Are Apologies Always Necessary? Garcelle Reveals She Had to Apologize to her Son for This!

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Are Apologies Always Necessary? Garcelle Reveals She Had to Apologize to her Son for This!

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@abubarrie88 2 жыл бұрын

Garcelle is a good parent the fact that ask a black mom she apologizes to her child let alone her child feels safe enough to ask for an apology from her with getting yelled at or cussed at says a lot.

@bookbag6432 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. My mom is the same age as Garcelle and she never apologizes.

@ms.t5239 2 жыл бұрын

Thank God my mom and dad never had an issue with apologizing to me. It sets a great example as a kid.

@jaiyaalexandra144 2 жыл бұрын

My mom apologises too and she's African.

@carenasmith7 2 жыл бұрын

Yea. I love how my son wait when we both cool off when we get mad at each other. He will always come to me and ask for an apology when I’m wrong. Him “ mom are you still mad?” Me “no baby”. Him, “I didn’t like how you spoke to me and I feel you owe me an apology. If you want me to be respectful to you, then you need to be respectful to me too.” Me, “you are right. I am sorry for speaking to you in a disrespectful manner. You are right although you’re a child, you’re still a person and an individual. So I should’ve spoke to you with respect.” My son is 12 years old though but I always encourage him to speak his mind respectfully of course

@rodneyplayer5785 2 жыл бұрын

My mom apologized to me but my dad has never and he was always rude and inconsiderate.

@LockedInNOW 2 жыл бұрын

I wish elders would take accountability for their actions and apologize more !

@Maz-zb9uf 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@LockedInNOW 2 жыл бұрын

@@Maz-zb9uf Right ! Like they can be fault too , I don’t care how old they are !

@Maz-zb9uf 2 жыл бұрын

@@LockedInNOW listen I hear you the worst thing is that generation don't ever think they are in the wrong so it's hard to get closer on past traumas

@itsjustmeflo8684 2 жыл бұрын

Come on! Preach! My mom use to make me feel like a POS when she knew damn well she’d be wrong, but to make herself feel better, she’d say, you know Kisa ( that’s me) a parent should NEVER APOLOGIZE or have to APOLOGIZE to their kids! And how it was a “sin” girl bye! Just thinking of how narcissistic and manipulative she was to me makes me cringe at the thought of it. Ugh 😣 😩 😑

@LockedInNOW 2 жыл бұрын

@@itsjustmeflo8684 I am happy that you grown from that Gaslighting, because I had to also … it’s very disgusting !

@MrChoirDirector87 2 жыл бұрын

Damn! I hate this show is being canceled! I wish another networks picks it up. I enjoy this format, and the conversations.

@noxxie1496 2 жыл бұрын

I do believe that apologizing is an act of humility. I dislike it when someone apologizes too much over the same thing💀, I don't like it when I feel like someone is groveling at me! Apologize and keep it moving.

@jamonicashoals5866 2 жыл бұрын

This show was the perfect balance of daytime. It wasn’t to political or to gossipy. It was like all the comments in my Reddit searches on google being spoken to me. You know what I mean…??

@marykay7878 2 жыл бұрын

10000000 percent. i dont even live in america, but as a millenial woman of color living in the west - i am tamil, born and raised in germany - this show was the first and only show which could truly tap into my daily feelings, interests and concerns. so sad to see it go

@hiboahmed8876 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it’s hard to find shows in the lane also the fact that their black/Hispanic/Asian and speak from experiences and life from our prospective in these everyday topics will be missed 😞

@jamonicashoals5866 2 жыл бұрын

@@marykay7878 they had great topics and discussions!

@jamonicashoals5866 2 жыл бұрын

@@hiboahmed8876 I really hope they think of maybe doing a podcast

@Samira_m84 2 жыл бұрын

I’m learning to apologize to myself because I’ve been beating myself down so bad for a longtime.

@BriaBarrows 2 жыл бұрын

This!

@victoriamciver9900 2 жыл бұрын

💖

@Knockaswagga 2 жыл бұрын

Same and God because he protects me through so many hurdles. It’s so crazy because I literally can sense angels around me. I was pronounced dead in 2000 at the age of 6 from drowning at the Bahamas. After an hour a random guy who was American stepped in and punched my back causing me to start breathing again. My heart stopped and the electric machine to make the heart beat wasn’t doing Justice. I have to start loving myself because I’ve really been beating myself up and it’s physically hurting my body and giving me bad headaches. Anyways,Times are challenging but there’s hope.

