving on with your life. Tests are conclusive at 90 days. The 6month tests is extremely old information.

@@enderrevin8904 eclia test which generation test sir

@@enderrevin8904 eclia test at 98 days 💯 conclusive

​@@shanthannashanthanna2993 did u test again??

@@rockyrawat7476 have you tested bro

So I’m the states tests at considered conclusive at 90 days. Most European countries consider tests conclusive after 15 days. HIV doesn’t hide. That’s the facts. I have never seen the test change results after 15 days. I would say you are conclusive. That means you are negative beyond a doubt. Testing annually is you are sexually actively is simply being healthy. Just test annually. Chances are you did not even have a high risk exposure. If you are hetero male, understand female to male transmission is non existent. Check out J Voughns Instagram on down low men. She was HIV plus for a year before finding out she was HIV+. She had unprotected sex with the same partner and never transmitted.

@@joelopez3105 thank you brother...

Bro i did HIV AG/AB TEST at 24,28,31,35 days AFTER EXPOSURE.. I AM SAFE OR NOT.. CAN I FEEL OK NOW ??

Bir Musluman Honestly Bir, you have taken the first step in recovery and that realizing that your thoughts are irrational. It doesn’t mean that you will always have that clarity, but it’s a step in the right direction. You have lost so many years to this already. Seek counseling, meditate, appreciate little things in your life. You are missing out on the greatest gift of life, community. So make a plan for yourself. Like an outline. You can watch my other videos to see the path I have taken. Good luck to you.

Joe Lopez I accepted my mental condition, Some time I am very relaxed but after particular events my anxiety comes back. I have a question for you ? Are you now cured ? And how long have you been suffered ?

Joe Lopez sorry for my english. I am writing from The Netherlands :)

Bir Musluman Sorry about the late response. “Am I cured?” That’s a great question because honestly I don’t think it works that way. I have good days and bad days just like you explained. I think of it like being an addict. The anxiety is apart of me. I can’t control it. I can live with it. I can choose to not allow my anxiety or fears to detract from living a life that makes me happy. I also don’t come down on myself if I have a bad day. I won’t allow myself to look at it as a step backwards. I recognize the bad day and then let it go. Striving to make tomorrow better. You deserve to be happy. You are also responsible for making that happen. Good luck to you on your journey.

Joe Lopez hey bro I’m married for 15 yrs prior from that I slept with many women when I was single I did get tested 15 yrs ago n it was negative plus when I got with my wife I just been with her only n have 3 healthy boys I applied for correctional officer n they require med exam for stds n hiv all negative.. Which was 6 yrs ago .. I was separated from my wife for 7 months during that time n I was with a women slept with her used condoms protection long story short me n my wife got back together we had a child... 8 yrs later I been having irrational thoughts n getting this what if fears .. My wife a fatty tissue on her left breast completely normal but I’m thinking what if they give her a blood test n maybe just maybe I gave her hiv

Lindawati Ningrum Throat clearing was not one a symptom I regularly suffered from. I did however deal with it due to my sinuses draining down my throat. Or I would feel constricted. There are so many other more likely causes for what you are feeling. Good luck on your journey.

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So sorry about the late response. It seems to be a year since you sent this message. How are you doing?

Your safe. 90 days is conclusive. If you do 3rd gen test. 4 weeks is conclusive if you did 4th gen test.

I had burning armpits, have dizziness every day almost , still have scalp folliculitis, had night sweats , pimples everywhere which is not normal for me now that I’m 38

This all came out after a unprotected oral sex exposure I had 😔

Chronic anxiety disrupts your internal chemistry. I ended up with dizziness, pimples, and night sweats. These are things that are directly a byproduct of the anxiety. Prolonged it leaves lasting issues. For me it’s the ear tube problem. I simply accepted it.

@@cjd.465 you are negative. I have another response in this section for you regarding what was caused by anxiety.

