A real woman will not test you to lose you. A real woman can make you go through tests to see how you handle situations, and still be supportive whether you pass or fail. It's all about growing together with a constant respect towards each other because a real woman knows that she is not a goddess and she has her weaknesses too similar to a man or her significant other. Anything other than that is not healthy and should not be tolerated for a longer period of time.

If I want to be tested, I'll go back to high school!!!

Sounds exhausting, to be honest.

What ive noticed is when a woman really likes me, she doesnt test, she opens up to me. She makes it easy. Tests are like her throwing construction cones at me and slowing traffic down lol

I love the test thing. It’s told me accurately just when to walk away. Thankfully I found my life partner this way. I walked away for 4 years ,no contact and now we are back together with NO B.S. She admired and admitted, we both grew and are happy to not entertain the need for test. Thank God, I figured I’d be happily single but surprise surprise. Thankful

I needed this one. Girls will test you in a way that most men see as disrespectful. Got to draw boundaries, and play back unless that line is crossed.

The actual tests begin when she first sees you. Your dress, body language, grooming, body composition and of course height. If a relationship is established between you both. The tests such as AP points out here will continue for the rest of your relationship. Some could be glaringly obvious and some not so easy to pick up on. But you can be assured you will be tested in every way imaginable. Physical to emotional. Women forget nothing. They are constantly in their heads taking mental notes. Evaluating everything you do. This is part of a woman's hypergamous nature. Looking for the absolute best provider, protector, and a man with the best genetics. Her initial evaluation of you were based on these principles. The weaknesses she sees in you during the relationship makes you less, and less acceptable in her eyes. This fact is relevant no matter how long you've been in a relationship. Two months of dating, or ten years of marriage. If the relationship ends. She may not tell you exactly why she wanted it to end. But there is a good chance your value became lower than what she could expect from the next guy. As far as men testing women. Never accept the standard "Show up and allow access" Don't get caught up in the physical attraction. This happens a lot with men and it gives women much control in the relationship. Back in the early 1970's. Esther Vilar wrote in her book "The Manipulated Man" - "A man who wants to gain power over a woman must follow the example of women and condition his sex drive. If he succeeds in becoming as cold as she, she can no longer bait him with sex into the role of provider." So look past the physical. Every woman wants a good man until, that man requires her to be a better woman. A good woman can be a wonderful compliment to a man's life. A bad one can destroy in. Choose wisely men.

I love how it's all about what she wants and needs, not what the man wants and needs

The issue is it never sounds like a joke. The shit tests are dry and out of place

For the info. I definitely wouldn't get defensive to that kind of "teasing" but those examples you gave would be such a turn off for me that I likely wouldn't want to invite her on a second date.

Men, just be yourself, if she dont like it, its for your own good.

Men the best way to pass women test is to act like he doesn't bother you don't get emotional stay clam cool , collected

If I gotta pass a test and jump through hoops I’m walking away I don’t play games

Public comment. They play games alot . No games. No lust and greed and anger and false pride and attachments and jealous. Fallow your heart . Kindness and compassion and love and respect and commitment by understanding the principles of life in words and taught and deeds weather physical mental or emotional self realization is the key to success.

For me to past the test, I must endure getting punched in the face

If you are confident, she'll let you you know she's available. If you fail to pick up on the signal. You're probably toast.

Tests are a sign of toxicity, and I'm starting to notice a pattern of these videos indoctrinating the younger people into believing this is normal and healthy behavior.

The tests are really irritating

The problem with the "roasting" test is that most women just aren't funny enough to pull it off in a way that's endearing. There's a fine line between roasting and being an asshole and a lot of women can't stick the landing.

How about women stop the BS games and stop disrespecting us? How about that for a solution? Guys like me have had enough of this crap, we don't need the hassle, the headaches, and the annoyance anymore.

If a woman test me, I don't care about her. I'll just walk away.

The problem with the guys that can't get a woman is that they lost themselves in the mid way between childhood and adulthood and for whatever reasons failed to become a man. Women don't want robots who can answer perfectly to anything, don't want geniuses - they may feel intimidating, they want a good looking man, respectable, capable of being bad and confront an adversary but good to her, with an acceptable social status and education, capable of making her feeling good, then loved.

These tests are to see if you're a simp. Do what they act like they want and you fail the tests.

The one and only way to pass all the tests and put her in her place and get her respect you is ‘Just don’t care’. Have the attitude of there are plenty of fish. Now she has to win you over and do all the hard work

THESE TESTS ARE HOW TO GET A SHORT TERM PARTNER, MAYBE.

If they take the chance of loosing you they don't love you!