@MrsAmy24.7 2 жыл бұрын

One time my 4 year old daughter missed behave in church so i sent her straight to bed after i yelled at her and then i couldn't sleep, like God didn't let me, so i went woke her up and apologized for the way i reacted, she said it's ok Mami, Jesus came and gave me a hug, i was shook because i realized she was healed and i could be in trouble for not having the right reaction,since the bible does say be angry but don't sin. She told me what Jesus looked like and i laughed in shock because i never read to her what the bible says on his discription and of images I've seen sounds nothing like what she saw except for a white robe sandals and a sash.

@jessicaonpointcc1543 2 жыл бұрын

was he black though? 😅

@acuerdo3 2 жыл бұрын

Such a sweet experience you both had. 💝 The Lord and his tender mercies. The Lord taught you a great lesson through your daughter and she learned that He's there for her when she needs Him. 💐💙

@justhereyeah1112 2 жыл бұрын

You honestly hit this on the nail for me… I have a two year old and a 3 month old so I’m not working anymore so that I can be a stay at home mama… because of that I felt like I was missing out on doing good works with other people but the Lord reminded me that my children are really the Lords children and I am responsible for talking to them in a loving way and teaching them well. I now understand that I am expected to do good works with my own children.

@Dori90210 2 жыл бұрын

That's such a beautiful ending to the story!

@mommab1969 2 жыл бұрын

Apologizing to your children is a show of humility by an adult. It shows a child that it is a good thing to do and that even grownups make mistakes.I always made sure that my children saw that behaviour in me so that they will model that in their lives.

@kekemola1475 2 ай бұрын

That's great!! More elders in many different families need to understand and be willing to do this!!

@biddybop8515 2 жыл бұрын

Cashiers need apologies from a lot of us. Thank you for providing a service to us, I know it ain’t easy - but we appreciate you. 🧡

@LMLification 2 жыл бұрын

I only apologize when I know for a fact that I was wrong or made a mistake AND when I know I can change the behavior that created a problem. I HATE when people apologize without any commitment to change their behavior.

@msmiami212 2 жыл бұрын

If theres a chronic issue that can’t change but is hurting ppl it’s still necessary to apologise. Gives them the choice to accommodate it or distance themselves

@LMLification 2 жыл бұрын

@@msmiami212 Forget that half-ass apology. If they are chronically doing something to hurt people, then common sense is to distance themselves from the aggressor before there is a chance to "apologize."

@kelceynicole 2 жыл бұрын

i appreciate apologies only if they’re genuine, but at the same if you’re constantly apologizing & not changing your actions please just save it. it becomes almost robotic when there’s no changed action behind an apology.

@amiraai.8627 2 жыл бұрын

Growing up with a mother that rarely apologies does create weird dynamics. My mother (also family members around us) always says “parents or elders don’t ever need to apologise” like what the hell. Any of us are capable of making mistakes and should take accountability and therefore apologise despite the generational gap.

@relaxingcafemusic18 2 жыл бұрын

Go back to past seasons Adrienne said that when someone wants her to apologize. And she don't feel she did anything wrong she will just say "I'm sorry you feel that way." Guess what and Naturi came there and she was acting sympathetic she said " I'm sorry you felt that way" 🙄🤣 idk how none of y'all be catching they slip ups. I love you A but I had to say that.

@alexandraanderson3988 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe as you age and mature people grow and feel different maybe she might be finally taking responsibility whether she wronged the person to say she's sorry all the way I don't know just started watching so I just got her😅

@pixigirl999 2 жыл бұрын

People are allowed to grow

@jennamiller7016 2 жыл бұрын

I need to use that

@AKA-lonewolf 2 жыл бұрын

@@pixigirl999only after acknowledgement...why do people somehow always conveniently forget that part 😂😂😂

@janejustin1788 2 жыл бұрын

very true, i remember Tamera, Loni, and Jeannie tried to tell her that isn't an honest apology

@maureendawkins9753 2 жыл бұрын

Apology is good, but I don't like it when someone apologies too much.

