If there's a male figure we men should try and "base" our lifes upon is Aragorn persona. Hell or even improving ourselves as human beings, the character "Aragorn" is based almost of only good qualities that we as humans should learn from. The Wisdom, Bravery, Selflessness, Perseverance and Humility. If i were ever to become a father, i wish my son or daughter could see as a "Aragorn figure", the same way i try to live my life based upon "his" qualities.

When he whispers, "For Fordo," that's when it hits the hardest.

When Boromir calls Aragorn "my King" the look on Aragorn's face is interesting, he seems almost stung a bit as if he's realizing that he must take on the role now whether he likes it or not, even if for no other reason than to make Boromir's faith in him worth it.

Theres a reason that so many women fell in love with Aragorn, he represents everything that positive masculinity is. He's wise and an expert in his field but also incredibly humble, he's a leader but he recognises that to lead means not to dominate but to serve. Hes strong and yet also gentle, he cry's when he experiences loss but is determined in the face of danger. Tolkien really wrote some truly beautiful men, Faramir being another, a quote of his that comes to mind was "I do not love the bright sword for its sharpness, nor the arrow for its swiftness, nor the warrior for his glory. I love only that which they defend."

That dialogue between Eowyn and Aragorn showed how much Tolkien understood about female ambition and conflicts with gender roles. Tolkien claimed he was not good at writing women, hence there are very few women in his stories. Yet the few women characters he wrote are treated with respect and as a whole person. From Luthien Tinuviel to Lobelia Sackville-Baggins. They played key roles, no matter how small their 'number of words', and isn't there for token representation.

"...he bows to them, then everyone bows", then literally every single person cries

What makes Aragorn and breaks other male characters is that he he sees himself as a servant to a higher cause and not as the center of the universe

Another interesting thing is Aragorn never condemns Boromir for his short comings, because Aragorn can understand what happened and how it happened, he expresses empathy and understanding towards Boromir. Even when Boromir asks for forgiveness, instead he tries to comfort him, not just with his words but physically, to put him at ease in what must be a terrifying moment for Boromir as his life comes to an end. It's also interesting that when Aragorn takes on the Uruk-hai, is he even attempting to survive? or is he literally just trying to buy as many seconds as possible to increase Frodo's chances of getting further away, he was ready to lay his life down right then and there for the safety of another person who needed to be protected. One thing i noticed whilst watching this video, is Aragorn never once puts anyone down, he even shows compassion towards Wormtongue, he is a constant source of encouragement to everyone around him to push them to do better for themselves and others, even with the speech at the black gate, he is the first to admit that he is just as scared as the average soldier, yet he's not going to back down, he doesn't put on some bravado, instead he once again encourages people to overcome their fear, and to persevere Sam is also another great example of a masculine role model, he is supportive, he knows his role, and he intends to carry it out, whilst also being compassionate, courageous and skilled

Aragorn is what us all men should strive to be. Brave , resourceful, stoic but also humble and capable of showing love and tenderness. Not to mention loyal to his friends and Arwen to the last

One of the reasons I love Aragorn's interaction with Frodo is that it shows he is wise enough to know when someone else is better suited to a task. He doesn't do unsensible things simply because they are heroic; instead he understands that the way he can best serve the greater good is to distance himself from possible corruption by letting Frodo go and staying behind to fight.

I guess some of what you point out about Aragorn is why I'm such a sucker for war movies and tv shows, especially those made after 1990. Any war movie that Mel Gibson is involved with is top tier precisely for these reasons. Mel Gibson always played a man who wanted to fight for his country and/or protect his family while also being unafraid to show emotions--I dare you to try not to tear up a little at his portrayal of a father who became a widower and cares greatly for his children in The Patriot or a man with a family who is also the commander of troops being sent to Vietnam in We Were Soldiers. Hacksaw Ridge (directed by Gibson) and the HBO tv show Band of Brothers (Gibson not involved) are also awesome examples of how to show how horrible war is and how men fighting in wars are affected by it physically and emotionally. Band of Brothers especially never shies away from the emotion--again, I dare you to try to not cry real tears during the episode "Why We Fight" when Liebgott breaks down after having to translate to a group of concentration camp survivors the bad news that they can't leave the camp right way and have to spend another night there. I am also a big fan of the Marvel MCU movies. I know a lot of people are jumping on the bandwagon and calling all the new stuff a bunch of crap (and to be fair one show in particular, She-Hulk, definitely makes my list of craptastic stuff), but I've always liked how the movies portray the male heroes as being more than just macho and stoic loners but are actually people who can feel love, grief, friendship, and the desire to help people, especially Thor, Spider-Man, Iron Man, Captain America, and Hawkeye, and they aren't afraid to show those emotions. I think some directors I could name (one of those whose initials are M.S.) who have probably never watched a good superhero movie like Iron Man or Captain America in their lives need to get off their high horses about superhero movies not "portraying the human condition" and emotions and actually pay attention to what is actually portrayed in those movies.