I just be my good self after doing the internal work,then I relax,

Being "in your masculine" doesn't mean offering an alternative. It means "I've decided we're going to this restaurant and if you don't like it you can leave."

7:55 Emotional stability that she seeks out from a guy actually stems from her own weakness. This I found a little too late in my age. The more I watch these videos, the more I wonder why I should even spend energy for insecure women.

Men don't need help WOMEN DO!

Test me, i’ll test you back girl..

Man it's really a mind game girl likes to play 😂😂😂, guy's when you focus on yourself and become a goal oriented individual. That's what makes us valuable, let's not waste our energy something worthless. We men should love our family and become a supportive foundation for our family.

Very good advice! Thanks!

She is just defending her immature video through video 😅

Very good videos. Thank you 👍

What about a woman who speaks in vague , coded language about her sexual past, implying it’s been very Colourful . But at the same time insists on a very low body count and flies off the handle of these 2 contradictions are pointed out?!

I like hit and run because women hit and run me. 😈😂😂😂

Love your content Apollonia!!! I out of these 3 am proud to say I am one that does what he says he’ll do! Just have a hard time finding someone that also matches my needs and wants in a woman

Another great video and advice

Public comment. Good character and personality gives great energy. Discipline and self control allows you to achieve success in words and taught or deeds weather physical mental or emotional self realization powerful.

Great information as always!

I don't mind if a woman tests me, as long as she gives me study materials ahead of time. But no essay questions, though.

Interesting!

So basically this is all about playing "the game"? Screw that. I'd rather stay on my own. Pursue other things. If you do get her, you'll be "playing " to keep her. Something about that hits me wrong, makes me angry, but just wanted to say how I felt

What if a woman teases me? i dont know how to respond? usually i find the teases stupid and not funny.. so i dont know what to say and i go silent? How do i react to things that dont make me laugh or want to jump on the tease?

Hi Apollonia ❤

Incorrect very early on. "women won't give you ... their body if they think you'll just hit it and move on" Oh, yes they will, this is by far the easiest "relationship" to have with a woman.

Imagine being married to a woman who constantly puts you through an emotional grinder like this, what a nightmare that would be. Why do some women completely avoid this and instead are loving, caring, affectionate and supportive partners? Have they ascended to the highest state of consciousness or were they just raised right or something?

Great video

Thanks, useful tips and data

Oooof, who has time for this? 😂

I guess I pass because I have a I don’t care attitude or not putting up with it

Funny you should say that I’ve just discovered that turning the tables so I start testing them at the same time omg it works I didn’t think it would but it does

Public comment. In any relationship between two persons needs trust and respect and care and commitment by understanding the principles of life. It is important to have moral values and protect your dignity and character and respect. Fulfilling the true purpose in life in words and taught and deeds.

Must we test ourselves? And why play games? I connect to/with you and you do same. The future looks exciting to both of us, can we step into the future without games?

Great job

they cant handle conflict they get upset angry and insulting and say they feel sad as they cant do conflicty they used to walking away and staying away from him.until she calms down.

I am enjoying this video

3 points with over loaded talks. Pls try and make your oration brief and straightforward. Its so cute that way.

You've gotta be kidding me ! 🤣🤣🤣

You are speaking here imagining a good woman, that had good marks in school, that is sociable, has a career, had a few boyfriends (didn't sleep with everyone "for fun", so she has some self appreciation), but it highly depends on the girl, as not all girls are the same. Some girls may even like a boy who is dirty, is rather alcoholic (like her), speaks dirty all the time, is rather crazy than rational, sometimes beats her, takes she with his friends to a pool, things like that. So, worrying that much, thinking about tests, well, if a man has self confidence, doesn't take it all that seriously, doesn't give her anything she wants, even is laughing at her, and doesn't seem to care that much of her personally, doesn't speak too much about him, only what is necessary, is sociable, smiling, gets into encounters, while being protective, and gets her into the moods that she seemed provoked, I guess she is his. If he smells good, maybe has a small beard, is athletic, wears a nice shirt and is busy making money (not working in an office in a boring job) and has enough money, inspires freedom, she will get in love. All the tests will be passed, or, overpassed if she starts liking him.

Facts 🔥🔥🔥

The hell with them and their tests.

Interesting...at the beginning she (my now ex gf) asked for more attention,i gave it to her..i was there for her in hard times,gave here attention,took her out, invited her to my home etc.then she started getting bored and cold.I pulled back a little,made no more plans and she critizised me for being so boring and uninspired.At the end she left me

Hey if you're not testing women as well, well thats really where you wind up with something youre not comfortable with.

Game is game

Life is short, thus, do what you think is right and let the chips fall where they may. Testing people is a sign of neurosis and indicates a personality trait that will continue and grow until its obnoxiousness is obvious.