@steph_steph876 2 жыл бұрын

Yup...apologies do help to soften the blow from someone that did something to hurt you. I have never had a problem with saying I'm sorry. If I am wrong then I'm just wrong man....

@justpaintingtheperfectpict7168 2 жыл бұрын

I feel ppl in general don't like saying "sorry" bc nobody wants to own up their mistake.

@Hithereitsmee 2 жыл бұрын

Idk why I didn’t believe Adrienne lmfao

@cencianwachukwu4939 2 жыл бұрын

Jeanie always has 😂 the funniest stories . It’s the opening up like a mouth for me😂

@fouakong 2 жыл бұрын

Jeannie, honey. We Asian. We ALWAYS try before we buy! Lol

@maame6224 2 жыл бұрын

Great conversation ladies!👏👏

@creejackson1575 2 жыл бұрын

loni has me 😂😂😂😂😂 I love this show

@lindaannette5292 2 жыл бұрын

Loni’s face at the end 😂 “oh wow”

@Sunshine-is_here_to_stay 2 жыл бұрын

👉👉👉TRUE POWER is having HUMILITY.

@rags2richez398 2 жыл бұрын

When will this child learn that mama Mai has all the hacks and answers?

@manasseh7777 2 жыл бұрын

I apologise to my husband,if w disagree. I do apologize just for his peace ,even if he is wrong😂🤣

@omphilemoerane2569 2 жыл бұрын

You're a good wife. I'm taking this tip😂

@manasseh7777 2 жыл бұрын

@@omphilemoerane2569 😅😅😅🤣😂

@97indianuk 2 жыл бұрын

Would he do the same for you?

@jaiyaalexandra144 2 жыл бұрын

I do too, humility.

@janejustin1788 2 жыл бұрын

someone wrongs me, then i apologize to them???

@CC-si3cr 2 жыл бұрын

Alright Dolce & Gabbana! Somebody from your Bal Harbour store or corporate needs to REFUND Jeannie Mai Jenkins for her dress and gift her another dress. You had a sales associate trying to make a sale instead of telling the truth.

@roxyj3182 2 жыл бұрын

I always apologize to my kids. My parents never apologized to me for anything. I had a good childhood but just because we’re parents doesn’t mean we don’t make mistakes 🤦🏾‍♀️

@kusariworships 2 жыл бұрын

No problem with apologising. It's healing for oneself and for relationships. On another note, Loni, you're rocking those braids! Suits you

@44nk96 2 жыл бұрын

I wonder if Loni ever apologised to Shan Boody for shaming her on The View 3 years ago. She never apologised to her during filming, so I hope she gave Shan the dignity and respect she deserved off camera.

@Whitney-0- 2 жыл бұрын

Garcelle should be apologizing for calling her sons “friend” weird for being introverted.

@alexandraanderson3988 2 жыл бұрын

Wait she said that when??? What segment???🤔

@aidasa3791 2 жыл бұрын

Idk how loni is a comedian she’s not that funny 😅 I really like her serious insights though THATS where she shines

@makaylabanton1521 2 жыл бұрын

Loni 😂😂😂😂😂

@calahbutterfly 2 жыл бұрын

Yes Apologies are necessary

@carenasmith7 2 жыл бұрын

My son and everyone who knows me knows I’m not too big to admit when I’m wrong and apologize

@iriemo721 2 жыл бұрын

Jeanie wanting an apology from the employee is stupid. She’s a worker, she’s trying to get a sale. She doesn’t owe you an apology. She can’t predict that it was gonna shrink and not stretch.

@jadamoore3424 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that was cringe. Like Jeanie shut up with that one

@alexandraanderson3988 2 жыл бұрын

My reaction is Garcelles at 3:37 lmaoo Garcelle is so me😊😊😏😏 I feel like we connect so much yet she's way older than me as a teenager lol how does that happen.🥴🥴🤔🤔

@music-gs7qo 2 жыл бұрын

Loni killing is this season !!!