There are many videos explain Aragrons masculinity, and all of them have such great points and lead to the same conclusion. They all have their own journey of getting to the conclusion, and I have to say, it was a pleasure watching your one.

The only character that I see today that resembles Aragorn is Steve from Stranger Things. He is also the protector and he does whatever he can to help the others. He is not the main character and doesn’t try to be, but stands for the group and puts himself on the duty to do all he can for the group. He even started the last part of the first season making up for his mistakes. Such a good example of masculinity and yet many people don’t even noticed his value and there’s so little character like him. It’s like people are trained to only admire the wrong traits.

I must say, however, that I also need to adress, that Boromir is a real good man himself. Broken to some extent, but also a role model. He was a real good guy.

Another great video man! Aragorn is the perfect example of masculinity.

I agree. He is not boastful or self-absorbed. he is dutiful and caring.

As an aspiring YA fantasy writer, unfortunately a lot of toxic males (I’m looking at Sarah J Maas 🤮) get worshipped as being the epitome of masculinity. But my MC’s love interest and main male character is more an Aragorn type figure, with good qualities that both men and women can love. It might not sell as much or become a tv series like ACOTAR, but we need more men like Aragorn in this world

J'ai eu des larmes aux yeux plusieurs fois durant la vidéo. Merci...

Theres another man needs recognition as well. Rick Grimes from the walking dead as well as few other characters. Great content though.

Aragorn was raised in Rivendell by Elrond and learned the good qualities, but also Elrond’s view that «men are weak..». I think Boromirs oath on his death changed Aragorn’s view on his people that they are worthy and therefore him aswell. He doubts his own strength in Rivendell when he says to Arwen that «the same weakness» flows in his weins. So after Boromirs death he takes on Boromirs arm bracers (with the markings of the White tree) and discovers he’s own purpose. Not to follow the Ringbearer, but saving the other hobbits and defending the people of Rohan and Gondor..

Superb video essay my friend. I hope this video reaches a LOT more people.

Tolkien went through the horrors of WW1, there was no place there for false or vain, macho posturing, men, it was an ordeal few people in this age could ever experience.

During Boromirs death, Aragon sure consoled him, but he didn't lie to make Boromir feel better in his last moments. Everything he said was the truth, he didn't know the strength of his own blood, but he promised he would do whatever he could to make sure Gondor survived, and he actually proceeded to do that. I think that is also a part of masculinity that differs from femininity, the masculine must always speak the truth, and Aragon did so, but he also wanted Boromir to hear that his death would not be in vain.

I’m seeing these “Aragorn is a healthy virile man” videos almost as often as I think about the Roman empire

There's another great example of healthy masculinity in cinema: Corporal Hicks in Aliens. It's not as obvious as it is here with Aragorn, but it's there (like when he puts Newt up on the table so she can see).

great think man! full agreement from my side

Step forward when the world needs your protection and step back when praise is raining to give place for others who deserves it too. Selfish people does the opposit.

I’m sure 99% of good women out there would kill to have a man like Aragorn rather than an Andrew Tate narcissist type.

good vid

Eowyn's brother and uncle want them to fight and her to stay and be protected because she represents what they are fighting for. Aragorn understands that Eowyn must fight for those she loves or she will not forgive herself.

Not many men can be as Aragorn nowaday. But you should try at least once.

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John Matrix is up there

Be Boromir aspire to be Aragorn

Aragorn lives Marcus Aurelius teachings.

You sound like Borimir, you guys from the same hood?

Aragorn, ok, but Legolas tho... ^^

But Can we actually be that kind of man, though? I mean, he is one among ten thousand. His IQ must be considerably higher than the average, is remarkable physically and aesthetically, and is philosophically and morally trained. It is practically impossible to be that man, we can reflect some of these qualities in our lives, though.

nah, Boromir >. Aragorn wishes he was born an elf.

They cast Jesus Christ to play Aragorn.

Maybe in the books. In the movies, Aragorn was emasculated and turned into a simp who didn't really want to be king but did it anyway just to impress some average-looking girl he was obsessed with. Still upsets me how Jackson destroyed his character. Pulled a very similar thing with Gandalf, as well. Overall, the movies were well-done but if you grew up knowing the real story in-and-out, it was very upsetting to see what they did to those two guys in particular.

Jesus Christ is the perfect role model for man, and the Bible explains why and how that's true. Talk to more Christians about it, and pray to God about it. Walking as Jesus Christ walked (i.e. obeying God's commandments, loving God, loving your neighbor) and having faith in Jesus Christ is the best way to be a masculine man. Don't idolize Aragorn or any being other than God. Aragorn isn't the Lord. Jesus Christ is the Lord, and is the Savior of all men and women and children who have faith in Him. Read the Bible and pray to God, so that you will learn the truth.

After Aragorn's father died he was raised by Elrond and taught the qualities and skills of the elves not of men who as his father showed were easily corrupted by evil. Even the great Numenoreans fell into the influence of Sauron causing the sinking of Numenor.