@@joelopez3105 think I might have the same ear issues as u All of a sudden I’ve been feeling pressure, pop all day long Plus clogged nostrils for months now on top of everything else freaking sucks

R U fine now?

@@FaaiqKhan-hn2hb yes

It’s always healthy to get tested annually if you are sexually active. HIV is a chronic condition that is treatable when using medication. Undetectable means untranslatable. With that said all the symptoms you expressed sound like a byproduct of your anxiety as you are hyper focusing on your body you will actually notice things that you normally pay no attention to. In European counties tests done after 15 days are considered conclusive. Obviously your sexual partner is responsible with their sexual health. Talk with them about this anxiety If it’s an option. You deserve to have a healthy Sex life. This fear can become debilitating. Read some of my other responses to questions so you can develop a mental health plan. You got this and you aren’t alone. Good luck on your journey towards mental health.

thankyou so much joe im watching all of your videos its so inspiring and helpful. god bless you joe

​@@paul22846whats your result bro

@@josephsss44ro i have not tested yet bro because im scared of the outcome but im planning to get tested if theres is no improvement in my body. right now im still worried and very stress. how about you bro?

what's your results bro?

It’s amazing the things we start considering to pacify our fears. The mental note that it was less than a Min. It could have been for 45 mins and it wouldn’t change the extremely unlucky chance that you contracted HIV. Getting tested is something you should do annually if you are sexually active. It’s just responsible. HIV is considered a chronic condition just like diabetes. It doesn’t make you dirty or unclean. It doesn’t make you a bad person, and no one in the world deserves it. Those living with it and are treatment because undetectable. That means they can’t transmit. Undetectable means I untranslatable. What you fear is the stigma of HIV. I understand this all to well. There are phycological reasons for this. You may find other patterns in your behavior that support my statement. It took me a while to figure out I’m OCD and that I suffer from anxiety disorder. I’m not medicated and I focus on healthy routines like sleep, eating, exercise, and mindfulness. It’s the key to balance, get tested. 15 days after any intercourse is as accurate as it gets. 90 days per the CDC, only it’s very well tested that results don’t change after 15 days unless you have late stage cancer and several other medical conditions you would be very aware of. Good luck on your journey towards mental health and STOP looking things up on line (just in case you are) 🤘🏽

@@joelopez3105 thanks for the response you are right growing up in the 90s we were conditioned to fear hiv more then anything

@@zackflynn859 it really was. Those were different times for sure.

​@@joelopez3105Hlo sir, namaste🙏🙏, sir you say 15 days test after exposure, which test it would be,, pcr test or antibody test,, 🙏🙏 plz sir rply me😢😢

Read other comments and questions. I go down this road often. That internet search is more powerful at messing with your mind. This sounds like anxiety/ panic attacked to me. Get tested. It’s fast and you will alleviate your concerns. Also tests don’t lie. They are conclusive. Good luck on your journey towards mental health.

The diarrhea I had was as a result of Amoebiasis and Bacterial infections in my gut.Thanks for your replys

​@@Raafatgt how are you now?

@@1973sheki I'm ok now

@@derrickgrey6680 that sounds really good

Also I did pcr rna test at 13th days , 30th days pcr dna test and no virus detected ...still I’m not able to believe my results

priyank patel First, Im sorry about the late response. Holidays are hectic. The road to mental health is recognizing you have a mental health issue. It’s not HIV, it’s called health anxiety. It’s a very real thing with serious long term if not life long symptoms. Anxiety can cause damage to your body. Lower your immune system, change your physiology. Check out anxiety symptoms on KZfaq. You will find so many people that suffer. Much like any addict, once you become one, you are an addict for life. You simply learn the tools that help you stop being self destructive. The tests are accurate. You DONT have HIV and that’s the last I’ll discuss that. Find a Councelor. Mine told me I didn’t have to return to her as I have made incredible progress. I still see her though once a month. I figure it’s no different than brushing your teeth. It’s maintenance for my mind. You aren’t alone! So many people suffer just as you are. You have made HIV the focus of your anxiety. Just remember that what you are dealing with has nothing to do with the virus. Your physical symptoms can be a multitude of things so just go to the Dr. Be sure to let them know about your mental health issues. They can direct you to services. Know this though. Finding mental health services isn’t easy. It’s difficult and you need to shop around for one that works for you. I personally have had two. My first was not great. My second one took me to where I am today. One of the tools I use is called thought stoppage. Look it up on line. Many different methods of it. I hope some of what I have shared will help you. Only you can take the steps to mental health and you are worth it. Good Luck on your Journey. Stop looking up HIV sites. Focus on your mental health.