@deanas.7627 2 жыл бұрын

I can relate: Taco Bell gives whatever sauce they want to give, even after they ask specifically what you want. If I want mild, please don’t give me spicy or diablo or whatever else I didn’t ask for

@Chaptersaudio 2 жыл бұрын

I'm with you Adrienne, I have all my apologies out of the way now. There is no one I owe one to. BUT there are A LOT of people that owe me an apology.😏😏😏

@ssam1820 2 жыл бұрын

Addreine is so tensed and seems a bit not herself this season. I think she is going through something

@TT.3123 2 жыл бұрын

☹️❤️ I know

@ryanb9304 2 жыл бұрын

The problem with apologies is 1 they are forced and 2 you aren't sorry you did something you're sorry you got caught

@lionessbeauty_8870 2 жыл бұрын

I alwaysssss apologize to my children. Let alone they are still babies(4,2) I still apologize and say I'm sorry I yelled, mommy raised her voice. Because it's hard being a parent and reacting sometimes. We all snap at moments, but I need them to realize I make mistakes too. And I willing to communicate it's my fault so they can understand for their future relationships and friendships to apologize when their in the wrong. It's all about modeling and being an example

@butyoucancallmesam 2 жыл бұрын

Jeannie should've tried it on before buying it.

@stephanieprobst923 2 жыл бұрын

Listen to what she said again. She did try it on and said it was snug, but the sales woman assured her that since it was real leather, it would stretch as she wore it and not feel so tight.

@MandiPlaysBeatSaber 2 жыл бұрын

I have a huge problem with admitting I was wrong and apologizing 😅

@Kcarneirowashere 2 жыл бұрын

I want an apology from my sisters from years ago.

@giigotyoucovered2236 2 жыл бұрын

I am a firm believer in apologizing!! We all make mistakes and have things we need to apologize for. My loves are 4 & 5 and they think adults are perfect and don’t need to apologize! I hold myself to the same standard that I hold everybody to and if you can’t live up to the standard, you still have some growing to do!!

@OnikaTrishul 2 жыл бұрын

maybe apologise to Nicki Minaj for spreading a false narrative.

@meaganbianca2978 2 жыл бұрын

I need to work on not saying sorry for everything g yet at the same time giving apologies when I did someone wrong

@MarceloMoran07 2 жыл бұрын

I want to APOLOGIZE for Lonis Comedy comment, its not funny sometimes, I know she want to make a twist a serious comments but, I am sorry, I apologize

@Kassandra_016 2 жыл бұрын

I actually don’t apologize. I think people throw it around too much and I rather change the action for it not to happen again instead of just saying words

@alexandraanderson3988 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that's always a good one a good trait I mean sometimes we can all appologize & still do the same thing in general like it didn't happen lmaoo I still think its nice though to do it as a sign of sincerity etc😊

@hiboahmed8876 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I buy candles from bath and body? These girls are my soul sistahs fr lmao

@eunicemutizwa8921 2 жыл бұрын

But when I apologise to my man he says I don't need your apology😒

@danyielsays4621 2 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend has NEVER apologized even if he knows he's wrong, he simply stays quiet and even when I cry he says stop being a little girl🙄my mother is the same way so I'm used to it! I wonder how they sleep at night 🤔

@yarnellhaines4090 2 жыл бұрын

Garcelle talks about Jax alot, he's obviously the naughty twin 🤣

@alexandraanderson3988 2 жыл бұрын

Or maybe she got favorites🤷🏽‍♀😁😄 lmaoo just kidding😅😅 but who knows😮😏 I always wondered that too like is Jax the infamous twn or what🤔🤔 lol

@kennyforshort 2 жыл бұрын

Really like this hair on Loni

@alexandraanderson3988 2 жыл бұрын

Lol when Adrienne kept correcting Jeannie bed bath lmaoo no its bath and body works Jeannie🤭🤭😊😊 I agree with Adrienne then seeing loni's face at 4:39😏😏🤭😊😊

@sadcatsam 2 жыл бұрын

Loni joke is cringey 😬 😴😴😴

@chrissy3684 2 жыл бұрын

I apologize when ever I’m wrong, I even apologize to my kids

@donatellafrenchie8545 2 жыл бұрын

The woman at Dolce should not apologize! JEANIE should apologize for supporting such a racist and anti Asian brand…… I can’t believe that is the example you would use. You got karma sweetie.

@jyn88 2 жыл бұрын

I didn't know they're anti-Asian. What happened?

@butyoucancallmesam 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe she didn't know. It's hard to keep up with who is anti and who isn't.

@TT.3123 2 жыл бұрын

@@butyoucancallmesam it’s incredibly hard!