I was just curious, what if the man starts testing the woman at the same time that she's testing him? At what point should a man test the woman to see if she's worth dating or getting into a relationship with?

It's OK for a woman to go long periods of time ghosting you and we men aren't suppose to call her out on it. But watch out if the man pulls the ghosting.

Juice not worth the Squeeze...

This is the problem with women and life in 2024. Not all women , but many . Its not a game . men don't want games. If a woman is going to make everything a game , I guess she's not worth knowing. I'm 44 years old , and I'm only starting to understand this now .

How do you know if she is just testing and cares or really doesn't want anything to do with you? This shouldn't be so complicated but women make it so. If she really does care there is no need to Sh$$ test. Just make things progress positively.

Apollonia what am I or steps should I follow when a woman or SP you’ve been seeing tells you every morning she loves you and misses you and wishes you to have a good day but never follows up on her words ??

Test? Her head skills, next. ☝️🏼

I met a Christian woman on on Facebook where are we going to get married soon I passed the test

They just wanna know if they can manipulate you

“Too masculine” ??? Part of masculinity is having respect for feminine energy from women. Women need us to be masculine leaders and protectors.

But she can be defensive all she wants right?

This is why it’s so many single women in America!

if she keeps poking fun at you all the time, it's not a problem at all if you're the type of guy who is going to also poke fun at her too. But if you distinctly do not like it, chances are she's not a good personality match for you. All men are not the same. There are men who like poking fun at their friends and partners, there are men who don't like to do that too much. Likewise, all women are not the same. Some like poking fun and others do not. These videos seem to imply that she will only poke fun at you in the beginning, to get to know you, and if you stay calm and/or humorous, she will stop doing that. I don't think so. It just means she's the sort of person who likes that kind of interaction, and most likely, that's the style of interaction you're going to keep having with her in the future. If you don't like it, she's not a good match for you.

Real men don't give a fk about tests. You don't care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin'. Adios.

I had met a girl but she's keeps staying away from me

You test me I leave I'm not taking that bullshit

Any man watching this for more than entertainment purposes is a lost cause. Bro, you shouldn't even care what women are thinking. You do you and the right woman will come to you. And if in the act of you living your best life, the right woman never comes along, you have to trust that your life couldn't have been better in the company of a woman, and being with the wrong woman would've been hell. A message to myself and others in the process of starting over.

Good points there, Apollonia Most of my interaction with women is thru Argentine Tango Dancing in classes, dances and other events. You talk about being out of my comfort zone....formal Dancing would be it. It is taking me twice ( or longer) as long to do the basics [5 years] as everyone else [2 or 3]. I realize women are watching me as I struggle along. Before you say, "At least you are trying and are persistant. That is a plus for women." since you are on the outside looking in. I have not gotten any dates in tge 5vyears I have been doing Tango dancing...but I have quite a few friends, aquaintances and dance partners, and only once in a while get turned down. And the rejection does not bother me. Again, MIT durecuf sone if tge women are testing me....concentrating on the dancing part it...just being decent. Not going to sign up for a consultation. Just letting you know what is going on. (No ice baths forme)

Alternate answer: what could be more romantic than sharing my favorite spot with you? Maybe I'll let you pick next time 😎

I have been hearing your voice.

I’m confused I sort of seen it coming but didn’t it was a jellies test two days later she says good men don’t get jealous I said this is very true then she says I must be a bad woman because i get jealous what is she really saying please thanks

I always wondered why women Test Men smh

Nothing on how to negotiate differences or debate and come to agreements.

Oh, PLEASE...

Where we go for 1 on 1 coaching? Website

Games, games, and more games ...............🤣

Dating relationship and coach for men ?????? 😂😂😂😂 👍🏽

Men test women equally simple non monetary dates to weed out vain narcessistic materialistic 1 2 3 dates to know how much to invest silence or passive stances to see harse truth honesty test subtle approach to a woman being honest to herself and you and finally to be honest most women fail these tests without realizing they were being tested the very reason guy moves on

620 - if a woman said thatt me, then it was goodbye from me.

So she is gonna test a masculine man that has options? I can promise you, in 9 out 10 times, that man will walk away....

This woman knows what she is talking about most of the time. However, it is easier when a woman is naturally in her feminine most of the time, to keep here there, then move a masculine woman into her feminine. Feminine energy reduces a man's anxiety and feelings of anger and tests men much less than masculine energy. It asks more questions out of curiosity than a need to test or find blame. Just date a woman who, outside of career and athletic persuits, is in her feminine. End of story, problem solved.

These tests are toxic. Not cool at all. Thank God I don’t have to go through that.

What happened if you in the friendzone? Rejected?