Joe Lopez hey sorry for the delayed response ... happy new year once again ... thank you for your advice ... I will see a psychologist for my anxiety issue ... once again thank you for your support ... I’ll get back to you soon after visiting psychologist ...thank you and god bless you

Monky you have already crossed 3 months mark now , once the lockdown is over u can simply take duo combo test as this test has 90 days window period and I’m sure it will be negative .. and you don’t have to worry coz u had protected encounter and your pcr test is negative so you can take good outcome (negative) out of this test .. and mainly stop searching on internet it will ruin your life .. i had been doing that for 1 year now I’m feeling ok .. you can do some relaxation exercise , yoga and take anti depressants by consulting doctor ..

Monky it did not tear ... yes any fit person can generate antibodies usually after 1 month . Three months are to make sure the first test result and also pcr test detects virus itself ... if you have don’t have virus after 17 days u don’t have it

I do not. I suffered from HIV phobia. It’s actually health anxiety. It’s now my PTSD presented.

It’s been a year since this message and I’m so sorry I did r see it when You sent it. You were conclude at 90 days and I pray that you have overcome this fear at this point.

Do a syphilis test.

How r u bro? Your symptoms and my symptoms are same. Have you done any test after western blot?

@@atifparvez1887 bro whats ur symptoms?

That’s the entire issue of having an irrational fear. Now I don’t know why health anxiety became the focus. The issue was actually control.

@@joelopez3105 bro i have kinda jock itch in my buttock for almost 3years it goes and come back iam scared

​@@Fssxfasearch for ynzinbing I have the same problems

amelliandre millie Because of the guilt the horrible feelings of fear and anxiety become your own personal punishment. In my experience Guilt, is a leading cause for HIV Phobia. Many of the people I speak with on this channel realize late in their anxiety that it stems from an encounter that they feel guilty about. Guilt doesn’t make you HIV positive and HIV is not a punishment. Regardless of your faith, no God would make you HIV positive because of something you feel you shouldn’t have done. It’s not something you deserve because you had an affair. You do not deserve to live in fear. You need to forgive yourself. Weight your situation and work through your relationship. Maybe you are in a relationship you don’t really want to be in. Maybe you felt that being with a virgin was the safest way for you to learn more about your body. Regardless, don’t be afraid of getting tested. It’s a perfectly normal thing to do. It doesn’t make you unclean. It doesn’t make what happened more real. What happened is in the past and you deserve to be happy I’m the future. Good luck on your journey towards mental health.

@@joelopez3105 thank you your videos is so calming..because I've been watching videos about it that's why my mind is playing with me...I am 100 percent sure he is a virgin and I'm sure that I'm safe,and now my mind wants me to think that I had it,I can't focus I can't eat...I'm thankful that I found your videos..thank you joe

I hate it when I read something about it,it became my habit to search and search and makes me nervous and my heart beat so fast,I began to imagine things that droves me crazy

@@amelliandremillie6712 How are you feeling these days?

@@amelliandremillie6712 how are u doing

Sure we can be friends. I don’t have HIV though.

I promise you your results won’t change. After 90 days your results couldn’t be more conclusive. That 6 month mark doesn’t apply to anyone in the world. Tests weren’t as good in the past. Did you ever hear my story about the medical technician I had to school, that was giving me data from 2005, that I literally watched her pull off the internet. It was a scary day for me especially since at that moment I had made so much progress. Just my feeling, maybe you haven’t really gotten to the root of your anxiety and if not that’s okay. I still have days that I suffer. It doesn’t mean I’m broken though and neither are you. You are beautiful and deserve to have a healthy relationship that is fear free. I’m glad you reached out I hope you take my response as a little kick in the butt. I know I needed it on occasion. You are conclusively negative. You don’t have HIV. I’m sending good vibes your way for 2021. Good luck on your journey. You will beat it. Oh and your pain is unrelated. Maybe you drank to much on New Years. Pains like that happen all the time. When you have health anxiety we happen to focus on them. A day ago I was going frantic that I might have cancer. It was a bad day, only I didn’t allow myself to fall down the rabbit hole. Every day is a gift. It’s not how long the adventure is, it’s how much of an adventure we make of it. 🤗. I hope to hear back soon. I’m also on IG at Enderrevin. If you message me there I’ll get those responses to you sooner. Have a blessed day.

Thanks so much, you’re truly a blessing. Any time I’m feeling anxious your videos are my go to. I will follow you on Instagram

@Shelly Ballard Thanks for sharing your experience. Anxiety will physically manifest. Accepting you are negative isn’t as easy as some may think and that acceptance actually has little to do with HIV. The chemicals dump caused by your fear is literally a drug and your body doesn’t differentiate good or bad feelings. Once you physically becomes addicted to the fight or flight the problem will persist. If not HIV phobia, then something else. HIV phobia is like the super predator though because of all the miss information on the internet. You will find your path through this. It takes time so don’t be hard on yourself. Good luck on your journey towards mental health.

@Shelly Ballard It won’t change between 84 and 90 days.

@Shelly Ballard It is accurate. For me, getting the finger prick test at the minute clinic is better. You will have a Nurse practitioner to chat with while you wait 20 mins for your results. It’s better than wondering if you did the test right. You need solid answers and no doubts as you move forward. If you leave a sliver of doubt available to your thoughts at some point your thoughts may grab onto that doubt. We don’t want that.

You suffer from health anxiety. I truly believe you just caught a cold, although I’m more keen on believing that your anxiety and nerves are just making you feel sick. Why would you google symptoms for example. Most people would just attribute what they are feeling to generally feeling unwell. Since you went down this rabbit hole, tells me you already have a pre disposition for anxiety. All the symptoms you described sound like a panic attack to me. Constant anxiety will make you susceptible to getting sick. Firstly are you having intercourse with female or was it male to male unprotected. If you are male and your partner was female the chances of contracting the virus are almost non existent. Stop googling. Getting tested once a year during your annual physical if you are sexually actively is a healthy thing to do. HIV is a chronic condition and with treatment any person living with the virus can live a full and unencumbered life by only taking one pill a day. That means you can have kids and live a full life. The stigma is the worst part. It’s also why you are suffering right now. It’s all because of the stigma surrounding HIV.

Are u fine

Jimmy Chamboko if she is on her medications she CAN NOT transmit the Virus. If she is undetectable she is untranslatable U=U. So get tested. If the test is negative and it has been more than 90 days from the exposure you are negative. If you are positive you will live a normal life. You just have to take a 1 pill a day. It is easier to manage than diabetes. If you have been looking up symptoms online stop. Women to man transmission is very difficult. Good Luck on your journey.

@@joelopez3105 she told me that she is on treatment for 6 yrs but i don't know if she take her medication as prescribed by the doctors and can u tell me for how long a person can be undetectade can u take more than 6 yrs to be undetectable

Im so scared because the condom breaks she was on top of me

Jimmy Chamboko I can’t answer that. I’m not a Dr. I know it’s hard, but get tested. If you are sexually active getting annual testing is always a responsible thing to do. Sorry I can’t help more. Watch other videos I have posted for more facts and information. Good Luck on your Journey.

@@joelopez3105 thank u so much for all the information u are so kind